Havdalla!! הבדלה מוצאי שבת. what does it really mean??

the most beautiful that we have and US specifically us should really zoom in and tune into it is the the first that we have the beginning of every week you know what the first fill of the weak is I will have and I will not fear anything that's coming this week how do we start the week you know all of us have you know right and everybody says that's probably maybe the to feel down no our subconscious said I'm not weak we're going to deal with all this how we going to deal with all the stress and we have to tune into the p and I was telling my kids we say seven times for every day of the week we say another P that says give me a for this coming week when we light the candles there shabas the M what do we do we light a separate candle for each child one Wick and one candle it has to be many Wicks together why shabas every child is their on the everybody's okay to go into the week we need to be together it can't be a private candle that's to be AA it has to be a torch and that's why we're holding the torch and what are we doing like that because we're making havd and the says if you don't have how can it be M and the more D you have the more you're able to differentiate even tiny man things and the more D you have you can't say Russ oh there's so many in between so much gray area we say even between we say between shabas and what does it mean we have such a d expects such tiny details the difference between the the and and what comes down expects from us so is all about that so what do we do look at our with the gloss of our nail and then we see between the mat and and and the shine and then this way we see the the cracks what is it called the line in the hand so you see the the shade of the but you want to hear a beautiful thing when I was saying this my wife was standing there my few other kids my wife always has nice beautiful ha to and she says I have a good word why we go like that she says that we're holding our hands we're going to do panus this week and we're going to carry everything and we look at our hands into the fire the collection of everybody all theas together the whole family together and we're looking our hands and what do we see just a few weeks before I said he says so he says says the work that you're gonna do means you should work as much as your hand fits into your hand not your whole body your whole that's you're just doing put out your hand and do whatever you can as much as it till here don't let it get into you if you think that you'll work extra you'll do who knows what that's already too much so we put up the hand my wife said just as much the hands we're going to doas this week again not only P we're going to doas in our with our kind everything that we do with our hand that's all I GL I that's all that's all what it is so that's the and we start we're going to we're try not to fear this week we're going to rely