One little act that can fix all problems - POWERFUL message by Rabbi Alon Anava

[Music] everybody it's always always a pleasure to come back to Miami and uh I said that when I was here last time in September it's not for taken to gr to take to for granted I travel everywhere and unfortunately and we're going to address this issue tonight it's one of the key parts of tonight unfortunately in many places they don't open the door for another speaker the rabbi doesn't want to have competition or whatever the reason is and that's sad to see that a place of Tor and MIT doesn't want to open the door to another Rabbi that just wants to come and give over Tor so I don't take for granted when a a synagogue opens the door to a foreign Rabbi that comes and speaks Z may love and I see it very highly and great and and you you'll pay attention tonight we're going to talk about a very important thing and that you'll see how in the end will be incorporated but I I I want to thank you I thanking also bashem all the followers you know you have your camera but I have my camera it's also going to go online very fast because of the in and the whole point here is to make hem look better and to spread Tor and to do the good in the eyes of hem and that's really the core and the essence of what we're going to talk about today today's a very very very special dayes to start with is amazing it's Shabbat we're going to have a party where the lecture in that party will be around roses where you if you don't know yetes is our sages compared it to AED to like a festival and many great sages in the past what they used to do fores before during it's one of the most amazing amazing periods of the month and I'll tell you one key and then the rest we'll have toat lecture about KES but have you noticed I'm sure you heard that the days after Shabbat get blessed by the Shabbat right which means that I observe Shabbat I celebrate Shabbat the right way all the days after we'll be blessed because of the Shabbat I I I have to do a certain action and then I get the blessing after and that's with everything you get the blessing on roses for the entire month of course if you celebrate r the right way you're sitting at home and watching Netflix you're don't going to get nothing if you celebrate the right way meaning you come to the you pray the read from theph T do I mean you you celebrate thees if you do that the blessing of the entire month is you receive it before the monthes that's just comes to tell you the power of that it's m like a festival and I don't want to about that because we're talking about something else but tonight I want to talk about something very very difficult to digest I'm sure you heard the famous quote the whole year we have to be the whole year we are obligated we are commanded to be the whole year so now comes and you're coming and telling me on that add more and I come and ask a question H how you expecting me to be have you noticed what's going on in the world lately should I share with you my personal uh Affairs not my personal affairs but you know I I'll come to any individual listen it's any normal individual will tell me I'm barely before now you're telling me to add how can you how do you want me to do it you see my financial situation you see my marital situation you see my health situation the sad reality is listen we got to face the reality you can't look at the mirror and lie to yourself the sad reality that every one of us is going through a lot a lot of ch es each one in their Department one person Isa another person is can finding their other half another person's sickness the problems that everybody has and everybody has a fair share which I addressed yesterday in the lecture by saying that's part of the coming of the mashiach hasem wants us to to get our act together but I come and ask a different question the whole year I'm commanded to be now itself is hard I'm trying to to raise my lips to smile I open the news oh just see the news you want to already how do you want me to be and now you're asking me to add on that I'm not throughout the year and like I told you the question is how do you expect me to be with Sim now practically saying what do you want me to do start dancing every day like what are you expecting me to do and besides that I'm looking at the world can you give me I mean I can give you many reasons why to be happy but a normal person says what reasons going you get tell me to be happy there's Wars there's bloodsheds there's Terror attacks looks like the world is collapsing any second people are struggling people are struggling you might not know cuz a lot of most people put on a face that life is fine I told you once I think I told you last time when I was here I think somehow I look like a brick because you know the W the bricks in the wall in the cotel everybody comes puts their head starts say praying put a note in I must look like a brick everybody comes and tells me all their problems cry open up then they put a notes I mean the notes are just papers I never get like no checks no checks so I'm telling you already people are going through should have mercy what people are going through and I come and ask this question okay so how are you expecting me now you're expecting me the whole year to be and if you're looking at the the the curses in the Tor all the curses in the Torah is because you didn't serve h with great joy and happiness and a Pure Clean Heart and again in order for us to start the lecture I ask the question how are you expecting me to be happy do you want me to ignore the situation in the world do you want me to ignore my problems okay the question here I'll tell you what the problem is a lot of people say who am I kidding why do you want me to sit like this I'm not really B the go from vill says being serving AEM with joy is one of the most hardest mitv to do not being cuz you can you can get drunk and be but the Mitzvah of serving is one of the hardest mitvah to do that's what they G from vness is so tonight we we're going to address that because one should ask why is it so hard to be happy ask yourself now am I happy with where I am now then you can have the left side of the brain saying no I have a lot of negative things in my life the right side of the brain might say no I'm breathing I have teeth I'm walking I mean what I see what other people go through I'm happy all day long I take I try as much as I can with a lot of lot of followers there's a lot of requests of people to want to talk to me so I spend a few hours a day on taking calls and not too long ago my wife was you know I I have a little office in my house and my wife is going in and out and in and out and she hears me listening to all these conversations and then she tells me how do you listen to this all day long how you don't to get depressed listening to this I said I'm so happy to hear it cuz it's their problems it's not mine it makes my problems look like this I'm like so why is it so hard to be because the reality contradicts it the reality right now contradicts the fact that I need to be in a a state of Joy I'm trying to elevate myself to a state of Joy Boom the bank manager calls me now start dealing with that that doesn't call me but but everybody has their fair share of problems our sages say from the day that the temple was destroyed there's not a day that the curse of that day the negativity of the day whatever the day carries to you every day it's worse and really if you're looking at history the timeline it's right looking from beta mikdash it's getting it's deteriorating we might think that it's not but it it looks like the day preceding the other brings more problems more problems more issues so what do we need to do the theme of which is also part of the theme of is that you have to take the reality and to transform it you can translate as transform it or you can translate as turning it upside down saying negative then turn it to be positive does a Cree turn it around it was black now it's white it was dark now it's h it's not that's the entire Theme ofes by the way to a point our sages are telling you you have a court or something Now's the Time to do it especially with a a non-jew now is the time clean why there's a lot of there's a lot of Mercy in this month but what are we requested to do going take the situation and say I'm not taking this anymore turn it over now comes a big question how can I find happiness throughout the year right what makes you happy I mean don't please don't tell me money makes me happy a nice apartment a vacation these like things that you need to you can live with or without nothing wrong with driving with a nice car nothing wrong wrong with going on a vacation but that's not what's going to bring you happiness it's okay clearing your mind a little bit changing the scene you have to figure out what what makes me happy throughout the year and how can I try and true happiness a big question one needs to ask themselves is are you really happy most people late late late at night lights are off day is over your legs are hurting because you're running around all day long and then then the mind is more thinking about bad situations and there's nothing wrong with asking yourself every day am I truly happy am I living a life of of Happiness so what if I don't have money so what if I have David had problems everybody had problems we don't have problems you want to see people that have problems I'll direct you to a few people you'll see problems that's what my wife told me that that in that encounter how do you listen to this all day long it's all my problems and really it makes my problems look this big what people have to deal with so now comes a big practical question how do you want me to find true happiness throughout the year throughout the I'm not talking about Adar now throughout the year and on especially on ad what is different man what's the difference between AD andat why now now because the sun is the warmer I have to be more happier so we have to address first of all what's the entire idea of why how who what but let's first see what's going on in the month of Adar in the middle of the month we have the the holiday of puim it's not a Biblical holiday it's an event that happened in the past and was turned into a holiday same thing like kanuka but obviously both kanuka and puim have some type of quality because there are many miracles in the past and we don't have a holiday for that you know how many miracles happened in the past you know how many times we were saved we didn't make a holiday for every little thing if we would do a holiday for every little thing every day would be a holiday for how many times hasem saves us and saying that when mashia is going to come all the holidays will cancel besides and now I try to figure out what do you mean the holidays will cancel they're in the tor you can't change the Torah even when mashia has come you can't change anything in the Torah this is M how do you say it's going to cancel for years I looked for and finally many years ago I came to an explanation by the luich REI who said it's not that the the holiday will cancel The Godly light that shines on that day of the holiday it will never change it's just there there not a holiday cancels but with the month with the holiday of puim that doesn't we're going to continue celebrating puim so that has to raise a big light in your mind okay something big is happening on puim besides getting dressed besides all the fun we are commanded with four special MIT we have to read the Mig all the mitv I start with the letter me I gave a Class A few years ago explaining unbelievable by about this me but nevertheless the four with me you build a tabernacle says don't say