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Project Inspire Convention 2026 Daniel Gibber - Ascending Through Life’s Inspirational Moments
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So, it's a pleasure to be here at the
Project Inspiration Conference where uh
not only do we uh do we get the ability
to inspire, but most of all, we come
here and we get inspired. An incredible
opportunity. So, just over two decades
ago,
22 years ago,
let me set the scene,
we were in the Max Stern Athletic Center
in Yeshua University.
2,000 screaming fans in a night that I
will never forget.
To use a basketball terminology,
our our point guard stepped up to the
free throw line with 2,000 screaming
fans.
He had practiced this shot thousands of
times.
What was riding on this shot
was our team had not lost a game all
year. You see, I was the basketball
coach at the time at Yeshiva University
High School, MTA,
and I had been the JV coach, the junior
varsity coach for a few years before
that. And every single year, we were
very good. We always made it at least to
our league semi-finals. And every single
year, the same thing happened. We'd come
down to the last minute. We'd be one
game before the championship. And each
and every year, we fell a hair short.
Years of successes and failures and
crying and tears and laughs and ups and
downs culminating in this night. March
18th, 2004, at Yoshi University. Our
point guard steps to the free throw
line. If he makes this shot, we would
conclude an undefeated championship
season. the first time in school history
that had ever been done. If he was going
to miss this shot, well, we would spend
the rest of our lives thinking about how
close we got to our ultimate goal. 2,000
screaming fans. Here I am, the coach. I
can't do anything. I'm sitting at the
edge of the seat, my seat, like every
other fan in the gym.
And upsteps the point guard. He squares
his shoulder to the rim. He bends his
knees.
Everybody's holding their breath. He
releases the shot. It arcs high into the
air and the moment was frozen in time.
We'll come back to that.
Daniel Day Lewis once said,
"I must have wanted to make my mark, but
there was never a defining moment."
I love that quote,
but I think there's something missing
there.
You see,
I believe very strongly that in life,
Hashem Baru places potential defining
moments all around us. The question is,
is our antenna up? Is our ears
listening? Do we take advantage of
life's defining moments?
Let me share a remarkable story. I have
a friend named Adam Meerson. There's a
true story.
Adam Meerson grew up in the far end of
Long Island, not in the five towns, not
in anywhere near an Orthodox Shmer
Toritzos community. And Adam Meerson
knew nothing about his Yiddish kite,
knew nothing about Judaism. Adam Meerson
graduated from college, got a good job,
and as he himself describes,
one day he was sitting in a country club
in a restaurant with a group of friends.
He and his friends were making a good
living. They were making good money. And
he said the conversation turned to who
was buying the latest sports car, who
was buying the latest greatest this and
that.
He said he doesn't know what happened,
but as his friends were talking about
sports cars and money and jobs and
careers, Adam Myerson said his eyes
noticed a banana sitting on the table.
And he doesn't know how this happened,
but he just started analyzing this
banana as his friends were talking about
sports cars and money, etc. And as as
Adam Meyerson described it to me, he
said, "I looked at this banana and I
started analyzing it here. It has this
cover, this peel on the outside and it's
green
and it's talking to me. It's telling me
that it's not yet ripe. It's not yet
ready to be eaten." And on its own,
without anybody telling it anything, a
few days later, it turns yellow. And you
peel back this cover. There's this
delicious fruit on the inside. It's
nutritious. It tastes good. It's good
for you. And he starts analyzing this
self-contained package, this banana.
And Adam said as his friends were
talking about great sports cars and
money and all these different things,
all of a sudden this banana, it dawned
on him,
that banana is brilliant, and there has
to be a creator of that banana. At that
moment he realized, "Holy cow, there's a
God in the world and I am missing the
purpose of everything." Adam Meerson
from one moment of looking at a banana
changed his entire life.
