How is the coming new year will be...?!? - Rabbi Alon Anava

[Music] today is going to be the last class of this year we finishing the year in two days so this will be the last class that we're going to give to this year so I suggest you pay attention to every word my question to you before we start is are you experiencing any finan financial difficulties or Shalom health issues or Shalom relationship and marital issues or any other problems is anybody suing you is anybody talking bad about you is things are not working out for you like you would want to doors Clos in your face opportunities didn't work out or to summarize it was your last year wasn't how you would expect it or wished for for yourself or how you want it if you answered yes to all the above then I suggest you listen very well to this class if you didn't answer yes to any of these questions then I would kindly ask you to give me a blessing because you must be a sadic or a sadit so before we start this class I want to dedicate this lecture to a very special soul of a young lady who passed away and fortunately 5 years ago on we're going to dedicate this class suzan Margaret B ferus I hope I'm pronouncing the name right uh this class should be to the elevation of her soul and may her soul have n in ganeden and reach to a peaceful place an eternal peaceful place and with that all the rest of the all the souls who need Alat so in two days is sh for many they understand that it's the beginning of the year but really R sh is not the beginning of the year beginning of the year is Al Nissan the first day of the month of Nissan R sh is called Ros sh the head of the year not the beginning of the year biblically if you're going by the Jewish calendar R is on the first day of the 7th month uh but nevertheless it's called Ros or many will recognize the name Ros as Judgment Day which exactly that's what it is y hadin Judgment Day uh the day that not only Jewish people are standing in front of the master of the universe to be judged and to be blessed the entire creation all mankind Jews and non-jews and everything else in between including animals and every other creature in this world everything in this world is going to be judged by the master of the universe in two days this year it's going to be uh starting Wednesday night and then followed by Thursday and Friday which is a very interesting because this year uh it falls that r ends and right away Shabbat comes in so we have three full days of intense prayers and chuva and hopefully you did well enough throughout the month of to prepare yourself to this day the reason why I'm saying it's so powerful because we have two days of R and right after that uh Shabbat I heard an interesting K over last Shabbat after we prayed Shar one of the members of the congregation gave a beautiful k something new to take to consideration that this last Shabbat was the day the world was created so that means that if that was the first day of creation and we go Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday and Saturday so R sh will be the fifth day like a Thursday the second day of will be a Friday and then really sorry the second the first day of will be the Thursday the second day will be a Friday and then we're going into a Shabbat so we have like two shabbatot and as the tud says if we observe two shabbatot then we will be redeemed right away as I mentioned many times in the past that obviously as a nation we never observe shabbatot because if then we would be redeemed already but nevertheless according to this gentelman K is that Friday this year is considered the Shabbat of the order of the days and then we have another Shabbat so we're really going to be observing two shabbatot so hopefully uh even though we had it already in the past but hopefully that should be sufficient enough forem that enough will observe Shabbat and this should take us into the Redemption so before we start I just want to point out a few important things that are needed to do that ER I I know many don't do or forget or didn't do or don't know and it will definitely affect your entire year the first thing is that since this year R falls on a it starts Wednesday night then it goes Thursday and Friday and then we go into Shabbat so on yomtov on Festival we allowed to cook food for the sake of the festival but we're not allowed to cook food from uh yomtov into a Shabbat unless we do What's called the shilin so I know many forget or many don't know or many don't know how to do it but this year in order for us to cook on Friday a meal for Shabbat then has to be done prior to I believe that you will find almost in any the order of what you need to do it's a very short uh uh prayer that we take uh food that we're going to be eating on R sh and Shabbat usually you would take bread and maybe a piece of fish or meat or something that you eat there different ways different customs of course like as usual but uh definitely something that needs to be done so you won't be desecrating the holiday and the Shabbat which is very very important I will touch in a second why is it so important uh but definitely something that needs to be done if you don't know much about it I suggest you look into it you learn uh but like I told you all the Sim I think I shouldn't say all because I didn't go through all the sidim but I would say the majority of all the sidim will have the S ofin how it needs to be done it's very short you just need to say in prayer and hold the the food Etc uh but it needs to be done and and I will elaborate in a second why is it so important in regards to the desecration of the Shabbat because we're not allowed to cook on a yumove for Shabbat we need to uh uh prepare the food of course on a for Shabbat so therefore needs to be done another thing that needs to done and I noticed and heard that many don't do and I have actually followed and saw in many many years that people who don't do uh what's called the notification of the vows uh I kind of saw a pattern that it's affecting the person's year now why is it so important because throughout the year we do a lot of else and I know you might not be taking that to consideration but when you say something you promise something to somebody uh that's like taking a vow by saying oh I'll help you move or I'll take you or I'll help you with this and that or you know where I hear it most is I hear it a lot of people love to promise me that they're going to give me a donation uh oh that I hear all the time oh Rabbi the soon as the money comes in I'm going to give you a donation to your organization and I want to support and if I had a dollar for every time I heard that that would be sufficient to run my organization and uh unfortunately many people give promises and they don't fulfill it so and then what happens is this is called a NE a vow and by not fulfilling The Vow this is a very big sin uh another thing is even if many people are very cautious with the adding after promising something by saying B without a vow many times we take on ourselves a certain decision what many people are familiar with the term sometimes I'm in a bind or sometimes I want to get something and I promise AEM you know I'm going to start praying every day or I'm going to start learning I'm going to say every day you give all sorts of promises to hasem and he don't do it therefore on is the right time to do the Nullification of the vows and I know many people say yeah but I'm counting on of Yip okay you're right is an also a form of nullification of the vows but nevertheless I have kind of followed a pattern and I saw that when you promise things which everybody does that by the way uh and then you don't fulfill it then you are subject to fail with the sin of NE and that eventually will affect the individual so the way it's done is this year is Wednesday but the morning of before the holiday comes in we pray Shar and after that we do there's different ways of doing it some do it in a form of withan 10 men uh some people want to go the extra mile they want to do it in front of RAB RAB who are actually knowledgeable with the laws of they might go to a stand in front of rabbis either way you want to do that and I know a lot of women say oh I'm counting on theat that my husband does so make sure that your husband goes and does but either way I'm just pointing it out you look into your uh to your Customs consult your local Rabbi or your Rabbi how and how to do it and what's the best way of doing it but I'm already telling you I have seen a pattern that when people don't nullify the vows uh it's affecting their year in a negative way because it's a very severe sin to promise something to say to somebody they're going to do a certain act and they don't do it and that's between me and another person but many times I promise AEM a lot of things AEM if you save me this time if you get me out of this problem then I I promise you I will do this and that and then of course two days pass and then you forget so the best way of doing here is to do H and you look into how is the best way of doing it how are you I started already because I'm recording so uh so I didn't go much I'm just giving a few preparations but I don't have time I have to go toam today so started and anyways it's going online so you didn't miss much uh this year Falls like I told you before Shabbat but there are many years like last year that R sh falls on Shabbat and we don't blow the chofar on Shabbat uh there is a pattern I actually forgot right now the name of the rabbi who did it but uh there is a rabbi who lived about 200 years ago he called yob atlinger he's also known as the AR that's one of the books that he wrote and he explains that when R sh falls on Shabbat in many many years it's been the best years ever uh on the other hand he contradicts himself and he also saying when Ros sh falls on Shabbat and we don't blow the shaat then it has been the worst years to am Isel last year R sh was on Shabbat and we didn't blow the chaar on Shabbat and I don't need to point out how lousy this year was for many the entire nation and many big problems and issues and from just talking with many many people I can tell you that most people didn't have such a good year so the explanation to that because the kind of contradict himself because he says that when falls on Shabbat and we don't blow the shaar then in history it's been the best years for our nation and right after he says that when we don't blow the jaar on jaat then it's been the worst years his explanation is very very interesting because he says that sh the Shabbat can either be your Defence attorney your sagor or the Shabbat can be the prosecutor If You observe the Shabbat the right way then the Shabbat becomes your defense attorney and therefore by not blowing the shaar on Shabbat on the the Shabbat itself is the defense attorney but for that that means you need to observe the Shabbat the entire