Practical Chasidus w R' Chaim Dalfin - Maamar Matza Zu 1944 #2

2:13 my MA removal kit volume 2 page 213 yesterday we learned a very important thing that I we saw how yoni got so animated and into it and some and Boas was out lying on Facebook live and he commented that he really enjoyed the the class what we learned yesterday towards the end is the importance of dealing knowing the right strategy to deal with the y8 Sahara which Cassidy's calls nefesh Obama's not yet to hurry if I said this you find the term nefesh how Bobby's before the Yeates of her and therefore show the kiss for the a third toe and there's a difference by the way between the two but we will leave that for another time anyway and the rabbits played the previous rabbit is mine was said in 1944 free the crab explained that you have to negotiate you have to know how to negotiate right the art of negotiation it's an art the art of the deal if you don't if you don't know how to negotiate and cut the deal you can be a developer genius or even a fool but you won't get anywhere sometimes we see foolish simple people they accomplished a lot sometimes we see very intelligent people they accomplish little so the difference is how you approach the topic how you deal with the problem problem solving involves Reuven thoughtful calm negotiation so here we have here we have the dates of her who says listen the coronavirus is happening and Bibi Netanyahu and the staff have said you shouldn't congregate and therefore you shouldn't congregate that you shouldn't facilities to learn the more you should learn how lockup you should always your time another day this is not what this is that what I said wants I'm not saying you should to violate the law contrib it shouldn't violate the law but if you're allowed to have ten people together you should maximize the experience because there is conducive to that so we're maximizing the experience because we have butter for sharing people that are learning concepts together now what is the way to deal with the nefesh a bomb is it requires the first thing is to be able to talk with each other the number one reason why we have a break that is because people are not talking with each other they're talking at each other if you know if you poke at each other there's no conversation we have to find a method in which you could talk to each with each other so the rebus says the way to talk with each other is to is to use the nefesh have sickness which is now a third to rise in the human being it's the power of sale the power of the mind and the animal as much as it's an animal can appreciate some intelligence at the end of the day the animal says I want to be an animal and therefore if we're this aborting I would just came when I came here I was in front of Shabbos I had a coffee at the Google piece of news anus and a temple man who comes from Brighton Beach at 4 o'clock in the morning of a train every morning is 75 he's really a boss Shem Tov's drew the Mamas he's half deaf he doesn't hear well no no no an American a group I think in the Lower East Side and he finds affinity coming to the shul heee he cleans up the SU durian he puts this adoring in and and things like that right and things like that he does all that but nevertheless nevertheless he tells me take another piece of cake he says it's Marvin but simpler Marvin but simple it's the month of other I said it's Martin Pacifica so some Marvin be bettin I had one piece and I'm getting a defense I shouldn't have I had to control myself and butterflies em I did I didn't have another piece why am I saying that because the nefesh a botanist wants me to have another piece but it's unhealthy so there's a living se ho that there's leftover and now can you control yourself will you control yourself will you not that's what sail has to kick in so the nefesh are sick Lee is the intelligent driving man talks to the nefesh Obama's little cycle it says Bahama Bahama you're a Bahama you just want to indulge and Thresh and sleep and then go forth and waste your time but you won't amount to anything right yeah you you're young what's your son's name what's your name your name's rose you throw you're a young boy and your brother just became my Mitzvah now you have your whole life in front of you to learn to read to do something important it doesn't mean you shouldn't play sports and and if you wanna follow sports whatever you know you should have you should enjoy your life but at the same time you know that I'll tell you a secret it's wrong when I was a young boy your age I used to be a met fan that in the Europe is a team called the New York Mets they're not too good because the Yankees are the big team of New York because they were there much earlier and they had give here the Bronx Bombers even know what I'm talking about you throw [Music] did you hear of Babe Ruth did you hear the guy game Babe Ruth did their pure this Israeli boys anyway so but I was a Mets fan the Mets were a new team a new group and they were like that popular and then in 1969 they won the World Series which was a big reduce its while they started I think of 61 or 62 or 1869 they were world champion so the whole world was talking about them Wow right right I was a mid fed back to 1969 Ruthie remembers Rubin yeah Tom Seaver he was a great picture Tom Seaver was the great picture anyway what why am I telling you this so this is to the boys because but I was in yeshiva right and we learned and we thousand and we played ball that was a very good