Transformational moments are all around
us. The question is, are we noticing
them? Are we noticing them in a way to
inspire ourselves? And are we noticing
them in a way to inspire our family? Are
we noticing them in the way to inspire
other Jews who are not yet connected?
Let me share a remarkable story and
that's why I printed this out right
here. About a month ago, I was in Israel
and I was reading the Jerusalem Post.
Jerus Jerusalem Post is not known for
its sports section, but I'm a sports
guy. So, I ended up going to the sports
section of the Jerusalem Post. And as
I'm looking through the article, I
noticed something that caught my eye. I
start looking at the article and I
notice Olami Manhattan, a place that I
have the privilege to teach at regularly
to do Jewish outreach to cure is
mentioned prominently in this incredible
article. I would summarize the article,
but it's so impactful. It's so
meaningful. I'd like to just quickly
read the article.
It's it's life-changing. The headline of
the article is for those who are hockey
fans,
Stanley Cup, the Stanley Cup bet that
brought me back to Judaism. National
Hockey League, NHL, Stanley Cup, the
Stanley Cup bet that brought me back to
Judaism. And here I am finding this in
the sports section of the Jerusalem
Post. This article is by Abi Dhan. As I
mentioned, I see the words Olami
Manhattan in here. That's where I teach
at regularly. I see that he's from Boca
Raton, Florida. So I quickly sent a note
to the rabbis from Manhattan. They said,
"Of course we know Avid Dhan. He's our
student here." I reached out to my
brother, Rabbi Yako Gibber from Boca
Raton. Have you ever heard of Avi Dhan?
He ate a Shabas on my house three weeks
ago. And here I am finding his story in
the Jerusalem Post. Listen to this
amazing story. Writes Abi Dhan. This
appeared in the uh Florida Sun Sentinel
reprinted by the Jerusalem Post. I
didn't expect a Stanley Cup run by the
Florida Panthers to push me towards a
bait medish base medish in Jerusalem.
But Judaism, I've learned, doesn't
always knock politely. Sometimes it
shows up wearing hockey skates. I grew
up in Boca Raton, the product of a
relatively short-lived marriage between
my Israeli father, who moved back to
Israel after my parents divorced, and my
American mother. I attended a religious
school from preK through fourth grade,
then switched to public school. After my
mother remarried, our family joined a
reformed community. Shabas dinners
happened here and there, but without
much consistency.
I graduated from the University of
Florida in 2020, right in the middle of
COVID chaos, and soon landed in the
finance world in New York City. While
working in Manhattan, I'd occasionally
stop by Olami events, initially just to
meet people and decompress after work.
But the more I showed up, the more the
learning pulled me in. Those casual
drop-ins quickly became a steady part of
my week. In April 2024, while walking to
a Shabbat dinner with a friend, someone
who had grown up religious drifted and
then came back, I was hit with a blunt
question. quote, "Why don't you try
keeping Shabbat?" My answer was just as
blunt. "I loved sports, and if the
Florida Panthers were playing on a
Friday night, I wasn't missing it." "My
friend didn't let it go. Make a deal
with God," he said. "If the Panthers win
the Stanley Cup, keep Shabbat for an
entire off season. You won't miss any
games, and who knows, you might actually
like it." It sounded almost too
reasonable, so I agreed. Three months
later, the Panthers won the Stanley Cup.
True to my word, I went cold turkey. No
phone, no TV, no games, just Shabbat. To
my surprise, I loved it. When I told my
rabbis about the experience, they
suggested I try a year in yeshiva. A
year felt like a drastic move, so I
countered with something I could commit
to. Five weeks at a at a in your in
Jerusalem. The choice wasn't random. I
had visited a during an Olami Manhattan
trip back in December 2020. And if I was
ever going to try Yeshiva Life, that
felt like the right place. Five weeks
quickly turned into seven. I flew back
to New York briefly in early 2025. Then
when I returned to Jerusalem after
Pesak, this time for real, where I've
been learning ever since. While I was in
Israel, the Panthers made the finals
again. So, I flew back for the games.