in in it says in the now what's the me the four of of that's the first one the second one is the third one is and the last one is that start with a gives unbelievable in depth explanation I gave it in a few classes I addressed it says build me a tabernacle it's like single and I drilled in all of them how can you Dr one Tabernacle dwell in all of them so says you are the Tabernacle you build your body as a tabernacle Pure Clean and so forth has will dwell in you so the says no no don't read it in them read it me in the me you have to close yourself with this me and not that now all the time is explaining that's the four mitv of of P besides the mitv I'll address that in a second another big question what's the common denominator between these four mitv not for nothing it's not a coincidence or some fluke has to be some connection between these four now when you understand the connection you understand truly what is the essence of true Sim so pay attention because you're going to get tonight a big big gem that if you apply it Life Changes simple as that now how did the whole story of puim start we're going to read it in two weeks but to tell you briefly in case you forgot or you don't remember comes us certain individual his name is Hamman and he starts Prosecuting against the against the the the nation to Americans it's not so applicable but the Supreme Court in Israel is called bats right like the Supreme Court everybody knows corruption it's like whatever we're not going to even address that but that's like the core of corruption in Israel the same no numerical value of ham 95 is the same numerical value of badat of the of the bats ham am so Comes This Amal and he comes to a like a weasel and he starts feeding you know there a nation like a disease all over the world and he's spewing hate now you have to understand you have to read every word carefully and understand what is he saying there's one nation he's separated he's scattered all over the world that's it that's the problem that's the answer that's the root of our problems is the separation that's what Hamman is coming and saying this nation is is separated they're not in unity and happens to be that they're also scattered all over the world when there is Unity that's called Perfection when you have Unity you know what you have true happiness where do you see the most people smiling when two people are coming to Unity and standing under the everywhere body is smiling 5,000 selfies going on there why two people are getting United you ever see people celebrate in a funeral no cuz that's when you separate there's no joy there's no sim everybody's frowning whenever there's Unity there's true happiness there's no Unity there's not going to be happiness very simple very very simple that's the ESS of the problem that is the problem per it said in the in the it says in the say that per is equal to what's called is grief is sigh that's when you have per all you have is grief and when a person is that's what you get so what's the answer that's the key problem in the meila so comes and calls morai in her position position and she's not telling him let me let me talk to the king let me see what I can do go gather all the Jews together put them together there's a decree against us they're going to kill us in one day there's going to be a holocaust way before Hitler way before Stalin way before the Spanish Inquisition way before many other Holocaust that our nation had there was a a a holocaust threat they didn't have a WhatsApp but they had Flyers right they made posters and hanging everywhere now the nation is facing a holocaust how exactly it doesn't matter tells get everybody together make Unity that's what's going to be the the the Salvation And if there's going to be Unity the decree will get nullified and that's what we saw you know when they fasted by the way just a a side note that you understand how severe was the problem they fasted on gave a everybody's fasting on how it happened in regards to drinking the four cups I don't know or eating matah or reading the the I don't know how that worked but it happened on P everybody fasted everybody joined together because if you have unity all the decrees cancel are you listening to the words that Hashem is making me talk Unity no decrees everything cancels and what happened at the end they had Unity they did what they needed to do they repented and they hung a man you know the whole story then Haman was added a name to his definition not that's his background but there's another definition to ham that we saw later on in the in the [Music] do you know what's the word I mean after all you learn T you read things if you run into a word that you don't know you need to understand what's this word remember in the olden days they used to have like a tablecloth like that like a sack and I would put all my food in the in the middle and put the sack like this and carry it on my back that's called he put us together people think is like a tyrant a murderer what no s means that he put all the Jews together to look who puts us together our enemy you saw when you know when we saw taste of that you probably didn't see it in that magnitude sept October 7 wow you should have seen the unity in Israel everybody loving each other you never seen anything like it it lasted a few months I believe it changed a lot in the heavens a lot a lot a lot I'm telling you I saw in ER is the place of everybody hates each other everybody together everybody helping everybody in unity besides a small group of troublemakers which whatever there's always going to be troublemakers there's always going to be background noise but the fact is you bring Unity that's it that's our power so ham got the title why because he got us back together all theot all the problems are coming from one thing separation that's it separation of the hearts that's what brings all the problems any problem you'll ask if you asking yourself why am I having problems only separation this Unity that's the sin of all the problems and not only that that's the sin of the the the essence the root of the sin of the tree of of knowledge why did we see that was tempted by the snake she comes to here eat really it was drink but whatever eat why you giving him commentary says she gave him part of the fruit that if Shalom she would die that he should not meet another woman and marry another woman so you eat too you I die you die too that's where it all starts this K this jealousy the eye is narrow you're looking beyond your eye you can't see good and the same thing with K and heav and the whole thing K why you kill heaven and you own half the world jealousy cuz hasem smiled to Heaven a little bit more on the contrary look at saru you can look at all the matriarchs I'm just giving you one example out of many look at SAR can't have babies can't have a Heritage with her husband you know with m sacrifice what M NE she brings to her husband the maid servant and says okay build a house with her she didn't think of herself she thought the house of Israel needs to be established I'm thinking of myself right now I'm not the vessel I roll it over I take one for the team that's s man and like that was all our forefathers and matriarchs when when the Holy Temple was destroyed came separation the sad reality is the separation came prior to the destruction and initiated the destruction but came even more separation problems and and headaches after that separation what is the remedy that Esther is saying go get all the the Jews together not in some party put them together get them together now how do you get how what type of a task is that I know have to make peace between everybody to like I told you we have four amazing mitv in the holiday of pu let's focus on that and then at the end I'll explain to you why is it so crucial that now you're hearing it because if you don't hit the right button ones then you kind of miss out the whole opportunity so you are the lucky ones that hearing it firsthand like you said Till the video goes online till people see it they get busy tomorrow Shabbat you see this in a week you missed the point already what is so significant that you can point on any every one of these four mitv the first Mitzvah is M we have to read the how do we have to read it you don't read it by yourself you gather as many people as possible in the same room every everybody coming everybody's excited and the kids and everybody and the groggers [Music] and it's not a Mitzvah you do by yourself Shalom you're traveling that's a whole different thing but the Mitzvah is everybody next we have you saw Mish outside you you know what's m I'm going to give you for mine that's it I'm giving you for mine I'm opening my hearts now don't give like some stinky Mish that's like a you know stale bambba that's what I used to get when I was a kid I had the worst M I would bring like the rollro of and I would get back like a half a bag of bambba dried still but is I'm giving you for myself same thing and then I have name not only that I'm giving you from my food I'm also going to give you from my money and at the end at the end I have a feast can you have a feast sitting by yourself no Feast is again a crowd of a lot of people everybody's happy drinking wine eating meat sharing words of Torah music fun kids are running everywhere you understand the theme beh Behind These MIT get everybody together make everybody open their hearts um I don't see you different than me we're equal I'm going to give you you have less I have more you have to understand that these four mitv are the biggest correction the biggest T and rectification to our nation these for mitv in the class that I spoke about before that I gave a few years ago I have explained how these forv how you do it throughout the year which is very very simple m is learning T you have to learn Tora one big mitvah every day you have to learn T whether it's five minutes or two hours or 10 hours every day you have to learn T acts of kindness charity corresponds to theat that's how I do it it's actually more correct that the is acts of kindness and the explains that what do we actually do when we give each other Mish each one of us has a spark that enlight enlivens the the soul so when I we when we exchange Mish man I give you a Shine from my spark and you give me a Shine from your spark and we sharing so to say this Godly light that I have that you don't have and we switching that's really the cabalistic meaning behind Mish manot you really need my sack of oranges or whatever I'm giving you that's not really it's not about the what you eat it's the fact that we're exchanging some Godly spark and that's called These are the four mitv that you have to apply every day in your life to build the solid me what does it mean the solid me that the can't come in you know there's an argument which letter the the Torah was supposed to be starting I have a long class about that from the Zab very in detailed how every letter came to the kadosh and told her and told AEM you should start with me because I'm this and I'm that and and the letter that was chosen is the letter bet you have a a ceiling you have a right a wall you have a base and you have the entrance from the side that's for the to come in now your job is to close that side that's the sealed me that's is not coming in that's my Tabernacle that's my mishkan I do that Hashem dwells in me you know what it means Hashem dwells in me you start flying high maybees maybe prophecy of course hasem dwells in each and every one of us but I want to become a chariot to hem I want dwelling in me but you have to close the left side this called the northern wind where the comes to you and bothers you and causes all the