Rabbi Shapiro Project Inspire Toronto Rosh Hashana 2015 5776

firstly I want to begin Bruce de mayo de Astra her of Louis Lita who is not only the Merida astron someone that cloud user all turns to but someone that I also consider to be one of my rebellion and when I have a shyla or just will ask something eight just a moment ago I asked hello ash Isla and so for me to speak in the presence of the Marid Oscar shlita is a very very big puss and I hope I college borrow who will give the Rove and the entire mishpacha the kayak and isn't to continue inspiring all of call you sir oh I know project inspire at one point I think on one of their videos they said describe the weekend without using the word inspire and I don't think anybody did or maybe a lot of people did but it was a challenge so I'm sorry to open up by using the word inspire but it's not easy a few days before Rosh Hashanah to travel to come here I live in South Florida but I could only imagine how difficult it must be to have to come out for an entire evening and I am truly inspired that hundreds i am looking at hundreds of an awesome keshavam an awesome said connie ice that just a few days before Rosh Hashanah tough shinai involve came out and that to me is truly inspirational just the fact that the hundreds came out tonight here in Toronto on behalf of project inspire as all the fliers said to see what could we do for a good judgment on Yom hadn't just from the fact that the hundreds of you came out to rebuy nationalism should grant each and every one of you the notion keshavan the notions of kanye's your families to have a give bench to get benched against unta yard and where you should experience only addition our house from your families and enjoy it together with your families you're coming is truly inspiring I am here because of her blade irons he we've had I can't even imagine how many phone calls back and forth the logistics the planning the flying the car services and all of the details it's a creditor a blade and thank you very much for giving me the chance to be moussaka the Robin and just a throne alcon haviv to just mention before we actually start to speak in the presence of Arc i am sam sandro Khayyam Samson is the international director of project inspire he's sitting somewhere in the audience just trying to blend in and camouflage himself the kind that doesn't happen because as the international director of project inspires someone who's really changing the world helping us realize what our elias's the fact that he's here tonight and that he and project inspire allowed me to be here tonight I have tremendous a car so tight Arabic I am I say a neelam to feel aha be a Rick Shayla Vavi to express how awesome it is to be in your presence all of the Flyers and the information that went out about tonight was how we can properly merit good judgment we're just a few days before Rosh Hashanah I think the words of rabb-ul cilantro to begin tonight jump at us when Reb you stroll cilantro was addressing this question what can you do to be meritorious and judgment rebind a Shell Island we want to have a good guy bench in tow yard rabiosa lanter says and i quote kiha HR haya sido Liz high-speed in the single best piece of advice that eight sir par excellence bar none Leo's ish cherubims rhythm lloyd lee Hyo ish share robbins recently become someone that other people need become someone to whom many people will say rebuy nasha Lila my need him or I need her there indispensable to my existence that's a quote from every strong cilantro key I href he delivered in hee Lee I see Sir Robin threesome light the ticket is to how many people are you indispensable to how many people do they feel I can't get along without that person I need them that says review also lanter is the ticket how to the ezra session approach dia maiden so thinking a great amount about tonight's talk i'd like to take it from the following vantage point we're going to divide the talk into two parts following that which because i'll say sir made our vas a tithe first you got to remove the bad before you could accentuate the good and i'd like to hopefully accomplish this goal to see after the shmaya by taking one word that has the same three letters I in rage phase and in tonight's words giving it three separate meanings so hopefully that will be an easy way for you to remember what we say tonight first the storm a rather than as I say to you and I know that there are three ways to translate I in race phase here's the first sir mera means we have to get rid of a certain problem right after the you may then we approach silk as we take the dollar meanin I once heard in the name of remote cabinet of nitra incredible shine did you ever notice something unique when you take the dollar to mean them three of the four are spoken about in a very very endearing way we speak about the S ring in fact people will spend a fortune and in many cases rightfully so for that ester of the hood our talk about the lulav I remember and I'm certainly not the oldest one in the room when it came to the lulav we used to protect it in a plastic case then that became a hard plastic now there's like a virtual tank to protect your lulav and had awesome people will spend money on adasam as well but why is it that when you go to buy the da word meaning did you ever notice the one who's