Purim Unplugged: Moishy Schwartz and the Music of Simcha

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You can win two times in a row. It's not a problem. As long as you're uh comment and you're subscribed, you get a chance to win a quick pay $100 right away. Natural introduction right away. Yeah. So, welcome to another episode of positivity. I'm super excited for this and dreams come true Jake Paul. watch them and it it is busy videos guys. I was just a random kid and I made my dreams come true and that's that's how I feel. I feel humble and I feel like podcast mentioned and join us mentioned here in I never intended to be the number one most watched podcast and the fact is in Zam if you look at the views you look at YouTube they show you how many views each podcast has and I feel very humbled uh by it. Um we have here Moyes Schwarz today which is a singer composer. I think you've composed some of your songs and >> um an entertainer, a guitar guitarist. Um and overall just a a great guy. He now sings solo. He sings as part of productions almost every single night. And I felt like there's nothing more appropriate than bringing up somebody that is I remember certain you are like literally in I don't know like five places in a day you know I've been watching >> five countries in one you did that already five countries >> countries >> it's insane talk to me how let's jump into that how do you do six countries in oneoid because I remember watching your stories once And I remember I remember you were saying how your mamish feels sick, but when you get to the job, the energy comes back. You don't know what happens. Even though you didn't sleep or eat, you're there. Explain to me is fine. Fine. Yeah. So, so I was in in Italy for first days. So, matzah first days. I think it was last year s or the year before. Moza first days I was singing there which was the in Italy. I took a flight out the next morning to I think it was Toronto. >> Okay. >> So, that was two. The next day I was in Miami. The next day I was in Mexico. And from there I ended up in I think it was back in Europe or Israel. I I don't remember what itinerary was exactly but it was basically like I ended up in six countries over Sikas. >> Yeah. >> And [clears throat] and I felt so sick. >> I felt [laughter] I was on the plane. >> Yeah. >> I remember laying down on the plane trying to get comfortable. Another pillow. under my on top of my head. >> I was taking medication. I felt so sick. >> It becomes a cocktail of destruction. >> It was such a bad destruction. I just I felt where am I going? Why am I doing this? I'm going to sound so bad in the evening. >> Yeah. >> But time comes, I land and I had exactly 90 minutes from when I landed in Miami or Atlanta, wherever that was to have to start singing. >> And I land, I go, I take a shower. I start putting on the white shirt, start buttoning down the shirt. >> Yeah. >> I don't know what to call because >> Yeah. I took some medications. You know, there's a lot of controversy in singers taking their predinazone and this and that. Obviously doctor prescribed. Don't try it at home. >> Yeah. >> But even when is doctor prescribed MBD actually I had a very long conversation with him about that. He's the king of Jewish music and he I think he knows more than a lot of other singers. >> Mhm. >> Um and Mal is the one that told me like he like of course he's he's got a prescribed so many times and he took it maybe I don't know two times in his life I like very very few times >> right >> because it's not good for you. >> So I what does it do? Is it for the voice or is it for energy? >> It it it it it reduces the inflammation. M >> so you could come from not being not being able to see >> and suddenly I'm like smooth something >> right >> but you're not healing you're you're kind of just putting a putting a duct tape band-aid that really covers up what's going on >> you mentioned inflammation for the end plums >> welcome to positivity cast podcast >> exactly so this is insane Hey Moi, this is very very interesting what you're telling me is that you can take a medication and that those days but very interesting >> also you can you can only take it to certain extent manage because your body gets your immune system builds up to whatever goes onto your body >> and what did you think what five countries and in and in in five days four days whatever >> so so the end is I've done it many times >> okay >> my it just happened. People People >> they wanted you >> people people look at me like oh you're you're in the US you're in New York sometimes people call me randomly Miami all the time on a random Tuesday Miami in Miami like Miami as if like me asking you you're not in Lakewood. >> Um I get questions like that if I'm if I'm happens to be in Hungary or if I'm in like people because people know I'm always on the move. I'm always traveling. Also, I love traveling, >> right? >> Um, so I travel a lot, not only when it's a crazy intense um sus like I've had many times during the year where just it happened to work out where I had Sunday in Mexico, Monday in London, and Tuesday in in in Japan, >> right? >> And then Thursday my last back to New York. >> Wow. >> And it builds this whole like of this on the story. It looks so good because it looks like a movie, but it's it's just simply it happened to work out that way, >> right? >> I booked a flight from here, I went to there, went to there, and just the week lined up. So, I've done it many times with and I have my own tricks of help to fight jet lag whatever like napping on the flight is good or not. is very good because if people always ask fabulous zing is it's enough I'm paying you a premium to come to England let's say whatever it is why I have to pay you a business class seat and it's not because I'm trying to buy a house with that money I'm not going home with that money >> right >> but if you don't sleep your voice starts scratching >> because it's hidden >> and like so night. I always sleep. I don't sit I don't try to work. I always always always try to sleep. I want to show up wherever I'm going to. I want to show up rested. >> Right. But the quality of that sleep is probably literally high. >> Yeah. The quality is best quality. But is