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clarification. A few weeks ago, uh we
were discussing drugs as part of a
spiritual experience. I don't want to go
into the whole topic, but I had
mentioned as a little
aside that in one of Arya Kaplan's books
on Judaism and meditation, he mentions
an idea that maybe prophets and mubalam
may have used uh drugs, mushrooms or
whatever it could be to reach certain
meditative spiritual states. So I just
want you to clarify uh Rabbi Kaplan
himself was not saying that was the
case. He said some say that that was the
case but he actually says there is no
evidence to that effect. So I wanted to
make it clear. I don't want anyone to
accuse Rabbi Kaplan of uh advocating it.
He mentioned it and then said that there
is no no particular proof. I just wanted
to give that correction. Uh yeah. And
there's a notion that when people are
stalking away and studying that certain
like uh natural disasters or wars will
stop well because we're studying that
there's a correlation between them
somehow. And my question is is this to
be taken literally whatever source they
use for this idea. And if um that is
true, if there are is there evidence
that since certain period of time more
people are studying Torah that there
have been less wars as because of the
Yeah, this is uh actually a very very
good question. There are many many many
statements throughout Khazal Mish
Gomorrah Medish Zor especially that talk
about the idea that the learning of
Torah prevents suffering that would come
into the world uh such as war, famine
and the like. And the question number
one is well number one we obviously see
it's not failsafe because obviously
people learn Torah and there's still all
of these things. So the most you could
say, even if you want to take it
literally, is that it's better than it
otherwise would have been. In a sense,
that's a little unprovable because you'd
have to imagine, you know, any given day
what would happen if we wouldn't be
learning, right? But at least the
assumption is it might be worse. Uh so
the truth is that's one possibility. One
possibility is that it's not that
learning Torah prevents everything, but
learning Torah creates a world in which
less of these surus are going to happen
than would otherwise be the case. In
fact, you do see, I don't want to call
it a proof, you do see a little bit of a
mini anecdotal evidence of this and that
is every time uh the government moves
aggressively to take away the draft
affirmments for yeshiva students,
there's like some terrorist thing that
happens. I mean you actually see see
this a little bit in microcosm. So the
Tyra is a shir but you have to
understand something else about
spiritual laws and that is spiritual
laws are a system in which many
different principles are working with
each other or against each other and
sometimes they may dilute the effect. uh
for example I'll give you an analogy
which is not your question but people
ask me this question a lot say if you
give mas you give 10% of your earnings
for you're going to be rich and the even
says you are allowed to test God you can
bet on it you can basically say I'm
giving my to be
rich now for some reason I get a lot of
questions from Morse students about
about this I guess they you want to be
rich whatever it is uh
But the problem is you got to be honest.
You got to be real. On one hand, what
khazal tell us we have to accept is
true. On the other hand, I can't deny my
eyes that a lot of people who give miser
are poor or or at least not rich. Right?
So how does one reconcile a myar kazal
when you see the reality in your own
eyes that it just isn't the case? So
there are a few approaches. One approach
actually is that the definition of rich.
What is the definition of rich? First of
all, Perkyo says a person is rich if
they rejoice in their lot. So maybe the
blessing of God is if I'm generous, he
will make with micer he will make me
content with whatever I have. And that's
called wealth. Right? That's one answer.
Another answer might be that uh even an
average lower middle class person would
actually be phenomenally wealthy
compared to most of human history. If
you look at what most of human history
meant when you were poor, it meant you
didn't have a piece of bread or a glass
of water in your house.
Today maybe there are some people but
it's very hard to find a real poor
people. So when it says wealthy, wealthy
doesn't mean uh you know you'll be a
billionaire. It doesn't mean you'll be
Bill Gates. It could mean that you'll
have a middle class standard of living
which is defined as very wealthy. That's
a second approach. A third approach is
that the spiritual force that says
sedaka gives you wealth may be canled or
diluted by other aos that give you
poverty. Right? So what happens is I'm
doing something that's supposed to give
me wealth but I'm also doing something
that's supposed to deplete my wealth.
These things are working in tension and
therefore you might you might wind up
you know either below the average or a
little above the average etc. Meaning
spiritual laws never work in isolation.
They always work in interaction with
other spiritual laws. Now lima Torah
could be the same thing. Lima Torah is a
force that brings peace, brings blessing
into the world. But it's never operating
in isolation. Right? There are other
aasumara that do the opposite. So as a
result, these are
fundamentally untestable propositions
because the overall picture is too
complicated for a human intellect to
totally master. I can't master the total
picture. Meaning if I just had every in
other words nothing else was going on
except learning I might be able to then
have a controlled experiment if it works
or not. But learning is not the only
thing that's going on. There's a lot of
other things that are going on and they
may have opposite effects. So in a sense
all I could say is that Torah very
definitely is a factor that brings
blessing into the world. But that
doesn't mean you're not going to have
wars and it doesn't mean you're not
going to have illnesses simply because
there are other factors in the world
that are operating in the opposite
direction. That's why a person has to be
very very careful. Uh again I I hope you
understand that this does not detract at
all from the statement from the truth of
Khazal's statements. Kazal's statements
are 100% true but they have to be seen
in a totality of of context in which
real life is more complicated. It's a
multiffactorial type of analysis. Yeah.
Um, so, so lot of secular bothered by
the Torah's slavery. What do you think
of the response to the Yeah. You know,
there's an there's a book out. I want to
get it. I didn't get it yet, but uh it's
it seems to be a very interesting book.
It's called it's written by Tom by a
front person in English. It's called Is
the Good Book Bad? Uh, the Bible is
called the good book, right? And really,
it's a book that is devoted to exactly
this question, which is a very
interesting question. And that is, you
know, Torah is supposed to be perfect.
It's God's will. Uh it's God's essence.
And yet, there's stuff in the Torah that
superficially we would regard as
immoral. Uh sla most most people, most
of our gut reaction to slavery is bad
thing, not good to have slavery. But the
Torah has slavery. Torah has Jewish
slavery, non-Jewish slavery, right? How
do you explain all of those things? A
Malik, I mean, you know, there are
number like, so this book actually goes
through a number of things. I I haven't
read the book, uh, but you know, I don't
know what it says, but the topic itself,
uh, it's a it's a very good topic for a
book. It's a it's good to have a book
that deals with this. But let me talk
about slavery for a moment. There are
two different mahim about how we would
how we can reconcile a perfect Torah
with something like slavery. Mahalik
number one is that sometimes the Torah
permits
institutions simply because it would
have been too difficult for a society at
a given stage to give it up. So God
tolerated it with the expectation that
it would eventually
uh go away in the passage of time. Uh
now a classic example is the Rambam's
opinion about Corbanos which is
problematical to be sure. The Rambam
says, "What's this thing about carbanos?
Does God love barbecued meat? Like
what's the what's the thing here?" So
the Rambam says, "No, but the ancient
Israelites were connected to idolatry,
pagan culture." And in pagan culture,
sacrifice was a very big deal. And not
only animal sacrifice, but even human
sacrifice. So if God were to say, "I
only want you to serve me by Torah study
and prayer," we wouldn't have been able
to give it up. It was almost like an
addiction. So God said, "I'll let you
bring corbanos as a concession to your
idolatrous impulses." But Hashem
tolerates it. And with the passage of
time, it's supposed to go away. Now,
obviously, what does that even mean? The
Rambam himself says, "When Mashiach
comes, we're going to have Revk tries to
explain it that Mashiach itself has
different stages." you know, there's
early Messiah, late Messiah, and at some
point in the late messianic, maybe it'll
be a 100,000 years after Mashiach comes,
we will not do carbon. So, if you go
with the idea that the fact that the
Tyra gives you an institution doesn't
mean it approves of it inherently, but
it's simply giving you a framework to
remove it from the excesses. You could
look at slavery in a very similar way
that slavery in the ancient world
allowed abuse, allowed murder, uh
allowed rape, you could do anything to a
slave that you wanted. So the Tyra
created a framework of slavery that is
humane, that prohibits abuse. If you
knock out the eye or the tooth of a
slave, he goes free, etc. So the idea is
the Torah does not endorse slavery. The
Tyra permits it subject to regulation,
but it would be better not to have it at
all. Uh you could look at polygamy in
the same light by the way that when
Rabeno Gera mastered polygamy, he was
actually reflecting a value of the Torah
which is monogamous. But the Torah
permitted polygamy because that's what
people were doing. Now I'll tell you my
kasha. I do have a kasha on that. My c
on that is that the gumar says in makus
kitten that if you have a non-Jewish
slave an eb cananani you are not allowed
to free your slave anyone who frees his
kanani
transgresses the of keeping them in a
state of servitude and the gar gives a
story that raelzar came in with his
non-Jewish slave the shul and there were
only nine people the slave would make
the minion. He actually freed his slave
to make a minion. That's a big loss.
That's like paying $100,000 for a
minion. And the Gumar asked the kasha,
"How can he free a slave? You're not
allowed to free a slave." And the answer
is for a mitzvah, whatever it is. Now,
my question is this. If slavery is not
intrinsically something that the Torah
endorses, it's simply a concession to
human weakness, then faker, wouldn't it
stand to reason that the better thing to
do is to free your slave. That's a good
thing. You ought to get a
yashayem that you know, you don't
practice slavery, right? So that's a big
kasha I think and the notion that
slavery is tolerated but not endorsed
and not encouraged I think is
contradicted from the that you can't
free a slave. So there is a second
approach to slavery which is absolutely
not politically correct. So uh you know
I'm a little scared to say it but uh the
nitiv talks about it this way and in
truth in truth
Aristotle talks about it this way as
well and that is slavery was a way of
civilizing people who were immoral you
talk particularly non-Jewish slavery
you're talking about pagans you're
talking about people without a moral val
system of value they were in a sense
regarded as savages and barbarians and
The institution of slavery is you bring
them into a Jewish home. They observe
the shabas. They learn from morality.
This we might call a paternalistic
vision of slavery in which it's better
for them. Now I understand you
understand this was the same rhetoric
that was used in the United States as a
defense for black slavery. So, and I'm
not going there. I'm not applying it to
that situation but you can understand
that this is a bit of a risky type of
analysis but there is a mahalik in the
maforim and again it goes all the way I
mean Aristotle says it as well that
slavery when it's properly constituted
can be a way of civilizing and
inculcating a sense of morality among
populations that did not have it. So
that would be a partial defense of
slavery. So we have these two
approaches. One is it is a tolerance for
human imperfection. The other is it is
an affirmative good as a means of
civilizing decadent and univilized
idolatrous pagan populations. Yeah.
