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so we're going to learn a little bit
more about the of p and after that we're
going to learn a little bit how
to prepare for the L and what's going on
in the L
SED so we left off that before PES we're
going to burn all our kets after we
cleaned after we did everything and we
do the Bika this Sunday
night at least in this year I know
sometimes we do classes about a certain
holiday and then people see it a year
later in the video or two years later
and they get confused so and they email
us what is Tuesday I thought it's
Thursday no no no it's a it's an old
video so so for this year we're going to
do our DEA at on Sunday it's important
to do it on time we spoke about it last
class how it is important to do Thea
right after the Sun goes after the stars
go
out and we went through all that the
next day we burn the
K and it's important also to make sure
you do that on time and uh we went
through all
that now we want to know what's going to
happen if I find kets somewhere in my
possession during PES I open the closet
uh something I forgot something a kid
moved out what happens if I see during P
or of course and it
happens if you
find by mistake by doesn't matter how
you just find it you take it you take it
out out of the house and you burn it you
set it up on
fire
if you have a very small piece what's
called kazite kazite is 29 gr it can be
like a I mean we're not talking about a
crumb right now a piece if it's a piece
you have to remember the measurement
because that's the measurements we're
going to go by in the little set it's
called kazite and kazite is 29
lbs and if you if picture the the the sh
matah you know it's about this size so a
kazite is about something like that give
a take you have to remember it because
in the you have to eat four times kazite
but if you find a piece of crumb that is
this big then you just take it out and
you burn it if you find a big piece that
has minimum 29 grams and you don't have
to start weighing it just have to
evaluate more or less then you actually
have to say
the cuz you're literally burning
the
what happens if you find it during or
during Shabbat of that you can't carry
it and it will
bebat I mean
shabb you will take some type of a
bucket or a bowl put it on it and then
after the Shabbat you can take it out
and burn it but just know that if you do
find during Shabbat
of then you can't carry it
it's what happens if you find it during
the last y of p and you're going to burn
it after
now what's going to happen you're going
to burn it after P so if you're burning
it already after P then you burn it
without a if there's a big amount of it
so if you're finding it dur It's A Small
Piece take it out put it in a can of of
of Olives or whatever it is put it in
and burn it set it up on fire you can
put some oil or anything that is
flamable set it up on fire that it will
burn completely if it's during Shabbat
that you can carry it cover it next day
burn it if it's after p and there's a
big amount you don't
say okay that we did sorry
okay now when does really P ends P ends
after the eth day
of and in the evening
which means all the laws that have to do
with P you carry them till that day some
people say oh we only counting seven
days so p is you have to count the full
eight days and
only that's when p is over not a minute
before that and it's important also
we're going to learn soon about the
selling of the K it's important not to
open the cabinets of the sold KET before
the actual time cuz the rabbis have to
run home and and buy the kets back
a lot of people what what they do they
don't go to shore they come they're
already at home when the holiday is over
they right away run to the to the to the
cabinet to take out the cracker or to
take out the biscuit for not eating the
biscuit for the whole week and they jump
on the biscuit right away so no you have
to wait first of all you have to wait
till the the leaving of the holiday
the then you have to wait certain amount
of time wherever you sell the KET you
have to ask the rabbi when are you going
to buy it back sometimes the rabbi will
tell you I'm only going to buy an hour
after the holiday now usually the rabbis
they know that everybody is hungry after
a whole week of not eating a the
crackers they have the urge of eating
now the biscuit that they hid in the
cupboard before that's what we used to
do in Olden old days we used to already
prepare a
surprise so so right after the you can
break the fast and right away eat a
cracker or something I mean like tasty
like a biscuit or so you need to give
some time for the rabbi to go back to
his
uh his office and buy theet of the the
the non Jew so don't run and jump on the
cabinet just you know till the last
moment of PES plus a good amount of time
for the rabbi to go and buy buy the back
don't don't jump on the cabinets
yet have that a little bit of
aafia you know you survived the week
another hour is not going to make much
of a
difference you know you see sometimes
people on you go next to a pizzeria like
people will will jumping on the pizzeria
like as if Pizza is such a great thing
and you know it's only been a week you
can go another day without the
dough
so it's important to know
that that the end of the holiday I mean
I have to correct what I just said cuz
I'm used to being in America in America
you'll have eight full eight days here
we have full seven days so I apologize I
know most of our students online are in
the diaspora so I also my mind has
already switched to talk to them we
celebrate seven days so don't add
another day here I know you want to be
on one day to add a day on on your diet
but here we celebrate seven full days
and the seventh day is the also
the for our students that are in the
diaspora they celebrate eight full days
so I just have to correct myself here so
all the laws of kets are are in effect
till that moment and we got to be very
very
careful not to jump on our the second
that the holiday
leaves this is another very important
thing is to remember and to be very
careful not to buy KET that was baked or
that prepared in any type of a way by a
Jew during PES and this is a problem
that a lot of people do here in Israel
they keep the law of PES but they'll go
an hour later to a bakery of a Jew that
did not observe the holiday and he
already prepared the pitot 2 hours
before
so it can happen many times here in
Israel that
unfortunately the the Jews here they
don't observe the holiday or they will
observe it but they that's their
business a bakery they'll come an hour
before how would you know you well the
place has to have a heer and if the
place has a certification that is uh
trustworthy you know the place is
completely locked if not he's not going
to get a h but a lot of people are in
the beginning of their Chua or they're
just a little bit H not aware and they
will be like okay I live in a big city I
live like in a city like yat you don't
have it but in yush you'll be okay I
can't I I the whole week I'm dreaming of
the p and they run right away to the
first bakery that is open and they might
have a problem because the bakery was
open during PES and they started cooking
already during PES or
baking so again it's all about
controlling yourself for another 2 three