selling it you will say here's the price and i'll throw in the arava and after a few days when the I robbers had become plant black come back to me I'll give you another one what did the arava do wrong there's the first word of I enrage days are over what did the Arava do wrong the way we talk about the asst radium to love him the Hadassah rightfully so but why does the arava get the short end of the deal remote cabin Aetna nitra tells us because look where the dollar demeaning come from for the most part s Reagan will get from the finest partes in the orchards in eretz yisroel from overseas thousands of miles away who love Him who loved him as well they come in mostly many come from France and many come from different places in Europe the finest Lou lovin Hadassah Maz well will be shipped from overseas some from come China different places in the Orient but all those three I just mentioned they come from thousands of miles away you know where many people get there are rebels from yeah their own backyard many people grow are others in their backyard and they simply cut it says remarkable netley nitro that's the answer to the question the lulav him and the SRA game and the hadassah mar spoken about with all unreferenced because the mystique is there they come from afar but the Arava in my own backyard we tend to take that for granted those who are nearest to us and those who are dearest to us we tend to take for granted and that's why the ear of is in my backyard I'll throw it in and if after three days something happens i'll give you another one because when something comes from far away there's a mystique there's a know there's a reverence but those that are closest to us our spouses are siblings the nearest and dearest we tend to take them for granted you know term or cabinet of nitro says about the arava that's a ginormous mistake you know why because take a look at the gomorian suka when the yom tov is coming to an end in the clay annum circle around them as Barack and the young TIFF is closing what do they circle them as baya with at the end of the day when all is said and done it's not the asst Reagan it's not the loo love him and it's not the Hadassah and Gomorrah says they encircle them is vey out with just er over because at the end of the day all we have the nearest and dearest that are over in our life now no one should go to their spouse or sibling and say how's my are overdoing that's not a good idea Rob I say that's where tonight's topic starts we're looking for that Robin that need us to whom were indispensable look no further than across your kitchen table because sometimes the arava is taken for granted we're with them all the time it's interesting the word fam and familiarity have most of the same letters because with our family we are most familiar that has a Mylo but that has a huge piece our own because sometimes we take them for granted and at the end of the day when the yontiff is over and the mystique and the Hadassah man to love him and that's right we're no longer in your lives you can't depend and count on them you know who you have the Arava so in dealing with sir mera we first have to make sure like rebus also anther said that the Robin that need us our spouse our siblings our parents our children we can't begin tonight by looking any further than our kitchen table is all in order with the erevis in our life those who are nearest and dearest that's question number one because if the answer is no that's where it starts with the Robin is not the robin that's thousands of miles away the Robin starts with my family my father heart of Mordecai Shapiro's at Sal tells us a fabulous way to be successful in these relationships these are other relationships it says in peer ka avacs that one of the miracles in the base HaMikdash was aimed him too foofy miss Donovan revoke him literally that means that when they stood it was very cramped and crowded but when they would bow there was ample room I'm them so Foofa Mustafa Demir volcom my father said it give valdakk of art 101 in a relationship within our offer I'm dim if you're always going to stand your ground rigidly I'm right I'm right and you never capitulate Sifu fem the whole relationship will be miserable crowded and cramped mishta have him if you're willing to bow and bend here the other person's point of view give them the time of day validate them then revoke him the whole relationship will be something of Rev a thing of beauty that's of art take that with you interested the time I see you like that part I am them to foof and when you deal with the Arava those nearest and dearest we can't be so rigid and not hear the other person's point of view and always putting them down it'll be Sifu firm will be miserable mustafa vim valide give them a time of day show them the love revoke him that's the ticket in fact a little while ago I saw in a safer Masuka or gematria that I think is going down in my books as one of the most sensational and delectable ones I ever saw it says in KY rock Rashi says what did Khairat do wrong shall loca absolutely let's add a flood which literally means he took himself off to the side and he separated himself from everyone should he put himself on it one sad one side in other words he didn't get along with the rob him thats ybor I saw the following gematria brought down the proper