4 Keys for success!! Time sensetive material in this lecture!! Don't miss out!!! Rabbi Alon Anava

[Music] everybody unbelievable day that we had here during Shabbat we had an amazing amazing Shabbat for the one I'm sorry I'm teasing you for the ones who didn't come here but shabbes unbelievable I don't know if you were able to experience the power but uh wow Shabbat is amazing to start with add on that rodes audio amazing then you add on that all the the rest of the elements then you get a you get a winner a winner combination and why is that so important because as I always say you have an opportunity I want to make this class today short point and produ that you go out of this door with a few a few things to do at home and hopefully hopefully it will work if you do it right shouldn't be a reason why it wouldn't work but we are in a very very supicious time is always a special time but we're starting the month that has all the powers in it a the month that prepares us for Nissan we all waiting for p for many different reasons because PES is the time where we reach to the peak of the opportunity that we can leave our own H our own Exile our own galut and maybe not a physical one but each and every one of us has our Exiles our states of limitation because MIT the word MIT in English means limitation PES is when we live our own MIT my MIT my limitations it can be a bad habit it can be a addiction to something and it can be many different things anything that limits me is a MIT and it can be something as big as drug abuse or gambling or any other addiction Strong Addiction and even cigarettes and how I always see how people are addicted to the phone that's a MIT if you can't put your phone down and all day long you're going like this you're stuck in MIT you don't agree with that you don't realize that but you are a slave to your phone I said that not not once or not twice if you on your phone more than 15 minutes in this motion which means you're watching junk you have a problem you have a serious problem it's the same junk same videos nothing productive so that's MIT that's a form of MIT if I can't control my anger another form of MIT if I am extremely judgmental and I judge everybody the wrong way that's another form of MIT I'm I'm I'm not in a state of redemption I'm not free so that's PES and we all need that PES PES is a perfect time for me to reset the system now what I'm talking now first you have to be already in the level understanding that you are in MIT if you're looking at me like what is he talking about okay we have to reverse now let's go back five years of 20 lectures go and look at them then come back to this one I'm now talking about the fact that you're already realizing that you are in MIT in each in different ways and you have to figure out with yourself what's your and I'll and I explain again MIT is a state of limitation and I know this is not terminology we used to state of limitation tell somebody you are addicted to cigarettes oh I now I understand the problem so that's a state of limitation you can control yourself a substance is controlling you so you first need to figure out out what's your states of limitation and I gave you now the first one the phones I also have a phone I actually have three phones but I use it for work purposes I use it to go from point A to point B I use it for practical things I don't sit mesmerized on the screen like if you would look how you look when you when you're in that I mean someone needs to take a picture of you how you look and then you realize that's how I look yeah you know the screen like the kipa in the screen like sucks the and you mesmerized by all sorts of junk that's the the newest addiction here so that's yeah yeah if if and again if you're in the level that you're saying it's all fine go okay that that's I was also once addicted to many things and I was in a state of denial that everything is fine but why is it so important to know so we can move on each and every one of us is battling with our own limitations it can be big things it can be a mixture of small medium but when something is controlling me when I when I don't have the upper power when I can't control whatever it is I'm not in control of the situation I'm in MIT that's it you have now a month and a half to figure out what's your M for me it will take exactly a minute and a half and it should take you about a minute and a half but it will give them a month and a half why do you want to figure that out because on PES that's your opportunity to break free to stop abusing the the the whatever the whatever it is that you are or changing and again a form of MIT might give example with the substance and the phone could be a situation that a man is doing Chua and every every day for him to bring himself to the to pray it's a struggle one time he comes at 11: one time he doesn't come one time he comes at 8 one time he comes at two the other time he prays at home then the next day he def he skips that's a form of MIT you can't get in control of something so simple now of course the blame always goes on the it's always easy to blame somebody so don't blame the blame yourself that you can't fight your that's why the is there for you to fight him not to lose to him so if you're constantly losing to him that's a form of MIT that you can't seem to to get it done and it can be in many different forms when it comes to Tora and MIT but specifically specifically with with sins that we don't see them as something so bad slandering is one of the worst sins you can do when you you know talk to a friend about a third person you're not even realizing what's so what's the big deal I just told you she got married they bought a house they went on a vacation that's the sh that's it my eternity is gone out cuz I told a f somebody about something else so there's many minor sins that we they're not minor in our eyes they might look minor look at Shabbat now how many times on Shabbat like listen you try to be the most observant on Shabbat but sometimes in first of all we don't I told you that many times in many of my classes most people don't really know the laws of Shabbat they think they're observing Shabbat you have to learn all the laws and then you figure out that you really don't know so much but how many times you see a person that wants to observe Shabbat and fails so we have to understand so we can move on each and every one of us has a state of limitation their addictions their MIT that if you don't realize that you have it I'm sorry to tell you this lecture is definitely not for you if you're in a place that you're saying what is he talking about if you're going like this on a phone is an addiction so and and any other type of these MIT you first have to find out what's your MIT and come to terms that you want to change it if it's something that bothers you if it doesn't bother you you'll not going to change anything if your problem that is repeating itself all the time doesn't bother you then you wouldn't look to change anything I I have a a friend an acquaintance somebody that I know and he drinks all the time now of course he's not an alcoholic you know a beer in the morning four cups of wine in lunch you know no no not alcoholic so and a few times they told him you know you drink drink a lot so his answer is it doesn't bother me I know I drink a lot I function I work I make a living I'm not violent I'm not so just drunk half the day can you argue with such a person for him it seems like normal he he he already made it up in his mind that it's fine so we're not here now to argue with every individual with their how they look at things but why am I saying that if something that in your life doesn't bother you so whatever that's what I said the lecture is not for you you need to listen if you are recognizing that you are in this MIT okay once you realize that you are not perfect and by the way to think and to say I'm not in MIT that this is a level of arrogance that I don't know to say I'm I'm perfect I'm not in MIT who can say on themselves such a thing but nevertheless if assuming that you're already fig that out then you have to understand that P is the time when you can go out of MIT that you spiritually get get an effect on the night of LED with the right kavana and the right prayers and the right preparation yeah you can go out of your limitations now wouldn't that be a nice present to get for PES that's PES by the way PES is not about the diet that I eat matah PES is the opportunity for me me to go out of my slavery udal ban is a day that is not commemorating a historical event that we went out of MIT the the l s is is is not a a historical Feast LED is a completely different thing what happened at the time of MIT is that that night a Godly light came down to the world and I'm calling it a Godly light but the Torah says Hashem came down to the world but this Godly light came down to the world in a certain way that not only that it took the nation of Israel out of MIT in a miraculous way that if you would see such an event right now you would probably faint or wouldn't be able to handle such a thing that's why I've been saying that for years you are ready for mashiah to come you're going to see things the sky opening suddenly most people don't the that won't be able to digest it seeing Miracles like what happened in MIT you think you're going to handle walking through the ocean so that's what I'm saying you need Kim you need the vessels to go to to to handle the Redemption so that night not only that Hashem took the nation of Israel out of MIT that light permeated a power in this world for eternity that anyone who wants to go out of their MIT has the ability that's the power that allows you to go out of where you stuck in that's why we're doing L SED that's why it's also called called L SED SED in Hebrew is order right so people think oh let said that we're like a we're ordering the plate or I don't know what maybe we're ordering Sushi I don't know what what you order but the SED why is it called L SED cuz there's an order first we do Kadesh then and then we go through the order 15 Steps so it's the night of going in order and if you skip one of the stops or you put one of the stops before or after its position you wasted the night but if you go through the order like a mechanical robot robot doing what the state the order is that's what you need that's it you align yourself in front of hem and this Godly light comes into your life where gives you the ability that next time that the is stopping