it sleep? Of course it's sleep. >> Yeah. You're resting, >> right? So I'm saying the intense type of I have it every year. It happens here and there through the year these crazy intense weeks and I I'm able to pull through. It it works out. for example, it was just very bad timing. It was also it was the week before that I was singing a lot in in in in New York. So like I have some clients that I'm very close with because I make friends with a lot of people, right? >> And feel part of it. It's not because I feel obligated to drink there. mention that people bring out some weird bottles of really good [laughter] bottles. So I was I was drinking. So it was a build shaky intense trip. When I started the trip, I I I started in Italy, Georgia, Russia. >> Yeah. Right. >> It was a rough trip. I stopped off in in Paris and I was in Paris overnight. It it was a rough trip. So by the time I I ended up in in Tiblisi, my body shing wobbly and I was taking vitamins. So that something like that, I had to take >> medication. Like other than that, I take it once in a few years. I I've took it two times maybe since I started singing. >> Right. Right. >> I really try to avoid it. >> Wow. Now, how does it work with them and I get tired of playing? They always allow you to carry it if because I know if they tell you put it under the plane, the problem is the problem to the policy of the airline. mama wellfed mama. [laughter] Um, >> I'm not trying to talk down on anyone, but it's their authority. This is this is all they have% popcorn%. [laughter] So a policy is different. This is already going back a few years because I used to play guitar like probably the busiest. I was in the top five busiest click band click. So like travels. So at that point is strategically electric guitar friend. So like yeah, but okay. But airlines issues business class. So the flightest Frankfurted United that's really what matters right it But the guitar they let you take. >> So business class airline around check the bags at some point by boarding. So from now on all the bags get checked in the plane is full. >> If you're flying business class, oh sorry you can go. So dimension. >> Okay. >> That's what they're known for. No, this is this is two items. You have a guitar and your carryon. This is two items. No, it's my personal life. No, no, no, no. This is not going on. >> 6:20 a.m. day flight. >> Yeah. >> Deal, right? >> Close case. So happens to be apart from the case, >> right? But the guitar is meaning when they take a guitar and they put it under the plane. Is there a chance this comes out kind of wrong? the the temperature in in the cargo section from the plane temperature controlled guitar is delicate wood >> the the heat the cold can expand once again you know can play with a with a with a with a with the body >> um YouTube >> if they didn't take it off yet and And they ended up taking away the guitars. The plane of the plane window. It's been a while since I saw the video. Right. So to his creative way which was he wrote a song United broke my guitar and that's the highest of YouTube. United broke my guitar YouTube and he got millions of views. >> I assumed a treat ambassador I guess I don't know but since then they p United AO they should have before they should have the opportunity to tell me you can't take it because again they don't go you can't go back from their word have you guys seen the YouTube unit broke my guitar like oh my god I'm not going to mess with this artist no what are you talking about YouTube right now. Tell me if you want to check my guitar after this. >> Wow. Yeah. Wow. [clears throat] >> Right. Insane. Because it's so important for you to have it. So when you went to five countries and five you did most of the times they allow it. They allow you to take >> mo most of the times. Yes. Again in business class it works Europe because airlines for the most part in the airport. You can't you can't take the guitar. So, what am I supposed to do? You have to buy a seat for the guitar. Seat. >> Wow. Which which is pretty expensive. It's a pretty decent price for the flight. So, okay. Let me let me let me buy a seat. Clap clap clap. £480. >> Yeah. Are you serious? That's the price for the seats now. Flight leaves in 45 minutes. Do you want it or not? [clears throat] >> Wow, that's insane. And each guitar people don't is thousands of dollars. An average, right? A guitar that you play on is for sure thousands of dollars. It's not just uh >> I mean, >> is it worth just leaving it behind and buying a $200 $300 guitar where you get to and just going with it? Acoustic guitars can be >> Yes and no. Yes and no. I mean, >> you you ever done that? You ever did that? >> I've done it some. You get lucky sometimes. Sometimes some cheap acoustic guitars was sound probably that's where I got into the industry. Like that was my my exit. pictures still. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> So, it's extra extra. >> Yeah. >> But but uh I lost I lost track. Um >> relax. So you've seen Okay. It's not amazing. >> Now, I'm not saying a great artist. So, it's it's a hit or miss. You know, like I'm okay with travel. I don't enjoy the actual the fly the days. To me, being trapped in the metal tube is not something I prefer, especially if it's a longer flight. So, I'm curious, have you had any stories flights? Did you have any scary stories or you just not a scary cats? Okay. Okay, don't worry. Yeah. [laughter] Wow. Okay. [sighs] So, either way. Okay. Wow. the gap. I'm >> like, um, you know, the plane dip, whatever. >> Yeah. pictures. I hope I mention you've never had that. >> Um Um Yeah. Other than that, >> right? You always post about it. >> Yeah. >> You enjoy these things. You enjoy like last minute. >> That's how I am for the most for the most part a huge a lot of it is is is work related. So is booked in advance but travel especially if it's work related is spontaneous other how soon can you be in the airport. >> Wow. >> I'm like 48 minutes and book the flight often v to the airport. Book the flight. You know what I mean? >> Oh. So you like to book yourself. You don't you use the agent ever >> sometimes. Do complicated trips. Um >> how to book the friends in the industry. Mhm. >> What's the trick