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Even in hard times there is hope! Hope connects us to G-d and allows up to gain faith and trust!

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[Music] so unfortunately we are still going through tough days which that was of course foreseen it's not that anybody thought that 3 four weeks and everything will quieten down but H in any different direction that I look the tension it gets stronger and doesn't matter if it's people who live in the North so they feel tension in with people live in a different place they feel tension from that threat people that live in in Europe and America I mean I talk to people all day long I have a friend who lives in New York and he tells me you cannot even imagine how many anti-semitic attacks are there all day long it's you he like it became horrible to live in New York so and that's just one report out of many so either way you're looking at it every person is is pressed in one way or another to experience some type of uncertainty and pressure and of course that also Echoes into your private life how am I going to get my next paycheck what am I going to do with my kid that is barely making it through in his class or whatever it is every person in the world is a experiencing A A A Storm of of of a of challenges it doesn't matter we all share certain challenges and we all have different challenges if you're looking at if you want to look at the reason for that it's very very simple fill up a bathtub or a big sink with water and then and of course close the the the hole and then let the water rise and then release the water so for the first few minutes you only see the level of the water going down but when it comes to the end I H ask for your pardon for the sound effects that are going to come with I'm about to say when it comes to the end it's like that's it so we're at the we're at the end of the end of the end like the end of the galut so what did you think is going to come with a background nice nice background music and beautiful sunny days no it doesn't say anywhere that the Gula can come like that I mean it can I mean I didn't say I'm sorry I should have said should come like that okay exactly it's you you literally took the words out of my mouth I was about to say like the the the the masal the parable of the coming of the the Redemption like a woman is pregnant first trimester second trimester the third but right before the birth then the last week is very uncomfortable and then hours before the birth starts all the labor and then moments I mean same thing with mashia and once the baby's out that's it pain is over and you have new life same thing with here that's what we are experiencing so the first important thing that we need to understand is that we are challenged now with the most hardest test that was predicted already many many years if you go all the way back to the time of the zor it was predicted in the zor and even go a few hundred years to rman who said that the last test we're going to have is now is a very big umbrella you know is Faith and is trust but I can have a lot of in one department and zero in the other department but nevertheless if we will make a surve survey 100% of the population of the world and the people that you are close to and yourself are going through a of of challenges and it's it's coming like how they say when it rains it pours it pours it rains something like that that's what you're all noting I don't have to continue but that is the test we were tested thousands of years ago with idolatry we were tested hundreds of years ago with greed or whatever we are still tested with everything but that's the ultimate ultimate test how much you're going to have in the Kos when you see the world crumbling down we learned two weeks ago literally from the Z in how it was saying clearly that happy would be the person that would be standing with amuna by seeing what's going on in the world and every time we see some great disaster which in our minds we think okay cannot be even worse than that and the next disaster is worse now not that I'm now predicting horrible things I'm talking about our reality I'm not talking forward I'm talking let's look back 20 years cuz for 20 years we have the same Mantra MH is coming it's almost over and and people are already starting to lose their their their patience I mean you I'm already starting to get complaints you were saying for years you're saying mashia is around the corner if it was in my control trust me he would be already here I have no control I mean maybe I have some a contribute how I contribute something to the matter I don't have any control as a whole we have a control but me I do my part but I'm like one little weight on a huge scale everybody has to join together so not to completely Drift from what I want to talk about it was already predicted that the test before mashia comes is inem how much do you believe in God and how much do you trust trust in God and I told you the the graph of that is so wide because you can have unbelievable belief in one thing and cannot be moved and something minor you have no belief in that believe that that hem has control in it and that's why hasem is now testing each and every one of us with such challenges because he wants to see if you really really believe in him if you really trust him and if you do ding you might not hear the ding but above your head will be a green V and Hashem will say good he believes a the challenges will start reducing because you already gained the the confidence of God that you are a Believer and maybe not and maybe the challenges will continue but if you play the role the right way it's literally a game it's literally like a little game and I'll give you one quick example yesterday unfortunately a very dear friend of ours H passed ER not to do with the war or anything friend of the family met he died in a very nice age Left Behind many kids grandkids and great grandkids and so forth maybe we're going to not maybe we should dedicate the class to his Al shalomar should have Al was a wonderful special man and uh in the last minute I was informed that they're flying the body to Israel and there's going to be a levah in Israel I mean they're all from America first of all very wise decision by the man to be buried in Israel if you have to be stuck in America Europe or whatever at least be buried in Israel doesn't matter how much it's going to cost you and you can get good deals I'm talking about people who are abroad but you definitely want to be buried in Israel anyway so he fulfilled this wish and the Mitzvah and he came to to be buried here uh but what happened is that it was in the middle of the day when I calculated the route I knew I'm going to be hours on the road each way as I'm about to come into the car the sirens go off over and over my wife says please don't leave I mean I don't know what's going to happen now I I you know don't leave and of course my friends tell me listen if you can come it would be great if you cannot you know not such a big deal but he dear friend I wanted to be there in per my respects and I and I went on the road so the entire Road was full of challenges you know you go on the road the challenges starts with you all the am I going to make it on time and this person is driving like a maniac and here I'm crossing next to a village an AR Village I mean why am I telling you this entire story because luckily I came on time everything went well but unfortunately to me I left the funeral at 3:00 in the afternoon and took me 4 and a half hours to come home 4 and a half hourss I was sitting in traffic going nuts how much can Torah can you listen to you know on in the on the radio or something you can read I I can't learn really Torah I know I know I know a lot of people like learning Torah in on the video or on the phone you walk you listen car I'm I'm not so for me to listen um I mean it's not the how I can learn to so okay I make phone calls whatever at some point it's like okay I'm going to do a three hours budh and meditate on the numbers of the car plate in front of me 372 547 372 what's the gimat the gimat might be so so of course the starts you know annoying you with all sorts of thoughts and challenges but why am I telling you all this to get to the point that moments