year so if you're observing the Shabbat the right way then okay when R sh falls on Shabbat then Shabbat will be your defense attorney the synagogue but if you're not observing the Shabbat the right way which unfortunately that's most people then the Shabbat becomes a pro prosecutor because you didn't observe it the right way that's why I explained before how important it is to do the because if you're don't not doing it and then you're cooking on Friday for Shabbat then that is not allowed and therefore you didn't you didn't even start the year you're already desecrating Shabbat so my suggestion is that when you want the Shabbat to be your defense attorney then it means you need to observe the Shabbat so this year we're going to have two days ofar blowing we don't have to worry about that but nevertheless what one needs to take from that to learn is the importance of observing Shabbat and from what I see unfortunately most people even if they think they're observing Shabbat they're not really observing Shabbat they don't know all the laws and they're doing their best maybe but they're lacking a lot of information and therefore the Shabbat becomes that they desecrate it my suggestion is that before R comes in you take on yourself that this year you should learn at least two two laws a day a day of Shabbat and you can do it by yourself you can do it with a K with a learning mate it doesn't matter but you should take on yourself that you would learn without a vow that you learn two laws two every day for the next coming year of Shabbat that will assist you to observe the Shabbat in a much better way and therefore you turning the Shabbat to be your defense attorney so just a small suggestion what needs to be done so without further Ado I want to very quickly go through a few things that we need to focus on this coming because a as a nation I can tell you you don't need to be much of a professor to see that as a nation wasn't a good year not for the world not for the Jewish Nation many many problems have happened and even on a personal level almost every person that I spoke to didn't have a good year uh and again we're not going to attribute now why but nevertheless uh could very much be like I told you quoting the that when Shabbat sorry when R falls on Shabbat and we don't blow the shafar and if we don't have the Shabbat as a defense attorney then it turns out to be not such a good year I forgot the name of the rabbi I apologize who did a a a test to that and he went back many many many many years and sure enough every time Shabbat fell on a Shabbat and didn't blow the Jafar turned out to be not such a good year for the nation and to many in person and like I told you from the hundreds and the thousands of people that I speak to and meet especially now in the last two months it seemed like nobody had such a good year not in the financial side not in marital side not in relationships not in health excuse me so we want to make sure that this coming year we're doing it the right way so many many people unfortunately I met many many people a month ago on because we had two big events one in New York one in Miami and uh for the last 20 years that I've been lecturing and teaching I have noticed that when comes everybody gets excited it's time to do CH everybody gets very hyped up but that lasts for about 3 days and very quickly you go back to your daily uh you know whatever it is that you're busy with and after 24 hours 48 hours of the beginning of when you know the whole time you're like oh okay this year I'm going to do the best I'm going to do everything that needs to be done on and then comes two days before and you haven't done nothing that's the majority of most people and again listen people are busy people have what uh to deal with people have headaches H problems to deal with and uh I understand you have a good good will but knows to to calm the excitement down and then what happens then we meet today two days before and you look back at your entire ul and you're saying oh my gosh I didn't do nothing which really if you didn't do cha throughout the month of what are you coming with to I mean we don't do CH on you have to do CH on it's a holiday it's a hug it's a festival you you get dressed nice and you have good meals and the prayers are cons ably short because it's a it's it's not one of the three festivals but it's a y the cha needs to be done in aul whatever you do in aul that's how you retroactively reverse the entire year and what you how you set the year the next coming year but uh the sad reality is like I mentioned that most people come into aul with Great Hopes And then nothing really happens which is unfortunate so we still have a day and a half to try to do something so to do Chua this I can't help you with you need to do Chua I need I do chuva I barely do chuva for my own sins I need I can't do chuva for other people you need to do Chua for your own sake which in the last 10 years I gave enough information and uh classes and lectures how to do proper to chuva but assuming that you somehow squeezed in some good deeds on aul and you somewhat prepared for R sh then a big question that many people ask is what do I need to focus on on R if let's say during a did I did what I was supposed to do and I I read my daily te I did all the little rituals I said sorry to whoever I paid all my debts I covered every everything that I needed to do assuming you did pretty well in a if you didn't then you still have 48 hours to do somewhat of a Chua and you don't need much you can do cha in an hour if you really put your mind to it but I'm assuming that you did somewhat to some extent chuva and repented on elul and now you need to to really focus on what are you doing on R okay I know many have the custom to read a lot of to go to sh to pray to eat the the apple and the honey and all the rest of the yummy stuff but really on R it's how I'm going to set the entire coming year if you look back at your last year and you have some complaints that you didn't make enough money or your parasa came with a lot of struggles or you didn't make ends meet or healthwise you weren't doing that well or things were not going your way uh there's many different types of examples but I can tell you that the majority that the people that I met and talked to they didn't have a financial good year which is fine it's another sign mashiah is coming but nevertheless in the last two months of my tour in the United States I met hundreds and hundreds of people and again I I don't need to meet hundreds of people I know that most people had didn't have such a good year for many different reasons so if you had an amazing year then obviously you did something well last year and just do continue doing it but if you feel that your last year wasn't that great and it wasn't how you wanted or expected then you need to pay attention for the next half an hour because R is when you set the tone for the coming year whatever you do on R of course is the preparation and uh if you didn't do nothing on a no point of crying on spilled milk you can still repent do cha but you have 48 hours coming where whatever you're going to do on those 48 hours that's how you're going to set so to say the next coming year and of course we all want to be blessed with a good year a good strong Health H to have some peace of mind peace in my heart happiness good parasa livelihood and many other things everybody wants a whole list of good things that we're asking Hashem but we have to understand that these 48 hours is how we prepare the next coming year whatever you do in the 48 hours I know it puts a lot of pressure because what 48 Hours what if I fell asleep what if I didn't do something what now the whole year is ruined so pay attention in general what I'm about to say is simple to understand maybe not so simple to apply but the main thing the theme let's call it the theme of R is accepting the Yoke of Heaven what we are familiar with the term which means accepting the Yoke of Heaven what does it mean then in Hebrew Mal means the the will the Raton what what the Raton means the will but the will of who my will my will is to sit all day long on a beach and drink beer and fish or well it's not my will I'm just giving it as an example some people their will is To Be A Millionaire and to travel around the world I don't know what people's will are but my will should be the will of hem when I'm accepting the Yoke of heaven what's called I'm accepting the will of hem this is called Raton El what does it really mean mean that I live my life according to the What's called the Heaven's yoke not my will because my will can be I want to make money I want to have success in business and another person will say I want to meet my other half another person will say I want to learn or achieve this and that everybody has their will what their what they want to do or how many will be familiar with the term my resolutions I want to do this I I want to do that I want to achieve this and I want to achieve that but that's my will when I going when I'm going after my will then most cases nothing's going to work because I have to understand that I have no will my will needs to be aem's will and when I'm looking at the purpose of R sh or the main thing I need to focus on is accepting the Yoke of sh the Yoke of Heaven is doing the will of hem what is the will of hem that's what I ask myself 50 times a day in every situation that I have every day I ask myself what does a want me to do right now I'm F I'm I'm finding myself in some encounter in some situation instead of reacting impulsively I stop it takes a few seconds in my mind you might not might not notice it but I ask myself a question what does AEM want me to do right now does he want me to get upset does he want me to shut my mouth does he want me to be patient does he want me just to sit and observe does he want me to open my mouth right now and say what I have on my mind I ask this questions 50 times a day and maybe sometimes 100 times a day and maybe 200 times a day but I'm telling you now known as an example I'm that's what I do in every situation that I run into that's what I ask what does theem want me to do right now and in many of the cases I don't get an instant answer I need to come up with an answer because obviously I don't know what wants right now but that's why we are required to learn Torah as much as we can so we learn what's the will of hem so if somebody now comes and does something negative to me is the will of hem for me to get up now and beat the person up most likely not the will of hem is for me not to be impulsive not to lose my temper not to do Shalom something that is against the Torah so not always I I will know what's the will of hem but you definitely want to ask yourself what does hasm want me to do right now and where would you find the answer in the Torah hasem Reveals His will in the Torah in