to getting the best price for your flights? >> Um airlines overall websites [laughter] overall websites if you guys airlines sorry travel sites if you're watching this sponsor the next episode and we'll plug you. So do websites on the points whatever Airlines reward program, Chase, Amx, Capital One, >> Air Canada, whatever. So, basically airlines upgrades like United status points whatever game if you do it enough how come you fly so much technically mention villainsburg the lakewood people love you here how come you're you als I I guess you probably also travel for fun, not just work. >> My work is fun, so I always travel. >> Okay. Right. >> And when I travel for fun, sometimes I I'm like a picture by the beach. Thank you, Hashem, for a beautiful morning. Oh, you're in Miami. Oh, you're in you're in let's make it tonight. >> No way. >> Yeah. I guess how can you do it whatever? Thank you for that energy. So, so I guess it also trips are tiring, right? >> And be there and my name comes up. >> Right. Okay. How do you do like in general question zingers and simply charge double of what they charge during the year? This basically this makes >> charge >> because it's you charge a lot more. Okay. And how do you go with supply and demand? is um >> because people come and go money comes and goes um you know whether financials family right >> and and at that point >> [laughter] >> album. >> Finally, it's about time. >> Yeah. Probably the less the track was something out of this world. The the message is as mentioned like relax. >> Yeah. You might as well enjoy the ride. >> Wow. I love that. Very very powerful. So you are you being by like three, four different places of the schedule. Nice. No. Oh, >> okay. It's >> probably your biggest hotel room, Georgia. [laughter] Embarrassed. Okay. I have to follow you in Italy. By the way, for the for the brains the rooms remember the green and the moldings in the bathroom marble with gold crystal melted gold. I'm talking gold. >> What's the nicest country in your opinion to visit? As a men, it's visiting to chill somewhere. Okay, give me a vacation spot and give me a nice place to see in your opinion. What's the nicest? >> I think the nicest I think the nicest place is the person or the people you love. >> Nice. Very nice. on then when you have that the vacation kzan in Monroe in Dubai Maldivan anywhere because if you're just trying to chase a nice place you're doomed >> right they say that person stopped going on vacation when he noticed that every time every place he goes he takes himself along and he couldn't stand himself So yeah, um I want to talk to you about the when did you transition Moshi into from sing from guitar to singing because today's days the whole world does it. I'm almost sure that you were the first to be that guitar guy that also sings. Yeah. Or if you want you can give me the history. Yo production zinger mic. But I think you were the first guitar that also sang. Um probably so I jump back and forth technically like harmony. Yes. Yeah. So by now by now alliance and I enjoy it so much. So although although from a business point of view of advisor and mention and friends you cannot be seen on stage then and harmony doesn't it doesn't look good for your image I I thought about it so much like the reason harmony melts my heart on the inside. It's like So decision whatever harmony which is which is a decent full price for yourself right so so automatically it it filters out as probably 50% for mention who I you know okay I'll just I'll just go with someone that charges $1,000 whatever the number I'll just go I'll just go with someone, you know, and it leaves me the room. So, but I'm very busy with with my solo gigs. Um, like extremely busy, right? podcast because I'm only human because the brain no I'm just saying makes sense that so you're saying was the first one is a very close friend of mine or whatever and But eventually it benefited me because I wouldn't get there. woman band because he's amazing. Okay. Emergency last minute. Emergency last minute. had a great wow and I guess yeah because I'm inborg whatever. Um, confirm. No problem. But I always figure things out like philosophy is I want because this is in New York. This is in any country and plots. So there's other busy. So yeah responses harmony. Okay. Cozies and fifths mentioning crowd meatboards could be better [laughter] because it's a very easy thing. Yeah. And it sounds amazing. >> Yeah. Sounds amazing. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Right. So advertisement for anyone harmony harmony. So this is basically probably example So opportunities um um basically again partic is the mistakes. Whatever you start doing guys mistakes and you have to learn the best practice the practice you do on stage >> advances you so much more huge difference back in the days But you know and hold the note a critic a constructive critic. criticism. So when the Zing harmony, you know, um back history, you started off by the 18 and then as a far 18ield. When did you get your first guitar? I got the first guitar. You saw it by others. I guess you call. [laughter] So, how did you get the guitar? >> So, albums [clears throat] Goldman. Um, anyways, guitars So it was calling me more and more at some point and and at first it was like but I was persistent >> shout out for people persistent >> right >> um um um So um five something and cheap baby guitar starter pack. Yeah. Mhm. And uh and I was frustrated. Yeah, if you have nothing to know, you might as well press all at once. >> So, so uh so yeah. So my friend a band. >> Never heard of that. So like jam. Yeah. [laughter] Househop secretly lessons, >> right? >> But at that time you were probably one of the first guitars. I don't know even around at that time. is around the time >> and and and again the thought which is one another thing I was lacking at that time is social skills now anyone anywhere in a feel comfortable anyone. Yeah. >> So what what happened now that you're more comfortable speaking to people? >> Um just you just worked on it. The plane you know when lost lost the fleeing from the cage they oh wow the f can't fle I I forgot I had the greatest time yeshiva and and and and I didn't I didn't remind me of my