Pesach Laws & Customs according to Chabad #2

[Music] thank you thank you so we're on page six okay you ready you're innocent you have it good costa rica his family household members should stand near him and that each one wherever whichever place he goes to shall search as kind of as of the father they should not speak make an interruption unnecessarily betw between the bracha and their beginning of searching the closest room to where the brother has been made that's where you should search first so you shouldn't go let's say let's say you measure your house let's say you make the brock in the kitchen you shouldn't go upstairs to the to the room you you should go to the closest place to the kitchen first now you could send your children to those rooms if you want i don't do it that way i myself go to each room and i have them come with me and help me in the process how do you handle when sometimes they they begin to lose like um you know you're looking and you're searching you're going from here you're going from this you know and they sort of you get distracted this one you know whatever i mean listen it's it's uh you do your best you know you you know beforehand you say it's it's you're not supposed to talk you know unless it's relevant to the arrests yeah exactly yeah let's continue it's proper that you the the father was making the program his kavanagh his intent should be based that he has a mind for the males to do the ridiculous comments that are helping him he says the rebel writes that the keeper should gamble and since the the father the balabayas will search a little bit in addition to his kids okay there is a concept that when you do a mitzvah's best that you do it yourself than appointing an agent to do it for you um so he says it's not a contradiction in this case in the parentheses it says the best way of doing the mitzvah you that those that search if you're going to have people search for with you and for you they should be over 13. but again the way i do it i'm doing all the searching so i don't need you know what i'm saying and and it seems like women are not included in this in this thing so here we talk in your case i know like the people who are at home are are your daughters right so i i have them you know i mean now they're older but you know when they were younger they they tagged along but i i was doing the searching myself it was me yeah yeah and i'm saying when my son was home and you know uh and he's over bar mitzvah so again i don't recall if in other words out of the ten pieces let's say he he found three and i didn't search for three so in that case he's saying that evan says that i when i have my breath i should have a mind for my son is over by mitzvah that that's the best way to do it so in your case you have your son your son's home usher right what's his name usher yeah so foster is helping you and he's over by mitzvah you have to have him in mind when you make the bracha and then he can look in a few rooms and you don't have to go to those rooms if you want to do it that way it's fine that's an interesting okay again i i don't know i i was you know i was raised that my father you know search for all the comments so i do the same way did your father did did you help your father did your father give you there were shoes to go to certain rooms i don't know you know i i don't think so i i don't i i don't have a vivid as far as i know he looked for all the ten and and what he had me do i held the candle or the thing you know i'm saying i held i helped in every room yeah but he did it himself okay i got it yeah no because of this idea of mitzvah it's better he he says here it's not a contradiction to that concept but the concept is still a constant it's best to do a mix for yourself then i'm pointing ages to do a mitzvah for you okay uh you understand is that clear good uh he says that it it appears from the from the language of chanery abdullah mcfar the candle should be lit before you make the bracha not after you make the bracha broken the brother should be as close to the actual searching as possible and i you know because some people probably they make a brooklyn where's the candle it's like a balagan no the candles should be lit the guy you try whoever had you know what i'm saying everything should be in place make the brother and begin that's what he says which which is by the way the way he's supposed to do every mitzvah that's why there's a whole shield in halacha with the tillage you dying when you wash it happens shabbos means you have guests and you wait for everyone to come to the table some say it's a hepsig okay well makel you know but that's why by the way i don't know if you it's that i don't think that you still do but in many restaurants talking about restaurants you know they when you go out you and you wash they have next to the wash basin that piece of bread because of this halacha so there shouldn't be a half stick between going going from there to the table so you see how much the halacha is muck be this careful about the smeakos about the you know what i'm saying yeah that's that's uh that definitely cares not that i go to that many restaurants but it's that's a good start here to stroll they don't seem to do that very much but you know but i understand yeah i know yeah but one thing's for sure i always tell my wife you know like prepare the salads and bring them to the table later because we got to make the brook as soon as close as soon as possible to the to the to the nutella you know okay but but one shouldn't go crazy and lose sleep over it and then you know and make fights it's not not worth it okay uh he that the says whoever is making the broccoli should hold the