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Are you looking for peace? Be careful what you wish for - Rabbi Alon Anava

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[Music] so I want to explain to you a very important concept so we can move on and and and conclude and and again you have to H Pay attention because it's Hebrew words and English doesn't do justice in in Hebrew there are two different words to two types of of H H peace that each one means completely different and it's a concept that is very important to know because it's very strongly related to our Torah there's a very big difference between what's called sha and now if I translate for you those words they sound exactly the same because shalva the translation for shalva is peace the translation for is rest rest relax some will say Tranquility so one might say and is the same thing peace tranquility relax rest sh Heaven and Earth the difference between and Sh and you need to know Hebrew to see the difference and don't worry I'll go out now to the street and catch any Israeli and ask them the difference between shv they won't answer so don't worry you're English speakers that you are not uh in control of the language the majority of Hebrew speaking will not know the difference between and let me explain to you and this is not coming from the language of Hebrew this is coming from our Torah Shala that the English language Lang language will H translate as peace which it doesn't work like that because even for shalva I found a Tranquility shalva is when a person reaches in this world to a place that everything is good the person has a lot of money the person has a nice house nice car nice wife Nice kids life is good here and there some bumps but in Hebrew we call it m you're you're well you're cushioned in this world now when a person has a lot of money he doesn't need to work so hard he goes to work at 10: comes home at 12 he doesn't have to go on a bus or a train he drives a nice BMW he eats nice food vacation is first class the house is very comfortable and it doesn't matter right now who's that person Jew non-jew religious it can be an ultra Orthodox religious Jew that lives a life like that but Shala is when you reach to a place everything is good everything is good how many people do you know like that I know a lot everything is good a person has you know uh uh it's not only about money all the by the way don't don't don't limit it to I have a big house and I have a lot of money that that's what I'm talking about another way of this shalva is that you reached your goal your dream was to be a doctor and you're the number one surgeon in your field money is not an object it's honor respect status so take that to wherever you relate with and understand what's shvat it's not only money the easiest way to say it that in this world you have a physical rest you're not running after money and dealing with it physically you are relaxed and you don't have to put too much effort into anything that's sha there are a few verses that explain why shalva is not something you want and I will choose to explain one verse from the book of mishle chapter 1 verse 32 remember it's very easy to remember because Alf is first chapter Al is the base and verse 32 is the heart of everything it's h yeah the verse in Hebrew goes as follows translation even even though translations are not that great the Tranquility of the fools shall cause them to perish so the Torah and there's a lot of other Pim I chose to read you this one the Torah is not about sh where do we read recently with the word shalva yako after Khan after a life of dealing with Lavan in Khan running away from asav having his son disappeared his daughter abducted and raped I mean I mean yov went through hell at the end of his life he just wanted to to relax and to how do you call it h ER retire what does it say in the Torah Jakob said I'm old I went through life let me just relax at the end of my life I'm a billionaire he was a billionaire I have four wives I have 12 kids I conquered everything that I needed I achieved let me rest right away ysep was abducted and Rashi says he asked for peace and quiet you want peace and quiet it right away y was abducted so now he'll be like 17 years no peace and no rest so schl the smartest man in history says that Tranquility of the fools shall cause them to perish that's why the Torah does not recommend you to be in a place of sha and that's what most people ran after why is that not good why can't I be how would you say comfortable in this world what's wrong with that because this type of Peace this type of Tranquility that is called shalva you are enslaving yourself to the materialist to the materialism that's what you do this type of shva makes you a slave to the physicality I How does it go whatever I want I should have that's the enslavement that's basically the majority of people in our generation Our very spoiled generation now so what's the difference between sh and I told you sh don't run after that we got from the Torah what's called what is h you said Shabbat very good because we call Shabbat rest but really what is what is this I told you peace tranqu relax rest Tranquility is that I don't want anything that's I don't want nothing how are you doing I'm good want to eat something I'm fine want a better bed I'm good I am not enslaved to anything in this world and I'm not depending on anything in this world that's that's what the Tor says I don't want anything more