before I come into tat I'm already like already like that and I'm tired and then my wife calls me come and pick me up I'm like I'm only four and a half hours on the road no problem I'll be there in 20 minutes and so as I'm pulling into the like bottom part of out side I see a soldier standing like it's cold you know the poor soldier with his huge bag and the and the gun and I'm like there's no chance I'm not stopping for this guy right now so I sto for him and I said where do you need anyways he tells me no just drop me off in the beginning ofat and in my mind and then my wife calls me and she tells me I don't need you to pick me up I'm delayed so in my mind I was like okay I'll take you to the northern part H the northern entrance ofat and then I'm like like H this guy you know is like you look on his face he's like wiped out from 9 weeks or 12 weeks of battle and sacrificing his life standing in the middle and I'm complaining I'm sitting in a warmed heated car so what if I sat 4 and a half hourss in a car now and 3 hours prior to that it's not that it was 3 hours to get there half an hour funeral 4 hour and half hours to come back so I was like you know H how can I not take him to where he needs to go so another 20 minutes on my schedule anyways we talked and then we actually I it was actually interesting we found out that we were in the same H kind of the same unit and just 35 years later so but anyways you see the constantly is coming and and and pushing AEM is like throwing at you candy somebody when I came back and I delayed four meetings then one person told me well how can you sit four and a half hours in a car and then all this for a funeral so I said first of all one of the greatest mitv one person can do in this world and benefit the reap the reward in this world and in the world to come is escorting the dead on his last path it's a huge mitvah something that I greatly recommend to do at least once a month you don't have to do the whole no no I was about to say the whole ceremony it's enough just to do a few steps that's it so I told the person in in the same mishna it says that if you go if you if you go to the to to a Sho that lives very close so you have the Mitzvah of coming to the B to pray but you have the Mitzvah of the walk but if you have a very long walk then you have a so if a person prays at home he has the the the reward of praying but he doesn't have thear of the they're paying for the for walking so many people say no no I want the sh to be far because I have the you know every step I take it's aah so I told my friend I told him this is you know what a I have for this this is a whole day how often do you get to to to get up from your busy business and going to pay your last respect on one hand theh throws at you all day long treats here a Mitzvah he another Mitzvah here an opportunity I'm not talking about right now that you breathe that you eat that you digest that you have where to live and you have many other things over many others so a the is throwing at you sweets all day long if you see the sweets you're in a very good place and hopefully you are thankful and you show appreciation if you don't see this sweet something's wrong with you not not with hem Hashem is providing you many things Way Beyond what you what you see and even if you think that what Hashem is providing you is minimal maybe that's what hasm wants for you right now and you know famous M says that go I explained that mishna many times who is a a rich person the person who's happy with his own portion many times I elaborated on that and I added a word in his in the in the part of his friend but that's not what I'm talking about now I don't want you to get confused I'm talking about who's a rich person who's happy with what he he has most people they dream for them happiness is what they dream to achieve the true happiness is enjoying what you have nothing wrong with dreaming nothing wrong with dreaming and I'm saying that as a dreamer if you don't dream you'll never achieve anything you'll never go anywhere but the true happiness is when you enjoy what you have now my son worked very hard the whole summer he got his icense bought a car a nice car not some jalape that's going to fall apart every two seconds he worked hard a whole year saving B Mitzvah money this money saving saving saving he went and got himself a car and one day I'm driving with him and he starts telling me in two three years I want to buy a different he starts telling me what model like another like some like a fancier car something better stronger nicer and he tells me two three years so I told him it's very good that you have aspirations and you want to save and and and and you have a a set M but enjoy now this car you worked so hard for it you saved so much enjoy this one don't dream already on the next car so who is a rich person who's happy with what they have if the wants to give you a little be happy with that and when you're happy with hasm gives you then you enlarging Your Capacity he'll give you more and maybe at this point in your life you don't need more sometimes in your life less is best so first of all what I was saying every day all day long the K the master of the universe is throwing to your direction sweets here to do a Mitzvah here to do a Mitzvah first of all you have to grab now whatever you can cuz really weird that at the end and every opportunity that you have you have to see how are you making a Mitzvah from it even yesterday I can't explain to you what happened it's long and personal but my wife and me made something something I was something I had to take some very bitter uh medicine no some very bitter medicine okay and uh so we were mixing it with honey and this and every time I would take a sip and oh I can't take it and there was a whole scene in the house and my my wife is laughing at me you're like a baby and the kids are laughing was a whole scene but but but the whole thing is I had to take this bitter medicine so I was like okay how am I going to take it that it will be easy for me to consume it let me see how can I connect it to some mitvah and if I connect it to some Mitzvah then it will be easier for me to meditate okay I'm doing this action right now for a mitvah and by that it will at least maybe not reduce the the the suffering of the bitter taste but at least I'll have the right mind frame that it's going for towards a Mitzvah and we found the Mitzvah H so what I'm saying is to repeat myself in to conclude the Kosh is throwing to your direction every second opportunities to do mitv sweets I call it sweets you know you wake up in the morning you breathe that that's a that's a treat that's a sweet you can wake up in the morning congested or with a sickness or whatever so you have to H minimize the junk and totally maximize the little things that hasem does but on the other hand as hasem is so kind with you and giving you love and attention and opportunities to do mitv from here to tomorrow the yet arise in the same level pounding at you because the same way that hasem says we're at the end I want you to to do as much as possible not only with grabbing mitv but with achieving what you need to achieve doing your chv everything that you need to do somebody asked me the other day when do you think mashiah will come I said I don't know I don't know can come any second and according to how I see the writing on the wall can take a few good years exactly like I said I'm standing by what I said two years ago two years ago in kanuka I gave a long lecture don't look at it online where I read out of the talud from two sources the seven years preceding the coming of mashiah how the world is going to look and then we went to the website of the UN and downloaded agenda 2030 and read how they think the world is going to look in those years and voila lo and behold almost the same Apples to Apples and the preparation to that class was that allows Wicked people to roll over their plan as long as they announce what they're about to do announced very outly that his what's his plans ham everybody it was all announced the rashim the wicked people have to announce what they're about to do that's the deal so here we have it so if we have a great Merit mashia we will do some some spiritual maneuver and mhia will come great Unity some great miracle I don't know