many different ways so when I try to operate in this world I constantly ask myself what does a want me to do right now because in many situations can be very confusing does AEM want me just to sit sit and not do nothing and I ask myself this question all the time whether it's something personal between me and my wife me and my kids in in in public but that's a big question that constantly echoes in my mind what does theem want me to do in this situation and like I told you I don't always get an instant answer and if I don't get an instant in instant answer then I won't do anything impulsive in this situation I will try to figure out what is what's the will the of a and if you're humble enough hem will show you what's his will but the point of accepting the Mal is that I live my life according to Mal according to what hasem wants me to do not according to what I want to do so first of all as a sign not I'm saying that's why you need to learn Tor to understand what's the will of hem to understand in many situations how hasem wants me to conduct my life how hasm wants me to operate and if you don't have the answer then you have to seek for it now the more the all the yoke is stronger that's how the shefa the abundance is greater why cuz you closer to Hashem so if I want to have an abundance in my parasa or an abundance in success in whatever H Journey I'm going on whatever it is the chef can come in many different ways I can have lack of she lack of abundance in my relationships and then my relationship don't work out whether it's my wife my kids strangers co-workers boss Etc if you are surrounded with bad relationships it's not doesn't mean that either well to most people when they have bad relationships they blame everybody don't don't take responsibility but if you're surrounded with with difficult relationships then it's not necessarily that you are the problem or the person in the relationship is the problem could very much be that there's no shef there's no blessing from Hashem in that relationship so you kind of bump head tohe with that individual so again doesn't mean that if in a bad relationship either you are the problem or the other person is the problem or communication or whatever in many of the cases it's the shef so if you lacking parasa your livelihood or you don't have any success in whatever you goal you put yourself whatever uh uh things you wanted to achieve or Shalom health is deteriorating or health is not good also when a person is lacking good health that's lack of shefa which means that the blessing is not coming right down to to to this world anything that happens in this world it doesn't matter whatever you're lacking it's a problem with the connection between you and God of course many things depend on on nature or how you conduct yourself and how you behave but really when you're lacking something in this world it means that you're not so close to hasem that's that's the rule so the rule back to what I was explaining the all the all means the Yoke the stronger the Yoke that you take on yourself that's how the shefer the abundance will be greater and needless to say are closer to the Kad so if we need to summarize what's the main thing I need to focus on in is accepting the Yoke of Heaven is and that's what we do in we we we Crown Hashem to be our king that's really half of the prayers that we sing is we mention We call we call him the king we accepting the the Yoke of of Hashem and we are basically appointing hasem to be our king that's really the theme of R so if I'm appointing hasem to be my king it means I have to also take on myself what Hashem wants me to do Hashem tells me very clearly don't lie then obviously that's hashem's will and if hasem tells me clearly don't slander don't talk that's his will so I need to first before knowing the rules by in a very humble way saying I'm accepting the the O the Yoke of sham that's what you need to focus on for 48 hours that I'm accepting Hashem as my king with all the rules that come with it it's very easy to say oh yeah of course I accept Hashem as my king what other king will I have but that's a kind of hypocrite to say I'm accepting the Yoke the the fact that hasem is the king but I'm not accepting his rules so accepting God as a king is also accepting his rules and taking on myself the Yoke of heaven and why is it called yoke because all it's it means it's not so easy it's not so easy to follow the Torah exactly a you need to learn all the rules B it's not so convenient all the time right now I want to rest or right now I don't want to focus on my kosal diet or I don't want to observe the Shabbat or right now I want to gossip or slander somebody or lie or cheat or steal so when I accept hem as a king on r that's also accepting the rules taking on myself okay whatever the Torah says I'm accepting on I'm going to work hard this coming year that whatever the Torah tells me to do that's what I'm going to do now take a break for a second and look back at the at your last year no don't don't go to to 40 years back just the last year and you don't have to answer that right loud but how many times in the last year have you you took on yourself the Yoke of the Torah and how many times you didn't how many times quietly you said I don't feel like doing this right now the majority and unfortunately that's the reality and again you you don't have to feel bad about it that's most people the reality is that in most of the cases you you let go of the Yoke of Heaven this is that you I don't feel like doing it right now and it doesn't matter deliberately not deliberately by mistake the point is that being very strict with the Torah takes a lot a lot of effort takes a lot of energy takes a lot of discipline and that's why it says accepting the Yoke of Heaven because following the Torah is not simple and in many of the cases it's a I would dare to say it's a burden it's it doesn't come so easy a lot of things that I don't want to do so when I want to look at what do I need to focus on in the next 40 hours CH you like I told you CH we need to do throughout the that's when I prepare myself to why so I can come to with go that I got rid of 80% of my sins so what is left for me to focus on is accepting now why is that so important so I'm going to point out something that the balat says which is very interesting he says that that all the months of the year are called sh if you're looking at the text you're looking at the Tor looking at the prayers looking at different scripts all the months of the year are called the months of the year the only month that is not called why because is called that's it not and you'll find it again in prayers you'll find it in text and you'll find it in many scripts so theat says all the months of the year are called the months of the year and which is the month of is called KES what does it meanes same letters of the word uh Rejuvenation or something new now what is this that's something new the that is we're talking about is the What's called the entire reality is changing the rad Val great cabalist explains and I mentioned that in the class on that during the month of alul the power that he calls it a the power that is how would I explain it the best way I'll give you I explain it differently on R everything is decided as we're going to pray in two days the text and the the prayer says who's going to live who's going to die who's going to be rich who's going to be poor everything is decided in Ros how much money you're going to make who you going to marry when how what everything is decided nothing is decided in the middle of the Year everything is decided on R another big thing that is decided on R is what are going to be your challenges how how intense your challenges are going to be and how muchim you're going to have to go through how many hardship you're going to have to go through this coming year can you imagine that R is not only decided how much money you're going to make and if you're going to be healthy or or or sick or poor or or Rich what are going to be your challenges through this year is decided not only that is decided how much money you're going to make if you're going to be poor or wealthy or sick or healthy it's decided how much hardship you're going to go through what are going to be your challenges if your challenges are going to be difficult or if the challenges are going to be simple we're all going to have challenges throughout the year what is going to be my my my tests that's decided on Ro and how intense they're going to be if they're going to be very intense challenges or they going to be small challenges so since my challenges are also decided on R it means the entire reality is decided on R of the entire world everything is decided so when the balat explains that the month of T is called coming from the same root of the name Rejuvenation everything is new a completely new reality then R sh includes in it all the moments of the entire year every day we pray and we mention a verse that says in his great kindness he recreates the world in every second explains don't say every day every second the recreates the world so in R every moment of the entire year is already decided imagine now the whole year is a movie and you're able to pause the movie or you know for the ones are a little bit more aware how a film goes there's how many frames are shot per second now the camera is filming I can set in the camera how many frames per second 20 frames 30 frames 60 frames if you remember in the old movies you stop and you look at the film and it's like one picture many many pictures the movie makes many many pictures when when a movie runs then you don't see the frame you just see the movie so this is in in the Biblical term can be called a Rea a moment or at a time which means that if you're looking at the entire movie of the year and you stopping one frame it looks like a picture so every moment of the entire year is decided on R every little thing that's why we say every day in our prayer in his great kindness every day he recreates the world like the six days of creation so in R every moment is decided can you imagine that every moment let's say 365 days a year divide that for 20 times that 24 hours times that 60 Minutes for every of hour times that 60 seconds times that you're talking here now millions and millions and millions of frames every Rea every moment is already decided in just imagine the depth of what's going on in those 48 hours and I know many will now raise their hand and say but what about free will I'm also that means I don't have any free will we're not going to get into this right now I spoke about it many times it's not the topic right now but the moments are all decided saying in other words that every moment of your life in the next year is decided on R so the month ofs the entire reality is changing so like I said quing the rad valali he says that onul the power