How does a woman surround her neshama with the holy words of Torah? Part 2

so it's true it's very important to manage to learn support his family and even the lubavitcher rebbe to make sure that young men after they're done in their whole program of studying they get married in differently in different places it's customary that the man goes and studies in a corner for a while the laboratory instated that no you have to study study for one year you will study one year in corner and that's it then you go out to the world besides the big advantage of a man going out to the world and working is that he has the opportunity to affect other people too when he's doing business to say a little something about Torah to meet another Jew to make give him a big teaching something even bringing a little bit closer to Torah tell him some things so when a man goes up to the world he has the ability to affect the world so it all depends from which angle it's looked on if a person is studying a little bit and they just to say okay I'll be obligated to study - I'll do what I'm supposed to do but then I'm gonna go out and I need to do business and I wanna make money and I want to buy a beautiful car and they and you have a beautiful vacation every three months in a fancy house it's kind of beating the points but if a man says no no I have to go and work because I have to support my family and I have to pay the mortgage or the rent that I have to send my kids to Shiva and I have to buy food etc etc but my main thing is I want to study Torah so I'm going to work I do want to need to do when I'm out there at work every Jew that I'll meet I'll say something something about Torah I'll make them come a little bit closer to throw up tell them a little bit of a of a anything that I learned but the main thing is the studying of the Torah not necessarily the actual work and there's a there's a sane Hasidic saying the world is like a fair and what is a fair or like a market let's put it this way when a person goes when in the olden days you know a man used to go in the morning to the market and try to sell his merchandise and once he sold it you were going by other merchandise or you know one would come with his eggs and he who were traded to for milk so the market was like a place where people would and deal with things and exchange things etc etc so there's a sinister story that says you know this world is like a market like a fair when when the day starts you you coming to the fair and you have to deal with something you have to to make business you have to to to sell something in order to earn something you have to exchange something so same thing with this world we come to this world every day is like a Dana Fair we come to do something to to to grab a mitzvah to grab something so when we when we program our day that the surrounding of the days to go to work to make business to make a lot of money we're kind of missing the point but when when our mind is programmed that I'm going out to work now to be able to to go out to the world and influence the world and elevate the world make the world better and take the money that I've earned and to elevate it to the holy holy things and that is the real point so to sum it all up even though a woman is not obligated in starting Torah this is no prohibition for her to study Torah and she's you know even encouraged to study Torah as much as she can every free moment and for the another question if she doesn't study to her because she's busy taking care of the kids were doing miracle Salim and many other things then a woman in essence is connected to Hashem automatically she doesn't have to know much that's why women are not obligated in all the mitzvahs women are obligated in very few mitzvahs and all the rest are not really obligated in the mitzvahs because there's already connected to Hashem more than that when a person opens starts his day the right way sang the morning blessings washing the hands in the right way starting the day the right there on the right way praying even a woman it means to pray shahadat and once a person sets the day in a holy manner than the whole day he's how'd you say he's surrounded with the holy words of the Torah and there's a I'm going to end with a short story and everybody obviously knows Davi Davi left King David King David was the king was the melody silent and and what was he doing all day long he would study Torah King David's death in beit hamikdash will not be the mintage it wasn't a meters but he stayed in his palace and he studied Torah all day long and then what did he do he had a dummy the mother had a cousin you're been through you he took his cousin and he appointed him to be the chief of staff the general of all of his armies cuz he was like you know the most professional person to to to the task and he was so good and so professional in the best the Davi the millet had completely peace of mind for his studies cuz he said my cousin is there running all the wars and running the army he had such a peace of mind that he was able to study all day long so his cousin you have been surah since he was busy all day long with there we know army and the wars and all that stuff he didn't have time to study it even says in the Torah you were one when you are work when you're on the road you have to be focused you have to be concentrated you can't be busy in the middle of a war you know what is studying so you have barely studied but because that he did his job so great then that with a minute had the peace and quiet to sit and study on day long he got the merit of the studying too so even though we the middle did all his studying his cousin you up in surah the the chief of staff Mohammed Khan the head of the armies who didn't study at all got the merit of studying from the Villa Mella so if the husband has to go and work all day long to provide for the family and the woman is sitting safely at home and and she's comfortable knowing that her husband will come home and prove and we'll be able to sustain the family then it should give her the peace of mind to sit at home and pray quietly study Torah be immersed in in in in mitzvahs individual custody and as a result from that her husband will merit from her studies so hopefully we you increasing study of Torah your husband boy will be able to study in and merge it the right way with with doing business and this other chef soon we're all gonna merit to be with mushiya we're all gonna be studying Torah all day long and if you have any other questions please feel free to ask