hours and and not jumping on the K and
I'm saying that because I know that's
what what people do 2 minutes after PES
people are already in line in the
pizzeria shop so I know you're not like
that but it's always good to to remind
you it's also extremely important to
remember that you're not allowed to
enjoy that was in a possession of a Jew
during PES so if you have a neighbor or
a family member that you eat by a lot of
people they they CER their kitchen
especially when they have a family that
eats Co
and they will not eat on P but they
didn't sell
theirs so in in the beginning when I
became religious and my my mom cered her
a house the kitchen was goer so we can
eat there she would not eat K on PES but
she never sold the K on PES so she owned
that K on PES now she and me or anybody
else will have a problem eating there
because the that was owned by a Jew
during P you can't eat it even after P
so you have to be also careful with that
yes you want to ask a question yeah yeah
yeah the um
that was not so is not for one year
until the next where she does things
yeah exactly so I'll repeat what cot
said cuz it's important to know if this
is the the
situation this is very common cuz a lot
of people will go to eat by somebody a
child a family relative a cousin a
mother doesn't matter what it is that
that individual kept PES and that
individual I'm just going to give you
the example of my mother and me instead
of saying that person this person that
person there were years that my mom we
cered my Mom's Kitchen cuz she wanted me
to eat there so the CER the the her
kitchen is 100%
kosher in the beginning many years ago
my father was prohibited to come into
the kitchen my mom did not allow him she
would put like these do not cross this
line ribbons cuz he didn't know the
rules and she was like you're going to
start messing things up so he was
prohibited of coming into the kitchen
which he was very happy because he
didn't have to wash anything he didn't
have to do anything she would do I do
the dishes I wash everything don't come
in so my mom made the the kitchen koser
so I can go and eat there now came PES
and I told her you're not allowed to eat
okay so she didn't eat kets but all of
her kets were still was in her position
possession she didn't sell it now for
the next coming year I was not allowed
to eat that nobody's allowed to eat the
even herself she can't eat this cuz she
owned it during during PES but you not
allow to eat it for the whole year if
you would if it would stay fresh till
the next PES if she sells it so if
hypothetically it's things that are
sealed and somehow they kept their
freshness then if she sold them again
the next year in PES then after that you
can eat it but usually a normal kitchen
does not keep things for more than a
year and if they keep things for more
than a year I do not recommend to eat
there
so that's one thing so just know when
you go to visit a relative that tells
you yes I observed P you can ask did you
sell your kets and if they tell you I
did not sell my kets then all that KET
has to be burnt I mean you would not eat
it can you give it to n you can give it
to an njo but uh if not then you have to
you have to you cannot read it and if
you want to H if if if that person is a
person that's becoming more observant
you have have to tell them that they
can't eat it and they can either give it
to a non Jew or to sell it or to burn
it person says to you I don't keep
any so theing is not
necessary well they still have to sell
their plates and their cups and
everything yeah anything that has the
taste of kets cannot be be a possession
on PES so I am not going to be able to e
in that kitchen not because she didn't
do it and the plates are not exactly or
the meat is not because exactly yeah
yeah there's a lot of rules with there's
a lot of rules with a kitchen that is
kosher but is not observed the right way
that's why a lot of people say I go to
many
houses and people tell me please sit
down and eat with us and I'll and I'll
tell them nicely that I
when I can't eat in their kitchen so
they will tell me I've been to houses
they will tell me I'm vegan so there's
no meat and there's no
Dairy and and even in that case it's not
good because I would tell them I I'm
sorry I can still can eat because you
didn't take your dishes to the
mik whether you eat just carrots all day
long it doesn't matter if you have a
knife to cut the carrot the knife had to
go to the mik so you have to be very
careful with with a lot of people that
they tell you I don't eat meat or I
didn't eat kets throughout PES or I
didn't have any kets but your stuff your
plate your dishes they have the taste of
the kets now not does it doesn't mean
that all their stuff is has the taste of
KET
but the the things that is with ket and
you can't eat it and then you might have
a problem eating in the kitchen so you
have to be very very very careful with
that
now what
else okay this is exactly what we're
talking about you got to be very careful
with the of a Jew that there's a doubt
that he didn't sell it during PES
exactly how he needs to and that can be
with store owners because you can have a
store that all the products are very
kosher all the products are 100% koser
but the store owner is not keeping the
laws now he owned all this during PES
and now you come and you buy these
kosher products from a store that are
Jew own the products so you have to be
very careful also with that so again
when we live in a very small City like
satat and you go into the same store
every day and you see that the the KET
was covered or stored and you know the
store owner and in most cases if they
have a certification you know that they
are checked and obligated to sell
everything even here you would still
want to check that but when you go to a
big city you have to be aware maybe wait
a minute maybe that store owned the kets
during PES and then I can't buy their
products because they own that
kets so that's why
unfortunately it's very very tricky
because sometimes you go to a big city
like T Aviv and people live in Tel Aviv
or they they they just travel there and
they'll go into a supermarket and be
like hey look all the products are
Kosher I have no problem in buying this
product right
now you're right you don't have a
problem but that product was
owned by a Jew during PES and was not
sold and now this is going to be a
problem to eat so so you have to be very
careful with that and I know it's
becoming now a lot of people will be
like oh my gosh now how how am I going
to track that so you have to make sure
that you in the next two 3 four months
you buying in a very strict place that
you know that their stuff was sold
during PES I mean all usually here in
Israel all the major stores and
departments for food they they they do
that in the diaspora then people that
live abroad if you have family there if
they live in a very Jewish
Community then that's no problem but for
the ones who live outside the Jewish
communities and now in America you can
find K Food almost
anywhere now if it's in a big place like
Costco and department stores like that
that hold the ker food you have no
problem CU most likely the owner of the
store is not Jewish so you have no
problem but when it comes to the small
