Preparing For Yamim Noraim - Rabbi Daniel Glatstein

welcome everyone to tonight's year from her of Daniel Gladstone I'd like to give us a character to the sponsor of tonight's Year Mr shlomi Berger the nishma survivorberg to get the great exclusive sponsoring the remaining sheer or put an ad in the dinner journal and I don't know of the occasion of Eagan Security's annual dinner this Wednesday it's the last call for the ads tonight and tomorrow morning call 718-851-8651 or email IST yeshivanet.com or give it into one of the master this year it's a perfect opportunity to honor one of the magita sheer shum we've organized or ishmaas worldwide throughout the year foreign speak on Anita deity Lee preparing for Yemen Rose by covered the corn of Daniel glasstein Rob gilas first of tonight's View [Music] Ed ideally is probably the most well-known remix to hello there are many Ramos Intel as we're going to see this being the most well known already bring the remnants this is already found in the reshinem in fact abujahan points out the soifi table is 40 the 40 days the 40 days commemorating went up to harsinai the second time foreign it's very interesting the three bunch of them has many names the evanchoom has Shava shamasakai rarely is Hashem called deity when do we ever refer to Hashem as anybody know how many times is Hashem called never never this is a rare phrase we adopted on Shabbos but it's not found commonly in Tanakh And yet when it comes to eloh we adopt the phrase why do we adopt the phrase when it comes to Allah so just by way of introduction I want to start off with alumdus I want to share with you gamara and Yuma it's a frightening gamara most people think okay it comes uh hello nothing stands in the way of chuva we know all the stories about people who sin their whole life hey they did chuva and they wiped it free so we come to ELO we come to our show with a lot of confidence you know we're just gonna do chuva and it's all gonna be good but actually if we learned of the gemara Tells ushmal actually chuva is not that effective doesn't work as well as you think it works the gemara says if somebody violates an assay for an assay so let's say person misses this man kriya Shema no problem you do chuva is immediately okay very good but what if somebody violated a love somebody wore a shotness someone spoke lushinhara says chuba doesn't work somebody violated a crisis chuva doesn't work with Yom Kippur videos Hashem it's a very frightening gemara the gamara says chuva is not as powerful as you think that's the gemara in Yuma and that's how we pass again writes the same he says the same that this gemara is talking about chuva Mira see if you do chuba Mira the dino is nasus like you get downgraded so let's say you know you're speeding you're going 80 miles an hour in a 25 mile per hour zone so the cap gives you a ticket and points so you get an attorney he gets off the points you pay the ticket and that's the deal so if a person violates the amazing and they do chuva Zidane but if somebody does a student writes they have somebody ate and they did shuva it's what says because it's sad they can only do 248 mid slice but a Russia who does chuva he could do all 613. only someone who didn't have era see that they can either someone who did not very on the True Value so therefore writes that when it comes to chuva don't settle for regular chuva you know what kind of chuba you need to do I have uh so you win the jackpot because you're not you're transforming Europe therefore the reminder is when it comes to the month of still by way of introduction because every Rabbi likes to say a few words before he begins to speak say that the month of Elo is you ever hear that now most people confuse this and they apply it to the Ben Hamid sarim and they say is very available because does a different idea means on the way to the Palace the king stops off in the garden he stops off in the field when he's in the field you could have a different kind of private audience with the King this is brought down and then he's foreign and the question is where does this concept come from so my friend slimy Burger stopped off because he's one of the sponsors of the sheer so last night at akasana I was sitting next to repentance Friedman is and he told me this question he said his whole life it it dawned on him where does this come from and it hit him this week it's a possum I that's so let's take a look at some of the sukum before that before anili from the beginning of paragraph the um they say where is your beloved where did he go foreign he's not on the throne right now he's not there yet my beloved he's in the garden to the rose of fragrant plants Leroy spaganam to pasture in the gardens say what are you talking about isn't the Rebellion supposed to be on the throne and we say no Anila died it's owl now he's not on the throne now now he's is available comes from the introductory but that's the remnants to the month of Ella okay but I'm sure many of us are familiar that there are many many ramazim to the month of Ella for example another rammus to the Montebello um by the way remote writes in the darasa wiser remested don't think ELO's gonna come you're gonna learn and you're gonna go to schmoozen you can go to shirim and the kids come what may that's their business if they