father gave me a Bose speaker for learning a 100 hours of that episode it's fine a dollar so I can relate to what you were saying but I didn't enjoy learn I didn't enjoy learning I enjoyed the concept of learning I didn't enjoy actually I don't a lot of people message me I'm being very honest I'm being honest I'm being honest. I'm open to say that I it's hard for me like correct exactly what he feels and the perfect painting >> right what's the main difference questions That's what's in your opinion what's the main difference like the difference between a band and a production. Yeah. You remember what's the difference in your opinion? She can't make a band. But at which point, how do you explain the difference now between a band and a which one do you prefer? Which one I prefer is is what's your favorite country? What's your favorite song? What's your favorite? It's different. meaning you can't compare when the host in the in the median Yeah. Food industry food industries. I get the example >> chocolate. Yeah. Yeah, but [laughter] the joke is as a whole as a group. We're 10 15 years later. So, so, so anyway, what's coming in the in the in the outside world existing >> um um in the outside world exists the idea >> of a DJ that's accompanied by an orchestra. Okay, I have a very good friend, Mayor Briskman. >> Mayor Briskman is a is a friend of mine from Israel and there's a >> another friend who's a DJ, >> Mita Amit. >> Yeah. And they have a set that they play together which is Mita um has his DJ set with mayor's a conductor >> genius conductor and he has an orchestra of like 40 50 people. I'm talking about a classical orchestra ton violins um um um horns the drums an entire fullblown orchestra together with a DJ >> and all these drops. Imagine the all the jobs that his bass is done by orchestra >> and it's all horns and and violins and the buildup is made violence. Everything is live but you have the full punch of the DJ. >> So what's the punch of the DJ? Just the beat the >> the beat the whole beat. The whole beat and also all the electronic sounds is still coming from the DJ but sometimes the DJ shares with him. You see the elbow drop is like shared by the horns or it's combined the hornsum um layered with an electronic sound in the back. I didn't open the stems of exactly how they do the orchestration because that's that's the the genius part of it and I'm nowhere near them. But but so my preference I like everything to answer your question before in short how I explain the difference I think the difference really is budget because let's say if you ask me what would you do if you get married tomorrow and you want to have this all the sounds that you want. So I would have let's say my friend Mayor Brisman come with an orchestra of 40 to 50 pieces and have a DJ set set up in the front of the orchestra and I can have it can be the you know Magami could be could do an Israeli set. It could be Mad Do whatever DJ whoever whoever I'm saying on a combination of classical music because you have the whole orchestra there >> right >> but obviously such a thing is extremely costly to have 40 musicians to have DJs is one thing to have the sound and the production to mic up so many things to have the the the backline to have the equipment to for such things takes so much now that comes down to budget you can have a band of let's say someone says okay I want to have a five piece band so if you have a a uh uh uh orchestra. Your band is going to consist of a drums, keyboard, guitar, saxophone, and trumpet. You can take out the trumpet. You can take out the trumpet and put a bass guitar. So, you have saxophone as the solo, right? >> Guitar, take solos here and there. >> Okay. >> But it doesn't sound full. I know DJ woman that carries four bands. >> [laughter] >> Yeah, [laughter] >> but the band is going to sound empty-ish. in a production five piece band keyboard in the keyboard the drums the bass whatever guitar sax trumpet trombone dry horns it's just a lot more it's the sound it's complicated the drum part So to do it right cost me a woman over. I'm saying if you want to do it, do it right. Exactly. >> I like that. I my own wedding I had live. I saw some videos. >> Yeah, [laughter] exactly. Thank you. We had libish and and I had a full brass section, not full, whatever. Three days and a guitar and it was really really nice. And obviously the zingis was amazing that you came. You really made the night. You really surprised me. >> And Lipa was it was really nice. I wanted to ask you how do you feel about so how do you feel about that? How do you feel about conical? What does it do? How does how does it work? One gets solo, one gets harmony. >> Could be either or album. >> It definitely looks pretty like don't get me wrong. I think I think guitar is the coolest of the instruments. >> Yeah, it looks even prettier than the left hand guitars and the right hand guitars like left hand. Yeah. >> Um so album's layers there's usually a few layers of guitars layer acoustic guitars layers electric guitar overd if you pay attention there's certain things coming out So if you have two guitars, you have a good engineer effect and rhythm solo solos harmony which is again my favorite harmonies. >> So we were in the middle of discussing your like history and all. Um now you're in a place where you're already giving out singles. I personally one of my favorite songs you made is the is the very I listened to it randomly two days ago and he invited you >> and he invited me >> and uh and it was it's a beautiful beautiful song. >> Yeah. Yeah. I really love it. And uh so you you do songs and now you're working on an album. So explain to me how why get into albums and then I want if you want to share some of the details who's doing it how is the going I know today you were recording everything so the album. Okay. Okay. Songs and compositions. What's the >> So the album compos YouTube released? >> Yeah. >> Released. And what do I release and what do I not release? Why the album? >> Yeah. >> I think you're just very passionate and you love giving out your creativity and it's just another way of doing it. You did it with guitar, then you did it with starting to sing and now you want to package it in an album mentioned