stores people have to be just very
particular
so I know this this puts people in a
bind because they're like how am I going
to track now he did sell it he didn't
sell it so just that's why a lot of
people say I'm just fine with buying the
product that is kosher I don't care if
the store is kosher so you you can buy
kosher products in a store that is open
on Shabbat you might have a problem
because you know okay the owner of the
store is not keeping Shabbat he's not
observing the Shabbat most likely he
didn't observe PES most likely it
doesn't observe any role I told you time
once that I went to a restaurant when I
I once spoke to you about telling you
how most of the restaurants they're not
NE say that they're kosher they're not
really Kosher for many different reasons
to buy a sticker that says kosher cost
exactly
$20 so and I give an example that once I
went to a a restaurant we went to my
in-laws and my in-laws said yeah there's
a kosher restaurant here let's go there
and when I asked my
my mother-in-law she was like all the
religious people eat there don't worry
it's kosher and when we came it had big
signs kosher everything is
kosher and then when we walked in and I
you know looked around I didn't see
nothing looked so so kosher there and
when the the waiter came I asked him is
the m
here he looked at be like what told him
is there m here and he was like I don't
even know what you're talking about I
told him is there a rabbi in the kitchen
or somebody in the kitchen I was like no
so I told him so who's in the kitchen so
he says me and and
Jose so I told him okay so I told him
and I went to into the kitchen and and I
was like is the owner of the place here
no he comes at 11: he comes at
4:00 and I was like so there's no M here
and he's like what's a MH I told him the
one who comes and check everything he's
like oh the rabbi comes every half a
year once a year every couple months he
comes I was like but every day there's
nobody here he's like no so I told him
so who who starts the oven so he says me
so is in the food it's not Kosher here
because you look like a you seem like a
very nice individual but a Jew has to
start the alen and if the Jew didn't
start the Aven this is called Bish you
can't eat it it's not Kosher so and I
told him and I mean it was a dairy
restaurant so a lot of people say oh
Dairy Restaurant there's no problems
with a dairy restaurant because the the
milk doesn't need to be slaughtered but
the problem is I told him do you when I
now ordered an omelet did you do you
check the eggs no why should I check the
eggs yeah cuz some eggs have blood in
them and do you check the salad I
ordered a salad now you check the
lettuce you check the the vegetables is
there any bugs in it no we wash it
and then I told him so the place is not
Kosher he's like no everything is kosher
and he pulls out products doesn't we see
it says it's kosher he says yeah I'm
very happy that the salt that you're
giving me has an OU in it but who says
the restaurant is open is
kosher and I told him and are you open
on Shabbat oh no no
no we only come 3 hours before that to
start preparing the food so when people
come after Shabbat the food is ready
open on
Shabbat so you know it has all the nice
stickers they get a certification from a
rabbi that is retired or or is not
particular about what's going on and
people come they see a big sign kosher
they see people with yamakas and they
walk in and they think it's
kosher so the RAB of the
city I know even a place like s dieo is
Miles Away the RAB would be a whe of a
place like that
maybe you know it's a different kind of
but you think the thing is that there
the the thing is that the rabbi that
gave the
certification that I'm sorry to tell you
is not a
rabbi this is what's
called you're making the public fail so
if he went to some course and got a
certification I know women that are
rabbis because they have a certification
to go and learn the material
and to go to an
exam then that that anybody can do even
an unu can go to a rabinal school and if
it's not a Kosh of school they'll give
him a
certification a rabbi according to the
is not the person who went to school to
learn for that because in the olden days
how it was and up until today in order
to be a rabbi you have you need a rabbi
to give you what's called SM to give you
the the
authorship or however you say that I
don't know if I'm saying the right words
is you getting
a
authorization how is it done not any
Rabbi can give SM I can't give somebody
SM you have to be a special Rabbi that
is able to give SM for to be a rabbi now
how it works in the the rabinal world
you can have there's many different
levels I mean 90% of the rabbis in the
world they have what's called a
certification and that's where it stops
and then a fraction of them go to the
next level like like you do an MBA and a
and uh you learn to be a professor or
whatever it is there's different levels
next level is to be a Dian and then the
next level there's many different levels
in the rabbinical world and very few
have the the authorization to give over
uh I don't know how you say it in
English ordination that's how you say it
a rabinal ordination you need to be
authorized to do that now in the rabinal
world you can later on become a scribe a
Mel uh whatever it is you can become a
scribe in a mo without having a rabinal
ordination one doesn't stop the other
but in order to give somebody a reinal
ordination you have to be uh allowed to
do that and there's not a lot of rabbis
in the world that are allowed to do that
there's probably a couple dozens in in
our generation and they got ordinated by
somebody above them who got is that the
right word ordinated yes and they got
and all the way up to mosenu so mosenu
was the first one who was able to give
SM and SM is not a
blanket in Hebrew is a blanket SM is the
authorization to be able to be called a
rabbi now to be called a rabbi that
doesn't mean you're a rabbi cuz I do
know people that they got a uh
kosher but they if they don't follow the
rules then they're they're they're
they're not Kosher so to say so there
are all sorts of schools and all sorts
of places that they come and they tell
you here we'll give you that so they
teach you the actual material and you go
to a test and you pass the test with
flying colors but the certification you
get is not a real certification so you
might it might says Rabbi but if it was
not given by the right Source you might
have on your on your business card it
says Rabbi but in the heavens you're not
considered a rabbi so there are rabbis
that they're not rabbis they just
inherited the title I'm talking like in
the case what you're talking about in a
city so he doesn't care so like I told
you I know women that are rabbis
and and in their mind they they did the
test and you know what they probably
know the material better than other
people but the fact that they know the
material and they know the laws that's
one thing the the whoever gives you the
the the permission so to say or the
status has to be a particular
individual like in the in the king in
the Kingdom worlds you can't just become
a king a king has to anoint you at to
you
annoy you I'm sorry the point is that
there are in a big city like New York
