The outcome depends on YOUR choices and actions!!! Choose wisely your path!!! - Rabbi Alon Anava

[Music] we're still in the 10 days of Chua uh the 10 days of chuva is really a gift from God and I recently came across a very interesting source that strengthen the point of the 10 days of chuva that uh how many days do we know that we have in the year 365 days in the year and if you write the word in Hebrew sh then you get the gatria the numerical value of 355 so 365 days of the year minus the 355 the gatri of the word Shah leaves us with 10 that's the 10 days of Chua the 10 days of chuva is an addition it's like a present from Hashem it's not regular days of the year so we still have another what are we now Wednesday Thursday Friday we still have three days of a CH to take advantage of this powerful 10 days and do what you need to do because uh if you thought last year was uh not that great wait till you see this year so on a collective level that you you you don't have control next year this coming year will be just as bumpy as the last one and probably more but that's on a I don't want to say the word Global but on a as a collective on the personal that's all that depends on you so what is going to happen in the world in the next coming year you have no control over it the only control you have is is how well protected you will be throughout what's going to happen in the next coming year so I highly recommend that you take the next three days of Chua seriously and then to do whatever you need to do on yum Kip seriously and everything that I see now to follow your decision of course you can do whatever you want I just give advice you can take take it use it or ignore it but nevertheless uh we still have three days of the 10 days of CHA which definitely needs to be paid paid attention and do whatever you need to do I hope you saw the last video that I H that we posted the last class that was here a few days ago because besides being strong harsh and a good message it has all the information that you need to know in regards to how to design your coming year and uh you might be the one that can raise their hand and say I don't agree with what you're about to say but from my short experiences that everybody had a hard year and I now met thousands and thousands of people in person in the United States I uh get thousands of messages every day electronically WhatsApp email whatever I I know that everybody had a hard year whether it was Financial whether it was Health whether it was relationships whether it's everything else so like I said we we are we are the designers of U of our life and the T says there's no hardship unless the sin if you experiencing hardships it's because of you not because of anybody else not because AEM is trying to teach you a lesson and now more than ever the way how hasem conducts his communication with the world is through judgments through denim so it's all going to come in a harsh way it's not going to come in a nice way hashem's hugs and kisses and the lessons that he's trying to teach us all is not going to come in a nice way I said that not once or not twice that in the 70s meaning T the last decade then we had the opportunity to deal with AEM in a merciful way but once we entered into the 80s tapin not the 80s 40 years ago that's the 80s then like it says in indicating that the 80s are going to be conducted through through judgments and severity which means that now we're only going to get hashem's hard hand and I think you see it with your own eyes and feel it on your own skin so the right way is to align yourself according to how Hashem projects himself into the world so and the way that he does it it's going to come with a hard hand why because we are stubborn people and we don't get the the message when it comes in a nice way so you don't get it in a nice way you'll have to get it in the less nice way you don't get it in the less nice way eventually you'll get it is not going to let you go doesn't matter who you are and how good you think you are Hashem is going to make sure you get the message because his ultimate desire is that everybody should do desires that the wicked ones will be CH will do Chua so so much more so you so he's not going to let you now loose a moments before the Redemption and when I'm saying moments that that those moments can be a few years but nevertheless now hasem wants everybody standing straight so whoever goes with the flow good whoever doesn't then Hashem is going to make your life in such a way that you get it only because he cares and loves you so and again if you now can raise your hand and tell me I don't know what you're talking about the last year was amazing year I don't know what you're talking about then go ahead turn the video off or leave the room but you're not going to be able to lift your hand and tell me that on the other hand the contrary you all going to say the same thing what are you talking about was one of the worst years we had in in decades on a personal level on a nation level and on a global level ironically and sadly how I celebrated Ros last year in um I already knew it's going to be a bad year I had a horri well I shouldn't say a horrible experience cuz eventually it was a good but the way how it was the whole visit in r in in Ukraine I already saw okay this is going to be a bad year bad mean we're going to we're going to eat it because like my kids and any other kids you know kids they they they want to listen to the parents but they always test the limits I have a few of these kids that they know that not to mess with me but they'll always test how far they can push before I I'm I'm sto being nice so unfortunately that's the the the the attitude of many they know that it with who to deal with with who not to deal but they all people try to TST how far I can go before I get a reaction so my kids know that eventually they'll get a reaction from me I'll be a nice father good father forgiving father patient father to a certain point and some of them know not to get me to that point the others they test all they how much they can push before they triggers a reaction so same thing with us as people we push AEM how much can I push without getting a reaction from AEM how much I can go off the and not listen to Hashem before I get a reaction because if you would say a lie or say or steal or cheat or don't do anything what the Tor tells you and right away would be a harsh reaction trust me you would be a soldier since you don't get reactions for your negative behavior so you're like okay maybe hasem didn't notice oh maybe he's self forgiving I can do whatever I want each one in their level of course but the fact is that hasem wants everybody standing straight right now and that's how he's going to conduct the rest of the time till mhia comes and it just will get stronger more harsh and more severe so the ones who want to not to be affected so much from the birth Pains of mashiah after all we are already in labor when it comes to the coming of mashiah I explained that many times that the holy books explain that the coming of mashiah the process of coming of mashiah is compared to a woman pregnant and then eventually giving birth and we are already way past the time if you remember 5 years ago I said that when Corona started that was for me the understanding that the comparing to a woman giving birth that's where the water broke the point of no return once the water breaks you know that it's a matter of hours before the baby has to come out and when the water breaks the preg the delivery is is painful and trust me I have seven kids I I I I know what I'm talking about so when Corona happened 5 years ago I understood that mystically that was the water breaking the point of no return and since then it's just deteriorating it seems like it's deteriorating but we're actually getting closer to the coming of mashiah so naturally the contractions will become stronger and stronger and stronger if we're comparing it to giving birth then right after Corona as the water break we had the first hiccup the first contraction was which was the event in meon in L that 45 holy boys and men were crushed to death that was the first contraction and now exactly a year ago in October 7 that was the second contraction where we got a slap to our face to understand that Hashem says if I need to punish you I'll punish you if I need to slap you across the face I'll do it and I'll do it in the most harsh way that that you'll wake up and understand you don't mess with me so as much as Hashem loves us and as much as he wants our attention if he needs to torture us or Shalom to bring on us a small or a big Holocaust he'll do it exactly how you did it 80 years ago so in other words hasm says don't mess with me you go in line so since we're already experiencing the birth Pains of mashiach so now let's see what the sources say the it says if you want to save yourself from the birth pain of then you have to make the Torah like a business 24 hours a day you have to be involved in Torah comes from the word EK EC is a business I don't know a business owner that comes two hours a day to the business and doesn't care what happens a business owner is involved in the business 24 hours a day he breathes the business he sleeps the business and if he needs to he works 204 20 hours in the business if you are a worker you come for your 8 hours you punch your clock and who cares not the boss care but when it's your business you care so now tells you okay make the Torah like your business I'm not telling you to make the Torah your parasa but you relate to the Torah like a business you come first you leave last and you worry about every little thing so the T has to be your life and the next thing is acts of kindness and that includes everything not only writing checks and giving money in a charity box acts of kindness and that is a very broad definition because it's not just charity acts of kindness is also being patient with a person that's in your life it's causing you a lot of headaches that you need to forgive you need to have patience you need to have for bearness that's also waking up in the morning and smiling to your spouse that's also acts of kindness and you know sometimes you're busy you're occupied you don't really think of the needs of the people around you but if you want to go beyond the letter of the law you put yourself aside and you say right now my wife needs a hug right now my son needs attention right now whatever this stranger needs to to to rant on something and I'll just sit and listen nod even though I don't care about what they're saying so the acts of kindness has to come in many many different ways so what I want to talk to you about today is a few things uh the first of course is about yum Kip we're approaching y Kip