you you know how to move the away you know how to grow spiritually that's the idea of p and all these preparations so we can understand what I want to tell you in a month and a half this is your opportunity can you imagine I would tell you in a month and a half you have an addition to your dream job and if you get this job you're talking here about money endless money of earning and everything you need what would you do in that month and a half you would do a lot you would prepare for that audition CU I want this job the job that sets me up for Life the deal of the century so you would prepare yourself for a month and a half so now you have a month and a half to prepare yourself to this supicious moment when you can receive this light and this light is going to affect your life in the way that you want it to affect your life not in a way that you thinking that it might no no it's going to give you what you need and what I'm saying is not coming from a book what I'm saying is coming from experience I don't sell a product that I don't know that I don't know for a fact it works and my product is after I chewed on it for 20 years of Chua so I know it works so not only that the books come and support it but I can come and tell you I did it if it you apply then it will work for you so in a month and a half you have not an addition you have an supicious moment to meet the opportunity to go to the next level in your spiritual level and like this every year that's that's your purpose I see people who either learn with me or that I know and I look at them and there's no difference for 10 years same individual spiritually of course there's no growth no changes same thing and that person thinks he's doing great because he's doing all the MIT three times a day praying learning Tor giving charity everything Shabbat all theim this is like the wear wear and tear of AAL Chua after 10 15 20 years right some of you may be reach to that point so now we have an opportunity to change and to grow I see most people don't grow spiritually they struggling but very little I see like good growth spiritually so if you don't see that then there's also a problem so in P we have the opportunity to go out of MIT but like anything that we do in this world the preparation is what's important especially when it comes to MIT the preparation for the mitvah in many of the cases will be more important than the mitvah itself and why because if you mess up the preparation you can't do the Mitzvah and again not everything is 100% what I'm saying but in general the preparation is more important than the Mitzvah so now we have a month and a half to prepare to not not only to mitv that we are going to perform but also to a spiritual encounter that can affect not can if you do something it will affect and change your life in the way that you need not in some basic things that you think is not going to make much of a difference so it all starts a month and a half back now today well today yesterday and we're now on the border cuz we literally what 2 hours after Shabbat so but now we're already in bet but now it's the time for you to prepare the vessel for p so it's important that you're listening to this now because if you remember some of the faces of familiar I was here half a year ago Ines and Ines the the lecture was prepar for a month from now to and to yip that's the time you need to prepare a month now what happens usually in the month of on everybody comes to a lecture everybody gets excited from what the rabbi said H tomorrow I'm going to read this and I'm going to do this and I'm going to do that and then you wake up it's the 25th day of and he didn't do nothing four days sh I didn't even read one chapter of that's most people so now it's the same thing you have now a month and a half to prepare for p you have no opportunity to tomorrow wake up in the morning and start actively changing your life and preparing or waking up two days before p and saying what did he say then oh cuz in two three weeks you're going to have to start cleaning and then when you start cleaning you you you're busy with cleaning the floor instead of cleaning your mind and your mouth and your heart and your thoughts so the cleaning of your body is not less important I will actually dare to say clean less the house clean more your heart and your mind the cleaning is okay we want the house clean but you know what you can do a PES cleaning in two days by the way I also have a house it's good to clean we need the house clean and we need mainly for the fact of the crumbs and the K but if you don't have a 15,000 square foot mansion you don't need a month and a half to clean the house what you have you ever seen somebody eating a sandwich and then going like this with it and throwing it on the chandelier there's noet on the ceiling so I understand you're doing PES cleaning you the how do they call in America spring cleaning okay so do the spring cleaning in the in the in the winter but for you don't have to you know burn your countertops well you have to caser the cter Dos but I'm saying you don't have to destroy the whole house and it's discern places there no don't get me the wrong don't come and sayab told me I don't have to clean the house I'm just going to mop the floor and I have a from that's not what I'm saying clean your house you can't even be found one Crum of K in your house but don't go crazy there's no in chandeliers and in many other places that I see people what cleaning they're doing it has to be normal I'm sure you get if I get all these these slogans I'm sure you get it on all the social media and last year somebody sent me a how did it go you are not the Corban your wife is not the this and some somebody wrote something smart about the cleaning I don't remember how it go but that's that's the reality clean your house from KET and that's it I would tell you put more emphasis on cleaning yourself that every day in the next month and a half you internal you you introspect and you clean your thoughts and you clean your eyes and you clean your ears and you clean your heart you that's what you need to clean to start cleaning so I want to focus on two things tonight that like I told you I want this class to be shorten to the point and productive that you can leave the door and and apply the month of Adar is a very special month why because a lot can be achieved in the month of Adel it's a special month from first reason it's the last month of the cycles of the 12 months it's not the r sh is not the first month of the year R is the seventh month of the year so it's called R sh it's not the beginning of the year then it would be called it's called the head of the year but it doesn't mean it's the first month month Nissan is the first month that means that Adar is the last month so we're concluding the year it's kind of like kind of like an alul Al you're saying okay whatever I didn't do the whole year I'll do in and then R so ad has the same idea of aul whatever I I I can summarize the entire year now more than that if you cutting the the the months like a pie then there's always going to be two months that are pointing each other so El and AD are pointing to each other if if you're interested I have a lecture online that I explain the connection with and and all the mystical part of Adar now we're not going to stop on that I'm just telling you in simple words is a very powerful month because it's like the summary of the entire year and whatever you didn't do the entire year you can still doing the last month and not only that it's the month preced that comes before the month of Miracles the months of G take my word Adar is a very special month I don't want to waste our time right now one of the most special elements in the month of Adar that makes it that special is of course Purim Purim is not a Biblical holiday it's something that happened through throughout the way so we have two holidays that are not biblical kanuka and puim that our sages explain that when mashiah is going to come all the holidays Will C cancel and these two holidays won't cancel and there's a long explanation what does that mean but it just goes to show you how powerful kanuka and puim are which means that that makes the month of Adar even more special and why is puim so special you know how many miracles our nation had we have a a holiday for every miracle and we had huge miracles in the same level of of of aim so how come we don't have a holiday for every Miracle well first of all we wouldn't be able to live work do anything if we would have a holiday for every Miracle we would just go from holiday to holiday but in order for the holiday I'll tell you say different in order for the miracle to get a holiday the miracle has to come again the next year that's what happened in kanuka they didn't celebrate kanuka the first year the next year the the sages saw this Godly light coming back again we don't see that but great sikim they see same thing with puim both kanuka and puim The Godly light that came down to that to the world in that point to activate the miracle came back again the next year and that's why our sages called it a holiday but it's not a holiday holiday in Hebrew is a hug so it's very wrong to say holiday it's not a holiday because can be easily translated to holiday but comes from the root to go around in circles the the hands in the clock it's called so what is that mean that something turns around in circles and goes constantly goes back to the same point it's called go in circles so what what does it mean it means that you go throughout all the days of the year you come to the the same day again and that's the hug and then you go again around and you hit the same day and you go around that's hug that's something that repeats all the time so all the other Miracles the light never came back again it was like a one time Miracle every year the light came back again that our with their were able to see and understanding okay that's something that's going to repeat so it it's going to so we make a every year you have to stand in the light that's really what you need to do how is this state cold the Sunshine State right I noticed on the license plate nice Sun here now if I want to get down I'm sure you see that I'm tan I'm just walking in the street you look how red I am my wife told me why are you Red on your head I said well I'm Bold and The Keeper was bad back and the Sun hitting on my head and that's it I get a had a red head so if I want to enjoy the sun some people like going to