you can know about everything that moves
in a little city like San Diego yes you
would expect the at least the rabbi of
the city to hear what's going on and to
go and check it this was also a pretty
not such a big city it was in
Philadelphia and Philadelphia has about
40 cor restaurants 50 CER restaurants
could very much be that that the rabbi
of the city doesn't know on them or that
he doesn't know what's going on there
he's busy in his own world he knows that
this individual G gave the certification
now a lot of times what happens I met
into a situation I know we totally
sidetracking but it's important to know
when I lived in New York so there was a
certain uh like Bakery SL cafeteria that
we used to buy
from and we used to go we saw the
certification
and there was nobody Jewish there which
I don't care but some things they need
to be turned on by the ovens have to be
turned on by a Jew but anyways one time
we
noticed that the some of the products I
looked once at the milk and the milk in
America you recognize the milk right
away when it's kosher it's not here that
it all looks the same anyways long story
short we noticed a couple times that
there are all sorts of H problems there
and when I called the rabbi and I told
him and he's like no I didn't know and
then he he obligated the place to
correct it and he's like if not I'm just
going to take away your certification
now some
places the rabbi will come check the
place and will give a certification and
leave and come once a week once two
weeks once a month and he will count on
the fact that the owner is going to see
what's going on and that's not a good
certification it doesn't mean the rabbi
is not good some people if they doesn't
have a certain certification they're
like okay if it doesn't have that
certification I'm not eating there and
you have it here still even here in in
Israel that they say okay I see the the
stamp but if there's nobody on premises
I don't want to eat here so some people
are more lenient some people are less
the point is that it's hard to trust
it's when it comes to restaurants you
have to be very
careful and even here in spat half of
the places here that have a
certifications the owner is
not observant so I think half of the
pizzeria here on the mid they don't own
by observant Jews they're very nice Jews
everything is good and it's closed on
Shabbat cuz we see that it's
closed but it's not owned by Zing Jewel
you have to make sure that those
specific Pizzeria don't own the kets now
here in is actually a pretty strict City
so it's not so easy to get here a h but
in a big city
like you have to be you have to be
careful so and again it's not putting
somebody down you're more religious
you're less religious it's just rules
and there's rules and you need to follow
them I'm going to your question because
I lose a
friend
say yeah and it doesn't say that it is
not
specifically pieces of
bread or cookies
or and we have to understand that
that it's
everything you don't have to lose a
friend you just have to be very
diplomatic and you know when I became
religious and they told me you have to
sell your kets to a non Jew and I was
like why sell I'll just give it it to
him I don't need to sell him what I'm
going to make a couple bucks no so I
found a non-jew a friend of mine he told
him here take all my stuff so I just
gave everything away I didn't have
anything and later on I was like wow you
know I gave that individual stuff for
hundreds of dollars then somebody told
me you gave it you have to sell it I was
like no I'm not going to going to make
money on that person no he's like no you
don't give it and get rid of it you sell
it so in the first year I just gave
everything away so I was like this is an
expensive holiday just give all your
stuff
away so but it's not only the actual
bread everything
so the way to do it is to just be very
diplomatic and not should come and say
was this plate sold I'm not eating on
this plate so you have to know how to do
it it at the end of the day is is also
very important and to break a person's
heart or to insult them or to make them
feel unworthy in your eyes because your
plates they didn't sell it on PES you
have to know how to do it not only that
but anything that she brings to my house
when she comes as a des and she
cook okay that's when then you have you
might have a problem yes yes so
yes you definitely have to be careful
okay let's move
on cuz we talked about let's let's learn
a little about that that might answer
some of your questions
okay what happens for a Jew that has
possession of during
P this is a very severe sin just by
possessing it this is
called you're not allowed to eat kets
you're not allowed to see kets you're
not allowed to to own kets these are to
see your own kets you're not allowed to
see if you're walking in the street and
you see a nonu eating a roll that's no
problem with that but your own kets you
can't leave your own kets on the counter
and in the corner you're allowed to see
it in the street you can walk around and
see you can you can't control that a je
it's not yours it's not yours whenever
it's not yours you have no problem
so but your you're not allow to eat
you're not allow to see you're all to
own and if that was used or seen or
definitely eaten during P this is
prohibited forever you can't use this
KET ever
again case we have like a little cabinet
that has glass doors you cover the glass
door yeah take a piece of a cardboard of
foil you cover the glass
door anything to cover the glass door
when we have glass cabinet we also have
in a kitchen a few glass cabinets I just
cover the glass with the with foil and I
cover it from the inside that way nobody
can peel it and see hey what's in here
and I had that already we had a guest
once who came in PESA and he was like
hey what's in here and we're all like no
no
so you to do it for plates and better to
do it for plates
too so I mean this is a an
addition why because you don't want to
see even something that even even
connected besides that while you s your
comets you sell also your plates and
then and you you don't want to have even
the option of maybe something coming and
oh here's my plate and opening the the
the cabinet
the rabbi of the
city he even suggests not to even own
the at all he's like whatever you have
just finish it or get rid of it don't
keep it in the home just keep your
plates and your stuff like that but you
have an open er box of whatever it is
just give it use it finish it a month
before PES clean your house don't even
keep kets in your house and he says why
because you know you might get confused
for something and when you're talking
about the plates if you see the plates
you know most people they have it
together some people can be like oh let
me just pull out a plate and you forget
that it's a sold and it's not yours then
you're eating on something on sto stolen
possession so that's already a different
problem that's why it's good to close
everything hide everything seal the the
doors and and be very particular now
it's very important to know that the
said was seen owned by a
Jew you can ever never enjoy it forever
you can't even sell it after PES you can
burn it or or or bury it or whatever it
is p even if you did a before P if you
saw it or owned it before P that's it