problems so when you're performing this for mitv this is the biggest tun you can reach for your own soul and for the entire nation prepare yourself it's not uh first it's very simple mitv what's the big deal sitting 50 minutes and listening to a story some shes they read it for like 500 miles an hour that's it if you few years ago I I read the M with four hours I never anything like that I'm like guys I'm after a fast I'm like every word I'm not exaggerating four five hours reading the migil last time I'm ever praying with theim [Laughter] love their food but 5 hours so after we dissected the four mitv that are so simple to do you listen to the mea that's it you finished I mean there's all sorts of laws it's not just sitting there and watching Tik Tock while the Milla you have to read listen to every word have to follow the what's the big deal a little bit of money I mean if you want to do their big and different scale no problem and the feast you're having Feast every day on you just add a few a few more things to the menu and make it a nicer Feast we're not telling you now cross the desert for three days so after we dissected these four mitzvot now can you find the connection and the common denominator between these four what's connecting these form is well why our sages decided that's what we need to do in order for me to explain it to you let me explain to you a concept in if a person didn't see his friend for days when he meets him again he should say after 30 days that's if it's a situation that a year has passed and the person the two friends meet after 12 months the person should say bless you the god of the world and forening the dead I wasn't dead you weren't dead what do you mean practically we don't do that don't start saying after you seeing long lost friends friends are not going to be so happy what do you mean do I look dead to you what I'm so pale I'm dead in your life don't don't say that this is old old today before we do not do that but why but why where did they come with say I didn't see you a whole year okay to explain that before we explaining the connection of the let me explain to the so the talud says if a person can lift up by himself 40 pounds and then another person by himself can lift 40 lb now take these two boxes of 40b and put them together and two people lift them up together they can live a lift 100 PB together two and a half times the weight that's what you're going to have for homework tonight see if it actually works okay that's what thear says let me repeat one person can lift a box of 40 PBS person number two lifts a box of 40 lb put the two boxes together add another 20 lb if they lift it up together they can lift 100 lb go home now and try that why I'm not going to now challenge thear but why challenged by going doing it at home I believe tud says I believe where do you see that can you lift up a washing machine by yourself 8 kilos washing machine no two people lift it up together suddenly they're able to lift it up go up the stairs how how can two people lift more when they doing it together the mara commentary on the oral Tor says that when two people love each other to a point that they help each other an angel is created when two people love each other to a point that they help each other an angel is created and what does the angel do helps them that's where the next extra 20 PBS can be lift an angel how long does that angel exist 12 months after 12 months Angel disappears therefore when you see your friend after 12 months you say cuz you asking Hashem to enliven this Angel again because he expired cuz you didn't see a friend for the whole year I'm talking about a true friend so you didn't do any acts together of unity and love the angel expired so you say please enen this Mal anden this Angel it expired such a beautiful angel like I told you before don't say if you want you can say it without name just say that's sufficient have in your mind that but that's not what you need to go out of this door tonight I rather you ignore this and focus on what I'm going to tell you if you can take both better the the job of this Mal of this Angel is to lift the extra 20 lb when two people come together to listen it together you do it by yourself struggle two people together I'll give you 20% 20 it's actually 20 what 25% right how's my math 25% 1 + 1 equal 3 me you and the angel that means that Rim a lot of people that's force can you imagine not two people helping each other 20 helping each other can you imagine the force it's an angel for two pairs you're talking here an army of angels they helping you that's the power of is our power is in our Unity that's why you see now the is doing whatever he can to make us separated that's our power be un united we're Untouchable you separated don't come back and cry interesting I I I enjoy being a father for the last 20 plus years I'm a father I think fatherhood or motherhood for this respect is one of the best education systems for the person who's looking for an opportunity to refine themselves you really want to refine yourself fine and annoying wife and have a lot of kids and trust me you are going to be working day and night on refining your character traits patience patience much more than patience first you need a lot of money then start working on patience the reality is is that I'm saying it now with old Jokes Aside I'm telling you now seriously for me fatherhood I'm not talking about now marriage that's a whole different School it's a school of thought but being a father best school ever I had how to refine yourself to work on yourself to carry for the needs of another that doesn't even bother to thank you in most of the cases ABA give ABA give ABA give ABA give everybody's praising the mothers what about the the poor fathers but nevertheless to be a little bit more serious I find fatherhood very educational and very useful for when I want to work for myself and on top of all that I take every encounter that I have with my kids and I compare it to the relations I have with hem that's the top that you can reach understanding the way of thoughts of Hashem so why am I telling you all this when I see my kids together hugging kissing caring Waring w biggest ever when I see them fighting wow that I especially if two gang up on one that's where I feel the the stabbing deep in my heart deep in my soul deep in my stomach and I can't how can you because I love my kids equally each and every one of them says I know I'm the favorite all seven think they're their favorite they're all favorites they're all my favorite I love them equally but they're different individual different ages and when they don't get along together oh that's like the worst to to see and again why am I saying that Hashem is the same thing he sees us together United you melt his heart you fight with each other like a father like a mother stop fighting how many road trips you had with your kids in the back shut up already but he took and he pushed and shut up work it out but why am I why is that so important you have to have some sensitivity how AEM is looking at us he doesn't understand why you can't work things out why you can't uh have some patience to each other what's the big deal not asking you to marry each other I'm not asking you to be bodies for eternity okay now let me tell you something very powerful that's what the zor says that 30 days prior to PES 30 days prior to PES which is exactly pu of course Hashem remove moves from Kip we are stuck in Kip every day of the year kipa is a negative HK an energy that you fall into captive when Shalom you sin and that energy has control over you and there's different types of kipo different types of energy one of the worst is Amal that's why we have to that's what we we're we're focusing on also in the month in Me is This force that constantly cools you down you're sitting here now so inspired you don't even reach your car all the air went out tomorrow you forgot half of what I said that's the zor says that 30 days before pesem takes from Kip and too that's the time where hem already takes you out I'm saying that as a side note that's enough to be that is in itself enough for me to be happy it's like a I'm getting rid of all the junk puim is established in order for you to prepare the right vessels to receive the light of p and wa what happens on PES why do we celebrate led to commemorate the leaving of EX of of the the Affliction leaving the the H slavery but really what we're commemorating on the night of pesak is a very special Godly light came down to the World on the night of PES and permeated a certain power in this world that any individual throughout any generation can break through from their MIT from their own limitation you're smoking cigarettes you're drinking alcohol whatever but in our generation they're not called really uh uh in in the biblical way it's called addictions we call it limitations in our words it's addictions you can be addicted to your phone you can be addicted to to substance gambling what people have everybody's addicted to something very few people can say I'm clean 100% cuz if you're not addicted to cigarettes or any other substance then it's your phone and if it's not the phone it's something else in your life and most people are addicted to their phone they just in the the the level still of denial listen I know what's addictions I deal with addictions I deal with drug addicts the the the highest of all is when you in in in denial no everything's fine I control my I it's under control so also when you go like this yeah it's under control only five hours on on Tik Tok it's not under control I told you that many many times you're on your phone or going like this more than 10 15 minutes you don't have it under control on the contrary you are a slave to this little brick that's exactly what they had in MIT they slave them hard work you're working hard to make money now nobody works nobody comes doesn't come easy is materialism these are this is bricks so we work hard to make money you make a 100 Grand half you give to Uncle Sam the other side whenever you start spreading money everywhere you're left with nothing and this is the bricks materialism we're materialism and leim you're also carrying a brick in your pocket Mas what what was is what it's going to be King Solomon says nothing new Under the Sun so puim is really the time when you preparing the vessels to receive the light on PES to go out of your slavery to go out of your limitations to absorve this Godly light in the same way that the nations of Israel went out of MIM out of Egypt in the middle of the night you go out of your slavery you go out of your limitations you can get rid of any junk that you need I became observant 22 years ago and I came to the Ring of being observant with any addiction you can just imagine and many many big baggages to deal with three first three years of my chuva life I wasn't even in with yamaka Anda he was just start get first getting rid of all the junk stop lying stop cheating stop cursing stop losing using thou language stop gossiping be honest be less judgmental just start refining yourself and why am I saying that because I was really I dealt with a lot of different types of addictions but I understood that before I get rid of these addictions or let me explain it different before I can serve Hashem I have to get rid of every addiction that I have because if I'm a slave to a cigarette and the entire Shabbat I'm thinking of the cigarette then I'm a slave to the cigarette I'm not a slave to God and that can be with any other thing so in order for me to come and say to hasem I want to be a slave then get rid of all the other junk so again I'm repeating it so you understand on PES