R Shloime Ehrlich 'Devotion' is the Key How We Connect to Hashem

ha Valletta Malka after such a shameless mother Malkin is called miss maletto the mouth care we escort to King the Queen every Shabbos we have three Cedars and cause Allah says the three Cedars are against of limits the camp cave monster Shabbos is see this a deliberate mouth you machine sir it's all about the killer it's all about Redemption Chavez the seventh day of the week is a completing a week Sunday we start anew the contrast from going to quaintest entitled from showers to weekdays need something in between that has both elements to it but let's see them especially another month was a very important Sita are immaculate wash get together say stories for see the show masala because one of the biggest stuff away it is one of the hardest things actually to do is when we get inspired to know how to take it along every shoppers every year connects to their soul connects to their Schumer next to the Shabbos dish and we want to be able to take it along for the week the new inspiration highly get a body coming in the same if Sunday morning did not think is nothing say is not more than your Friday morning you shoppers didn't do enough you didn't know how to take a lot of myth number two showers a showers like this with so much inspiration so much thoughts and feelings going through each other every one of us I must say I was so inspired for Thank You Madeline speaking with people that are going through so much against are able to come here it takes a lot of courage to come to such a place for the many the morning usually the comments show me stuff health I need I need inspiration now I can do it on my own so whether it's hair is very brave and to say no and I want to do it together you shame us and this is something that we need to know how to connect it to put into capsules all the get Samantha that we heard all the ideas and to make it into bumper stickers if I may say and to bring it home and you know access a mama pick now holly gets is actually I want to share with you a story what's the Shabbos that I think that it's going to pack package and wrap the whole shonda's together and hopefully this is gonna be something you could take the long to put in your pockets and it should help you in the weeks to come to be able to face your challenges and do it with a high shaker over the center as sitting before the combine sitting there he says will shine again I want to stay here feels like it's like Khun Danai things under the building he says I got so fueled up I'm afraid I'm gonna come home it's all gonna be leaked out from the tank very fast so let's start with this amazing master cuz I think if I sit with Abilene we all know if I think of Abilene that he was called a heist because he had the ability to look at it and his forehead and it was able to know everything about him and is the showman and everything he did and you know what is going on world all the Masters say the heilige tyson so he had a hosted a hedonist ethel over there that was very very poor we're on the footsteps of my statistical bison story will be taken along and he went he went to the river and he says never college try girls and math advisor I don't have any money to make prices and I monitor by Maxis the children don't have to get out to buy the shoes for the kids can I not accustomed to quite a sheet and collided and food and everything thank you for leaving money for the time of crisis I'm very worried my wife is worried the kids are anxious and I don't know what to do about it so their ever tell them I see that you are going to have a lot of money still before paisa you can have an abundance of money it's not gonna be an issue a week passes by and nothing happens it's ready few days before base up I mean most of the rep again this has never I don't have you know we need to buy the stuff did have a reassurance them and it says don't worry you'll see you can have money to buy some three or four hours before Mesa someone knocks on the door and it says are you so himself he says yes I'm coming down from Hungary I'm Ashley it from besten you had a great aunt you know to hold everybody's dream the great hands that was very rich and she didn't have any kids and you are the heir he was the Irish and you again he has a sack full of diamonds and zilbert Elias and gold and I think it's as often maybe titanium shy he lives he does he he comes a simple moon lady runs into his wife and he says you know what just happened we became rich what's the story they didn't have time to rejoice they run out to the streets and they want to buy all kinds of states another leaders action of an masses accounts the simplistic one that's unbelievable why they could put together in just a few hours it can be up to by night it's recited at the sitting there with such a mama she had a mouth dismiss it stuff in commands it's not believable they had an Amish galvanic I demand everything whatever the need was the most beautiful cider there was singing the whole cider I can imagine father and so much nation's for the kids and all sitting nicely and everybody was behaving it was madness my another mother and they finished much like he gears marketing cliche master chakras in the morning they went to sleep went mm and of course whatever the next day young teleph to normally takes a nap with his wife they're