They completed the repeat, becoming
back-to-back champions. It felt like a
wink from above, a quiet kiss from
Hashem that only deepened my drive to
keep learning and growing. My time at AH
has been nothing short of unbelievable.
I've been especially involved with a
sparty, led by Rabbi Abigail, and that
community quickly stopped feeling like a
program and started feeling like home. I
built friendships with rabbis and peers
alike that I expect to keep from light
for life. I know that the foundation I'm
laying now will shape the kind of Jewish
life I want to build going forward. Isra
didn't just give me classes. It gave me
a reset. I arrived expecting to sharpen
a few skills and walk out a bit more
knowledgeable. Instead, I found myself
pulled into a rhythm of learning,
thinking, and living that I hadn't even
realized I was craving all along.
This gets emotional sometimes. There's
something powerful about being
surrounded by people who genuinely want
to grow. Not because someone told them
to, but because they've seen enough of
life to know that coasting is a waste.
I've been at a for almost a year, and it
has already reshaped how I think about
my priorities, my community, and the
kind of Jew I want to be. I never
planned on making a bet with God over
hockey, but sometimes growth doesn't
start with certainty. Sometimes it
starts with a risk you're finally
willing to take and a shabas you didn't
expect to love. What an incredible
story. Avi Dhan,
hockey fan, sports fan, never expected
to keep Shabas to become a shower mitzos
over the NHL Stanley Cup playoffs and a
bet he made with a friend. Inspirational
moments are all around. His friend
challenged him to make a bet. His rabbis
challenged him to go to Ashatura. And
over the Florida Panthers winning the
Stanley Cup, Avi Dhan is today fully
Shmer Chabas. Transformational moments
are all around us. They're small,
they're big. The question is, do we pick
up on them? Our antennas up to inspire
ourselves, to inspire our families, and
to share these stories to inspire other
Jews. Let me share a remarkable personal
story,
one that led to a true transformational
moment.
My wife and I often like to go in the
summertimes to a uh health retreat in
the Birksher Mountains.
And this particular place has a lot of
different classes and exercise classes
and tennis classes and whatnot. It's a
place to go bring a book, do some
exercise, get away for a few days in
nature. A few years ago, my wife and I
went and when my wife and I my when my
wife called to speak to the the
scheduling coach to schedule all the
classes for the few days, my wife said,
"Is there one thing in this retreat that
we've never done that you would highly
recommend?" Talk about a story of
Hashkah.
The coach from this wellness retreat
said, "Yes, there's one thing I would
highly recommend. You can't miss it.
It's called a soul journey in our
spiritual wellness department." I don't
know what possessed my wife. She says,
"Okay, it sounds interesting. Sign us
up." As the days were getting closer, my
wife and I were just were discussing.
And I was a little nervous.
Spiritual wellness department, soul
journey, you know, what is this that we
signed up for? Is this something that a
from Jew can do? And as the day before,
my wife said, "Maybe we should cancel
it." I don't know. Something inside of
me said, "No, no, let me go. Let me see
what this is all about." Well, the day
came. We had an appointment at 4:00 in
the spiritual wellness department
and we show up and I was coming from
some exercise classes. I made sure to
put my titus back on after playing
tennis and I walk into the spiritual
wellness department and we're in the
waiting room and all of a sudden this
gentleman walks out. He says it's time
for my appointment. comes out dressed
very well, looks like a psychologist,
you know, round glasses, very
well-dressed, and on his lapel it says
Adam. And he brings me into a room. We
walk into the room, there's two chairs,
a little coffee table, and like a
reclining couch. And we sit down and he
starts to describe this soul journey
that everybody had been talking about.
You can't miss this experience of this
soul journey.
And we start talking back and forth. And
he describes to me what this journey is
going to be. He said, "In a few minutes,
you're going to lie down on this
reclining couch. I'm going to close the
lights. I'm going to play an instrument
to create a little bit of a of a mood."