do chuva no it's not chuva unless it's a you ready for this one guy pesha now that's a very unusual remnant by the way is anyone familiar with anywhere in Tanakh where there's a Remus to Nissan [Music] no there isn't anybody you know of a Remus to tamus nope what about Sivan uh you can look they're nowhere Muslim to any of these months how about ER yeah I'm sorry for says if you spell it with one yeah then once into hillem you have oyavai yashuvu ER so there's no remnants to Nissan nothing to ER nothing to see one nothing to Thomas all of a sudden owl comes and we have remorse them everywhere Anila died daily um okay so far so good and then I remember when you know when you used to go back to Yeshiva so many of my kids they start Yeshiva tomorrow but that means the parents thought you Shiva tomorrow you know the kids what what they do the the onus falls on us you know the homework and the carpool to you know we start Yeshiva tomorrow what what do you do the first day in Yeshiva you have to open up the kids and what it says about anything else other than nobody knows but everybody knows he opened the first Civ cotton and the kitzer and he gives you off the bat four remorse and Tello what are they first he brings from the Ariza hello and then he brings and then he brings is to Fila and then he brings is chuva and then he brings Ishu um that's a pretty nice month how many are Muslim none ER not not really Siva nothing owl where we've only started this year they're already five Ramos why is this so important to find a rem as to Ella what is so significant about ELO of every month that we have Rumors by the way it's not going to say the name you're not going to find the word elul in the tanach but yeah you're going to have a lot of ramazan but we're only getting started here's one of my favorite ones what are you supposed to do in the month of Ella you know color says in this week's Power Shot you're going out to war against the enemy who's the enemy the eight Sahara so what do you do to fight the eight Sahara yet Sahara Kane the Joshua you got to sit in the house what's the house the basement for how long 30 days what month says the month of Elo so we know in the months of Elo there's an emphasis on talmatira that's how we say every morning and every night and it's so important that what letter is omitted from the David Hashem there's only one letter that we don't find you see we don't find gimul why no gimmel Camila is a distant second in Allah no gimmel no gimmel it's the only ice not in the David says what if your heart is hard like Stone What if I uh says [Applause] you know what you got to do is you gotta hit the books you have to you have to soften the heart of REM is number six and in the time that the base time you're gonna do chuva how are you gonna do chuba you're gonna bring carbonus which carbonis you know what one of the most oft-repeated phrases in safer vayikra is foreign [Applause] and if you make use of the month Hashem will give us back Earth's Israel attain lazarachem says [Applause] these are baliatosis now how many rumors give none Nissan's a good month though why ello why ello so right now we're up to eight ramazim so you say it's enough already no no we're only beginning we are only beginning I was reading the smack safer mits with Katan in the footnotes of the smack he brings some to raise your hand if you have this custom to fast 40 days from until yaimakipuram it's not one of the popular ones right now it's not one of the popular ones the caparus with the chickens are much more popular but the the fasting 40 days it hasn't made it uh there are a lot of posters outside there of like very interesting things he could do this is not hasn't it's not on the poster 40 days what's the Remus the Posse look at number 18 altira Daniel Kim from the day you've committed to understand and to fast here's another good one from the reshinem so what happened they give food to eleazarusam lives that should be your Mantra you want to eat it I'm not gonna eat it [Applause] these are not my remorse and it's for me showing him tysus hello [Music] number 21 hello who brings it is next anybody know how many words in the whole Hamish have dots on them that's how many words have dots we have in uh Chevrolet is coming up but how many words have dots on top and the bottom none in the whole Tanakh how many words have dots on the top and on the bottom one you know in the hotel only one word has dots on the top and the bottom there's a Jew he's writing a he's writing a tehilim on Clough so he put it near maimony's hospital that around the clock somebody should be saying to heal him from a classevsky holds it's a good thing to do the stipler used to say to heal him from a cloth you look at the claf anti lerois [Applause] read it backward ello that's another reason we say well David and Elle you know why else we say the devil because in the David it says hashem's name 13 times and then dominant by the way tikkune zayar says foreign that's the that's why LOL so if you're going to buy your wife um roses the cover Chavez and ello 13. because Connecticut okay here's another one to heal him with an olive it's written we are not his we are his says you know what Ella's we are trying to go from with above hello we're trying to take ourselves from not being Shams to