mashia can come any second don't think for one second that it's delayed every jet that passes I'm saying okay maybe that's the one but on the other hand if we're looking at the roll out or the I would be better to say the script of what we're seeing there's a very good chance that we're going to go now through now 5 years of turbulence exactly how we read in theom Shalom I'll tell you the good part of it and then will come the big disasters what we're seeing now that's the that's not even the warm-up to the Big Show and then mhia will come but what's the advantage of that can you think real quick what's the advantage of that there's a lot more people who are going to come back thank you if we exactly thank you it's amazing the ship is still waiting Hashem says wait a minute there are many more people to load why are you in such a hurry I know you have been suffering for close to 2,000 years you can't wait another three four years I'm sorry that it's coming like that but you saw a little a little I'm not belittling I was about to say a little terror attack huge but something like in in the scale little and look how many what change in the nation and the World in regards to the to to the communication and connection to of Jews to hasem what about the idea have always of of course you have to believe it any given moment Messiah can come I'm I'm separating it right now to what we see as a map that if somebody ask me what do you what how do you see a few years forward I'm saying okay if I'm looking and what the the leaders of the world are painting for us and everything is open at this point everything is open whatever you want to know about the agendas of the UN is written on the UN website they're not hiding anything I'm not inventing anything whatever the world economic Forum wants to do it's on their website some somebody asked me the other day all the members of the we are are part of the thing I said listen you you have to be a a a I don't know if how to they to call it even insane to be a member and not part of it because the ideology of the entire movement how can you be a member and not part of the ideology besides it you have to be a paying member and etc etc but when it comes to what the W says World W is the world economic Forum they're just saying it out in the open it's not that they're hiding anything they're telling you everything straight out so anyone who's involved like maybe if you remember in the video that I did after the the terror attack I showed you who are part of the me who are the new members of the world economic Forum exactly so you have to be part of it what you don't know what's going on there you didn't read the website I read the website you didn't so the rash have to tell you what they're planning on doing it doesn't say that it's going to happen we pray every day for you come up up with some idea idea and will make it all happen you will say something and you will not have any any power to rise why K Manuel because hem is with us so don't worry 99.9% of what they're planning against us is never going to happen but nevertheless they have to tell you so if we're painting the picture of how it looks you know it can be a few years but on the other hand so what if they're planning their plans can change in a second some lunatic now can start a little war that will arra to a thorough I don't know or you know the tears of am is in the last three months maybe that's sufficient maybe one more tier and hasem is going to bring the G I'm not negating I'm waiting for the Redemption any second I'm ready and prepared unfortunately most are not ready and prepared you have to ask yourself 17 times a day am I ready and prepared for the Redemption I'll tell you something personal I'm not I don't think I'm ready for the Redemption 100% I know I'm much more than others so when I'm if I'm saying oh mashia maybe can come in four or five years I have so much time to do so many things did you achieve everything that you wanted to achieve in your life did you set goals and you achiev 50% of them you feel confident that your chuva is so good that that's it I'm ready to go and if you are in that level how many people are you waking up so we have a lot of work to do if hasem decides to delay the Redemption another two three years I'm all for it we're getting more and more chances of course with many many challenges and a lot of lot of tests that we might not even be able to hold but don't look at the half empty part of the cup look at the opportunity K sends us a situation look at the opportunity look at how much mitv you can take out from from a bad situation so we are now battling on one side I have to open my eyes and see how much good Hashem is giving me on the other hand I have to push and battle all day long the bad that seems to be bad in my life which is really just challenges it's the wants you to give up at this point the less cares if you sin or not he wants you to be sad he wants you to lose hope he wants you to give up and he wants you not to believe that hem can save you from your situation that's the jump of the so he's going to throw at you challenges all day long now what to do I'll tell you what to do when it comes to means a the trust in God you have to remember one of the most important elements and element I'm now saying as as a foundation because the word element in Hebrew is yod and yod is also a foundation if you don't have the foundation well then the the whole structure will not sit well the fact that you have that's what brings the Salvation okay I'll say in Hebrew quoting from the book The fact that you have the that is the magnet for the Salvation so now you're going to ask what came first the egg or the chicken if I have the Yeshua then I'll have but if I I don't have the Yeshua how am I going to have Yeshua is the Salvation for my situation so you have to understand that is the one that came before the Yeshua and when you have strong again I'm saying you trust that God will come through or that what God does is the right thing there's no mistakes God didn't make any mistake strong b equals a vessel for salvation I'll say it again and then I print it as a bumper sticker a strong B is a vessel for your Yeshua that's it and the Yeshua can be General and Global for the entire nation or the world and it could be for you your own issue your own personal issue we have to understand the the basics here that the Kosh is interested in one thing he's not interested in how you dress he doesn't care you're not not impressing Hashem in any way how you dress of course don't take my words out of context and of course hasem wants women to be modest but if it's blue or gray or the the details doesn't matter of course a man has to be dressed I'm talking about an observant man it's not right for an observant man to walk in the street with without a shirt or with a swimsuit or whatever you want to go to the pool you know I when I go to the pool I take my clothes off very close to the I go in the water come out so also a man has to have some type of a respect in the dress code but how exactly if I put another jacket and another jacket whatever you're not impressing Hashem Hashem wants three things he wants your heart he's looking at your heart he wants to see what's exactly in your heart not what's outside you can pretend you can do many things that are fake is the only one who actually sees in your heart and the next two things that he wants is he wants to see how much how much you believe in him and then he wants to see how much you trust in him and interestingly just yesterday somebody sent me some video of some guy who survived the the party on October 7 and the the emphasis on his testimonial was that the entire time that he's running for hours he said he r r ran for like 15 kilometers and for like 6 hours and it's not like running 16 kilm like that it's running half a kilometers hiding for half an hour right and the whole time he was saying the only thing that was uh holding me is the that I had the will get me out of this and this is not coming from a guy from Yesa fromes a guy with tattoos earrings and dancing in a party on Shabbat so the strong creates the CLE that theh can bring the the Yeshua from I don't remember Now by heart but go to my website go to my YouTube there's dozens of of of videos of stories that I