it's it's gone you got to get rid of
it what happens if you have a lot of in
your
house you allowed to sell it what we're
just talking about selling
the and you have to make sure that the
this whole process of the selling you're
taking it very serious you don't just do
like a something so
simple you have to also take to
consideration and to understand right
now I don't own my plates I sold it to
Joe I don't own them not by saying okay
we just made a joke here and no you
that's why you want to cover it because
if you open that cabinet during PES and
you pull out a plate you just stole and
you stole nothing something that doesn't
belong to you now till when can you sell
the you can sell it till the end of the
fifth hour and the day of P meaning the
hour in the morning depending where
where you live can be about 10: in the
morning 9: in the morning 11: in the
morning usually it will be around 11: in
the morning depending where you are
around 10 11 12 these are usually the
round of the hours where it
happens what happens if you usually what
you do is you give it you do it to the
rabbi you don't go to your neighbor and
say Hey Joe do you want to buy my you
don't even know how to do it it's just
it has to be done in a very particular
way there is that's that's why it's
highly recommended that you go to the
bin you appoint the rabbi to sell your
you give him your address you tell him
exactly where your is who you are and
you you appoint the rabbi to be your
you're a representative by selling the
kets therefore do not do it an hour
before PES do it a day before
PES you can go to the rabbi even today
by the way he sells yous at the right
time but ready to already do it today
today you can do everything online you
don't have to go to the B you just go
online write your name do whatever you
need to do if you do that does mean you
can't any no no that's only going to be
sold at the right moment which means you
can still own it and eat it you can go
today to the rabbi sign up give him your
address tell him my is in the storage is
in the right cabinet in the kitchen in
the drawer in the this in in that room
he writes everything down he takes your
information he does a quinan what's
called was called a quinan to to you
allow him to represent you and an hour
before P before the last of the fifth
hour he sells it so until that hour
you're allowed to eat it it's yours you
just H appointed him to sell it for
you how you buy it you just don't need
it he does it all for you the rabbi does
everything for you so you don't have to
buy you have to buy it back the rabbi
buys it back for you that's why said
before you came a little bit late that
don't run to the cabinet the second PES
is over cuz the rabbi has to go and buy
it back and usually the rabbis make sure
because they know everybody's hungry so
they go right away but it's a yeah
usually half an hour 40 minutes an hour
I just don't eat for another hour an
hour an hour and a half first you can
ask the rabbi the rabbi will tell you
don't touch yourself till 9:00 a.m. 9:00
p.m. the rabbi will tell you if you do
that and if you buy buy online they'll s
send you an email and they'll tell no
I'm not joking you one year we were far
out we were in a far away place we went
to conduct a little I wasn't was in the
middle of nowhere so I got an email Y is
now was bought again and you can use
it
now person who sells his through a rabbi
or a a
court
to make sure that if you do it through a
rabbi and I highly recommend you do it
through a
rabbi you want to make sure that you're
doing it way in advance and not call him
at 9:00 in the morning on Monday morning
I
have don't leave it to the last minute
you can do it even
today
now you we also sell the vessels plates
pots pans vents
you don't have to to them in the M after
P yeah but you don't have to put them in
the mik after
PES you have to appoint the rabbi to be
your
representative and you do that like I
said by doing a kinan and more in it
there are more rules how to do it that's
why I don't suggest to do the sale by
yourself because you have to do it with
what's called Anan and you have to make
a a and it's not there's a lot of rules
that's why I made a mistake in the first
year I just gave it to my neighbor
better go to a rabbi Rabbi knows how to
do
it
okay this is exactly what I said you
made
aan means that you give over possession
to the to the rabbi you appoint
him since there's a lot of rules in the
selling and buying of the please make
sure you make sure that you're doing it
with a a rabbi that knows what he's
doing I told you before that 90 95% of
the rabbis in the world they're real
rabbis they got an ordination they don't
know how to do these things you have to
go to a rabbi that knows how to do it go
to the B this is
aan who who knows exactly how to run
this these things go to a rabbi of yeshu
there's a very good chance that he
doesn't even know how to sell the
there's a lot of rules in
it all the the vessels the utensils that
you do not caser before P you have to
wash them real real good
at least 6 hours before
p and to wash them in a way that there
not going to have any on them so even
the pots and pans that you sell for p
you can't have on them by saying okay
I'll wash it after the
holiday you have to wash them real good
before PES that's very important because
a lot of people says okay I know all
this stuff is dirty why bother I'll give
you now an example we have an oven just
for PES so just know when you eat here
you have the the strictest certification
so we have everything just for PES we
don't CER the stuff for PES so we have
an oven for PES so the old oven gets
pulled out and into the
storage but the oven still has to be
cleaned we cleaned our oven perfectly
and miraculously and I still ran the
heat to make sure that if there's any
left it's burnt
why because even if I so it now this
week this oven doesn't belong to me and
everything else all our pots everything
we sell we don't we don't CER anything
we have sets of everything just for PES
so even that has to be washed perfectly
very clean and then we store it and then
it gets sold so even though you sell it
you still have to clean
them it's extremely important that the
stuff that sell you don't just leave it
in the corner and put a blanket on it
put it in a room close the door lock it
or put it in a storage or whatever it is
that you don't see it put everything in
one closet put everything in one
cabinet and and and better even to lock
it that nobody will come in and be like
hey what's here and we had that happen
too we had one time in PESA that one of
the kids just went into one of the
cabinets took everything off and we
still walking around I was like where
did you get that from the cabinet how
did you open oh no I took the I took it
off and I you didn't see a big sticker
that it says he like no I just he no he
was able to read he's like I just didn't
figure out why you put it there why' you
put a sticker this big that says
ketz he and you know what he told me
then I thought the
stickers so I put it aside I was like
wow okay so you want to you want to make
sure that it's all good and secure and
if you have little kids to teach them
that this drawer we don't
open so anyways
uh you got to make sure that it's all