student and the first thing I did I came home is I did my homework my say do show them was a survivor from Poland he would they bought me a Hamish and Yiddish with Yiddish tights that was my first language and he would sit with me put me on his on his on his knees and he would review the hummus with me that I learned in yeshiva and and I learnt it and I finished my homework and that we had supper and then I was able to if I wanted to follow the Mets I was able to follow the Mets what what am I saying to you there's time for both what are on radio on radio on radio yeah and so my point is I'm not I'm not telling you know your parents have to give you the instruction and you're reading your teachers but the point is that there's a way of negotiating with the y8 Sahara the hrs says that goof-off you say I'll goof off later right now I want to concentrate I want to learn I want to have information and you you get that information because what you get when you're young you'll never get later in your life because your mind is fresh you're a fresh vegetable you're a fresh fruit you're not saying it is far filed you know it's our fault it's a good give this word far foiled means rotten know to eat a rotten apple no one's theater rotten pear it's right if something's fresh awesome hire its fresh when you're young your head is fresh you get older like some of us here our heads already are getting unfresh them that's why we learned every morning to make ourselves fresh see what we take your slow and Manasseh is people who are older middle-aged to older and we're refreshing our heads and that's what we have to do the necklace I promise we have to refresh their heads of the nefesh our bodies and the rebus said hello guys and the rebus said that he said as important thing he said hello what happened to the video we see one second one second so then he says that that that what is this practically mean he says there's what we call Velma conifers you know cutting off it means worldly attitudes worldly attitudes means the world says you have you have to wear a tie and it used to be this way it's not just wait any longer and the tie has to be exactly straight so the rabbi 1956 pouran everyone saying we'll hire them and their ever turns to a very good come across committee says today is poram ascension help that you should vacate you should leave your attitude of having to have your time be exactly straight it was also his tie had to match the color of his socks the rebus said to him that's you I understand you want to wear a tie fine but it has to be exactly straight why because the world says if it's not exactly straight you're not a good person you're a Mazel you're slim there is to break the worldly attitude or let's say let's say the whole idea of their people who told you yesterday they wash their hands but they're not careful you throw when you wash your hands there's a hollow cos the first wash the second wash this be handle shouldn't be wet I mean this complicated how locals did laws regarding washing the point is something I said I just watch my head what do you want from me be thankful I'm washing my hands now that's good for someone who doesn't know any better you're right but someone who knows better who lives on my pajamas was going to yeshiva who's learning Tara that's not a good excuse that's why you're here you're here to find out the details and to learn the details and to understand the details so this director says it's part of what we have to educate the nefesh I promise let us continue now to 13 chapter base this is a more difficult chapter but we will get through it evading in august with shreya remember this minor is about Matz's ooh what is the issue what is the importance of this matter and why we might say what is matzah so the rebus says to understand this we first have to introduce the whole concept of gulfs the Egyptian exile the Egyptian girl looked and also what the intensive Italian the Exodus believing the Messiah by avoid the beneficent other what does that mean re in our service of a self what is the idea of go low slowly and intense isn't ryeom in our own soul the Hina you do of the battalion who makes her me look at the word Natalia yes well you see the word that's ryeom the crime is made of six letters don't count the dollar the first dollar gives the forget about the Mitzvah in the six letters mem saw the graves you'd men mates are me write the you the man you can reverse sorry five letters apologize five letters makes a me the constraint makes that means comes only from the word sire the narrowness makes our me of me me who cleaners been me is the level of being uh Bellamy's understanding via Duat snow the whole latest his gallows have meters will fit a subpoena all birth and all revelation of emotions comes from bina if you understand something and you understand why it's important or why I should be close to it the why should be far from it then you gravitate towards it if you understand why it's awesome and you should stay far away you stay away so the emotion yoni the Middle's the emotions are a derivative of being of understanding Oh commercial coastal of Delayer Yodas is abundant the terraces re layer one of Yaakov wives had six children Laird says in Kabbalah who pima's bina is the level of bina the shame of the day love Leia the same Hashem the the same hey g'day long Leia and the name of the elder one the older sister is Leia mushy shabanam hey mister missus the six children that Leia had are the six emotions