comes down a very special Godly light that if you grab it it gives you the power for the rest of the years to fight your limitations fight your fight your addictions all you need to do is sit down on a chair next to a table and read the that's all you need to do you don't have to do anything else read the in the in that order that's why it's called you know the people think it's like organizing no SED means orderes there's an order you do you switch the order you mess the whole thing up sit like a good boy on the chair for two hours read the that's it you get the light but you have to prepare your vessels to receive this light that's porim celebrate puim because puim has one major thing that you need to focus on Unity a situation of unity that's P him and when you have that Unity a month later you'll get your salvation you'll get your freedom 30 days the says before pem removes Kip tells you I'll do it give it for you easy all year wrong you need to fight Amal in you I will remove it now that's enough of a reason to I'm getting rid of this junk it's like the creditors coming and telling you I know you owe 100 Grand give me 30 grand and we cut it even what here t t take the 30 ,000 you're giving me a break for 70,000 that's what's going on because of the unity you are able to receive the light of PES remember that you want to receive the light of PES you need to apply why do you run to receive the light of PES because you're all struggling your you're all struggling your you're all struggling to get better now even if life is shining upon you because life is like a ferris whe one time you up one time you down one time you up one time you're rich one time you're poor that's the the the theme of life that's totally normal but let's say life shines upon you and finance as well health let's say in general things are kind of fine but then you might not realize that but maybe that's the place where you need to grow spiritually and instead of coming one time a day to pray you have to come now three times a day maybe your limitation is in your spiritual growth maybe your limitation your addiction or whatever you B let's say you are in a higher level and you don't have that but it means it doesn't mean that with your spiritual growth you're like a rocket no even without you're dying to pray in can't wake up in the morning want to dress can't think can't figure it out you want to observe Shabbat after 3 hours you're going crazy that's also a type of limitation I want to get rid of something now if you're not in this level then then hey this where we're not on the frame frequency if you're in the same level right now then that it this can you relate with that if you don't relate with what I'm saying then we're talking here about a much worse situation if you don't look at yourself daily and say how can I become spiritually better I want to get rid of a certain sin that I'm doing whether it's gossip whether it's lying whether it's not praying whether it's not being so particular with kosher so of course your mind will give you all the excuses but really you are in a place of limitation that you can't seem to master your your your your behavior and I I'm not allowed to that's a lot of the practice of the Torah you want to but you're not allowed to now stop don't put your hand don't do something that's not so easy and a lot of people who are in the level of refining themselves that's their MIT how do I get rid of a certain sin so I'm just giving you different examples that it will relate to many people I don't know every person in the crowd especially behind the camera some people tell me I don't know what you're talking about I'm I'm I'm in a different level good for you and no nobody can come and say I'm completely free from anything DAV can come and Sayid kill don't you not David don't worry so because of the unity I can get the light of P therefore all the of is about Unity apply the unity ready now now do it and more than that when puim comes I need to accept on myself unconditional love now it's very very H hard because in general you can do it till you meet the person that you really don't want to that person that stole from you cheated you slandered you whatever that person did to you and you're like no I'll help the entire world but him okay so that's your answer that's the that's the problem not the entire world the person you don't want to help now how do you accept on yourself on puim and I'll go the extra mile by saying the Mitzvah how do you accept on your the Mitzvah on Pim of loving other person unconditionally you want to go if you want to go with the program if you're not interested in what I'm saying then there's no point don't follow but if you are interested then you need to apply you need to take on yourself on the day of Purim exactly like the rabbi said two weeks from now you have to take on yourself I'm going to have unconditional love to any individual that comes and needs my help or my assistant or my patience or whatever it is how do you do that by asking yourself how can I make another person's life a better and it's not about money I know lot of people write away think oh my God he's going to ask me to give money not always money sometimes it's enough by smiling to a person good morning the doorman the person in your work it doesn't matter a stranger but when you have constantly in your mind how can I make another person's life better that's it that's how you're taking on yourself the Mitzvah I'm going to have unconditional love and you have to pay a lot of attention if you listen what I'm saying is not so easy to do but that's what needs to be done whether you want to or can do it that's a whole different thing first listen to the information then then we'll see our say that a person should say after after the bed time shma which I know many people don't say that but if you want to reduce 50 to 80% of your problems in your life say every day I explained that I've been saying that for last 20 years the ones who do it they nod the ones who don't do it that's another one of your limitations by the way I'm tired it's too long I'm already done I brushed my teeth and if you can be half an hour to 5 hours on Facebook Instagram Tik Tok and watching junk you can't pray for five minutes a prayer that will change your life I'm not tell I'm not saying it as a as a trying to promote something for free and I explained it in the past I'm not going to elaborate on that but if you're not saying you're missing out you are most of your problems is because of that and when I'm saying problems internal issues emotional issues psychological issues health issues why because at night your soul leaves the body and if you don't keep guards next to the body the body is dripping of Holiness cuz the soul was there the whole day and once the soul leaves the body at night everybody is the same thing then all these forces of evil they see this body you know leaking of Kusa they jump into the body of these and spiritual entities then you come back in the morning you have all such a junk in your in your body spiritually then people have all sorts of nightmares and I'm not talking about mental issues that's for sure but basic things nightmares confusions how do you call it when you fear anxieties all these anxiety what are you getting anxiety for ah because your your body is full of junk not your soul right now now when you say besides many other things that's it read read the the the the prayer I'm placing guards around my my bed all night I'm sleeping guarded I wake up in the morning like a lion if you wake up in the morning after 5 6 7 12 15 hours and you're tired your soul didn't go to a good place at night great said theim sleep 1 hour they wake up in the morning like on steroids why because the soul went to the right place at night got the the fast charge not the slow charge that I was now on the plane I came from Israel 13-hour flight I came with 20% on the phone I plugged it in I go off the phone 20% it charged 13 hours you charge 20 60 20% in my home I put it in the wall 20 minutes the phone is charged same thing here say go up to sh you get fully charged in one hour one hour you wake up in the in the morning after8 hours of sleeping you're tired just know your soul didn't go to a good place at night and so you tired and you'll blame it on a million and one things I have pressure from work the kids kept me up no so say after you said and a big part I'm telling you the protection to the B is also for doing to repent clear out all the junk you accumulated the whole day and many other things and listen you you know if you're going to wake up tomorrow so at least repent do chuva I don't know if I'm going to get wake up I'm giving you my spirit say that after you say you need to sit I mean doesn't matter right now if on a chair the couch or the bed by the way you don't set it on the bed with your teddy bear and pajamas it's a prayer when it says Al means close to when you're going to bed to say it with your clothes in the living room you can say it in abet if you must then sit on bed with your pajamas but nevertheless after you say that what you need to go through in your mind is asking yourself who can I help tomorrow and how am I going to do that that's how you go to sleep you go to sleep by saying you know what oh I know those that family they need money tomorrow I'm giving them a check under the door oh that person needs some advice I'm going to give him half an hour or whatever it is but the night before you're already setting up what am I going to do kindness tomorrow now again like I tell you in every lecture if you nod besides a neck ache you don't do anything you can agree with what I say you cannot you can take notes if you don't do it you lost the reward that you could have ripped of what you were supposed to do like I told you smart people smart people listen and apply so it's very nice that you agree with me or not but this if you don't apply it then I'm going to be rude and ask you so why' you came why' you come we didn't we're not serving food so you can't say we came for the food you obviously came to hear some uh words of inspiration so I can apply that so apply now after you do that and you saying how can I help another person that's how you go to sleep can you not with Tik Tok and not sleeping like this and with your Netflix or whatever it is you must be on this junk don't do it before you go to bed for what your mind to be full of this junk your whole night all your dreams are weird needless to say the the the the how it's affecting you now like I told you when a person does kindness with another person I told you before you create an angel the angel that helps to carry the weight for you now I know it may be sound to some people farfetch creating an angel now come on okay if if you're still in the place of come on then there was a lot of big distance between us but yeah you create an angel enjoy it and like I told you you why because I worry about you I'll give you now 5 Seconds to think about it and think with yourself when was the last time you worried about somebody and I'm sure very quickly you'll be like two hours ago or five hours ago or you might say too long too long that I worried about somebody now to worry about your wife your kids your parents that's not big bravery worry about people you don't really like start with the ones you don't really know but you have to worry about the ones you don't really like that's where you need to take it and like I told you and why because from that from one you make two you multiply the more you add love and unity in the nation of Israel and in the entire world can you argue with something like that can you see anything negative can come from