Practical teachings of Kabbalah for the month of Tevet - Rabbi Alon Anava

[Music] you so we just celebrated two days ago the big month of the vet the beginning of the month of debates and once a month we learn a little bit about the month itself and what can be achieved in that month as we explained many times that every month has a certain energy and the month are controlled by the Stars and if I know how to align myself so to say with the energy of the month then I can derive some type of a benefit from the energy of the month and I want to make sure that I'm aiming myself to the right direction and so I can benefit from the energy of the month so I can achieve something so the point is just to know how to recognize it what is the energy of the month and how can I derive something out of it to make my air life a little bit better now it seems in many different sources that the vet is not such a great month it says in the soil that's when Moshe Rabbeinu was born then his mother you have it hid him for three months but that's been a logical deshee only after three months that's when Miriam took him to the to the river in the little basket put it in the water put him in the water and the daughter of Pharaoh found him but for three months she hid him now their literal explanation that she tried to save him because all the babies would get thrown into the earth through the walk to the water so for three months she was able to hide him but this all explains that with that spinning / evolution that there are three men which what the xplit translation is that she hid him three months this all explains that there are three months in the year that the godly revelation the manifestation of the godly revelation that is called - Rena is also hidden and these are three months that we don't have good supervision from the China or being guarded and Tibet is one of them the vet is the first one and then Tammuz and of the third another tomb which amazingly everything has the connection these three months they're their sign is an animal the vet is AG d a lamb and I'm sure it has a different name in English you don't say the sign is a lamb wrap you know Ram Aries Aries so and then the Moose is the Scorpio not Scorpio a certain cancer and not crab how do you yeah yeah but the sign is called cancer and then of course Alvey the line so a Leo and so many learn the Tivat is not a good month that it's a you know there's no holidays in that month and it's coming after a very hard a happy holiday of Hanukkah and the most teaching says it's not a good month but anything there's not such a thing that a Shem does something that is not good there's no such a thing that a ship will create something that is negative so we're gonna try to learn today the meaner the inner meaning of why is it so so cool so so called the bad and what can I do and what can I actually learn from that so we know that every month has a sign so we said that in Hebrew it's called the D but Deas like a lamb at a lay and you said how are you said Aries every every so areas areas so now also every month every month excuse me Capricorn oh oh so Eris is telling okay so we set it wrong Oh Capricorn Mazz LGD so okay so we can yeah so the so so we're gonna make a correction it's Capricorn now the every month has one of the tribes that correspond to the month and this month is a month of a tribe called done but since the the sign is D there is a tribe that resembles their name which is the sign of the tribe of God and God had a very weird birth know the month the the tribe of the month is done I'm just saying that so I'm saying that the tribe of the month is done which done done like Dan never done but done also also has a very strong connotation of Dan comes from the word in Hebrew Dineen to judge very powerful way a month when all judgments I was saying that the sign of the man which is good deed a Capricorn it sounds like another tribe that is called God now God had a very weird birth because Leia the first matrix that married Jakob she had four boys in a row and then she stopped from stop having kids at the time so one night she brought her maidservant Zilpah through the house and she snuck her into the mid it wasn't there it wasn't planned she just snuck her into the bed and from that came God so I mean we know that leah has six boys and a Hale has two boys and the other four they're coming from Zilpah and Bilhah so God came from Zilpah and and it was Leia that brought her into the room Yaakov was not say John Travolta Rocco was italic so he so he would go into the bedroom lights out and do then his mid-span go out even a gay sorry so yeah yeah it's a dick I mean the the tragic would come into the room they directed their no lights going nobody needs to don't go out so anyways from the say night God came and God Leia was very very happy that's why it says in the Torah about God in about God's now bad God means God came and it's written bits Aleph gimel dalet Bob it's better if he came and God is gimel dalet now the this is referring to to the to the masala but if you take out the Aleph from that then it's I mean if you're looking at the toe up look in the parsha it's not written but by God better life and then a gap and gimel dalet it's written in one word by God that's how it's written in the Torah without an Aleph now when the Aleph is removed first of all if you're looking at the word but God that's to betray but but God anything that we see in the Torah that a letter is missing this the teachings of Kabbalah explains that a big light was taken away and we see many words in the Torah that they're missing a letter it's missing an Alex missing above missing at some type of a letter it's missing every time that we see a love missing letter in the Torah come ballistically it means that a big light was taken away so we see with specifically with b'god itself really writing by God it says by God and and the Aleph was removed the cloud in Hebrew the word but God means to be trained and to betray means that there was once something there and it was removed again mystically talking is that once it was full see now this cup is full it's full of water and I can empty now the cup now the cup will be empty so the vessel is still there but then me Louie whatever's in disappeared this is the concept specifically with this type of masala now the star that controls the month is the star of SH appetite and Shabtai in English is Saturn Saturn Saturn Saturn so but the the star itself is SH appetite I apologize that my English is there I mean I know the club planets by a baby bro but it's Saturn right Saturn and this planet is called in Hebrew Hama where God all the big teacher and me now to move away to something that we want to see how this applies to us in the book of formation Sepher Yetzirah which is the original book of