the beach can you imagine if I go to the beach and I stand underneath like a you know uh the shade and then I come home I didn't get any color well you fool you you were you were in the shade you weren't in the Sun what are you talking about I went to the beach yeah but you were dressed from top to bottom and you were in a in the shade how are you going to get the the the Sunan same idea as the holiday the holiday comes you can come to the holiday you can come to LED you can come to the sud of and come to here me but it doesn't mean you're standing in front of the lights you understand the difference you can celebrate the holiday and still be in the dark like this you're not getting anything from the holiday so again the preparation is what's the important part in two weeks we're going to be celebrating pool and puim is a focused on four mitv so we had a miracle 2700 years ago and now to commemorate this miracle then we apply four types of actions just today we read in the Paras in par that the should build to me a tabernacle so I will dwell in them it doesn't make sense grammatically in Hebrew it should have been not plural single so how can we tell me build me one Tabernacle and then I'm going to be dwelling in all of them so our sages say no means in each and every one of you that's the Tabernacle not the Tabernacle that mosu built with bet and served in the desert for 40 years and then in Shilo for 14 years that's not the mishan it's talking about it's talking about my body myself that's why he says you build the mishkan you build the dwelling place and if it's right I Hashem will dwell in you that's the betam beautiful that's what we read today first in the so what do I take from that I need to refine myself so I will be in a level that hasem can dwell in me and then I do the same thing in my home and then I do the same thing in my office and then I do the same thing in my car and any possession that I have my business which means I don't want to bring any filth into my house so whether it's the music I hear or the movies I see or if there isn't even movies in the house or TV or whatever that's why you seees no TVs no they don't want this junk in the house you want your house koser you want a m on the door you want koser food you want the kitchen to be cure you don't want any person coming into your house desecrating the house why that's your mishan you want Kusa and you want it in your house you want it in your office you want it in your business and especially in your mind and in your heart and in your body so if I'm very judgmental and if I'm very quick to anger and I'm not patient and all this all this junk in my mind so in four weeks sorry in two weeks is PIM and in Pim we're going to focus on four mitv that we have to do it's not a a choice you have to do all four mitv and I'm saying you men women children everybody has to do it there's no exemption and that's what I told you you can come to the beach dressed with a coat and stand in the shade you won't get taned so you come to P him you can also come to the feast and get drunk and throw up on the table or whatever pathetic Behavior you're going to you know make a a fool out of yourself and I know everybody thinks I need to be on the floor throwing up that's not that's drunk that's not s that's not true Feast don't forget the Mitzvah is called not Hol H is let's party you want to party party another time don't don't ruin the day so first let's focus on the mitzvot and then we can explain what you need to do for the rest of the month and a half before we do that like I told you just so we understand the concept with the I'm I'm a tabernacle I want my body to be holy I want my mind to be holy I want my house my possessions why cuz when my house is Holy then hasem will come in that house and not that I'm saying that to show show off or to say that I'm great but I'm just to make a point many people come into my house and like ah I love the energy here very calm very and I'm saying why am I saying that so you understand the house is clean the energy in the house is clean we had a guest not too long ago she was like the best sleep I ever had in my life I slept so good I was like okay it's not because the floor is clean because there's no in the house just that's it there's no theft there's no gizzle There's No Stealing there's no priscu there's no foul language and I mean there is I mean I I'm something my house is a bet mikdash I have seven kids and each kid has seven friends and then my wife is like you know she's like the fairy ofat every straight cat she is in our house wake up in the morning I go down people sleeping on my couches family living in the basement I mean God bless her very kind kind woman but like literally every limping cat in the street come come I'm not talking about a furry cat I'm talking about people I mean Shalom not comparing I'm just saying you know in Hebrew it's a say like somebody who's like you know it's like the street cat maybe I said the slang the wrong way I I'm should watch my tongue next time some that we have like 30 cats in the house and I'm like walking between like a red one and a but my my wife is very special so I'm not joking I we have families living in my basement sometimes I walk into the house I see five the other day I walked into the house maybe 50 boxes like this of clothes all used clothes what is this thing no it's for poor people somebody gave so why it's in my living room no because they didn't have where to put it did you check if it's clean I what if it has bed bu bags bed bugs youbody bring it into the house two weeks I have a Bazaar in my house women are walking in you think this looks good and I'm like why you in my living room so my house uh I think you know my wife for the joke of it says because of that that's why there's Kusa in the house but the point is that you want all your surroundings clean and if shalom shalom you should sin in any type of thing that will reverse it don't do it in your home I know it's bad advice cuz my advice should be don't sin but if you must sin already and you're you're in the point that you don't bring it into your house send somewhere else do it in the forest or do it in your neighbor's house that you really don't like bring the Tuma over there stand on their lawn like but but but s but listen my advice is don't sin but if you Shalom why am I saying that listen I I I coach I guide I teach I myself as a b cha I know sometimes you have weak points and sometimes you break and sometimes you can't handle the pressure or whatever is requested but that was my attitude if I must sin go to the forest sin over there don't bring the to mind to my house don't bring this impurity now when the sin is already affecting my mind my soul that's a whole different thing but the point you want to focus on you want hasm to dwell in you the your body has to be a tabernacle when Hashem dwells in you you're happy you are peaceful you sleep well you fall asleep right away you're healthy you're in a good mood you're productive you're focused you you you I'll give you now a whole list of what what happens when Hashem really dwells in you and when Hashem doesn't dwell in you you know the complete opposite emptiness sadness void in your life confusion bad night nightmares don't sleep good don't eat good pale or many other things and you'll blame the entire world so you want to make sure first of all that you build yourself a tabernacle so hasem can dwell in you that's message number one message number two I explained that I want to explain it again and review it when we're reading the sentence build me a tabernacle and I will Tabernacle and I will dwell in you comes the and says don't read the word how you read it because the teachings of cabala when it looks at the Torah it doesn't look at the Torah how we see it if you ever saw the Torah scroll there are three columns right every every one parchment three columns you move another three columns and the letters somehow always fit in the columns so some letters are straight and some letters are are are kind of squashed in and you read and what do you read a story but what happens if now you take all the letters and put them together then it's a different story right now of course you'll need commas and you'll need to move letters to make new words but when you put the words together if you just push one line from one column everything moves and then you get get a whole different combination you get a whole different story so basically how the letters are organized right now is how we read the story but take the exact same letters and put them together then you get to different meanings and how you read the the the the letters different it's like Scrabble that's how it's called Scrabble you have letters that's it you get little these little cubes of letters you build new new content so to say so the comes and says you yeah yeah you can read the word in them but imagine how you cut the word so you read it me so let's read now the the verse now I I changed the the meaning of the of the sentence course now will come the question what do you mean dwell in the me what's a me so we have five letters that they have a regular letter and then you have a final letter right you have and you have pay pay so we also have Mead so what does that mean we have a regular MIM that looks like a kind of like a triangle with a entrance on the bottom and some chup chud on the top but uh no I'm just trying to to Define it but uh because if you're looking at the me it's built from a few letters it buils from a bent down n and a UD all the letters are built from other Letters by the way if you look at the structure of the letters you'll see Al if is a V and UD and all the letters are like that so not to drift on that topic let's read again the sentence so I have to figure out what's this me me is a square the difference between the me and the letter that the Torah starts with bit the letter bet that the BET has a top the BET has a right side and a bottom but the left side is completely open you don't leave your house open now when you go on a vacation you leave your house house open no so your job in this world is to seal the bit and create a m which means that you're sealing you have to seal the last the fourth part of the me the first three you you you have it it's it's it's already there but as long as the left part is open then the can constantly come in this is called the northern wind because the is called also ton my job is to close the Mim and then the me is