How do we visualize demons that are
mentioned in Gomorrah? Like the it
mentions the the Gamarra mentions demons
almost casually like all the time. Oh,
this demon antagonized this whatever
like do how do we you know understand
what that looks like and are they are
they present today or did they like
leave with the ureita sadoros or like
yeah so first of all first of all it's
an interesting point uh there is a lot
of material regarding shadim mazikim in
bavi and there's virtually no mention of
shadim or mazik in shalomi so it seems
to be kimat a mlo and Is there such a
concept of shadim? Now of course in a
maklo the bab and the shi we generally
follow the babi and shadim do have their
have their role. So there's a huge mlo
here the ramam who is known for his
rationalism basically says no such thing
no such thing as demons. They don't
exist at all. Uh when khazal used demons
these were metaphors or symbols for
various other things. So you might call
COVID a demon. In other words, there's
sickness in the world and there's
depression in the world. So Khazal put
the label of demon on these negative
forces, but not that they were conscious
creatures uh that were doing things. So
the Ram basically says that no such
thing as demons. Kazal used it
metaphorically or sometimes Khazal would
use the vocabulary of superstitious
ignorant people because they'd
understand it but they were using it to
make a spiritual point. That is the
ramshittita that all the stuff about
shade is labka. Now some gamaras are
very difficult to interpret that way
because the garam in Brahos aaya gives
you a whole thing to do how you can see
a shade uh you know take something from
a cat or whatever it is all sorts of uh
different things that you do and then he
says don't do it but okay uh the vilagon
writes the birhagra writes about this
shittita of the Rambam that in spite of
the Rambam's greatness he was led astray
by philosophia Harura
with his preoccupation with a cursed
Greek philosophy in which everything has
to have logical sense and the and the
vagon says of course there are shadim if
kazal say there are shadim then there
are shadim in cababala of course shadim
have a very very big force they're even
given an origin uh they come when after
the death of cayen Adam separated from
his wife for 130 years that's why he had
chase
at 130 and during those 130 years
occasionally Adam had a seinal emission
and from that seminal and emission
children were created and those children
became de are the demons that frequent
the world and that's why u the sperm
that talk about this talk about you know
masturbation in terms of creating these
you know billions of of children that
inhabit the earth that is why there's
even a minog in yushlay although it's
not really followed by Americans
that uh children do not escort their
father's coffin or their parents' coffin
to the grave because the idea is if some
kids get to go all the kids get to go
including the demonic offspring and we
don't want them to show up therefore no
kids go so all I can tell you is there's
a big big makus here now somebody asked
the katskarbi who is very
asserbic well gee is the haka like the
rambom or the vil nagon are there shadim
are there not shadim and if there are
shadim why don't we see them
today and the katskarbi said of course
there are shadim but once the rambom
pascans they don't exist even the
shadeim have to follow the rambom's
decision so they kind of self-destructed
uh in in in a sense so I I don't know
again I mean logically I'm inclined to
the ramban but once again maybe I'm led
astray by the philosophy uh that the
villagan talked about. So the truth is
we we there are just a lot of things in
the spiritual realm that we don't know
but it but it is indeed a maklo. So if
you were to say I don't believe in
shadim you would be you'd have a good
authority to to rely upon and that would
be the rama. Now there is another thing
about shadim that is similar to what is
said aboutin
harin is the evil eye right uh people
look at you if you're too ostentatious
you're showing off your wealth or
anything else so you'll get an eye in
har right so is is there such a thing as
eye inhara right uh so there's a strange
idea that if you believe in
it will hurt
you and if you don't believe in it it
doesn't hurt you. It's a strange
phenomenon in the spiritual world that
sp certain spiritual entities come into
existence based on how strong you
believe they exist. If you believe they
exist, they do exist. If you don't
believe they exist, they don't exist.
Some say sham are kind of a similar
phenomenon. You believe in
them, they become some type of force in
the world. you don't believe in them,
they don't have that that that force in
the world. So, it's it's a little
complicated. Yeah. Could you please
expand on um the relationship a G should
have with his for her biological family
in terms
of or in terms
of or in terms of
Yeah. Yeah. So, this is a good question
and a very relevant question. uh a
person converts to Judaism, they still
have uh non-Jewish parents and even if
it's a Jewish father, technically
they're not related anymore. Uh siblings
and the like. So what is the overall
connection? So there is a rule, but the
hakic rule is sometimes applied in an
emotional context where it's
inappropriate. It
says when you are a converted person,
you are a newly created entity who has
absolutely no relation
to your father, your mother or your
sibling. Now that is you are not related
to them. Uh you don't inherit their
property etc. Now some I think
misinterpret that a little bit to say
well I'm no longer connected. I don't I
have no connection to my mother to my
father. They're not my mother not my
father etc. I think by and large that is
wrong. Now obviously if a person has
embraced Judaism there has to be by
definition a certain separation with a
non-Jewish environment. You can't
celebrate Christmas together right you
can't go to hear the uh halleluah mass
you know uh uh Christmas Eve and you
know whatever whatever they stand up or
clap whatever the minhagim minogim are.
So of course there are going to be
rules. There's going to be katras.
There's going to be shabas. There's
going to be not going to churches. Uh in
fact um even even I got a shila today
just just today mish and it's very
painful shila. Uh a dare's mother died u
and part of the service is in a church.
Is he allowed to go to church service
for his mother's
funeral? Wow. I mean emotionally of
course I would want to say yes. I mean
haka might say no. You know you know. Uh
so of course there has to be separation
but hakura sat gratitude is a basic
Jewish value and if these were
non-abusive if these were good parents
who gave you a home gave you a life gave
you an
education then you should love them and
you should cherish them you should
respect them and you should interact
with them provided you do so in a way
that does not compromise your Jewish
your Jewish beliefs. So for example, Rab
Vaji Ysef actually pascant that a ge can
say
kadesh for his non-Jewish parent. Now
other people argue because they say
kadesh is not for non-Jews but but
that's a mah about kadesh but the
overall idea of
hakurat I think is very very very
important. So, you know, you can still
call them mom and dad and love them and
uh call them on their birthdays, maybe
celebrate something like Thanksgiving
together. Okay, depend that may depend
on how it's it's structured or some
neutral day or or what whatever it would
be. Now, in terms of nia, that is an
interesting issue. Uh if for example, uh
right, we know that a son is allowed to
have ye with his mother and hug and kiss
his mother. But since the ge is not
related to his mother. And by the way,
even if she converts, it's the same
problem. Even if you're both Jewish,
it's the same problem. You're not
related to each other. So can a g hug
and kiss his mother whether she's Jewish
or or non-Jewish, you know, if she
converted and and the like. So here the
postcrim say we are make because the
rule that a son and a mother or a
daughter and a father are allowed to hug
and kiss is not based on hakic
relationship. It is based on the
biological reality that in a normal
person there is no improper sexual
attraction between a mother and a and a
son and a father and a daughter. That's
a mitzio. And because that's a mitzio
conversion does not affect that. So as a
result uh yehood and nia uh are as
permitted as they would be had they been
uh Jewish and you've been born Jewish.
So for that we are going to be lenient.
Yeah.
Um, can the RAV expound further on if if
there is what the suffic
um the mainstream talis that people use
today and and the ones that hold that it
is a suffic um whether or not it is true
that if they hold it's a suffic that it
would be considered carrying while
wearing them in a rashus raim.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So uh right we we just
read in last week's para uh the shabas
before last the mitzvah of sits and the
Torah requires that along with the white
strings there be a pile a string and by
the way there's a big mlo how many
strings is that uh because are four
strings that are folded over to make
eight so some say is one of the eight
meaning it's only half a string one
Laban. Others say it's a whole string,
which would make it two out of eight,
meaning one out of four. Uh there are
others that actually say it's two and
two. You actually have that's the most
expensive by the way, obviously, because
the more the more money you have to pay.
That would be four strings, four full
strings, right? Many many different
shittas and even how you tie them are
complicated. But the problem is, I'm
just going over a little background that
is not just a color. It is a color, but
it also is a color that comes from a
very specific source. You can't just go
to a a paint store and you know buy buy
blue paint. It has to come from a an
animal that is called in kazal the zone.
And the kilazone is a specific animal
aquatic creature. And the question is
over the years we've lost identification
of it. And the Gomorrah gives us various
signs of how we know. And um most people
who who endorse the have identified it
as the Murik's truncalis which is simply
a shellfish a certain snail with a shell
that if you crack it and you take
actually it's not the blood all the talk
about it as the blood. It's not really a
blood but it's a secretion from a gland
that if you process it in a certain way
it'll be. So those people who
wear are confident that the murix is
either for sure or it might be and if it
might be what's wrong with with putting
it on
um there is another about that connects
it to the cuttlefish that's red by
breast again if they have the miser they
have the misura but most say that that
is absolutely incorrect The evidence for
the murix is many many many many times
much more stronger than the evidence of
the cuttlefish and whatever it is. So I
would not if you if you wanted to wear I
would absolutely not recommend breast or
redis for this for this purpose. So
we've talked about it a number of times.
I don't want to be in it. And that is
what's the story about the opposition to
because let's assume that somebody goes
over the proofs and somebody says ah
it's not 100% proof. Okay. Is it a 50%
proof? Is it a 10% proof? Let's say it's
a 5% proof. What's the downside? In
other words, if I if I
wear it either is
good or it's not
good. If it's
good, I have a mitzvah. Okay, that's
great. A mitzvah in Torah. If it's
bad, I don't have the mitzvah of but all
that means is I have blueed sites. But
blue sites are kosher.