that is deciding your challenges during the month of disappears and on r a new light comes into the world and a whole new light comes into the world everything is completely brand new which means that doesn't matter what you did the entire past year or the last 40 years if you do T Chua the right way and you take r the right way you you're setting a whole new reality brand new reality you can change everything in your path any problem that you have in your life can be changed on R you not having a gooda that can be changed on R completely a person doesn't have kids doesn't find can't find their other half has bad relationships lawsuits problems damages whatever it is what people are going through everything can be changed a completely new reality what is called which means that you have the power to completely change your reality on R I don't think many people really internalize the depth of it now let's analyze very quickly the last year some people had very big difficulties with parasa with livelihood very big more than us some people were challenged with horrible diseases health problems and many other things many have encountered so many other problems that no point of even making a whole list and now you going into and in your heart and in your mind you're hoping you know I want a good new sweet New Year and yeah but words are cheap just to say sh toine I want this yeah but that's not going to change the reality there what we need to understand is you can change the reality you can change the existence of everything that's how insane rashai is and that's how deep the the the the message is we need to take to consideration that R you can transform yourself to something completely different now how often do you get to change yourself by saying I don't want to be like how I was in the last year I want to be a completely different person if in the last year I woke up every day late and I was late to prayer or I didn't even prayer then this time year I going to be a completely different person if in the last year I was failing a lot in slander l or cheating or lying or whatever it is this year I want a completely different person now it all depends how much you want it if you want something very dearly then your prayer will be accordingly and your actions are going to be accordingly so to conclude R sh you can change the reality completely your reality which means that let's say right now you are battling some health issue or Shalom some legal problems just this morning somebody called me please please I need your prayers I have a court day today we have problems in court and this and that and the the reality is on you can change it and you'll get a letter tomorrow from the court that the whole case is dismissed why because if you giving AEM the keys to your problems he can solve all your problems any problem that you have that you're dealing with and many of the problems is not money Health relationships and stuff like that many of our problems is my spiritual growth or my a uh a lot of people they they battling different difficulties in their service to God it's very difficult for them to get up in the morning and pray it's very difficult for them to put F in on very difficult for them to cover their body and be modest a lot of people that's their problems some people tell me no my my livelihood is fine health is okay relationships is fine what I'm battling is all my inclinations all my desires all my forbidden desires and things that's my problem first of all I can I need to congratulate you if this is your problems you're in a much higher level because when you are worried about your parasa your health and relationships and stuff like that you're in a much lower level when you are when you consider your problems is if you're not performing the mitv 100% you're in a much higher level but in most cases it's everything in this world and also your spiritual growth and your level of but the fact is that anything can change instantly whatever you're dealing with right now if you reach to the highest level in the spiritual uh realm of course you can change your reality completely so if I can completely change the reality on R then I want to transform myself to somebody else now how let's say now you would have that option then how would you change yourself would you ask to be a millionaire would you ask to be I don't know successful in business or famous or what would you ask for yourself that's the problem with a lot of people they're asking for basic things of course you know your livelihood is important your health is important but you have to look at not only the things in this world because if you're going to change yourself spiritually by default you'll be successful Anda will be easy and health will be good CU I told you anything that you're lacking in this world whether you're lacking money lacking success in business lacking good relationships lacking Health anything that you're lacking in this world it means that there's a void where Hashem doesn't exist in your life because ifom a person is sick yes you can blame it on a million and one things the nutrition and you know NE negligence of of the health and many other things but really when a person falls into some type of sickness it's a lack of God in that organ which means if it means if I have some type of sickness in a certain organ does not love Godly light there that's why you know the word sick in Hebrew is comes from the same root of kalal kalal means a space or a void which means that right now let's say a person has a sickness in their liver so it means there's AAL there's a void there of Godly Revelation if a person is 100% with AEM then they shouldn't have that void and of course many people will say yeah but I see great righteous people that are sick well you're not righteous you're not a sadic you're a regular person a sadik when you see a sadic sick it's a whole different thing the sadik takes on himself the for the entire nation we are not sikim so it doesn't apply to us don't look at the maali or any other great sadik and say yeah but here you see he was his sick it's aad when I am sick Shalom or Shalom a person is sick in any type of a way I told you the word sick in Hebrew is or comes from the same root of kalal kalal means avoid kalal really is a space or a void that means that that in that void Godly like is Godly light is missing there's lack of Godly light there so going back to what I was saying the main part of R what I need to focus on R is today I need something to focus on R the main thing is to come with the attitude of mas what was was that's it over I did cha already and now I'm starting a whole new reality that's why we had the entire month of to do cha now the reason why our sages gave us a whole month to do cha is not that you can read a lot of you can read the whole book of T in one day our sages gave us a whole month because in that month if you owe money you need to find people that you owe them money or if you need to apologize you need to do things no no you can't do things so in in a day or two but assuming you didn't do such great chuva throughout the month of Al the attitude to come into as the famous breast song what was is in the past the main is to start a new a new start that's how you do chuba is to say I live the sin I'm not going to do this anymore I understand the severity of what I did I'm leing it in the past which means that if you're watching this video tonight today and R sh is in two days and you didn't do chuva the right way throughout the P past month then you take on yourself what was is in the past I am letting go from everything bad that I did throughout the year all my life and I'm starting a whole new reality I'm a whole different person the next year and how do that apply I'm accepting the Yoke of Heaven whatever God tells me to do that's what I'm going to do Hashem tells me to observe Shabbat what do I need to do I'm going to start learning theat I'm going to observe Shabbat this year perfect and with the laws of Kash okay I'm going to learn the laws and I'm going to observe the K the right way or whatever it is now I know a lot of people will say in theory it works but but I'm not going to do that that's the that's the advice of the that he comes and tells you who do you think you are you really think you're going to observe Shabbat better this year you really think you're going to be more stricter in your K di you really think you're not going to say any this coming year come on who are you kidding but that's the talking in your mind CU technically if you Shalom if a person yeah the term the tal uses a term when a sword is a a placed on your neck the tal says that even if a sword is placed on your neck meaning you're you're about to kill you then you shouldn't H fall into despair or lose hope because any second something can change so I have mentioned a few times in the past that in the beginning of my path of chuva uh unfortunately I was in the no other way of saying it unfortunately I got arrested by the FBI and I sat in jail for a long time okay for many bad things that I did and I was facing 40 years in jail that's the indictment I had a very uh long big 49 counts in a Federal indictment and the prosecution demanded 40 years in jail that's it that's pretty a a nice way of saying that a sword is on your neck right facing 40 years in jail I don't know many people facing such a judgment but I didn't lose any hope and I didn't lose any fall into despair because at the time the rabbi that I met who was my first Rabbi told me straight out with the most strongest confidence he just told me it's a is it's a test you know what guts you need to say to somebody something like that and he told me well don't don't worry just Shabbat he told me like this Shabbat Kash and Brit you'll be fine I'm like what that's it now can you imagine what promise he gave me but he told me no no it's just a test from hasem you need to observe Shabbat but really observe Shabbat you need to observe Kut you need to learn Tor of course do CH and guard your breit and you will be fine and sure enough that's what I did I became observant I went to ISA I learned T 24 hours a day I did CH I did whatever he told me and sure enough a year later when I'm standing in front of the judge waiting for my verdict I got out of the whole situation with a year probation and $1,000 fine everybody around me who got arrested in the same case got jailed and some of them are still in jail the only two people who go out of this entire thing is me and my friend iik the only two people who did real Chua this goes to show you that AEM hem has an issue changing a verdict in this world first of all you need to have 100% de that hasem can do whatever he wants Hashem can in his power enliven a dead person well hasem has a a restriction Hashem has any limitation can do whatever he wants Hashem can make a federal judge a puppet