And he said, "You're going to allow your
soul to journey. Wherever your soul
wants to travel, just let it go and try
to remember the experience." He said to
me, "This experience, and this caught my
my attention." He said, "There's four
foundations in this experience.
He said the foundations are earth, wind,
fire, and water. He said there's no
limits. You can exist. You could fly in
the air. You can exist under the water.
You can breathe. You can ex exist
anywhere. There's no limitations. Just
allow your soul to travel.
And he said, "Do you have any questions
before we start?" And I said, "I just
have one question." I said, "You know,
I'm an Orthodox Jew, but I'm game for
this." I was trying to hint him like,
"Don't try anything funny on me here."
Well, I get in the ca in the uh
reclining couch. He dims the lights. He
starts playing a little bit of a drum to
create this sort of meditative mood and
he starts coaching me early in my
journey and he says to me as the my eyes
are closed and the lights are off, he
says, "Where do you see yourself right
now?" I said, I'm like in the middle of
a middle of a of a forest, you know,
middle of a field. And he starts saying,
"Great, great." You know, exist exist in
the field. And a few minutes later, he
says, "Now, where do you see yourself?
allow your soul to journey. And you
know, I I think in the beginning I might
have been playing along with him a
little bit. And I said to him, I I'm
kind of traveling along along a stone
wall along. He says, "Okay, go go go.
And now where do you see yourself?" I
said, "I now see myself standing at a
big gate." He says, "Good. Go through
the gate. Go through the gate." And I in
my mind I went through the gate. He
says, "Okay." He whispers to me, "I'm
going to leave your journey. I'll see
you on the other side. Just allow your
allow your soul to go." And you know,
literally I think Hashem was putting
this all in my mind. But I literally
started picturing my nishama traveling
and um eventually after about 20
minutes, he turns the lights on. He
says, "Okay, the journey's over. Come
sit on come sit on the chair and let's
review your soul journey." He says to
me, "Do you remember where you went
during your journey?" I said, "Yeah." He
says, "Did you did you see people? Did
you meet people?" I said, "Yeah, I met
people." He said, "Did did they tell you
anything? Do you remember what they
said?" head. I said, "Yeah, I remember
the whole thing." He's getting so
excited cuz he's a world-renowned
spiritual journey guru. He he's written
50 books. He has students all over the
world. And he's so excited, his soul
journey, like I met people. I'm about to
tell him what I heard. And he says, "And
what did they tell you?"
He says, "So, who did you meet?" So, I
said to him, and he's taking notes. I
said, "Well, I met many, many relatives.
I traveled back to preWorld War II
Eastern Europe." He says, "Wow, wow. And
did you meet people there?" I said,
"Yeah." And he said, "Who'd you meet?" I
said, "Well, I met many former relatives
who are no longer alive who died in the
Holocaust." He says, "Wow." And he
started taking notes. "And who else did
you meet?" I said, "I met many, many
famous rabbis who who perished in the
Holocaust." I was thinking to myself,
"The Sas, you know, many Gdolean from
Eastern Europe." He says, "Wow." And did
these did these relatives and these
famous rabbis tell you anything along
the soul journey? I said, 'Yeah, they
did.' He said, 'What'd they tell you?' I
said, 'They told me what my life's
purpose is going forward.' He said,
'Wow, on the on the soul journey, you
learned your life purpose. He's writing
it down. I said, yeah. He says, what did
they tell you? What's your life's
purpose? I said, well, I said, Dr. Adam,
aside from my family and my business,
what they told me in this journey was,
my life journey is I'm supposed to
travel the world in search of Jews who
are not yet connected to their Judaism.
I'm supposed to help them reconnect. And
Adam literally dropped his pen on the
floor. He was startled. This
world-renowned guru looked like he just
saw a ghost.