kabbalah that even though it's connected to a brahma vino and some seven was the one who put it together but the information came from Adam Rishon Adam are you Sean Adam he got the information he gave it over to the shed who gave her over letter to knock and was passed around till it came to Obama vino and in this book it's a very very small book very thin not a lot of information at least not in a written way but in a deep way has all the information we need to know so the book of formation says that every every a month is created with a certain letter which the letter of of tivity sign the letter ein separates Allah says that the sign is Capricorn Gd but there's always an organ that corresponds to the month and the organ that corresponds to the month is the liver and the liver is the where the media of the attribute of anger comes from all the anger is there's a focused and central centered in the liver now the teachings of Kabbalah explains that there are twelve combinations of the word of the name of Hashem UT of FK there's actually 24 and this is not on our topic but there are 24 hours a day every hour there's one combination of the four letters of your the letters of youth cave of K which means that every hour of the day this is completely different energy and there are people I mean not regular people big micawber limb that they know to recognize exactly the combinations of the letters and every hour of the day they know how to tap into a certain energy the clouds dissolve explains that when I'm father and mother a husband and wife they want to conceive a child then the saw actually has a lot of information but what time exactly because we go by when the child is born then we when we look at astrology and signs and all this we go by the birth date but the the teachings of Kabbalah explain this goes by the time it was conceived and if you know how to backtrack the time that the child was conceived you're gonna get much more accurate information about the path of the show of the person the structure of the soul where the soul comes from now let abuses us how do I know so if it's an observant couple so they know when when is the mikvah night and they know when it was the time of the marital relations and some yeah go the extra mile and everything is calculated what time it should be there's all explains that if you know how to aim to the right time you know how to not only which neshama Kapoor it's how it's going to be a manifesting into the world so and if you know how to backtrack that then you know how to to learn a lot of the personality of the child of the human being and much more than that but this is offer subject so but we do know it when it comes to the month every month has one type of a combination of the order of the letters of you cave of king of course Nissan is the first month this is the AG the biblical first month Tishri is not the first month this ray is the seventh month it actually says clearly in the Torah behold it should be we just call it the head of the year because that's when the spiritual part the neshamah of the year is being created and penetrated into the world but physically the Sun is the first month so Nishant least and the combination of the month is you'd give up K but every month has a whole different combination somebody brought me not too long ago something very interesting I'll show you you can look at it in a second [Music] beautiful charts of all the letters are organized in the month to know what to meditate on which was just interesting to see but anyways so since the Sun is the first month of the year then obviously that the combination is there is good cave of K but the combination of the month of Tibet is the letter hei then you'd then the letter hei then the letter valve just take the four letters of you cave albicans and they they're switched around Hey and then I you'd and then hey and then above that's the order of the combination of the month of Tibet now we know that in the structure of the name of ute cave of K then the hey is a female the youth and the hey Newton the valve is male and the Hays are females McCloud we talked about a couple couple times that the first day is called ma la corresponds to the sphere of vena and that corresponds to the mother layout and this last day corresponds to the last hey there during the last day of you cave of K corresponds to the lower level mother in Matata and that's referring to him we see here that in the combination of Tibet the haze I mean always you'd give up K that it always will be divided in half in a non regular structure is you'd and then a hey mail and then female and then another valve and a hey and again male and a female that's the right order how the combinations go he would cease completely opposite we start with a female hey and then a youth and then a hey and above so we start with a female and end with a with a male which the the the way it affects us is with what's called histo cocoon with craving and we all have cravings for certain things some of them are for forbidden things some of them are for things that are not forbidden but they're not so great like cookies and hold the chocolates or whatever it is but we constantly have all these different cravings the problem with craving when the craving is coming in the right order then it's fine when the craving is coming before the lights then it's not good then it means it needs a rectification and and the result from that then it will cause anger this is the result I'm just trying to kind of explain something a little bit more deeper here but just try to follow with water follow what I'm saying because we're gonna concentrate maybe a mainly on the anger because all we all have anger whether you agree with it or not are you willing to admit it or not we all have a problem of anger I mean some people the denial is so bad is that you tell them you know you have a problem with anger and their reaction be like I have a problem with anger how dare you tell me I have a problem with anger so but the reality is that we all have a problem with anger it's one of the mid notes that we have to really overpower now some people the anger is extreme some it's much less but each and every one of us has at least one button that if express'd that's it you so to say you lose it so and we all have to deal with it and it's a very hard media a very hard character trait to deal with it because when I'm in surrounding that is calm and nice and with my loved ones I'm not gonna get angry so fast but all I need is the one person that will come in the wrong way and get me angry and then the anger will take me to levels that I will go to beyond what them the the human mind can understand it can be something as simple as just maybe a slandering or cursing or national and then it can be violent then it can be also two