Rabbeinu Yona on Pirkei Avos 1:15 Learning To Act Without Talking Much From Hashem

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permanent next say little and do a lot when I was learning an Arts Israel uh we had one of the Russia shivas I remember set over schmooze that it's uh and the following idea this came comes from that a person has certain uh limited amount that a person could accomplish when you say oh I'm gonna do X Y and Z then what you're doing is basically you're utilizing your um yeah you're utilizing your energy and you're giving it up and you're basically expending it on talking instead of doing so then when it comes down to doing you're not going to do as much so in other words uh the a person is able to accomplish a certain amount whether it's 50 points 100 points 90 points but once you say that you're gonna do something and you speak about it you've already expended 10 10 points of what you're going to accomplish okay and then Bobby macabo's the mission uses three words Miller explained as follows number one sometimes people walk down the street they don't even bother to show their face they look the other way so the first thing you need to do is show your face pun him the next thing sometimes people show their face but it has no it has no inflection it has no meaning in other words they give a blank face without interest so save our means svara logic meaning show a certain degree of interest in the person and then your face implies that it should be a pleasant a pleasant face okay let's see Robin as we mentioned we're learning about binary's commentary on advice um one of the important reasons is that revolver writes there are four limousine that every Jew needs to be familiar with they are Hamish with Rashi and ramban number two Michelle number three the mission bura and number four so the Robin says make your learning permanent like it says in office anyone who makes their learning fixed and their work secondary the person becomes Primary in the world to come but someone who makes their work primary and their learning secondary person is sort of a second class citizen in the world to come in other words as follows we know in this world you have a concept of you know yeah first class and second-class citizens so so too in the next World in the next world they're people who are beneo ilamaba and then they're people who just get a little share but you know it's like when you go to a simcha sometimes you go to a simha you feel like you know you're part of the simha you feel like your presence means something sometimes you go to a simcha it's sort of an obligation but you don't feel like you have a place there it's the same thing in the world to come some people will feel they belong there some people will be prominent and some people secondary what does it depend on it depends on what role Lima Arturo plays in one's life if it's a primary role then one will gain a primary location in the world to come foreign and he didn't make learning Torah primary a few music even if he merits to be in the Garden of Eden he will be secondary there so therefore make your Torah fixed now it doesn't mean the shama is not saying the learning of Torah should take up the most time during the day of anything you do that should be if only we could do that the point is what's primary what is the most important thing in our day then we the raviniana turns to Harvey speak little do a lot of when you assure your friend that you're going to do something for him do a little say little and do a lot if your friend needs something say a little and do a lot this is ethical practice and righteous practice your friend needs help tell them you know even if you plan on really being there for him and really helping and really going out of your way to help him say very little why that's ethical Behavior we learned this from avraham avraham said I will take I'll give you some bread only give the guests bread he know he went well beyond that he took butter he took milk he took cattle um he spoke little and he did a lot this is a very high level you know who we learned this from this we do from God we learn from God when he told us that he's gonna bring Mako Israel he only said two words the adventure only said two words he re he in most texts it reads he redeemed us with 22 letters it's amazing thing all good Mythos we traced back that colors Miracle yes avram avinu was Emma say Harvey but we ultimately learned from my college said don't worry I'll punish your enemy he said two words and ultimately look how many markers he brought 613 Marcus on the midstream by the way rip sadio Goin says let's extrapolate as follows if when Hashem says two words he brings 613 makois you look through the words of the navient and you see thousands and thousands and thousands of words about the Miracles of the Future Let's extrapolate based on this ratio if two words means hundreds of Macos then what do thousands of words mean if when God promised two words actually the way of sadio gun says Hashem said two letters done done and he brought so many miracles in the future Redemption that was written about it become a contraceum how many pages how many chapters become a sperm how many books of assurances how many consolations how wondrous of the time that will be how wondrous of an arrow that will be and we have a lot of faith that this indeed will be the case and a person should think and pay attention that we will get great reward in in commensurate to our trust in Hashem but it's a very important principle when Hashem there were hundreds of Marcus but all he did was he said two letters so that's the type of a person should have so in other words if somebody needs help it's good to tell them you're going to help them because they want to feel that you're going to help them but don't don't over promise better to over deliver than over promise in fact as we mentioned earlier sometimes the more you promise the less you'll be able to deliver the less you promise the more you'll be able to deliver better that they should say well I I wasn't expecting that the person only told me he was going to bring me bread I didn't expect such a big sudha but sometimes you know that if you say I'm going to serve you because you might only be able to give him some cereal and milk receive everyone with a pleasant face you should show them a pleasant face of Happiness so that people should be pleased with you right by showing people a pleasant demeanor it keeps the person away from the meat of anger shimited anger is a very bad character trait Ian one should accustom themselves in the Mida of rat sign now what is the middle of sign is amida that many people are not familiar with in is somebody comes to you would you be able to do x y and z you'd rather not you'd rather not you'd rather not do X Y and Z your preferences you know they need help your preference is to do it your way that's not the correct me the correct me that is the way the other person wants it not not just at the end of the day the outcome will be the same ratsan means bending your will to the rough sign of another person because most of the time your rat sign is not going to be to do it the way the other person wants human nature to say no I don't do things that way if you find yourself saying I don't do things that way that's sort of the antithesis of Russian is to do things the way the other person wants it even though that's not how you want it that people should should be merusa with you should find favor with you should be desirous and and liking your approach in a way that is well received regarding this kind of approach the sages of musters if you want to be wanted if you want to be liked then want what you don't want if you want others to like you then you should want what you don't want if you want to be liked well then want what you don't like basically there's no way for people to like you um if you don't do it their way if you don't overlook the way you want to do things the way you would like it for the way they would like it this approach will ensure you'll have many friends who like you for years and they will guard you meaning from getting hurt someone who shows an angry count in Nancy snow who people will dislike them they will distance from from you vivax and they will want to harm you so this is the Meda of sign the the first step of acquiring Rothstein is to show a happy countenance to everyone who you encounter this will keep a person away from anger and it will accustom a person in the middle of sign again again means to be amenable to the right sign of someone else even though that's not how you want it thank you everyone for joining and I wish everyone a wonderful service and you could join us Monday through Thursday 9 A.M is Mission abura you could join us Monday at 11 45 is agar de pilka Perka Monday night Tuesday night is Sunday morning 11 15 is an eon shirt you could check the site for the whole uh schedule have a wonderful Shabbos Cult of foreign you've just experienced another Torah class brought to you by 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