completely closed and then then has is already in the me now comes the the big question what's this m so in two weeks you will experience this me on puim which is not a Biblical holiday it's a rabal holiday we have to do four mitz specifically four and each and every one of these four mitv thought start with the letter me first thing we have to do is M have to read the Mig everybody has to hear the mea you missed it go home your Pim is messed up sorry to tell you that there's no chuva here that's that's the I don't want to say the severity I would choose to say that's the importance of it and you have to hear the me twice if you heard it once you didn't do it I know it's hard after a fast to hear but whatever you do what you need to do now I have a good excuse I hate saying that every time my kids complain about something I tell them this hostage is sitting in Aza you have the you have you dare to complain about anything standing after a fast they're sitting these people are in in tunnels no air No Light No food no nothing you you have you understand don't complain about anything not that I'm trying to analyze the thing but one of the I think one of the messages hasem is giving us with this whole hostage thing is relax your life is not that bad cuz a lot of us complain my life is bad I only have a 2022 car I need a 2025 new car if you can afford it go ahead buy two cars but if you can't don't complain in your heart life is bad oh have to your life is not bad trust me you have a very good life thank AEM 50 million times a day that you have a good life and be grateful for everything that you have because you have much more than most people and if you ask me how do I know I know first mitah that we have to do is mik you have to do it twice and everybody has to hear the meila men women CH everybody has to come you have children then what my wife does is very creative one mother CH babysits two sets of kids and the other mother goes listens to the the meila and then the one mother who listen to meila takes the kids of both and the other mother goes to listen to the meila and then you can listen to the meila like a normal human being that's it it's fun to bring the kids we also do big stuff for the kids but when I want to listen to the mea you have to hear every word first Mitzvah put it on your list make sure you're doing it because if you're missing one thing it's not going to work besides the fact that you're transgressing a Mitzvah that's a different thing to deal with but the the acquiring the opportunity of P it won't work you you didn't do nothing sorry to tell you that you'll enjoy the ham and that's it and forget about P now I know it's a lot of pressure oh my God what's going to happen if I miss something okay so I have some pressure in your life so what you know what I mean things get done when you're under pressure at least most people second mitvah that you have to do it's called Mish you have to send some food to another person now I'm not going to explain the mitv I have enough of it online and if not then you can find it in many books of and in many places how you do each mitvah but you have to give m food for another person it's not talking about a poor person it's to a friend it's not for poor people if you want to give it to poor people better you're getting another mitvah on the way but the M man has to go to another person and Mish the translation Mish means a delivery man food delivery of food hi I okay with your food simple Mitzvah what's the big deal putting a few now I know now lately it became that Mish manot is 5 kilg of sugar that's not really a mish Man by the way and I'm talking about the B the baskets that has chocolates and candies and Coca-Cola in it and all the rest of the junk that is not a mish it's like a a Death Wish here take choke this type of M you need to send to people you don't really like here I bought you this yummy Mish manot so I see my kids they come home it's just sugar they don't get a mish manot is food not junk not cookies food it has to be food items okay this I'll be very make with you if you can't find an orange and a an to put in a bag and give that as a so buy Skittles and whatever junk that you want to put in the bag and give it and kill somebody with all the sugar in the food coloring so you you know you do a Mitzvah from one end and you're doing an a from the other end but so my recommendation as it is called it's food and you give it to another person what's the big deal easy Mitzvah Mitzvah number three I'll explain shortly the spirit spiritual significance that you understand what you're doing third mitvah is you're noticing that it's om is presence for poor people charity the more you give the better any person that pulls out their hand on pu you have to give them so pull a lot of coins in your in your pocket I a he in Plantation I don't think the I don't I don't think the poor people here really know to come to you so you're pretty much saved here but I lived in New York for 15 years people will come from the Bronx Muslims Hindus Christians they know Pim we give money go to any religious neighborhood in New York you'll see 5,000 Beggars that are not even Jewish coming and they know the Jews give money in that day so you get you you give a and again I'm not going to go into the details but it's important that you know who the charity goes to not to St throw it to different directions but the Mitzvah is pretty simple it doesn't take much you don't have to give a lot of money I mean if you have money give but the Mitzvah is done even if you give don't don't give big amounts the trick here is to understand that the how much you give on your on puim that's how much you will get so if you earn if you have just for the sake of the example $100 if you give the entire $100 then you'll get 100% back not $100 back but the return from Hashem will be in that magnitude because you gave everything that you had is going to give you if you say no from the $100 I need to keep 20 for myself and 30 for that and 10 for this and oh I also have to pay for that here's a dollar so hasem says the same thing okay I'll do the same thing with you so and him specifically be very very generous you will not lose from that I guarantee to you and thousands and thousands of rabbis books and scripts will tell you the same thing you won't lose give more than what you think you are able to you have $100 in your in your pocket give 200 and of course with uh sometime type of an account don't give your house in proportions but know that the giving of Charity and puim is not only theah it sets so to say your relationship with hem with giving in that respect for the entire year to give Anonymous H you can give Anonymous but in puim doesn't make doesn't make a difference if it's Anonymous or not but in general always better to give Anonymous ESP especially to poor people like why am I saying that you don't have to because if you're standing in the street and a a person comes to you poor him this you can't say him uh hold on uh that's what I mean you don't say oh he saw me no no I I'll send it to you by zel so so if you if you can you want to Pi put some envelopes slide them on the doors best give it to him to give to him to give to him even better but if it's someone in front of you don't don't don't uh don't stress over the the just give it out tou another thing on but it's important for you to understand that anything that you do in puim I'm not like joking or exaggerating or Pim is such a special day that the day that we get forgiveness and atonement Yip listen to you don't have to know Hebrew what's the difference is the Kim is like puim which means that yum kipur the holiest day of the year where we can reach atonement it's like puim so what do you take from that that puim is much more holier than y that I can reach atonement Kap so the first mitvah we said M second third and last you have to make a feast a ping feast and it has to be uh holy not like a to order the chi and DS there you like a holy meal you need it doesn't matter you need meat good meat good wine that's outside the meat I can't help you with but you want good meat some even have the are very particular that it's only a egel that it's a no how do you say in English uh H not lamb calf ve but any good quality meat very important and needless to say you want uh poor people at the table and you want well not to go and now Gathering trucks of poor people from the from the street it says a poor person that you can bring into the house honorable respectful they just don't have money not some homeless person that's going to rob you and the pouring Feast has to be done right holy at the time of por with washing your hands for bread and and wine and that's it nobody's asking you something so difficult so you have four very easy MIT I think the hardest really is the m which is it's not hard listen if you don't fast well might be hard for you but other than that to put a few items of food in a bag and to give it to somebody and of course you can go you know the whole nine yards you can do M that are beautiful that are worth a lot of money and give it to many many people you take the and you develop it however you want but in order for me to get San on pu then I need to do these mitv and I'm not talking about going to the beach I'm talking about you want to stand in the light of hem if you move aside like I told you in the beach analogy you're in the beach but you're not getting your sent end so you can come to puim and he'll get nothing so you need to understand that when you come to puim in order to receive this life you you need to stand perfectly underneath the light and that's can only be done with the for mitv that I just told you you think you can do it it's pretty simple of course you can do it why couldn't you do it why wouldn't you do it it's not a difficult like a l said it's a regular day use your phone you can look look at your phone every 15 minutes if you really need to but when you do that can you imagine to what high levels you can reach that our sages named the day of atonement doesn't call the day the Yum Kim is not not called yum Kim in the Torah later on it got the name Kim why because it's like puim that in itself should emphasize how great is puim and what you can achieve and that's two weeks so you have two weeks to to get yourself ready beyond that like I told you each and every of the it's has a spiritual a spiritual significance to it the idea is is not only to celebrate the these for mitzvot on puim is to take it