actions and the reality is that we don't really see how we behave but we all have a problem with anger and when somebody if you don't mind maybe we'll keep the questions to then if maybe write it down just know I will get to that I will get to explain what does it mean that needs a tikkun the anger I mean some people are aware they have a problem with anger and some people it's completely out of control now we had a few classes about anger because a lot of the anger is not necessarily coming from what I just explained can be coming just from being aggravated from the food you eat and I mean we had three classes back-to-back about anger where I was explaining and the love the anger that we have it has nothing to do is something spiritual has to do that I'm either I have a cellphone stuck on my hip all day long people wear their cell phone and the the radiation coming from the cell phone can drive a person nuts or if you're sitting in a room and there's Wi-Fi there and an iPad and a wireless a mouse or whatever it isn't so much radiation going around that can cause a person to be very agitated can be also your food you eat so different certain types of food it will make you very annoyed here I'm talking about something completely else that when the order of the combinations of a names of Hashem is changing doesn't matter right now why it's changing the is definitely not for now to explain but the result will be that it's going to cause a certain craving in my in my system now if I can fulfill the craving that I so to say calm it down but what happens is when there's craving before the chef before the energy came in then the the result will be anger and this needs a rectification what does it mean the rectification we're going to go through this now in the class that's exactly what I want to talk about because at the end of the day we all we all go through it now specifically the month of Tibet it's the nature of the month that it's putting us in situations that there's going to be a special ohm situations of anger and it can bring us to - not good places that's why many say it's not a good month because the energy of the month is very heavy very a lot of dname a lot of judgments and you know when the when the planets are aligned in a certain way we get affected from that that's how a Shem is controlling the climate in the world by the way because he moves the planets a little bit and if you move a planet a little bit then the weather here changes that's how a sham made a the flood with Noah so that he opened the tap he moved one of the planets and everything collapsed all the water just came out coming from all directions so when the planets are aligned in a certain way then it's affecting us I have a friend who just came now to visit he used to live in spats for four years four or five years and he came yesterday he's like what a weird energy is there I feel this weird energy here like as if I something changed here don't leave us tub all is something going on in spot that is bringing a lot of room into a lot of very heavy energy by told him also listen we just entered the month of Tibet you feel it now happen to be that you landed in Israel and straightaway went to trot but if you go somewhere else I'm sure you'll feel that too so the energy the kind of draws us that anger can come my right right right away but that has to be addressed now when I have a deficiency of something whenever craving for something and I don't have it and if the craving is really really strong and if I want something real bad and I don't have it then what would be the result I get about anger right now or frustration that's what I'm talking about I'm not going to have any satisfaction when I get what I want then the satisfaction there and if I don't get what I want then like a child I'm not satisfied because I didn't get my lollipop this will cause the anger now in order for me to do this tikkun to this rectification first of all I have to understand that it's all coming from a good place there's not such a thing that a shim does something that is bad there's no such a option that something negative can come from a shim which means it's all good first I have to understand that everything is just coming from a very good place that's first of all now the solve explains this is taught in the in the parish Elvira I forgot to make an announcement before but you know we started a Zoho class in the evening if you want to join every set every day it's 7:30 every day here at 7:30 in the evening or in the morning we have a soul class it's both for men and women we separate the seating and then after that we pray waits for the men we have a minion if you want to join it didn't miss much we just started yesterday so 7:30 p.m. we have as our class here it's in English and we learn every day the soul says in the Polish ah the powershell is called by allah that judgment Dean which now the month of when we know that the tribe is done coming that there's a lot of dname in this month the Dean originates in the sphere and there in the attribute of a humming it comes from a humming now if I want to to cure somebody and it coming it's coming from my mercy from my love from from from me filling you know sad or bad for the another person usually any type of curing procedure is painful I don't know of a never an operation that is tickles usually an operation will be painful even something as minor as a procedure in your mouth it's painful happens to be that the nature of curing it comes in our in a way that it's not so we're pleasant why is it like that that's the whole different topic to talk about but the Deen the judgment that seems bad it's actually coming from a place of mercy same thing with us and the same thing I can look at it when I hate my kids I want to educate my kid to grow the right way so it will be translated by the kid that I'm very strict and very tough and but the kid doesn't see that it's coming from a good place it's coming from a place of Hamim of Mercy now the day you know the other day two weeks ago when we brought the Toa so the first Shabbat that we had the share of the Sepultura here we bought a lot of sweets and you know to throw in the wine and then we had a little party so of course the kids they have the time of their life I mean each one of them came to me with a bag like this with like 700 lollies look what I caught so so okay so each one eat two but one of my kids were just you know shoving them in their mouth and at some point I just took the bag away now he sees me as a the worst father in the world how dare I take the bag of lollies especially that he only had 20 and there's another 40 in the bag so he didn't even reach the capacity of what can go in the mouth so and this is a little bit unfortunate but we keep a very healthy household so when my kids they they