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Project Inspire Convention 2026 - Rabbi Shlomo Farhi - Sunday Keynote Session "It's Not a Project!"
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Okay, ladies and gentlemen, last night
we went back and forth. Should we
give you a taste of Rabbi Schlommo Fari
and then wet your pallets for today or
should we just wait for today? And we
felt that the more we can get of Rabbi
Fari, the better. And so once it was
confirmed that no one's name was Cleal
Ha Fuen,
thank goodness. And once we confirmed
that there wasn't a soul in the room who
wasn't facing challenges with regard to
their children, it was now a
wellestablished boy is not only one of
the most dynamic and soughtafter
speakers in the firm community today
happens also to be a dear friend and
yeshiva mate and it's always great to
see him back at the project inspire
convention. It's one of the things I
look forward to at the convention to
close it out as a rabbi of Ashul. very
very very difficult almost impossible to
get him to come for an entire shabas but
we're lucky enough to have him for many
many years at the project inspire
convention on the Sunday to what we call
close out the weekend what better way
than to reintroduce to you my dear
friend and colleague the rabbi of the
edund J Saffra synagogue in Manhattan
Rabbi Schlommo Fari
It's always tough
when you have to speak right at the end.
Um, and a lot of the people have had to
go home. You know there's a there's a
packed schedule sometimes and as you
know over Shabas Yasi has had to tell
the speakers that they have uh instead
of 10 minutes they have seven minutes
instead of 15 minutes they have eight
minutes. So over the whole Shabas I
davened for a snowstorm.
I said a please don't let Charlie
Harrari come. I want to be the best
speaker at that part of the section.
Don't let Robert don't let Mr. Don be
there. just if it could just be me, that
would be amazing.
10:30 to 12 is an hour and a half. That
should be enough for what I want to say.
And Hashem said, "Fine." And the malam
were like, "But the people are not going
to be there." And Hashem's like, "Shh,
let him get a taste of his own medicine.
You reap what you sow."
And now we all have pastrami for
decades.
Project Inspire putting Clusol back into
everything. They put the ammy back into
pastrami. Unbelievable.
Okay,
let's begin. I want to share with you a
mind-blowing kidush.
Uh Yasi, tell me if I'm wrong. I kind of
feel like the people that hung out for
this, they don't really need to be
inspired.
I have an amazing kadesh on the Hagada
that I wanted to share. Therefore, I'm
not going to talk about Project Inspire
at all. We're just going to do something
else.
But for real, a big
I know that uh nobody knows what's going
to happen. I think uh the meteorologists
I mean I'm not sure if there's a more
boring job than being a meteorologist.
Can we agree on that? Right. You know,
today the barometric pressure is up,
it's down. It's going to be wet, cold,
hot, sunny, windy, and then you're wrong
almost all of the time. I mean, this is
the worst job. So, they sit around in a
bunker somewhere probably having coffee
with construction workers
and they're like, "What could we do to
spice this up? Let's come up with new
names. I know. Let's call it a bomb
cyclone."
What?
We have a bomb cyclone. Is that what's
happening? Okay.
Soon we're going to introduce the sirens
of merit that the bomb cyclone
you know that's what we're experiencing.
So if you're here I appreciate it. Thank
you for bearing with me. But I want to
share with you an amazing kush
something that rocked me to my core. And
when I was learning about it over
Shabbat I thought I must share this with
the unbelievable people that are here
and especially the unbelievable people
that stay until the very end.
Revelash once asked an amazing question.
He said, "We know that the kaleim of the
beta mikdash, they represent different
things.
The aon, as we mentioned last night,
represents Torah."
But what's so interesting about that is
that there's another vessel in the beta
mikdash that also represents Torah.
Which one is that? The minor. Why did
you need two khim to represent the
Torah? Powerful question from Revelash.
Now, for some of you who are
learners, you'll know that there's an
expression that comes up again and again
in Perkavot that you don't find in other
Mishnot.
And that is the dynamic of who
does that mean?
He used to say you don't find in you
don't find in you don't find in
you know you don't see that it just says
so why do we have this different format
when it comes to and explain that when
it came to a rabbi could say something
when it came to a sh in suka rebel could
say something when it came to how many
strings you had to have on your no
problem. Go for it.
But when it came to messages you wanted
to pass on
to all generations, when it came to and
education, it is not enough to say
something. Rather, we required a much
higher level of saying a saying of who?