way to go to any relationship with those our voice those in your life when you approach them there will be disagreements there will be issues there will be different things that come up you have to realize it's not like Clara said there's only one sad my way or no way what you have to realize I have it sad but so do you I have to view everything with this side and that side if you do that the numeric value of the word sad sad adaalat is 94 a wise person does what I just told you they face the ire of and they say you know this is how I feel but I hear your point sad and sad ninety four times two is 188 the Hebrew for the word a wise man is a pki pay roof yes it's 188 you know what makes you a peek ass in a relationship realize there's might side and the other side and I've got a validated as well now here's the thing of beauty I have to do that but so do you I have to view it with its ad here and here and so do you that means i'm bringing in so to speak the power would be calf 188 but you must also be a PK och you're bringing your own 188 what do you get when you bring PKF together 188 times to 376 the word Shalom peace Shin lama 12 men is 376 I hold that's a game a trio step number 12 sir mein RAB strong cilantro says you want to be joy cometh in make sure that people find you to be indispensable don't start by looking outside look inside it's making amends with a sibling or whoever it might be an aunt and uncle a cousin making sure the spouse is being treated properly it all begins by valuing the arava nearest and dearest because at the end of the day when everything else is gone you know who will be there for you that I Rafa and the first thing to do to make sure sir may I that we get rid of this negativity is realized the next time I feel when she calls me when he calls me right away there's an issue one minute I'm going to be a PK f there's my side and there's hurt side together that's be care and if you'll do the same I'll be a big f and you won't be up a calf 188 times to a show them 376 that's the way to have and bring peace to the world it starts with the sewer may round one final note before we speak about the next group that Reb you saw cylinder might be talking about sometimes when we speak negatively of these people and our families or might be another year we're very quick to use a word that's not so nice be Michael me I he's a play fair she's a Claver a clay firm means essentially they denied or no good good were quick to write people off Rob I saw you know what the root of the word clay fair is when nyek was told to cover the tavie the plus success via ferrata you should cover it you know the route etymologically of the word kifer is the hoof arta it's covered over but the beauty is there and so the next time we're very quick to turn to someone in an argument and not to hear their point of view but to stand rigid or even him to prove him I'm right tell yourself really you think they're a kafir clay for us from the word via ferrata the beauty is covered over there are gem there are jewel every it is but sometimes it may be the Huff artha it may be covered over I just saw a week ago a vort in the butt from the bar deterred ever rebel yet Scott benzara Sasha imagine taking this into yomtov in the vahana enum that will say in a few days it says the home I mean him and then the second part of the stanza is I tell you about how native Lara enveloped item I know it's a song but believe it or not before it was a song it was actually part of this fella says hey look at my ditch of it ever louder are you alive try them how tired I make them what I love and listen to a fart we should turn to the reminder chelan let's say rebuy initial eilam had time i made the lara him if you'll just be good to those who are Rather's who seem to be evil and bad you'll c villa toy them they'll really be good we asked to rebuy nationally on how tired i make of Orion look at those that we think are bad give them a little partner so give them Shalom give them ghazan and you'll see the Fanta really their goodness is cover over and those that we think are ryan phillippe they will be and they are intrinsically good we have to emulate the ways of the rib initially on let's stop Ewing people as rayon they're no good they're a kafir you know what titova how native show them a little bit of good this a little bit of light a little bit of love and those that you think are Ryan realtor them they will be oh so good now that we've taken care of the business of sir mera and I will make amends we will make amends before Rosh Hashanah within our offer say something we should have said a while ago fix something we should have done a while ago we'll do it by realizing I and they will be a PK attend i'll bring show'em now that we've taken care of the Arava let's move on to another root of iron rage bays and bring us to the part of after sir mera aceite Eve just to look and to do good the radomski rebus has a vort i believe i said this at the convention a few months ago the one you referred to you're looking to have your treeless answered is that right you know what it says in she Reshiram hashmi nes Kyle a key Kyle a horrid we ask Hashem listen to our voice because we have our if there's that word again I enrage days sweet says they're a dumpster no don't read the word or a as sweet but rather as our Avis our