said no the mean betta that are born from bina Mexico so the physically there is a verse which says in this way based on your intelligence Yahoo la ish man will praise how much praise does one give only the based on the cup mount that you understand Seiko hand hug the submitter is to not say ho all behavior of emotions emotional behaviors are based on the amount of intelligence you have with a thing I put in the Sava that wasn't on him therefore a youngster a minor an infant desires it little petty things an agency claimed a seat what if tiny or any because the capacity the brain capacity of a youngster is as little is not much is right so the youngster understands that the cookies are excellent and delicious and I should eat the cookies and and even if it means that I don't hear what's being cooked why because to me eating the cookies is more important I'll give you an example I'm not saying you can't do both I'm just saying right the the I should face I should go and in middle of diverting go outside and just play around and talk to my friends but they're talented but the mind the capacity of the mind doesn't understand really the importance of traveling with a minion and during the time of diverting so what do we have we have a metre an emotion a behavior that's based on the intelligence the less intelligence the less of the emotional strength and and magnitude Google said mass according to Doyle Emilio where as an elder an adult who comprehends great things the famous a valid warrant out David therefore he has a tither he has a real desire for great things maganda me this yes when Malcolm you have a affinities are making although the emotions have their own source and they are an intellect now what we're talking usually when we say hello that the six meadows are triggered by bina it doesn't mean to say sort of say now it doesn't mean to say that the emotions don't have their own place in the soul they do the triggering means access there's a difference between accessing something and and it being created by that something so he says it's not being created by stat something it's being accessed by that something but it's not the essence the XM has its own the meadows have their own source in the essence the other knob there look at this Jenny says menachem follow Michaela I'm with my loving core emotion the source of the emotions are higher in the soul in the nephrogenic higher greater that the source of the in mind too much in ever bizarre top of page 214 it says in desire any quotes above the EEMA father and mother the Missoula is callaloo are incorporated in the Mosel who say hey I'm Penn and the small faces which is the emotions the Ithaca orchid italia are hanging and depending on Attock a little cabal of what does it mean listen to this Abba Dima Abbas hokhmah wisdom image right the mother develops the child's nine months just the pregnant period and then there's a child above EEMA bit Missoula Scalia they're included in the different Mozilla's Missoula's are not the highest level but pose a romp in the small faces referring to the mythos the six emotions six attributes but Atika after the Dahlia they are they are depend of heat me you had Antalya dependent totally I'm in attic after gives is the high is the highest level of cancer the crown Nicomachean says that ever that's true nevertheless latest of these scholars have either this what I said the axis he says the birth and the revelation of the leader whom are settled Africa so the intelligence yelled informs the way the meet that will look yes yes the emotion has a place in the soul itself but the way the emotion will express itself and in the in your world and your in your being depends on how much intellect you have that fuels its expression and we see that right a youngster gets very flabbergasted by nonsense very emotional bites foolish things little things because they don't have the brain capacity someone who's mature and and an ask them you became by Mitzvah so you now are mature that's what we say otherwise we want to make you about Mitzvah you don't want to make you about it sir because you became mature now if you became it sure you have to ask yourself how am i mature I was 12 and 364 days yesterday today I became 13 all of a sudden I'm a different person that's exactly what the Torah saved the Torah says that a Bar Mitzvah boy changes overnight and had the first Mitchell smile what do you say smile and smile you say some are you ever gonna share my hood and be rbirtle shame every after you think about the greatness of God you think about the world that created and it has to come into a Veloster you know though half is love Hashem it's not enough to say I you have to develop a love fashion you know you develop a love fashion you learn from people who are special people and service them you hang around those people you look at those people and you have to learn yourself because sometimes people can seem very nice but they aren't so you have to learn you have to be intelligent you have to have the information from the total sources you could take out a super narrow you could take out a gumar you could take out a book of fasteners and you can say look right here oh and then you say I see this person behaving this person is living a life that I learnt about in kollel in yeshiva so what what do we have from here that I say hokum I always say it as a meter by day's end cytometer the only the seho is like the light that illuminates the meter the emotion and through this the