What does this mean?
Ravakov Kamineski was once asked, "How
did you and the Rebbitson teach your
children how to make properly?" He said,
"We never taught our children how to
make properly. We just made properly
in front of our children and our
children learned how to make properly."
Rabyakov Kamitki was famously addicted
to emit.
So his kids
they learned what it means to be people
oft
spoke it said it illustrated it in a way
that no words ever could.
This idea is
to reel Yash.
Real Yash asked this question. Why the
Aon? Why the minor? And what he says is
so fascinating.
He says that the Aon which sits in the
cordeshim which is alone. It's in a room
that nobody can go and nobody can see.
It is the ultimate level of privacy. And
that represents what has to be learning
Torah in private doing mitzvot quietly.
Nobody sees
that is what a
righteous Jew a Torah learner a benra
is.
But says Rebel Yashifen
Torah also has to be someone whose Torah
is not locked in a room. But like the
minor takes the light of Torah and
shines it for others. So the two
modalities of a one hidden away private
a giving system where nobody sees you
walk up and put in a dollar. Nobody gets
to thank you or pat you on the back. You
get an automated email. Only Microsoft
Outlook is like, "Wow, look at you."
Schlommoari,
your donation has been received. You
should add that. By the way,
my friends,
it's
Revel only wanted to get back to his
gim.
How many did he write? Anyone
have Revel Yasha's books in their house?
Correct. There aren't any
people wrote his he guided an entire
generation.
But he was at
and yet he felt that he needed to do
he needed to bring the people in. He
needed to answer their questions. There
were specific times that anyone could
come with any problem. And he considered
that his obligation.
He told his children and his
grandchildren.
If a Jew learns Torah
but doesn't do
is
what you have. So if you're a
businessman and you don't do your
business will wither and die.
Like the puk says.
So kindness with another builds a
person's olam. If you live in the world
of business, your business world is
built by your if you live in the world
of Torah, your world will wither and die
if you don't do. His grandson said,
"Zadei, I don't see you going to soup
kitchens.
I don't see you going around helping old
ladies across the street.
I don't see you setting up websites like
daily giving.
You talk a big game, but where's your
and re Yash said, I close my gim.
I sit here with the people. I answer ALL
THEIR QUESTIONS. THAT'S my
for Yash. That unbelievable giving act.
The hardest thing in the world for him
to do was to close his gim. I wish all
of us could say the same thing.
But we all could relate to perhaps part
of this idea.
You want whatever it is you do. I don't
know you.
You wanted to have
the only thing that builds whatever
you're building
is
kindness with another.
I want to share with you a fascinating
idea.
When Mosherenu built the Mishkan,
the midrash says, "Fascinating Midash,
when Hashem said to Moshe, build me a
temple,
he started to ask and say
your honor fills the universes, the
galaxies
and the underworlds. It fills
everything.
It's infinite.
And you're telling me you want me to
build you a Mishkan.
But then the Midrash continues. And
listen to what it says.
And Moshe also was looking and seeing in
the future with Niva.
Modash
that Shilom was building a beta mikdash.
It was much bigger than the Mishkan. How
much bigger was the beta mikdash than
the Mishkan? Does anybody know?
We have Ken Spiro here with us. I'm sure
he could uh give us a guided tour of
both the virtual Mishkan and the virtual
beta mikdash.
It was exactly 12 times bigger.
I think that's uh because of the uh the
shivatim. How is it 12 times bigger?
The beta mcdash was 30 by 10 by 10 and
the betam
right was 60 by 20 by 20.
Fascinating. So that's not 12 times if
you do the math, but it was 30 ammote
high.
Whereas the beta, the Mishkan was 10
amote. So the Mishkan had 3,000 cubic
amote and the mikdash had 36,000 cubic
amote.
So there was 12 times the amount of
space for Hashem to be,
SAYS MOSHE. AND I see in the future
is going to say about the house that
Schlommo built, never mind Ruth.
COULD GOD EVER LIVE IN THE EARTH THAT HE
COULD live in my building? That he could
himself into my building?
Mcdash is audio tear the audio tear the
audio tear the audio tear 12 times.
If Schlommo felt that way about his beta
mikdash how could my Mishkan hold you
God?