told of how Yeshua came from from this B one of them I think the title is how do you make money from thin air something like that if you remember I told you the story with the money and the pillow case and the dog they almost bit my wife and you have to hear insane story you can make a movie just on this story how insane it was and when there was the then there was a CLE the ishua came I'm telling you that we needed an exorb amount was in right in the beginning when we purchased the building and so many other things we everything was like on the shekele and and we needed an exorbitant to cover all the expenses of a certain day the day of the month that all the bills go down there was no money er no way I called tried turn the world up upside down no way to get the money the bank manager 100% no no questions I don't want to give you even for three I told him I only need credit for three days in three days we're getting money no no no no no that was a huge n not to get upset at him just to accept okay he's the sh he's the messenger don't curse him don't get upset at the bank manager he's the messenger but at the end after I don't want to tell you the whole story but after the end after a few stations of unbelievable out of nowhere somebody calls my wife exactly where she was not even in spat that they forgot a very large amount of cash in a pillowcase in some hotel and my wife went to get the money and and she comes home with a stash of money like that cash and and I'm like the bank manager told me the only way I will accept all the charges that are coming are cash we had checks and mortgage payment everything comes down on the 10th and my wife comes with a stack of cash with the exact amount that we need wow and I'm telling you was in five figures not like 300 shekels and even a greater Miracles when we called the guy and we said we have your cash how do you want it I he says I'm I was about to purchase a big I'm an art collector I'm I was about to purchase something some art if you want H ER you pay for it and keep the cash so I paid for the artwork with a credit card so I bought another month till I had to pay and I had the cash and I walked into the bank like this to the bank manager and I was like you have to hear the entire story it's I made a lecture out of it what's it called I think the title of it is how to make money money out of thin air something like that you have to hear all the details cuz it's not normal who leaves cash in a pillowcase in a hotel and I mean you have to hear the whole story but why am I saying you open up the gate of the you make a CLE will send you the salvations in ways that you can't even imagine and that's why I told you go look I have so many stories of all my travels how one act of everything worked one time if you remember when I was stuck in Florida in a hurricane everything that can go wrong in that trip went wrong and finally when we somehow left the hurricane after being there for 5 days no electricity 140 de humidity the the scale already broke they they couldn't even measure the humidity so in the flights in one of the connections they flew us to Boston and here just just get me out of here and that was another miracle everything is documented on these videos but what am I saying on one of the flights I left my passports on the plane and you have to hear that whole story and somehow they let us on the plane without passports there's no such a thing when I landed in Israel they told me where's your passport I told I don't have how did you get on the plane I said will they let me they took me to interrogation in in the immigration they I mean you have he the whole thing but everything changed because you really have to see the video because I was very upset and one phone I was with Lal one phone I'm with the security one I'm running to the other 36 gates from Lal to Jet Blue I'm calling the plane is the passports on the they're calling yeah the passports are on the plane so they they're saying the the plane is coming in an hour and a half but my plane is living in an hour and 20 minutes it's I you have to hear the entire story and this guy guy was driving me nuts he kept asking me my my my my and in my mind I'm like I'll pray when I'm on the plane leave me alone I can't pray now and he keeps coming to my RI my RI my RI my RI my RI and I'm like can't you I'm telling you this is a jumbo a 747 you have here like seven minim what do you want from me and I'm pacing backwards and forth and I'm running to JetBlue and I'm coming back and I'm like sweating and and he's like my RI my RI my RI and at the end I was like that's what I need to do I need to stop with and the security and I need to pray arit and I shut everything down and I'm praying arit and the phone of course is ringing and ringing and ringing and all the security and the steward are trying to get my attention and I'm praying praying praying praying praying and the second that I finished praying everything worked out I was able to go through security on plane without passports and they upgraded me to [Laughter] business so and you have to you really have to hear the whole story and then every time I would come back from a trip I had 10 lectures just on the what what was going on in the trips and it's all tests of and when you are uh first of all when you really know how to apply the you see the miracle you you you your level of amuna grows in in ways that you can't believe you see it in front of your face so let's go back the wants three things he wants your heart he I me not your heart he wants he sees what's in your heart and your that's what he wants and when you have the yeshu the Salvation to the problem will be drawn to it don't forget that Hashem also loves to create a problem so he can create a great miracle and to greaten his name to great in aem's name so what is the what what is the that hasm wants from me the real is that I understand that everything that happens is is the decree from hem not from anybody else not from the neighbor that is annoying you not from your housee not from Shalom our enemies our government nobody in the world does anything without the approval of hasem that's called gatem so I cannot blame anybody for anything the judge ruled against me don't blame the judge and get furious and full of hate the judge is a puppet that the Kosh went like this and the Kosh is the one who told the judge exactly what to say and what to do and this is in any situation whether it's with a terror attack in October 7th that everybody's where's the Army where's the Army why you wondering so much that was that what was supposed to happen and clearly you see that some people unfortunately were murdered instantly and some 17 bullets in their alive or ran for 20 kilomet nothing howat piles of bodies and somebody under the pile that person is survived that's everything in your in your life is that's real that you know that everything till the little detail is hashem's Will so you don't get upset at any person around you you understand that everything is from hem that's the now how do you acquire that if you don't have it at all or if you have some how do you strengthen that that's not so easy okay in big things you all believe that it's AEM very in the in the things that are of course but many little things in your life that you are like no and each one in your life look to a situation that you have some type of a m m means an argument or a disagreement every person in this world as much as you don't want to has some M with somebody okay I failed to find the person that they have mless not they're cool with everybody the ones who maybe like that live on an island and nobody knows them or there's some solitary inst I don't know every person in this world has at least one person if not 50 that they have a m with m is a disagreement and it doesn't mean that it's active I'm not talking talking about right now go in your 80 years of your life there was some the reality is most of us have many with many people throughout our entire life when a person has m in their life you have to understand that that's not necessarily that person that's gatem how many of the disagreements that you have you have nothing to do with it you are pulled into it leave me alone I have nothing to do with it the is is the decree from hem and you have to be very very