exhausted the first time in the life they've had so much food and they were after all night he went to sleep they wake up it was 11 o'clock an hour before cuts us at night and he starts thinking Heinicke Shepherd I want to make his sighted just like yesterday I want to make a scientist as La Mesa dr. Zach and erosion quickly not mattered and maybe sweeter and told us why to stop the hearing everything in the start making ready society comes to start out who then says a lot my own you with the culture Kahuna every single word that he says but quickly and says the kids say to my dad was it was the kids were like halfway asleep and nagging and this was my shot to schlep decided with his trying was focusing about without zoom we have to give it all you've got you have to and he made it to Amish a minute before hot sauce but after Coleman eats afikomen and shy they finish decided we go to sleep the next morning comes to shield after thousand eight the client for the belief tells his god I call out fronts this is the seeds call him up he is thinking for someone's that ever one for me and he comes and can you do me a favor said sure can you tell the people that are standing around us now can you tell them how your site a wins your sided made a dash in Himmel like never before there's something so special about your sighted I want you to share with everybody they should know how a site is supposed to look like of course sounds telling everybody you all know that I was a mountain even Evian and finally my wife is from the Devon I'm iris from him oh that it came and broke and cleanse bubbly stops him and he says no no tell them about your second side like sure this is an embarrassment not my looks I decide to tell them about the second side awareness they have a choice did have a heist on Fulton and he tells them I'm embarrassed to say I slept in Boca blades and worse momma beaches and they never says come on come on and he says I put together all my thoughts and all my Kahuna's and I started saying that this is a missus answer than I thought it to be makind it doesn't matter keeps a crying - laughing and the food wasn't prepared regular anything was cold it was abolished but he was doing the whole thing whenever he could let me ask you a question which cited that do you think made it big in Assam on the first side or the second side naturally we would think that the first site that you did it mom ministers singing and the kids were behaving analysis gave money they could not much like the coloring books like the its way supposed to be the father in the car there is everything and the second side it took an hour and they never taught this who said that the people around and that sometimes the second time sited made a much bigger nasturtium either the first one naturally the way to grow up we are taught the way things are supposed to be you're supposed to feel this is supposed to feel that he's supposed to do this this is before that you have to sit this way if to tell you kids does it try but to see that and they have to sing this song and that's all you have to feel emotions but sometimes when it comes to fight is a shame then a mood a little boy there's something deeper sometimes that it's expected from us from Sherman that we have to do which is called devotion but the first time he gave me all these counts in the sense that he was enjoying so to speak time there that he's having insight that he's doing the right thing he's doing he's he has a perfect side that if any neighbor would walk in they would see this it feels good if someone walk it to the second side what will you see a freshly decided nothing prepared it's like halfway but the devotion the indicating Heights the gate right shaft the new shaft was they hitting Hartford Irishman to do it the right way to think and to connect touch him and to say this is what I should really ask me this is my avoid the now and I'm gonna give it all I've gaps and I'm gonna do it but against the devotion this is something I think the shop is the event is called Kate Kate show is about relationships how to build a relationship there are two different ways of connecting you could connect to someone technically I Melissa geshe-la - a lot and sometimes husband could say I'm doing everything if you cannot bring the groceries she tells me to bring the grocery at first she'll do this why and she feels when I connected to something missing she wants something more she doesn't just want a technical relationship she wants to see some devotion if he came in kind she wants it to be in tune she wants Epis made at the steep it it's not just the technical relationship the Baal Shem Tov all the other to think about we are more connected than the stories that we knows were from the Mishima Buddhist was very busy so to speak to Drayton's to meet them that there are mood a little boyish and wants your devotion in your heart to do something it's not about the technicality so much of course we have to keep the toilet I have so many people telling me Hanukkah Hanukkah dominant I can't put on I said just put I two or five minute was really it laughing the whole day don't we with having a whole day without drive the cars in Isaac Bashevis to begin I should catch the light that you get a timber I need a parking spot specifically the parks but it's not me it's really you Thank You chef yeah before doing