and do whatever whatever hasem wants if you give Hashem the keys if you give Hashem the right credit and you havea that hasem can do something has will do whatever he wants I've seen people go out of jail tumors disappear dead people become alive so Hashem can do whatever he wants if you allow him to do that so when I believe in the ability of Hashem and I change my reality completely then I'm a completely different person I'm a new person I'm sure you remember the story with sarahu that she couldn't get pregnant and abrah ainu the three um um Angels came to visit him and one of the Angels told him next year Sarah will have a son so Sarah was listening over ears dropping and she started laughing Hashem looked at Sarah and says are you laughing did you did you really laugh Sarah says no I didn't laugh has says but but I heard you laugh it says in the tor s Sarah says I didn't laugh shim says what are you making a joke out of me I I heard you laugh Sarah says no the old Sarah laugh I did chuva I'm a new Sarah right now so when you change your reality completely then you change everything that's the power of R that's the attitud that you need to go into what was is the past that's it that's the old me the new me no the old me used to cheat lie steal slander that's the old me but now everything is new the entire existence the entire reality new which means means that I have to align myself with a new reality right and then the rest Hashem will do so whoever does the will of hem becomes a Channel or a pipeline for for Hashem that means that the shefa just the the abundance just become goes through you so if you're lacking anything in your life you're lacking money you're lacking success in your business you're lacking relationship you're lack Health whatever you're lacking in this world is you are the problem not AEM which means that you are not the right channel to receive this shef and the example that I can give you let's say right now I'm going to compare Shalom just for the sake of the example compare hasem to Wi-Fi right right now in this room there's Wi-Fi do you see the Wii in the air no open your phone you'll see that there's a network for Wi-Fi but nevertheless the Wi-Fi is in this room all everywhere you go here go there go there same Wi-Fi Hashem is Wi-Fi he's projecting his Godly light into the universe now how do you enjoy Wi-Fi first you need to find the network and then you need the password right for the last two months I traveled in the United States with my family everywhere we went to that's the question I heard from the entire family what's the Wi-Fi so you okay you just need to look for the network and then connect yourself with the password if you're missing one digit or one symbol in the password will you connect to the Wi-Fi no so hasem says I'm here I'm projecting my Godly light to the entire universe you want to receive this chefer you want to receive this blessing in abundance connect to the Wi-Fi first you need to find the network that's equivalent to find God then you need the password the password is the Torah so how can it be that both of us are sitting in the same room Wi-Fi is everywhere you have a connection I don't because I don't know the password or whatever whatever restriction I am putting but the chefi is there which means that if I make the will of hem then I become a channel where the shefa the abundance the energy comes through me so anything will in my way will be successful health will be good I will have true joy and happiness I will have a good sustenance gooda it doesn't mean tomorrow you're going to become a millionaire that doesn't that's a lot of people think oh parasa means I'm a millionaire no parasa means that you can pay your bills you don't have to work hard and you don't have headaches from for money doesn't mean you're going to be the next millionaire and buy 3 BMWs that's not what I'm talking about to have good parasa that you don't have to work hard for your par your customers come to you the money comes easy and you have enough money to live and you don't have debts Etc and same thing with health and same thing with the with relationships and everything it's easy to blame the entire world for all your misfortunes that's what most people do oh this relationship didn't work because this this this this not too long ago I met a person who was complaining how the Mother-in-law ruined their marriage I said okay it's very easy to point a finger at the Mother-in-law but the your marriage is not working because the energy that's coming from above something's wrong there not the Mother-in-law the mother-in-law is not the problem the problem is you and obviously the other side your your spouse that obviously you are not a Clear Channel to receive the blessing of Hashem do you really think that last year on R sh says oh you no money for you you really think that Hashem is like sitting in shamim and you didn't say something or do something so it says next year you're going to be sick the whole year I mean what kind of nonsense is that Hashem blesses you in R sh with an abundance of everything you are the problem of receiving this abundance this blessing this shefa now when you're blaming the entire world that's already a problem can't blame anyone for your misfortunes we're just now a whole month we're reading one of the paragraphs of this says if you confess your sins and you acknowledge that you sin then your sin will be forgiven but if you are pre pretending you didn't do anything then then you're going to have to face it right that's what the we say in this if you confess it it will be that's what hasem wants I recently learned that the main part of your atonement and your kapar and your forgiveness is when you confess that's it that's it saying in other words that what's the highlight of the prayer Shar is V doing is the confession part and some go by the no of the and they also do that when you confess that's it so many people understand oh the the highlight of the prayer is Isel okay no no no doubt very high peak of the prayer or many will say what are you talking about that's the peak of the the the top of the prayer that's also true but really the highlight of the prayer is when you confess your sins that's it and for whatever reason most people don't like that part of the prayer it's called and because in certain occasions we don't say the confession if it's a special dayes and other situations or if there's a certain event like AIT a groom then we don't say I told you I once lived in some community and in the the Sho where I prayed they had a book of all all the of all the there was never in that there was always something going on and I was like what kind of show is that this is the highlight of the prayer is the V when I confess my sins because when I confess my sins I acknowledge that I was wrong that's when Hashem says okay I'll let you go I don't like when people are trying to give excuses for why things happen but she did and he said and then just confess and just say I I I I I sinned okay it was too hard for me [Music] the you want to run to the safe room it's in the back but we have three walls yeah we have a Shem we have a Shem the walls don't make any difference you're to heal him yeah there's a lot of here the confession is really what hasem wants and you know what I see it also with my kids when I educate them I just tell them just just just admit just admit that's it when you don't admit and I know you were wrong then that's what gets me upset admit and of course admitting requires from you great level of humility but I'm telling you already the secret how Hashem operates he just wants you to admit that you were wrong that's it that's why we say three times a day we do it okay different people have different but to the majority most people say three times a day and if you don't listen I'm I'm going to get now to the every little person some I I mentioned that in one of my classes a few weeks ago and some person told me but asazi I don't they say do in don't be technical right now even say it once a day on or but the point that I'm saying is that the confession the admitting that's where you you're going to get your forgiveness that's where you're going to get the blessing from God so going back to what I was saying is Hashem is everywhere Hashem is projecting his Godly light and his Blessing on everybody trust me Hashem doesn't sit in the heavens on R sh and says oh you were such a not good person in the last year no food for you no for you this year you're not getting married you think is a third grade great teacher that you did something and he punishes you of course Hashem wants you to go on the right path and yes many times we will go through many different challenges and many different difficulties by the way the challenges and the difficult ities like I told you are decided on and the challenges that you have and the difficulty that you have is to to to make you grow spiritually if you wouldn't have that you would grow spiritually so much so Hashem by default will give you challenges if you have a challenge right now it doesn't mean it's coming to you because you sinned that's a whole different thing yes when you sin you do damage the the the pipelines the channels of this abundance by default you will feel it on yourself but nevertheless I guarantee to you unless the person is a completely rash a completely Wicked person that's a whole different thing I'm talking about normal people that are observing the Tor in the MIT if you are a normal person that tries to observe the Torah to the best of your ability then sh blesses you with everything you are the problem for not receiving it because either you sin a lot so your sin is you choking so to say the the pipeline now even again go to the text of what we say now the whole month in that by my sins I damage the that's what happens if I now slander cheat lie steal whatever it is the the channel where the shefa the blessing comes from I I choke it like any pipe if you take now drainage and it's clogged of course you know the water won't go go through take the clog out take the the the clean the drainage and we'll be fine same exact thing so don't think for a second hasem is not blessing you on R sh because you've been a bad person if you're Wicked then it's a whole different situation but the reality is that on R Hashem blesses you with everything you you are the one who are stopping the shefa if you're lacking something in your life it means you are doing something wrong one is what you're doing wrong then obviously you are not accepting the Yoke of heaven so by default the blessing and the abundance cannot come to you that's it so let's reverse it if I am doing the will of Hashem then I become a channel for this energy for this shefa this abundance to come through me so everything in my life will be blessed I will have good health I will have good relationships I will