to enjoy >> 100% >> and it boosts your career and it gives something to your fans >> obviously. So obviously it boost it boost the career was was on my tongue and I couldn't articulate it. Yeah. >> Gave to the fans and fans family. Yeah. Projectors vibe connect mention [snorts] any whatever is I just I start singing I just feel whatever they got connect mentioned like we'll feel part of it fans or whatever. But by the way, yeah. So I I like what you said. I I used to feel that way for a long time. I stopped saying fans. I said friends, family. When I when I'm a fan of somebody, I don't want them to take away that fan status. Meaning I ended up becoming literally his best friend and his manager. I was still a Fabrena fan. >> I say no. I mentioned well deserves to end Gavei. Hello sist positivity podcast with my friend Ellie Vber. Yo 246 hold on podcast. >> Nah. Oh okay. Because some topics are like old topics but some of you finish love. Yeah. >> Okay. Bye. By the way because says like push it because sometimes conversations with like therapists otheraches mature topics >> yeah basically in I guess they had a little bit push back because at the end of the day happened to me in the last like half a year completely PG. I was like, you know what? So, okay. So, let let me be very careful with language and with topics. Just keep it. [snorts] >> Exactly. Took a chill by the way. Yeah. What's it about? made the rounds all over then [laughter] the reasonist It came to me. >> As a kid, I respected it very much. And then as I got older, I learned that each for their own boundary. Meaning there was respect boundaries. It's a healthy boundary for me. So I stick to days. Um I can't check it. Could be it went down. Actually, I think a lot of people are going to love this because mention musicians audience of the hotline. You'd be surprised. Shout out to the hotline community. >> Wow. The hotline people of all ages. It's very controversial. And the language that he uses is not the cleanest. So it's not on the on the hotline. The hotline selective hearing podcast in the mitten. Give us a ocean ocean wave in the back. Exactly. [laughter] Yeah. Yeah. [laughter] Exactly. >> Yeah. My favorite part from the episode is of weed. [laughter] [gasps] >> So yeah, you can have a question smoking. >> Oh wow. Um, >> okay. >> Is ne whatever the smokes, whether this is weed, whether this is a vape to smoke again smoke, don't label it as the last smoke. So instead, whenever it is. Yeah. >> I'm stronger than you. >> Smoking lost cigarettes, whatever. I wish traffic. That's it. like okay wow. So the tile kind of implies us. Okay. So whatever you basically is a cold turkey where where there's zero turning back from >> that's amazing >> boundaries. Why? Okay. Why did you quit? >> Um shout out to Gavi. Yeah. >> Wow. Wow. >> Yeah. and uh and and and breath from the smoke and hit and oh my god this >> um but that was not enough whatever but but at that point it was a few years ago But it was been a few years. >> Yeah. >> Whatever. At some point I realized >> Yeah. >> Is a kid the best thing in the world? I see the love you have for your kid. It's making me emotional. Like I I just got married, you know, like >> Yeah. >> Wow. >> Absolutely. >> Yeah. Wow. Um I had one other question. I'm saying I wanted to tell you thank you for sharing this being the smoking because people know you as the artist, the guitarist and this but people don't know about the strengths, the things that you overcame in life to be in this place to be a successful artist to be as busy as you are to be growing as you are. There is so much that you've went through and worked on yourself to be this kind of person to be even the vessel to be able to inspire people. So congratulations on your life on your career. >> I'm not sure I can accept that because there's so much more that I should so far from perfect >> smoking. I >> Yeah. So I can speak for that. Um yeah, hope hopefully one day I'll be able to be a role model. Yeah, I think you are. You seem very like clearheaded and clear-minded. There it was a pleasure to communicate with you. It's always a pleasure to meet you, to talk to you. No, you seem like a very and that's imp and that's something that most people don't know. They see you playing on a stage. They don't know who's Moiwartz in in real when it comes to you know the reality and I can say you're you seem like an amazing person and I know you are an amazing person. So yeah, >> let's go. Let's move to the next topic. I appreciate the compliment. I I can't fully accept it. >> Yeah. But you got to embrace. >> Right. Right. >> My personal therapy that I tell myself and that I do with my best friends is I tell them, "Please do whatever you think is the in your life. Do it and still love yourself." Yeah. >> Don't make it right. I'm not saying make it right. do it and still love yourself. I don't care whichever zaka is. I don't care what it is. If it's it's physical, mental, emotional, toy dig, worldly, do whatever you think is is the wrong thing in your life that you're struggling with and still love yourself. And not then afterwards, if you want, you can work on it. And I'll tell you why. Because you'll it's a lot easier to work on that thing once you see yourself as a winner than to work on something when you see yourself as a loser and as a failure. >> So, first categorize yourself as a winner. as lovable, as needed, as important, as lovable. And then from there, okay, this 100%. I don't need your gig and he just sits there and watches them and he says I feel a [ __ ] guilt guy. So what do you do to when you see a crowd is not with it? Ask the crowd what's your favorite song >> like you ask me what's your favorite vacation place? >> Yeah. Because the answer might be there is no favorite song. Maybe they're just sitting with the wrong people. >> Or could be the right people, they just haven't seen them for so long and they don't want music now. >> Which means not they don't want music, they don't want to sing now. Yeah. >> And I call it feelood music. Feel good music mind. Music was required to feel lower in the volume. Sometimes lower in the volume at some point especially hosting the event. Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Guys, I feel horrible. I'm disturbing your singing with my smoozing. >> I'm smoozing. >> Guys, I feel horrible. I'm disturbing your singing with my smooing. Okay. >> So, [laughter] >> yeah, you got me. Exactly what just happened. [laughter] Listen, the the event cannot be about me, right? All >> [laughter] >> right. Chill. Networking event. They have high stakes. Connections, right? Whatever x amount deal for them. He doesn't care, right? So, you just back off. Feel good music. You can't look at the clock like whatever is suddenly whatever. event. Yeah. And it's that's hard because I'm human after all. And especially since my last break and and and and you know, you know, it's energy. It's it's okay it's about it's about to start dying down okay we're ready and that's the newest thing which is painful probably I don't know you can be two three hours standing whoever >> party planners providing >> because it gives the presence man again. I don't know if you're trying to have this cozy vibe performance, >> but especially in a ho like if you're trying to sit around in a circle circle vibe, dim lights makes a difference. Dim lights, this is huge. Like people start singing like crazy. [laughter] my friend again party but there's the type of man like he's very successful and very busy in his business and he's very wealthy and York so obviously I took the right people that I felt was comfortable party right and there's a there's a trust there he gave me a budget >> probably I don't know >> a big >> man states wow It was it was probably in the range of $150,000 for the event. Um floors [laughter] in the inside. Yeah. in the lights because created artificial atmosphere created intelligence lighting candle lighting candas and in the family but obviously he's immediate family member so he's he's important there and the lights The lights of course of tens of thousands of dollars of of production lights. Yeah. So [laughter] in between again the client and his close people that you know a client cares about like let's say if it's a person's parents >> or sibling the client cares about I have to make sure >> again result of the client is unhappy unhappy Turn on the lights. Yeah. Turn on the lights. Same thing. Whatever the lights. Sure. The lights. Um Yeah, opportunities. He's a great guy. Right. Wow. communicate, right? >> You know, yeah, but also you can be pushover. >> I like it. separated in in comfortable, you know. Um, I was lost. >> Yeah, stepped in right away. you uh you slept your wife out when she's tired every time you want to go out. moment because um the the following period of time discomfort approach of who who are they to ask right do you think people are missing basic social skills sometimes >> [laughter] >> Um, I don't know. Everyone should do them. >> Yeah. Yeah. Oh, breeders, cousins, whatever. That's continuation. you know that I live by is the reality versus the alter the the altered reality reality and and and from there like something something it could be minor or even not necessarily as minor could be something something actually that matters but something happens okay and suddenly from there everything spirals downwards. Your entire day, your entire week, you can spiral for for a while starts going down. Why? Because you walked outside and f and that person looked at you and I looked with like a sour face. Okay. Now, from there, the reality is that you walked outside. Okay? And you start thinking, "Oh my god, Yeah, >> whatever his his guy is. And he starts thinking to himself, "Wow, people hate me so much. I'm so because he goes spiraling from there." How the spiral works, you probably know as well as I do and everyone has their own thing of how the real. So that's the altered reality. The reality is you walked out, you told the guy, "Get Martin, and the guy gave you back a sour get Martin." Maybe he had food poisoning last night. >> Wow. >> Maybe his wife sent him out of the house in the morning with an argument, >> right? >> Zero related to you. But if you let the altered reality take over, then from there the rest of your day, you get into the office, your business meeting doesn't go as well, suddenly bam, a business deal fell through because you weren't present at the meeting, right? >> And it goes on and on and on and on and on. is because things can be could be isolated next. >> Yeah. >> Beautiful car, a beautiful to beautiful. You're healthy. Thank you, Hashem. >> Give gratitude. Be positive. >> I love that. Very nice. Beautiful. Well, uh >> um >> you're late, right? >> Depends up what the question is. [laughter] >> No, you're amazing. I I wanted to talk about these people and and and how uh in in how you see it and how you uh you know, live life. Um because I like these kind of conversations, the conversations we like you said, not to take things personal. I think that's so important and especially in a relationship. I just got married like I learned so many times was I feel a certain way and it's not related to my spouse or my spouse feels a certain way and it's not related to to me as I personal like why it happened it seems very much like you live in a surrender place like >> it's very important to live in surrender and and and the problem is it's very hard to live in a surrender place in the world that we live in. you know, you go out and you see just you see what you like what's going on around you and it's very hard to stay humble even within yourself is to live in as you said this this surrender place and and and and like for example in a relationship in the relationship as you said it got with your spouse with your with your uh with your children someone you live with um um partner You can't you can't take things personally. You can't connect everything because if you start connecting too much, it starts spiraling down and and it's hard to climb out of that. It's very hard to climb out of that. >> You know, I sometimes think I think of it of the relationship that I have with my son. My son could do something to really get me mad. Not whether it's cuz he meant to do something which is okay. And my mama my mom taught me this which is >> for them like they'll do certain things different there's no there's different ages of children between one