be belonging to the revenues so that's not bad for off the bat a good 16. gamara since when do you have a Muslim Tello and the gemara since when do you have roomazim in the gamala Kamara we know we have balat you have Remus in the gemara you ready for this from Bells this is out of this world on this week's parasha a rem is in the gemara you ready for this how many strings are there of Texas 32. do you need to have 32 no if one rips it's okay not a problem but the gemara tells us about the man who made up with a certain Zona and as he was about to do the mice that sits us hit him in the face if you want that suits us to save you though right you need all 32. for the Die Rise so you don't need the 32 you want protection against the Yates there you need 32. it says the first dalzarella you know we read it in a rationalistic special you ever hear that expression right ready for this lie 31 stringsa Ella 32 strings that's connectedia Sahara that knocks out the eight Sahara why 31 Deborah Tyra that's the Raisa Ella 32 can I get here if you look in liquite he has on words in the gemara but now we're gonna find Ramos um in the Kamara yeah the Miguel Muka says you know what Ella is and put them in the box and then you're gonna have MS so I looked it up there's no such thing it's Emma sleep then you don't have Elon so for ELO is and if you take advantage of hello you know what you are says but if you don't take advantage of I love uh I mean whoever heard of such a thing but I'm not counting any of those four or Muslim because I'm only counting the ones in the Tanakh tonight but I just want you to know brings her a Muslim and the Gomorrah to Allah let's proceed you got to keep your word in hell hello you got to keep your commitments look at number 31. hello she said but I need a reminder every day okay how about in the first possible is that frequent enough sound familiar right you ever hear that person hello [Applause] and then I got a hold of safer from Abrahim falaji um collects you know is like an encyclopedia Hashem gave me an unbelievable remnants this year wrote 72 svaram so he passes away parashas Israel because you said 70 took him so that's how you remember the 72 serveraji his yard side is parishas yes right okay he has this encyclopedia he brings down all the Ramos them to El we got all of them I was very happy we covered all the time we went through no clapping okay we got all the ramazan we got all the ramazan so I thought we were doing pretty good by the way I once heard of the is he sprinkles hello so I thought that's pretty good 17 Ramos them a friend of mine in France Rafael answer he said 17. now by the way Ramos Shapiro writes that if you look closely you could come up with more than 20 Ramos them to Ella so I figured we're pretty close and after seeing falaji I thought we covered all our bases he sent me a piece of ravnasan another 15 ramazim International and they all somehow have to do with the basam for example look at number 36 is 37. Eda number 38 love foreign say it every day after remiss after remiss after remiss IM zero Thomas hello wherever you turn it's hello wherever you go wherever you look in the beginning of haidu elul is found literally on every corner wherever you turn is until I found 40 ramazim maybe can I get the 40 days from Rosh Hashanah to yamakipuram 40 ramazim to Allah including the first person who there has to be a reason for this every other month of the year is absent completely somebody sent me a message why would there be a reminisce to Ella ello's not a Hebrew word Shameless yeah but it's been adopted by Claudius if this is the name of the Hebrew month this is that is this is what we refer to it as and it's maruma so many times and it's not only marumas the reshining him go out of their way to search for a Muslim Pharrell what what's the search for what are they getting at why is it so important to find a remistel and if ELO is so important so just say ello so I'd like to share with you two approaches to understand the proliferation of ramazam to eloh throughout the Torah the one REM is that the Ariza says Ariza gives us one remnants and you could be sure that Ariza knew all 40. what is the remnants that Ariza teaches what does that refer to array McLeod so let's just imagine for a moment picture in your mind a guy thought he was driving forward he accidentally put the car in Reverse he killed bashagi his life's in danger his life is in peril because there's a goyal Adam the Avenger of blood is allowed to kill him this person is and even if he saw the new moon he must go to Larry McLeod and even if he knows he has to live die and be buried in the Aramaic lad otherwise the goyal Adam could get him if you if you would take a trip to eritizawa back in the day you're walking in your shalayam you'd stop at the street corner and there would be two signs to the left next corner you know I'm to the right or a Michela to the left every single Corner in arit Israel had to have a sign for the Ari McLeod it's a dindo erisa where do we learn it from the gamara Marcus learns out you gotta prepare the road darshans every saw every corner on Earth Israel must have a sign for Ari McLeod where do we save ourselves where could Sonu kill you're walking with your kid because what's that don't worry if someone kills the shoig