have good sustenance Anda my ideas will come to fruition my goals my challenges and most important my my service of hem you know many people come to me and tell me you know I there's a sin that I can't get rid of and I don't know what to do so the answer to that is don't focus on the sin that you're doing that you can't get rid of focus on doing the shem's will and when you focus on hashem's will hasem by default you'll become a channel to receive the blessing and then by default it will be easier to for you to overpower your this specific sin so to make a little bit of SED to put everything in the right perspective on what is required for me is to accept all to accept Hashem as my king now I know a lot of people say of course I accept Hashem as my king yeah but Hashem as a king comes also with a bunch of rules so if you accepting Hashem as a king you also have have to accept the rules now once you accept the rules and you're doing hashem's will then you become the channel or the term in cabala is called or a pipe and the shef the energy the abundance is flows through you so R it's the time that a person can renew the connection with hem to bring back the situation to how it was doesn't matter what you did doesn't matter what you did I'm telling you the most sever sins that you did if you do Chua and you leave the path that you're going on and you are accepting the Yoke of hem you are renewing your connection with God that's it that's what you can achieve on R sh you can walk into R like a revolving door you walk in full of sins but you make a decision in I'm not doing this anymore I am not doing these sins I'm a whole different person that's it you are making a whole new connection with AEM now of course there's always the option of you sinning 2 minutes after right and the reason why you don't accept on yourself what I just said because there's a little whisper in your ear or in your mind by the yet who's telling you who are you kidding all it takes is a little Temptation and in two days you sin right that's what the tells you in your mind who are you kidding I'll make you sin in a in a second and a half and not only that you don't believe in yourself you don't believe that if you will take on yourself the Yoke of hasem that you'll be able to sustain it why because you believe your yet but I'm talking about facts right now you can walk into rashash and say I'm a completely different person this year and you AC I accept on myself the Yoke of hasem I am accepting H hasem as my king and you can change the reality complet completely completely and like I told you because all your problems whatever problem you have every person has problems many people if not most people have financial problems and again the blessing here is not for you to be a millionaire nobody says you have to be a millionaire but you want to have good P meaning that you you don't have to work so hard you work whatever your job is whatever your business is that's it and you have enough money to support yourself and your family and to buy the things that you need and more doesn't say anywh that you have to be the next gazillionaire right you don't want to be a millionaire trust me who needs this headache and trust me it's a headache you want to have enough money to live comfortable and not to worry about where you're getting your next shekele or your next dollar or how you going to pay the rent and that's that you're not worried that you're saying oh okay have a good business I have an income bills are always paid food is always on the table clothes are always new and clean I have a nice car nice apartment I go on a vacation once a year or twice a year you don't need to ask for too much you just need for to ask for your parasa to be simple and easy same thing with your health doesn't mean that now you're 70 years old you going start R running a marathon but you want to have good health meaning that you don't have to walk from Doctor to doctor or pain and aches and pains all day long and my back hurts and my this hurts and this hurts and you just want to live a normal normal healthy life or many other things I mean I'm just talking about now your livelihood and health it can be relationships it can be things that you lacking in your life the fact is that all your problems you you focus on your problems all your problems in your life is there's not enough revelation of God in your life in that department and why you are the problem not anybody else not your spouse not your parents not your boss not your neighbors not the theah you are the problem if you're lacking something in your life abman says either you didn't pray for it or you didn't pray enough for it so I will add on that you're doing something that you don't have what you what you need or what you're lacking you are the problem you are the problem you are the designer of your own problems but again to Define it more clear you have problems in your life is lack of Godly Revelation in that department that's it now how do you change it now we figured out the the concept how do I change it then you need to things the first thing you don't need to do much is you just need to show up to sh and listen to the chaar that's it the chaar the blowing of the chaar is the Sol solving all your problems and again you don't have to do much you just have to wake up go to the nearest je and listen to the chaar 100 times that's it the chaar will do its thing that's why I started before by telling you about the the says when R sh falls on Shabbat and we're not blowing the shaar in many of the cases was a bad year so the first thing you need to do is listen to the chaar that's the Mitzvah of the day not the apple and the honey and not all the rest of the stuff shaar that's the Mitzvah of the day you need to bring yourself to theet to hear Thea and if you don't live next toet you have a problem you need to go find the hotel and be next to a synagogue where you can hear the chaar blowing or unless you know how to blow it yourself or somebody else can blow it for you but that's the first thing that needs to be done and I'm not going to explain now the whole cabalistic explanation of the chaar I'm just telling you what is the things that solves the problem first thing is the chaar the second thing is a real genuine prayer and what I mean by genuine prayer is that you really want that prayer to happen if Shalom you are diagnosed with a horrible disease I don't wish you that and you really want to get rid of the situation your prayer is different if you now going to be shalom in a real big problem if you don't have a little bit of whatever money to pay some debt they'll throw you to jail or the mafia is going to come and blow your house up your prayer is completely different their problem is that most people don't really have genuine prayers when you in a real big problem then your prayer is completely different right that's it when you feel you're about to die Shalom from the sickness that you have and you screaming from the bottom of your heart to Hashem to heal you that's a real prayer and when if you're not going to get the sum of money that you need to pay whatever debt and you're going to be in big trouble or whatever I don't know the IRS is after you the mafia is after you I don't know I can tell you that most prayers are not genuine prayers it's not really the will that you want when you really want something imagine now let me give you a harsh example there is 101 hostages sitting in AA for almost a year almost a year if enough people would have the real desire for them to be out and their prayers will be genuine they would be out out already but you know who has genuine prayers their loved ones you don't have a genuine prayer for the hostages to be released you read T you post on your Facebook whatever but ask yourself this question you really want them out you really pray 24 hours you can't wait to see them no you don't even know who they are for them it's a picture for you it's a picture but the mother of a hostage that's genuine prayer that's real prayer I'm just giving you one example out of many if Shalom the person that you love the most in this world is on their deathbed in a hospital your prayer is completely different so you need gender in prayer you really need a real prayer on R sh and a real prayer will rip the heavens that's what you need and a real prayer that's why when we pray three times a day we read the the chapter of if you notice it goes by the alphabet goes when you get to pay you say right open your hands everybody goes like this they open their hands I don't even know what they're doing but listen to what the verse says right open your hands means he gives to every living soul will does that make sense to you I know in English the translation doesn't make sense but in Hebrew technically it should be right that you opening your hands to receive the abundance what does AEM give you Ron what look at the meditate on the verse for a second I would think that the common sense says open your hands to receive the blessing and satisfies or fulfills the needs of every living soul with with health with with livelihood with with the right God-fearing that hasem gives means when you fo you ate a lot and and you full it's called s I'm I'm full when you fool not a fool when you full and you have the best chocolate cake in front of you you can't eat anymore right when you're hungry you'll eat the whole cake and the table but you're already after a whole meal somebody now puts Great Dessert on the table there's no room for anything because you're severe you have enough now how many times in your life you can say that on your life that you had I'm I have enough money AEM I have enough happiness everything's good in my life can you ever looked up to and says hem die die enough that's what we seeing right this is a verse from the T I will give you a blessing be be beyond what you can handle then you're going to that you're going to say die die die die die means enough have you ever reached to that point in your life that you look up to the heavens and you're saying AEM die enough it's too much money I don't know what to do with all this money oh the the the joy in my life is too much I can't take this happiness it's too much I need some disasters so you never reach to that point right and I'm going to say in paren say that you are the problem not Hashem hasm will give you hem if he want he will give you so much of everything that you'll throw up already so when it says Mas Mas means that hem will give you what you need to be full that's it satisfied but what is he giving to every living Soul what is he giving us money health wealth Fame power no Raton means will so let's again explain understand the verse you open your hand to receive the blessing like when you want to receive something you have to open your hand that he gives to every living Soul Raton that's what I've been talking