Hashem answers him says the midrash in
the end
not like you think do I think rather
build a mishkan 20 panels on one side
each one a mile and a half
eight on the west uh eight on either
side east and the west
and I will put myself in that space
that's what Hashem says to Moshe and the
midrash ends and says and Not only that,
not only will I be in 30 by 10,
I'm going to condense my presence
alma in a space of one by one.
My friends, I have two questions.
Question number one, a question posed by
the Tashahar. He asks a brilliant
question. What is Moshe's?
Let me give you an example as to what
this midrash actually sounds like in
real life. I want you to imagine the
biggest thing, physical thing you ever
saw in your life. I don't know if you've
been to Mount Everest, Mount
Kilimanjaro. I don't know if the biggest
thing you ever saw was uh the the the uh
freedom tower or uh a cruise ship,
right? Or a super big gulp from
7-Eleven. Whatever the biggest thing you
ever saw in your life was,
I want you to imagine
someone telling you, "I'm going to put
Mount Everest in this little tiny, you
know, the little thing that the gum
comes in,
right? with the Hebrew letters on it
because the only one that's kosher is
merit Israel, right? It's like express
or something like that. Always.
Someone needs to work on PR in Israel. I
think I kind of feel like you ever
realize that all of the stores have the
same guy,
right? And it's the same guy who sells
you like oer and like life insurance.
Life insurance. Bets
by the way and I always point out that
that guy also has a side job when you
call information.
Same guy
like just diverse as someone else
entered the space.
Anyway,
my friends,
if someone told you fit it into this
little gum container, you're like, I'm
going to fit the Empire State Building
into a gum container.
And your guy says, "Yo, you're totally
right. Here's a plastic bag.
The plastic bag is bigger than the gum
container,
BUT RELATIVE TO THE SIZE OF THE THING
WE'RE talking about, does it make a
difference if it's a tic tac box or if
it's a plastic bag?
MOSHE IS SAYING THAT GOD'S PRESENCE IS
infinite
and it doesn't fit in my Mishkan. And
then he's like, "Oh my gosh." And look
in Schlommo's building,
which is 60 by 20, not 30. Like if
Hashem didn't fit in there, how's he
going to fit in this? That's a question
of what is this? It makes no sense. It's
obviously not an issue of size.
Says the are an answer that will knock
your socks off. He says Moshe was not
saying that's big enough or my thing is
smaller, but if that was because it was
all infinite versus finite. Moshe was
saying
if Schlommo built a beta mikdash that
was bigger that means that as a human
being as Am is we could have built
something bigger.
SO I KNOW HASHEM IS GOING TO BE IN
WHATEVER IT IS THAT I could do if I do
THE MAXIMUM. BUT THIS IS NOT THE MAXIMUM
THAT I or we can do.
SO HOW COULD GOD DWELL IN THIS if there
WAS MORE MAXIMUM THAT could be delivered
by human beings? That's his question.
Are you understanding the import and
impact of that question? Now
Hashem has to dwell in the maximum that
we could do. Hashem says I don't think
like you Moshe. It's true. Humanity
could do more.
But you can do more. Schlommo lives in
Erit Israel. Schlommo lives in a country
where there is no war.
Schlommo could build a beta mcdash that
big. You You're traveling in the desert.
Your Mishkan is portable. It needs to
move from place to place. 42 times they
would move in the desert. It needs to go
everywhere with you.
SO EVEN IF YOU'RE capable of more, but I
don't JUST SEE YOU. I see you in the
situation that you are in.
Your maximum is not defined by your
potential maximum. It's defined by your
actual present maximum.
If you need to move, this is the thing
that you need to build and I will be
there. This is your maximum now given
your current circumstances
needing to move again and again.
The word mishkan which is a different
word than mikdash. Mishkan means to
dwell.
But I believe that there's another
element to the mishkan and why the
temporary portable mishan was called
mishkhan because the word mishkan also
means mashkan. God drew them, moved
them.
God was pulling them from place to
place,
taking them through different things in
their life. The wordbar
says not only that they were in a
desert, but it is betar
42 things. They needed to travel to 42
locations to achieve 42 things in their
life as Jews before they got to
perfection.
And you and I need to have those stops
along the way as well.
So don't ask that rabbi Schlommo Fari.
He speaks, he goes, he does. He could be
marv Jews. He could bring people back.
He could teach people about Judaism. You
know how I know that you can't say
that's what Schlommo DID BECAUSE THAT'S
WHAT HASHEM SAID TO MOSHE. Don't tell me
about what Schlommo did.