Avis means responsibility the rough spoke extensively about that earlier Chester a dumb scared ever you want your feelers answered here's the key hashmi Eenie escalade do you want to know when I listen to your tree lights keep clay lake or rave if you have a voice of our Avis coleus trawl our Nathan zedbazi there's that word I in rage days again responsibility our Avis we're living through a time where we want our tree lights answered think about what occurred since last Rosh Hashanah it's a different world after the harness massacre I landed in eretz you stroll for my father's yard site and it was a middle of the levaya from kedai some of her nose a winter we're in different parts of Europe there was tremendous anti-semitism people went into their pesach seder thinking of Arab Gabrielle so soon it's a night of he got atoll Abednego speak to your family and he said he saw seven empty chairs the reebok national item says hashmi nes call you late i will listen to your tree lights but here's the catch kiko lake or rave you better have responsibilities coleus Rolla Ravens heh pizzette we don't live in a bubble project inspire headed by reb chaim Samson has redefined the word of our Ravus of responsibility you heard from all of the speaker tonight so eloquently if we would find that one probably side there's so much on the line hash meanie escuela aquí Kalahari and by the way perhaps the best part or at least the part I enjoy most of the vort says heyliger Adamski rather which of the three others taught us this array of us getting along the best it would be yakowa veenu because we know amongst the shot him there was sin and kenna hatred and jealousy and at the end of the day what does it say about to shorten Yahud shifter you stroll everybody got along Yaakov teaches us this getting along better than we learned the most from Yaakov aveeno says the Heyliger radomski read but what's the name of the tequila that I've Rome established what do we call that Fela chakras what do we call the name of the trailer that yet suck established Mincy what do we call the name of the feel of a Yaakov establish and don't answer my room answer arvest Yaakov aveeno is teaching us as we approach Russia shana taschen I involved did you daven three less artists you know there's a checklist that knife I chakras I daven mincha I doubted my rib but did you dive in air this might i humbly add i'm not pass getting in front of the rav shlita but while the game Auryn brother says according to one opinion my rib might be a resource optional i humbly suggest while myra that might be optional Erebus is a hiver it's obligatory now which person has a right on any given day not to Daventry less arvest actually we think about project inspire they're all about real a service we know I doubt in chakra smith & myers but did I dive in erudis there's a world out there waiting for us and the rebind initial item says hashmi Nia's car that i'll listen kk like a rave arvest means you show responsibility one year for another my father often said over a mysa there are a few mice as you'll hear in your life like this one from the capitol 'our ever zoho so you gonna lay no it was in Kippur afternoon the lower east side the Commissioner Sir ever was walking during a break perhaps before mincha or after moseph and he's walking with a guy by the Lower East Side Yom Kippur afternoon he seized as a restaurant and in the front of the restaurant there's a glass window and he sees that there is a Yid who is eating at the in the front of the restaurant in Kippur the Commissioner Sir ever walks in and he goes over to the years and he says and I quote who jumped if reviewed on estimate Appetit eat with a hearty appetite when they walked out the gab I said to the Commissioner Sir ever rebel why he told someone estimate Appetit on Yom Kippur listen to what the rabaa said on Yom Kippur and I mcCluggage the rebuy nishal item judges us either as a murmur la havas or a murmur Latoya vine someone who sinned deliberately and maliciously or someone who Sid 'let's in delta oven giving in to temptation and desire when i walk by the restaurant and I saw him eating deliberately I knew the rebuy nishal island was going to punish him today as a momir allah hafez I wanted to downgrade him I wanted him to only be punished as a less severe moomer lahaa no more Latoya vine so I walked in and I said good jumped it reviewed on s myth Appetit this way when he now eats not deliberately but with a gimmick and a desire he'll be punished as the less severe mamilla toy oven Robles I that's tree loss arvest I have to tell you the truth sometimes when I think of a story I wonder if I would have walked by the restaurant what would I have said and unfortunately I don't think I would have said revered estimate Appetit but maybe after hearing the story and maybe after learning about project inspire maybe I would have because you gotta care of that everyone trio sarvis hashmi eeny escalade akiko life arrived it's all about a cry asst as I said at the convention everybody has to make sure they have our crimes responsibility how do you spell the word are IOUs I love cats ratio drops off every one of those six letters tell you how to have true responsibility Alf is the first letter Aleph means 1 i've got to be responsible and take care of myself the next letter is a hess i love