aware not to get angry not to get vengeful not to get upset not to get too emotional I mean you have to deal with the situation I'm telling you to you have to ignore the situation to deal with the situation in the right way but to constantly know it's I can't be upset at any of the participants in this situation it's not them if I'm this much upset at anyone that's it I don't have the right the right is I understand I understand that it's each and every one of you take take practice do do what I'm telling you you all have some type of a m if you're looking at the person that you have the disagreements and you have no anger towards that person noot you don't have anything towards that person and and you will save that person in a second if needed help that person if he asks and you totally understand that person is the messenger of hasem then congratulations you are in a very high level but if you don't have that then don't get disappointed that you're not on a high level just understand that your level of is lacking a lot and and I'm especially saying because with your livelihood or if you can find your other half or if you have kids or not or that's different things that that's different things that's the different you're not from hasem it's Hashem testing you in many different ways when it comes to a m to a disagreement especially when you pulled into it that's he wants to see how much you have and the is not that will save the situation is that you know that person in front of me that is causing me all this trouble and sorrow and whatever it is with this disagreement Hashem sent that person every word is directed at me from Hashem everything Hashem you know how many people do things to me if you think you have issues times that 5,000 to me in every any aspect that you want have to do something to our wait today taking all my words out of my mouth first let's present the situation the problem first we have a problem we have a problem then we lacking and I'm specific I'm not saying now that our problem in our life is a disagreement that I have I'm just telling you take that as an example as an as an a a practice to to apply and I'll come back to that let me just continue how do you get a stronger to understand that the kadh is the architect of everything in your life what we call and the example that we're holding right now is a disagreement if like I told you in the dis agreement you have all these positive feelings like I told you I congratulate you're in a very very high level but we're not in that level yet so I need to strengthen my a simple way is to do a type of meditation that is called of course you need to be in a place where you have no distractions and you have to meditate on something as great that only God can do so if it's easy for you to meditate the other day I was meditating on the rain was raining and uh I open the window beautiful fresh air washes all the chemicals that they're spraying us all day long and all the junk and washes the road and and I was literally meditating I was doing what I'm telling you you do it however you want and I was looking at the drops cuz one drop hit the window seal and then another drop and one drop hit here and then and I was looking have you ever noticed and it's not that I observed it I read it in the T okay but but you have have have you ever noticed that millions of drops are coming from hundreds of meters above us and not one drop bumps into the other drop and to look at it this is Bon look at the drops and start understanding the miracle of creation why are they this big and not this big why are they're transparent and and they're not with a color why are there this and they're not that how come the drop when it hits a surface it splashes and it doesn't stay Dr how what now who can give you an answer for that uh maybe a very educated individual that can give you the anatomy of the water and the physics of the but who can give you a better answer to that is a person that has dot in Torah that can tell you the greatness of Hashem and explain to you a DOT of the this Wonder but when you meditate on such a thing that's what's going to strengthen your that the controls everything because if the controls every drop not to bump in each other and exactly the same how come the drops are not going like that you know like when I was looking at the rain you know how strong the wind was what would you think that one drop will fly that way one drop will go this way and there will be chaos in the drops somehow no chaos the wind blows Everything But the Water cuz technically it should throw the water over there no a little bit it throws man that's I'm giving you an example of what I did meditation whatever it took five minutes 10 minutes maybe if somebody would look at me from the side would think I'm you know hallucinating or I don't know like looking at the drops so you might want to do it in a closed room that people not think you like some cuckoo but nevertheless perfect example so writes about like just looking at Ane like why are the seats perfect example yeah I mean I can give you yeah I can give you now so many examples I I I said you have to look at something that is wondrous how Hashem does and only Hashem can do so I gave example with the water yeah you gave example about looking get an orange I was about to say look at every pomegranate how every pomegranate is so it's like every little thing that you're going to look at you can find The Wonder of creation the greatness of Hashem do that once a day for five minutes you'll see how your is becoming so strong that every act that happens to you it's not even a question that it was the hands of God yesterday when I sat in the car for 4 and a half hours hand of God no point of getting upset that's where I have to be right now so your entire life is around that then your life becomes a little bit calmer now on this respect many people ask how can Hashem do such a thing I'm I'm talking about this October 7 up until October 7 how can do Hashem do such a thing was going on the Holocaust now we have a new how can hasem do such a thing the interesting thing is that when people address me and tell me where was God or how did God do such a thing then at least I tell them the good news is that you believe in God because if you would believe in God he would say oh these Kamas we have to kill them and no it came from it's it came from God Hamas is just the messenger so if you asking where was God then you obviously believe in him or you really want to laugh at God and the and the Toran and rol then whatever then we have nothing to talk to you but if you're asking where was God then you first of all good news you believe now the thing is that when a person is even questioning where was God in such a situation I'm talking about this can be from a completely secular individual can be also from a very religious person but at least we have the approval that that person has some type of amuna questioning God I mean there not that I'm saying it's good to question God but in general and when it's if it's in your beginning of your path it's normal to question God if you're already in God's domain for years then you don't to question him that's not good if you are completely new to the to the program questioning God can come many many times but it should slowly slowly diminish if it doesn't diminish then is a problem the thing is that only once we understand everything to The Last Detail and that we know how every little thing works that's when we're going to understand every little detail what the K does so the same way that you can't understand the details how the waters don't match like bump into each other or how just look at I I many many many times look when I need to see the greatness of hasem is how a woman is conceived and giving and and developing a baby and then giving birth it's when you're thinking of it it's unbelievable only hasem can do such a thing now they have all operations to change the gender to make somebody look different but you can not mimic the original only Hashem can do such a wonder doesn't matter what they're going to try so when we understand every little detail in everything that happens then we can understand how Hashem works and in the meantime I won't understand that and if you and if you don't then start searching the