is how to relate with yum Kip because I know for a fact that a lot of people don't really relate with it the right way people think you come to shore you fast and that's it you're good to go it doesn't work like that H then we'll conclude with instructions what I will suggest for each one to do before Y and then send you off with good wishes but before we start I want to do a give a personal thanks um well mainly not to you guys here in the room rather to the viewers because last lecture was H was strong and uh and it pulled a lot of interesting comments I went and read a lot of the comments so first of all I want to thank the ones who wrote Good comments and support comments and positive comments and thank you I appreciate it I don't go and read comments I don't answer emails literally yesterday the a person attacked me an unbelievable way calling me a scammer why cuz I didn't answer an email I sent you an email you are a scammer you're a fraud you I'll show you the email you you think I check emails when I you want me to show you the inbox how many emails come a day people think I'm sitting at home waiting for your email I'm not waiting for your email and I don't check emails or comments on whatsapps or Facebook or any other platform I have a staff that goes through that but that person didn't hear back from me within 32 seconds oh the Ricochet that I got how dare I not answer his email so I'm publicly saying I don't look at emails happens to be that with the last lecture since it draw brought a very a lot of interesting comments I want to look at the comments and answered some of them so the positive ones thank you the negative ones somebody wrote in the comment on the last video unfortunately he how did he or she wrote it the information is very good or valuable or whatever it was unfortunately the ones that really need to hear it don't listen to it don't listen wouldn't listen to this video which is kind of like a circle the ones who I was talking about won't listen to the video but that's the ones who need to listen so first I want like I said to publicly thank the support and the nice comments and the positive ones and I also wanted to thank all the advice that I got I got a lot of advice thank you all for the great advice that you all gave me of course that thanks is sarcastic people gave me advice like as if I'm by the way advice I don't take from anyone I go to the T that's where I get my advice and if I run into a dead end I go to my Rabbi I don't take advice from people who tell me what to do or not to do Rabbi I think you should do this and that so I operate exactly what the Torah says and everything has a source everything has a reason if I say something I don't need people to tell me what to do even though I humbly accept all criticism and all advice but uh with that said in three days B we're going to celebrate yum kipur this year yum kipur falls on Shabbat that in itself is a double power everything that falls on Shabbat is much much stronger which means that we can achieve much more on this young people I mentioned in the class not the last one the one before how when R sh falls on Shabbat we don't blow the Sha so if R sh Falls on we're only going to blow the shaar on one of the days and I pointed out the source how it seems that if sh falls on Shabbat either it's going to be an amazing year or it's going to be a very bad year and I quoted a certain Rabbi who did some type of a indication and went back many many many years and every time that Rish fell on Shabbat end up being not a good year but nevertheless when when the year when y Kip falls on Shabbat it's it's a good year I mean a good year doesn't mean that the wars are going to be over and the governments are going to leave us alone it means that you have a good opportunity to do real Chua and I see that how I talk to people and and and communicate that most people don't even know how to do Chua Chua is not putting a yamako on your head or covering your head or wearing a dress that's not how to do Chua and interestingly I met a very interesting man now in my tour who also complains about one thing that I stated many times nobody teaches how to do cha when I became observant I went to many different yes no Yesa teaches you how to do cha nowhere or anyone actually teaches you this is what you need to do this is step one step two step three here and there you have a few books that will indicate and it will be very general but there's no real instructions how to really do CH so this year I think to add on many of the topics that we're learning H we'll invest a lot of how do how you really do Chua chuva means to repent because a lot of people have the desire to come close to Hashem they don't know how to to fix the problems and now for example I'm going to be blunt don't take my word now as advice I'm just going to say a statement but the sad reality is that most people can be exempt from now fasting on yum Kip or even bothering to come to because the holy Torah says something very simple yam will atone for sins between you and God yam will not help you between sins between you and me or between one person to another to a point that if you didn't do cha between another person Hashem might not even forgive you for his the sins that you did in front of him so what I take from that that's 90% of people so don't listen to what I'm telling you now I'm just saying that as a as a bold statement from how I see it don't come to don't fast on because you have a long list of chat to do first in front of other people don't bother come to SH now don't listen to me go go go to sh and and do cha and fast and do whatever you can so at least the little bit that maybe whatever yum Kip can do then you'll achieve it but the fact is that if you do harm to other people in many different ways which you all do and you didn't get forgiveness from them then how can you technically come into Yip and ask forgiveness from God so if I want to be completely blunt half the people I can tell them straight out don't bother don't bother you are so in debt with other people I'm not too sure you're going to get any atonement on y Kip from God for the sins that you did in front of him now again I'm I'm not the God's spokesman so I can't say anything fast and go to bites go to SCH and do whatever you can but I'm trying to make a point here that a lot of people that I deal with them on a personal level I feel like telling them you don't need to fast on yum Kip I'll write to you a note that you don't need to fast on yum Kip because you're such a wicked individual that yum Kip won't help you because first you have to go through the first line of making amends with others and if you don't know how to do that then yum won't help you that's a problem and the fact is a lot of people don't even know how bad their behavior is and I'm not only talking about slander and all that it's even little things that most people don't even pay attention I spoke not once and not twice I guess I need to make a very strong lecture about the sin that is called gazel have you ever heard of that sin gazel most people fail in gazel now gazel will be to another individual and if you don't know that you did GLE which means you owe that person money even if the person doesn't know which is mainly what gzel falls under the other person not necessarily will know that you took from him which means you have an issue with another individual and then you want hasem to forgive you for your sins so there's a lot of sins that a lot of people do and they don't even realize that they're doing maybe they realize they're just too arrogant to do chuva for that to bring you to a point that really what would what yum would do to you you think yonip is going to help you so why am I saying that not to blow the air out of your sales or to now to put you in despair that there no point is because you still have 72 hours to go and try to do whatever correction you can or might do because today is Wednesday and then tomorrow is Thursday and then Friday so you have three days to try to do cha and I told you that not once and not twice a Hashem gives you 80% discount that's my numbers there's no source to that I'm saying 80% so it will sound a lot but that's what the the power of alul on alul it's like hasem is giving you 80% discount come do cha it's easy now but the 10 days of 99% discount just come whatever you want just make one step I'll help you you want to become pure you want to do ch you'll get assistance from above that's 10 days of CH now the day after Yip throughout the year you can do chuat anytime if you serious then you can do chuat any day but it will come with a lot of hardship and it won't be easy but on the 10 days of chva you want to do chva says the door is open grab whatever you want thank you you can do cha easy I don't know about you I feel it I feel CH it's like easy to do cha listen I also need to do CH you think I'm some basali people think I like hover over the floor I'm as human as you and probably have 10 times more sins than you the fact that I have a long beard doesn't mean anything but I can tell you from my own experience said also I when I do Chua 10 days of Chua it's like a you know almost no effort Hashem says no problem show me that you're serious I'll take you serious and I'll make it easy it's almost like you know a few years ago after if you remember I was sick literally five years ago on sukot after that one of the tests or whatever however you want to call it when I went to a doctor they did to me a stress test so I had to run on a treadmill how much I can run before I Collapse so and I'm in the beginning running it was very easy but then he saw that I'm doing good so he made it harder so I had to hard harder and then he made it more harder the you know the friction of the treadmill and then he made it that the treadmill went went like this slly so so you know the person kind of controls how hard it is for you to run the exact same way that that's that's what hasm does with you throughout the year it's hard it's like something is loose there and you easy do the Chua so take advantage of that if you haven't till yet my personal experience that most people take on thees everybody's very excited the second day ofes same excitement and then around like hey the fifth day of you already lose half your stamina and by the 11th of same thing like in tamuz and and then the last day of oh no I didn't do anything that's 99.9% of people they don't grab the opportunity on so hasem says okay I'll give you another 10 days to do Chua you know you can bring the horse to the bucket to drink you can't force the horse to drink so Hashem will help you Hashem will assist you will send you all the messages but if you don't do it yourself nobody will do it to you so first of all