to three they're in the king exact um comparisons a king like he's pampered you know fed from three to whatever he cries whatever from 6 to 10 he's like a a calf I don't know something like kind I don't know. >> Yeah. >> So, it's not about whether my son would try to get me upset. Even if he does, that's in the nature of children sometimes. >> They they try to push boundaries, by the way. One word, right? They try to push boundaries. >> Thank you. That's that's exactly what it is. >> And by the way, the human I found it for me by nature tries to push boundaries. I also try to push boundaries. or it's not proper you know what I'm saying like I'm saying in simple things right so yeah anyway go ahead so that he tries to push >> bound so I'm I'm saying like when it comes to a relationship for example a spouse uh you look at it I want to look at it like my relationship with my son he pushed pushes my he tests the water tries to push the boundaries start pushing pushing buttons to see what's going to happen right >> I can get mad now I I I'm not a I'm not a person with temper bashm that's not it's not my biggest so I don't take credit for not being like that I'm a calm person okay I don't I don't really yell >> yeah um but I can get mad okay I can I can punish him without yelling I can pun by I can I can punish him right now what happens if he starts talking to me with in sincere voice and he tells me sincerely, Taty, I really didn't want to hurt you. I I I don't like I don't know what like how this happened, why this happened. Like can we go back to what we we were doing before? I really was enjoying this. I really didn't want to hurt you. >> No. >> Do you think after he says that I can still say no, you're punished? You can't. >> Okay. Now with a kid it's very easy to have that type of relationship because ah a kid whatever but if you do the same thing with a spouse and I want to say the same thing even when it comes to Hashem >> right >> okay where you did something and it's it's more tangible to talk about it with a spouse let's say >> because you're both humans >> okay so it's more black and white of what happened there's two people >> testing waters again we're not children children test waters. Adults should have the control of not just testing waters just because why not? You know, you know other the other person has feelings and and and and the whole idea is to be there for two people to wake up every morning and think how can I make this other person's day better. When two people live in that mindset, >> yeah, >> life cannot get better than that. And of course, there'll be fights here and there. A fight that was meant to fight again, right? But like there has to be some things here and thererict some sort of friction because that's that's the electricity. >> Exactly. >> Yeah. But when the friction does happen or when there the the human part comes out like you do test the water or something and you just take the time to to sit and like imagine it's your son not on a baby level but just on that level where like you can just talk from the inner child of you of like honey I I really didn't mean to do that. And again, this has to be sincere because if you're just trying to cover up something that you did, please don't be s be sincere. I mean, sincere sincerity. >> Yeah. >> Sinci. [laughter] Let's get Let's get >> sinceress. >> Sincereness. Let's get sincere in Cincinnati. >> Okay. [laughter] So, I'm saying don't don't fake it, but when it comes from a real place, you give that sincerity with a with a with a with a open heart, like as if you would talk to your child, which means you have zero um um um stigma or ego of like, oh, I'm going to I'm going to get lower now to my my wife, my husband, my whatever. >> Right. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. I I want to say that that parts of this I love how you talk about it because you can see you're a person with experience and I'm thinking to myself that I wish that we can implement this in our school system whatever public school that to to teach people about feelings and emotions and how to be nice and all these things not to take things personal but in a sense unfortunately I feel like these things just come with experience of life which makes sense like why a lot of people a lot of uh girls want to marry a boy that's a little bit older because the boy gets to learn basic life what they didn't teach him in school. >> Yeah. >> So >> I mean this is this is this is actually to me this topic is so much more interesting than music. >> Yeah. >> And we we just started touching on it. It's crazy. Um but again I I think I think this is the I think this is the the key is just look look at your partner like I'm not saying if you have again unfortunately there are evil people out there but most people are not humans are not evil >> so I can't be the person to differentiate and tell you if they someone husband or wife does XYZ then the result their diagnos Nois is whatever and then you should do this. I don't know. I'm just saying we're humans like we do things and and and who doesn't who doesn't sin sin whatever sin might sin is while like I don't know like like I feel bad talking about that because that's gets I'm almost getting an image of someone in my head that I'm thinking of and I'm like, "Okay, [clears throat] I just I don't I don't like to dabble. I don't like to dabble in mud." Like, you can be a you can be a very clean person, but if you start shoveling mud, it's a your shoes start getting dirty and starts coming up your pants and there you go. >> But I'm saying for for the majority of people, if we're we're we're we're not evil people. >> Thinks I'm going to do something bad today. Don't like just just stay there sincere and stay with a with a inner love the childish love of even when something happens they did something and you just look at them like even if they hurt you look at them how come you did it like was is there something like and by the way sometimes it could be something that you did wrong that spiral into them and maybe it was their altered reality humans are complicated you have to be very sensitive >> and wish you to have that compassion to yourself >> also also huge >> when you do something