throughout the entire year that the same light that you acquired on puim is with you for the entire year how do you do do that then you have to apply these four mitv every day of your life and when you apply these four mitzvot every day in your life if you want come to me at the end of the lecture I will sign and guarantee to you that your life is going to be a thousand times better now how do you apply this throughout the year we don't read me or you don't do not every day so there's a way to understand from the spiritual significance of each of one of these mitv what to do throughout the year so mik which means reading text that corresponds to learning Torah so you have to learn Torah every day everyone now I'm not telling you to go now and learn five hours a day read one chapter of that's it you did your learning Tor reading T is considered learning Tor read one chapter of t a day you already make one V anything above that is a massive bonus but every day not one day of your life that you didn't have one sentence of Torah it can be can be reading if you really are busy and the more you learn oral Tor hidden secrets of the Tor it doesn't matter but the more the better the second thing we said M Sor sorry sorry so the second one we said Mish we mot is is giving out food so you don't have to make a mish every day of your life but every day of your life you have to do acts of kindness that acts of that you giving every day not once a week every day should be an act of giving now the easiest is get yourself a charity box and every day just put a a quarter in the charity box you you did the act of giving in this magnitude but you did it you want to do it in a much greater way then every day it's much more than a quarter it can be a dollar it can be a dollar and a half or whatever amount it doesn't have to be money you can help people today I drive you to shopping next day I'm going to help you build whatever and that's acts of kindness that's me giving my time to another person every day of your life has to be an act of kindness and like I told you you want to do the minimum of the minimum because you can't think of being creative every day then put a dollar in the charity box every day that's it third is is sorry I I messed the whole thing up what I just told you that's the okay the presentence for the poor people the let me explain that in a second the last one of course is means a feast a meal and joy and happiness that corresponds to the meals we eat on Shabbat so it means you every Shabbat you have to have three meals whether you're hungry or not I also don't eat much but I wash for the bread I eat a little the minimum of the minimum CU I'm not hungry I just do it for the Mitzvah and that's it but every Shabbat you have to eat three meals and I know some of you will tell me I'm glutenfree I'm allergic to I don't know what so it's our D that's it that's my answer don't don't don't to develop it too much but every Shabbat you have to wash three times and then of course our sages add on that add on that a fourth meal what we just did now M Mala so from the four mitv let me recap the first one M learning Tor the second one sorry act of kindness charity last one is the the feast that's the meals of Shabbat and celebrating Shabbat by the way not only the meals you can't drive to these three meals I mean if you're in that level better to drive than nothing but I'm talking about observing Shabbat it's talking about Shabbat and of course the three meals so if you're missing one element here it's going to be a problem now let's go back to the third the third is M and there's no such a Mitzvah to give food I mean you have the Mitzvah of acts of kindness and charity that's what the idea behind Mish man that I give you food and then you give me back food I told you Mish man is not for poor people I mean you can give it to poor people that's great but I give m not to my friends and normally the custom is that I give you a then you give back one to me right so you got to prepare it's like trick or-treating right here in America people knock on the door you give them a candy so we give what's the idea behind the Mish says that each and every one of us has a Godly spark that is igniting our n our soul and it's Unique no other soul in the world will have that same Spark It's like a spiritual DNA and it's Unique and individual to you and when I'm saying unique it's a way how Hashem reveals himself in your spiritual DNA which means that that Godly spark we're talking about a Godly spark that is in your the says when we exchange the Mish I give you a part of my spark and you give me a part of your spark and I benefit from your Godly light and your mitv and your existence and the same you with for me and we call it in the Biblical term unconditional love that we are required and ordered to have to every individual around me not my only my wife and my kids and my mother and my sister and my father everyone that's why it's called unconditional there's a concept that is called that the simple explanation is loving your fellow Jew or loving the nation of Israel is a different type of love it's a free it's a unconditional love you know Gentiles can do the Mitzvah loving the nation of Israel just out day I landed here in Miami as I was renting a car I was driving out from the car rental place the individual that stopped to look at the pass the driver's license came up to me he looked from some Hispanic descent came with a very heavy accent but he told me just as you know we love you we love your country we love your nation we support you we think you're great it's it's nice to hear that CU I only hear in the streets baby killer genocide like as if I'm doing genocide so to hear suddenly somebody coming and telling you we love you we love your nation we love your country it's a like a breath of fresh air so a gentile can also do is is means love love Israel so it can be love of the land of Israel it can be the love of the nation of Israel it can be love of another Jew you know many Gentiles love the land of Israel donate money support the land of Israel they're doing a Mitzvah but is unconditional of and it's not talking about me to my son that is unconditional I'll give you whatever whatever you want is that I like the people I love the people who I will be extreme by saying do bad things to me I'm not talking about now a terrorist that's trying to kill me or a rapist that is Shalom or that's not what I'm talking about I'm talking about people who I have encounters with every day co-workers neighbors boss whatever it is friends family members now to love a person that is good friends with me and good to me that's easy but I guarantee to you that if we do a quiet survey everyone in this room has at least one person in their life that is in a very close Circle a relative can be a parent child neighbor sibling whatever everybody has people that they really I don't want to say hate I dislike that individual oh I hate that his wife if you don't hate any one if I had a hat I would take it off and there are some people good people don't carry any hate in their heart to any individual and let me clear myself I'm not saying don't hate Hitler that's not what I'm talking about I'm talking about the people in your life and sometimes people who are not necessarily close to your life but they're you're in kind of your surrounding the fact is don't we can't kid ourselves in in a Global Way everybody hates each other in our nation nobody can stand each other I know a lot of people tell me oh what are you talking about there so much about is yeah you live in a little town and you go to one sh I travel all over the world and I go to thousands of shs so I'm telling you the sin there's a lot of hate whether it's from this group to that group Ash isi and it's everywhere so don't pretend there's no hate I agree there's a lot of there's a lot of unconditional love and you see acts of kindness and charity and especially in disasters everybody okay great we have that but we also have a lot of hate a lot of hate so you I'm different than you you need to hate me you don't follow the same Rabbi I follow so you hate me you voted to a certain president and so and I didn't and I told you you know actually I'm not going to repeat what I'm going to I'll say say it after say it after the the class because it will be I'll say it in a form that it shouldn't be on the camera but why am I saying that because I see in the in in the best places the hate I see people who are this close to being Pious and the reason I'm saying this close because they do everything according to the book They're OB erve Shabbat and eat kosher and learn Torah and and every literally everything but they have this hate to other people now sometimes the hate has no reason and sometimes the hate there is a reason somebody cheated you out of money can be a family member I hear stories all sorts of inheritance this brother took from here that I can understand I deal with with severe situations but why do you hate the person who did that that's going not going to solve the problem not only that it's not going to solve the problem you're missing the point anything that happens to you in your life is a direct order of the Kosh no one can do anything to you without hashem's per permission so if you Shalom now cheat me out of money or you steal from me or you hurt me or you ins me or you do anything to me I have no reason in the world to hate you because you are just the stick that Hashem is hitting with so if I hate you I'm kind of like in a level of a dog because if you take a stick and you hit a dog Try It You'll see the dog bites the stick this dog doesn't go after the person who's doing waving the stick the dog will go after to the stick why cuz he thinks it's the stick that is attacking him and not the person so when you get upset at somebody who did something bad to you you like a dog because you're getting upset at the stick you don't understand that it's AEM waving the stick at you m is what you lean on right on the chair M it so they will give me Comfort of course the leaning on HM will give me Comfort but sh is your staff so your staff is going to give me Comfort that's what David says in chapter 23 your staff and your support gives me Comfort saying in other words I need hashem's staff if I would don't have aem's staff I would know what I'm doing bad so I need to get hit with that staff but don't hate the staff it's Hashem telling you go back to the path you're doing something wrong so if I'm upset