and most important you have to understand how are you entering into Yip again like I told you I'm saying it just to make a point don't listen to me but if I would have to instruct people most people would tell them you're not ready for y Kip don't bother yipo won't do anything for you and again don't listen to me fast do whatever you need to do but practically saying most people are not ready for for for young people you coming and you're not really ready for the powerful day of Y because if you did your ch right for 40 days from will go like that a the fasting will be easy the prayers will be easy and you will definitely with no doubt be forgiven for everything and you start a new brand new year clean slate and everything's great now wouldn't you want to start a new year perfectly now when you're looking at the last year and everybody can say and agree with me that it was a hard year don't blame nobody you can only blame yourself don't blame now the war and not the elections in America and not anyone if you had a bad year the last year well you know they shouldn't say bad hard year you can only blame yourself cuz at this point hasem is saying listen there's no discounts you need to get get your act together so made it obvious to every person that that you know you're not going to do your right CH you'll see how hard your life will be and doesn't matter if you're struggling with parasa which is most people with your livelihood or struggling with your health which is most people one way or another and then struggling in relationships and then struggling in everything and even I don't know many people who said you know what the past year was hard for financially and maybe physically and maybe emotionally but you know what my even that was a limping to most people and why only you don't blame anybody it's only you it's AEM telling you if you don't put effort then you'll see your own results you put effort you will reap the the your own results and you'll see that within the chaos you you don't notice anything the Jews that led the Jews were when they weren't called Jews then they were called the Sons of Israel the B Israel but at right before they left MIT the sons of Jacob who sat in MIT in Goen you know what was going on in MIT for a whole year the 10 plagues and Cha the chaos it wasn't only in MIT it was the whole world was affected they sat in Goen and they learned Torah and they weren't affected everything was fine so same thing now you know Hashem is going to turn the world upside down what you seeing in the last year is nothing people are asking me about what's going on now in Israel is that the war that we've been talking about no that's not even warming the engine you think this is a war no that's not a war that's a few missiles flying now I'm not sh discounting oring anything but that's not the war that we're talking about the big go Magog that's just a that's just Hashem telling us I'm I'm warming the engine I'm oiling now the machine so I'm telling you already Hashem is going to turn the world upside down 50 times but if you align yourself the right way with hem you won't feel anything you won't suffer not financially not healthwise not emotionally you will be fine but for that you need to be 100% with AEM well nobody can be 100% you want to be 80% 90% you want have majority good and that will be determined now so your entire year is determin in R but then hasem gives you 10 days of discount okay 10 days of CHA do Chua let's see what you have you come you come good to to yip then you'll be inscribed in the book of life and that doesn't mean that you're going to stay alive by the way doesn't mean that you are alive it means that you have that you have energy you have life force not that you are actually alive and then this is what we're going to touch and explain now then hasem tests you for another 10 days this called the the 10 days of testing you from y to and then you have to continue it's not that you just that you you did what you did and you're done so before we'll explain what needs to be done first you need to go into y Kip in the right way which that means you need to do the right CH so if you owe anybody money you got to you better pay it and if there's a disagreement and you think that you're right then doesn't matter right now who's right you have a disagreement you have to try to solve it in an amicable way not in I'm going to get now way and if you owe somebody an apology you better get better get an apology now you had 40 days to do that now might be hard for you to find the person not to talk about right now that's a disease that I don't know you know I was talking in the last video about H how there are statements said H by uh some individuals I I I'll say it different there is a statement that everybody will be part of the Redemption right now everybody likes quoting a certain Rabbi who said that the fact is that no Rabbi ever said such a thing and if you already heard such a statement that everybody will be included in the Redemption it's not referring to the coming of Messiah rather it's referring to the resurrection of the Dead okay so if you ever heard from anyone so and so said that everybody will be included in the Redemption a it's not true because first of all the Redemption is still not here so all the ones who died in the last 5 years 10 years 15 years since this statement is said did they make it to the Redemption no so the statement is false right if anybody comes and says yeah but so and so says and when I'm saying so and so I don't want to say now the the the rabbis that are a a people claim said that okay but many claim that so and so or another so and so says yeah I have nothing to worry about all everybody will be included in their Redemption then it's not true because let's say that statement was said in the last 10 years in the meantime thousands of people died and look at the great sages just in the last 5 10 years just in Israel kinman Giants in the Torah they made it to the Redemption so how can you say everybody will make it to the Redemption the fact is that not a lot of people will make it to the I'm talking about the coming of mashiah not other people will make it to actually see it with your own eyes that's I wish for you but I'm already telling you not I'm not being like stingy or annoying or Doomsday Rabbi or fear mongering or whatever titles that I got it's facts because today people die tomorrow people will die the next day people will die people die every day and we still don't have the Redemption so how can you claim that everybody will be included in the Redemption if you already want to hold this claim it goes on on the resurrection of the dead now you have a big problem because most people don't know even what the Torah says do you know who won't come back in there's a list in the mishna the ones who don't believe in won't be resurrected first of all if you now claim I don't believe in the resurrection of the Dead then you won't be resurrected M first of all all the ones who go against hem and I'm not talking about somebody who has a I'm talking somebody goes against hem against the Torah won't be resurrected then famous I I'm sure that most people know if you lend money with interest you won't be resurrected in and now I'll drop the bomb on you a person who speaks won't be resurrected in and that's not me saying so for what I understand there's not going to be a lot of people here right unless you want to zip your mouth now and do serious chuva for the that you did in the last who knows how many years then all the sources say that a person who speaks won't be resurrected in team deal with it to CH zip your mouth and stop gossiping and then do CH I don't know how successful your Chua will be and there's ways to do cha for but again going back to the statement everybody will be included in in the in the Redemption false it's not true we're looking at facts B if you think that okay you're saying okay so I won't make it to the coming of mssiah okay I'll come back in the resurrection of the Dead who says he going to come back so most people don't understand that with their pathetic Behavior they're losing the world to come and they're too arrogant to be humble and say okay I did a mistake I'll I'll what do I need to do to do Chua so first of all my humble suggestion is hasem is not playing with you anymore don't play with theem he's not your friend he's not your buddy and he's not playing any more games and I think that's pretty obvious that Hashem is already telling us in one way or another I'm not playing games with you you follow the the the line the Torah you'll be fine you go off the off the path I will put you back on the path and it will be painful and if you still reject then deal with the reality and yes I'm not going to be the the many of the one of the many rabbis who tells you don't worry everything is okay Hashem loves you everything will be fine that's a what they say with the yashka don't do anything he died for you so to listen to a person who tells you everything's fine Hashem loves you that's not correct it's not only it's not correct it's far from the truth don't listen to individuals that tell you that that try to sugarcoat the reality and tell you you know you're a good person and you you Hashem loves you so what if Hashem loves you what about the 6 million Jews that were murdered brutally in the Holocaust hashm didn't love them or the 1300 people who were brutally murdered a year ago hasm didn't love them so what if hasm loves you I love my kids dearly but when they need to be repr then then then they get punished and not because um not because only the only reason is because I want to educate them to be good so I can tell you already I made the mistake well maybe it's not a mistake but in the last few years you know I I was very soft with my kids very forgiving very going with the flow but now I already presented to them the new reality that no I'm more nice guy you I love you the same I love you just the same and probably even more now because I love you so much and I don't want you to lose youra or to suffer then I'm sorry if you don't do it by yourself I'll have to do it for you I'm going to have to be the strong hand here and you take the advice of David this is 323 this is the sorry is the staff is the what you lean on DAV says your staff when you hit me and when I'm leaning on you both are my comfort so when Hashem gives you what to lean on then of course you get comfort from Hashem but when Hashem hits you that also should be Comfort to you because hasem is doing it for your your sake hasm is telling you you're not going the right way I need to put you back and if you're too arrogant to listen then hasem is going to put some pressure and that's what's happening by the way now so my