And we continued talking for a few
minutes, reviewing my soul journey. At
the very end, I said, "Adam, can I ask
you two questions?" He says, "Sure." I
said, "You don't need to answer them." I
said, "How did you get into this field,
this soul journey, becoming a doctor of
the soul journey?" And he gave me a
whole whole story, all the hashka pus
that went into it. I said, "Adam, I have
one last question for you." I looked
into his eyes. I'm sure you know what
the question is. I said, "Adam, are you
Jewish?" And he looked at me silence for
about 20 seconds. He said, "Yes, Daniel,
I am Jewish." I said, "Adam, can I share
one last thing with you?" I said, "You
started by telling me this soul journey
is based on the principles of earth,
wind, fire, and water.
These are the four foundational things
that comes from Judaism, comes from
Yiddish kite, comes from Cabala. And I
explained that to him. I said, "Adam, do
you know where this all comes from? It
all comes from Judaism."
What I want to tell you is the
following.
There was a moment of silence that was
one of the most powerful moments of
silence I've ever ever experienced. I
was meant to be in that room with this
guy that day. I was meant to experience
his soul journey. But I could tell you
one thing without saying a word I saw in
his eyes this worldrenowned guru his
entire world his entire emis collapsed
when he realize it's all based on
Yiddishkite it's all comes from Judaism
it all comes from the Torah
and all I can tell you is at that moment
my spiritual journey continued his only
just started transformational moments
are all around us the question is Are
our antennas up and are we paying
attention?
One of history's greatest thinkers and
writers was Frederick the Great.
Frederick the Great was once in a heated
debate with his Lutheran pastor about
the existence of God. And Frederick the
Great, who was brilliant, kept asking
the Lutheran pastor to give him proofs
that God has to exist. And each time the
Lutheran pastor gave him a different
proof, he was able to quickly debunk it.
Finally, he turned to his Lutheran
pastor. He said, "Can't you give me one
proof of God that I can't I can't knock
down?" The pastor thought and thought
for a moment, and he finally turned and
said, "I'll give you one proof of God
that you cannot you cannot disprove." He
said, "Two words, the Jews. The
existence of the Jews is the greatest
proof of God. Frederick the Great looked
at his Lutheran pastor. He said that I
cannot I cannot debate. The existence of
the Jews is the greatest proof of God.
I travel often and have the opportunity
to speak in Jewish outreach. A number of
months ago, I was in Orsame in
Jerusalem. I met a young man named Nick
who had a remarkable story.
You see, Nick is a Jew from the south,
from the United States, who grew up
without any knowledge of his Judaism
whatsoever. Nick was very interested in
becoming an Air Force pilot. So, when
the time came, he enrolled in the Air
Force Academy. And one day, and Nick
told me the story personally, one day
Nick was in a lecture and his professor,
the world's greatest expert in airfare,
in warfare, was giving a lecture about
the history of all the different major
conflicts and major wars. At the end of
the lecture, Nick went over to his
professor. He said, "Professor, you
spoke about every major conflict, every
major military operation. you failed to
talk about the 1967 six- day war. And
his professor, not Jewish, turned to him
and said, 'Nick, you have to understand
something. We don't teach and speak
about things for which there is no
military explanation. He said, "The
Six-Day War
is the greatest example of a complete
divine act. There's no explanation for
what Israel did in the in the Six-Day
War."
Fast forward today. Not only is Nick in
the Air Force, but here's where Nick is.
He's now learning in Orsame, he just
moved on to another yeshiva and Nick is
now that moment transformed him
completely. He's now a full bala shar
shabas. He keeps Torah mitzos and Nick
is now waiting to be drafted into the
Israeli Air Force. There are moments all
around us that can completely transform
us. The question is, is our eyes open
and are we listening?
Let me share a personal story.