that the person who came and did something to me besides being in the level of a dog I don't understand the message Hashem is sending me that I'm in such a low place that I'm angry at a person I know it's hard to accept and I know it's even more hard to apply but that's the reality you know how many people do bad things to me you might be in the group that likes me there's also the groups that doesn't like me and there's a lot of them by the way you know how many bad things people do to me I mean I'm telling you in things in levels not that trashing me on Facebook that's that's not what I'm talking about a person trashes me on Facebook that's their problem that's their that's just good for me just helps me it's promoting me it's advertising me and spiritually somebody talks L about you just that you know that all your sins went to that person and all the mitv of that person goes to you so please talk L about me as much as you want that doesn't bother me but when I'm telling you people do like bad things to me some women where I live went to the police and said I'm beating up my wife and kids that's level I'm telling you what think but sometimes people are crazy what they do and many other things but I don't get upset that somebody does something bad to me if I would get upset at some and every person who did something bad to me I would have to be upset all day long but I understand very clearly that anyone who's doing anything to me in any type of a way good or bad but now we're looking at the bad that's AEM that's AEM talking to me through another person you ever get upset at the FedEx messenger he gave you the envelope oh I ordered the black one not the yellow one you hit the FedEx guy you want for me I'm just a delivery guy guy but I ordered the blue one I I'm just delivering it that's the same idea now I know one might say yeah but that person is not a robot they had Consciousness they know what they're doing they did they they they chose to do it but Hashem allowed them to do it if Hashem would not allow that person to do whatever they want they wouldn't do anything it would be a bilam scenario that person comes to curse you and you get a blessing that person comes to cheat you out of money somehow your money goes to that person nobody can do anything to you no one get it very deep into your mind that no one not a government not any agency not an army not a terrorist not a nobody can do nothing to you unless Hashem says that's okay you have a green light saying in other words that anything that happens to to me is a direct order of God against me and on a positive way for me so I can argue with Hashem right now Hashem did something that in my eyes looks difficult or bad and I can argue with that no I can't because I'll tell you an example that I'm sure you know if you have kids you are a normal parent you teach your kids to brush their teeth right you tell them please don't buy old this junk it's going to ruin your teeth you I don't want to give you money to buy this stuff here's healthy stuff take care of your teeth now in the eyes of a seven-year-old or a nine-year-old and even sometimes a 15y old you are an annoying parent leave me alone ah already you and your but what are you trying to do I'm trying to help you you fool I am helping you you'll have ities and root canals you'll be suffering and me too cuz I have to pay for that but you're the one who's going to be suffering that's exactly what Hashem is doing Hashem is restricting you from certain things hasem takes things away from you telling you in other words it's good for you and you're telling Hashem why are you taking my par away right now hasem says cuz right now that's what you need to go through why are you why am a single for 10 years that's what Hashem wants from you right now so hasm takes from you something you really want a to get your attention that's I already said that a million times but more than that if Hashem takes something away from you he knows what he's doing so how do you change the situation just don't be bitter about the situation don't be sad upset at AEM but you have to internalize that nobody can do anything to you without Hashem allowing that saying in other words that everything thing or every encounter that you have with anyone is approved by God I know it's hard to accept and sometimes when I explain that in a more clearer way let's put it then people don't like hearing it I get a lot of bad comments about that because I explained numerous times in my classes just to emphasize what I'm talking about that I don't like when people question things like where was in the Holocaust or now with where was theem in October 7 because the answer is very simple Hashem is the one who did it and if you say anything different that's 100% heresy and people don't like hearing that what are you talking about I'm talking about that if 3,000 terrorists came in from Aza into Israel it's because hasem allowed it to happen and if you're saying no no such thing I'm sorry to tell you you are 100% heretic I will put the how heretic you are saying that theas or any other entity has overpower AEM say Hashem we're not listening to you we're going into Israel and you understand the depth of the Distortion here to say such a thing of course Hitler was a a psychopath and the entire Nazi army but Hashem allowed it to happen Hashem allowed them to fulfill Hashem hired them to do it you think Hashem has an issue if he wouldn't hire Hitler Hitler inim he would hire another psychopath has has a lot of psychopaths now in our generation you have a dozen dozens of these Psychopaths but hem don't forget hem is going to let them either do what they want to do or not which means that if they are doing these Psychopaths things against us just that you know that's AEM telling you you have an issue it's me because nothing can move in this world without Hashem allowing that so I know hard to resonate in your mind that Hashem is the one who designed the Holocaust approved it and did it because that's words of truth if you say anything otherwise that's heresy it's basically saying that a human being has more power than God and I know it's sad to hear it what God will do such a thing but we don't understand even what's the meaning of these things I will now dare to tell you that nothing negative comes from God so even something is negative and I'm not diminishing anything bad thing don't now think that I'm like some crazy denying the Holocaust I'm not denying I'm not minimizing any suffering I'm just adding on that that that was hashem's action very simple did he want it I also sometimes need to punish my kids by the way am I happy about it no and if the kid is completely out of line the punishment will have to be exactly in the same level or not the punishment but the what's called aak says you don't educate your kids and sometimes you need to smack them you hate your kid I I'm not running a popularity test with my kids I'm not on the father of the year list I'm not expecting to I'm not I don't need my children to tell me you're the best father in the world I have a responsibility to set them up as human beings set them out to the world as normal human beings and hopefully do a good job it doesn't say anyone your kids need to love you so much of course you want to strive to be in a amazing parent but you need to educate the child I can relate with hem I can relate that when the child goes completely out of control sometimes yeah you need to put them down on the ground so we as a nation go out of control then hasem needs to he slaps us I relate with theem I don't I I I I don't get me wrong I know I what I'm saying sounds very extreme I see the suffering I I I I I see everything I'm not saying I'm just saying Hashem is the one who does that end the story so now going back to your personal life now after an hour of me talking can you blame anybody in your life for your Misfortune or your suffering or your lack of money or your situation if you leave this door tonight with hate to any person in your life then you wasted two hours of your life CU Pim is not going to work for you and P is not going to work for you sorry I'm putting all this pressure but I I I I rather you get the information as it is so you have a month and a half to work on yourself and after PES call me and not to thank me that the wine was tasty is to tell me thank you for telling me what to do in the last month and a half that's it you don't have to call me or email me I'm joking but that's what I want I'm not standing here for anything else but that you think I fly all the way to Florida for anything else but to tell you what what I'm saying so you need to leave this door tonight with a lot of decisions and you need to leave this door tonight with a lot of order in your mind so I'm not expecting you to remember what I said go tomorrow look at the video we'll be online tomorrow so you can hear it again and apply everything we're not done by the way I'm just telling you that you need to apply everything I'll remind you before we leave what you need to do but the thing you need to do tonight is to make strong decisions you have the power ofes today in the afternoon I spoke to the people that they were here for the shabbaton that the decisions you make ones if you do it ones and you really make a decision you have the power that it will will remaines if you decide this month I'm going to add this to my spiritual aod ones when you do a decision to make something you have the guarantee that it will will be much more successful why CU it'ses so I know we're already we're already in bet but we're ready we still Shabbat we can still he can still smell the Shabbat right M Shabbat still has the energy of Shabbat that's why it's called Shabbat and not any other definition if it had a different quality then it would called the morning ofon of Sunday it's it's called no no no it's called Mo Shabbat going out of Shabbat so as long as you're sitting here in a sh and we're doing a and you eating and we wash for bread and saying you it's an extension of Shabbat so you still have the power of when it comes to a decision or what Americans called the resolution you need to make some strong decisions tonight the the basic ones I want to do the this por and this P the right way this year because I don't know what's going to be next I don't know what's coming next hem is already writing on the wall that he's he has doesn't have much Mercy although it's the complete opposite Hashem now has so much Mercy on us it was was and