recommendation to you is take the next three days as opportunity to do cha between you and another person because if you don't yum Kip won't help you what does it mean then you have to figure it out yourself I have enough videos online I'm not going to repeat it right now if you're interested if you're remember a few years ago we did the Chua boot camp 40 days go and look at those videos I gave 40 days of classes where you have all the instructions what to do how to do and when to do and everything well now it's a little bit hard because it's three days but I'm already telling you you need to make sure nobody is angry with you nobody's upset with you if you stole somebody embezzled GLE whatever it is you need to give it back how you going to do it in 72 hours I'm not too sure but you want to enter yam kipur as clean as possible from what I'm about to tell you now because what I'm about to tell you now it will take me 5 minutes to explain it that's it but if you're not coming into yipo the right way this might not help so your first task if you want to take notes is in the next three days you need to sit and figure out a if you owe anybody money and even if you don't have the money pick up the phone and say to the person I know I I owe you money I don't have the money please be patient I will pay you x amount every month for the next 10 months come to some deal or tell the person right now I don't have the money uh uh please be patient forgive me don't hold it again communication and a lot of people owe money and the thing is a lot of times you think that you right and doesn't WR it right now if you're right or not you don't want somebody to be angry at you now this is a a famous question that I get how is about if somebody's angry at me because they're stupid and I really I really didn't do nothing so right now I'll give you an example I'm dealing right now with a certain individual who has all sorts of claims against me all false for his fault he in the last two months bombarding the internet with you're not helping the situation for yourself not for me you're making it worse for yourself so we have a disagreement you know where when there's a disagreement both sides are right you're right and I'm right but we go by what the Tora say but nevertheless with this certain individual there's a certain certain disagreement and he's not trying to I'm trying to bend myself as much as I can to solve it for his purpose not for me I don't care that he puts on the internet about me I told you that many many times we know the fact is you speak L about somebody just that you know that all your mitv go to that person and all his sins go to you so in sh I'm a gazillionaire in mitv I already told publicly a few years ago please speak L about me as much as you want you're not hurting anybody but yourself and on the contrary I contribute to you all my sins and you give me all your mitv that's how it works unless you do chuva so he's not contributing to the situation this individual and doesn't matter how I'm trying to bridge to him he's very very stubborn and he's convinced that he's right now I can come and say oh so now there's a person on the other side of the world that's holding ground against me and he's angry at me and he's talking about me that's it I'm not going to get forgiveness on so no if you are in a situation like this you go to your Rabbi or you going to a b unless you know the for baen and you're saying did I follow all the rules of the AL if your answer is yes or the rabbi tells you yes you know how many people are angry at me right now as we speak so what that's it I I'm not going to get forgiveness on Yip as long as I didn't transgress any law from the Torah you can be angry with me as as much as you want it's not going to work for you therefore when I have anger from people coming towards me I I check why they're angry at me now if I did something that I can and should fix that's a whole different ball game but if I come to the conclusion I didn't do anything wrong then you can be angry with me till tomorrow and I don't care and Y Kip won't affect my Chua at all so you do the exact same thing if somebody's now angry at you slandering you gossiping against you sending you threatening messages doesn't matter you need to reverse engineer and make sure that you did everything according to the Torah if you are 100% what the Torah tells you let them be angry as much as they want it's not going to affect you but for your own sake for your own Chua yeah yeah yeah yeah you know you need to sit and think very well if you did something bad to another person the main one that most people suffer it's money and in many of the cases it will come with gazel and I told you gazel the translation to gazel is theft but the difference between theft gazel and stealing steal stealing is that you break my window in the middle of the night and you sneak into my house and you take my valuables and you go out not stealing gazel you can do it in front of me and I don't even know you took money from me that you took from me without my knowledge and permission something money time whatever it is most people fail in gazel because they think the world owes them something if you remember a few years ago I gave a class about gizel there was a lady in the class she asked me that one time they went on a on a vacation on the way they stopped in a 7-Eleven like a market store in America and uh they bought drinks or whatever but they she knew they're going to do a barbecue and in the most of the sels in the corner for the ones of you who don't know there's hot dogs from like 3 months ago they were like rolling there how they those hot dogs but nevertheless next to it there ketchup and mustard and mayonnaise and napkins she took a bunch of ketchup bags like what you get in fast food stores and left I told her that's gazel that's gazel if you would buy a hot dog you can take two or three bags of ketchup but if you didn't buy hot dogs and you only bought drinks and you don't use the health the the ketchup for something that you bought in that store that's gazel unless you go to the C year and tell them can I take this bag of ketchup that's worth 3 cents if he tells you go ahead take it go ahead you didn't get approval you are liable now for gazel you will come back in an Incarnation for three cents to pay it back to that person and that falls the same thing that you go to a hotel if you walk out from the hotel with all the shampoos and everything unless they allow it to you that's gazel and many other things by the way sometimes you sit in a restaurant you you whatever you use there toothpick napkins that's for the time at the restaurant but if you go and take some stash for for for the next few days that's gazel and this is gazel I'm talking about in little increments you know what I have encountered in the last few months it's shocking to me shocking that in the last few months in events that I did in the United States people h paid uh either a donation or to buy something in the event and then they did a charge back with a credit card I mean you what are you stealing you stealing from an non for profit you're very stupid a cuz you stealing B it's not stealing from one individual if my nonf for profit serves 100,000 people then you stole from 100,000 people and that's shocking to me that people do that just now I dealt with and you know that's maybe a strong message to people who need to hear just now we're dealing sometimes you know we have products on my website or people pay for different things you do a charge back for the for doesn't matter for what reason and if doesn't matter if you're right or not if we're charged we get charged the fee you you stole you stole from an H for Prophet or from a rabbi or from whoever you have to be very careful without you run your Finance now I know a lot of people their excuse oh it's a big company you know how many times I got the question if can you like not pay your bill to a big phone company and when I tell people you have to pay the bill yeah but the company is making billions what's my $30 make a difference well it's not doesn't make a difference to them it makes a difference to you when a Torah says you should not steal it doesn't say from who it just says lolov you're not allowed to steal even from a dog or from what a lot of people tell me it's a gentile many years ago I was in a I gave a CL when I lived in New York I used to have a a class in one of the neighborhoods in New York set class one time one guy comes there and we were talking about stealing and he told me Rabbi so and so told me that I can steal from non-jews told him excuse me what kind of a nonsense is that not only that you're liable now for the theft now you also did desecrating the name of God so he tells me why is it I says because the Gentile knows you're a Jew oh no no I don't come with a yamaka to the business I say but your name is gtin you look like a Jew look at that nose you didn't know too who told you you you can steal from a gentile what kind of nonsense is that even if the government is extremely evil you're not allowed to steal from the government a lot of people say I don't pay taxes the government is evil so so what if the government is evil the the law is you have to work abide the laws of where you live wherever you live you have to buy the rules I also don't like my government when I don't pay taxes so theft is a big problem when it comes to money you have to be very careful who you owe money and that's well you're not going to be able to do it in three days but you need to learn everything that has to do with that so you fail with with gizel and theft and and that's a big problem but then of course there's other places where you hurt a person's feeling you slandered talk whatever you need to sit with yourself now in the next few hours and think do I need to apologize to anyone do I need need to try to come to some type of amends with another individual maybe I need to apologize maybe I need to ask for forgiveness the right thing is to ask for forgiveness for everyone you go now to your spouse to your kids to your parents to your co-workers and say it's it's simple you meet a person it's Yum I want to ask for your forgiveness if I said anything wrong if I hurt your feelings if I did something please forgive me I didn't mean that you have to do that with everybody that you know and you need to think very well now the thing is that usually the people around you it's like today I didn't see my son for a while I was abroad he's busy today we were spending time in the morning I told him listen I don't know if I'm going to see you before Yip I want to apologize for all the times in the last year that I lost my patience that I talked maybe too harsh for you I did this I did that so