wrong also come to yourself and say hey >> shine a >> huge huge I want to I want to I [laughter] want to I want to give my my last thought on this >> um I used to go to Oman I haven't gone the last few years since the war started and then I started diving for the um >> oh wow >> I was in Oman for 10 years every year >> and I remember was I think the first or second year probably the first year I was ever there and I was in the tent a shiner tent back then was a tent for I don't know 60 people whatever >> okay >> it was like VIP >> and I'll never forget Shulam Arush you ever heard the name >> Arush came uh came to give a few words after the sida and he used to go together with her blazer brody wherever he went I think now they do their own thing is like his his interpreter. So will speak in in Hebrew and Reblazer has a perfect English also very phenomenal story fascinating story. >> So I'll never forget Arsh getting up on the table and he gave a few words and Marsh has so much if there's a person that I'm jealous of is Amina. >> Yeah. so much that he has like he just laughs at life. He just literally he talks and he laughs. He sings just he laughs. Okay. So gets up and he says everything and I'll give you an example. A guy goes to the grocery and his wife gives him a shopping list and he brought everything home. He forgot carrots. Okay. And the carrots is an important part because the carrots gives the main flavor to the chicken soup where that's the garnish on the top. By the way, I by the way I love food. >> Not today. >> Not today. You know that I love food. Yeah. >> Whole different episode for that of garnishing. Let me not get off track. So he forgot the carrots. >> The wife is not happy about it. He forgot the carrots. The main thing I said to the girls got the you got the detergent and the tellers and the fancy sporks that you wanted the carrots. You had to forget. Okay. And little ego in the guy wakes up and starts blinking red. Hey, misses whatever. Chill. And right away there's there's like a like a CVS receipt. Starts printing a long receipt. Immediately with comebacks while she's still talking about the car, he already has a CVS receipt. printing of like but yesterday you now suddenly there's World War II happening. Okay, now maybe it's not that bad. Maybe it's just a little friction. But even friction, who needs friction? Live live in harmony. Okay, >> now he finishes and he says, >> "Guys, you know what's missing in the house? Not carrots. [laughter] If the guy comes home and you look at the bag and you're like, "The carrots are missing. Thank you, Hashem. Hashem made the carrots shouldn't get home." And you start laughing at it together, >> right? >> And then he sees her laughing at that. Then he thinks to himself, you know, yesterday she didn't cook dinner or the cooker dinner overcooked or she didn't talk nicely to me or something. And he starts thinking, "Thank that happened." Like whether it's because you think, "Oh, she had a hard day." or you think it was just meant to be. You leave things out of your control which it goes together with surrender cuz amuna is surrendering, >> right? Acceptance, right? >> Acceptance. Surrendering. >> Yeah. >> And suddenly everyone is happy. >> Yeah. Yeah. Right. >> Um that's it. >> Very nice. Beautiful. >> I love that. >> Yeah. Exactly. But I think I love what you said to be that to others. I think people need to be that to themselves first. When they make a mistake, say sha to yourself. Ask yourself why. Why did I do this? How did I get to this place? Or or don't ask you and just tell yourself it's okay that I got to that place. It's okay that I did this this thing. I think that's really uh what we get down to. >> Moshi, I know you have to run to >> Yeah. This I'm not late. I'm very late. >> Yeah. I have so many things I still want to discuss with you, but thank you so much, guys. Check out Mohi Schwarz on following him on Instagram. Check out his Spotify guitar. Some people some people think my last name is guitar, right? >> Mohi guitar. People actually ask me guitar actually your last name. Like people actually ask that. >> Okay. >> So, >> um yeah. How else can people support you or follow you? >> Spotify. >> You can follow me mainly in major US airports like New York International Airports. >> Quick pay. Quick pay moshi guitargmail.com but put in put in the notes please that this is a a positivity podcast contribution and Ellie and I are going to make a separate pot but actually if anybody comes into moist guitar gmail with positivity podcast in in the thing we're going to make a separate pot to do something music related for for the people whether it's releasing a song and inviting some some winners some other people to enjoy join us to sing or something to give some people some other opportunity I would I would uh >> I appreciate that. >> Yeah, I would I would dedicate it to that. >> Thank you. >> Um um I I mean >> putting out the album is very expensive, but we're not going to do we're not going to do a partnership here on the we're not going to try to >> to co-mingle funding here. >> We can you know >> um but but uh yeah, look out for the album Mr. Sham. I don't know. It might be another few months. Hopefully not hopefully not a year or more, but who knows because I I'm a perfectionist. Everything has to be symmetrical in my brain. And I met the new single coming out was because that's what that's what I was finishing recording this afternoon. >> Okay. Interesting name. No. >> Yeah. I like it. I like I learned this word a very long time ago. Don't you think? >> Yeah. 100%. [laughter] in the track and the producer like I love >> [laughter] >> Yeah. [laughter] Yeah. So [laughter] Anyways, thank you so much for having me. Pleasure. And and hopefully hopefully we do a part two after the album release. >> I'm down. Guys, I always say if there's enough comments and questions, we're going to make a part two in addition to when you comment and are subscribed, you enter a raffle of $100 a week to win $100 QuickBay. No, for real. We've sent we sent it out every week. Last week's winner was that that that was his name, but he got he got $100. So, thank you for supporting. 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