In other words, it's a c I' and I've
said a number of times that I don't have
an answer for this. What and I've not I
have never heard a good answer. What is
the
downside of wearing something that might
be even if it might not
be lit? There is no downside. Now your
argument that somehow it would be
carrying on shabas uh cannot possibly be
true because dye that is absorbed in a
garment is never considered a separate
entity. So if the sites are kosher the
color would be not a problem. Now
Sternbach who is a guttlebra. So
obviously anything sturbach says um one
has to pay attention to claims that if
it's not and you're wearing you are
transgressing the the commandments of
the Torah of adding to the Torah because
you're adding to a mitzvah by wearing
something that is beyond what the Torah
commands. He said it uh but it it is
mishapella because if I do something
misop see if I if I knew it wasn't but I
just decided you know forget about the I
just want to wear blue because wearing
blue is a nice idea just like that would
be bisf because you're adding to the
Torah but if I'm doing something because
it might be
realis anything you do because of a suff
fake mitzvah cannot possibly be bisf now
I didn't want to say this because I I
didn't want to argue with with I I'm not
I mean I'm not a madre argue with rush
durbach in any way but I just heard we
say the same point uh and he said that
it's not you just said right off the bat
that anything that you're doing because
of a suffic mitzvah uh is not
so I admit my my my hypocrisy here I I
do not
wearas because my rebum did not
wear but I don't know why I don't wear
tas I ought to wear may and maybe I will
wear
uh because why not uh you're doing a
great great mitzvah well I'm sorry well
you might you might be doing a great
great mitzvah and if you're not doing
the mitzvah there's no aa involved see
if it will be an aa you can say well I'm
not going to do a mitzvah mis if there's
an aa if it's not right but that's not
the case there is no a so if there is no
a what is the downside so it's a bit of
a it is it is a bit of a for me people
will say well we don't have a misura on
it well frankly so what uh it's very
it's a we don't have a mis I would love
to have a mis but if you have mitzvah in
the Torah you got to do the best you can
with the information that you have uh so
a mis is the best information I agree
But if neb I don't have a messiah so I
got to do second level proofs. So all of
the research on it is at least a second
level attempt to reconstruct what the
mitzvah would be. So really it's it's
it's a pellet it's one one of the great
unanswered questions. On the other hand
it is a question why didn't revel people
that they should wear? Now Rafim Kineski
kind of uh finagled it a little bit. He
said, "Well, if you learned the suga and
you're convinced yourself, okay, but he
but he didn't endorse it. He didn't say
you should wear." He just said he
doesn't have an objection. But it seems
to me it ought to be more than that.
There actually ought to be I mean, I'm
just thinking out loud because I'm not I
am I myself am not calling for anything.
I'm But there but I don't understand why
there's not more of a a call to be mad
this mitzvah. So, um, all I can tell you
is that, uh, you know, uh, I'm not only
here to give answers. I'm also here to
say there are questions. It's not only a
Q&A. Sometimes it's just a Q without an
A. Yeah. Um, so, uh,
the says
that he who hears Linara and listens to
it is worse than the one who speaks it.
Um if that's the case then why is Miriam
punished and not Arab? Yeah that that's
a very interesting question. Uh the does
talk about the idea that the sin of
listening to lashhara
uh can in many cases be a greater sin
than speaking lashhara. And part of that
is because you're adding gasoline to the
fire. Sometimes I might speak lashar
because I'm very upset I'm very angry
and I got to get it off my chest. But if
I have a good listener that encourages
me to go on and on and on and on and on
and on and therefore in a sense uh the
listener is a the enabler of all of the
sins. So your question is if that's the
case then why
uh for the punishment of lashhara is
Miriam the one who gets the more severe
punishment of leprosy and iron does not
get it? It's a very very good question.
Uh, one of the answers simply is that
Aaron couldn't be taken out of
commission because he was the co-engt
who needed to serve in the Bas Mikdash.
So, you had to take somebody out of
commission who did not have a job, so to
speak. Uh, so Miriam was the uh fall guy
uh for it. But spiritually, it could
very well be that Arin Za was even
worse. Yeah. First of all, sorry if this
question is a bit not appropriate for a
Q&A. It's not it's PC and everything but
like uh um the Rambam says that there's
10 levels of angels that exist and like
we mention some of them and when we say
like Kiryat Shma and then I remember
when I was reading Derek Hashem it talks
about them as well but I was wondering
if you could explain or expound on like
the idea like how should we like think
of the angels that are discussed by the
Rambam that are in Schma. Um how should
we like think about them in a sense?
Well uh his question. Yeah. Yeah. The
question Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Angels and
demons are opposites, but but there is
obviously a common a common commonality.
The truth is um but everyone agrees that
the angels exist though whereas the
demons are kind of like Yes. Yes. Yes.
The Rambam himself. Yeah. The Rambam who
denies the existence of demons does talk
about the different levels of angels.
Uh part of the problem though
is
that if you look at the book of Yasco,
chapter one of Yikes that talks about
the divine chariot, you will actually
see a very detailed visual description
of what these angels, what some angels
look like. And similarly, at the end of
the book of Denal, you see descriptions
of angels in terms of legs, in terms of
arms, in terms of wings. You know the
the popular pictures of angels are
actually based on biblical descriptions.
Yeshaya, the same thing. But part of the
difficulty is though that you have to
differentiate between prophetic
visualization of spiritual entities and
the actual existence of the spiritual
entity itself. Meaning to say angels are
not
necessarily physical beings with bodies.
But when the prophet connects to those
energy sources, his mind converts it
into visual pictures. But the visual
pictures are not necessarily the
ultimate reality. And the proof of that
idea is that even
God is
visualized in certain prophecies. Even
though God does not have an image, God
does not have a form. But for example in
Yesco's nava it talks about the throne
that Yesco perceives and it says and on
the throne there was the image of a man
a ve a very faint vague unclear
opaque image of a man. Rashi comments on
that puzz I do not have permission to
explain this.
God is visualized and indeed in the book
of Denal as well. The old joke that we
say, oh, you know, God is not an old man
with a long white beard. In truth, in in
Danielle, God is described as an old man
with a long white
beard. That description is taken from
Tanakh itself. But once again, we
understand that's not what God is.
That's simply how the mind and the
imagination kind of reify. reify meaning
put into
tangibility various spiritual energies
that exist in the world that the
imagination converts them. So to some
degree therefore when you talk about
angels you're dealing with different
levels of spiritual energy that God
employs to carry out his objectives
which are visualized in prophecy as
beings with with bodies you know some
type of spiritual body and the like but
they don't necessarily reflect what they
truly are in that sense even something
like gravity you say gravity is an angel
because gravity is a force that God
employs employs to carry out his will.
Electromagnetism is an energy is as an
angel because something that God
employs. So what I'm saying is it is
possible to uh not necessarily look at
angels as things but rather as energies
that employs. Now,
obviously, you're going to have a lot of
problems with with this because many
many Gomorrah talk about conversations
that God has with the angels and
conversations that humans have with
angels, Moshe has with the angels. So,
that would lend support to the notion
that these are actual beings and not
just energy points. But once again, uh
these things can be understood on many
many levels. Yeah. So, sorry to double
up on questions. Yeah. Can you explain
like what are the differences between
the levels of the angels that Ramb Bomb
describes? Obviously you don't have to
go through each single one but like how
are they different differentiated? Well
again on a very very superficial level
uh it's it's a question of of of
closeness to God. Meaning to say God's
beneficence, God's power, God's blessing
is channeled through many many different
levels. And the higher angels are more
directly recipients than the lower
forces. And again if you go back to
chapter one of yesco you'll talk you'll
see that there are the sarafhim and
theanim there are the wheels of the
chariot and then there are the chariot
itself and these all represent proximity
to divine energy uh meaning to say
angels are lower if the veils between
them and the creator are greater. So
that's the basic idea. But a lot of the
once again I mean a lot of this we don't
really understand. This is just a very
superficial idea. Yeah. Oh why is the
shamas such a meaningful prayer and what
does it really mean? Like I know word
for word what it means but like so first
of all it's interesting. Sha is not a
prayer if you think about it. What are
you praying for? There's not there's
nothing in shama that you're praying to
God about. So Schma is not a prayer. Sha
is kind of a precursor to prayer. Prayer
feli in the garra is always
shimon shama is a profession of faith.
It is a comm it's it is a commitment to
a mission statement. Meaning to say when
I begin my day in the morning and before
I go to sleep at night I have to
affirm preferably in a public way which
is minion but at least in a private way
if I'm not dominating with dominion I
have to affirm what is my life's
commitment. My commitment is uh to
affirm that there is one God who created
heaven and earth and this God will
reward us for the good that we do and
for the punish us for the evil that we
do. That's the second part of Shma and
he gave us a Torah that gave us
direction. So essentially Shama is about
committing yourself. The language
of
musay what does that mean? you accept
the yoke of the kingdom of heaven. Okay?
So it's actually incorrect to say uh I'm
praying in schma. I'm actually not
praying in schma. I am
professing and then I pray in the share.
Once I've accepted God, I'm now in a
position where I can ask him for stuff.
Uh yeah. So we know by the ark that when
they when when the ark landed the
animals seemingly all came out from the
ark and they somehow I guess my question
is how do animals when they if they all
landed seemingly one place how did they
get to other parts of the earth and the
other earth and I guess a follow to that
is is there idea maybe of pangia that we
view that we know that like earth was
originally like one form
yeah uh you know again there's not a lot
we don't know about this I mean the
question is how did animals get to
Australia and all those other all those
other places. There are really two
possible answers that that you can give.
Answer number one is a mania thing and
there's nothing wrong with that except
except we would have to accelerate the
timetable because we don't have like
millions of billions of years to play
with but the concept is that the earth
had been united and then there were
splitoffs and therefore there were
kangaroos that got stuck you know in
Australia and and everything else. Uh so
that's entirely plausible. Uh the other
possibility is theologically more
problematical. I will just throw it out.