he looked at me he's like you you asking my forgiveness and says yeah cuz maybe one time I raised my voice on you and I shouldn't have maybe one time I did something something so he's like he says it's not means nonsense so what if you're my son so what if I'm your father I still ask to your forgiveness so that you have to do anyways in the next couple days so just so we can move forward I'm already telling you try not to enter yum Kip that you owe somebody an explanation an apology money anything sit with yourself in the next few hours and really think very strong who do you need to calm down and it doesn't matter if you're right right now and when you finish that list then every individual that you see you ask for the Forgiveness ask M please forgive me if I ever raised my voice if I did something against you if I whatever took your seat and Shore and up until today you're angry at me it's always good to every person ask for their forgiveness assuming I'm not going to continue now because to to three days is not enough to really do chuva if you did it great you didn't do it uh try to do whatever you can but I'm already telling you that you don't want to come into yum Kip that another individual has some type of on you some type of anger or some type of a how do you call it in English holding Grudge or something now again if he didn't do anything that's the whole different thing and a lot of people are you know holding grudge against me because they just don't like how I talk I don't think the way they think I talk differently different opinions or whatever all different that's your problem like I said not once and not twice I care what God thinks about me that I'm aligned with what the Torah says whatever you think about me that's your problem I constantly I want to make sure that I'm good with theem now assuming you did your chuva well on El and assuming you did good cha now the 10 days of CHA and assuming now you're going to take my advice and try to patch up whatever you can in the next three days then now we're entering yum kipur now you're ready to stand in front of God so Yip has three levels or three we'll call it now situations or I think the the right word will be in Hebrew it's called maim uh States three different states and one might ask what does Yip do for you because the general answer is that yum kipur atones for your sins not so fast in the prayers of yum kipur there's a certain prayer everybody says it doesn't matter if you're ashkanazi if you're sear or whatever path you on and some sing it each one has their own tune but we all say the same prayer that goes okay and doesn't matter how you sing it it's irrelevant that's the indication that there are three different levels or three different states for Yip in English atonement forgiveness pardon all three completely different things by the way so when we're saying in front of God it's three different states of what Yip can achieve for you if you're missing one you're going to have a problem so now let me explain to you that very briefly what it means because yur is the beginning first of all you have to achieve what's called kapar in English it's called atonement and that's why it's called Yip the day of atonement the night before y we do a certain act that is called kaparot some people swing a chicken over their head I know some people don't like it h they think it's a torture for the animal or whatever I can tell you already this is not some invention this is a ancient custom brought down by cabala by the this is not some wacko invented that I know might seem not so pleasant for the chick but don't forget that one of the ways for us of achieving atonement when we have bet mikdash is by slaughtering animals and okay some people come and say this is the torture to the animal it's inhumane it's not nice it's not this it's not that but just remember that in the Tabernacle in the mishan and in bet mikdash and we will have it in the future when we have the third bet mikdash we reach atonement by slaughtering animals on the altar whether you agree with it or not so I understand not putting any pressure on anyone either you do the karot with a chicken if you don't want to deal with the chicken you can do it with money but you still need to do karot and don't think that that's what gives you your ticket out some people say no problem I'll swing a chicken and that's it I'm done right no it's just the beginning but nevertheless the day is called Yim because kapar means atonement what does it mean atonement it means I'll say the words in Hebrew and then I'll translate and explain it's called is when you scrub something off is when you wash it off and you removed it imagine you have a sticky pot after Shabbat where you had yourin or your whatever you call it and then you need to clean it after Shabbat so it's doesn't come off so easy so you need to wash it with hot water and come and whatever tricks you have that's the capar is scrubbing off is washing and removing that's kapar which means all the dirt that is on you that's what yum kipur will do as a side note I'm telling you that the word kapar can be found in the Torah many many times probably and and don't take my word for that about a 100 times and it doesn't always come at the word as kapar it can come also as Kor you know the curtain and all not only that if you remember when Noah build an ark then it says that he used goer and it uses also the word kapar from inside there are many different ways how we find the word in the Torah and of course different verses but the root that can be found in the Torah many many times the next is called means a forgiveness uh forgiveness and again I'll say the word in in Hebrew and then I'll translate releasing the blockage New Beginning that's forgiveness tot different from kapar and then and by the way the word can be found in the Torah a few times not a lot a few times then the last state is called I'm sure you heard the word means pardon the word m you won't find in the Torah I think the only place you will find that word is in yes in the tanak but in the Tor you won't find the word M and M means pardon what does it mean M that again I'll tell you in Hebrew that you give up or you let go what you deserve you owe me money if I give you I I erase the debt whatever I deserve it's okay you don't have to pay me that's the pardon and like I told you you won't find that word in the Torah now the word it's rooted in the word that you will find in the Torah where do you find that word is a Mitzvah to completely anfy and uproot the memory of Amal remember this Mitzvah that's where you will find in the Torah but what do it mean that you completely anfy or is to it's called a nullification I mean it's called M erasing when Mia is going to come one of the many things that mashiah is going to have to do is kill Amal Slaughter Amal no more Amal that's called M so the root of comes from the word which means a nullification it doesn't exist anymore and when a person then you give up what you deserve somebody comes to you and tells you please give me if you say that's it you don't owe me anything anymore but nevertheless we need all three all three states now I know in the it will say but the order of what you need to achieve from what I'm explaining to you now it's first kapar that you get on yum kipur that's atonement and assuming you did your chuva before you can't enter yum kipur and ask for a kapar if you still carrying with you baggage that's how much your Chua needs to be done on and on the seven sorry and on the nine days before yum kipur you have to come into yam kipur after you cleaned everything then you can ask Hashem for atonement what would be the Kap like I told you thenm says Ah I I I will clean you up which means hasem cleans you cleans your cleans your soul cleans your your garments of your soul cleans everything from all the sins that you did now you clean you go out ofip clean now does that does that mean that hasem forgave you no he means it cleaned you you still didn't get you still didn't get forgiveness it's almost like you owe me money and you come to me a a minute before and you tell me please please I know in one minute it's so I tell you okay I give you a you know but you still owe me the money I'm not angry I'm not upset I'm not going to hold Grudge but you still allowe the money you will need to receive a pardon you will still need to receive a forgiveness so when it comes to Y Kip first of all you get what's called atonement Hashem cleans you hasem elevates our souls to a level that it's in front of hem and hasem cleans you that's what you can achieve on yam Kip only if you did CH 39 days before that because the 40th Day is Yip the next level that you need to work on is to get forgiveness so up until y who needs to forgive you all the people that I just mentioned therefore hasem says if somebody else didn't forgive you how can I forgive you that's why I told you how important is the nine days of the 10 days of CHA because you need forgiveness what will be the effect of the Forgiveness that the blockage opens sometimes when you sewage is is clogged then all the water comes up or whatever smell or whatever disgust you know it's disgusting what do you do you call the plumber and he he pulls out the whatever's blocking there and now all the water goes down the smell is over Etc that's what the Forgiveness will do it will open all the arteries all the channels all the the the clogged sewage that's why you need forgiven because all your she all the abundance that you get from hem comes through channels and the interestingly that the cabalistic term for these channels isor is a pipe which means that when I need my parasa my sustenance my livelihood it comes through a spiritual pipe a certain energy comes same thing with my health same thing with my relationships everything is coming through these through these pipes what is this everything the chef hasem is blessing you it's almost like let me explain to you how it works imagine how you work for me and I don't pay you with a check or with a money wire I pay you with a bag of coins okay gold coins now assuming you made a lot of money and you have now 50 bags of coins can you carry them no you can only carry one bag so can you get all the money that I want to give you no you're going to need to find some type of a solution how to carry all the money so same thing with hem Hashem gives you a blessing if you don't have the capacity to receive this blessing you won't get it and then you think that Hashem is being mean to you and it can come not only with your parasa with your money you're looking for your other half you're looking for a good relationship with your family or whatever it is everything come comes the she the energy comes from hem through these through