then they get to the opportunity to eat something sweet at the end of the day a kid is a kid and they don't have where they don't know how to really control themselves I'm not talking about a older girl I'm talking my six-year-old he sees all the colors in his eyes he loses his balance so I took the bag away now he was upset with me he sees it as judgment as a Dean at me at being a mean father he doesn't understand it's coming from mercy because I'm telling him you eat more than that you're gonna have a stomachache you're gonna be in pain even later customer Shalom you'll have to toothaches you're gonna be completely hyped up you know how much here how much energy will have from all these all this sugar you're gonna be jumping up and down though um I feel bad for you so I take it away now we see that the dark the Deen the judgment is coming only from mercy and this is what it's explained in the saw and any kind that we see a Dean from the calash bajo then I have to understand that it's coming from a place of a humming and we unfortunately meet a lot of judgments from a shame sometimes I might lose my job and I'm unemployed ha so Shalom I have to battle some sickness or bad relationship there's so many things that I will go through and I will see it as a bear as a judgments something negative coming from the calash before not too long ago we have one of our students who was a bogus chef after a while got engaged took him a long time to find a wife and he got engaged and during the engagement she was driving him crazy and at some point he already started questioning maybe I should not even marry her and after a while the decision was not to marry her based on many different information that he got and and in the beginning and of course the wedding was cancelled after all the preparation and all the excitement then I kept telling him everything that Hashem does is good don't look at it as something negative look at this something positive a Shem is saving you probably from a much bigger headache and he couldn't understand like but but I finally found somebody and it took me so many years mm finally I found him and that is not working and I told him listen I know it looks very severe and very bad but trust me Shem is saving you from a much bigger headaches so you see the judgment is coming from ah humming oh mercy the only thing is that we have to remember is that we have to be very optimistic because when bad things happen we usually lose our our hope and then specifically in a situation like this I have to I have to be very optimistic okay this is just a period I have to go through it Shem knows what he's doing the thing is that our nature is that we want it right now this is the nature of most people I want it and I want it right now and I can't even wait and you know my grandmother always taught me since I was a little kid all good things they come to those who wait and they're through practice patience is not simple because usually I want it and I want it now and if I don't get it now it will cause a lot of anger frustration and sadness now the point is that when I said that the craving comes before the lights I gave just an exam an explanation spiritually what happens to really get to the bottom of it that will take us a couple of classes to really explain it but I just mentioned that when the combination of the letters switch and the haze are in the front then not all the months are like that some of the months because it can be that's half of the combination the haze in the front here we have two haze that are in the front of the you didn't live up which causes this craving but the the craving is there before the light is there because it's the male part of this fear what that give the light it's the female part that receives so right now I'm in a motion that I want something I still didn't get it and I just gave a big explanation to bring down why this month has a very powerful energy of anger now the way to how do i overpower this anger because the anger is coming from frustration because I want something and it's not there the the way to do it is just to be very focused on what's going on and to and to wait patiently for the lights to come when is the light coming the light wants to wait for Shabbat for the month of swat4 the month of a for Adele but right now it's like a little kids I remember when I was a little kid my mom I remember it so vividly I was my six years birth six year old birthday and my mom bought me a set of Lego that's what I liked and it was the the box was on the shelf for weeks now I don't remember how many weeks because I was still six years old but I just remember sneaking into the room every day and looking at the box and I was like drooling I can get can't wait to get my hands on this box already and the the feeling of the waiting I mean then it drove me nuts but you know Shem wants us to wait sometimes sometimes he wants us to wait for our other half sometimes he wants us to wait for pernessa for money sometimes he wants us to wait for a baby unfortunately some people have to wait a long time for a baby sometimes I have to wait for whatever it is so the class version of it's coming from a bad place it's coming from a place that a shame wants me to practice the media of waiting and to just to wait for the light to come like you don't count down to your vacation sometimes you pray on vacation a year before and you're making X's on the calendar so the way to overpower the anger is only to be focused on what's going on and just to patiently wait for what is missing now Hanukkah is always gonna fall in the beginning of divets we I mean the majority part of Connemara most days of Hanukkah are in a kislev but the vet is always going to phone them in the end of Hanukkah and the whole concept of Hanukkah is what's called a hey arugula very very large shine a very large enlightenment and you know the the Mitzvah how we commemorate Hanukkah is with oil we spoke about it in all the classes of carnac I don't want to repeat so much about specifically about the oil but the oil represents my wheel that's another thing that we spoke about the last week that I have my own wheel it's called the red Sun and I need to get to a point of diminishing and to completely Anora fiying my will this is what the Mishnah tells us but tell her that so harmony let's go now completely another fire will when I reach to the point that I have no will of my own then you're gonna have a very smooth life if you get to that to that level our life is very bumpy and rocky because it's because of we have a wheel I want it to be like this I think it should be like that and it's my will if I know how to unknown Oh fie my wheel and just let a Shem be the driver then I will reach to the tow happiness the the peak of the happiness in my life because I have zero of my