Let's talk about what you could do and
what you could do given your life
circumstances right now where you are
between places.
It's hard to have guests over, Rabbi.
I'm in an in between apartment. Hashem
says, "Then that's not what I want from
you.
It's hard for me to sit and talk to
people about Judaism when I myself I'm
hurting. I was hurt by something by a
system by an educational model. It's
hard for me. Hashem says then that's not
what I need.
But give me your maximum
and that will be that must be enough.
And now we come to the last part of the
midrash and it jumps off the page. Now,
Hashem says, "And it's not only that I
will dwell in a Mishkan that Moshe
Rabenu lives in and built with the
Jewish people, but rather even I will
condense myself further to amma alma
a space of one amma by one amma." My
friends, what is he talking about? Theim
say that God was saying, "I will
condense myself to the space the width
of the Aon." That's what the mashim say.
But if anyone was paying attention is
the
No, it's two and a half by one and a
half by one and a half. So what does it
mean that God said I will condense
myself to one by one?
The puk actually tells us that Hashem
says
and I will share myself with you there
and I will speak
The width of it was one and a half. But
Hashem says, "I'm not going to speak to
you from there. I'm going to speak to
you from in between the Kiruim."
You know where Hashem's voice is, where
Hashem's presence is, where Hashem
speaks to us, to this world. When two
Jews are hugging one another,
the kiruim would literally
but the says
they would they were w holding each
other in an embrace.
THE HASHEM'S voice it comes from there
amma alma
one space the space of connection
between Jews.
But maybe there's a deeper understanding
here.
An amma
if it's uh if it's 18 in if it's 2 feet.
But one thing we know for sure what is
an amma from here until here.
That's the size of an amma.
We find that word in the puk where batya
is sitting at the riverbank
and she sent her arm.
You know what it MEANS THAT HASHEM SAYS
I'm going to condense myself to
AMMA ONE ARM ALMA THE OTHER ARM. WHAT
DOES A PERSON DO WITH TWO ARMS? THEY
HUG.
They give. They put in all of their
effort. HASHEM SAYS IN THIS SPACE OF
amma el amma I will always be there.
The Arizal takes it one step further.
The Arizal says that when a poor person
gets saddaka from a rich person
that moment as he stretches out his arm
the arm the long arm is a vav. The five
fingers is a hay. The coin is a yud and
the hand of the ani is another five
fingers yud and then hey and then vav
and then hey that is god's name says the
he brings the
and the act of shalom
is god's name the act of freeze FRAME IT
THAT KODAK MOMENT IS GOD IT'S NOT THAT
GOD appears there it's Not that God
blesses there. It's not that God rewards
there. That is Hashem in this world.
Says the mish when the rich and the poor
meet up.
All of that says Hashem is God is me.
The word rash which means poor in the
common vernacular
in the Talmud's expression the Gimar
uses the word poor to mean not only poor
in money but like the gimar says
be careful for the sons of the poor
because from them will Torah emanate. We
are not talking about people who are on
food stamps. We are not talking about
people who need tuition assistance.
We're talking about people who don't yet
know Hebrew.
We're talking about people who are bal.
We're talking about that guy in the shul
who doesn't really know which way to
hold the sidur.
But he's coming to his Judaism with such
love and attachment and connection that
his kids, they feel the sweetness of
Torah and Judaism.
Perhaps because it was missing for so
long and absence made that heart grow
fonder.
When you have that,
when you make that phone call,
when you do everything you can,
Hashem is instantly there.
That is the moment of
I thought to myself,
that's what it means.
Show me that that's what you could do.
Show me that that's all you could do and
then I will come and bless it to places
and to ways that you could never have
imagined possible.
You think that you can't. You think that
someone else should, but Hashem says you
only you. You don't have the key to
another Jew's heart. You are the key.
Now my friends, I believe that maybe
this is the reason
why it says in the
in every Jewish home that is built.
We leave a space which is one by one
opposite the door. And most of us think
that's to remember the and that's
correct. But what are we remembering?
We're remembering that the alma WHICH
WAS IN THE
WHICH ONLY THE ACCESS TO EVERYONE HAS
ACCESS TO. MY HOME HAS AMMA ALMA RIGHT
AT THE DOOR. THE SECOND I OPEN that
door.
My friends, all it takes is the opening
of a door. All it takes is a smile to a
person. All it takes is an outstretched
hand and a good chabas
or as some of us say, pajamas.