guess is my brother the arava we opened up with you take care of them the next letter of Elias is a race olive juice races out there someone else you take care of the unaffiliated the next letter of elias's are you at a locus race good I thought I tell someone I'm far less low you could follow after me let them send you the real deal either by placing all of the honey bags and the house and the three things on people's doors well let them see you mean it in fact Toronto is launching or has launched their triple play now in baseball a triple play unassisted is a pretty big deal for those who know what that sports term meant but I think that it's meaningless when it comes to Toronto's triple play you know Toronto's triple play is and I believe that was the brainchild of a crime Samson and others it means before you get to shabbos Marshalls left will find invite them to your own for shabbos let them see it like you her the packages on the boxes that are made invite them and inspire them for rosh hashanah that's the first part invite them and inspire them for circus that's the second part so that when it comes to shabbos parshas left with all the shabbos project that is resounding around the world that will be the third that's a triple play rosh hashanah sucsess culminating in the worldwide shabbos project don't be left out of the triple play that's three la sarvis and so the letter Aleph s raised you it means after I follow after me because I'm real what's the next letter I will cuss ratio of alki rob you know I'll follow after this guy I see you the real deal you walk the walk you talk to talk you're sincere a chiro of I'll follow you and what's the last letter tough I love Chris rage you'd've of soft the first letters and out the last letters are tough that's the beginning and end of the olive Bay's olive too tough because you've got to be there for a fellow year beginning to end saying that i'll be there for you because you know you da the next to me in shul we come from same step oh you're part of my milieu you have the same have around that's not called optus that's called cloning truly being there as you heard in the letter that the rub read the person said if somebody would have just showed me cared look for me I was too tough beginning to end so they're not exactly like me they don't have the same background they don't let know the beauty of Shabbos I love took up and that's how cries I love to you I love custom your brother's outfest rage to after everyone else I love cuz race should follow a car I after he on the real deal Alec us ratio of a curve I will uncomfortable with you off too tough beginning to end that's the way to do it I mentioned the story a little while ago to Russia fine steam there was a woman i heard this story from the doctor himself the son of the lady involved she needed to take medicine on pace off for her heart condition so she every year air of pesach would call reb moshe and ask him can i take the medicine and every year era of pesach agnosia would patiently explained to her why she could take the heart medicine why it wasn't comments why he was ok explain it thoroughly and wish her a good yer of adjunctive every year this went on for over 20 years air of pesach and I ever pay socks a pretty busy day probably the busiest day for a Rove exponentially it's probably like they say with the pressure that's just south of the near nuclear explosion in three mile island about 30 years ago and for emotion erith pacer we can't fathom the Sun tells me one year my mother had gotten a bit elderly and she forgot to call romesha two hours before yom tov pay sucks to begin the phone rings in her home and she picks up and the voice on the other end says hello this is myesha feinstein calling I didn't hear from you today to find out about your medicine I was concerned are you ok when I didn't hear from you I was worried are you all right and then he went on to reassure her that she could take the medicine it's not a problem and again Vince turun a good jumped if I beliefs I do we fathom that story I know that if I would come home perhaps I shouldn't say publicly and there's a phone call that I had to make but my wife or somebody will tell me no they called and said you don't need to call them or they forgot to call you that's like a similar that's enjoyable relation error of pesach calls a woman I didn't hear from you today and you're right I was concerned cuz ur my jaan there stood off rias's olive has raised your valve stop after tough beginning to end hashmi me as Kyle a Cocola our aid you have to have a voice of responsibility I just want to say one final thought before we go to the third definition of I enraged bays what does it take to become this person was it take my father once wondered how could it be that the Hebrew for the word to be alive is neshama and the Hebrew for the word to be desolate and void is neshama one could look enough tire of partial power and they'll see many times that word what they're the same letters Nanshan mem hey virtually identical makuu dice neshama means to be alive and neshama means void why should I get up in the morning what's the difference between a Shum under the shin of neshama is a Papa which looks like this under the shin of neshama is a comet's how do you make a come out from about the hepatic is a line across like