hidden very well
now what happens if you don't seal the
room because you have to use the room
for whatever
reason what happen let's say you have a
big room you you took a room and you say
this is where I'm going to put all my
you get gathered everything in a corner
but you still need to use that room it's
a cabinet or whatever it is a walk-in
closet and you have to take something
that's going to be like
a like a piece of board or a tabletop it
has to be height of 20 which is about
this height a is 8 cm so it would be the
height
of 1 M and 60 cm which would be about 70
something inches about this this should
be like a to hide it
okay what if you have everything boxes
closed boxes this is also good as long
as you don't have access to it or you
see it if you push it all into a corner
you either take a piece of board a a
cardboard tabletop and you just lean it
over that it will hide it and will be
some type of a separation obviously it's
always better to box it and lock it into
a room but sometimes the reality doesn't
allow you to do that
and a minhag a lot of people they have
wine from a a special Rabbi they got the
wine from a a big Rabbi that did Kish
now it's very popular that they go to to
Big rabbis and he takes some of his wine
and he pours it into many bottles and
they sell these
bottles uh you know it's very common in
rsk's yeshivas that's what they do they
buy a lot of wine he does kid or some or
whatever it is and they pour all the
wine in they sell these bottles to
fundraise for theas in kabad people
carry wine that the rebi
did and they have a bottle and they pour
wine in it all the time to keep the wine
going I mean we have I have wine from
the basali I have wine fromi I have wine
from the I have wine that we just keep
pouring in in it wine so this type of
wine
then if it's not Kosher for PES then you
sell that wine
too
and we have what's called Le it's the
honey cake that is given
on we have also
from so P you you wrap it real good and
you sell that too can't keep it even
though it came from a holy hand it's
still humet it's still one piece no we
have a bag with crumbs oh wow so and and
yeah it's just keep it we keep it and
sometimes we if we need we will mix it
in food but it's not going to be so
fresh but a little crumb it's still a
holy crumb and uh believe it or not the
crumb can do Miracles so we so we have
holy wine have wine that I bought from
that had a part of it from kaduri who is
a very very big sadik I have wine from
the basali and it's special wine and we
sometimes We'll pour it into a cup or
somebody's very sick we will mix just a
drop or just a little
crumb so that you have to sell for PES
yes you meaning the wine anything that
ising uh it's fine it's fine it's okay
yeah especially when it
comes when it comes to something like
that when you just sold it for PES as
long as they didn't start touching it
and eating it you're not going to have a
problem it's not going to lose its
Holiness don't
worry okay let's uh do a little bit more
I actually thought we'll have more time
to do much more
so know let me let me skip to a few
things that are very
important okay I I thought I'll have
much more time let me do just a few more
things that are very important one of
them is
called
and are we not allowed to cook on y
we're allowed to cook but if it's
attached to a Shabbat we're not allowed
to cook from yomtov for the Shabbat this
year we don't have
that
but if comes a situation that you do
have that then we do what's
called is that you
take let's say a matah and a piece of
fish that you're about to eat and you
say a
certain and that allows you to cook
during yto for the following
day but now what most congregations do I
don't know if you noticed if you ever
went to Pray by
tons look on the wall I mean you see it
from the women's section there's a huge
cabinet and there's a matah in there did
you ever notice that so go next time
when you go to t look where the air
conditioners are you'll see a box a
matah is in there and it's glassed why
because they
do and all the congregations you might
notice might not notice that but all
congregations they will do what's
called they do a certain blessing
usually they will do it around p and
they'll do it on a matah and that will
allow everybody around in the to carry
and also to carry in the building if you
live in a building you need to have a
which means you can carry from from one
apartment to the other not to say that
in a place that needs an you must
have even if you have
an you don't notice it cuz you didn't do
the AR but they do
the we just see the line around you know
the the wire but the person who did that
he runs the wire it has to be koser has
to be a certain height that can be
touched can be moved there's a way how
to do the and then the actual person
that will do the says a certain and it
has to be done on a something that is
now going to be public so this mat now
belongs to everybody and it has to be
done on food now since they the has to
be valid during P so you can do the with
a Kal so they do the r with matah and
you'll see in many congregation that
they have the matah hanging hi say
everybody knows that's the roof there's
a roof here so I'm just telling you now
next time you go to the T sh here they
have it out in the open in a nice box
and you'll see it and you know there's a
roof
there I started with the shim that
allows you to cook on y for Shabbat but
they also do on P what's called
the I am for all over is not true uh
okay the first opinion says thatat does
not need a ro because it's surrounded
with mountains since it's surrounded
with mountains it's like a walled City I
don't know if you noticed on you read
the the the Milla twice inat because
it's a world city we have twice porim
here this whoever holds by this opinion
doesn't need an cuz we're surrounded
with mountains there's no concept even
until
here some people do not go by that and
there is
aat you just take take it for granted if
you go to the graves where the Aral is
before you cross the line where the mik
is look up and you'll see the RO so some
people like you say take it for granted
oh it's fat there are thousands of
religious people here they're all
carrying I'll carry too but some people
don't go by that I had a guess not too
long ago and I told him by the way I saw
him you know putting things aside told
him you know there's a here he's like I
don't go by the my wife carries I don't
hold by
any and I was like fine any by any Ro so
I was like fine go that's very nice of
you I mean you go by what you go by but
inat I can tell you that a you are
surrounded with
mountains B there is an in F because
there are many different congregations
there's Faris there's breast l there's
kabad and each one goes by their own by
their own ER additions but the majority
and I really met a fraction of people
they don't hold by they by anything here
and they don't
carrys but any place that ER that goes
by an
a then I mean any person that goes by an
a carries here in spat no problem now
we're not going to go through the entire
rules of because we don't have it this
year but it's always good to do
regardless and to be able also to cook
on
yum so now we don't have time but I
suggest you go through the r rules of