My friends,
I'm going to ask you today to recognize
that Project Inspire is actually a
misnomer.
That should not be the name of this
organization
because really if you think that it is a
project
you already missed the boat.
They're not asking you to become a kiru
professional or to go and get smika.
They're not actually asking you even to
do kiru. I don't even know what that
means but they're not asking you to do
that.
They're asking you to be yourself a
little bit more loudly.
Invite someone for Shabbat. You talk
Torah naturally. You love giving over a
kush to someone in sh as a rabbi. As
soon as you step down, everyone wants to
share a vert with you. And I often want
to tell people I'm already from
this is a great V. Save it. Ziplo go to
that guy that everyone's ignoring.
Share it with him and then come and
share it with me.
Everybody has a favorite vert, a great
idea, an amazing story. These are not
small acts. These are not second best.
These are not I can't do what he's
doing. So, at the very least, I'm going
to do this. Your best is Hashem
revealing himself in that moment. That
smile is ma hari.
It's not a small act. It's a seismic
act. It's a gamecher.
Now, understand this. The Aron can't be
the minor and the minor can't be the
shukan and the shukan can't be the
misbeh. They are different vessels. They
are different functions. But it is one
God and one mission. And Hashem tells
all of us when he asks us to build a
place for him to be in this world. He
says I only want
I don't ask for someone who has a skill.
I don't ask for someone who has
expertise. I ask for someone who has
desire, who has care, who has an open
heart, not the most talented, but the
most willing. Can we be the most
willing?
Now, I know you. You know why I know
you? Not because I know you, but because
I know in a room of this size, with this
amount of people, guaranteed, you're
going to have some of these and some of
those.
Last night I met a husband and wife and
the husband the wife introduced herself
and the husband is standing right behind
silent a little bit quieter and she said
so brilliantly. She said I'm the one
that does the talking.
It was great. I thought that was
awesome. And I looked at the husband.
The husband was like, "Yeah,
fair
correct assessment." And he did not look
upset by that. He was perfectly happy
that she was willing to do the talking.
You know why? Because he was maybe a
little bit more introverted. He's much
happier not having to talk.
We are built differently.
If I have a beta mikdash and I have an
aon in the kesh, what's the holiest
vessel? Aron. And I said to myself, you
know something? I have a fantastic idea.
I have a lot of gold. I mean, not now.
Now it's very expensive, but I have a
lot of gold. And you know what? I'm not
going to go build a I'm going to put a
aron in the keshim. And then I'm going
to put another aron in the kodesh. And
then instead of the minor, I'm going to
put another aron. And then I'm going to
put another aron in the ker instead of
the I'm going to fill the room with a
beta mikdash is not viable. You can't
bring a there. It's impossible. Each
thing was there designed as a part of
the story and you need all of them. Some
people when they walk in, they're the
light of the light up the whole room.
There's never a silent moment with them
in sight. And some people are amazing
listeners.
So the Jew that needs you to talk can
only be serviced by the first person.
And the Jew who only wants to be heard
can only be serviced by the second
person.
Some of you have resources to be able to
donate money and some of you have no
resources, but you have tremendous
wisdom.
People think, "I don't know enough to be
able to teach." But really, you do know
enough cuz you don't need to know
everything in order to inspire somebody.
You just need to know something that
they don't already know.
And I can promise you, you already know
many things that they don't already
know.
So you're looking at this person and
thinking how could I have anything to
share with them. Meanwhile, you don't
realize that this person is not far from
Torah.
Maybe
does not mean people who are far from
Torah because the Torah was imprinted on
every single soul already before they
were born.
Maybe they're not far from Torah.
They're just far from someone who
believed that they could get close.
And suddenly the second you step into
their lives, you unlock the Torah, it's
already there.
There was a woman who told me that she
became completely from and I said,
"Really? What was the turning point for
you?" And she said something that just
knocked my socks off. She said, "There
was this person in the community who
always texted me before Rosh Shana. She
said,"Happy New Year. I hope that you
have a beautiful year. This is the time
of year when you get judged. Maybe put
out some apples and honey on the table."
It meant a lot to her. She cared so much
about this holiday. And after a while,
she said, I thought to myself, if
someone else cares this much about this,
maybe maybe I should also care.
That's not a dasha.
That's not an invite for Shabbat. That's
not a trip to Israel or to Poland.