meter is aroused there's an arousal of the emotion at what point does wait wait you got it good question I know I understand the where you're at what you're thinking but you got it we got it we got to learn the bulk of the mind might answer that okay we'll get back to it oh commercialization take someone who's in darkness yes some governor cave for a supervisor Lee let's handle a governor who there's something in front of you that's very good and sweet that you wish to have our magazine earlier but since it's dark and you don't know where it is right let's say you have to go down to your basement to get something a good bottle of wine it's a delicious bottle a good bottle but guess what it's totally pitch dark in the basement the mainland ladies say that I'll have seven dollars in so you say to yourself ah I ain't going down to a dark place I've got a trip and hurt myself you lose you're what is wrong you lose your desire and wish to get that good bottle of wine okay what what rots of ruck through the defender he says the word tender yet the desire why I in the row an hour I see something oh it looks good Vallejo mate and the heart desires that heart has a diver my kid I say how may decide medium so to the intelligence the logic it illuminates the emotion Hillel oh my real Aussie yes the other toe and it shows the person there's something good over here oh come on I'm a guy looks yes rates of netbooks she is sated but notes of a happened to Lisette here fiery says the language Ruxin take for example someone who show someone else a treasure of the great treasure and he says go for that treasure the / back said money yes with him delight surely he has what he has a desire to get the treasure and should called up to your darshan insulates it for your I've up the hell up you ain't if he was not told before he was toasted as a treasure here he had no ruts on he had no desire cuz he would didn't know about it particularly CS Lee said and when it was revealed to him that there is a note sir here there is a treasure Maceda Damita his heart now says I want this treasure so boys if you know that there is something that you guys want let's say a basketball or a good glove or I don't know skates I don't know whatever you are whatever a football something good what a game boy so if you and if I tell you listen if you go in here you're gonna get a gameboy free of charge it's yours to keep there's only one problem it's dark and dingy and ugly and stinky and you say forget it I don't want it I don't want it I want it but I ain't going there if you are this is one thing the other thing is if I explain to you if I tell you listen there is a mr. Brewer there is about Tonya super Nora here and there and it's free for you and you say okay I'd like that because I could use that for you see that later it might be my glasses only problem is I have to go to trust to get it you're gonna say I ain't gonna trust to get a free show corner oh I'd rather look in with someone else will buy my own or not have what Alisa morally by heart in other words the Seiko listen to all we're saying here kids the sacred the intelligence the mind inspires the feeling either way and if the mind tells you don't do it or it's not good then the feeling says that I don't want it if the mind says it's a great thing you say I do want it so that's what he's saying over here that then the same hole is Magali reveals and inspires them either make a nice a home maybe some either below that me to say kilo annum kilo Ava look at the language yo Nicky ego without the sacral it's as though the emotions it's as though it's not that there's no emotions for love Haigler fury for not say who he goes back to his point based on the capacity of the saint whole cargo am either so is the emotion may a fleshie Crusaders had meet them I say ho since the primary drive of this of the meters the sacral floor fan cook the Mustapha Gordon column and my desires small things they saved in my sake be simply because he doesn't understand his mind what him today them great things came to what I'm telling you ravages small things well first got me base of therefore OSA is emotions himbut what I'm telling Google Sam I said according to daily life ain't got me days that had been running the day later someone was a goggle who was an adult who understands that appreciates great things therefore his emotions are also for great things he doesn't waste his emotions for minor silly things Zell Gump can I have this business ain't holdin em for shot Bob little second definitely kids you only let's see if he cut answers your question here he says this is also a difference between the intellect within the nefesh our bodies to the intellect within the nefeli kiss enough it surely is not officially a Bobby's call us below so you'll be taught in gosh p.m. o modern a saying your narrator may trace the nefesh a bomb is its intelligence healer was used for one thing for gaseous I prove to you that God is is good so therefore chose to to the person how worldly matters are good Oh miss a valium and it causes the person to desire to have Italia to - knees behind my sacral I caught this a massive act what I'm tiny head if just like the sake of a of a minor which comprehends only small minor things when their facilities and the godly soul call us philosopher I suppose ability cooks its entire comprehension y means just one thing about God or miss Veda no matter the sea 28 silica strength and the net facility kids contemplates and it shows with