Stop making this mistake in relationships

and I told this woman the reason you can't relate well to your husband and why you're so insecure in your marriage is cuz you're not actually in your marriage you're in your parents marriage wow and that's what I feel is the key to healthy relationships be in a healthy relationship with yourself and all of the other relationships in your life are going to figure itself out wow that's amazing and I must ask how does one build a healthy relationship with themselves oh it's a life time