That's a happy new year message.
And that's all it was.
If Schlomba talks about a certain person
in his circle that the only reason he
became religious is because once he
smiled at that person and the person
remembered the rabbi as a guy who smiled
at him.
Sometimes you could bring a person to
the
just with a smile.
And when I read the story, I started
crying because the word in lashes in
Hebrew for a smile is
if you split that word in half, you have
it's life brought to the
just with a smile.
My friends, there's not one person here
who has an excuse.
Not one person here who can't do enough.
Not one person who was going to be able
to come to Shamayim and say to Hashem,
"Hand on my heart, I used amma alma both
of my hands." As if we did, the problem
would already have been solved.
Yasi described a a young Israeli Jew
that maybe didn't want anything to do
with this, but with one night with us,
all of a sudden he's open. When I lived
in England, I was playing basketball
with a bunch of Israeli guys and I would
have a big uh, you know, a cap that
would come pull down on my head, you
know, like one of those big nanak
yamakas and I would wear shorts and a
t-shirt. I never told them I was a
rabbi. I was coming to play ball. Not
relevant. What am I going to do? Make
them not foul me as much? You know, I'm
a rabbi. I'm delicate,
right? You guys eat well. I eat jell.
Like, you know, I wasn't I wasn't
looking for sympathy. I was looking for
exercise. One day, someone came to the
game. He knew who I was. He's like,
"Hey, Rabbi, pass me." The game stopped.
All these secular Israeli guys from
London stop. Rabbi, where's the rabbi?
They're looking around.
He said, "Him, he's the rabbi." They
were like, "Nah,
I don't know how you prove a rabbi like
when you don't have like I had no papers
with me. I don't What was I going to
do?" Like, you know,
Like what was I gonna do? I don't know
what I was gonna And then I thought of
the perfect way to prove to a bunch of
Israeli secular basketball players that
I must actually be a rabbi. I told them
we've been playing basketball for a year
already. They said, "Yeah." I said,
"Have you ever heard me curse on the
court?"
You must be a rabbi.
Well, now that I was a rabbi and the cat
was out of the bag, I invited them to
come to my house for Shabbat.
And they all did.
And they sat there around the table,
them and their children. And one of them
even brought their mother
cuz they heard that there was free
unlimited food.
And the mother the whole time we're all
having a great time. We're talking about
Israel. I'm singing Israeli songs. I
don't really know that many secular
Israeli songs. Like now there's like a
lot of crossover hits like you know what
I mean? Like now you could sing a now
you could say there's a lot of great
songs from Shaibo that they all know,
right?
You could pull all of that off. But back
then there was like nothing. I'm looking
at the guy. He's looking at me. I'm
looking at the guy. He's looking at me.
I'm like
I did my best.
Shalom. That's all I got. You know, that
was where we over overlapped.
And the whole time the mother or the
grandmother of these kids is sitting
there shaking her head. And I said,
"Saft,
what's the problem?"
And she says,
"I can't believe where I'm sitting."
She says, "I grew up, my son Raz, he
grew up in
in the most anti-religious kibbuts in
the world. We were raised to hate you,
to believe that you were a virus.
We we were taught that you were the
evil, the devil incarnate, that you were
going to destroy the country.
I never would have believed that I'd
find myself at a Shabbat table of a
rabbi.
I said, "No."
She goes, "Saba."
I was like, "I'll take Saba. That's the
best I can get." Okay.
But the answer is I said why do you
think it is that all of a sudden here
you're willing to come?
And she said something so special. She
said in Israel
our identity as Jews is being Israeli.
That's what it means to be Jewish. Our
identity is the land.
Building the land, farming the land.
That's what it is. But but here where
we're not attached to Israel, what are
we? Who are we? So your heart, it longs
for something. It wants something.
So here we are at the Shabbat table.
My friends,
that sentiment shared by a woman and her
children and her grandchildren shared to
hate religion
is something that is everywhere you look
post October 7th.
Because if the Judaism of the Jewish
Israeli was Israel,
then the Judaism of the American Jew was
It was liberal values.
It was progressive ideas.
But then when we were slaughtered,
WHO MARCHED with us? No one.
When we WERE KILLED AND OUR WOMEN were
taken in the most horrific ways,
which women's group or women's rights
group STOOD UP AND CONDEMNED WHAT
HAPPENED? NONE.