the that you covered for the holiday now
a few more important things that we need
to know first of all you light candles
on y like any other
Y and it's important that you light it
on time it's important that you buy if
you light with wax that the wax is ker
for p and if you light with oil then the
oil is ker for PES and there are candles
that will might not be ker for PES
because how they make the consistency of
the wax so you have to make sure that
the candles that you buy has it says k
for p same thing with the oil just I
have a candle that I got recently that's
PES but you already used it already used
it better to buy a new havdala candle
for p because if the wine was not
koshered maybe the plate was not
something might have been not koser
there for the five shekels or 10 shekels
that it costs buy a new one it's good to
buy anything new for PES so just make
sure again that you know how and when to
light your candles few more quick things
that I want you to know on P this this
is important for you to know we have to
do what's called Corban
P many years ago when we had the bet
mikdash we would take a sheep and make a
sacrifice out of it it's called Corban
PES now we do not have it on P in PES
Monday afternoon after before we have to
read theban P that we have in the S and
it's extremely important it might take
you 15
minutes
before after you after you burn
yours yeah on Monday after you burn the
after when it's time to already pray you
can choose exactly when make sure you
grab the S and read theban P the the
teachings of cabala explains that even
though we don't do it physically with an
animal you must do it reading and it's
extremely extremely important and
Powerful to do it in anyad you will find
theban p usually it will be before the
hag you want to check now on your Sid
just to be double
sure and usually most of the that will
have a in it will have it if you don't
then in your it will have P it's not so
long it should take you not more than 10
15 minutes but make sure you're reading
it and you have to to understand why
you're reading in it and and the
importance of it and very important
thing that you need to do that's why I
told you that before you come to our SED
make sure that you're not late because
on the first two nights of P we
say
after and we and we say it in in the
night prayer it's a very rare time that
we say Hal usually we say ones in
before and and we will say Hal on
on on P we we celebrating One Night in
the diaspora they're celebrating two
nights they we add Hal into the prayer
so it's important to remember that and
if you don't go to SCH then go to sh and
if you don't go to sh then do it at home
so
we exactly let's read it that you know
exactly what we need to
do in the first two nights of p and in
Israel it's one
night you say with a congregation
right after you
pray you say after
that what happens is if the first night
of P happens on
Shabbat then you say before
that now Bel in the second night we say
Hal and after that you know what we
start saying which is extremely
important we start counting the in is we
don't have a second night we start
counting in from the first night
so we're going to learn a lot
about following PES because a lot of
women say ah I don't need to know even
men but a lot of people don't bother to
do that so we are going to learn a lot
so stay tuned because we're going to
learn a lot of very interesting
information why we say Hal and you want
to make sure that you say that because
if you miss one night of saying H with a
blessing you can't say it with a
blessing anymore
what did I say Hal
sorry you have to be on top of it
because if you missed one night of
saying the OM without a blessing then
the next till the end you can't say that
you can count it but without the
blessing so make sure that you go
on P so you can say so you can say that
you can participate in everything and
not forget about it and saying is
extremely important it takes exactly 5
minutes out of your life and we're going
to learn a lot of it I know maybe now
you might say okay it's just saying a
sentence no there's a lot in it and in
the next class that we're going to learn
about the I'm going to just explain a
little bit how it's connected later on
to to the and why it's extremely
extremely important hold on for just a
second with a question and then I just
want
to
bless can I do
it no you mean to you mean before PES no
no better to do it during the day better
to do it during the day
uh yeah you have to start counting on
Monday night Monday night this year in
Israel you have to start CL counting the
OM and an individual like you that you
have been here for the past you're not a
resident of Israel but you have been
here for at least 90 days you count the
OM according to Israel not according to
outside of Israel that's going to affect
L of course it's going to affect L but
if you live in Israel it shouldn't
bother you if you're planning on leaving
and coming back right now even though
you're only here for a few months if you
live in Israel you live in Israel if you
now temporary here but you're not so
temporary you're already here for months
yeah and you're only leaving in August
right September September you have to go
by the land of Israel so you're going to
start counting the OM on
Monday and not not not because you are a
visitor and say okay I'll start counting
the next day that will be in in effect
if you came here just for PES since you
live here and you're going to leave way
after shabat you count like us so will
start on Saturday night
yeah here here in
Israel so the will start exactly the
same but since you are here I'm
specifically talking to you CU anyone
who lives in Israel goes by by the
Israel account but you and many others
that come and spend a year half a year
they say oh maybe because I'm American
and I don't live here I should start
counting the next day this would be
right if you're planning on
leaving way before the end of the OM or
if you just came for a week people come
for for a week for PES people come from
America or from wherever so you you
specifically and many others that live
here for a short period of time they
have to count according to our count
which is Monday and then Monday night
and exactly like you said L will turn on
M shabat this year this is like
B okay there's a lot
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more Monday night at sh in sh I mean if
you don't go to sh stay it at
home but better to say it in sh because
most people that will stay home and pray
will forget that you have to say Hal now
when you're in sh you'll see even in sh
people just continue and then thean will
say the and they like o I almost forgot
so the the advantage of going to sh same
same thing with by the way there were a
couple years and my wife did not come to
sh for being exhausted from the
preparation and she forgot to say and
then at the end of the S I told her did
you say oh I totally forgot about it so
you want to make sure now also not only
also Hal we're going to say Hal in the
but you have to say that's one of the
mitv
in so if you don't go to sh make sure
you put a some type of a mark in your
but since it's an supicious time it's a
y go to sh that's why I started the
class by saying I know you're going to