that no so why not do that what's the proof of what I'm saying take now one paper you know how easy it is to Gip the paper like this it's one paper take now seven papers a little bit harder take Now 50 papers together you can rip it that's it one two three easy to rip to separate them a lot together power it says in the shalom what's the best vessel for blessing peace you want blessing in your life has to be peace now I will ask you the million dollar question how do you do it everything that you said now sounds like music to my ear now what do I do what do you want me to do start being nice to other people what's what what's the Practical advice so I'll ask you a question what's the difference between aive person and a dead person the live person has a whole system 247 not stopping for one second an entire system that is working in conjunction with each other Hearts lungs kidneys everything liver all working together like an amazing machine the heart is pumping blood and the veins are taking the blood to the organs and from the liver and unbelievable machine working like a perfect machine that's a live person what's a dead person when the limbs and the organs have got to a place of such disunity then the body collapses already cuz what happens when one organ doesn't function the right way meaning it doesn't work well with the others the whole body becomes sick so one times it's your lungs one times it's your heart one times it's I don't know whatever your blood your liver your one organ doesn't function the right way not only in its own functioning meaning it's not communicating right with other organs that's where the whole problem starts because the organs are not communicating with the right way if you're alive and well the organs are working with each other perfectly the nerves the brains the blood everything digesting system unbelievable machine when you really want to see the greatness of hasem look at the human anatomy unbelievable rejuvenating cells you cut yourself it it heals itself I mean really when you're looking their human body man and woman come together a baby's developing in the mother wom really when you're thinking about it you go you can you're like wow so a live person organs are working and functioning in conjunction perfect a dead person doesn't have that the organs don't work why because if initially one organ stopped working then the other one stopped working and the other one stopped working and then eventually all stopped working all the problems of every individual is physically is when the organs don't work together peacefully or in conjunction or communicating with each other then that's when the person becomes sick the body is working well something do some malfunction the body becomes sh sick no working together the organs and when there's Unity between the organs not only that the person is alive he's healthy and everything's great saying in other words all year I have to be all year I'm I'm I'm commanded to be serving AEM now does that mean that I have to be smiling all day long and laughing no that's that's nobody is expecting you to laugh and be with a smile all day long but when you come to serve hem has to be with great joy that's it it's time to pray that's it I remove everything most people don't apply that because I'll give you one example out of many you are about to eat the sandwich most people won't eat the sandwich because they don't want to wash for bread now and say they'll find The M sandwich the pizza they'll drive 45 minutes to the other side of town to find a Mot Pizza just not to save three and a half minutes B the grace after meal here's a perfect example that you want you are commanded to do a mitvah and you're not happy to do it if I would come and tell you now say the grace after meal the I'm giving you $10 million he would say it's singing Because you get $10 million so I'm coming now and telling you say the grace after meal say the you're getting equally to$ 500 trillion dollar in spirituality but why am I giving you this example because if you don't run R to do theah with great joy that's where you failing in not serving with great joy and happiness nobody's expecting you to walk in the street all like this or to get take how do you call it laughing gas and laugh all day long that's not serving AEM that's being a fool you are called to do a Mitzvah do it gladly are you glad to run to every mitzvah you running to the Mitzvah you you're doing a Mitzvah with this big smile on your face you feel like the biggest honor that you have the Merit to serve AEM no so that's where you need to get you need to get to the point that I'm serving Hashem with great joy the entire year I'm commanded to be happy now comes ad I have to increase in happiness how so the answer is not what you want to hear I know a lot of people want to hear the back door how do you increase joy in ad and how do you perform the Mitzvah of being happy the entire year by unity there's no other there's no loopholes when you are nothing bad can happen all the forces in the world that work against you is your own sins I'll say it again all the forces in the world that go against you you ever saw that there's like a hole in the sidewalk hundreds of people walk nobody Falls one person walks and falls in there why that's the bad things that happened into your life I how it didn't happen to everybody else happens to you why because of your behavior your sins don't complain to anybody any Misfortune that you have I would say now for the sake of being safe 95% of your Misfortune you you were you're the cook you're the architect to the problem don't start blaming the entire world take responsibility so how do you cause yourself to be entire year by unity very simple and how I mean it's very easy to say okay be in unity but you need how the Practical advice how to do it you have to fix what's called your your intellect you can't come to be so to say when I'm saying Unity is like I told you you love people unconditionally you don't see colors race height faiths he did something to me he didn't say something to me he trashed me he's he's there nothing to do with it it doesn't matter what you did to me and if you did or who you believe in or who you follow oh you know I was now invited I'm here now a whole week in Miami next after that a all week in New York I invited to one location to give a lecture and the lady told me in a nice way I I didn't know if to laugh or I know she told me listen a lot of the congregates in the in our congregation all the people they're Democrats so don't talk anything about Trump what no we don't want to you know as it is it's very sensitive and we don't want to you like me or don't like me or treat me or mistreat me because whoever I voted for a president not that I'm a trump supporter don't get me wrong don't think I'm like walking now and making Great America great again I don't see any difference from any world leaders for me they're all the same I don't support world leaders I support Hashem I support the Torah I support mashia not some puppet that now as a all the leaders of the world are puppets and it's not I'm saying it in the in the way of like you know conspiracy I'm talking about the fact when a person becomes a king in this world can be a president he becomes 100% the puppet of hem Hashem moves the leader mouths that's the ultimate puppet Kings in the hands of hasem that's how the the the the the script says but to like me or dislike me or help me or don't help me because who I support or who I voted or who I that's the nonsense you know hasem showed us on October 7 the the result of this unity and how did he show us that because you know the theme that was very very obvious in October 7 people ran into the fire to save other people people ran into the Kim with a gun with a few bullets when you have 60 terrorists with the AK-47 they like but would you run with one gun yeah to save another person the ne the life sacrifice of people how ran to save other people people from the mosim around drove into the party there to help people one guy I don't know they say he did like I don't know dozens and dozens of going into the party loading like 20 people on his pickup truck running away bringing them to safety going back Hashem says I you wanted to be not United I'll show you what it means not to be United why do you have to wait to such of a point now you think when people ran into the fire to help other people you think the the the soldier or the the police officer or The Medic or any person came to the wounded person on the floor and tell them do you support Trump or not I don't okay I'm not saving you I know it sounds ridiculous but you think when you see such a thing you questioning the person if he's Democrat or or or republican or in Israel small you don't question in this point you think you're coming to somebody laying on the ground oh I'm sorry your skin is way too dark for me to help you in this situation you don't uh look at Faith you don't look at religion you don't look at color you don't look at anything soem is teaching us the hard way you're not going to do it naturally I'll force you to do it so like I told you all the forces in the world that come against you is your sins don't blame anybody and you know why you getting upset or blaming it's the same effect of a dog the dog gets hit by the stick the dog gets upset at the stick it doesn't get upset at the person who's holding the stick so comes a person that does something to you cheats you in business dumps you before the wedding cheats on you Slanders you uses you insults you hurts you and now you're upset so you're like a dog you're upset at the stick you're not upset at the person who's waving the stick the person who's coming to do something bad to you that's just the axe in the hand of the wood Chopper or the tree Chopper like I said million times nobody can move in this world without hasem allowing it somebody did something bad to you Hashem allowed it and if you think differently you're a heretic can you can you fa fathom a person working individually going bypassing a hm think about it nobody can bypass hasem so you think somebody can do something to you without hm proving it so if you do something bad to me and I gave you a short list now a minute ago why would I be upset at you I'm upset at the stick I'm looking to who's holding the stick ah so hasem allowed you to hurt me insult me take from me cheat embezzle lie whatever it is nobody can do anything to you without hasem allowing that which means that instead of being upset at the stick go to the source why is AEM allowing that what did I do not what that person did you coming and doing something bad to me you're a nobody I don't even see you I see why is a shing sending a messenger FedEx brings you a a broken box you upset at the messenger you call the the the the company I got my the item was damaged now how do I correct this how do I change myself how do I refine myself in that respect because if you if anything that I just said now that's not you congratulations and try to maintain it because that's where hasem is going to test you but the sad reality is that I would say 99% have the love the unconditional love to many except a b and c why a b and c these are the ones who are you need to now open the doors to that annoying person in your life that annoying worker your co-worker the boss the neighbor the family member the stepson the it doesn't matter there's always going to be the one who's annoying you stands in your way I can't stand this guy why now you might be the one out of a thousand or 100 thousand that you're not that you're like no I accept everybody I respect everybody and then listen you step on my toes you'll