SUDDENLY, THE JEW OF AMERICA SAYS, "Thus
bin,
WHAT AM I? WHO AM I?" AND ORGANIZATIONS
LIKE PROJECT Inspire
that only really gather people like you
and ask people like you
and tell people like you, I DON'T HAVE
ACCESS TO the person who's in your
office.
It doesn't matter what Schlommo built.
What are you building?
What are you inviting? How are you
smiling? How are you holding the door?
What word could you say? What story
could you share? What kala could you
bring? Arab Shabbat. My wife made this.
I know that you're Jewish. We're here in
the office. It's tough times.
Kala makes everything better.
Unless you're gluten-free and then I
don't know what to tell you,
my friends.
We have the power.
We have the knowledge.
There is nothing that we are lacking in
this mission. Nothing.
I was smiling last night when someone
was talking about getting tools. You
don't need tools.
Last thing I built, I don't even
remember when I built it. I had a phone.
I pushed the button. A guy came to my
house. He built it. You know what my
tool is? My phone.
You don't need tools.
You just need you.
You are beautiful.
You are wholesome. You are loving. You
are caring. You come from their place.
You understand what it means to be
Jewish. You understand why they feel
disenfranchised and disconnected and
suddenly someone understands him. You
know how powerful that is?
So just go home,
be you and crank the volume up
and you will see that the impact that
you can make is incredible.
I'll end with this.
When I was young, my father asked me to
come with him to go to a certain Shiva
house. I went to the Shiva house with my
father. And at the Shiva house, we're
doing whatever reading we were supposed
to do and they're having some over
there. They're making blessings.
And then the son of the person who
passed away stood up and says, "I would
like to speak."
Okay.
The young man starts to tell a story.
A story where I knew the beginning, but
I didn't know the end.
He stood up and he said, "Many years
ago, when I was a little boy,
the synagogue had announced that there
was going to be a class given by Rabbi
Isaac Farhi on how to conduct a
I thought I'd go." That night, there was
a terrible thunderstorm. It was pouring
buckets, lightning, thunder. I went
through, I came and as I came to the
synagogue,
I saw the rabbi was turning off the
lights. No one had shown up in this
dangerous thunderstorm except for me. I
know this story cuz my father had told
it to me before. He came to give this
class with all of his notes waiting to
see if someone would come so he could
teach them how to lead a seda for their
children or for their grandchildren. And
as he's closing up because no one is
there, the door opens and a little kid
walks in. He's maybe 12 years old. And
my father said, I thought to myself, I
didn't even make this class for this
kid. He's not leading a sad there. This
is not who it's for. You know what? THE
LIGHTS ARE off already. Forget it. I'll
tell him the class is canled. But then I
thought, he came out in the dark. He
came out in the rain. How could I not?
So for an hour and a half, my father
taught a child how to run a sedair.
And the man says at the shiva of his
father.
My father was a good Jew but he didn't
know much. So he didn't know how to run
the sedar. Neither did my cousins or my
uncles but I had the notes from Rabbi
Fari. SO I STOOD UP THAT YEAR and I ran
the sedar for my entire family. And
every year I would pull out those NOTES
AND LEAD THE SEDAR for my entire family.
until this day. And he reaches in his
pocket and he pulls out a few yellowing
pieces of paper. Until this day, he
says, "I read and I lead the seda for my
family and my children." Now, from those
pieces of paper,
last night we heard about how a dollar
of 50 GAVE THE WIFE to Ravnissell that
he would marry and the children that he
would lead. But my friends, what you
don't know is that afterwards I bought
two books from Rabbi Niss.
And I asked him if it would be okay. And
he agreed. And he signed the first copy.
And then he signed the second copy. One
to my daughter Shosana and one to my
daughter Rael. Both of which were his
students in Darbina.
THAT $150 GAVE TO SO MANY people
including to me
the tiniest actions that that you do if
they are amma alma then you will see
that they will carry Hashem's presence
and Hashem's blessing forever and ever.
So I hope that you like me going home
are not only going home with pastrami.
I hope that you're going home with fire
in your veins with an excitement in your
blood knowing thinking what am I going
to do strategizing who am I going to
approach next and the people around you
are going to say what happened to you?
The people in your office are going to
say, "What are you drinking and how can
I get some?" And you'll tell them, "I
spent a Shabbat at Project Inspire." May
Hashem bless us all to do everything
that we could do to bring the back.
Thank you so much for listening.