is supposed to be much worse Hashem is actually taking the leg off the gas as much as you see that it's bad it was supposed to be 10 times more bad hasem has Mercy on us that you can't even imagine you know that oober 7 the plan was forah to do the same thing from the north and ifah would come in it wouldn't be 12 13,400 dead and 200 hostages it would be 10 times more so you always need to look at the Miracles that hem is doing literally a few days before I left Israel three bombs were found on three different buses the stupid terrorists instead of sending it to 9:00 a.m. they did to 9:00 p.m. so it exploded in the night instead when when they're in the parking lots so we can laugh that the terrorist is idiot or we can sayem maybe they did set it to 10: 9:00 a.m. and Hashem sent an angel they did it to 10: 900 p.m. that's unbelievable Miracle few days ago another thing bomb on the on a bus they took everybody off the bus the last person went off the bus and the bus exploded so you want to tell me there's no from hem there's no Miracles I just now experienced a year year war in the North everything is a miracle you see 50 missiles coming towards you and Nei one Falls you live in Miracles I live in the North I live in spat we were a year now in a war and it's not a war that it's far away from you you all day long you see the missiles the Jets the drones everything nothing happens Miracles over Miracles over Miracles so let's summarize everything and understand where we going a we're Ines powerful powerful time to do a decision any decision you can the more the better and the ultimate one is what I told you not the that's you have to if you want to take it all then tonight when you go out of this door your decision is not only p and all that is that you leave this door tonight and you're saying I understood what Raba said from this point on I don't hate any individual especially all the ones who did hard for bad to me and I'm going to forgive them now y I'm giving forgiveness you know how you get atonement when you give forgiveness somebody did something bad to you you don't have to go to that person by there I'm not telling you to start calling people somebody did something bad to you 10 years ago 5 years ago 20 years ago 3 days ago in your I forgive that person all gone I know it's hard especially when people took your money hurt your feelings stepped on you insulted you and many other things I'm telling you I was the worst in holding Grudge I was so revengeful that's how you say revengeful I somebody would do something to me I would wait 20 years to do something back that's how bad I was but then the Torah comes and slams me in my face you're not allowed to have Revenge now I have to stop revenging but it's so pathetic this whole idea of being angry at somebody for 10 years for five years oh he took your money thought it wasn't your money to start with even so I know it's very very hard but you have to do that that's the foundation of everything I gave a class on Thursday in Safra some of you were there this is like a mini continuation to that class that's the foundation you walk out of this door your has to be I will accept everything that Hashem does to me good or bad and anyone who's in that program included good or bad I forgive them already I'm not going to hold any gud no anger no no looking to get back at them I know it's hard I know I look at at some of you I see the some of the eyes like I don't know if I'm going to do that but I'm telling you you have to do that and I'm telling you as somebody who did that many many many times repetitively it's the biggest Freedom you can achieve cuz when you hate somebody you carrying the hate here you're carrying it with you it's almost like me telling you can you hold my bag for me it's only 150 pounds you take the bed you you you hate some somebody you holding the bag if I hate you you and you all this hate is here it's not there you don't feel it you sleep well you fall asleep you don't even know I hate you and you suffering cuz you hate worst cancer you can have half your diseases is from hate release I don't hate anyone and people do bad things to me and I gave you one example out of many and if it would be going in common sense you know how many times people tell me why don't you like act or do anything that's nothing to do with me that's what you need to leave this door tonight with many others so the summary is we're in roses I mean we're a few hours after roses you still have the opportunity start making some decisions you don't have to make it right now in half an hour when you go home have homework instead of going to Instagram and Tik Tok and PPK and doing like this then sit for 20 minutes and take a piece of paper and write down and Doan get your life together and why so all the things that don't work out in your life will start working out that's it you're not doing anybody a favor you're doing yourself a favor that's it if you willing to Wal into this room and tell me I have no issues money coming out of my ears health I can run 50 miles now all my kids are everything is amazing in my life if you can do that go ahead but the fact is that everybody has issues problems challenges difficulties in in in tons of them so what I'm telling you now is we'll reduce 80% of it that's it so you're not doing anybody a favor about yourself I'm telling you it works when you let go of anger and hate and how do you call it in Hebrew it's called like it's like a hold Grudge all these things you are carrying this negativity in you so you are sad you are weak you are not eating well sleeping well digesting well so just let go especially that you know it's all Shem technically the person who did something bad to you you need to come and kiss them can you imagine somebody comes and does something bad to you and you're like thank you so much you send them hearts on WhatsApp these two hands thank you so much for cheating me thank you so much for trashing my name all over the place but the reality is that's what you that's what you should do I also I always thank people who do bad things to me so now is a very supicious time to set some decisions they don't have to be that major by the way but you want to set those decisions from here to puim that's what you need to work on who do I need to forgive who do I need to make peace with who do I need to just let it go and not to have any communication with them basically everything that I'm telling you you don't have to communicate with anyone just in it's all in your heart it's all in your heart that's what you need to do to pu you need to clean your vessel and when puim comes then you have to be busy with your mitv everything that I told you and in the best way possible don't miss anything this is for you now the highest priority you coming to the mikra half an hour before that you can sit here and listen and not miss one word and if you have the money you buy yourself a beautiful mea it's not that expensive for a few hundred you get yourself a beautiful mea that you can follow it with your own eyes make the holiday great again get a good grogger so you have the very simple I don't have to repeat these but if you did these two stages then just that you know that from Purim till PES I explained that on Thursday lecture I'm repeating myself the kadosh is removing from in that month from no he does that he actually does that that's what our sages explain from puim to P hasem removes from you the kip which means the force the negative force that causes you doubts and disbelief and to cool you down from excitement now you're all excited right you're all inspired you're ready to go now and conquer the world 3 minutes after you leave this door you're going to all the air goes out takes a few messages on your phone oh and you're distracted and that's it so the knows that you going to walk out of the door he's going to right away take away the excitement so you have to you know hit while the iron is hot but let me repeat from puim till P one month that hasem removes from which means that you are free for the battle it's like as if you were battling somebody physically and now they took the strong one out and they're bringing you like a like a 20 lb like some skinny guy that you need now that's what I need to battle can understand what it means hem removes Kip but the order is important if you're not going to do the four mitv of pu and celebrate pu and the preparation of really cleaning your heart it's not going to really work you'll feel it like that but if you do a good job prior to that you'll feel it strong you'll feel that between pu and P you are on steroids spiritual steroids suddenly you wake up four o'clock in the morning no alarm clock right away jump to the m I'm I'm telling you try it don't come to complain if you didn't do it the right way and then from P him to P have one month one month that you can fly spiritually fly and needless to say that when you do all this comes P all you need to do is the and that's it you receive this this Godly light and you you did it you did it your life will be much more calm you'll be much more happy you'll be much more productive you'll be less judgmental less sad less depressed healthwise you'll be stronger positive everything I'll ask you a stupid question do I look depressed that's the Now's the Time that you can answer I don't I I do I look stressed out out or afraid of anything do I look like I don't sleep good do I sleep good I'm I'm hosted here by this wonderful woman I sleep like a like a log you know how fast it takes me to fall asleep a second do I look worried do I look disoriented or anything I think I look pretty positive in your eyes because I do what I teach that's it that's the this is the proof and if you need more proof ask the people who are close to me nobody ever sees me sad I'm sad when I see other people sad that's what causes me sadness or understanding the situation in the world or seeing how people make fun of Hashem but I'm not a sad individual not a depressed individual and don't think that my life is not chaotic Like Yours by the way in case you haven't know this I'll tell you I have seven kids you know how much money you need for seven kids and it's educating seven not one and I have a wife and I have many other things you know that my electricity bill doesn't get paid byes I also have to pay utilities and bills and a mortgage and tuition I also have all the stress that all of you have I also have kids to take care of there's also health issues there's always