Chesed of Yesod – “Commitment to Love” | Counting the Omer - Rabbi Alon Anava | #sefirathaomer

the week of Y so we have two weeks left inat we're almost done and today we're going to be counting we already counted at night which is means that yesterday was the 35th day of the and we're going into a completely different territory this week in yod last week we were talking about H admitting thaning and so forth and this week we going to talk a WR about weddings now weddings is not between also a man and a woman I mean that's how it should be but Brit it means when two people are coming into some type of a relationship a covenant but we are going to talk also a lot about weddings weddings are important weddings and marriage the Mida the the attribute of per perfection in in a marriage is the love that we have in our soul we have a Mida in our soul of of love and when does it come to Perfection is when two Souls get together in a marriage if you're looking at the major thing in this world it's all about finding my other half and then now I'm with her for the rest of my life and and this is when you're looking at it in in a general way that marriage is a very profound thing people from when they're young they're already who am I going to marry when am I going to get married my seven-year-old she's like when am I going to wear for my wedding well it's going to be in 10 years 15 years I don't know what you're going to wear now usually this is in a normal situation people will get married out of love in some situations people get out of get married because the of money or they want a green card or whatever it is I'm talking about a normal situation marriage will come from love now if we're going to the first shid in history the first couple in History Adam and then it says that when Adam and they became um so to say together then the Tor says therefore they left so to say their families and the manak he got so to say glued to his wife and Dak comes from the word in Hebrew is when I'm really attached to something after that the verse says and they became one flesh what is that referring to or referring to a child when a husband and a wife are together they become one flesh that means they have a child together like I said before that every action that you do will birth something so in this situation they went together and the result was a child now this is a child that was born out of love out of a connection I'm talking about now now in general now cuz I know L people say listen most marriages are not what you're talking about but the idea is that or a husband and a wife a woman and and a man they came together out of love and the result was a child