it's directions how to get to Ari McLeod there was not a street corner on Earth Israel that didn't have a sign for the R.A McClain is the City of Refuge of the Jewish people there there has to be signs everywhere okay but who's running after us says who's the greatest enemy in this world who is your greatest enemy in this world don't answer too loud who is your greatest enemy in this world foreign no he says you're coming from the small battle now you have to face the Great War what's the Great War the war against the Sahara many people think the eight Sahara just wants to get a person to do anavera doesn't just want you to do navera the Y8 Sahara wants you dead he wants to kill you the gemara tells us the wicked are full of regret why the wicked full of regret regret is part of chuva the answer is the yet Sahara doesn't just want to ruin a person spiritually he wants to ruin a person emotionally physically psychologically he was out for blood he's gonna get a person to do the Avera he's going to get the person to eat the tarfus says if it's a petterberg and then the yesara says you ate it now vomit it don't enjoy it feel bad about it feel guilty about it feel like a piece of dirt the answer doesn't want you to sin he wants to kill you and he's after us oh call him and he's not just chasing us he's got us in his clutches and we need a place to run we need Refuge we need security we need protection we need an ear miklot where is it when's it coming don't worry every day every don't worry it's coming don't worry ELO's a month away two months away ten months away we're in ello there's not a paragraph in the hummus that will go by that you won't see the road sign when L is coming because ELO's our only salvation what about it l Chipotle if I would speak in Tisha I'd have something good to say about tissue but now I'm it's owl owl is the R.A McLeod of claudi Israel and there has to be signs for it wherever you turn there's not one corner in the Tyra that doesn't give you directions but now let's take it another step Ramos Shapiro writes and this has brought in many svaram the Menace talks about this 67 BINA BINA and Bina is the most important ingredient for chuva the gemara Magilla says why do we Davin for chuva after because you need in order to do chuva like the past success says foreign [Music] what is Bina means a Second Glance be no means a second look why do you need a second look to do chuva by the way the gemara Magilla says calculated the seven years he made a mistake Del shots are calculated seven years he made a mistake and even Danielle made a mistake says how do we know Daniel made a mistake because the plastic says BINA if he was Bina that means he had a look at it a second time and if he had a look at a second time that means his initial reaction was wrong Dino means a second look in order to do teshuva you must take a second look why because at first glance all's good I'm great I'm perfect I Diamond three times a day I learn I eat kosher and I'm a nice guy so I'm gonna go to show because how's it going to look if I don't go to show but he has to do too but not me everyone else yeah everyone else has it but not me I don't what do I have to chew before because I'm looking at myself I did my husband and I'm perfect but that's only be Mishka reshine but when we take a second look then maybe we understand then we begin to see that not everything is perfect yeah I dive in with the minion Adam with a minion we think dabbing with a minion means you come into a room with other people davening davening with the minion means you start with the tsibor mission Brewer says if you don't starts when the essay with the sibor you didn't down with the minion you could have been here two hours before and you said every word but if you don't know the halachrice of how to dive in with the minion which means you say minimum pasius and the entire episode you're a great guy I go to school but you haven't battled the minion in 50 years and if you come into a base I can assess with a cell phone you may see from the fill in every single day I put on the phone every day you be camping and here are the junctures in davening your ladder talk between you're allowed to talk for which means if you're a gabby you can't even go over to a guy during the laning what's your name are you okay and you can't say that you can't ask that they're very specific guidelines of every part of avoidas Hashem that the Mishka looks like everything is wonderful but in order to do chuva you need BINA Bina is a second look is gamatria 67 Bina now how do you talk to someone who has been a someone who's able to infer to extrapolate to look a little bit more carefully yeah I'm a nice guy yeah are your words Naki tahar thoughtful sensitive not some of your words I was where was I in Passaic on Shabbos somebody came over to me their grandfather was a talmud of the their grandfather was somewhere of shakhnizone when I was a Bakr Yeshiva I remember I saw him in aretz Israel he was one of the he spent either four or five days um who doesn't make is not a yid told him every single day is great muster is more important so at first glance we're you know we're sailing free smooth sailing everything is wonderful but to do chuva you need Bina you need to look a little bit more carefully how do you talk