own will I just am i 100% notified to Hashem of course not expecting great results from an average individual moshe Labe know for example that's an example of a totally are notifying his will marginal benefit 0 will hama be no daba Damona these are individuals that they were caused so unmodified to Hashem that there were became like a chariot wherever she pulled them that's where they went but I still need to work on diminishing my will and you know I'm saying my will but you separate the word mind will it's all about mind me I need to really know how to give over the the me the existence here my comforter my desire my opinion now what do we do with the oil for 8 days we lighting it up 8 days we lighting in it and the the but I'm burning the the oil you know some some light oil some light candles but either way we know the trauma Malik says that our soul is the is the is the candle of a Shem never Vienna shmatte Adam the Shem is holding a candle and it's my soul we have many many many many candles and many many souls that's one of the many reasons why when somebody dies or when you celebrate the outside you light a candle so for 8 days what am i doing I'm lighting up - Shama that's what I was doing now for 8 days and maybe I didn't realize what's going on maybe I was just concentrating on the doughnuts but really what's happening in these eight days I'm lighting up my soul now why are we lighting the candles because there was a miracle I don't know if you had the opportunity but these lower the dreidels that you play with then it has four letters on it and the letters are saying nice Ghidorah yeah Pau if you live outside of Israel would same is Gadol hayah sham but it says Niska dal the first two words is a big miracle because it was a big miracle we won the war we found the oil the oil lit for eight days but the real miracle here is that if I'm able to find my real will limit water that's anonymity that's the miracle I want to get to a point that I'm able to pull out from the depths of my neshama the real wheel because of my soul's will is only to do the good in the eyes of a Shem and if I'm able to pull that out this is a big miracle and the only way to do it is if I burn - Shama if I light up - Shama now this point of this real will this is called nikujaga Emunah the dots the points in my soul that is called Emunah belief if I know how to bring it out to the surface then that's the real wheel because if I believe in a shame 100% my will is a hundred percent aligned with the Kadosh bajo so how is that all connected to the month the month of the word I mean the month is called Tivat and it's written Ted Bates and tough now Tibet represents represents a very inner hidden goodness I don't know if you can say goodness goodness yeah fine it's a probe and Hebrew it says doflamingo news you know how sometimes there's a fight between between two people and you see the bad side coming out usually when there's a fight you don't see the nice side you see the bad side suddenly you'll see or now they're open their mouth now I really see what's going on there and then you see the actions because because that's during a fight but even in a fight or argument when you want to judge the person right you sing deep down inside it's a good person and there are there are many situations unfortunately there's a disagreement or something not so appropriate but if you really want to rise above it you look down to the depth and you're saying deep down inside the person is good I don't think that most people was even as roughest and toughest they are on the outside well they might have a problem with anger or jealousy or or whatever it is remove all the schmutz away inside deep down inside is a good person a certain individual that we were dealing with and everybody nobody can stand that person mad and grouchy and violent and and puts everybody down very very rough individual there was only one person always protected sis but deep down deep down inside is a very good person and everybody was laughing a good person good person let's see the good person oh he does is humiliate everybody curses people and and puts everybody down but the reality is that deep down inside each and every one of us is a real good person there's something very very good there I just need to know to pull it out it's very easy to empower the badge very very easy to climb on somebody and to get the worst out of them you can get the worst out of an individual like that just need to post press a few buttons all the bad comes out it's a much greater challenge to be able to pull the good out but everybody has good it can be my wife can be my kids can be my coworker my my my neighbor individual deep down inside there's an unbelievable kindness and good is just smeared around there's so much junk around from from the being involved in this world will come an anger and jealousy in in many other ways but the vet represents that hidden goodness the cloud we know that the light on Hanukkah we we know that then when the world was created and the Shem said via he oh and there was should be light it's referring to a very unique light then after 36 hours that it was shining it was removed this is called alga knows the light that was concealed because it was shining for 36 hours helping a demolish on and then Hashem says oh my gosh this is actually exactly what we learned yesterday in the class of resolve that the Torah came to a shame because the Torah is the blueprint of the world and told the Shem you really want to create this human being now that human being is gonna go against you in the future and gonna sing in front of you why do you even start with that don't even create him so in the beginning the world was shining with these beautiful lights via he all and they should be light now Shem didn't create the light he just invited the light into the world and then what does the Torah says Bojana sham ki Tov and Hashem so Wow site is amazing so he decided to conceal it because he knew that there's gonna be wicked people in the future that will damage their life so he concealed that light and then on the fourth day he created the two luminaries the Sun in the moon that's where we have our light from of course later on the moon was jealous of the Sun saying what two kings will share a crown no I don't agree with that so Shem says no problem you don't want to share a crown I'll make you small and ashamed diminish to the moon and now there is Sun is the the bigger one and already in itself is that just a lesson that the when a person becomes jealous then the reality the result is going to be the jewel you will get diminished as jealousy is a very bad sin it's actually one of the 10 commandments we're not allowed to be jealous so lo taha mode is jealousy commodity Kshatriya don't desire the wife of your this is jealousy