about before you want to have the you want to have the will of hem and that's why I told you that what I ask myself constantly what does hasm want for me right now in every situation that I have I meet what I ask myself what does hasem want me to do right now you want to fulfill the will of hem you want your year to be blessed you have to ask what does hasem want me to do I want to align myself that I fulfill what hasem wants not what I want cuz if I will question myself what I want I will say I want a lot of money I want to be young again I want to be beautiful I want to be skinny I want to be rich I want to be famous I want I want I want that's like a four-year-old now if I would come and ask you now what are you wishing for yourself for the next year so most people will wish from themselves I want to be healthy I want to be successful I want to Bey right I don't know many people will say I want to be happy I want to be waking up at 5:00 in the morning to PR I want to have much more power to overpower my my evil inclination you have to know what you need to ask if has wants to give you money he'll give you money if has wants you to have great relationships he will bless you with that you need to do hashem's will there's a mishna in the m in the ethics of the father that it says make your will his will so he will make his bill your will right in English maybe doesn't sound so sophisticated like the mishna but the the the advice is that make your will his will so he can make your will his will right I want hashem's will to give me what I need so yes so our SES says so make your will his will what does AEM want from you to be a good person not to be judgmental not to be jealous not to be mean not to be rude not to be whatever hasem you can figure out what Hashem wants from you so the point you need to focus on R is accepting the Yoke of hem and I want to do hashem's will everything else let Hashem do for you he will do whatever he needs to do for you that's really what you need to focus on it's not a lot and that's why I told you in the beginning easier said than done the in theory what I just said is very easy now let's see how you apply that so one last tip how to apply that we just read in the Tor now right and it says this is always read before and it says you are all standing today what does it mean today the Torah was given 3,300 plus years ago means R the day of R so if you want to be standing it comes with a condition together that's the trick Something That We're lacking in our nation and as a human race it's called Unity it doesn't matter if you are a left-wing uh Democrat or a right-wing Republican or it doesn't matter how you call yourself if you're Orthodox secular it doesn't matter right now the fact is that as long as we are not United then we're not going to be standing firm on R that's the trick now for you to bring World Peace you're not going to make it trust me in the last 20 years I'm trying to do that it doesn't work it will take a miracle mashia will probably be the individual that will be able to make it happen not you maybe you actually who am I saying maybe you are going to be the one but trust me it's not so easy to bring Unity I can tell you that I now concluded two months of a tour in the United States oh I have a lot of material for you starting next week I have so much material for you I have so much lectures prepared just from the experience of the last two months wait normally my tour is a week or two now it's 2 months I'm telling you I have material for the whole year and you'll be very happy and and satisfied with all that I have to say I gathered with me a lot of experiences in the last two months but one thing I can tell you stood up no Unity fake Unity people pretend is a Unity no unity in our nation no unity in the human race everything is separated everybody hates each other in general people say of course what are you talking about yeah yeah well I'm talking about what I see in front of my face the most dominating thing negative that I experienced on myself in the last two months is the the baseless hate the jealousy the the the disgusting filth of hating each other for no reason and even if you have a reason who are you to hate somebody else and wait wait I have a lot of information to give over in a lot of interesting classes my observations of what I saw in the last two months but one thing I can tell you for sure no Unity it's fake unity and even if there was some communities that pretended to be tolerant to others it's all pretending to find a person that really really loves everybody doesn't matter their opinions or where they come from it's like maybe like a how do you say a needle in a Hast sack and then then it's almost impossible to find that person and then we wonder why we have problems I don't know which with which Sid you prayer but in most of the sidim the first thing that you say that's what the result us that you start your Pray by saying I am accepting on myself to love everybody right how many people actually do it I'm not going to say a number right listen I also don't like a lot of people I also don't like a lot of people how they behave how they talk what they sue what they say but I don't hate them you don't need to agree with me in everything that I say but it don't mean that doesn't mean you need to hate me right very simple I don't agree with many people how they conduct their lives how they treat other people how they behave how they present themselves I don't agree with most people I only agree with the people who go in the path of the Torah but I don't hate anyone and listen I talk pretty strong harsh and I know a lot of people don't agree with what I say that's totally fine but don't hate me that's the problem that we have you don't you're not required to agree with every individual you think hey that person things be okay our entire faith is based on disagreements but when two sages disagree with each other you think they hate each other I met a rabbi who I don't know if to say to consider the rabbi a friend or what I know the rabbi and we agree on a lot of things and we also don't agree on a lot of things and we know that we don't agree on a lot of things but I don't hate him and he doesn't hate me I don't slander him he doesn't slander me certain things we agree on certain things we don't agree that's it and listen the things we don't agree on are pretty big things it's not that we don't agree on like something small it doesn't matter right now what we don't agree on you might have a clue if knowing where I to what direction I pull doesn't matter we don't agree but we're still friends when we meet each other I so I'm now in America America but I don't hate him and I don't slander him and he doesn't hate me and he doesn't slander me as the American says let's agree to disagree okay so to disagree with somebody that's one thing but to hate another person that's not acceptable and there's no reason in the world why you should hate another person unless it's a terrorist that's coming to kill you right so the problem that we have is this this BAS hate everybody has it to some extent I don't believe you are the one that can wave and say I'm the one who loves everybody and if you are stand aside you you are one of the few that can say that I don't hate anybody the says go to his grave down here and you'll say what it says the first thing first of all you want to you want to come in front of hem you have to say to hasem I'm here by I I love everybody I accept Everybody Somebody attacked me not too long ago again on the trip and he attacked me and I told him you know what's the difference with you and me that you don't accept me because I'm an observant Jew and the difference between you me to you that I accept you even though you stand for everything against the Torah right cuz he came and attacked me that he he doesn't even know me he assumed that since I am an observant Jew he called me Orthodox however he called me doesn't matter he assumed that because I am a God-fearing Jew and follow the Torah that I don't like him or or or I don't accept him cuz he's gay that's was his assumption so he attacked me for being religious for this and I said you see the difference between you and me you I told him you don't like me because I am a right I have a beard and I have a I look very very intimidating to you right but you also assuming that I don't like you cuz you stand for everything against the T you don't observe Shabbat you don't eat kosher and to top on that you loud say I'm gay so you're assuming I don't like you and told that's the difference between the two of us you really don't like me because I am everything that you stand against and you're assuming that I don't like you but I told him that's where you fail I didn't tell you I don't like you I didn't tell you I hate you you assume that I hate you but that's the difference between us so what if you're gay and you desecrate Shabbat or whatever you however you call yourself don't don't assume what I hate or what I don't hate I don't like you necessarily I won't agree with your approach to the Torah or how you behave in regarding to the Torah but I don't hate you as a person I don't hate any person even the people who do bad things to me I don't hate anybody I don't hate anyone and why because hate is a very negative emotion and I'm not willing to give anybody the satisfaction to carry in me a negative emotion because of you I don't hate anybody I don't carry hate to any individual I don't hate people and even if the people the person did something bad to me because I don't believe anybody can do anything bad to me if something bad happens in my life that's Hashem doing it to me and that person who did that thing is the messenger of Hashem and if hasem wanted the the Messenger will change from this person to this person so I don't hate the person who does something bad to me I understand if a person does something bad to me it's because I did something wrong and I have an issue with theem and I need to now correct myself so if you want to achieve most of what I just covered in this class you won't be able to achieve it coming into if you're carrying hate to another person that's it you want to stand firm on now don't twist what I'm saying I don't agree with most people by the way if you don't go 100% with the toah I don't I don't agree with you but I don't hate you I don't slander you I don't go in go goip about you I don't go and spread lies about you I will say bluntly I disagree with your path but I don't hate you so I don't I don't have baseless hate I don't hate anyone and I'm bluntly saying loud that I disagree with most people and why because I agree with one thing the Torah if you and me go together in the same path on the Torah I agree with you even though in the Torah we can find many places of disagreement youri I can find a lot of places in the Tor that will