Humble yourself and listen! #torah

All your workers, your boss, they'll all of the people are going to tell you your negai'im. And you need to be humble enough to listen what other people are telling you. You're loud. You're inappropriate. You're late. You promise, you don't fulfill. I mean, whatever. Listen, don't get angry. Don't get upset. Filter it. Accept first of all the criticism and say, "Maybe it's true, maybe it's not." Somebody accused me now for something. The reality is that they didn't even accuse me. They just said something not nice and whatever. And and I was like, "Okay, let me let me think. Maybe I promised that person something." No. Maybe I owe that person something. No. Maybe I said something wrong. Maybe I did something wrong. Trust me, I did a lot of chew vine in my mind. I came to the conclusion, my heart is clean. I didn't do nothing to this person. I don't know why. I don't know who. I don't I didn't do nothing. I'm good. That's it. I'm clean. Why is it so important for you to live by en adam ore negia atzmo, that you can't see the dirt on yourself, cuz then you welcome the right criticism from the right people and you know how to better yourself and you know how to refine yourself.