actual candle that's lit in his right hand if he's a right in his left hand if he's a lefty broch and the household membership that want to participate in the particular lot they should have a mind to fulfill their obligation with the house of the fa the the father is and people don't know that too and it's the same idea you only answered when you don't want to be it's your obligation in this case everyone wants to be owed to their obligation so barack obama should not be said but say you have someone in the house who's going to make their own badika right elsewhere they should answer barack obama okay let's continue well what number are you on zion zion in the fourth the four uh the fourth line actually the fifth line after the the parenthesis when you make the bracha you have to have a mind not only the searching but the nullification which is called the beetle that follows call you know that's called the bittle. should also have a mind the burning and the nullification that will follow so this is you know we didn't do it this way but what he's saying here everyone who's participating in the deca should have a separate bag with a feather and candle now i assume i assume he's talking about those others that you've allocated to do other rooms so if you're going to allocate usher to do a certain room and you're not going there he has to have a separate bag candle and feather that's what he says a hello do you have the pieces cassie ducey um oh yeah i probably have it in my whatsapp okay so if you want to follow take it out we're on page six um we're beginning or you could listen whatever you want okay any questions or we can go on i think it's clear yes moshe okay it's clear thanks now you see between the bracha and the actual beginning of the searching don't speak at all affiliate of matters that are relevant to the actual search which you are allowed to do as you continue searching let's say the candle blows out or what happens many times where is the peace you know if you you know if you need to you're stuck you're allowed to speak out then but between the beginning of the book at the beginning of the searching it says england clown because that's a hapsec that's mama jack okay to the entire time of the deca so again emotion will use moisture as an example if you're designating usher to help you he should be nuts he should not be speaking out unless it's relevant to the dika the entire time whereas your your daughters they're allowed to okay okay now we're on the huff test boyd came loyal shiva we use a shiver a a wax candle jochit that's one wick if he doesn't have a wick candle let him take others i think today the contemporary pus game rule that you could take a um a flashlight if need be or if it's dangerous you know you know saying guy i wouldn't suggest someone if he has parkinson's or things like that that you know his hands are shaking need to use a candle is by himself is use a flashlight so you have to know okay by your day noises if through the feather of of chicken whatever could they last so you could gather the little crumbs from the cracks you do not have to close the light during the reason for s is for the cracks [Music] in the middle of the room yes with the eyes of these comets so you need light you need like to see the reason for the candle that really is for the who is duck and for the cracks where the light doesn't get into [Music] okay so he he's saying you should not close the light he's saying we should not turn off the light in the room he's saying leave the light on yeah yeah yeah correct okay i'm a coimbatore korean uh places that are sold in you don't have to search anything that any place that's sold in in the mekira hey there is a boy a room which you surely didn't bring any comments and don't answer you don't have to search yes yes so when he writes this about about you don't check where in places where it's been sold so we're talking i'm talking about a person who makes the bit who makes the mihira like a day early meaning he's not he's not talking about the norm normally that goes into effect during the day after we make the search we make search at night the next day the majority goes into effect but there are those who for various reasons they have to make them a day early or or whenever or earlier even than that so i'm assuming that that's what is i'm assuming what i'm trying to say is i'm assuming that's what he's talking about well yes and no that in situ some situation yes but his main point is that you don't have to search in a room that you're that either you're selling or in a room that you've never even even if you're not selling it but you've never gone there i'll give you an example i have right here in the dining room this very heavy credanza and it's very happy to move away yeah now no one goes behind there to throw helmets there and i don't have your little children in the house technically i don't have to move that and i have every year i said it's it's not according to hello it's a budget it's not necessary right you know and so that's the same idea you know let's say meisha in your office let's say you have a room or a place that you know you never bring comments into and you're sure of that you don't have to check it technically okay let's go on we're up in addition to the 10 pieces you're innocent he puts it all into the little bag base he says the rabbit writes harabi kosev i mean organo it's our custom comments to spend lots of time searching for hummus so the rabbit says alosha mighty bizarre sheer muslim i did not hear a particular time a half an hour or 50 minutes an hour but the overall idea of minhogeno which is i know if it meets a hard one to fulfill it's it's