business a whole day worth of Aniki that's in a certain sense much deeper Dominique that in technical putting on the film I'm not you have to put on the film but you're doing so much more by connecting with your heart and giving you a devotion and this is something we all know the master the michelle mccool - everyone was tell me them to vote so far no place than he told him hide behind this business no man I want you to be there for a few hours and they come back to me the goose it went and he sees there is a shepherd the pasta with this sheath and the drinking over there by the by the river and while the che fella stop drinking the pasta the past the he jumps over the water back and forth in says Tommy Tommy Tommy Tommy I think every Lombards he knows only one words English Scottish and he wanted them to shine he said Tommy Tommy and who's it felt like Tommy least you should say Tahoe so his screen says Tahoe there's always they get eaten and he got so confused Tommy Tucker Hipps it wasn't the same he came back the Mushaf told him you should know that if Shema you have it you have a problem they're upset at you this Tommy was so important to him it made such a coin it's not just village shaman it's beyond words it was something in him because doing it naturally was getting it all this guy in a relationship with others in a relation with our children the relationship with sure mine it always has to be with devotion with the x-term of the violent cuts there's a mama comes out that we all look very familiar with that right before dying she gave us the toilet I sure wanted to give another chance for the nation's so anyway that asks you here the chosen nation and said this will be given as a chance and the model came down we know the story there's a song in it to me aunt available and he goes to one king from the one nation of the nation he says he want to take the Taira and what was their answer and they said Marcus if by what does it say what part is the same side and of course he totally the the nation that was struggling with with the United my signal and everybody all said no no no it's okay it's not for us he came to the Eden and what do we say we didn't say Marcus if I was the same we said now sevenish ma first we're gonna do and that one he already marks it by it's not important so this Widow say what's the significance so amazing about cloudy sill that we realized the toilet is about a relationship it's not about the rules that say in the toilet we are not doing the toyota mitzvahs because it's a technical thing reduce a co2 molecule is a Kasai Susilo the freehub hittable I'm tired Michelle gave us the Toyota mrs. only that we should have a way to connect them otherwise why they connected the infinite gods the only way we could connect is through giving us Toyota Mitzvahs and then we fulfill it but really fulfilling the mitzvot technically yes there are some people that have 613 problems they need to solve and some people have 613 privileges they realize while the Toyota are all about so the relationship between the irishman kalaallisut is the heart yes you cannot say what Israeli drivers and the taxis they say I need that people is sometimes people go through that stage yes it's perfect but not to stay there forever you tell me I mean active I live we have to also do something you have to have the first sighted and the second cider and when we build occasion and ultimately our case what we're here for to build acacia with our kids they want to see us devoted and I could tell you I've witnessed it firsthand and my wife told me what was going on at this side and I know what happened this side throughout Chavez all of you are the most devoted parents in the world devotion means is that stronger word for devotion I wish I would have at the Sarris but devotion in the egain kites when your neighbors your in-laws your local little roof your Mohammed everybody around is telling you I'll be vice president and you say no I'm going to do what the right thing is even the for did it again for my kids I don't just pull the plug I'm gonna give it not humble and knock Herman with Bish's Mitch noise in my documents that's whatever it takes and this is something that I need to applaud you and you fathers and mothers are the beacon of light for the whole cloud Liesl I have been to many many Java tones some I was called to speak and the other ones that was part of it is very hotel I was here with my wife we had five years ago with the different organizations called mellitus you shouldn't know if you don't know what it is Molly this is for greeting parents parents at lost children I was like to be one of the parents of the day and I was looking around I was trying to my my mind I was trying to compare like interesting dish of Atonement that one there is something very special by the parents going through this particular design this particular test this particular challenge there is something here I see hope in everybody's face there is hope and the leader of this organization his name matches so well what he is and what he's doing it what he's instilling in all of us his name is Albie he's ow he's a father he is so devoted to you so you become so devoted to your child no children he's teaching us by example and you know what by being devoted to your child everything goes and slowly but surely sometimes takes much longer than we