I mean the toka doesn't use certain words but this is a severe sin to be jealous what you don't agree with what a sham gave you you jealous of another person because he has more money or more success that's that's heresy you don't you don't believe that what a sham gave you is what you're supposed to get and you are rebelling I know I I don't like what I gave you you see sometimes with kids they don't like the present because somebody else got a different present they'll throw the present I don't want it see sometimes these kids they're very spoiled I want your present so that in itself is Allah is a lesson to be very careful from jealousy but we see that the world was created with this hidden light Tibet since Hanukkah has the shine of the slight we in the eight days of Hanukkah this alga nose is shining very soon and mushiya is going to come we're gonna feel this shine we're gonna see it but interventioning very hidden now in the Torah sometimes there are words that are not there written a certain way but they're pronounced in a different way because the dots are different how do you call the dots in English not the annotations the vows you know one time with the dots you have a dot three dots two dots a line that it's called nakute this called vowels so sometimes a word can be you know I'm sure you notice that when if you go to a show when they read the Torah if ha special um the person who's making a mistake and says he everybody's who ok known only to kill me and then he says very well whoa everybody starts screaming one vowel changes completely the word sometimes their words in the Torah that are written a certain way but their meaning is completely different when you change the valves and in the Torah there is a verse that is completely irrelevant to what we're talking about but this is a verse that's talking about that the it's referring to the angels that came down from the sky there were two angels that came from the heavens to kind of supervise what's going on their name is OSA and Isaiah and they like the women and when they gave over their wings they said here's the wings I quit I want to be down here with the ladies and and they fell down and they sinned and one of them did Chava Musa may Chava became an inch back again an angel and the other one hasta el never did chew up and up until today he's the source of power of all the immoral and immorality act Saul the forbidden relations that's my sister she's me yeah yeah oh yeah yeah all the black magic the knowledge he's holding it but all the power of any act that is immoral for specificially specifically were forbidden relation that's where it's coming from that's fine young people on min ha we read all the forbidden relations in the Torah because running people used to take the the go to the Sailor Azazel and throw it to start breaking the say this desire nevertheless when they came down it says that pisaq in the Toa Payoh open a high looking and the sons of God saw it's referring to the angels of course at the Burnet ha damn the ladies the daughters of Adam and it says kid to vote ma a hen and it's using the word to votes and the way it's written it's written test bed stuff technically should be written with pet valve and then bet valve and tough to vote good but it's written test bed stuff and this is what's called the Anakim Cassell now this is already hinting to us and something that is missing some type of completion something that is they I have a vessel here everything I told you in the world has a relationship between a vessel and a light so I have a vessel but it requires work and to be refined now the letter Ted I mean the month starts with a letter tit there's all says that the Ted is you know it has the motion look at how you write the Ted it curls into itself and that hints that inside there's this good goodness Tomica news and and there the word the this all is using is to via God knows big of a the there's goodness hidden in deep sigh deep down inside in the body like in sin in it and where do we find again the word cavity in the Torah that has no context to the words of it is when I wanna Cohen used to light the candles it says hot cavatelli votes now it's not a regular Hebrew to speak you would say lightly kotero ought to light up the candles what was the action of a tavataan revolt we read out everyday if you read the Khobar note you should read it it's very very powerful it really empowers the body because we have the power instead of sacrificing it on the altar to say it and it does the same effect it gets the nefesh very very excited to serve a Shem it's a very powerful thing to do in the morning is to read the the Civil Code but not it's not a long but it's not a lot maybe we'll take you ten minutes maximum takes me three minutes because I already know it fast but it says there that I won a coin used to do hot tub at an award now really what it means that the baton Awards imagine the menorah in Bethany gosh it wasn't like the local lukio that we had it had these big cups now in the cup was oil and the oil would burn and when all burns makes a lot of dirt on the sides tavataan award is they used to clean it I mean first I wanted to do it in the coin has to do it but it means taking the cup and really cleaning it so I can put again pure oil this is hot a lot and a lot and of course then he had to put the wick and set up the week but the concept of hot Cavett an award in leshan course he says load seat up so let's take out the junk take out the garbage and not only to take out the garbage is to prepare the wick and the oil to prepare something now again we see that when this is a word the same word that is in the collages with written different letters different air valves we read it now the maddest of it and if you remove the hey of hot Kuwata note hey always when you can remove a hey and you get a word it always will hint on the hair of the kadosh boho or something holy move the hay from hot Avot an award again you found the same letters that it built and tough which can be read as cohort can be taught or can be read as the name of the month to vet so each and every one of us in our deep in our heart something very very pure I mean you know when I grew up I was a very very very rebellious child and and my mom always says you know you see he's such a good boy a good boy what are you living some type of denial not a good boy my mom she always saw something deep in the arts I was really really really wild boy like poor parents how many times I had to beg for forgiveness but my wife my mom was such a good boy I would get in trouble why do that you're such a good boy that's such a I'm not a good boy so each and every one of us has a very very unique goodness very special kindness in the heart but it's so deep down inside so deep a cover there then you you can't don't see