these pipes if you have the capacity to hold this blessing then you'll get it if you don't it's not that hasem doesn't want to give you you are not lot you can't receive it if hasem wants to bless you with a lot of money but you steal and you cheat and you slander and you gossip and many other things the pipe through the energy comes you clogging it with all your sins and the same way that if the pipes are clogged in in in in your plumbing then a little bit of water will come out you know just the other day I was somewhere we turn on the shower it like drizzling so the person tells me no it's from the city they closed the water I said no you fool and we opened the top of the shower it's full of uh how do you call it uh Stone in Hebrew it's called like like the stone that comes in the water how is it called Crystal whatever a few bangs on the on the shower head all this cracks up and then back back to good strong uh water how you call it the the string comes from the person looked at me like what I said you showering like this now for the last few months you can even think that the holes of the shower head are all clogged same thing here Hashem bestows in you unbelievable blessing you are the problem so when you clog these arteries these pipes then you need forgiveness the Forgiveness will clean these pipes completely and then it's considered a new beginning now all the shef can start coming back again so you need to re receive the the forgiveness and then the last of all is the pardon is the which means to give up what you deserve so if you give to somebody like I think I told you even that story many many years ago I have a friend I I mentioned him a few times in my classes H and I mention him with the fact that he for for many many years he always tried to have a business and he tried everything and he had brilliant ideas he should have been a millionaire by now every idea that he had was a brilliant idea but nothing worked and I kept telling him it's not that your idea is bad it seems like hasem is just telling you in other words you're not supposed to be the next billionaire I told him you were very sharp you're very smart you're very good with the Torah I don't see you as a businessman you need to learn Torah teach Torah that's that should be your path anyways in one of his adventures he came and asked for me for a long for one of his new businesses and I gave him the loan and sure enough the business didn't work out and at least he was a mench and he came every few months and told me listen I know I owe you money I don't have money I said okay at some point I already wrote off the debt I said okay that's money never coming back interestingly that maybe 10 12 years after one day I didn't hear from him for years one day he calls me and he tells me I have money now what's your bank account number the joke was that on that specific time I really needed money urgently and that's how you know Hashem knows exactly how to to to give you what you needed to write down he like called out of nowhere and the amount that I needed that's the amount that he paid me and sure enough he we made the calculations Co I gave him the money in dollars we had to do it according to the dollar great 12 years ago anyways he he he was a Manch he paid it all and it came exactly when I needed it and of course I asked him no I now you have money I'm assuming the business Works he's like nah a few years ago I I stopped with all the business I admitted myself in a and now I learn to all day long and I met a woman and and and I have two girls and he's like I'm the happiest I ever been so I told him you see 15 years you ran out of like a circle like a dog running under around his tail you try to make money and that's your that's your path but why am I telling you this story even though I said that story many times in my classes that when I understood he's not going to make the money I already gave him a I said m means I give up you don't have to give me the money anymore the fact that he came and gave me the money great was uh for me came from the right time and everything was good but I told him everything then by the way I gave you already m I gave up what I deserve now God deserves a lot from you you owe him a lot besides your life so when hasem gives you a pardon then you don't owe him anything anymore can you imagine not owing to Hashem anything anymore because when you sin you owe hasem doesn't matter what you owe hasem but you owe him so to H conclude what I was saying is that yum kipur is not the end rather it's the beginning on y kipur you can reach to a level of kapar of atonement if you came prepared but that's what you going to reach on yum Kip not more than that you don't get forgiveness in yum Kip and you definitely don't get a pardon on yum Kip and that's where you need to pay attention the first thing you need to pay attention is how are you entering into y CU you want to at least at achieve the atonement but you still need to reach to and forgiveness and pardon that's why I'm saying was just the beginning Hashem says you do chuva I'll forgive you but let's see how good your chuva is coming with a lot of promises you know what they say in America talk is cheap or what else they say talk the talk but do you walk the walk how many times did you promise hem I'll do this I'll do that I'll do this I'll do that and nothing happened that's most of the cases by the way that's why we do the Nullification of vows on not only the vows that you promise other people that you promised hasem I'll stop stealing I'll stop cheating I'll stop stop this I'll come to to pray I'll start giving charity I'll do this and I'll do that and you don't do nothing so Hashem already knows the quality and he says your promises don't worth anything I want to see now when you put your money where your mouth is then I'll forgive you which means when you come in with big promises on R sh I will do this and I will do that theem says okay Yip puts everything on pause I'll give you your atonement that you'll clean so you can start working because if you don't get an atonement you won't be able to continue your Chua but now let's see if your Chua is real and if it's real down the line I'll forgive you I still didn't give you a pardon the pardon can come by the way 20 years later sometimes Hashem is going to test you for 20 years to see if you're holding on to your promise and then he will give you the pardon that's why I told you in the beginning most people don't know how to do cha they don't understand that sometimes you only get your forgiveness and your atonement 40 years down the line cuz Hashem says do you think I buy your nonsense one of my kids he you know he he's good for his word he says AB do this I know it's going to happen the other one not that he's a bad GID he or she not going to say a gender right now should not be on my child but nevertheless I know that their promises is not worth a lot when that child tells me I'll do I'll give I'll bring I'll there yeah that's your nature that's your personality doesn't matter it's not that I don't like you I'm just saying that's your word is not worth a lot asav says your good name your good reputation is much more important than valuable oil soem says the same thing I I don't trust your word I'll give you 20 years let's see if you hold your chuba and if you do I'll forgive you and then I'll give you another 20 years and if you do I'll give you pardon so the fact that you did cha 30 years ago it doesn't mean that you're good to go you can do chuma 50 years ago it doesn't mean that you're ready to go could be that you still owe you didn't get a pardon and could be that has still didn't forgive you and you know why because you didn't do the sin for 3 months and then you fell again and then you did Chu and then you fell again and you did chba and you fell again and you did chba and you went back to the sin and back to the chba and back to the sin and back to the chba that's why you are called at this point means you return back to the sin all the time you do the sin you do the CH you do the sin you do the CH when you master it then you have the title Bal means you own your Chua Bal means I mean it means a husband but it means owner so if somebody tells you you are B I am a first I'm telling you now on myself some of the sins so far I can tell you onal cha never have done it from the day that I turned my way 22 years ago I can tell you for this this this sins B cha never but you're not called the Bal Chua till you die because you might have not done the sin for 20 years but who says I have a guarantee I can sin after 30 years so you own the CH that's it you never ever did it again you backward you're bouncing that's all of us so like I told you before chuva is not acquired like that sometimes can take you decades y will give you an atonement which means you clean it's almost like I'll give you an example again with money let's say you owe me money and you come and tell me listen if I'm now going to pay you all the money that I owe you I'll never Raise Myself back up right there's a certain individual that I loan them a certain amount of money still didn't pay it back paid a little bit but still didn't pay it back and now the person is really I know the person is trying but I told the person listen if you're going to start paying me all every shekele that you have you pay me back you're not going to have nothing you're not going to be able to lift yourself up so don't pay me now anything so you can accumulate some money and build yourself up then come and pay me I'm patient same thing with hasem so Hashem tells you if I don't give you an atonement you won't be able to rise up because you're going to be so dirty from your sins you won't be able to function so I'll clean you clean SL you don't owe me anything it's almost like you know I'll give you a different example you owe the credit card money now and you maxed out your credit card now you can't even buy the products that you need to buy in order to sell right let's say you're a business owner that's a common thing you maxed out your credit but you need to buy H products in order to sell but you don't have any more credits you maxed out your credit card you maxed out the credit in the bank you come to the bank account to the bank manager and you tell him I need more money to buy new merchandise in order to sell so the bank manager tells you you maxed out I can't give you any more money you're not paying back so you stuck right Hashem doesn't do that to you he tells you I'll give you the atonement I'll erase everything for now so you have credit to use that's the atonement that's the kapar you'll get on y now Hashem says now let's see see how you conduct yourself and I'll decide if I forgive you and then I'll decide if I also