want but ultimately everything comes everything seeps in slowly but surely our children are going to be so devoted and devoted means to their Creator and to the people into the family back and everybody else there is something unique about this shopper tone I was listening to the speeches from Friday nights the veracity of Shiva and then before that material of life it a lot of shyness I shot this morning all the speech was one by one and it was all about how to build occasion with someone that's totally opposite than you and part of you somebody that's so challenging to you how do you build a relationship with someone that's so against your beliefs you had dreams and hopes for this child we all created accounts of my children and now this child is standing up and challenging us do you love me even if I'm not gonna itemize it the worst things to do in your house and bring it in whatever it is to make you feel do you love me the test us there is a master with I think of a little bit of coal nedra everybody's waiting for the high to get ever to come out but it'll skip Michele's momentum about in the olden days when italic didn't come out Tori action like that we knew that something more and finally the ever comes out and he runs to the recoilless and he opens up the politeness and he starts crying out loud and it says hiding of a shepherd I am talking of of the whole killer yes we all send we did our fighters who spoke loshon Hara with it this would be that and we asked you for forgiveness but Hashem who made the hollowness who made the assignment and who made the kids go off the terror you wanted to be so you'll be asked mindful and will be you mindful will forgive you and you forgive us he closed operations they started dominating after Dominique you imagine was a huge lineup and everybody wanted to ask you never what exactly is happening here the petitioner says relationships is the one thing between us and people us and objects and things are fighting and assertion we need to have a relationship without sharing just as we need to have a relation between us if you cannot be open and tell your spouse that you're upset about something is that closeness I'm not saying she do that we can't the customer if it's something but once he get close to something you're able to say you know what I wanna have a meeting with you let's talk tomorrow night I'm gonna address something that bothers me of course the sandwich chilling you know how to do it you get and then you say listen it bothers me that either stone so this means closeness this is a relationship so the relative set this is the relation whatever the sham we need to be able to tell a sham a sham I don't know why did you do this to us it's so painful to go through what we're going through now it had this Messiaen this challenge has everything in it it has be sure it challenges our beliefs our thoughts a challenges the other kids in the house the families the guns is not and ever when we are challenged to work it out it's so painful and if you want to be able to have the corner to continue being devoted to your kids you need to be able to heal yourself first of my coming to the Shabbos rejuvenated and besides and having a relationship and open relationship with Hashem and say I think about Shepherd I don't know why it is so hard for me please help me give me the color and the cycle to do and the patience to do what it needs to go through this channel every time you come home and you see another thing that bothers you now this one wise child came over the tattoo whatever every every this so many things coming up you have to say to yourself I am going to continue to be a Schlieffen I think of a shepherd to take care of this dish of happiness Sharma every child has a journey and it has nothing to do with your enemy just as if you have a child that grows up to be the Baal Shem Tov you don't take credit you don't take blame for anything your child does we believe in the hero we believe in choice and ultimately this is the time to summon either any way shape or form you want which direction want to go around the house my holiday a different my house might want to see possibly wash and created the world ultimately we have choice and every person has to go through whatever they need to go through we have a choice how we want to deal with this design we have the choice to say this is a chef's kids and I'm choosing to be devoted and given all the conscience again and if you do it that way you become Ashley from the Irishman and when you're Ashley from Michelle there's I love her she leave her she love him come I say if you're actually a for someone else - Lia the messenger has the same power a logic power like yourself and I am a Shirley for the Irish there to take care of this - Amma or this kid I am becoming an extended hand off the Irish satellites and don't worry I sure knows how to do it we just have to remember that we are working for the Irishman and each and every one of these kids I'm gonna miss her she'll continue their journey and come to a place with us give me enough justice for them at the Coliseum but I want to see one more I want to say one more thing for we're gonna call up kohlrabi the whole world today has full of inspiration it all started 30 40 years ago when we started a shelter in ancestral H around him the greatest speakers in the last 20 years and writers