And that
is although the Torah does say that all
life was wiped out in the flood except
for the the animals and the people who
were on the in the ark. Uh there are
opinions that say the flood was in fact
not worldwide. It it was focused in the
areas where human beings lived and there
may have been other areas in the world
that didn't have human beings yet and as
a result they were not destroyed and
therefore there may be animals that are
older than the flood because if you look
at the basic idea and it makes sense
logically actually although it's not the
the normal understanding God destroyed
the animals only because of the human
beings since the human beings were evil
and God destroyed them so he destroyed
the animals as well. But if you had
places where there were no human beings
yet, then maybe there's no particular
reason why God has to destroy it. So it
could very well be nobody lived in
Australia, nobody lived uh in southern
Africa, whatever it is. So ma there
might be animal forms that were not
affected by the mobble at all. So that
is a is a possibility it's a little less
traditional. Uh yeah. Yeah. I was
wondering what the rough thoughts you
are on the two different approaches on
Jewish outreach. uh let's say one side
can focus more on I would say the stick
over the carrot
and in terms of just explaining things
they give quotes of in terms of if you
do this this will happen to you threats
um as opposed to another side let's say
who would use the Torah loves you even
if you're doing these things wrong
you're still I guess showing a lot more
compassion a lot of times for some
people they're listening to the same
Torah and it sounds like it's not
necessarily it's impossible to be on the
same page yeah it's a very very
excellent question. Um the truth of the
matter is that uh there are some
speakers I mean I'll mention them bizrai
is probably uh the most famous one other
people your own ruins and uh who really
uh you know they're kind of the Puritan
preacher like uh what was the guy's name
I forgot Jonathan Edwards uh kind of you
know the wrath of uh whatever it is the
wrath of God will strike you and uh and
then there are others that are more
touchyfey God loves you and even if
you're a sinner
etc. The truth of the matter is the
problem basically is in other instead of
asking let's say what's the best
outreach technique let's ask a more
basic question like which one which side
of it is true right which one is true
right I I would I would answer right
away uh whatever approach is is true is
the one that you should use right which
one is true problem is they're both true
meaning to say there is a and there is
aim there is a concept
of being aware of punishment and Then
there's a concept of God's rahim through
chuva. Right? So this is not a question
where one approach is false and one
approach is true. This is a question of
multiple truths and the question then
becomes an educational one. Which
approach is most effective in bringing
people to God? Because nobody is lying
here because the truth is, you know, I
could talk about gem and that would be
telling a a truth and I could talk about
God's endless love and that would be
telling a truth. So, frankly, different
people need different motivators.
Different people are motivated in
different ways. But the general approach
that at least I've gathered from most
gdollum that I'm aware of most Ashkanazi
gdom maybe it might be different uh is
that we live in a very weak generation
and when we overemphasize the stick and
we overemphasize the punishments instead
of motivating people to be better what
often happens is people get so
despondent they get so depressed that
they simply reject the whole thing they
kind of say what's the point I'm going
to go to hell no matter what. So, I
might as well not listen to this. As
opposed to when you build a person up,
that gives them motivation and
encouragement. So, I I think there
actually are very strong reasons to
emphasize the love. And again, I want to
emphasize I'm not suggesting distortion
and I'm not suggesting lying. Lying is
not a good cure of technique actually.
But in terms of emphasizing certain
ideas, I think it is appropriate to
emphasize the ideas that are most
receivable by people. Even in mushwarm
there was this way you know um we have
mus going back that really are full of
very very vivid descriptions of hell
raas which really a classic musher safer
from atonement of of the
Ariz has uh one of his gates is called
shagen. It's like 50 pages about uh what
what gahan what ganam is and the like
but many people say not to even learn
the rama today because it's something
that's not going to help us connect uh
to to our kadesh. So I think the path of
of love and building people up is a
better path because it is it is a more
effective path and as a result uh it
encourages people it brings people to
Hashem. So I would go with it. On the
other hand, some people need more
motivation. Now, as I said, there may be
an Ashkanazic Spartic difference here.
Uh, Spartan for some reason uh tend to
still be attracted to that oldtime
religion idea of putting the fear of God
uh into you. Uh so maybe for them it
that that may still be an effective
approach. I think in the astronautic
world it largely has not not been that
way. Yeah. Here's a sending in Shimona
Esray. We are supposed to stand as we
would before a king. However, when
people shuckle vigorously with arms
flailing in every direction, it looks
absurd. No one would do this before a
king. Isn't it better to simply stand
still? Yeah. The idea of shuckling,
right? Shuckling is uh moving around
etc. Uh and there are two different
sources for shuckling. The standard
source is a gammoran braos that when
Rabbi Yakiva would dab in the movements
would be so intense that he would start
in one side of the room and he would
find himself the other side of the room
like literally his whole body moves and
it's based on a
hill says call all of my bones proclaim
hashem's greatness so shuckling is an
expression of ecstasy now fascinatingly
Ravuda Halevi. This is a pretty early
Macar in the kuser gives a different
origin for shakling. This is quite it's
quite amazing. You would you would never
guess in a unless you knew the kuser.
You would never guess that he would say
such a thing. He says it used to be when
people would be learning or reading you
know there weren't enough sperm for
people. So a lot of people had to share.
We had to like we had a little sitter or
a little gamora and we had to bend over.
So in order for you to be able to read
it, I had to move back. So you could
move forward. You would move forward and
read. Then you would move back and I
would move forward. So accredited to
that shuckling has no transcendental uh
importance at all. It was simply
something that people did when they were
sharing sedorim which doesn't apply
today. Okay. But I will tell you this
Mosha
Feinstein and I remember seeing this
with my own eyes and I read about it
later. Dav ramrod
straight. He did not shuckle. He would
bow down the four times that you bow
down and he was rammrod straight. Now
the min among you know the fisher people
is to is to shuckle a little bit at
least a little bit. So Ramosa said he
used to shuckle but here's what
happened. When he was a rev in Stalinist
Russia he was called in by the KGB or
whatever it was was called something
else in those days. uh because he was
building a mika he was doing different
things and he was so frightened he could
have been he could have been killed he
could have been sent to Siberia you know
he he his life was in danger and he said
he was so frightened he couldn't
move after that experience he said if I
have such moa for baser
vam I at least have to have the same
level of moa for hashem so since that
experience he did dab and ramrod
straight. So if you're asking me is
there a mucker to dive in totally
straight the answer is the answer is
yes. But in defense of shuckling now
this would depend on the person. The
defense of shuckling is that sometimes
movement can help focus our
thoughts. You know you stand perfectly
still your mind might
wander. You're moving. You're connecting
your body
rhythm with the words you're you're
you're saying. It is a way of focus. So
even though it's true that when you
stand before God, you're supposed to
stand the way you stand before a king,
but if something would enhance your
cabana, that would be a justification to
depart a little bit from it. And like
the flailing arms and everything, too.
Well, well, it depends. I mean, there
are different shuckling styles. There's
the uh there's the back and forth,
there's the side by side, you know,
they're different. There's the arms. But
but even so, uh that too is a f
essentially it's a focus for a kavan. A
person says ah hashem like you're
talking to hashem. Uh you can imagine
this. I mean let's imagine you're
pleading for your life to a person
even you would you might actually talk
that way. Please please please help me.
Right? So it's not so unusual that if
you're really really in a state of
desperation you will use your arms. you
will use your facial expressions right
so in a sense it's a way of maybe
putting myself in the realization of how
dependent I
am so yeah maybe you look crazy but
again when someone's begging for their
life they do look a little crazy I mean
they're get on their knees and you know
all these other all these other things
so that would be part of what shuckling
is uh yeah
and I'm sorry already spoke about this
um what is wrong with is or isn't with
uh occasionally either drinking alcohol
or smoking marijuana. It is one worse
than the other. Yeah. Yeah. So um I'm
not sure if I get censored in this.
Sometimes uh people write me and they
say that they notice that um 30 seconds
of Torah anytime was cut out for you. I
don't think there's a censorship but I
have a little suspicion sometimes that
if I give a short answer on this they
they kind of blot it out. Okay, but say
what whatever it is. Uh the the short
answer really is that the way you ask
the question, there is nothing wrong.
The problem basically is can you keep it
to that particular level? Meaning
there's always a problem when you open
yourself up to certain types of
experiences you can easily get out of
hand and uh it could lead to some
disastrous consequences which can injure
you both physically and spiritually. So
it might be safer and prudent and more
logical not to get yourself involved in
a Pandora's box that can have some very
disastrous consequences. If you are
asking me is there something beets is
there something intrinsically wrong with
moderate drinking and even moderate
marijuana use putting aside the law
which is you know that's another issue.
Uh the answer is there there is there is
there is not there is not um one cannot
make a strong case that mar moderate
marijuana is significantly worse than
alcohol. I know that people still debate
it but uh more or less they're kind of
on the same side of the spectrum. But
again I'm not endorsing this because I
fully recognize it can lead to dangerous
complications if you cross certain
boundaries. So it's sometime same thing
with cigarettes. If you were to ask me,
is there anything wrong with smoking one
cigarette once a week? There isn't. But
the problem is, you know, uh, one
cigarette is likely to lead to
repetitive behaviors and, uh, that would
be a danger to your health, right? So,
you got to you got to have kind of
common sense here. You know, uh, in the
United States, as all of you, I'm sure,
know, there are a number of states that
have legalized not just medical
marijuana, but even even recreational
marijuana. You can get get it in the
supermarket. They have brownies now.
Marijuana brownies. So, gummies. Uh what
are they called? Gummy. Yeah. So, one of
them is actually certified by the OU.
The you can actually get kosher uh OU
brownies. And uh people have criticized
the OU like why are you certifying, you
know, marijuana? And they say, well,
we're just certifying the ingredients.
We're not certifying, you know, we're
not endorsing marijuana as a use. But
it's it's controversial, you know. So,
um you just have to be careful. That's
all I'm saying. I am not going to say
it's the biggest ara you could possibly
do. Realistically, it is not. Uh yeah.
Um as many may have experienced, um
there's there is a significant
difference between just I would say like
stom doining in terms of spartim or like
ripish doing specifically in the
Ashkenazi world. Uh there's I could see
pros and cons on both sides, you know,
with with spardy dabbing, sugra in this
case, you know, everything is sung out
and said out loud the entire time. The
con to that would be maybe it's a little
distracting in terms of the kavana. The
other the other end of the spectrum is
the lipish approach is being quiet until
the end of each specific
maybe that's harder to follow along. So
could the RAV kind of expound on the as
far as be behind each kind of Well, well
again I mean I I think I think in your
question I think you identified it very
well. you know, one of the uh I mean
obvious have somewhat different new but
but you're not really focusing in that
and the differences are not tremendously
major but one of the conspicuous
differences that you notice uh is that
particularly Zimmer for example word for
word for word it's all sung together uh
people say it together as opposed to
Ashkanazim where you know sometimes in
fact I see it's interesting when did the
yeshiva change its meaning I'm a little
curious about
Uh the normal Ashkanazic Minug that I
grew up with was that you do have a
kazin for zimra, but uh everything is
said silently until the last line, but
now I've been noticing a new thing here.
