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to find your task in your life for your
mission you have to see where shampoo
chill first of all when it comes to my
god fearing or my behavior or my how I
serve God then like I said before
nobody's exempt from any mitzvot I have
to dole them it's what but I have to
look now at the mitzvot that I love to
do the most and them it's what are the
most hardest for me to do and these to
the extreme from both sides these are
the mitzvot that I have to do the most
meaning that if I don't like praying I
don't know giving silicon a lot like
learning Torah but I really really like
Shabbat and I really like to be due to
teacher whatever I have to see the two
extremes cuz usually what I'm going to
be best at and what I really don't like
these are the things I have to emphasize
in my abode at the Shem then when it
comes to refining myself that you have
to believe the ego outside and to make a
list of all the things that you are
really good at and all the things that
you're really bad at meaning in your
yards to your emotions you can say I'm
very kind
I'm very forgiving I'm very generous I'm
very happy but some very judgmental and
I'm very sad and I'm very quick to to
react and you look at what a Shem gave
you that is good she made you very kind
means that you have to do a lot of
charitable acts Shem gave you a lot of
wisdom means that you have to teach and
inspire shame again whatever it is and
it doesn't have to be you don't have to
be Einstein and if Hartsville Shalom
you're quick to judge or can't control
your anger or jealousy you know that's
what I need to refine myself with now
when it comes to your place in the world
you have to make a very easy calculation
Shem put me in this city in this
neighborhood this is my profession this
is my hobby this is the things that make
me happy you put all these together that
will give you a very clear roadmap and
you have to be of course honest you have
to put it down in a nice on his way if a
sham put me here in Phoenix means that
I have to do something here means that I
have to influence people around me I
have to inspire somebody if I'm a shame
made me a carpenter then I have to use
my talent so I would not to shame and
how am i making the world better with my
talent and how can I affect I always
give the same example this one run young
lady came to me with the same question
and she told me I'm 19 years old I was
born into a religious family I always
kept Shabbat I always ate kosher I'm
always dressed modest I always pray I'm
like a goody-two-shoes
I'm like I'm a good girl but what am i
contributing to society what did they
come to do here I'm obviously a man you
know in the spiritual side I'm a good
girl
and I start asking her questions and
then I told her what do you like to do
nothing really said something this must
be something that you love doing
everybody has something at least one
thing that they love doing one person
likes to ride a bike and other person
likes to cook another person likes to
tune it and to so till you must we have
something that makes you happy it's not
such a thing she says I like to dance
said Oh dancing is great she was like
why are you dancing anyway once a month
I go to a wedding what do you mean what
what am I gonna do with dancing I don't
know listen you live in Brooklyn in a
neighborhood where people are very poor
they all have six seven eight kids in
these small apartments the kids are
bored out of their mind why don't you
make dance studio for little girls and
you can maybe charge maybe three dollars
a child because they're these families
don't have money but you're gonna give
these girls some activity in the
afternoon the mothers are gonna be happy
because you're taking away the girls you
can make a little bit of money and more
than that you can teach these young
girls that it's fun to dance and for
them to be happy and at the same time
they can still be modest and be covered
and how a holy their body is and what it
is to be a but Israel a holy girl and I
told her you can inspire these girls
you're gonna be their hero
you're gonna make them just flap their
hands even if they don't know how to
move it doesn't matter little girls just
want to like jump up and down and dance
and and I told her much more things and
sure enough she went to it you know now
she has a big dance studio she chooses
it she charges nothing I don't know like
maybe ten dollars for the girl for one
girl but she's packed all ages it's
amazing she has already a logo and a
studio and she developed it as a
business but I told it look how many
girls you are inspiring all these little
girls are always gonna remember my dance
class that taught me that I can dance
but at the same time I can beat snow I
can be modest and it's nothing nothing
wrong with me dancing and it's fun and
look how much you can do because Hashem
gave you this real talent that you would
never think in your wildest dream that
you can service him with it so when
Hashem gives you a present you have to
look what Ashim gave me oh you know now
we have a new member in our community
very special individual I think you met
him I think he was in the Shabbat when
you came and he came to look for me
because he had a very unique near-death
experience he was he woke up in a morgue
he had a he had a near-death experience
yeah and he woke up in the morgue can
you imagine long story short he is now
part of our community a very very
special guys in his late 40s is in
studying in our men's program and he is
one of the most amazing carpenters you
ever saw we started putting you to work
you can't imagine the the art such
amazing talent so now we formed my wife
always forms all these kids activities
so she made activities for the blue boys
to learn carpentry build things build
their own toys whatever it is an
afternoon activity instead of them going
and looking and internet and nonsense
and movies and games they were building
and I know how much they enjoy it and
this guy is teaching them and we have
like workshops and my whole little hotel
in every path you go you should see and
recognize the shame and do something so
you have to take all that I just told
you take a notebook write it down
and you've seen what a sham wants from
you besides that that we are all covered
in some spiritual dirt from our behavior
a person lies he puts around him some
Shield of negative energy like a clipper
like a shell you cheat another one you
curse another one you say let's run or
another one so we covered with this
shell so we can see things clearer
like when it's pouring rain and you can
see through the windshield the more
person refines themselves the more
person connects themselves to a Shem
through MIT's vote and prayer and then
things are clearer then you see very
obvious okay this is where I need to
live this is what I need to do this is
where I belong that's the community I
need to be in but as long as the mind is
confused from junk you'll never see
anything here and we're gonna be like
walking like you know like blind people
in the dark so when you apply all this
trust me a sham put you all the
simulator all the road maps tells you go
here don't go here do this do that I
feel bad for people everybody comes to
me with all these hard question should I
live here should I live here should I
marry him should I marry him should I
learn to be a doctor should I learn to
be a lawyer I don't know what to do
everybody's confused so the thing is
that one needs to focus on the kadosh
before everything is clear
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