intelligence how godly this is the good thing will hang collapse of it insanely its entire desire who'll are said Nevada just to be with God so we have this difference of use of intelligence between the nefesh a bomb is using intelligence to justify its being a babe being an animal desire and the net facility is using intelligence to be more godly um norm behave in her letters have me this must say though we talk about the manner in which the emotions come forth from the intellect in a yes say of a struggle you feathers l'homme it emitted a fraud there is an intelligence a logic that's individualized who made me disgusted a guru shame Boveda Avira take the leader the attribute of racet kindness and Gura justice shame by vada a leader when if they express himself in love in above the union of fear yes his brothers feel sadness how many letters a sarvam there is a very particular meditation which what which causes to the other two are up to a new ride to to to come back to rise right that's what he says and then he says the yes is brothers feel that there's so many others as a leader and there is a meditation of thought process that specifically awakens fear or the who can you do it's known she IVA Meeker of the year Mirotic when you feel something is near you then you gravitate towards it right whereas Veera fear comes from something that is Murdock like distant from you panic explains the devil I've always got evil because I govern her now the nature of love is to be attracted and close to the thing that you love whatever have my in Ludovic water that glues two things together did the vent die Beck is like glue in April it brings two things together over a day Kate over I never lol have a this language motion it comes through the closeness of the lover the love the love the loving and to the lover Okamoto I've said native costly inventory and like a father who does cried this to his child covers but not yet sir and he does it with the with the with the will of the willingness of the son said native even a mother he gives it fooled you kids you thought your parents give you food or the clothing the canvas has co-co-co love and he takes care of you he didn't want you to run around like wild beasts on the street today cuz you have no school probably so he brought you to clay low and the most admires gave you some books he calmed down and some of you are reading or someone you are listening so in other words someone's taking care of you me a leave all day and this is happening kids from the day you were born never forget your parents change your dirty diapers never forget that when you're 70 years old then boys be respectful if you need that to make that set you straight remember who took care of you when you were a little baby crying and and running around and you know in the Hawking of China your parents of go further so he says we came by robbery your Rebbe in school shall linderhof mummy Gustavus you know your Rabb is teaching you he's not just teaching you about the parson and about the facility jump if he's teaching you to be mence he sits in your torah he's teaching what's good is teaching or what's no good he's teaching you meters good behavior remember that to be respectful of such a person who took of his time and he spent time trying to hock to educate you and to and to teach her to be a mensch show you days and also i've of a cait of cooking when we realize that yummy we have a love for that person I'm always thankful to my Rabbie's and teachers who taught me and I learned so much from them Barra Hashem I could say I had a excellent relationship with them and not that they were perfect not that they didn't have flaws but the the I the the gain was greater than the loss so that makes me have a a ver a feeling of love the care of Google may have been vomited on goblet from the son of the student whose father in his teacher a camera avid Mel Laird I'm Ellen type of one to fifteen maybe my mascara veil of a servant right you know the servant is a slave a maid who helps out behind the ship miss Bassett a love mcdu disgusted I'm election is II know that I verbal ever ever Elam Elam a certain cover of a king the King bestows upon the servant some of his love some of his concern and care so the servant reciprocates the reserve n't says wow this kiddin is a great guy and therefore the King reciprocates right exactly yes that's right right over frac I should ever you dare maven to do the same Ella especially the kid if this wave realizes the greatness of the King on the calm okay might have mascara relationship and nevertheless even though he we have here a great king all the kids all the slaves recognize and want to be close and the slaves are strongly ship the slaves are you know therefore the lower lowest rank of humanity a days that I take the low either be ancestor Ashley but they love through this the greatness of the love is is still felt in the slave and the slave wants to attach himself to the master we're going to stop here and continue tomorrow what's going down over there see that you guys are bored and the movie chairs what they're closing up shop what are they doing it's not what you're going to get a ticket they're gonna close the show what yeah they do tickets they do but they're not coming around to schools but they're going around to like restaurant weddings okay now the source of our title earnings should end this a fear an issue and we should talk abou circa to a good day and only health and what happened is I couldn't