are badly to be themselves these are people that have original inspiration their own inspiration they're not even robots these are people that show us to be eaten where exactly do they come from there's idols and Baba's fulfilling and hidden just a hundred years ago there was the big movement at school of the Enlightenment movement millions of I stand on the numbers hundreds of thousands of short of leadership in Delhi without this and mom is like you there was a movement that was a like a vacuum giving out literature and schools and hide it and make poison from either scranton getting the kids to leave their hands behind our scientists and focus of crying at Dominic - and you think of syphilis went live it a lot of there I Nicholas are the greatest inspiring speak for people today and all the people that are not valid show great speakers they were inspired by this valley children one hand washes the other all of us are becoming more perfected we all are challenged challenged to look into ourselves and say what can I do different am i running a robots robotic sharpest table because mistakes the mother feeds the dust and I have to do this and I have to do that or you're putting in a Shabbos table custom a to your kids and trying to bring them to enjoy the Shabbos and to connect our channels and joy to this meters in my house personally I have every Friday nights I have the pie subsided this is going out for probably eight ten years my kids any questions they have Friday night they can ask me whatever it is why this why that and we make a discussion I tried to include the younger kids that they should have their inspiration I give them time to ask questions the first is action my little daughter asked me Tati we have a neighbor across the street a literature neighbor and he sits and learns as in my Bachir are you fishing with and him because us tribal and yesterday I bend up with the next time I love that question a little kid innocent if we open the conversation we're talking about the lava chiffonade of different cultures where they come will be come from it's not about this piece of fur over here you come with your mind I don't ask you these questions it's important but fine I told her I brought by Kaufman across the streets is a thousand times nation made through my eyes he said to learn thoughts how they look whatever it is I had a feed the other kid has different questions sometimes deeper the older kids not all of us are able to answer all the questions you tell them there's always someone you could ask but we have to open dialog involve your kids in the Shabbos table if you can't they should start the Shabbos the songs for those meters we have two custom we are fighting the world out there that's so colorful seemingly so exciting seemingly we have the excitement we have the ideology we have everything in in disguise we just have to give them something that we devoted like the second sided it cannot be the perfect sight that for the nm it has to be the perfect sighted for us we have to give them something exciting and to make it custom to each child the ocular vini his last breakfast that he gave it's called the British yankov I call the mission statements he gave every child a different mission according to their nature you got to work you gonna learn the villain everybody gave a different mission each and every one I would say I have to ship us I mean them happy childhood this is a pomegranate yeah the Sun dish the Huffman's that should be a costume design minute for each kid and if one of our kids are going through a situation a mother as a mom for the ages and stages where you need to have tolerance and show them devotion even if they don't do anything that you believe in and he give them the leap shaft then this is your awaits Michelle now as we heard throughout Chavez from all the speakers we're going to continue assuming I want to call up the app the father of this most important organization I think this is the only organization in the world in the Yiddish of elves that get that teachers the parents how to have the cash share with our children that are challenging us and ultimately and someone pointed out to me through our childhood said I became so much closer to my wife throughout this channels taught me what a real relationship is have a relationship with someone that's opposite than you some of the beliefs in college a guy goes to college let's say and he finds a girl over there and what did they do the whole time the keeper comparing our similarities our greatest I'll she's she's amazing she I love chocolate she loves chocolates imagine we love vanilla but forget about it I love action movies she also likes that whatever counsel keep on comparing they get married and slowly to find out that they find themselves in the relationship with their so opposites yet we know this figure that happens at the track opposites attract it's a total for kids a relationship is going through the challenge of understanding and being open and being devoted to someone that's different than you and opposite than you with different beliefs this is goose Mac I tell people if you're a lemon and your wife is an orange you children are going to be great fruits it's great grapefruit has divided us of both this is how Allison it's bigger than our and that's the whole thing and this is talking about it what it's made for