give you a pardon therefore till then till the till the pardon you still own so the fact that you did Chua doesn't mean you don't know Hashem anything that's a big mistake that a lot of people don't understand so what if you did Chua 20 years ago you might still owem a long a lot a long list now what do you need to do you need to go through the stages so just to conclude like I told you if we're going by the the order of the the prayer you have to in Hebrew is called that you need to rejuvenate everything new refresh new starts excuse me get get rid of the responsibility that you owe because if you're going to not you still have responsibility to a lot of debts you won't be able to function andu the atonement is to bring you back to the original state it's kind of resetting that's what yum kipur will do to you will will reset the system and needless to say that it will bring you back to the original state of tar of Purity if you do the job right on y kipur you come out y people pure like a baby that was just born now the baby that was just born let me give you the more deeper explanation a baby is born it's pure the baby has sins no but the soul that's in the baby came back as an Incarnation after 50 lives that Soul has a lot of death you understand the relations a baby is born now completely pure has zero sins till they start S sinning of course but it doesn't mean that they re reached a pardon and forgiveness from previous lives Hashem says I'll give you a new slate that's an Incarnation I'll give you another opportunity you mess it up I'll give you another opportunity and of course the purpose of the kapar is to transform the sins into merits that's called so right now what you have you have to walk into Yip and you can reach atonement now what's going to happen is HEM is going to test you for 10 days this is called the 10 days of of testing from Yip till let's see how you behave let's see what you do in the next 10 days if you if you talk is cheap if you talk the talk you walk the walk does let's see and after that you have the whole year to show Hashem what you worth and if you are strong behind your promise you will reach the the forgiveness and eventually you will reach also the the pardon but you didn't get a pardon on and you didn't get forgiveness onip you still need to prove yourself Therefore your cha only starts after Yip now you're just big big promises you're coming with a lot of statements next year I'm going to learn to two hours a day I'm going to pray three times a day with Aman I'm going to do this and I'm going to do that and I actually urge you to do a long list of what you promis that's what I'm going to tell you now what to do but then you have to stand behind what you said so just to conclude let me explain to you what one needs to do in the next few days first of all you need to do serious chuba you need to go home now and instead of going on Netflix or whatever junk that you go on Facebook book everybody's occupied with so much junk don't do that and do serious Chua which means repent for everything that you might have done did do start calling people do whatever you need to do then time is ticking from Thursday night you have the last day before Yip to do a bunch of stuff so like I told you first thing that I recommend to do is kaparot whether you do it on a chicken or money it doesn't matter I I know some people do even on fish or anything it doesn't matter right now whatever custom you have do whatever you follow the chicken is real it's not some invention it's a the right way of doing it you don't want to do chickens as I heard somebody comment not too long ago with the amount of sins you have you need a you need you need a whole Farm not one chicken but uh but it's it's more be behind the the the message behind it but Thursday night you do kaparot if you don't want to do it with a chicken you do it with money then there's two options either you do it in the value the money in the value of how much a chicken costs or in a value of what a meal will cost a day everyone can do their own calculations and by the way every family member needs their own kapar which means I have seven kids I need to do for me my wife and seven kids unless they're adults can do it themselves and don't discount this uh this process do it the next thing that I recommended in the last class to do is to shut up for 24 hours I'll say it in a nicer way you do for 24 hours a fasting of talking the explanation to that is as follow if you didn't watch the last class when you find a I don't know how you say it in English when two things are parallel uh I don't know how you say it Er parallelity When you find something parallel in the Torah then one can teach over the other so we have 10 days of Chua that's corresponding to the 10 tests that Abraham a was tested also corresponding to the 10 that's the paral parallelity if there's such a word even when something is parallel you have 10 here and 10 here but I also explained that you have 10 commandments so when you find the parallel in the Tora if we have 10 days of CH and we have 10 commandments must be that there's some type of a and how would you say it parallelity whatever you know you got the point in Hebrew it's called h two lines are together so I explained it in the previous class that the 10 days of correspond to the Ten Commandments R sh it's two days correspond to the two first Commandments I am God your God and you should not have any other God but me that corresponds to the two days of Ros sh when we Crown Hashem to be our King and then every day of the 10 days of chba will correspond to whatever the the the Commandment is so Galia corresponds to not to Bear aem's name uh false and you go through it I explained it in the previous class which means that the last commandment is not to desire somebody else's belongings not L enough right don't desire your wife's your neighbor's wife or their house or etc etc that falls on the day of yam kipur that's why if you ever wondered why we read in the Torah the Torah portion that we read on yum Kip is the most disgusting part of the Torah all the Forbidden relations and when I became observant I didn't understand such a holy day and the Torah portion that we're reading is not to have relations with my mother with my daughter with this with an animal and who does such a thing apparently if the Torah says that apparently it's done unless the Torah wouldn't say that but nevertheless why is that read Because on Yip a you can reach atonement for all these desires lusts and forbidden things that you do on your desires the fact is don't pretend that you're so holy everybody has lusts everybody has desires for forbidden things of course yam kipur is the day where you can actually atone and clean all those sins which are considered one of the worst sins and we all have it don't think that you're like the you know the whatever more than that yum kipur gives you the power to be able to stand in front of your lusts and not to fail so yum kipur is a very powerful day for that but let's go for the ninth commandment the ninth commandment is not to Bear a false witness and that's everything that you do with your mouth lying that's false witness slander gossip foul language promising things everything you do with your mouth and you don't actually do that's false witness what does that mean that on the ninth day of T the ninth day of the 10 days of Chua that's the day you can make a correction for all your junk that comes out of your mouth so what I suggest to do is on the ninth day of T you zip your mouth you do CH for all the sins with your mouth so this year will be from Thursday night till Friday night till comes if Shalom mashia won't come in the next year then somebody will watch this video it will be different days but it doesn't matter it's the ninth day of T and it's always the day before Yip so my recommendation to you if you can 2 24 hours you don't talk don't talk and if you ask how do you communicate then you all have phones then you type or you take a piece of paper and you write but you don't talk the only thing that you're allowed to say is words of Torah if you need to pray you read you read T that you say no hi no hello no nothing not everybody can do it but I highly recommend and I'm telling you the t is very very powerful Try It You'll see if you can then 24 hours don't talk and if you must talk then at least make sure no lying no cheating no foul language no cursing no swearing definitely not no nothing just pass me the salt and hello and have an easy fast keep it to the minimum next a few things that you need to do first of all on the ninth day of T don't work any type of work I mean your job I mean not of course making food for yourself cleaning the house but your job no business no h no trading no nothing no business no uh men is very important that we should they should go to the mik and I know many people know or have the custom to have two meals on the ninth day of T meals I'm talking about washing for bread that you say then I have a for you for some who want to go the extra mile you have to do five meals five meals and that's only on Friday yeah washing for bread and five times same so you don't have to make like a whole huge meal you wash for bread and you eat a little piece of bread you eat it say 2 hours later wash eat a piece of bread the big meals should be one in the morning one before you stop eating before the fast but if you want to do things the right way you do five meals that corresponding to the five prayers that we have onip the five a lot of fives again the parallel but that's the right way of doing it five times you wash for bread you eat a little piece that you can say and the purpose here is to sayat five times and not Thursday night from Friday morning if you can good if you can't you have to do two one in the morning where you have a very large meal the benishai says not only the benai all the sources says that you have to have fish in that meal the Ben goes the extra mile and says you should have sardines in that meal because if you take the word sardine in Hebrew cut it in half it's s s remove din judgment so if you already having fish have sardines and then of course a very big meal what's called sud before you start the fast are s is say that if you eat with washing for bread and you say and you eat a lot in the value of two days it's like as if you fasted also on the ninth day of of so that's a 48 hour fast not a 24-hour fast some have the custom I told you that that they fast also on the 11th day of T which this year will be Sunday half a fast like we did inalia now that's three like as if you did a 72 hour fast like when we fasted the time of Bim with M and Esther that's a very very powerful fast if you can do that go ahead uh another thing