right the right answers now like I told you who can give you answers to all these things if you're looking at like the physics or the chemistry or whatever than somebody who's very learned we all have basic knowledge in B biology chemistry but go to a chemist he'll explain to you many things how how it happens same thing in in in the world and in the creation you want to know how things work then you need to go to the right person very few people are in that level that they see what Hashem does and they can either explain it and you probably most likely won't even make meet these people but what we have to understand is the basic rule the K is only good this no bad side to the K he's good and he does good nothing bad comes from sh the bad is already in this world but has no intention to do anything bad when we see and perceive something that's how we perceive it and many of the Times by the way the bad that we perceive in this world is our own action it's not how hasem sent a message the other day I ordered something in the internet the box came like like as if the truck backed up on the box and he wasn't sure if his parted well went forward the box came like as if somebody played football with it you know and I called the company listen just look how the box came and so the answer that I got from the representative but that's not how we sent it wow you must be related to Einstein of course and I I think I didn't tell you you did it I told you how it came took 45 minutes to explain to her that I'm not blaming her I said that's how it arrived go to the messenger today everything is digital everything is pictures but what do you I'm I'm that's how I got the message many of the times you get the message not how it was sent K only does good when something is not so good in my life then I have to look in my own actions that's the first thing that I do when something is not to my liking in my life very little or extreme I look in my own actions first of all take responsibility after you look in your actions you have to understand or ask yourself do you have the Kim to hold the good that God gives you do you have the vessel to even hold what God wants to give you maybe not no no maybe you don't have the capacity to hold it I don't know listen it doesn't matter hasem projects if you want Toom for one second compare hasem to something that we can relate with then Hashem is like a router of Internet it just projects the Wi-Fi is there if you look for the right Wi-Fi the right uh how do you call it Channel signal whatever it's called and you put in the exact password then you'll get connected and you are connected now to the Wi-Fi Hashem projects Godly light constantly you tap in good for you you didn't tap in you're you're lost you tapped in with Broken Vessels you're not going to get the message like the analogy that I give many times with the olden days ra radio when you go like on the station till you put the dial perfectly of course you have to pray you have to do MIT you have to follow the Tor but nevertheless the the Mitzvah is just helping us and and assisting but everything around so I have to understand that many times I don't have the Kim to hold the good that hasem gives me and or or wants to give me how do I find my Kim this is now the time to start explaining everything but the the minimum I can give you now is look in your actions cuz one might say you know what I pray I eat kosher I observe Shabbat I do the mitv I really work on myself very good but maybe on that you have a few things that you are ruining theim maybe you say maybe you have jealousy to other people maybe you are instigating different I don't know what's going on in your lifean listen I I can easily character traits you're talking about no not necessarily I'm just throwing because no I was giving an example of a person says I'm like doing everything by the book many people tell me I don't know what's going on I pray three times a day I never miss I eat culture um particular to to The Last Detail Shabbat is sacred everything know many people tell me I'm I'm fully observant why do you think I have different issues in my life now not that I'm the the number one psychologist in the world go to the talm the T tells you you have issues in your life you know you have to look in in your own actions something happens to me I don't go to the person who did it I'm right away okay what did I do maybe when I gave theed the intention was not right maybe when I was praying my my thought was wrong I can only tell you about myself what are my things that I will go and say wait what did I do wrong but something comes to me as a red light I I ask myself what did I do wrong maybe I did something wrong after I asked myself that if I found the answer good if I didn't ask the if I didn't come to the answer then I'm looking do I have the Kim maybe I don't have the right Kim maybe I need to increase my learning maybe I need to learn four hours a day instead of 3 hours a day maybe I have to observe Shabbat even more muda I don't know maybe I'm missing Kim or maybe I then I threw out because a lot of people have that they're very observant in the rituals they have weakness in or being jealous or they in I know people who are religious from here till tomorrow all their life is and with disagreements and all the rest so you can be super duper ex observant and if you live in life of disagreements so that can break your Kim that can damage the to get the from sometimes I'm the one who breaks theim and it can be with a sin listen yeah we're all trying our best but you have sometimes downfalls you know nobody is perfect or with the little things or that they midot or I'm sorry but like I told you we all have a sharing in in disagreements in M everybody has some type of a m somewhere going on and usually what magnets to disagreement is a lot of hate a lot of anger which that comes many other things so maybe I'm breaking my own killing the point that I need to understand here that first of all I have to see I have to look in my own my own actions I don't blame anybody ever I see something in my own life I look at myself I see something that is in the scale of a Nation I still look at myself maybe I didn't give enough example maybe I should teach more maybe as myself I should do this and that I don't know I look at maybe I should do more maybe I can do what can I do because if I take responsibility then I take some I do also action if I feel responsibility when I see such a tragedy and I say wow maybe if I would learn a half an hour a day more I would give to maybe this wouldn't happen it would be half then you get a little bit of guilt good so do something and again in a very healthy way don't you can't be beating yourself on the head that the tragedies of the world is you but the key that you have to remember here is everything is the the decree the decision of the Kos there's no nothing can bypass the kadosh not a terrorist not a neighbor no nothing and when I'm facing these challenges and I'm looking for different H things to apply first I I give you a short meditation to do but I need to apply H how do I get out of the situation then I need to do what's called is that I cont I I introspect and you have to be very very very honest because in many situations you have to come to the conclusion in this argument I'm wrong I'm going to go and apologize how many times you came to the conclusion that in a certain argument you have you are wrong and you need to come and man up and I apologize how many times did you do such a thing hopefully you do I know so many people who did wrong to me in in scales that you can't even imagine and the minimum the minimum come and apologize I only have respected two people from what was going on in the last eight years that actually came up and apologized most people don't apologize sometimes I get like these real amazing emails somebody sent me an email not too long ago apologizing and he was like I I got angry at something that you said we disagree on that and I slandered you all over the internet I don't know how to I removed a lot of the comments and I I I want to apologize ask your forgiveness okay good good you man up admit when you're wrong that's if you are are right then you say okay I was at least right in the eyes of hem I'll deal with the situation but in many