this so how do you make a come out from ibata you add a little support underneath and when you add a little support you create an Hashanah ask people who have no support ask people who would not know that on pourra me here Megillah and on chanukah you light a menorah and on Pesach you eat matzah and shook as you take that would mean him and what did we just hear about rosh hashanah rosh hashanah in disney world rosh hashanah in hotels all over different european countries when people have no support their life is neshama show a little support and you create a new shamma that's all it takes and I think that's why we heard from a few people tonight and as well in the name of herb Nile I'm Berg's that's all if everybody would find one neshama we'd rewrite history it doesn't take something big and grandiose it doesn't take my entire city and a thousand families and a mountain that's insurmountable the difference between this shamma in this shoma is a little support if everybody would take upon themselves one kid one family one person history would be rewritten tonight everybody has to create a new shoma after all is that not what r abuse role cylinder said her 8 zahida this case by then he Lisa Robbins Rican light to how many are you indispensable and I had the privilege of writing this in an article a few months ago I actually asked these questions which I'll quickly asked to you how do you do on the following checklist to how many people are you truly indispensable how many people can you say depend on you for kisser huh how many people count on you for shabbos and yom tov pseudo and i don't mean when they get called friday afternoon how many people count on you to learn with them and teach them more about Yiddish kite and their children if they are the parent aren't there how many people count on you to help them financially and emotionally to how many people are you a shoulder to cry on a listening ear do you provide a warm smile or a kind word and finally how many people could you honestly say count on you for advice guidance inspiration and compassion that's a checklist and the same way a person goes into young team with the checklist I made this for this meal and that for that meal and I took the suit to the cleaners and the car is filled with gas and I'm ready to go ask yourself the checklist that I just mentioned kiai a tire he died listless by denny Lisa Robbins recently how many people on Russia Sean are gonna say rebind shall I lung please grant her him a good conventional yard I need them I can't live without them who how many people are you indispensable for the advice for the guidance for the physic financially emotionally yomtov shabbos learn with them that's a checklist and that's the second definition arvest and now for the third and final definition perhaps the one that we most associate the ioun rage phase with more than a rougher and more than that concept of coal you Starla Ravens ibas heh it's what I said I'm a few moments ago the high rev now you know how to do this the upshot of everything we've said really everything the relationships with those nearest and dearest those with him in with whom you have been in a fight those unaffiliated it's all the same answer telling how sweet it is I believe I heard in the name of our God Allah Arabic I'm Konietzky zollaria zune twin stars I i believe i heard in his name the following question why is it that America satire we save a higher if not yet we know that the alvarado could also act as beer cos i tire of one didn't say the burka South IRA yet and I have a rapper or avisail if you have inspired there's such a long list lahav in LA high schoolish morale Illinois de la me lish Marvel a phrase maybe ten things long why is that list not in the brough of the high Ravana you know Rick I am said because if you have the higher if nah and it's sweet you have everything if you have a higher of know by definition you have the low noise Allah made lish more velocities only when you don't have it could we please leave here tonight and go into you made in Russian I involve showing them the higher if now there's nothing sweeter it's that triple play i mentioned earlier rosh hashanah suckers and purchase left huh it's getting involved with project inspired you don't mind if hundreds of us come to you and want to get involved tonight i'm sure bombard project inspire more than they were ever given I want to do I want to do tell them that the higher if not could you please leave here tonight showing somebody how sweet it is our family McCullen Reb Moishe Schmeltzer the man I love tell Chicago has told me the following relationships or e many times I simply can't get enough of it the first part of the story is a little bit sad so I apologize but the years and decades ago some welcome decided to make prank phone calls and the pranks were going to be two different pie scheme different gidelim and fabricate silly halacha questions one of these boys it was his turn to call ramesha it pains me to even say this part of the story but fasten your seat belt and listen to the rest had a call read my sure he called about eleven o'clock but Mike had already gone in the rebbetzin said should I wake to Russia Shiva and the boy who was going to play the prank said yes but Mike she came to the phone and said hello he said excuse me I have to wash my