be in sh make sure you rush home don't
take your time cuz we have to start the
S there this was maybe I should have
been more bold with my statement it was
a hint go to Je
this is a y this is the most holiest day
of the year we're going to learn about
it in a few
minutes the night of p is the most
holiest night of the year what happens
on this night doesn't even happen on
Kip so this is the night that you have
to go out of your way go to sh show up
in a in a synagogue and hear the Hal and
pray and do whatever you need to do yes
so you count after you get home from the
station no no in the show if you went to
show if you went to show you will
counted with the congregation before the
yeah before the S them and actually if
for whatever reason you did not have the
option of going to Shore or you live far
away and there's no Shore come before s
that's part of there's the order if you
notice we're going to go through it in a
few minutes in the next class the the
night you know how it's called it's
called L this should this s is is an
order this this night should have been
called L matah the night of matah
or I don't know
what P it's called because we that's
where we're making SED we're making
we're organizing everything and the also
uh the word s is the it's I don't know
the word in English how would you say in
English that one comes after the other
order s is also order which which means
everything that you do on PES from
Sunday morning meaning from I mean again
if it will be a different Year from 24
hours before you burn the there's a SED
there's an order you can't mix the order
so if you mix the order throughout those
24 hours and 48 Hours going into PES you
messed it up you didn't do it right you
can't do whatever you want has to be in
a certain order and we're going to learn
in a few minutes why and that's why it's
called L because first we're making
organization everything we're putting in
its place like we're in a messy house
more than that if it doesn't go through
the order you're not doing it right and
you and you're not going to get the
benefit of the of the holiday so if
happens to be that you don't go to
sh then still still say the still say
and then do the the S the reason why I I
recommended to go to sh is because you
will stay home you will forget on the
subsequent days between
Passover do you say count count
somewhere at sunset in the morning in
the evening before you goed the right
way to do it is you count it after the
sun after the stars go
out the stars go out at night at night
at night night me they come out not go
out yeah after the stars come
out so you know I I translate in Hebrew
you say they go out so come out yes when
they appear after three stars
appear now if for whatever reason you
forgot or you fell asleep or something
happened you can say till about 4: in
the morning 4: 5 in the morning with a
blessing if you forgot and the next day
you remembered you can count it but you
can't say the
blessing but if you that morning forgot
completely
then the next day you can count was
without a blessing so you have to be
very
particular and this is you know this is
important it's good that you asked so
let's just go over it because we're not
going to have the opportunity to go over
it again this year Monday night we
count right after the stars come out
that's the first night let's assume that
for a whole week I was very particular
and I was making sure that every night
after the stars come out I
say one night I was busy and I fell
asleep and I woke up at 2:00 in the
morning you wash your hands and you say
with a blessing till till the dawn you
can say it with a blessing if I fell
asleep I forgot I fell asleep I woke up
in the morning it's 2: in the afternoon
it's 10:00 in the morning doesn't matter
I can still say of that day just without
a
blessing and the next night I continue
back with a blessing if I forgot that
day at all I skipped the
day and the next night I will count till
the end without a blessing till the end
you can't just you get you lost it and
if there's one night that you have a
doubt you just don't did I count
yesterday I didn't remember if I count
you don't remember you have a doubt then
you continue counting without a blessing
but it depends again there's different
rules how far in you are if you counted
the majority of it then some say you
will continue with the
blessing but if you're not 100% sure
then you do it without a blessing and
again it depends how far in if you're
already counting 30 days 40 days then
most likely it's already in your system
and most likely you did count and you
can continue with a blessing but just
remember that if you forgot one night
the next day you don't say with a
blessing and if that day you forgot
completely then the following night when
you count no more blessings and you
continue till the end without a
blessing and that's where you see you
know towards the end of the OM you might
see it when you go to synagogue that
very few men are already saying it with
a
blessing yes
then yeah so now today there's a a a
smartphone application that will remind
you to say the
H and that's why it's good to go to pray
in a sh because the sh will count and it
reminds you but is extremely important
we're going to learn about it after p
and the how to do it why to do it what's
the connection it's very very
powerful just like in general time or
excuse me time pass or it's every night
is something else no but as a hold
doesn't have as a hold it's you you're
able to tap into all the and you have to
refine all the that's why we start the
first week is the SPH of and we will
count we count each each most people
don't even know what they're doing
they're just doing it like a parrot
which is also good after P we will learn
why we do it how we do it why why we do
seven in seven we're going to go through
all the we'll we'll have a lot of fun
during the because it's a very powerful
time but if you did not start the whole
process in El it's almost worthless
that's why L is the most important night
and then we start and that we're going
to learn b in a few minutes in the
meantime let me just wish you a happy
and kosher PES and should be a kosher
PES and
happy and somebody asked me not too long
ago why do you
say why do you add the kosher but
doesn't need to be kosher and doesn't
have to be kosher
why so I told him if you take the word p
and the word ker
P then it has six letters in it and each
of these six letters are all the
holidays that we have throughout the
year the pay of PES is
P the of p is the of P
isuka the CF of ker is Kim the shin of
ker is sh and the of ker is so
p i include all the holidays of the
entire year in p and PES is one of the
most powerful
nights of the year here and the entire
week is powerful every day in that week
is beyond beyond important and when I'm
saying powerful is what you can achieve
this week what energy you can tap into
and take advantage of that it can H
benefit you for the entire year this one
week of being on a diet and being
particular and being very particular
about
details every night of this week you can
draw mega lots of energy to last you for
the entire year to deal with all your
problems so we want to wish you a happy
k and a
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