I don't know where it started where you
don't even put a kazan up
until I think we're inconsistent in the
center but but uh a lot of times now I'm
wondering where that started because
that actually was not the uh the
standard practice but be it as it may as
we certainly don't say in unison. So
part of the difference is uh I mean the
mileas and the krinus exactly as you say
it. uh on one hand we all say it
together we're functioning as its
seabore we are together as a minion not
just for the amida but for every part of
we say it word for word so number one
it's it promotes unity and community and
a sense that we're together uh number
two by definition it's going to be
slower and every word can be pronounced
very very clearly that's a big big mile
uh The mya of the Ashkanazic way is you
go at your own pace. So some people can
concentrate better by faster. This is
interesting. We often think that a
slower davening means you have more
cavana and a faster davining means you
have less kavana. Now, by and large,
that that is pretty true, but it's not
always true because sometimes, you know,
if you're going really slow, once again,
your mind
wanders, you know, something's going to
go in your head, right? Sometimes, you
know, you want to say a whole sentence
or even a whole paragraph and then you
absorb it, right? Like just like you're
reading a book, you know, you want to
get the the whole idea. So, it's not
always true that slow is best. Now,
obviously, if you're just going to
mumble and I'm not talking about that,
but sometimes a faster dabbing can
facilitate concentration. It focuses
you. So, the Ashkenazic mode at least
allows you to dive in at your own pace,
so to speak, uh, and you're not
distracted by other voices. It's a
little quieter, uh, and the like. So,
all I can say is that different men hug
him developed. And I think this is a
braha from Hashem because Hashem
understands that different people need
different ways of connecting to Hashem.
The beauty of Ashkanazimardim tanim uh
all the different rituals that we have
and and we have you know different are
not one either. There's Moroccan and
Tunisian and Iraqi and Syrian and
Ashkenazim is Polish and German etc.
It's not all one thing is Hashem is
saying that in his garden there should
be many different types of flowers and
the beauty of a garden is when flowers
are different colors. There are
different ways of approaching Hashem and
each one is mile and I know for example
a person actually a very great person
Rav
Pinke many of you might uh read Rafin's
Rinkeas was one of the great great great
khos in Erit Israel a tremendously
inspiring uh person uh in Kira and in
Jewish education generally and he
tragically died in a car accident of
Pesak really very tragic death I mean it
was uh more 10 years ago, but it was
really a tragic tragic loss for his
family of course and for Ami Israel. Uh
but Rafinis was an Ashkanazi you know
died in the died in the world Ashkanazi
but he loved the spartic kaduca of Musf
because the spartic kaduca of Musf
begins with the
phrase we are giving to you God the
crown. That's not in the Ashkan that's
not in the Ashkenazic.
And he looked forward to but he would go
to a spartic minion after he dabbed
after he dabbed he would go he wants to
hear the kaduca of keter he wants to
give that crown to hashem so people get
inspired in in different ways that even
the Ashkanazi would go to a sparty minan
and of course which is not in it's the
same but in a huge difference that the
mitzvah of
basanim is fulfilled every
inardi minanim and not in Ashkanazi
which only
durstein when he was in America would
David Shakris in a minion because he
wanted to have birkas co him every time
we what is the haha status of a couple
being married by like a reform or
conservative rabbi are they considered
men yeah so that's a very excellent
question and a very uh controversial
question uh let's start off with some
basics what makes a halic marriage,
right? When are you married? So,
generally speaking, uh when the gives
the kala something of value, typically a
ring, but any
says, but the peop the person the most
important people at the wedding, well, I
would say the and the kala are number
one and two. But after them, it's not
the rabbi and not the photographer or
the caterer or the or the band even. Uh
but the most important people at the
wedding are the witnesses. You have to
have two witnesses who witness the
marriage. If two witnesses do not
witness the marriage, you're not
married. Now, in order to be a witness,
there are a lot of conditions. got to be
Jewish, got to be men, got to be above
bar mitzvah, cannot be related to each
other or to the bride or the groom, and
most importantly, must be
hakically religious, must keep Shabbat
and the like. Uh, according to some of
the wall posters, if they own an iPhone,
they're not kosher, but okay, but we
won't get into that. We'll we'll we'll
assume that they are kosher uh for that.
Now, let's go back to a typical reformed
marriage. a typical reformed marriage.
Number one, even assuming that the
ceremony was properly done, I gave a
ring to the kala. Did I have share
Shabbat witnesses who saw the marriage?
Maybe I did. If I did, then there would
be an issue. In other words, the point
I'm making is it's not the reformed
rabbi that would make it invalid. And
it's not the reformed synagogue that
would make it invalid. It would simply
be the normal idea that you didn't have
shmer Shabbat witnesses who witnessed
the marriage. So as a result of Mosha
Feinstein ruled as a general proposition
that conservative reform and certainly
civil marriages are not going to
be valid because you didn't have
witnesses. Now I want to explain you you
may know this how amazingly important
this rule is for yeshivas like because
here's the
thing unfortunately the divorce rate in
the Jewish community has risen a lot and
many kids who come to Bali chuva are
products of second marriages this is
mom's second marriage now if mom's first
marriage was to a Jew and mom didn't get
a
pet from hubby number one. That means
technically the kid that is born from
marriage number two is a momser because
they're born from an adulterous union
even if there's a civil divorce. Now a
mamzer has a very severe disability. A
mamzer is Jewish and a mom does mitzvah
but a mamzer cannot marry most other
Jews. So according to Moshe there's a
very beautiful solution to all of this
and that is mom needs a get from
marriage number one only if marriage
number one was hahically valid and if
marriage number one was conservative or
reform and there weren't shmer shabas
witnesses mom's marriage number one was
never valid to begin with and if mom's
marriage number one was not valid you
don't need a get for marriage number one
and therefore for marriage number two
does not produce a mom. Now people ask
the question, well wait a second, what
if marriage number two is conservative
reform? So doesn't that mean I'm in
trouble? No, because that just means
you're born out of wedlock. In other
words, remember this. The definition of
moms is a child born from
adultery. A child who is born from a
non-halikic marriage is not a mamzer.
He's out of wedlock. But an out of
wedlock kid has no disability
whatsoever. So you see Rav Mosha
literally saved I mean he he didn't you
know he didn't change the to do this. I
mean obviously this was his objective
view but Rav Mosha literally saved
thousands and thousands of Jewish kids
who were born from second marriages from
the stigma of moms. This is an
enormously important opinion. Now I want
to point out that Dravosha's position is
not universally accepted. There are some
great great rabbis who take the position
that even if the original marriage
ceremony did not have kosher witnesses
if they live together with intercourse
as husband and wife, the intercourse
effects a marriage and as a similar to
what you might call a hakic common law
marriage idea and therefore they need a
get. Okay. So Rav Mosha's not
universally accepted but uh by and large
uh the yeshiva world follows follows
that ruling. Okay. So that's why there
is no problem of moms. Yeah. Um many
different times of the Torah the Torah
uses a certain expression which
says like literally like example like um
in sacred how like a woman um touches a
person in his private parts Torah says
that you should cut off her hand you
shouldn't have racking on her right
right and like in places the Torah says
like
um if if the Torah's intention was never
to be taken literally for these things.
So why does the Torah write in such in
such a way that that sounds literal?
Yeah, that that's a good question on on
Torah Shab generally. We do have a
number of instances. You mentioned some
of them uh in which the Torah says one
thing and we have a misor a tradition
from kazal that it means something else.
Eye for an eye is the most famous right?
It says if I knock out somebody's eye
for an eye, right? the lextionus, the
infamous lexionus. And yet kazal tell us
over and over again that you don't knock
out somebody's eye. It simply means you
pay compensation for what you did. So
the question becomes uh even if we
accept those interpretations as
legitimate. We say that's the misora.
That's what God wants. And we're not
questioning that. But the question is so
why does the Torah write it that way?
Why does it write eye for an eye if it
doesn't mean eye for an eye? Why does it
say if the woman squeezes the person's
uh genitalia uh you cut off her hands?
If the is you don't cut off her hand,
once again, it's compensation for
humiliation and and pain. Uh so it's a
it's a very it is a very good question.
Um the answer that's commonly given is
that the Torah is indicating what the
true spiritual reality should be even
though operationally we're not able to
impose it properly. meaning to say by
right I caused somebody's eye to fall
out I should lose that power of of
eyesight but the Torah gave me a way out
by compensation. So the Torah is
expressing what you might call the
spiritual reality of the sin and the
Torah Shabalpe is telling me that that
spiritual reality is not the way we
would enforce the law. This is why by
this might be one of the reasons by the
way why in Kabala Torah is called
midasin and
tora is called midas because in many
many cases the oral mura am amelates it
mitigates some of the severity of the to
uh and that's why in fact that even goes
to the cababalistic idea uh that you've
heard and we I think we've talked about
this before
that uh some of the mubalam say the says
one should not learn mikra one should
not learn tan at
night and part of that is because night
is a time of
judgment and
since is connected to judgment you don't
want to intensify judgment with judgment
that could bring down negative forces so
that's why the toz learned at night
which is connected to
um in your entire like Jewish life. What
was something that surprised you that
you learned and why?
I thought we need a happier question.
Actually, I'm trying to think. Actually,
I just read and I Why can't I remember
it? I I read something yesterday that
that genuinely surprised me um that I
didn't know, but it was really just a a
detail about Dravler's life that that
surprised me. So, I would I don't think
that's the global nature. Or maybe
something that like you Yeah. Um like
your favorite thing to study that makes
you like super happy. Ah okay. Yeah that
that positive questions. Yeah that I can
answer a little bit questions. You know
I heard um a rabbi rabbi was asked like
uh what is your favorite safer? She says
favorite safer? He says uh go into a
candy store. What's your favorite candy?
You know I like say I like all candy. He
said like all. No but I I tell you I
like very much uh I love the Tanya.
Tanya is a beautiful, beautiful safer.
Uh not not the easiest safer in the
world, but sometimes uh it can really
grab you, push you over the cliff uh
with with insight and understanding and
something you connect to your avote. So
that's one of the favorites. And uh my
another personal favorite I I love
anything written by the Ramban. The
Ramban is uh also very very beautiful in
terms of integrating halaka, history,
cabala. the Ramban was very echic. He
didn't like just go in one particular
direction. So I I get a particular joy
in that. But you know, it's hard for me
to be uh more specific, but I'll think
about it. If I can come up with
something better, I I'll tell you. Yeah.