to someone who has Beena oh the gemara says Daya Le hakima duramisa what appeals to Sonos BINA remez since Elle is Bina and Ella will only be effective with Bina and ello will only be productive with Bina but if you're just gonna be you know a robot then you might as well skip to one because you ain't gonna change an LOL therefore the month of owl is the month of Bina the only way to talk in Ello is [Applause] it's a reminder you better utilize Bina otherwise the month is a waste that's why there's so many you're a Muslim to eloh so what's the first step first step is you have a guy he says where's benebrock how do you get to benebrock they said 60 miles from here okay so he goes 60 miles no but Renee Brock now he goes 70 miles 90 miles 120 miles it's been a brock here said palium it's barimone you're almost in Egypt really they told me 60 miles and I went 60 miles yeah but you went the wrong direction at what point in time is he headed to benebrock when he turns around says asks does God want the Russia dead or not Russia then another person says You Don't Have to Do complete chuva you just have to start to do to you you need to be ice and when are you ice in shuva when you turn around when you're headed in the right direction remember in parashaslachovino finishes up with Lavon boy kin says remember Rashi says he's going terrorist Israel is [Applause] he just left lovan's house next week he's Crossing maverya bike which is an area to amoine which is still nowhere near so how could it says Israel he's nowhere near Earth Israel says morale and gorarie jacovino's nowhere near Earth Israel but he walked out of lavon's house and he turned toward aritz Israel and when you're headed towards Israel in the eyes of shemaim your inert Israel because you are not viewed by where you are you're viewed by where you're headed Israel we call it in scientific terms Judaism is not a vector it's a scalar it's not a function of location it's a function of Direction said you have two zumanum in the day you have zmanskiya and manaloi ya according to the mission of Brewer is Lila you gotta finish the entire minha before it's light outside no it's lilaim darkest part of the night you could do Magilla you could do Lou love you could do Mila or the mid slice but it's Pitch Black says it's Pitch Black but it's turning light turning light skia Sun is setting Sun is setting Lila says in every area of life you are judged not where you are but where you're headed trending up or trending down is the limo getting better or not getting better is it Fila getting better doesn't matter what you've done ever a trending up or trending down so let's end with this the end of last week they found a dead body in the street so they measure to the closest city and the city that's closest sends out their bezden and the bezden performs a very unusual ritual the best in literally washes their hands and they say yeah we didn't but we didn't kill the guy we didn't kill the guy Sigma says well we thought the best then killed the guy we thought the best then got together says no what the business saying is we didn't let the guy go without escorting him so I don't understand what happened the guy was killed where was he killed he walked through Harlem he walked in a bag he walked through the hood and they got it they got him they uh they assaulted him they killed the guy so you're telling me if the if these three rabbis would have escorted him then he would have been protected in the hood then what the the bullet would have bounced off him but now that they didn't walk him that's why he died what does escorting him do so some say oh he would have more confidence because he would feel people like him I mean give me a break confidence is very important in life it's not doesn't make you Bulletproof so what exactly is this escort going to accomplish says the Marshall you ready for this if peasant really cared about the guy why wouldn't they walk him all the way along they can't I mean bezen has a life also now where they're going to walk him for 50 miles so what does it do to to walk him four miles what it does is it shows that you want to help him okay ah once you want to help him then Hashem says you want it then I'll protect him you have to want it you want it then I'll protect the guy so I have a simple question for you why does president have to walk him why can't they just sit there in the base matters and want to help him no you see what needs to be done is in life you need to do something to show what you want as small as it may be all you need to do is walk Dalai Ramos to show what you want if you do a miser cut done to reveal what your rot sign is some takes you up to the shemaim we're in you can't get to the moon in one jump but what what our right sign is is an is very valuable what you want is very valuable how the revolution says I want to do what you want but I need to see that you want it so do something very small very very small do something minimal as an expression of your sign will say resign and with that this is Hashem that will be showing a little Bina in the month of being on the month of Elo and will be by dedicating ourself even a little bit will respond in kind of foreign [Music] UK call 718-851-865.com dinner do the space 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