get a reaction but other than that abah ainu welcome maybe you are one of so good for you but the reality is that most people have these individuals that they can't stand and it can happen with random people that you don't even know so how do I correct this how do I change this every time that somebody insults me every time that somebody steps on my toes or slanders me or lies about me or uses me or whatever do cha stop and say okay I must have done something what I need to correct something I don't look at the person who did something to me I don't go to the person who went and slandered me and I'm a good example you know when people trash me you know when people slander me you wouldn't even believe you might be the lucky ones who don't hear that a lot of people so that time when somebody hurts you misuses you cheats you whatever you got the point you don't do anything but you repent I must I must have done some sin and Hashem is sending me this warning right now sending me this person to bite me so what do you do we listen to Esther's advice go get all the Jews together has to be Unity has to be love has to be we're working together like organs in conjunction I don't care who you voted I don't care your political views I don't care if you sin if you don't sin if you're observant you're not has nothing to do with me I don't value you or any other person based on your behavior based on when you came it's it's a human being first of all you're a human being tell tell you know you're God you created in God's image you going to try to kill me I'll kill you before that's what the Torah tells me to do you want you come me to kill me I'll wait for you and I'll kill you before I have no problem but other than that you're not my enemy how do you get get to a point that you actually love another person that or you don't know at all or that did bad to you or or or or how do you love such of a person I mean you could love your husband your well a lot of people don't really love their husband but but how do you love some of the women [Music] like that same you love your husbands a lot of them you love your parents you love your kids when you love somebody it's easy now try start doing it when you don't love someone so how do you how do you reach to that level of love you chant in your mind nobody ever did anything bad to me not you not you nobody did anything bad to me a call is from everything is from Hashem I'm not the I'm the one who's wrong can you do that you have to do that because every time something bad happens to you you do not say he did that to me the business deal worked or it didn't work the match the shid the dating didn't work whatever it is HEM Hashem did that you didn't do anything to me like David says you know you know the story David the king this guy shim goes and and and and abuses him verbally curses him insults him in public you have been comes the the the Minister of Defense comes to pull out his sword kill shim you go against the king tells him no no no no no Hashem told him to curse hasem that's David he didn't look at himself why is this person cursing me he says nobody ever did something bad to me can you say nobody ever did something bad to me it's everything from Hashem when you reach to that level I'm going to I'm promising you're going to be the happiest person in the world doesn't matter where what's your situation you're going to reach to a completely different level the day you're going to say nobody ever did anything wrong to me everything is from him I'm the one who's not okay do that you'll have a happy life happy marriage Happy Everything taking responsibility instead of blaming the entire world all the of are unity mik reading the Mig everybody together in the same room it's all Unity hasem is telling us that's the key hasem is not telling you you have to love everybody and be fake and I'm not telling you to be fake you don't like a certain group of individuals move away from them you don't like this community move away don't trash that Community don't trash the congregation just move away nobody did anything wrong that's not my place I don't need to hate anybody when I hate anything or anybody I'm the one at fault cuz I'm carrying the hate in me so I'm carrying negative charge negative energy because I dislike another person now there's no one person on this planet that is worth me getting upset that's it that's how I see it nobody has the value in this world to get me out of my calmness and if you were able to do that I'm the I'm the problem and I this is coming out from the mouth of the person that 25 years ago if you would look at me the wrong way I would beat you up well I have to look at the men not the women then but I was so rude and so vulgar and so violent and so you know going from a zero to 60 in a second just don't just look at me the wrong way can you imagine now changing that it's a very very high level that you accept that you are the wrong one and even if you're not but obviously there's something it takes two to tangle how do you really reach to this level of unity it's called thinking of Chua some situation happen I don't get angry I don't get upset I don't get judgmental I don't start trashing the person over town I started doing chva what I did something I contributed to this problem one way or another and even if I didn't do it in a direct way then through my negative actions and my sins I caused it I brought this negativity on me this law of attraction I brought it on me so when hasem is talking about you have to be in unity no nobody's expecting you to be fake you don't like a certain group of people when I'm saying a certain group seari askanazi breast kabad it doesn't matter you don't like my grandmother taught me something very valuable you have nothing nice to say don't say anything she used to say it in a little bit more a rude way she says if you have nothing nice to say shut up but you know it's great advice you have nothing nice to say don't say anything you think I like the entire world you think every person that I meet I like them no I don't agree with most people their opinion their approach everything what they say how they say I might not agree with you but I don't dislike you I also don't like to dislike our enemies because hasem is sending them on us because we need to get our act together I don't have any enemies I'm my own enemy I'm the enemy so how do you get to this level of unity it's called I'm I'm at fault somebody did something don't get exploded in anger in a second and a half and start picking up the phone and trashing that person all over the internet I I did something wrong take responsibility do chuva you can't go wrong with doing chuva why because when a person is a Critic to his own actions Wow have you ever tried to be a Critic to your own actions most people are critic to other people's action look how she's dressed look how he's walking did you see that and be a critic on your own actions when you do that you ask yourself what am I what what am I doing wrong this is a very high level it's very hard to do I'm telling you I'm trying not trying doing it for years and years and years because I always what the energy was directed that way but I figured out no I don't need to like everybody that's the misconception of and you different than me accept it I'm different than you you're different than me I don't dislike you cuz you're different like all the organs can you imagine the heart talks to the to the kidneys and the kidneys talk to the liver and the liver to the to the lungs they're all working together to do the job we are working together to do the job you don't need to like me you don't need to like anyone you you're here to do the job get the job done like I told you with Sarah it's not about me it's about getting the job done soem says I want you to live in unity it means that yeah you need to give in you need to give up a little bit you need to be less judgmental less critical don't look at people with such a narrow eye and again many can come and say listen I'm not in this club congratulations mazalov or you might be able to say that to the people you like let me put you in a in a situation with people you don't really like let's see how Pious you are how much you can hold your tongue and now trashing because that person did something I'll give you one quick story and then I'll I'll finish to emphasize what I'm saying many years ago and I'm going to remove those the details that should not be but many years ago I went to invest in in a certain uh software was a lot a lot of money we found the individual everything looked well in the beginning the person looked highly highly er er knowledgeable and can do the job and a year later and a quarter of a million dollars later we had nothing in the hand nothing and of course came all the excuses from the developer you changed this you changed that you did this you that a whole year you had the chance to make a long story short very quickly I understood that that's it the money you can say goodbye to the money this person is not going to do the job but I'll tell you what was the problem CU of course everybody who I consulted sue him take him to the B the problem was I'll tell you what was the test not losing the money the problem was that that individual prayed in the sameet that I prayed and I was the gab of the besset and he was the only levie in the besset so I had to call him up to the Torah four times a week and give him a blessing and nobody knew what's going on can you imagine the test here forget about the the the money I mean just that you understand 3 months we're arguing in this after 3 months of quiet he sends me a message you still have a balance of $30,000 excuse me I told him you better run away I'm going to come and rip your head off what are you talking about you you I have a $30,000 balance I gave you close to $400,000 and you didn't even give me bobas I I'm I'm telling you it it's the level of the test here and then to top it all Hashem has a very interesting sense of humor that person moved into my building every day in the morning the elevator opens ding he's there and worse than that later on very shortly after his son became ill with cancer can you imagine how you have to hold yourself not to be happy that's oh now he's getting it back can you know can you imagine to bite your tongue and pray for the health of the child and not to be angry at the person and look at him in sure and call him to the Tor and give him a blessing nobody knew anything about this thing from the community from the sh nothing that was one of the big big tests I had 15 years ago me and my wife a whole year forget out the money and the attitude and everything but you know what was the key to pass this test instead of throwing all the blame on him he cheated me he screwed my me out of my money he's the one he he he he the attitude had to be thank you Hashem that it's only 400,000 and not 4 million and it's probably for the millions that I embezzled 30 years ago now I'm getting a taste of my own medicine instead of becoming angry it made me humble Hashem is giving me now what I deserve he wasn't the problem and even look at him as a problem he was nothing he was air it took months of removing this from your body and seeing the person in front of your face you want to reip him to pieces can you imagine the sleepless nights and the anxiety and the F and the trick here even between me and my wife we wouldn't even talk bad about them we would just talk whatever we need it was one of the biggest tests I had in the last 20 years Hashem was testing me but the key was he's not at fault that's myON that's my karma that's my path happen to be that the players on the way that's