of the cases I'm not right especially if you are a spouse or a parent if you are a spouse many times you're not right you can be right the whole time and same thing with kids you're not right all the time with kids a parent needs to know how to apologize to the child and say I'm sorry I was angry I I shouldn't said that you you were right after if you do the right way you're introspecting the right way you find yourself at fault you are not Pious you are not Rish Shimon you are human Hashem doesn't care he just wants your acknowledgement to say I messed up I'm sorry excuse me of course you cannot hide from hasem but you have to add here one little spice and this little spice is called great hope if you don't have great hope it's not it's not going to work I'm telling you the steps what to do if you're not writing you want to listen to the class again if you are genius photographic memory you remember memorize every word that I said I'm telling you stages what to do first comes the the understanding that it's that this is a then I have to do my then I have to add the last spice means hope I have to have hope if you don't have hope you're missing the whole thing if you're looking at the word the middle of it is a VAV VAV is called V the hook that connects the hope is what connects me with God what we the the way we finish our prayer three times a day is with a prayer called the second paragraph of what do we say I have I need they even the even took it to the National Hampton the the the no smart as long as our hope is not shattered that's it that's what you need hope so the last paragraph of the prayer three times a day in you end by saying forth translation if you don't understand and therefore we hope to you that we may speedily behold the Splendor of your might hasem says you need to have hope if you don't have hope and you have to understand that hope is not something passive that is just oh yeah I have hope hope is something active that has to be done all the time when a person does the the order when a person does a connection to the Creator then even if he doesn't understand why what's going on but you still make a connection to the Creator you understand that that even if you don't understand why it happened but you understand that it's hashem's involved in it it didn't happen without hashem's agreement it didn't happen without hashem's approval when you understand that that is what gives you that's what gives you the power the K and the strength to strengthen yourself to understand that everything is AEM and by that your your is much much greater because you understand that everything is from hasem now I just have to deal with the situation but first let me understand that it's from hasem and we have to understand that Hashem is not that's the the Sham means in the heavens that's the that's the the the excuse that many faiths say God is in the heaven he's not here and we say no no no no no yeah of course he's in the heavens but also B right here with us governing everything good and the bad everything that moves around us is good or bad coming from the master of the universe the leaves that are blowing from the wind the weather what you wear where you live who you married everything is is from the K how you make your money how was how is the dinner going to come out tonight good not good overcooked less cooked you think you have control of anything you are just going on the track and expected to do many things the Kosh is controlling everything many times with your prayers with your faith with your hope you make the corners rounder the runs the entire show therefore one needs to bring themselves to a state of relaxation most people are very very tense I will blame a lot of it because of the food that they eat how much radiation they are exposed to what do consume in regards to products that they inhale into their body whether it's coming through soaps shampoos o ointments and so forth all these things they affect the person a lot the the the the uh entire entire digesting system so half of the the craziness and the unsettled for a person being unsettled that's coming from that but a lot of it is coming from the fact that they have fear they have doubts the many scares how am I going to finish the month how am I going to pay that bill what is that person going to do to me all these anxieties then one person needs to know how to bring themselves to a place of relaxation you have to know how to relax yourself whether it's with breathing in and out 10 minutes there are many different things walking exercising whatever you need to do but if you're not in a state of being relaxed that's that's that's not healthy that's not good and the thing is that whoever trusts Hashem really you won't see them having an anxiety they're trusting hasem person who has worries anxieties can't fall asleep all these things the person doesn't really trust AEM you I don't care what you're going to say cuz it's the time to go to sleep it's not the time to think of your problems you think of your problems all day long why you need to think of them also when you go to sleep a person with a lot of goes to bed close their eyes and go to sleep now it's time to sleep let me get away from my problems and when I wake up in the morning I wake up strong to deal with my issues with my problems with my challenges so if a person if you have anxiety and fear and all that means your level of is very little and the more you be your trust in God will be stronger you'll be calm relaxed situation happening around you missiles falling and you okay missiles going to fall where it's going to fall I'll do my my minimum of the minimum but hasem he let let him run the world and you have to understand it's not only you we're all in some type of a difficulty all the world is dealing with challenges in all different departments and like I told you in the beginning we're all in the the end so what you need to do is if you if everything that I spoke now doesn't relate to you you're doing good you're doing great not not everybody needs to to hear what I what I just said but nevertheless most people are in some type of uh emotional roller coaster because of all their challenges and all the things that they deal with personally and H in what's going on in the world it doesn't matter one person will say I have only fear another person will say I can't fall asleep another person will say I have no appetite doesn't matter it's all symptoms of you being stressed or being unhappy or being worried or being going through some type of a situation that it's affecting other actions of your day that's your uh your your gauge to know and if so then start building your and even if so you start building your and constantly remembering I what I do I told you a short meditation I did with the with the drops when I go around and look at everything everything that I look at and I focus on it in more than two three seconds I analyze how is AEM controlling it in some type of a way it comes already natural and by that you know you you you see AEM everywhere can you imagine that you parked and you saved for 5 years and you have a beautiful beautiful car and some guy comes and recklessly boom bam in B bangs into your car and doesn't if they have the the deeny to stay drives off and you're now imagine now you had like the like a uh seeing God vision and that you would see the entire that had You' had some type of vision like had seeing not how we see it and suddenly what do you see that that person held you from going into a worse situation and not only that happened to be that there was a malfunction in the car and if you would drive in that momentom will go into an accident and by him damaging the car they found the malfunction so they said we'll give you a new car just don't sue us and suddenly from a whole situation you see that everything was actually just for your benefits and the second you were about to go like this to the guy and you saw it you're like hey are you okay do you need anything you suddenly see the situation completely different now imagine that in every situation in your life try to imagine how the kadh weaved a certain situation that you maybe perceive it as negative but start moving around has to be something good here and if I find it then this is not the bad is the K just a package came