it now what you need to do is you need to elevate the candles this is what it says about Allen Shuhei Allah knelt Emelia the candle that used to burn it it's called never comida constantly had to be a burning candle in Betemit - and I won't used to relay high loads never to me do it - elevate it so what I need to take from this whole thing to summarize because unfortunately our time is up is that we have a very powerful month yes if you go now online or buy some books you see that most commentaries or most ways to explain the minds these things are very bad months don't go out of the house but it's not true nothing cannot be such a thing that it's that something that a Shem created is bad Hashem can only create good things so yes it seems maybe there's a lot of judgment here in this month but we have a source from this all saying the judgment originates from a Haim from mercy but take all the information that I just told you because at the end of the day you can apply it to yourself and you can apply to somebody else if I wanna apply to myself then if I suffer from anger usually anger will also bring depression by the way we have a course that is called tikkun aminos the refinement of character where I explained that we we have to refine our character and then they built in an eye our key if you're looking at the positive side and the highest media will be me data ANOVA being humble and there if you're looking it on the negative side what will be no position will be the media that is called gave up the media of pride is the highest of the worst middle it's called gather and there's always gonna be something opposing the other this what's rama malik says elements above i Loki Mishima was created something that is a mirror so on the positive side is me Donovan like Moshe Rabbeinu my Cheyenne Ave Nicole was very humble and moshe wasn't a smarty that went like this Masha Allah Boehner was a powerful guy that the magma says he was three meters I know it's three meters nine foot he was a huge guy he was able to lift up the the the tablets the tablets are six feet the tablet is not what you see in the movies that you know you know things like that amam Amazo shushing sentimental the tablets are six feet Sher Shah mode yeah this is not that it became like this what you see that more shares with white hair and is really hugging them each tablet is a massive piece very soon we're gonna see it very soon machines coming we're gonna get on a blade yeah we're gonna see it well there's two opinion some say that it's under the hotel under the cottage a condition where the toilet is right now this on the hava bite is a toilet with the buddha the golden dome so this is a toilet in the ocean I'm next to next nextdoor the Kotel MRV above code ajikko the shim somewhere down there but anyways some say that it's buried underneath then some say that Tito's team extremo took it and it's under the Vatican I mean Tito's did take a lot of things and and some say yo he took everything and I wanna believe it is in summer hidden in the Vatican and they know what it is but we have the Holy Ark and in the Ark is the is the tablets there's also the remainings of the first tablets and many other things are in the article very soon we're gonna see it you're gonna see its massive it's huge and by the way just for to talk for the record the tablets are not rounded on the top like most do it they're square on the top there's a square the tablets are rectangle and most places they draw the tablets with a lower round top and it's incorrect even now when we go to set fill Toa the cavern we had different designs and one of the designs were gorgeous but in the middle it had the tablets on it and the rounded top and I was like I don't wanna bite because it's a mistake it's not correct no kindig my right says very clearly the measurement the size the width everything so the tablets are a rectangle so motional burner was this a big guy he was able to carry them but then doesn't stop him from being humble so motion banner was the highest level of humility of another but they are me delve a novice Galva now Amida will always birth another media me there is an attribute or character to character character trait and me there were always birth another one so if you're looking at the negative side of gear valve pride if a person has a too much of pride it will birth anger because if somebody didn't do what I want him to do the reaction right away will be anger and what would be the next reaction sadness and some explaining that first comes a pride and then two branches sadness and anger because if somebody stepped on my ego so either I'll be very angry I'm gonna be very upset so either way you're looking at it the anger and the sadness they come from the same place for me ego it's over the ego so if you want to look at it in a personal way that I need to know that I need to take this month to clean the vessel at tavataan they would clean all the junk out sit in to chew up what I need to do and to realize that I have a lot of junk to get rid of doesn't matter right now what's the junk is doesn't matter right now from judgment or jealous or sad or I am upset at somebody for 50 years because they said something I need to really sit with myself and do chuva to dig down in my past to see where can I rectify it what's the tycoon that I can do and and this can be achieved in this month now if I want to apply to somebody else I can do the exact same thing for somebody else is not unnecessary that's for me you can do it for my spouse my kid where I rectify the deficiency something in somebody that I love by cleaning the junk out and applying it to somebody else either way you're looking at it you need to take all the information that we spoke about so internalize the video will be online today you can repeat it over and over and besides the note that you're taking as to understand what causes me to be angry because this month is a month that so say we'll bring it up to the surface if something is coming up to the surface that's when you fish it and if you notice we have a pond outside you can't get the fish when they're older way down when they come up to the surface there's always a cat they're sitting like that waiting there any patient these cats they're just waiting for the fish to come up to the surface and then they can there then they can hunt them so this month we'll bring all the junk up you just need to be ready to be able to start cleaning the vessel to let sort of at an award so just clean the the cup and then you can really lay a lot knelt amid to elevate this this right really in essence the month is not a bad month is actually a very good month all I need to do is know how to apply it now I need to know is how to recognize it and the only way to recognize it is like I told you before is only I