hands nity Leslie as i am and make bras he then asked to misha his silly prank shyla reminds peeked up right away that it's a joke and so he says to this buckler where do you learn the book are fearing that he would be in trouble didn't want to answer maybe something's going to happen to me or my Cherie assured him I'm not the nothing will happen don't worry where do you learn he tells him what game are you learning tells him what Dhafir you want doesn't he says let me ask you Akasha on Titus he asks it to the boy on that page asking that cash entices to the boy of course the boy didn't know you want to know the Harith m'a I'll tell you I'll tell you of a high revenue romesha says let's learn the gamarra of course they're my sure without taking the gemara word-for-word gamar and Rashi did you get it let's do it again any better let's do it again I don't know from Elijah taught him word-for-word three times or four times Gomorrah Rashi every single word now let's jus tice us they taunt Isis after he instilled in the buffler the heart of know look how sweet it is he then said now let me ask you the kasha again and he asked it to the boy and the boy said you know it's a good kasia that's an unbelievable ashton relation says here's what I want you to do tomorrow I want you to go to yeshiva and when you learn this silky entice us I want you to ask your readiness kasha the next morning he's in class and he asks the kasha and the Rebbe says that's an unbelievable cashel would you get it from he says from reb moshe feinstein the Rebbe says I need to think about it at the end of the week after thinking about it for those few days he comes back and he gives the buoyant answer the boy says I was so empowered by the sweetness of Tyra I was so empowered by the patients and loving guidance of Renisha that Reb Moishe had the hustla a thousand psychologists might not think of it empower the boy with the question so that the boy can go in and now all of a sudden he says to himself my Rebbe thought about my kasha for almost a week I'm Amish had the power of that kasha the boy turned his life around and yes I will tell you and it's a hundred percent accurate my such a haiku hiya the boy today is no boy he is a harsh of a harsh of a maggot sheer in a very prestigious yeshiva dealer in the tri-state area a prestigious yeshivah in the tri-state area a harsh of a Magid sheer you know why because of a higher if not he tasted the sweetness and he tasted the patients and the guidance of ravisha and it turned his life around you know her voice I cuz I'll tell us all dumb lo amo you loud you know how everybody translates although mal you learned people were created llama what's a good definition tutorial you know how you spell llama llama dyin ma'am llama de you know what lion llama died in mem Mahmoud really stands for Lily ow manaslu la made a boy say we weren't created to live in our own bubble and cocoon Oh Darla all my you live stands for a lil night on the National are made we have to show the beauty there's a shock from the radomski on the port on the in imperio voice in my mother to tell you I Harvey I'll toxic table after hockey the consulate surgery you know everybody translate that in Limoges to tell Harvey if you learned a lot of tail toxic toy blocks of aha don't pay yourself on the back and think you're a gift to the world keyla coklat sorry you were created to learn you know what their dumpster says anytime you have the word tell you tell you this toy your own in llamada to Tyra Harvey if you're privileged to learn a lot of Terra Alta Kazakh Toivo lots maja don't keep all that goodness for yourself don't be selfish I'll toxic tova don't keep the beauty of Yiddish college lahore kila cosmos Arthur you were created to spread it in fact if you rearrange the letters of the word in its art that smells the word see no rice seen Irish is a pipe pipe it into another year tell me something is there a better definition in the world for project inspire than that i'm sure many people will say there is i humbly think that was it emla mad at the tyra hi babe tell me something you know in a few days is rosh hashanah do you know millions don't do you know many think there's nothing wrong with eating onion Kippur what are you talking about going into a somebody going to have foreign truckers manera Megillah what's wrong with bread and pays off I'll talk Isaac toy viva la trava don't keep that goodness and beauty for yourself you were created to spread it and that's the way we begin tonight's talk we're looking for judgment on rosh hashanah says review salsa lantern ki ha aight saw hayashida list glace but then he lets say those words again the single greatest piece of advice to be meritorious in judgment is Lily ice each to Robin three family become indispensable to as many as you can to the arava to those nearest and dearest to people that you need to make amends tonight coleus are our items Eva's air a cry asst I will test ratio of self and what does it take neshama just a little bit of support after we've tackled the i rove and we realized i start with those nearest and dearest then I realize hashmi Nia's kyla akiko lake ra I have to have a voice of responsibility the third definition as when we mentioned the higher if not it's so sweet it's so sweet and the sweetness turns lives around when people will