Why you must be selfish while dating…

the second thing is when you're dating or whatever you call it it's a bad word yeah you have to be completely selfish right yeah I read that in the book to see what will work for you don't try to make a good impression right what do you you have you have to make a good impression every how about listen I I know for me when I date I'm like 9010 I don't speak anything I just listen cuz you're too concern concerned with what I'm going to say no what what impression you're going to make yeah is she going to like me what do you care if she likes you she's a stranger okay she's nobody to you Le the pressure is off not well yeah you got to be completely selfish what will she like about me