that I highly recommend for you to do you can do it already now you don't have to do it onip is that you take a piece of paper and you write all the things that you want to change this year all the bad things that you want to stop doing you want write on one side and all the good things that you want to start doing and you write on the other side you can write it it's not so important but you must take on yourself that everything is BL whatever whatever I'm writing here B no vows no promises that's what I want now why would you want to do that because when I told you that Hashem will give you atonement on y but not yet a forgiveness or a pardon then you want to write on the piece of paper normal things don't promise the world but that should be the guide for the rest of the Year this is the the paper that you need to look at for the rest of the year and say when I was in the position of asking for forgiveness that's what I promised and if you want to reach the forgiveness and eventually the pardon then do what you wrote therefore don't write promises don't promise the world promise what you you you can do but nevertheless when you put it in paper first of all you're taking it out of your system you're actually giving it a a a a reality when that's why in the Tor when you write something down a lot of people when they go to a a holy site either the cotel or a grave of a sadik you write it on a piece of paper right why do people go to the Cel The Wailing Wall and put notes there where you think Hashem opens them out when you write it down you're creating a new reality that's why we have the custom more than that you also giving it over so when you write I uh this year I'm going to promise to not to lie and you write it down it's like as if you're giving it over to another Authority which in this case will be AEM and he will help you to achieve what you want to do therefore you want to write it down and you keep that paper for the rest of the year that that's what should be your guide for the next coming year oh I promise this because I can already guarantee to you then two months down the line you'll forget everything everything that you promised so you can do it today you can do it tomorrow you can do it on on that's my recommendation that's what I do for the last 20 years write it on a piece of paper because when you want to do CH when you're aem's Mercy you promise everything right now we adding in the 10 days of CH a chapter of I called you AEM from the depth when a person hits Rock bottom that's when he starts screaming to Hashem and Promises everything I told you not not once and not twice and recently started telling it much more but when I started doing Chua most people are just aware that I had a near-death experience and I think that's where it started and ended but I already told you in many different occasions uh year after I did I I started doing Jaa I was unfortunately doing a lot of illegal things and I got caught up and I got arrested and sat in jail for almost two years and I was facing 40 years in jail I had a 49 count in a federal court and I was facing 40 years in jail so when I had a sword here then I promised tohm the world I'll do this and I'll do that and when I came out of jail and when I met my first Rabbi he told me it's all a test from Hashem and he told me very simple Shabbat K and Bre guard Shabbat do the Shabbat put learn Tora and most important all this and guard the Brit and you'll see Hashem Hashem can do anything he wants and sure enough sure enough a year later in my my trial I was acquitted I didn't get the 40 years they wanted it was a huge huge miracle and why am I attributing to that because I did Chua with a real Chua not half Chua real Chua and Hashem can do whatever he wants in this world he can make anything disappear indictments tumors Hashem can make anything disappear from your life if you do the right chuv but like I told you now if you walk the walk to promisees Jeep to say I will do I will do I will do not everybody knows how to do and how many people actually do what they say very little that's why I told you now on you'll reach it for atonement but nobody guarantees to you that you'll reach forgiveness and a pardon Hashem says now let me see what you let's put your money where your mouth is now we'll see I'll let you go but I want to see so I promised Hashem the world I will do this and I will do that I will be the best Jew in history so says no problem I'll let you go go now let's see what you're going to do so I can tell you only from experience talk is cheap that's what the tal says the mishna to be more exact means the action is what counts not your word what you're waving in sham I'll do this I'll do that if you let me go how many times you found yourself in a situation that was so bad that you promised AEM if you get me out of this I'll do this and I'll do that and I'll do and then Hashem gets you out of the situation and all your promises are worthless so don't promise anything for vain that's why I'm recommending to you put on a piece of paper the bad things you want to get rid of this year and the good things that you want to do this year and don't go overboard with that and then you have some type of a document some type of an indication what did you promise Hashem when you asked for forgiveness what did you promise hasem on the 10 days of CH you obviously promis hasem if you do this I'll do that give me find me my wife five me this give me that I'll do chuva I'll repent I'll never do this again so she you think AEM is a frier so you'll get an atonement that's it forgiveness and a pardon hasem says okay now let's see now let's see what you're worth let's see what your promises are worth let's see if your promises will last a month 2 months 4 months or 3 years or forever or won't last at all the sad reality is that most people promise and and they they do 10% of what they promis maybe 1% therefore don't promise too much and everything B native I don't guarantee anything but my recommendation put it on a piece of paper that will be your indication that will be something that you can go and look once a week once a month and say okay I'm still not paying up what I promised if you want to do it the right way then every Shabbat every Friday you pull your document out and you see if you did it and the same thing every every Roes these are the the times where you do CH if you are familiar with the text that we pray ones on the prayer that is called M the additional prayer it says the time of atonement which means that you can reach again an atonement on every rodes then you pull out your your little paper and you see oo I forgot I promised as when I was in trouble I called you AEM when I was in Dire Straits then you promised the world now pay it do what you promised when you do what you promised then hasem will forgive you that can come months later or years later and when you actually continue in a consistent way then eventually you'll get your part pardon and the pardon can come 20 years later that's why a lot of people do chuva and then life becomes worse that's Mo most people they become closer to Hashem where they're doing chva or converting and then life becomes worse that's 99% of cases I repented I did sh I'm closer to you now everything is falling apart yeah because you didn't get a pardon yet you didn't get a forgiveness yet you just came now now to start cleaning everything and now it's all surfacing so don't be surprised that you did Chuan 20 years later you still have challenges it means you might you might have not got your pardon yet you might get your pardon the last breath of your life so don't waste the opportunity of the nine day the 10 days of chuva don't waste the opportunity of yum Kip and do it the right way because when you're going to do it the right way not only that hasm is going to bless you with a good sweet harmful peaceful year he will bless you with whatever you need as the whole world is in chaos you are not subject to the chaos of the world even when the whole world is under chaos and under judgment doesn't mean you can still be flourishing in all departments one has nothing to do with the other the chaos of the world won't change this year will be much worse than the previous year and it's not that I'm trying claiming to be a Prophet shom don't don't distort what I'm saying and it's not that I'm predicting horrible things that's the fact we're going towards the Redemption it can only become bad because it's only going to deteriorate and deteriorate and deteriorate and I'm talking about the situation of the world till mashiah comes so don't expect now the war to end and business to flourish and and your favorite President will be elected in America or whatever I'm telling you already the world is going straight into the toilet doesn't matter how you're going to look at it but it doesn't mean you need to be affected by that that's what we say like the that sat in they didn't they weren't affected they weren't affected by the the the year of the plagues therefore don't now be impressed by what's going on in the world Hashem is now has a long account with the world and you're going to see a lot of bad things in the next few years till mhia comes hopefully it won't be ears hopefully it will be chick chu but according to how it seems there's a long way Hashem has a long account with everybody in this world and all the nations and governments and everything leave that to hem has nothing to do with you you need to worry about your situation and I'm telling you already you do everything that I told you and you do it right and you do chva right and you go into y Kip the right way you not only that hem is going to bless you with a good peaceful and a a sweet year you can flourish in all Departments of your life Finance Health relationships everything the whole world will go down and you go up so take advantage of the 10 days of CH you have a few more days take advantage of Y Kip do it right do what you need to do and BM Hashem will bless you with great success with a sweet Year sweet means that that everything that you encounter comes in a sweet way you going to go through challenges this year everybody has to go through challenges but it's going to be with a little uh a little sugar in it it's not going to be that bad but nevertheless I wish for you I pray for you B tonight I'm going to be in in the Cel B if you want to give me notes to put in the in the wall I I always pray for everybody and I wish you myself am Israel the entire world to be in peace to be healthy to have good par and the most important that we should see very soon the coming of mashia and mayem spare us from all hardship and challenges and be bless us with a good sweet peaceful and safe year wherever we are and bless blessed amen