How many times will it take you?

yesterday we had a class about reincarnations and I was explaining there that we all have to go through a certain path and it will take a few lifetimes to do it and in one lifetime I will be rich you'll be poor in a different lifetime we'll come back together you'll be rich I'll be poor and it will constantly change and I have to go through a circle through everything one time I have to be rich one time I have to be poor one time I have to be happy one time I have to be sad one time I'm going to have a good marriage one time I'm going to have a bad marriage and so forth this everybody has to go through the same path and the reason why we all have to go through the same path is that no soul can come to God and say if you would give me that person's life I would be a much better person that way God says no you all got the same chance you all got the same challenges just coming in different times so sometimes you looking says Ah look at that person everything goes well these kids are so good and he has and this and that and this is the wrong thing to do because in a different time it was switched and you were in that person's place and that person was in your place don't look at another person says Ah I wish I had that that his kids H sometimes people come and and and and I hate it tell me your kids are so polite look at my kids now why because we all have to deal with something at one point or another so what is the what is the solution is not to want not to ask not to desire it's just to let hem do his thing how do you do it that's already not a simple thing to do because the yet is always going to Corner me to a point that I doing something that I don't want and not too long ago I saw something so interesting to emphasize what I'm trying to say is that you know how they hunt monkeys in Africa you would think they would I don't know why they hunt them to start with but nevertheless you know how they hunt them they make like these little boxes with a little hole and that a hand can fit inside but they put in the Box a big piece of salt L for whatever reason and I don't know why but the monkeys they love the salt now the monkey will come and put the hand in and then he will grab the chunk of the salt now he comes to pull the hand out and he can't because the hand is like this and then the hunter will come and just take them M they don't have to do anything and you would think no dear monkey leave the leave the thing of the salt and run out but they're they don't understand they want the salt they want something they can't have they lose their life but they're hold holding the salt it's just something interesting that I saw how they hunt these monkeys there same thing with us I'm holding on something and I don't understand the has grabbed me here and now I'm in a completely bad situation let go let go let go of what you're holding you'll see you'll be free we don't know how to let go so when I'm asking myself how can I remain happy when life is hard is you let go let go of what you're holding on don't worry don't put yourself in a situation that you are under stress and anxiety and worrying of something that you can't you have zero control over it if something has to happen it will happen whether you want it or not and you have zero control over it and I know it's sad but ifom a person has to suffer for something and unfortunately we see unbelievable suffering in front of us but if that's what is decreed on that person it will happen