disagree in the Torah but as our sages say if it's for the sake of sh if the disagreement isem sh then it's the the disagreement is for to finding out the then the disagreement is is kosher but if we disagree on something that it's not sh that's a whole different thing but I can tell you already I don't hate any person do whatever you want to me I won't hate you and you know when people slander me you know people trash me you know when people go against me and now I met all of them in the United States oh what I met oh trust me you're going to have a lot of fun in the classes I'm going to come out with in the next two months but I don't hate again I will disagree or I don't agree with the behavior I'll give you one example and then we'll conclude in one of the towns that I stopped to give a lecture I experienced the most hate towards me and I'll explain in one of the other classes it doesn't matter right now but an encounter happened in one of the lectures in that town that a individual who calls himself a rabbi hates me so much that he made it his business to come to the lecture to disturb and to make sure that the people who come to his sh get up and leave he came to see who came to the lecture and in the middle of the lecture he came to people and told them to get up just that's the level of hate his wife came in the middle of the lecture stood in front of the camera to block the camera that's that's that's that's craziness and then in a disgusting way that person went to people and eventually came to my son and asked my son for my mother's name cuz they need to pray for me that's how disgusting Behavior you coming to my lecture disturbing the lecture telling people in the crowd to get up and then you asking my son for my mother's name so you can so he can pray for me okay so you disagree with what I say that's the level of your hate that's hate I don't care if you disagree with what I say shut up and stay in your own your own Sho don't come and disturb in my lecture that level of hate forget about that it's unacceptable that's because of an individual like that there's no bet mdash and there's no mashia I don't care if you disagree with what I say that you're already in level of hate not disagreeing disagreeing you think every person that I disagree with I go online and I make a whole stink out of it I wouldn't even stop talking if I would had to do stuff like that I don't agree with most people most people I don't agree with them because they're going against the Torah if you go according to the Torah I have no issue with you but if you're going somewhat against the Torah and it doesn't matter if you have a beard and a yamaka you know my opinion most of the Torah observant especially rabers all fake because they're pretend to be observant then they're really not so yeah I will disagree with many but I don't hate that's the point so if you want everything that I just taught you in the last hour and a half to apply and to work you can't come to r with hating another person and there's a big difference like lights and night and day between disagreeing and hating when we're talking about it's not talking about it's talking about hate and unfortunately maybe that's one of the reasons why wanted me to go to the United States I saw in the last two months the hate not the disagreeing hate I saw pure hate in people's eyes that's such a low level of an individual that's I don't know even hasem can help that such of a person so my advice to you is even if you disagree with somebody don't hate them because when you hate another person nothing that I just told you will ever work so if you are finding out that in your life things are not working out how you want to question yourself not God not the people who do things to you question yourself that if you are standing in front of God knows everything he doesn't need to question hasem knows your your thoughts your feelings your emotions you can't hide from Hashem so if you standing in front of hem and pretending and really deep down inside you carry hate for another person cuz they said something against you or did something against you or they believe different than you who are you fooling you think you're fooling somebody if you approach hasem on and you have hate to another person doesn't matter who it is and what they did to you forget about what I just told you go home it won't work and then don't cry the whole year that your year nothing's going working out in your life things don't work out in your life you have the problem and if in the last year the year was bad bad things didn't work out question yourself you stood in front of hem lying and by lying I mean that you pretend like you're so Pious and really you carry inside of you hate for another person because they're more successful or they're more smart or they're more attractive or more rich or they just said something about you or whatever and that's the problem we have and that's why Hashem is going to bring the Gula however he wants to bring it it's not going to come so smooth and nice like people want and that's the problem is the hate the I mean I'm not bringing any new thing to the table bet mikdash that the Holy Temple was destroyed from from B and until this is going to stop we're going to have a problem so like I told you to go and make a campaign now to change the entire world forget about it I'm trying for the last 20 years it doesn't work it's not going to work you're going to need something harsh to make everybody like each other and I don't want to say even what will be the harsh measure that Hashem will have to do then we're going to start liking each other so I'm not talking about now globally that leave to mashia and hasem I don't know how he's going to do that but in your own personal life if you have hate towards another person everything that I just told you won't work you will never change you will never be blessed like how you want to if you standing in front of hem and pretending you're doing chuva and pretending you're so Pious and deep down in your heart you hate another person and doesn't matter what that person did to you and I'm telling you some people did some horrible things to me I'm not upset at them and I definitely don't hate them because I understand that they are just a messenger from God Hashem could choose whatever Messenger to do if somebody came and slandered me or trashed me or physically attacked me or whatever I don't look at the messenger that's an approach of a dog take a stick now and hit a dog the dog is going to bite the stick he's not going to bite you the dog doesn't understand that it's you that's swinging the stick so the dog will go after the after the stick so when somebody comes and does something bad to you he's not the problem you are the problem Hashem allowed it to happen as Extreme as it can be therefore doesn't matter what you'll do to me I don't hate any any person because I know that that's an issue I have with Hashem besides like I told you hate is a very strong powerful negative emotion and character trait why should I carry this cancer in me people who hate a lot they don't sleep well they don't digest well they're not they're not really peaceful people or happy people cuz they carry in them this hate my motto is nobody's worth my peace and my happiness you're not worth my hate towards you because if I hate another person I'm carrying the hate which means that I'm the one who's carrying the negativity and I'm sorry to tell you that you're are not worth it nobody in the world is worth my peace my happiness so I don't hate anybody besides it's a very low level to hate another person because God is really in charge of everything which means if you did something bad to me I deserved it and it came from God and God just chose you to be the staff that hits me so if you want to fulfill everything that I just told you and I'll summarize that to you in two in two sentences R is the time that everything can be changed to a whole new reality in less than 4 hours you are walking into a dimension where you can change your reality day and night anything that's bad in your life that you need to change can be changed in 48 hours on r with and the right prayer and accepting Hashem as your king that's what we do in and with the King comes a whole list of rules which means that when I'm accepting hem as my king I'm accepting the Yoke of the Torah and that's why I'm going to live the entire year come like this to sh you can change your reality you can reverse any situation you have anything I told you today somebody talked with me somebody's suing them and financial issues I told them in R you can flip it it will disappear if you do what I tell you and if you don't have any hate especially to the one who's suing you how not to have hate that he has to deal with so is the time where you can change your reality you can be a completely different person you go in like a revolving door you go in one way whoop you come out completely different all depends on you Hashem is there to give you all the blessing that you need you need to do follow what I just told you and I'm not inventing it I'm summarizing from books I'm not inventing anything I'm just telling you what I read in books and what I apply my your so if you want to be blessed with a good year you want Health you want par you want to be married you want kids doesn't matter what you want if you want something you need to make your will God's will I'll say the other way around you need to make God's will your will then God will make his will your will and he will give you whatever you want but first make your will his will and it will won't work if you carry hate towards another person end of story here that's summary of 2 hours how long is the class 2 hours 1 hour and 50 minutes I wanted it to be a short class considering to my other classes it's pretty short so all for me is to wish you sh May bless you with everything that you need hasem should bless you with everything that you desire want and mainly need but IEM should bless you to have the Awakening to understand that sh you can flip the situation you change the reality you create a brand new reality can you imagine clean slate no sins no debt no problems brand new reality who wouldn't want such a thing Shem is offering you on a gold platter I'll change your entire reality just accept the Yoke of Heavens just accept me as your king with all the rules that comes with it and my Golden Nugget the little secret or the key to the back door don't come into hating any person you hate one person that's it the whole deal is over and I told you disagreeing is not hating so I'm only going to leave you here with wishing you sh bless you with everything that you need in an abundance and may He bless us as a nation with true and Final Redemption that should come with peace and mercy and bem I hope to see you in a few days a completely different person