I grew up in a Orthodox Toro Mitzos
background, Orthodox family, went to
yeshiva, went to college, university,
learned, got married, and over the years
I would say there was a time that I
started to drift a little in RNA. wasn't
always attending minion during the week
like I would have liked there was a
number number of years where I wasn't
learning much
until something happened that changed my
life my own personal transformational
moment
was going through a time where there was
some nothing major thank god but some
some challenges some minor things going
on challenges in business or whatnot and
I attended the 2012 sashas
the celebration of the completion of the
dafomi cycle 7 and a half years now.
Just to be clear, I was not learning
dafomi at the time. I was not learning
much of anything at the time. But my
father, who's a tremendous based, always
liked to go to the sea of Ashas and I
attended with my father. August 2012, I
believe it was August 1st, 2012, is the
night that my life changed. You see,
there were a lot of speakers that night.
I don't speak Yiddish. I couldn't
understand a lot of them. Rabus Fran
from Narrell got up to give a speech
that changed my life. And my friend was
talking about how the Gumarra the Talmud
speaks about a bos heavenly voice that
is always lurking in our mind asking
what are we doing to have more of a kesh
or more of a connection to God
and Rabbi France said you know in life
if something has value we have to have a
plan and how to succeed if we want to
just buy a slice of pizza we don't need
a plan we could just do it but if we're
building a house we need a blueprint if
we're starting a a business we need a
business plan. So he said, "If we're
finally once in our life going to answer
this boss call, how what are we going to
do to have more of a connection with
God, with Hashem? We need to have a plan
very dramatically in front of 90,000
people where my friend screamed out
tomorrow morning daf and braos dafyomi."
And then he turned to the 90,000 people
and he said, "And if you can't do
dafyomi, something that might be about
an hour of a commitment," he said, 'Then
learny,
something that takes about half that
time. If you can't learn um
he said, "Then learn Mishna brewer a
day, something that takes maybe 15
minutes a day." He said, "If you can't
do a Mishna brewer a day, learn a Mishna
a day, something that takes maybe two
minutes a day." And then the line that
changed my life, he said, "But something
a day." And all of a sudden it hit me.
What relationship is going to succeed if
there's no effort? I do nothing a day. I
don't put any effort into it. How am I
going to feel connected to God if I'm
not putting the effort in? And that led
me on a journey. I said, "That's it.
Tomorrow morning, I'm starting Brahos."
And I finally managed for the first time
in my life to get through Brahos. Made
to see him. Started my dafomi. my daffio
process.
And then a number of months went by. I
was a little inconsistent. Some days
yes, some days no. Eventually a number
of months later, I spoke to my uncle,
Rabbi Aaron Gibber from Baltimore, big
to big lawyer. He had been giving
daffomi for many years. I don't know
why. If I really wanted to stop, I think
he'd be the last person in my family I'd
go to. But I went to him and I said, you
know, I don't think it's for me. I'm
going to stop. He said, no, you can't
stop. You made a commitment, but the
difference is you need to go to a shear.
You need to pick a shear. Make that part
of your day. And I'll never forget this
because in those years I was coaching
basketball at night. I was traveling for
business. I can't really do this at
night. I decide I'm going to pick the
earliest shear in my town. 5:30 in the
morning and I'm going to go to that
dafomi shear. True story. Two weeks
later, my wife turned to me and she
said, "You know, you don't stop talking
about this 5:30 shear, but it's two
weeks into it and you haven't gone yet."
So she said, "Your choice is either you
go tomorrow morning or don't ever talk
about it again." Rabbi France speech the
comment from my wife changed my life I
went the next morning became another
morning now I'm already there I stay for
shakras minion I start seeing my friends
who god forbid are saying kadesh and I
think why don't I have to wait someday
to say kadesh start going to mka start
going to marav connected to this rabbi
this year that year my life completely
changed one moment of one word rabbi
France said transformational moment can
literally change a
I want to share one or two last stories
before we wrap up.
Incredible story of Aam Ber.
Many people might have heard this story.