Yeah. Um what if any are the hakic uh
ramifications bisman on two Jews um
unmarried having relations
men and women? Okay. Yeah. Now you have
you have to be you have to be explained
here. Okay. So we'll talk complicated.
Yeah. So we'll talk about heterosexual
sex outside of marriage. Okay. So the
truth of the matter is this is a big big
reonim. Uh according to the Rambam and
the
Shanor heterosexual intercourse outside
of marriage is an isurisa
uh because the Torah prohibits putting
your daughter into prostitution etc
which is interpreted to mean unmarried
sex and it's a violation of the
obligation the mitzvah say to get
married. Now I want to add a little
complication here and this is very
important and that is uh if a woman has
had her period and has not gone to the
mikvah forget about marriage not
marriage when you have intercourse with
a woman who had her period and didn't go
to the mikvah you are transgressing the
isa of intercourse with a mida which is
an absolute of k so even though there's
a mlo the ra and the say Premarital sex
is an iser
diorisa a love not a curus not a misa
and other risha say as long as she's not
a prostitute and you have a stable
relationship she could be called a
pleesh a concubine and dyakden brings a
concubine is
muter so there actually is a possibility
of that type of relationship but if she
didn't go to the mikvah there's 1,000%
and is right. So people have to remember
that people cannot use
uh who
maskesh which we don't use anyway but
but even if somebody wanted to use pages
that does not m the isita so that you
have to be aware of um there was an
organization in New York I I think they
I haven't heard about it but I hope they
disband it. Um, this was written up when
I lived in Maryland. This was written up
in the Washington Post. Even though it
was a New York organization, was an
awful kill Hashem. The organization was
called Shalom
Bias. And what was the organization? The
organization involved religious women,
religious women who could not find their
shidim. So, they kind of signed up to be
concubines or mistresses.
uh with other religious men and this was
said to promote
scholas in in a number of bizarre ways
because by basically saying that so
whatever I don't want to get I don't
want to get this was in the
1980s 1980s I don't want to get too
explicit but the basic idea was that men
were saying there was their wives were
getting older they were overweight and
less attractive and this gave them a
sexual outlet outside of marriage and
This allowed them to be happy with their
wives etc. Now this was such a tragedy
on so many levels. In particular, it was
really a tragedy for these younger women
who were from women. They were religious
women and they were so hopeless that
they would ever find a shik that they
said, "All right, at least I'll get
this. I'm getting, you know, I'm getting
something. I'm getting something. I'm
getting dinner once a month with a man,
whatever it is." And then right so this
really expressed the utter hopelessness
of of the shik crisis that that existed
and to some degree still
exists. Uh so there were so and of who
mages to a non-melik and the women went
to the mikvah. The women went to the
mikvah as single women to take off the
nida. I hope such an organization is
disbanded but uh that that's part of the
issue that's going on. Yeah. Would it
also be kil of marriage?
Oh, okay. Okay. So, that's that's an
interesting point. Uh the Gmorrah says
the following. The Gmorrah says that no
man wants to have intercourse in a
promiscuous way. This is
Adamus and therefore all intercourse is
treated as marital intercourse. The
Rambam brings a shittita of the gaim
that actually says any man that has even
casual intercourse with a Jewish woman
is now married to her because he doesn't
intend to make it promiscuous. That's
the of
the Rambam and the disagree with that.
They say that if you look at the
contextual passage of not making a via
promiscuous that's referring to an
already married couple who made a
condition to the marriage. So when they
have intercourse, they get rid of the
condition. But when there's not a
pre-existing marriage, uh we do say
people have promiscuous intercourse. And
that is why if you're a balchuva and you
are with a woman and you're breaking up,
you do not have to give her again.
Otherwise, you'd have to give her a
gift. Right. So we do not pasan that it
morphs into a marriage. Yeah. Isn't
there we say marriage that one of the
way to is through
through. Yes. Yes. So but you need
witnesses for that. Yes. Yes. Okay. So
here's the thing now. Obviously, when we
say witnesses for sexual relationship,
we don't mean uh there's a witnesses in
the bedroom, you know, we don't mean
that, but it just means they they're
aware. They're aware. So, so based on
that, the problem is the
awareness of the community of the
Orthodox community that you're living
together as husband and wife. See, that
was the argument against Raosha. That's
what I said. As Ra Moshe said, if the
two witnesses were not kosher at the
wedding ceremony, you're not married.
The other argument is but you had
intercourse and religious people knew
about it. Right? That would be the
question. Yeah. Um recently there was I
think it was Disney. I'm not sure if it
was Disney. It was one of the big like
cartoon movies that came out had um had
a like a small like homosexual scene um
in one of these cartoons. Yeah. And um
like I think even before the movie came
out like one of the one of the big
producers in I think I'm pretty sure
it's in Disney other big ones said that
like they have more of an agenda now to
try to normalize these things and um I
just want to know I guess like
if like um yeah what like should we not
be showing like any cartoons or
Yeah Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. What should
Yeah. What should be like what should be
your response to that? Let me share with
you a uh a medish which I I've mentioned
before, but it's a really really
important medish. The medish talks about
the sins of the generation of the flood.
And they did a lot of things, but it
mentions one of the final sin that
caused the flood. The final one was they
wrote a
cassuva for homosexual relationships.
Now pay pay very very careful attention
to that. It doesn't say they committed
the sin of homosexual
relationships. It says they wrote of
cassuba. Now what is the significance of
that? There's a very big difference
between committing a sin that you admit
is a sin but you know my tyra is too
strong versus trying to redefine the sin
as a
mitzvah. And that is there've always
been homosexuals. have always been
people with with Tyus and again and I've
said many times I'm not even in a
position to judge because it is a very
very difficult nission and who knows you
know who who of us would know if we had
such a nisson right so the issue is not
to judge people not to condemn people
but but but it is an a frankly it is an
a you can't get around that so as long
as you know it's an a so it's an aem has
but when you start saying that that
which the Tyra says is sinful now
becomes a mitzvah with and withah and
kuva that's a much worse thing and
that's exactly the situation of what is
happening in the general world and even
in the Jewish world you know the non
nonorthodox world but even in the open
orthodox world which calls us up
orthodox you have this this very very
issue and that
is it's not enough to be tolerant to be
sympathetic to be respect
respectful. All of that is good and I'm
in favor of it. But now you have to
validate. You have to approve. You have
to celebrate. You have to treat it like
it's equal. That you can't do. That you
just can't do. That's a perversion. And
uh for our children to be raised and
again children should be raised with
respect for all human beings 100%. And
not to look down and not to you know
make fun of people 100%. But to be
taught that a gay relationship is just
as valid as a heterosexual one is
perverting Torah values. So you as a
parent at least uh you have to
unfortunately kind of look at the books
and look at the uh cartoons you know at
least ahead of time and uh recognize
that a lot of things are not suitable
for your children anymore. And that's
too bad. Uh you know um I grew up uh
watching television uh in those days. I
mean, television was always a waste of
time. There's no It was never anything
productive in aami, but as a waste of
time, it was relatively innocuous. I
could give you a list of 20 situation
comedies that were just funny. I mean,
they were an awful waste of time. Yeah,
granted, uh, but they were funny. There
was nothing immoral about them. Today,
that's not the situation anymore. Today,
they're they're they're pushing agendas
that are against the morality of the
Torah. So, uh, the old TV, you know,
Beverly Hillbillings or whatever it
would be, you know, are very, very
different than what's going on today.
So, that's why you can't really
extrapolate from what we used to do to
what you want your kids to do today. Uh,
yeah. So, besides the fact that the
prophecies explicitly state Mashiach,
you know, Ben Davidid is supposed to
come, um, why does Mashiach have to come
in the form of a person? Why wouldn't
Hashem just directly uh reveal his
presence, you know, in at the time of
redemption? Um like what specifically
depends on a human leader?
Yeah. Um that's a very interesting
question. The truth of the matter is um
the older I get, the less I understand
about Msiah because there are a lot of
difficulties here because the Rambam
clearly tells us that the ultimate
reward for our mitzvah is not mashiach
at all. The ultimate reward for our
mitzvah is olab where our soul goes. And
there in ol there's no guff there's no
body there's no bas there there are no
mitzvah you're just connected to z the
glory of the shina. So your mashiach is
a stage on earth until you die where you
go to maba. So why do I need it? Why why
do I need the most mashia at all? But
apparently there's a notion that as the
Tanya writes that the whole purpose of
creation is that lowly man should bring
godliness into the world by his action.
And therefore it is part of God's to us
that he wants us to be the architects of
creating that perfect world. Because the
greatest gift God could give you is to
be like
him. Of course, in the sharply reduced
way. And therefore, as God is the
creator, he wants man to be the creator
as well. And therefore, heava wants the
revelation of his presence to come
through the actions of man.
Uh yeah. What are the um shittas of um
going in front crossing the street and
going in front of a car uh during shabas
especially in a highly populated Jewish
area.
Yes. So the problem is basically you
know uh I I I cause a car to stop.
Right. So the issue becomes that uh
every time uh a person applies his foot
to the brake, the brake lights turn on
and you're causing the closing of
circuits. You're causing a light to go
on. You're causing malaka combustion
again. Combustion. Uh when he start
Yeah. When he pushes the accelerator
again, you mean? Yeah. Right. You might
be causing an extra acceleration. So uh
the question is uh you're causing a Jew
who's already violating chabas granted
but you might be causing an extra
activity of shabas desecration so that's
a sin of lif naiva right in front of a
blind person you do not place a
stumbling block and that's understood to
mean don't cause someone else to do an
ara now if the driver is a even
though you're not allowed to tell a
to do mala I I don't think this would
involve a problem because you're not
really asking him to do mala that's it's
his decision to stop, so to speak. Uh,
so I I would say again, uh, if if you
knew for sure that the person was a guy
or if it's a neighborhood with even a
50/50 chance, you could assume it's a
guy. But let's assume that it's here and
it has an Israeli license plate, you
know, so you kind of know it's a Jew.
So, uh, I I would agree with you. I
think I think it would be improper to
cause a premature extra stop and
acceleration because it may be a
lifetime. Now, some people take the
position, hey, he's driving anyway. He's
stopping, going, stopping, going,
stopping, going. Are we supposed to
calculate the fact that this is one
extra? Well, I think yes, one extra is
one extra. Meaning, if you're causing
something extra that otherwise wouldn't
happen, I think there is a there is a
problem, right? So, I think it's a good
point to be careful about that. Yeah.
that let's say you have a case where a
Jew has to drive on child assisted to
pick up um medication for a sick child
or whatever it may be. He may have a
question of turning on the headlights or
the blinkers or once he comes
to turn off the I mean I guess taking
those extra
Yeah. Yeah. So really it's a nightmare.