who Hashem chose the key was not to have one ounce of hate towards that individual and had all the reasons in the world you took my money you took this you did and you know what everybody told me sue him you'll get millions out of millions there he like as if he has millions what am I going to get if I sue him what if I'm going to get if I'm going to take it to a b to the Jewish courts so why am I saying that how do you reach to a very very high level of unity is that you like that person you pray for him you care for him even though he did bad things to you why because you don't put any responsibility on him you saying no all the bad things it's him that person is just the stick why you going to get upset at the stick that's where your your your true love to another is tested not your family or friends or people who did good to you Shem will throw a person into your life with a situation where you're saying it's me I'm the problem not easy and why did I tell you before why because when you are the critic of your own actions when was the last time you critiqued your own actions usually you're the good one and everybody else is at fault now be the judge of your actions I shouldn't have said that I'll go and apologize I shouldn't how many times you come in in a cation says I should have done I shouldn't said that and it happens just the other day I was in a situation I lost my temper went out on my son he was just standing there and very quickly I told him I'm sorry I didn't mean you were you were in the range sorry just had to go out you you not at fault when you use the eye of belief it's called that you see a situation and such that that's what hasem wanted to happen you're not trying to find who's at fault because of this I should have done and because of that you look at the situation from a place ofuna of saying okay that's what hasem wanted whatever hasem wants that's going to happen right not me when you're looking at everything with the eyes OFA and understand that everything is from him life is completely different You by default get upgraded to many different levels by default you see things different by default you are healthier happier more successful you go over this mountain that is very hard for most people to go and I know I said a lot of information tonight the cameras go and look at it again as many times as you need this is the opportunity is what you do in that's how you set the entire month you miss the opportunity ofes the entire month will be messed up not successful if you're smartes you make that the best day of the month you do it the right way the whole month the energy of the whole month will be in the right order and things will be smoother easier you'll still have challenges but you'll have Solutions very quick you're not going to lose sleep over that you're not going to lose too much money Hashem will put you in a situation you find the solution and you move on you move on through the challenge but you have an opportunity every is a great opportunity but even more why because the energy of the month of that everything that's happening in the month of is a preparation for the month of Nissan for going out of your that's the biggest thing that can happen to to you and to us as a human race as a nation there's not repetition in the Tor as many of the times of everything that you do for remember that we R out of Egypt you do let's remember that we went out of Egypt everything that you do let's remember we ran out of Egypt and it's not the historical event it's the fact that we ran out of bondage out of slavery we were able to go out of the kipa so I dropped a lot of bombs I know there's a lot of information I know sometimes the mind doesn't digest very well the situation the the information that's why we have cameras review it over and over again every little part here because that's the key to your happiness not that the financial burden will be removed not that the health issue will be removed not that you'll find the your man or woman of your dreams and everything will be that's not what's going to solve the problems and bring you happiness was going to bring you happiness is way from inside and the challenges will stay there everything is from him don't get upset at anything don't get upset at yourself I shouldn't have said and why did I say and I should don't get upset in any other person when you're getting upset like as if you're giving the control of your body and soul to all the entities of Gom you are becoming the Chariot of Gom coming out from the M of the person that I'm telling you I would go from 0 to 60 in anger in a second you just look at me the wrong way I would lose it my friend used to call me bmom boom is is a punch pom suddenly no preparation like I'm going to let me take my jacket off and why am I saying that not that I'm proud of how I used to behave I'm more proud of the fact that I was able to put this under control to get to a point that nothing gets me upset and if you get me upset I am the problem not you and every now and then hasem will send me that this annoying person like a mosquito in the summer [Music] night every few weeks every few months Hashem will send me that person and it will do and then now all the systems have to start the sensors have to start thinking what to do how to relate with this how to what's the here what's the test here so we have an unbelievable opportunity ones the reason why our sages say he I gave you a few good reasons why we increase in happiness but we increase in happiness because Hashem like I told you Hashem removes the kip of Amal he helps you with that you have a 90% discount you have aem's back in in this month all you need to do is arouse hashem's excitement there's only one key to that Unity that's it and again it doesn't mean that you have to make fake parties that everybody's pretending to be happy and nobody's asking you to pretend I told you exactly what you need to do and Hashem will bring you the opportunities where there's going to be certain individuals where you're going to have to activate the entire system that I told you don't get angry don't get upset don't lose your control don't don't don't don't don't I am the problem what do I need to fix what do I need to change in the story I told you that I had to with this guy that's what was going on in the mind what did I do oh I stole money in the past now I'm getting it straight back to my face oh I need to do this I need to not talk about him all day long was what do I need to do it's not him instead of thinking all day long how am I going to sue him all day long I would think what do I need to do how I'm going to react next time I see him I don't want to fail inom don't want to fail in anything else why should I now bring on myself this this entire disaster so the point is that when you want to to change your life you want to bring more joy and happiness and tranquility and peace and you want to bring all this into your life I just gave you the key to to all your problems that's the key to all the problems and puim comes and tells you focus on these four in order for you to activate it and by default you are building vessels to receive the light on P so you will go to a much higher level you'll be able to know how to deal with all these issues without getting upset and discouraged and angry really you're doing it for yourself you're doing it for the entire world but you're doing it to yourself now I know a lot of people will try that for 3 weeks and then say it didn't work when you abuse the system for 60 years it's not going to be fixed in one action it sometimes requires 5 6 10 years to put it into a fake don't get discouraged you can't change 50 years of your life and your your entire energy around you with one little change it will come throughout the time but that's what we need to do it's not an option here you have to do it you have to reach to that point and when you do that by default you're all the time happy why call everything is from him all the problems is from him and when hasm gives me a problem he's waking me up must have gone the wrong way I'm not focusing on something hasem is shaking me when you understand everything is from him how can you not be happy something bad comes from hasem if I now have a little kid three four years old he goes and picks up a very sharp knife from the table and a parent right away grabs the knife out of the child's hand the child now screams cries has a tantrum on the floor you're the worst father in the world but I just I I did something good for you I always give the same example I once went with my son to a dentist he was a little boy four years old now imagine the trauma for the little little boy a man with a scary mask and these binocular and all this for little boy it's like traumatizing now so he didn't want to sit quietly so I had to sit on the chair put him on me and hold him tight now I'm the monster now the doctor is the killer I'm now we went out of the dentist the my son tells me you're the worst father in the world I hate you don't ever talk to me so I bought him ice cream and that's it he forgot everything but now take this entire encounter the four-year-old doesn't know that I'm and doing something good for him he experiences a little bit of pain that the doctor does but really I took my son to remove the pain to fix the problem I know it hurt I know it was discomfortable don't hate me I did something good for you the doctor did something good for you we all did something good for you okay so you had a little bit of pain asthma and that's what has does he gives you a little bit of pain you start whining complain training says I did I helped you you don't see it but I did something good for you so it hurt a little bit one of my kids is going through something right now and my wife told me I'm heartbroken I'm this I'm that I'm like good how can you say such a thing I said because that's what's going to shape this child how do you get better in life CU you went through challenges you went through issues where do you change yourself when you reach to the bottom and you understand okay it's me everybody has to go through it you have to grow I know it's hard to see my child struggling but the mother is in pain I'm good let them let they at some point they're going to have to deal with AEM that's what I tell my kids I'm out of the picture you have to deal with AEM you know how to deal with theem no you don't trust me you rather deal with me but that's it you have an issue go now go deal with AEM I did my best I don't I I I don't now complain to you for my I take responsibility I know I'm one day I'm going to have to deal with AEM if you don't have that in the back of your mind you have a serious issue in your life the says let's see no half the sh is know who you standing in front of one day you're going to stand in front of hasem are you prepared for that then prepare yourself soem does good things to you sometimes it hurts as no pain no gain you go to the how do you call it the gym where you think you're going to sit a leg crossed leg have a cup of coffee and you'll W walk out all a muscular and in shape you have to sweat you have to carry heavy loads you have to work hard but the the result same thing here so now we have an opportunity what you doing with this information depends on you you have AES now you have now the opportunity to tap into the system start your entire month the right way I gave you a lot of things to do you decide what you can handle you can handle I told you say go ahead start saying it every night but start tonight because if you delay to tomorrow you won't say tomorrow I told you our sages explain after prepare how am I helping somebody tomorrow do that