relationship problems there's problems in I also have it I'm not different than you but I'm not sad depressed unhappy confused not focused I deal with my challenges I deal with my difficulties and I deal with my problems I understand it's all coming from hem if Hashem brought the problem move aside and you'll see how Hashem gives you the solution the problem is that you think you can figure it out so hashm says okay so go ahead it's like my 5-year-old we bought him a toy he wanted to build it I told him you can't build it I I'm going to build it I'm going to do it I I go do it 3 hours later I get something weird is like you know he comes with like pieces that are connected all I don't know it's not working you didn't even build it right why didn't you ask my help I told you I'll help you no I'll do it that's how you behave sometimes with Hashem you have a problem you think you can figure it out and Hashem says just move aside I'll solve you the problem but you're too stubborn by saying I'll do it I'm going to figure out 90% of your problems you can deal with it move aside when I'm saying move aside and to let hem deal with it moving aside is that you do what at that moment what has wants you to do that is the moment you need to go and pray now or or learn t or do something for that's moving aside that's what I mean I have an issue now I think I have to start making million phone calls to the bank and this and that and Hashem says I'll solve the problem you should and learn I told you the story today in sudit for the ones of you who were here Shem says you go and do what you need to do I'll solve the problem but we're so ignorant that we think that we can solve the problem so we are in a very very special asici time right now how you going to leave this room depends on you if you leave this room with a change in your heart and everything that I told you I'm telling you you'll have a very very special next year and you will grow spiritually and you'll feel it and the trouble and and and challenges you have won't disappear but you'll deal with them in a much more positive way and and it will be much less hectic than you think and things will start mellowing down that's how things work everyone in their level so to repeat again how I want you to go out of this door first of all tonight you you're taking on yourself good decisions you're doing chuv you read you do CH tonight because tomorrow it's already better in you're missing the momentum you want tonight to repent you want tonight to tell hem I'm starting a journey right now help me to achieve what I want to achieve and this is what I want to achieve and this is what I want to do tell talk to Hashem and if you don't want to talk to Hashem then write it on a piece of paper make yourself a little plan and basically what I'm telling you is not that big just it's all a mind work is going throughout your life circling the your life and and thinking do I really hold grud at anybody no check do I had anybody no check do I'm angry at anybody oh I'm angry at that person because a b and c okay now operate according to what I told you work on that and needless to say p is in two weeks make sure that you're already preparing the m not a week before not that the day before same thing with everything you want to do the meila the right way I'm telling you you have a little bit of money right now buy a meila or if you are whatever Sho you go to make sure you have space prepare it don't leave it to the last minute that you celebrate puim the right way this year you your goal should be puim has to be according to the book and it's really one of the easiest holidays easy what's the big deal giving some food and listening to a meila and making a meal it's like the literally the easiest holiday to do so take it in the right measure invest time effort and then remember from Pim till PES you have one month that Kip is not bothering you you can work on your chuva you can work on your freedom going out of your your slavery by focusing on all your challenges and slowly slowly One By One removing them can you understand what great opportunity so you have to leave this door tonight with the all the opportunity in your hand oh you okay okay okay and gear will be the same another little set another P him same challenges sh same issues many many many years ago I heard the term that some people they live now they're already in a state of redemption and I didn't quite understand what it means what do you mean the person is he's with us in the Exile when I lived in America for 20 almost 20 years I didn't really like it here in my mind I was in Israel later on I did Aliah went back to Israel but for years I lived physically in America my mind was in Israel in my mind I was in is what the bov says you are where your where your mind is you know the story one time in the middle of prayer one guy finishes praying Shona they're all finishing the repetition turns to the B the B tells them Shalom tells them Shalom been here for the last hour so they told him no you weren't during you were on the beach you were where where you were you weren't here so I'm telling you Shalom our mind is so powerful that you can wherever your mind is your your state of mind that's where you are that's how probably the hostages make it there they're in their it's all in their mind so same thing here nothing different It's all where where what's in your mind so you have to have already in your mind the level where you want to be what you want to achieve I'm always seven steps ahead of my own of myself cuz I'm always ahead of the game that's what you that's where you need to be and the reason I'm explaining that to you because for many years I heard oh that person he he he lives already in a state of gula and now I can understand that because when you grow to a certain level spiritually you're not experiencing what everybody else is experiencing and there will be many many people and some of them already maybe are some of you there's going to be many many people that at the time when mashiah comes and all the and everything 91 a thousand will fall from one side 10,000 from the other side nothing will come to you that's living in G everybody in still in a state of Exile and you you different level most people in the world during Corona were under stress losing jobs didn't make make money sitting in their house all day long I mean it was a very bad time for many many people not that I'm I want to sound bad or I my wife my family and me had the best time during Corona all of us together at home having dinners together you know how it made all our family I mean you can't leave the house so not that Shalom I want to look at it in in a in a negative way but I'm telling you during cor Corona was for me a very good time why because it's where your mind is it's where where you holding some people they went through Corona but if first of allat is like disconnected from this world theat didn't affect the corona Corona didn't come toat no masks no nothing there there was but I'm saying why am I saying that because you can already be 10 years ahead of the game in your mind you live in this world in the generation but you 10 years ahead of the game that's the prophecy of King David a thousand will pull from one side 10,000 from the other side nothing will come to you why you are protected by hasem why are you protected by and so and so not because you already did all the a during Exile and you're in a much much higher level and most people how did I start the lecture by saying most people are in the same level all the time no growth same same level 10 years 15 years no spiritual growth if you're not shooting up every moment and your day preceding the one before is not double than the one before you have a problem and I know a lot is easier said than done but that's why I try to keep all my instructions simple keep it simple and I'm the proof and again I don't I hope it doesn't sound arrogant or like a pot but I'm telling you I apply what I say and I'm I can testify to you I'm just as equal to you in anything but I deal with things in a completely different way and as you can see no stress no anger no fear no nothing towards anyone I with the k and hopefully I can relay this information and the energy to you so you can be in the same level cuz nobody deserves to be stressed nobody needs to suffer nobody needs to go through hardships and and all that you but all that is HEM that's a staff wake up wake up the Redemption is coming wake up get your act together don't sleep now is coming very soon I know it sounds like a broken record mashia is coming very soon but now you can really see with with your own eyes that is there any other solution to the world besides mashiah you really think Trum is Trump is going to change anything here maybe yes and if yes that's the choice of Hashem but people put all their trust in a man right now whether you like him or not it's irrelevant it's the example that I'm giving you people put their trust in a man put your trust in Hashem and if Hashem chooses the man to be the messenger you still choose AEM not the messenger as great as he might be or as bad as he might be everything that I just told you if you summarize it into one word is that you you can't summarize it into one word but to to to summarize what I'm telling you you have an opportunity to upgrade your life in a very significant way that's it you might be in disbelief so you have an option of leaving the room in disbelief or you have the option to still be in disbelief leave the room and to prove yourself Wrong by doing it and then come back in 20 it's 20 in two three months and tell me you're right things worked out that's it all depends on you so I'll take the opportunity to wish you to wish you to wish you already for P I won't be here before P to wish you but I'll take the opportunity to wish you success in your new Journey take it serious apply it you'll see a huge change in your life and I guarantee to you that this PES will be the real real holiday of Freedom you really will see a difference in your life that you're going out of your state of limitation to a state of freedom and from that only grow higher and higher so it should be the will of hem to bless us all with true true true strength to focus on what we need to do and to give us the ability the tools the desire to apply everything that I just said and bless us all with a happy month happy puim and most important happy and kosher p [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music]