In other words, I I urge everybody that
if Shalom you're ever in a situation uh
that you have to have transportation on
Shabas, you try to go with a cab with a
non-Jewish cab because the truth of the
matter is although it's true that a Jew
can take his wife to the hospital and
drive but you know he's not able to
park. He has to like leave at the first
place even if the car gets towed away.
meaning you can go crazy with you have
to be very meticulous and try to
minimize the malocus that you're doing.
Now, it is brought down ultimately that
if that's going to be so distracting and
so frustrating, you won't be able to
concentrate on driving. You're allowed
to be lenient. But if you're able to
have the presence of mind, you got to be
very, very exacting. And that's really,
really pretty crazy. I mean, you can't
even go into a parking lot. You may have
to leave your wife off at the emergency
room exit, get out of the car, don't
close the door because you'll be closing
the the dome light, etc. and then
somebody's going to tow your car or
whatever whatever it would be. So, by
all means, uh when your wife needs to go
to the hospital on Shabas, try to get a
cab to do it. Yeah. On the topic of
Chabas, uh uh I remember being told, and
I want you to tell me if it's true, that
we're not you're not supposed to walk on
grass because you might be ripping off
the grass and you may also be
inadvertently potentially killing bugs.
Kill the killing bugs. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
So, is that true? You're not supposed to
walk on grass? No. No. Well, we don't we
do not pask in that way. There there is
such an opinion there there is such an
opinion that maybe you came across but
lice we pos in such a case that's
unintentional uh it's not what you want
to do and it's not a certainty that
you're doing it. So under those
principles unintentional action that may
produce a mala that's not a 100%
certainty is permitted on shabas. So uh
you don't have to worry about that. Uh
yeah. Um so I'm trying to make a dash on
and maybe you can help me steal from
your wisdom. So you're still in in
calendar? Yeah. Well, no I'm not but
like in general for next year my parents
or something. Um uh so ba based on
Moshe's response uh Moshe uh intercedes
on behalf of Israel after the spies and
says if you kill us now then then uh
everyone will think you didn't have the
power to get us into Israel. And so
based on that we could see that the the
miracle required to get into Israel is
greater than uh the miracles required to
leave Egypt. And so why why then do we
place such a great emphasis on leaving
Egypt? We have pes we have the mitzvah
to remember
um not not that we don't have things
connected to Israel but uh why is there
seemingly a more
more focus on.
Yeah, that that's a very good question.
I I I think what is so vitally important
about Mitraim is that Hashem took us out
190 years earlier than he should have
taken us out because we were on the 49th
level of impurity. And if we would have
stayed even another minute in Mitzim,
the amount of time it takes for dough to
rise, we would have hit level 50 and
whatever that means exactly, we would be
irredeemable. So the notion that God
saves us in the nick of time at a
critical moment where our whole
existence could have gone in either
direction makes that an enormously
pivotal pivotal moment. meaning to say
the following. As important as Erit
Israel is, if we had to stay in the
desert, we would still we could still be
God's nation. But Yas Mam had that not
occurred when it occurred, we would have
been goners. We would not have had any
we wouldn't have existed as a nation at
all. So in a sense, Matra was like this
emergency surgery that if it wasn't done
that exact moment, the patient would
have died. So I think that might be the
special dimension of it. Yeah. Um
um Oh, you first. Okay. Well, actually,
you didn't have a question. Yeah. Yeah.
Um in this week's part of Torah, there's
250 at least like 253 or something. Uh
different incense offerings being
brought at a single
time. Where does that show up? Where
does that come from? Did Michelle and
Mosha set them up for failure?
Well, obviously, uh, yeah, 250. In other
words, the Nissimum, uh, the heads of
the tribes, but not just the official
12, but a whole expanded list. Uh, they
wanted to bring incense, and Hashem said
they can bring incense in their own
containers, so to speak. So, this was
not incense that was brought on the
Misbayak. Normally, incense is brought
on a golden altar that's in the Mishkan.
Uh, the golden altar of the Mishkan is
very small. You couldn't have done 250
incense. Rather, each one brought the
incense on their own bowl of coals
called a sensor was the term that's
used. And this is how Hashem said.
Hashem said how they should bring it. So
this was a
one-time emergency special bringing of
incense where Hashem would show that he
had chosen our own over over everybody
else. By the way, the nitiv says a very
interesting point. The
nitiv differentiates between Korak,
Dustin and Aram on one side and the 250
num on the other side. Korak and
Dav were primarily motivated by
jealousy of Moshe. They wanted to usurp
Mosha's role. They basically said that
you know why should Moshe have all or
Aaron have all the authority. The
250 were seeking deusm and they knew
they would die. They knew
from that when you bring incense not in
the authorized way you're putting your
life at risk. But their desire to
experience the closeness to Hashem
through this
devos meant they were even willing to
put their lives in danger. And the nitiv
brings a proof that their motives were
worthy. Although misguided and
erroneous, but worthy. Because what does
the Torah say you do with their pans,
their coal pans? You beat them flat and
you make them a
cover for the Misbayak. Now the simple
meaning is so that anyone who goes to
the Msbayak sees those uh flattened
metal and says, "Oh, I better not rebel
against Gohanim." But the native says,
"No, this was actually a badge of honor.
God was memorializing people who gave
their life uh for his service to
Hashem." So he he puts them in a very
different group. Yeah. Um so in regards
to Torah, um after like the whole
incident and Hashem opens the ground to
take care of all the people who are
rebelling against Moshe, um the Hashim
commands Moshe to take staff and to put
it um Mishkan and
happy like like this is like like to
prove also like how Hashem chose them. I
guess I don't understand like after all
these miracles and after all these um
revelations that God has, how did anyone
continue to question the motion islands
like I guess question that also is like
what what like how are besides how are
how are like all like anyone else in
able to question um or consider like
Moshe being a person who's taking author
authority on his own like Everyone knew
that relationship from its time.
Everyone knew that Moshe was was chosen.
Yeah, it's very it's very difficult.
Korak's rebellion is a very very
difficult rebellion to understand. I
mean what is Korak saying? Is Korak
saying Moshe is making things up? Uh
that's not very logical. Uh Elm Hashem
told gave Moshe these things. What are
you arguing with? Um it's hard to
understand. I mean obviously you see how
powerful cavode and diver is. In fact,
it's so interesting that if you think
about this, Korak's argument was
egalitarianism. Korak argued everybody's
equal. We're all holy. Moshe answers
him, "Why are you complaining? Aren't
you given enough
honor?" Now, that's a nonsequiter. Korak
didn't say, "I don't have enough honor."
Korak says, "Everybody's equal." So, why
is Moshe answering, "Don't you have
enough honor?"
Because Moshe understands that Korak has
a hidden agenda. Korak is talking
equality, but he really means I want to
be the boss. Uh this is the history of
revolutions. You know, some of you might
have read George Orwell's uh
animal uh farm, which is a parody of the
Russian revolution in which the animals
overthrow the humans and the animals
become just as tyrannical as the humans.
That's Korak. Korak says everybody's
equal and then he he make him he would
make himself a boss. What would life be
under Korak? Kor would make himself a
dictator. Now the one person who knew
this was Mosher Rabenu and the other is
the unsung hero of the Korak story. Mrs.
Own Ben Pelis. Now on Ben Pelis is a guy
who's only mentioned once. He's one of
the
revolutionaries but he's not mentioned
as anyone who died and it doesn't
mention he died in any way. So the
Gammorra says in Sanhedrin Mrs. own Ben
Pelis, you know, own Ben Pelis comes
home from a campaign speech of Korak and
every man is equal. You know, who needs
gdole? Who needs authority? We can all
make our own
decisions. And she, as a good wife, kind
of tells her husband, you're an idiot.
Because what do you think's going to
happen? If Moshe wins, you're a nobody.
And if Korak wins, you're a nobody.
What's the point here? Now, note, she
didn't give him a from. She didn't say
how can you rebel against Moshe. She
didn't use religious arguments. She used
pragmatic arguments. There is nothing to
be gained here. This is not about
equality. This is not about everybody
will be equal before God. This is a
power grab. And that's an amazing thing
that she had the clarity of being able
to see see through that. Yeah. How are
what was the significance of the of the
status? So I would I would say this I
would say that Hashem wanted Aaron to be
chosen by love and not just by
punishment. Meaning to say all the other
ways were punishing the rebellious. But
God now wanted to show that Aaron is
chosen by God giving a special divine
gift. I think it was a way of showing
I'm not just choosing you because the
other people are
bad. I'm choosing you because you're
good. I think there was something
positive in that. Yeah, this is an
alumnist question. Um, why do we pray
for Mashiach to come when the Amarim
specifically prayed for that not to
happen? Yep, that's a very very good
question. Um although well okay I I
don't think there's going to say they
prayed I mean they said I hope it
doesn't come in our time. The truth of
the matter is this is a very very hard
question. The truth is for many of us
mashiach coming is not necessarily an
advantage. I would like more time to do
chuva. I would like more time to perfect
myself. I would like more time to get my
act together. Mashiach comes and I'm not
ready. Then god forbid I might suffer go
mog. I might suffer all sorts of things.
So from a selfish
standpoint, you might not want mashiach
to come so quickly.
But you pray for Mashiach not because
it's good for you, but because it's for
the glory of God. For the glory of
God. I want his glory to be revealed
even if I'm going to suffer in the
process. So it's actually contrary to
what people think. People look at
praying for Mashiach is, "Oh, I have
such a tough life. I want the Mashiach
to come and pay my mortgage and and take
care of me."
says, "Mashia coming may not be perfect
for you, for us, but I'm praying because
it it creates the glory of Hashem in the
world." So, it's actually a very
selfless prayer of asking for the
revelation of the Kabot Shay. Uh yeah,
what are your thoughts on the staggering
numbers of students who go for higher
education or the Ivy League schools and
in terms of them rejecting Hashem's ways
and why do you think it's so prevalent
within society that people who are open
to other thought process talking about
intellectual people who are not
necessarily just going for the tas but
are really thinking things through and
why the numbers are so high in terms of
them rejecting the shem ways and going
towards just the regular secular way.