Aam Ber was a hostage in Gaza for
several months.
I don't know what her connection to
Yiddishkite was to Judaism before the
October 7th tragedy. I suspect it wasn't
extremely strong.
When Aam Burgerer came out of Gaza when
she was when she was came out in one of
the hostage deals, she gave many
interviews, Wall Street Journal, many
other publications. She told the
following story. Aamburger said,
"The winds of Amuna caught her sales in
Gaza.
You know, they didn't have a calendar,
but they believed they knew when Rashana
was. And after Rashashana in the
dungeons beneath Gaza, her and her
fellow hostages counted the days in
their mind until Yum Kipper. And the day
they believed was Yum Kipper that
morning, ironically, the kamas monsters
brought them the nicest meal they had
been given all year. That morning, they
turned to him, explained, "We're fasting
today. It's Joan Kipper. We're not going
to eat. Kamasnik took the meal away
later that evening at 7:00.
They brought the meal back to them, but
Aam Burger and her fellow hostages
believe the fast is not over for another
hour. Can you imagine? They waited
another hour to eat.
When Aam Burgerer was eventually taken
out of Gaza,
what the IDF would do is they would give
you a whiteboard in the helicopter and
ask you to write a message to Claus, a
message to the Jewish people. True
story. I have the picture,
a gamberger in the helicopter with her
parents on either side. And here's what
she wrote on the whiteboard.
Beder amuna barti. It is with the path
of amuna that I chose. That's from
Tahillim.
But this part isn't
amuna shaft. And it is with the path of
ammuna that I'm now returning. What an
incredible message. What a
transformational moment. Not just for
Aam Ber, certainly for me and for all of
Claudia Straw. A gam ber in the greatest
depths beneath Gaza found her amuna
found a kales barak
ammuna bakarti
amuna shafti
I want to end with a story
it's a story about somebody I know
you see there was once an incredible
painter an incredible artist he had a
great life he loved his wife he loved
his children. But there was something
missing. He felt something missing, a
hole in his life. And one day, he left a
note on the kitchen counter for his wife
and his kids. He said, "I love you very
much. I'm coming home. Please forgive
me. I need to travel for a little while.
I'm in search of the perfect
masterpiece, but I'll be back soon, and
I love the family." The next day, he
leaves. He sets out on a journey. He's
traveling in the countryside. Eventually
gets tired. He sits down at the side of
the road next to a forest. He looked
into the forest. He saw a beautiful
koopa, a beautiful Jewish wedding. The
most amazing scene, the perfect scene of
a hava, of love. He never saw this type
of love before. He took out his canvas
from his bag. He's a painter. He's in
search of the perfect masterpiece. He
said, "This is the perfect scene of
Ahava." He paints this unbelievable
scene. He paints this picture of a
Jewish hoopa. He puts the canvas back in
his bag and my friend continued
traveling. A few days later, he
encountered encountered an old yid, an
old Jew, numbers on his arm from the
Holocaust. He's wearing talis fillin,
wrinkled face. He was dominating with
the most beautiful ammuna. He says, I've
never This is the perfect picture of
Amuna. He takes out another canvas. He
paints this gorgeous scene of this old
yid with the numbers talis and fillin
davening perfect scene of ammuna. He now
has this perfect ahava perfect amuna.
Couple days go by. He realizes Shabas is
coming. It's Friday morning. It's time
for him to go home. He heads back
towards his town. And as he approaches
his town, he sees an interesting scene.
He sees a lot of these soldiers all
together celebrating, hanging out. He
says, "What's going on?" They told him
there's been a peace treaty. He says, "I
I didn't know. It must have been
traveling for a while. Yeah, there's a
peace tree. He says, "You know what?
It's almost Shabas, but this is the
perfect scene of Shalom. I've never seen
this image of Shalom before." He takes
out his last canvas and he paints this
beautiful scene of Shalom of these
soldiers celebrating. He puts it in his
bag. He starts running home. He gets to
his home moments before candle lighting.