everything that I say do it Pim is around the corner prepare yourself where am I going to sit in the in the time of the M let me go to a where I love everybody that I Shalom should see the one who did something to me and I'm gon to get upset cuz he he's in the crowd buy yourself a nice M life you can can afford it learn the a little bit look you learn some invest something I just walk in after a fast and wait for the cookies you have to do theah prepare it now don't don't give some bag of chips something nice don't leave it for the last minute but not put some money aside I have to help M invest you have two weeks to do that you have two weeks now to start sitting every night and doing chuva and now starting to analyze every situation that is in my life Am I Wrong what can I do how can I fix things you know why it's called you sorry you know why the day of CHA is called Yim yum is like puim Yim the holiest name of the year is like which means that when I achieve on y I can achieve 10 times more on por and I don't need to fast on the contrary stuff yourself drink wine meat enjoy that's how much you can achieve you have two weeks to prepare yourself mentally emotionally physically financially whatever you need to prepare for this great day of puim where you don't need to do much it's not like a PES now doing a little s and cleaning your entire house now you have to clean yourself a little bit come to pu him in the right attitude I'm telling you Hashem is going to take any decree that is hovering against you and it will switch it you have any issue that you can think of financial burdens lawsuits anything that you can think of what's says I'll switch it each and every one of you can think for a second or two or day or two there's something in my life that needs to be transformed like from black to white like 180° not like you think what in your life you need to switch 180 degrees and you're saying AEM that I'm doing my part I'm leaving that part to you there might be some bumps on the way where the is going to try to make you disbelief or give in very quickly but I'm telling you never give up and on what I'm saying do it another time and another until you reach to that point where you in such peace inside because you're in high level of unity now I can tell you straight out I don't like most people I don't like what they believe what they do their actions I'm talking about people in the entire world I don't hate anyone I don't trash anyone I don't judge people I what I'm telling you now I've been doing for the last 20 years to be able to tell you that's what hasem puts you in this world to refine yourself and every now and then we have an supicious time throughout the year to to get help with that so if you're smart you sit with yourself for five minutes and you're saying what situation in my life I want to reverse to completely change what's the situation in my personal life and what's something globally that I want and then you act towards that and if you put your heart to it you'll see that Hashem will do that I'm telling you I can I can't even count the amount of Miracles that hasem did to me in a revealed way in a way that I'm like humble shocked and I I can't even stress enough when you're giving hem the opportunity he'll change the entire world for you you think Hashem has an issue can do whatever he wants whenever he wants however he wants in ways that you can't even fathom why I can't even believe that hasem do that did that I give you one example out of many in a situation that we have now in Israel with a certain legal situation everything looked Against All Odds somehow the lawyer of the the the proecu it's not it's a it's a civil matter but the lawyer of the other side gave probably some assistant to send documents to the defense attorney and by mistake sent a lot of documents that were secret that shouldn't have been seen and by the lawyer showing these documents to the judge the whole case changed completely and you tell me that's not a Shem taking that paper and putting it in the right place that the the lawyer was like oh my god this is my case that's a Shem taking papers switching from that's only hm it's not anything else that's hasem saying you want the situation to change in this matter you do what you need to do I'll show you how I can turn black to white day to night you giving Hashem the opportunity you life is just a life of Miracles but you have to give hem the opportunity and what's the opportunity everything that I said in the last two hours take the notes apply that you'll see that your entire life is running on Miracles things will go through your face and you're saying only hasm can do that only hasem can change the situation that so you have an opportunity p is coming KES is now puim is coming how much opportunities we have but now it's what required from you is to do it yourself nobody will do nothing for you you have to do something now you have the answer you have the tools you have everything now you do something like I told you when there's no hate when there's no hate you have to reach to that person when there's no hate and everything is peaceful that's when Hashem starts having Mercy on us now right now I you I don't I don't have to tell you that you see it with your own eyes you see that the the wire is stretched Hashem is like already listen I add it up to here already it's a lot of decrees against us as a nation as the human race we want to remove all these decrees you see what's going on in Israel you see what's going on in many other places these are decrees against against our nation and hasem can like in pu in one second switch everything one second one action your life changes just need to give the opportunity to Hashem hasem will do it for you all you need to do is just follow everything that I said now I'm not asking you to remember that I'm asking you to watch the video again unless you took notes some people are smart they take notes but go out of this room tonight with a decision what am I doing you didn't okay you came here sat here and didn't give you any food you didn't give you any anything you're just sitting here and which I actually wonder if you're not planning on taking something out of the room so why did you come you could have gone with a rabbi to the wedding and had good food so hopefully you smart and you're saying okay I came here I invested the time I sat here I drove from North Carolina or South Carolina right you flew in you drove you have to drive with some souvenirs right why'd you come here if you didn't come to change then then you're losing you not only that you lost the opportunity but you could have gain why why' you come go like this and face or whatever junk you watch but you all good people with with Souls that want to change I just gave you the recipe to the change and the recipe is nobody ever did anything wrong to me everything is from him the good the bad the success the failure the happiness The Joy the suffering when you reach to that point nothing is bad in your life and that's where you open the door to Hashem to start transforming your entire life your life changes instead of struggling all day long instead of finding for Solutions Hashem gives you all the solutions you just need to do what you need to do and I'm telling you I thousands and thousands and thousands of encounters and stories just on myself and that's half my my classes half my videos online is the Miracles that hasm does to me and I come and explain that and hasem does miracles to you you just don't see that intervened I want to wish you I want to wish you P so many so many happy to wish you but I'm wishing you that you should be successful in your decision tonight and every other night to do chuva to change your path to refine yourself to fulfill many many many wishes of hem that the greatest of all one is serving hem with the joy and happiness with all the hard times with all the negativity in your life and your challenges and when you focus when you think you can change something in your life you're a fool you can't change anything in your life only hasem can change situations you can change your your behavior you can refine Yourself by default Hashem is going to change situations in your life because Hashem has put you in stress because he wants you to see him in the stress that's where you find AEM sorry to tell you that when you sitting on a $20 million house and you have beautiful cars and a yacht and private jet and everything life is great you don't look for AEM you look to where where do you invest your money and what's the next vacation so Hashem takes some things away for you so you can start looking for hasem that's it find Hashem he'll give you whatever you want hm is not looking to bring people into sickness poverty and suffering is not some tyrant in sham oh you didn't do this I'm going to make you suffer now for 20 years I told you already you are the architect of all your problems you are the problem nobody else not your wife not your husband not your boss not anybody else and when you reach to that level you understand hasem is Hashem is guiding me you think that something bad happened in your life no Shalom you don't even know all all the reasons behind how asem is protecting you and loving you and sometimes it hurts Asma so what so you get a little pinch not that I'm beling in any suffering but I'm just saying okay I told you that Hamman was called the person who got all the Jews together I'm praying to Hashem and I'm asking you let let's get the result of puim without a ham we don't need a Haman to get us together let's get the the effect of puim in our life in my personal life and the entire world without the H we don't need an evil individual to get us together we need to be pulled together because of an evil individual then we lost the the entire the entire thing so I'm praying to Hashem asking you to let let's get the effect of puim and P without a ham this year so I want to wish to you success and I want to bless you with an amazing Roes that the Sim The Joy should just come naturally to youm should bless you with great health and sustenance and Par and from your kids and for you to have true peace in your heart and true happiness in your heart and all these good things like I told you I can bless you all day long but if you don't have the vessel the CLE to receive receive it then you miss everything consider yourself very lucky you're hearing this now on till these videos will go online people are already going to be delayed Shabbat tomorrow and then you misses you have 2 48 hours to to as they say hit the nail on the head you have an opportunity and falls on Shabbat we have a beautiful rodes party I told you that's the lecture explaining more of the power ofes and what you can achieve but I'm telling you now we have 48 hours 48 hours where you can put your hand into the treasure set everything right in your mind make a plan what am I doing this month what's my who am I helping who are the people that I need to forgive who are the people I need to change what am I doing how am I preparing you don't have to do it in an OCD and an erotic way healthy way we're going into a a month where Hashem can easily the mercy can be activated very very easy and if I have some decree hovering over my head and that decree can come in many different ways and the decree is only because of my actions by the way then Hashem says all you need to do is a little bit of love ahem melts you melt hashem's heart suddenly all the Salvation all the all the problems are solved so all his left is to wish you and should bless us with the light of p and as I wished and requested without h [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music]