than that nothing in this world controls me 20 plus years ago I found myself in a situation was a 27y old young man who didn't believe in anything but money didn't believe in God believed in anything else that does not exist that exists but the real things nothing and suddenly in the middle of my life my reality changed you know the story and I'm now facing a new reality that I need to serve a Creator who I didn't know exists but now I have a problem because for 28 years I fed my body and soul junk so when I came to the uh time in my life that I need to make a change in my life and become a Torah observant I told you already and I'm here and there throwing bits and pieces but but you have to understand that when I had to make this change to become observant first of all I was 27 years old okay going on 28 it's not a young person second of all I led a lifestyle that wasn't so easy to bridge to a life of spirituality so I came to my Chua with all the baggage you can just imagine the worth of becoming observant and one of the most dominating problem was the abuse and the addiction to almost anything that existed in the world drugs alcohol cigarettes and all the rest of the things that I don't want to specify that it's not of your business and I understood that if I want to serve the Creator I cannot be addicted or limited to anything in this world but God if I'm depending on anything in this world I will never be a servant of God I cannot be addicted to cigarettes I cannot sit during Shabbat thinking of the cigarettes How Can You observe Shabbat when in your mind you're thinking of a cigarette no cigarettes so I had to quit everything that exists in the world and many other addictions let me tell it to you the other way around the only thing I wasn't addicted to is gambling okay you use your own imagination somehow I didn't have that issue I was like I'm not going to donate my money to some pots I am not going to sit and give all my money to some casino that is not happening but everything else I was addicted to I'm talking about addictions I'm not I'm talking about severe drug abuse not smoking marijuana that was done too but the drug abuse was serious drugs not marijuana why am I telling you all this because I had to make a Swit in my mind that I cannot be enslaved to anything in this world whether it's food drugs anything that's why it took me three years to make the change I didn't go to Yeshiva in the I went to Yeshiva when I was 30 forget about that I was in a year and a half in jail that was Yeshiva talking to the wall but nevertheless why am I saying that because I I don't want shva don't try to tease my eyes with that because that's what the world does it teases your eyes here I'll give you shat what was the translation peace you want peace right life is chaos you need peace right now of course I need I just need a moment of quiet most people you won't necessarily notice it or see it or know about it you look at their face their prises Hi how are you great day if you would know what's going on behind the screen the jungle that's in the mind the chaos that's in the mind if you would offer anyone one day of peace they will jump on the opportunity right so Netflix offers you two hours a day of peace and you gladly take it cuz you just want to be disconnected and and just be zombied on some screen and then Facebook will come and send you another opportunity for peace and the rest of the junk around you will constantly show you opportunities for peace which you will buy in any cost a new shirt a new phone because the sales method is not that you need the shirt or the phone you need the piece you have to understand the marketing you have to understand how everything is marketed for you why do you buy X because the message that is sent to you behind it one example many how do they sell fragrances for men gorgeous naked women cogging the men and ah if I Spritz myself with some colog all the gorgeous women are just going to fall call on me that's the the marketing tactic and many other things I'm going to start analyzing that you have to see you have to to see what is catered to you so the world will cater for you a lot of opportunities for peace and you're going to jump on it cuz all you want is just a piece of quiet life is hectic the day is extremely full of every second of phone call and this happen happening you just want 5 minutes of quiet and you will buy that and the world will cater those 5 minutes of quiet for you therefore when I'm enslaved to any type of material I will never ever find true peace so shalva is I'm I'm I'm very comfortable in this world nice house nice car nice wife healthy kids good friends around me okay here and there things are not perfect but life is good go now to Miami you'll see a lot of life is good in Bon and Shalom not doing any evil ey live your life wherever you want and if God gave you a lot of money great enjoy it give a lot of Charity you can drive a Mercedes nothing wrong with driving a Mercedes if you give 10 times the amount to charity first okay so you want to drive a $100,000 car give a million do in charity then buy the $100,000 car don't drive a $100,000 car when you don't even have that so you leased it and you loaned it and you borrowed money from here so everybody will see you in the BMW and that's sh you want real rest whether I have the BMW or not I'm happy either way the real rest is that I don't want anything whatever gives me I can live anywhere with [Music] anything [Music]