He looks through the window. He sees his
wife lighting shabas candles. He sees
his kids. His wife pulls out all these
love letters that he had written to the
family. I love you. I promise I'm coming
home. Have faith. Have a
with a tear coming down his eye. As he
sees this serene scene of candle
lighting and his wife and his family,
he drops his bag of his perfect Ahava,
his perfect amuna, his perfect shalom.
And with tears streaming down his eyes,
he walks back into his house to return
to his life, realizing he had been
search of something he traveled the
world looking for. He had it in his own
home the whole time. And this, ladies
and gentlemen, is a story of our Yiddish
kite. I'll speak for myself. I told you
I know the person in the story because
this is my story and it might be your
story. Now, to be clear, I'm not a
painter and I'm not an artist. But what
I would say is I've spent way too many
years and way too much time traveling
the world in search of something that I
had inside me inside my own Yiddish kite
the whole time. And this is a story I
share so often with Kier of audiences
who have everything. They might be
making money. They might be doing well,
but I always say you can't fill
spiritual holes with physical things. We
travel the world in search of what we're
missing for. Little do we realize we
have it in our own home the whole time.
Before I conclude, let me return to
where I started. March 18th, 2004, if
you remember, 2,000 fans in the Asha
University gym, championship night.
What's riding on the line? One shot by
our point guard. He had practiced this
thousands of times.
We were moments away from a
lifede-defining moment. If he makes this
shot, we break the records. Undefeated
championship season. Had never been done
in our school history. For high school
boys, that's all that matters in life.
If you were to miss this shot, we would
spend a lifetime knowing how close we
got. And we missed out.
Well, the ball continued towards the
basket. The fans were going crazy.
And as a saying goes, nothing but net.
The ball went in. Complete pandemonium.
Undefeated championship season. But
there's something I learned that night
that I've carried with me for 22 years.
And that's why I'm telling the story
now.
You see, in the end, after all the years
of failing and getting back up and
laughing and crying and success and
failure,
I finally realized it was never about
the championship. It was never about the
trophy. It was never about standing on
the mountaintop. And it wasn't even
about being called champions.
You see, in our greatest moment of
glory, I realized that in a life
well-lived
and in a path well traveled,
the journey itself is the reward. You
see, life is full of potential
transformational moments. Adam Meerson
sitting in a country club knew nothing
about Yiddish kite. His friends are
talking about sports cars and money. One
simple banana brought him back to a
kadesh baru.
The soul journey that I had with the
world's greatest guru in soul journeys.
He had written 60 books, thousands of
students around the world. In one
moment,
his whole MS collapsed and he realized
it's really all from Judaism. It's
really all from the Torah. Avi Dhan
never expected to keep Shabas. never
thought he'd become an Orthodox Jew. He
made a bet with God over the Stanley
Cup.
That led him to Asia. Today, he's a full
Shmer Chabas. And he writes about his
story.
Nick, who I met who attended the Air
Force Academy, whose dream was to become
a US Air Force pilot, a non-Jewish
general who told him the 1967 war was
impossible. It's all divine. It's all
divine intervention. There's no military
explanation. Today, Nick is in Israel.
He's a Baltua and he's waiting to be
drafted into the Israeli Air Force. A
gam ber in the dungeons below Gaza. She
found a kadesh bari
amuna shavei.
My friend the painter traveling life in
search of the perfect masterpiece,
realizing he had it in his own home the
whole time.
and my experience in front of 2,000
people in Shiva University championship
night shot goes in we thought we
accomplished our dream only to realize
in your greatest moment you realize it's
the journey itself it's a lifetime of
finding transformational moments of
failing of getting back up of getting
knocked down and climbing again and
looking for those moments we can
literally change our own lives we can
change our family's lives we could
change Claudius's lives those moment
moments are all around us as long as our
antenna is open. Thank you very much.