a little bit banged from different directions but we all have to get to a point it doesn't matter what happens asav says in chapter 23 even if I walk in the shadow of Darkness I will not have any fear how can you get to such a level because you're with me I remember when I was a little bo some bullies beat me up and I was you know not only scared I didn't know how to deal with them I was I don't know like fourth grade and they were like seventh grade whatever so what did I do I brought a stronger bully than them that's it I can't deal with them so I'll bring somebody stronger than them so I brought somebody who was 15 now 15 versus 11 I was like whatever eight so 1511 that's like so it's it's no uh it's not the right you know Hebrew say it's not he's 15 he's 11 yeah but you did that to me you 11 I'm eight soem is with me who's bigger who's a bigger bully than hasem somebody can bring hem somebody bigger I had a friend like that when I grew up I I had a friend I was always physically very big so when I was in in seventh grade eighth grade I was like you know towering over everybody so I had friend who was like this short friend and he would every time he would get in trouble he would just run and stand next to me and he I'm with him okay you with him I don't need to so I'm with him a time a right so you have to put a with you why should I be afraid if Hashem is with me I shouldn't be worried I shouldn't be afraid I shouldn't have any feeling of negativity because Hashem is with me but hasem is going to fail me when you think Hashem is like a a a three-year-old is going to put a a stick in my bike and I'll fall andm doesn't have plans to to do something bad to me therefore when something not as to my liking comes my way I question myself I don't question God and I definitely don't question the messenger the poor messenger and that also affects how I deal with everything cuz that person is is a messenger again I'm going to refer to one of the other classes that I gave and I don't remember the name of it but I said in one of my classes a long time ago but a situation that I had many many years ago I'll tell you briefly the situation and then we can conclude that I don't remember how long ago 15 years ago whatever I had a multi-million dollar idea of a certain service of a website that by the way up until today they don't have it and I had a lot of money at the time and I found uh individual that can produce the program and quarter of a million dollars later I have nothing doesn't matter now the whole story The excuses the time and everything but there was a quar of a million dollar invested in there and I had a piece of paper nothing worked nothing did anything long story short you have to see the entire video but but that was a test do I sue him do I physically attack him do I take him to a b what do I do with him do I start spreading about him the entire neighborhood you have to understand that in the sh that I prayed he prayed in the same Sho and he was the only leev in the Sho and I'm was the gab I had to call him up to the Torah four times a week and gave him a blessing when he took quarter of a million dollars for me and claimed what are you talking about you kept changing you kept giving me different order he didn't take zero responsibility if he would take responsibility I messed up I would look at a difference you can't even imagine the period what a test it was for my wife and me and then they moved into our building can you imagine every morning the elevator open Ding and I so I had many many many mixed feelings about this individual I'm not exaggerating at times I wanted to choke him not because he frauded me for the quarter of a million dollars that I never will ever ever see again at least be decent and admit and he kept throwing at me the guilt and at some point I was like okay I'll calm I calm down I didn't do anything three months later I get an email you still owe me whatever $225,000 for the last few weeks and I'm like I'm going to how how do you deal with something like that uh and it's much more by the way much much more and I and do you know what the what's the biggest test is not to tell anyone everybody knew that we hired him people were asking no how is it going what am I going to say he didn't produce you know what a test was for here for here it was an unbelievable test and then they moved into our building and unfortunately their son became sick with with the Malala can you imagine what a test not to be happy that my enemy so to say is now being punished that's a huge test huge it says in the mishma in the mishna don't rejoice when you see your enemy fall can you imagine I have so much anger towards that person and then he has a sick son natural reaction is to say mm he deserves itom Shalom and we would pray for this and mention the name every time I mean it was a huge test but at the end after a lot of work and you have to hear the entire video and with the conclusion everything it's unbelievable lecture I don't remember the name but the conclusion was after many many months that that wasat hasem that was the will of hem and I was and I was like okay for all the times that I frauded people for money okay now I'm getting in a fraction bin I'm getting it back it's all my money it wasn't my money to start with not only the quarter of a million the potential potential Millions we had a lawsuit prepared cuz I went to Sam and he said you're not suing him for the quarter million you are suing him for 8 million with the prediction of what the program and the website would make in the first three years and in America lawsuits I would eat him alive the bottom line was that I came to terms that I I had no anger towards him no guilt no Revenge nothing nothing like as if I accepted it's not my money the idea is not supposed to come out to the world or maybe in the future or whatever had to be something on here maybe I frauded him for $2.5 million in the previous Incarnation and I'm coming to pay a payment or interest or whatever but you you have to understand how much had to be done here to calm the system that this person is not even in even close to being anything to that resembles to an enemy or somebody who did something bad to me can you imagine going down to the Grave I'm talking about myself with having no anger towards this person no no Revenge no nothing it just it never happened it took years years of the same process till I completely wiped it out knows how to throw situations at you and he says okay now let's see how you handle that and the the true for me that was a major achievement in my spiritual worth I understood that's it I I I ER how do you say ER when you uh finish a school I graduated with great success in the school of how much you believe that everything that happens to you is the hand of hem and you don't put guilt or anything on anyone and you know who was it's actually I have to rephrase it the guilt was on me Hashem was just the judge it's not that I was putting guilt on AEM the guilt was on me I I cooked my own situation how I don't know that I'm not in that level whether it's a reincarnation and I have to pay back whether it's I took money from him and it's coming back from here that I don't know and I might never know but it doesn't matter what matters is that I did I got to a point that this person in my eyes didn't do anything wrong told forgiveness and I told you before go to the secret deep Secret in your life you all have I told you you have to do some type of action call to action I'm giving you homework what to do look into the M you have in your life and make an analysis do you hate the person do you think you're right you think that person's right is that M because of you you initiated it or it's totally reflected on you and you have nothing to do with make you might fix a few and then of course comes the bigger level of coming and apologizing but nevertheless we are in a situation that I want to know how do I get to a point that with everything that's happening in the world and many more things are scheduled to happen don't sit here so comfortable many things are going to happen we are just starting the roller coaster but when you have great we say that every time inad 91 a thousand will fall here 10,000 will fall here nothing will 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