said waiting patiently why should waiting patiently it will be equivalent to saying diminisher you go a little bit when you diminish your ego because why you get impatient because you think you deserve it right now how many times you sit in the restaurant the waiter doesn't come right away how dare is the waiter not come right away I'm sitting here ready for three seconds and he didn't come to me so that's it coming from my ego my impatience is only coming from my ego how come I'm not getting it right now so the only way I was saying it nice before that we have to be patient for the light just to come for something to come into my life the way to do it is only if I really humble myself then I am able to start working on it and yes situations of anger or a challenge will come I just need to be aware to capture it and clean let's clean it you know when other people have the habit now on Hanukkah some people buy candles some people buy these cups that it's like a hardened oil and once you light it it melts some people like buying pure oil and pouring it and the next day you have to clean the cup that's what the coin is to do the priests used to do in the main in the beta me - so we want to internalize all this information and to understand it's a very powerful month I can really work on myself a month or growth I can work on my anger I can work on my patience I can work on my on my ego and to understand the only way to do it is only if I clean myself up I'm not gonna be able to work on myself if I'm not cleaning the junk and the cleaning the junk is only if I really sit down and say okay where am i failing where can I be a much better person where I can apply the patience so I'll try to be more patient with my kids more patient with my wife more patient with everything around me and I apply it that's when I really refined the dirt that's when I can really light up - Shama and gain to the level like the koi needs to light up the candles so that - Shama will be all lit up lit up in the excitement to service him to be excited that I'm that I have the opportunity to participate in the holy work that Hashem gives me so I will definitely conclude this month as a positive mark there not a negative month anything that you would look at as something negative you will turn a negative but if you look at anything as an opportunity and becomes a very powerful month and we see the goodness in the word that the word Tibet the Taurus has caught my ram it's tough it's rude it's just very hidden when I said how to apply to somebody else when you asked I can look now at my kid and let's say he's not doing so great in school or I can look at my wife that maybe she is not exactly how I would want or my friend or my neighbor I can ride away a throw and project on them all these negative things or I can recognize the goodness in them I can come out to my child let's say he's not doing so great in school right now or I don't know doing something that is wrong I can right away empower the bad or I can recognize the good and and and empower that you know when one time I child came home one of my kids it's a boy you know boy likes likes getting in trouble so the teacher sent a note that he did something nowadays they don't even send the notes they send an SMS they don't mind when I was a kid you have to where you had to walk home with a note and every step was like oh my god I'm on step closer to the home now now it's just sweating at home in the SMS so it did something there wasn't a hundred percent good and when he came home I was like what did you do to the in school and right away he became very like defensive no they told him I'm not I'm not gonna punish you I just want to know what happened and one reaction that would be the negative reaction is to scream at him and to take his toy away or you're not getting your free time today or whatever but the right attitude was that I was like okay what did you do you told me I did this okay so I said let's sit down let's read a little bit of talk together we learnt about me and my kids so because so you didn't really something bad if I would scream at you if I would punish you what do I do here I empower the bad he's not gonna be so cooperative but I sit down says let's get something good let's do something that is positive I get the positive out and then that's the reaction that I will get trust me he will think twenty times next time before he's doing something mad not because of fear because he's happy that he doesn't want to disappoint his father or he's understanding wait a minute I did something wrong so he can apply that to another person by putting the good out we are very very weird creatures that were able to very quickly pull the bad out of everybody you see the Lord with husbands and wives instead of empowering the the spouse that's like no you did you did ten good good things but one is bad and I'm focusing on the bed so you you can apply it with yourself with your own self refinement or with somebody else you want to help somebody get refined empower the good not emphasize the bad that's the easiest thing to do let's see you going to somebody else and pulling out the good and complimenting you know now we have Minnie anymore every day one of my kids he asked permission he doesn't go to school to pray in the school he prays with him but we pray much earlier than the school every day he shows up here and of course I'm happy and proud but he doesn't know that there isn't a wireless system between me and him I need to come and tell him very proud of you how you wake up every day very early usually you wake up much later than that now you wake up an hour earlier and you come and I'm very proud that you're standing next to me and everybody is my son participating see the face glowing just just one word one little word I'm very proud of you so that's how you empower others that you pull the good out and everybody has something good I know some people are annoying and some people you can say right away and I don't know I don't see anything good here everybody is possessing something or if regime created them they have something good there it might be covered with a lot of junk but you just need to know to pour it out to empower it and this is the secret of the month of Tibet's that you really need to know - how to pull go to the depth of the depth and pull it out and trust me the results are going to be really unbelievable I'm just going to wish you to have a beautiful beautiful month successful month with a lot of happiness and health and darkness I should be good and should really reach to the level that we can refine ourselves so we will refine the world to such a level that we'll be able to see with our own eyes the lighting of the menorah very soon in vitami - [Music] you 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