Yeah. Yeah. Uh so if I understand your
question uh correctly, you know, you're
identifying um a disturbing phenomenon
that has grown quite a lot in relatively
recent years. It used to be that I mean
there are always people who were
religious and they stopped being
religious but usually it was because of
tyara it was too hard to keep culture.
It was too hard not to be with women so
I don't keep it anymore you know etc.
and then one thing to another thing and
then it's connected to drugs to alcohol
all all sorts of things in which a
person is off the derek but they kind of
still acknowledge that the Torah is true
have an offer person said I believe in
Torah I believe in God I believe in
mitzvah I just can't do that stuff right
now you have a maybe a kind of a
different challenge a little bit in
which people come to the conclusion that
I don't believe the Torah came from God
I don't believe in God I don't I don't
believe that uh rabbitic tradition is
accurate in any way. In other words,
they become mamish heretics. They become
philosophical heretics. And
tragically, this even happens among
people. I mean, I I personally was
involved with somebody who had learned
in coal for years. He was married, had
four children who were in Jewish day
schools, and he
decided didn't he didn't believe in it
anymore.
and he comes from a firm family and his
wife he managed to entice his wife and
uh his wife comes from a firm family.
Both families are absolutely
heartbroken and he described to me a
scene that is so surreal it is hard to
believe. His kids go to went to Jewish
day school. They had they had the titas
out and he says we have to have a
meeting with our children telling them
we don't keep kosher anymore and we
don't keep shabas anymore. I mean, can
you can you imagine that type of
meeting? I have my children and hey, I
we sit down uh mommy and daddy have to
tell you something. You know, we don't
believe in this anymore. I mean, what
does that do? I mean, part I mean, I was
asked to help, you know, help this. So,
part of what I was trying to say is a
very last resort is can't you fake it?
Okay, you don't believe in it, but you
have kids. Can't you just pretend that
you know you keep these things? I mean,
rituals have a value, Jewish continuity,
community. And what happened was that
the bo the man actually said he could
fake. He he could live that way. He says
his wife couldn't live that way.
Whatever it is, his wife could not live
a lie. He could live a lie because he
says he was living a lie for many years
already. So, he could do
it. Uh, by the way, Kiraov education is
absolutely ineffectual for people like
this. What are you going to tell the
person? arguments. Uh the person's heard
the arguments a hundred times. Uh he may
know the arguments better than the rabbi
that's that's that's conveying it to
him. Right? So this is absolutely this
is almost an impossible audience to be
mak because they're not coming from not
knowing Torah and then they learn Torah.
They're coming from knowing Torah and
then rejecting it. And kazal already say
kazal say this that the one who knows
Torah and keeps Torah and leaves it is
much more difficult than someone who
didn't know who now learns Torah and the
like. So I've been noticing this also
uh more and more. I mean I wouldn't
necessarily call it an epidemic yet but
you know sometimes I be I'm walking in
the street and like it's a secret thing.
a guy from mirror will come to me and
say you know I don't know if I believe
this anymore I mean people I'm talking
about people in the yeshiva world
so I I actually have the same question
I'm wondering why this epidemic happens
this because this seems to be a
different
symptomology than the classic you know I
can't control myself type of thing. Uh
this seems to be an intellectual
problem. Uh, I think it has to do a
little bit with the um I mean I I don't
want to blame yeshivas for it, but but
yeshivas are sometimes a little
close-minded. Meaning if you're a person
that has questions and you ask questions
and your rebi tells me religious kids
don't ask these questions, don't be an
apicoras. That type of rejection when
your questions are not addressed and
they're
delegitimated, you will eventually kind
of rebel. So the aaras is that when
people have questions in amuna they need
to be addressed. I mean that's the
strength of a place like Osame where
these questions are addressed. If you go
to a mainstream yeshiva let's say
mainstream black hat you can't even ask
these questions but people still have
the questions even if they can't ask
them. So I I think it's very much
connected connected to that which means
ultimately it's kind of an emotional
issue meaning when a person feels
rejected and
delegitimated they will go out and seek
recognition in other in other areas. So
uh you are correct in in identifying
this as a real again I I don't think
it's epidemic but it's much more than
than I was aware of uh in the past. It's
a different type of profile. Yeah. Yeah.
Um, how do we ask in in terms of um when
a touches mushall wine when it's
unopened as opposed to when it is open
or him opening it? You mean non mush or
mush? I'm sorry. Non mush. Nonush. Yeah.
Yeah. Okay. So again, if it's nonmushial
wine, meaning
uh wine that was not cooked, wine that's
unpasteurized. So we know the is that if
a touches the wine the wine is
traa the only wine that's is wine that
was actually poured
for now there's dissa a go touches wine
that doesn't make the wine user but the
raan and what is called
stam so here you have to understand that
in order for wine to be user the
either has to touch the wine meaning put
he puts his finger in the wine or the
pours the wine or the shakes the
bottle. So the truth of the matter is uh
if it's an unopened bottle for sure
there's no problem and meaning it's in
other words you you have to break a seal
but even if it's an open bottle if the
guy simply touches the bottle and didn't
pour from the bottle uh in many cases
it'll be permitted. Okay. Where you have
a problem is when a pours wine from
the bottle, then you'd have an issue
that not only what he poured is
forbidden, but even what's in the bottle
might be prohibited as well. And what
about when the opens it himself for
for Jews? Uh, opening the bottle,
opening the bottle is not is not per se
a problem really. Opening the bottle is
not a can open a bottle for a Jew
without making the wine stamenum. The
problem is the pouring of the bottle is
going to be the problem. Yeah.
Yeah. So this is a big big makus again
in the Gmorrah itself the Gmorrah only
mentions go touching wine or pouring
wine. He does not mention juice. And yet
we have from the gonim the
hill that says that since equate a
person who desecrates Shabas publicly
with an
oateim so therefore a shabas
far a wine and that's what most
postimposan like however uh in the 19th
century with the advent of the reform
movement we have a very famous respanszm
chuva from the bign Binyan Bignyan is
the oric laner. Some of you might have
seen the commentary oraclair. He was the
rebi of hers. Ravakovinger was a big
guy. Uh people always know him as hers's
rebi but he he was a guttle a guttle in
his own right. And eter introduced the
concept of tino shaishba with respect to
yay in which he said that most Jews who
are not religious today were never
raised to be religious. They were not
rejecting the Torah. They just didn't
know the Torah and therefore they would
not prohibit wine as opposed to the
people you were talking about. They
might prohibit wine. Uh but the typical
reform or secular Jew would not ask for
wine. Now in the United States, many
many many Rabanim follow the binion and
I believe the official policy of Or is
also to follow the bin. So we are pretty
meat maker because a lot of our JLE
people they're not shmer shabas and the
mentors like to bring fancy wine. I mean
normally yeshiva wine is mushul but
mushul is inferior right? So if you're a
connoisseur you're looking for I can't
taste the difference but if you're a
connoisseur you want an mushul. So the
mentors always bring an mushul and it's
passed around and there are non shabas.
So the truth is we're so and the bign
but I will tell you that yashv and and
other postkim were very very machm and
they they they would actually not allow
the wine to be to be drunk. So if you're
asking me personally how you should
follow I would recommend that if you're
having people in your home who are not
shmer shabas either because they're
family or guests uh you should only have
mushel wine. If you can control what
wine you
buy, of course has another he has a on
top of a number one he doesn't
accept. Number two, he holds most mush
wine is called ano mush. That's another
he has a very strict definition of of
mushel that it has to be brought to a
boiling point and you know
pasteurization does not bring it to a
boiling point. So rebel yash is a
double. Even if you have mushel wine,
it's going to be user. But most do not
possibly like rebel yash on that that
nikuda either. Okay. Uh yeah. Um would
be permitted for balani to enter a
cemetery of
uh yeah interesting. Uh well let me ask
you let me ask you a a basic question
first. Uh can a coain enter a cemetery
of goim? I mean your question is
assuming that as a do pashett he could
enter a cemetery of goam that's not so
pett because there is a mahlo in the gar
itself but okay but we do pasin that he
could enter a cemetery of goam uh
because tumas oh being under the same
roof only applies to a Jewish mace and
not a non-Jewish mace so the question is
what is the status of of kim uh there is
no question that a karite is at least a
suffic Jew. Uh in fact, most would say
they're actually 100%ly Jewish even
though they're corim or kofim or
whatever it is. So a cohen could not
enter the cemetery of a car, right? Just
like a cohen could not enter the
cemetery of a shab just because on some
we treat him like a Jew, like a guy,
we're not going to allow it for that. Um
yeah, converts asking this question, are
they still Jewish? I'm sorry. Say again.
If a congress asks me, yeah, this is a
very very important question that the
Jerusalem Post and the Israeli press
distorts all the time. You may have read
you may have read uh in newspaper
articles something like the Rabanut
invalidated 10,000 conversions of
Russian Jews because they stopped
keeping Shabas. And you might get the
impression, and that's maybe how you
formed your impression, that if a ge
stops keeping commandments, they're no
longer Jewish. That is 1,000% incorrect.
Once a non-Jew has properly converted,
they are a Jew. If they stop keeping
Shabas, it is the same as if a Jew stops
keeping Shabas. A Jew who stops keeping
Shabas is Jewish. A g who stops keeping
Shabas is Jewish. Where you have a
problem is this though. In order for the
gayas to be valid, there must have been
an intention at the time of the
conversion to accept mitzvah. So if at
the time the guy converted to Judaism,
he never intended to be observant, then
and only then we can invalidate the
conversion. So there's a big difference
between an insincere convert and a
sincere convert who goes off the derk. A
sincere convert who goes off the derek
is 100% Jewish. An insincere convert who
never meant to accept Shabas is not
Jewish because the conversion is
invalid. Now the question is how do you
know? meaning to say somebody converted
and then I see them a month later not
keeping
Shabas did they have a change of heart
or did they never mean to keep Shabas
that that that's where it's tricky and
that's where a B then needs to
investigate the circumstances but the
general principle is a very very clear
principle okay it's very important you
cannot invalidate a conversion because
the g stopped keeping mitzvah unless
that indicated He never had intention to
keep the mitzvah from the very
beginning. Okay. Uh that's it. Okay.
Take care. Be well. See you.