get serious about the triple play of project inspire when people will get serious about the shabbos project that which is used around the world and so many including project inspire help to promote the higher if now show them the sweetness and that's a way to make sure we're indispensable to people I just want to end with one mysa there was a couple that worked for LAIV lakhan the cure of organization in in the northern part of Eretz Israel they had they did fabulous work they had a boy who just turned three in fact what I said this over recently someone who knows the family extremely well added in a very very very sad detail their three year old hood add the upsherin in the morning went to fader and as the day progressed he wasn't feeling well and after he went to lie down and hey there unfortunately the three-year-old was niftar and this couple that worked for LAIV lock him had to now sit Shiva for their three-year-old someone who knows the family very well said in eretz East role they say that in the morning on the way to the upsherin they wrapped their three-year-old in a talus and at night by cooler they also wrapped their three-year-old innit Alice by that they mean many have the custom that in the morning by an upsherin you wrap in at Alice or the eyes don't see anything that's not pure and they're sitting Shiva sometimes people in a Shiva home don't say the brightest things and that was being kind the man who's sitting Shiva for his three year old gets a phone call he comes back and this is what he says I am currently trying to be mckerrod eight boys that don't keep Shabbat one of the eight just called representing the other seven and said to me the rabbi we heard what happened to your three-year-old in his memory I and the other seven eight of us this Shabbat will keep one shabbos this shows for your three-year-old he comes back very moved and he shares this with everybody and someone who did not say something very bright probably meant no harm but still he says to the rabbi the phone call was nice from the 8th boys like is it such a big deal they'll keep this one shabbos and that's it you know who says they're gonna keep shabbos again one shabbos and thinking few shabbos again it's nice but not that last thing or meaningful so one chavez our friend looks at this man and he says I'll answer your question you want to know if it's meaningful that they'll keep on Chavez do you know what my wife and I would do he says to get our three-year-old back for one shabbos do you know what we would do so I could feel him holding my hand again bringing him back from shul shoppers day or for my wife to see that he'd be bouncing on my knee while he sings me rice you know what will you do to get him back for one shabbos you want to know if it's a big deal we would give up everything to have him back for one shabbos and then he turns to the man and says now the rebuy national item is getting eight children for one shabbos eight of his children back for one shot out you still want to know if it's a big deal ask my wife the rebuy national item is getting back eight children for one shabbos that's a big deal and so through the triple play and approaching the shabbos project maybe the rebuy national island will get back hundreds of thousands for one shabbos it's a big deal in fact it's the biggest deal to take into rosh hashanah period let's be zaika this is the month as the rough set of Evelyn ela David ideally but if you spell those letters backwards a la flama de Beauvoir made spell it backwards it's llama de veau of la madolla few know what that spells Lulay you know what Lulay means in English Lulay if only Lulay if only you know who says that people who live with regret if only I would have done that sooner if only I would have called him if only I wouldn't have said that to her if only I would have listened to the speech there are some people who live their entire life Lulay s in nature they live with regret if only I would have done this if only I would have taken it serious don't let this month end as Lulay a month where we regret I didn't some people live their whole life that way as this month comes to an end we better make sure that it's not the month of Lulay but it's the month of ello aniela dye tee with ideally may it be the will of der rebe initial I'll on that because we came together tonight on behalf the project inspire and we will make sure number one the first I enrage phase is the arava I will care for those nearest and dearest the second I enrage phase is Chloe estrela Ravens Evers there I have to show responsibility and the last I enrage phase is a higher if not how sweet it is let's take naps clusen to your my dinner that's a big deal let's take wherever your elantra says the heart you want to be meritorious and judgment Leo's Easter Robbins recently become someone that you are indispensable to people that they will ensure say I need that person and in that sluice that the Robin need us our families need us our neighbors and co-workers need us the unaffiliated need us may it be the will of the robina Shalom that we never experienced Lulay but ello and in that source may the rib initially I'm grant every one of us because we are so indispensable and needed because of the visit we provide to others may we be safer 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