really he's saying it's our custom to spend time to really search well and not do a one two three so if you're able to you're definitely uh doing what the rebbe suggests invoice is a bias if you didn't search the house you only search for the ten pieces of javascript and this is a this is a whammy i don't know he doesn't give a source here so i'm not pascaling because i mean who is to say who's to say searching i mean what why if i have to go to look for the piece i'm going and i'm looking the whole time why isn't that called searching i don't know but but in spirit i mean what i have an issue with is he's writing you haven't fulfilled your obligation it's a very heavy statement but in spirit you definitely haven't done it my dolphins also haven't spent i know but you but you're i'm not the alternate i don't think you're the alternative and even the rebel didn't spend the old night i know we we know from the people in the house he spent quite a bit of time several hours i think of of searching seriously in other words you have to search you have to go to every room and look and that itself takes time and that's why it maybe makes sense to have a a son who's over bar mitzvah to help because it's a lot of work whatever okay llama gimmel big mara badika when you finish the dika maniagasakis which has been it's still you know left over so you put it into the bag and you tie the bag now i don't know i was taught that the the handle of the cuff of the spoon sticks out of the bag now i don't know if that was because of convenience so you have something to hold on to i don't know that's the way i did it it's over my father oh you see he says chinese the handle of the calf of the spoon should not be in the bed but should protrude out so he says the same thing you should tie um with with a string well come upon the cushioning and you tie it up moving straight circles are it's understandable you have to be careful yeah you shouldn't put together with with all the uh stuff in the bag the the page you use to make the brothers you know because the many of the the comet's kids have that and meanwhile you'll be burning you know sheamus you should put the the bag in a guarded place observable to the eye you know don't don't put it away well again tomorrow you won't remember where it is almanas so put it high up somewhere on top of the refrigerator or whatever and it's in a bag you know i'm a national ishkako so that you won't forget to burn it to makaras while you do shabbat in a situation where you search for hummus when you searched well the lame monster was called and guess what you didn't behind all the ten pieces you could rely on the sale of comments and the nullification and you can walk go into pesach with a a a good spirit and it's it's been annulled yes the bag has to be a paper bag well what do you mean a pace of bad it shouldn't have comments in it a paper um that's what i've seen it has to be i i don't see why it has to be but it burns well you know i mean did you hear why did you hear a reason or you just heard that it has to be that way i heard it that way yeah everyone does it that way but i i don't think that abiding has to be isn't that broad and safer paper paperback yeah it probably is i'm saying that's the way it should be done but again if someone doesn't do it yet it's not that he hasn't done the mitzvah you have to always discern between what the halakhah is and what a minute is and you know this is especially when it comes to these type of things you know and you have to know that because it's going to come up someone won't have i'll take a plastic bag so you can tell me you haven't been used to the mitzvah that's ridiculous of course your video to the mitzvah but of course yes what let me just ask you another question connected to the topic so um i always go and make the deca after a bit after i go to the house i then go over to my studio right to do pedicure i just i don't i don't remember um i'm pretty sure that when it's when i literally go from the house to the studio i don't make a new bra at the studio right is that unless unless there's been a big amount of time right if if there's a half sick a hapsic you know a uni you know you totally massive dust then you have to make another broker problem but otherwise we do it that way yes and that's my father too when he had a factory i remember after he did it here he went to the right of way to the his factory to do take his comments there so that's that's the best way to do it okay ah that's found throughout your premises and what are you being the vata what are you annoying the comments that you did not find in your search you're not annoying the comments that you hid for eating or for burning by mrs muffins you have to be you have to fulfill the obligation of burning tomorrow so how how could you have a mind i want to know this comment so you don't want to want it because you want to have it so you should take it and put it into a fire tomorrow so what are we being the vatican in the kokamira at night only comments that we did not find in our buddhica is that clear hello do you understand what i just said or not no no i i no i i okay okay okay we say kokami at night after the dikka what comments are we being avatar right we're no longer are we knowing the coming of tomorrow morning we want to eat breakfast and cheerios no because you want to eat it tomorrow morning are we knowing the hummus that we found that we're going to burn tomorrow no because we need to have it to burn we're knowing all hummus that we did not find in our deca so we're saying in case there's comments we didn't find all of that should be a node that's that's all he said he's not there's no no no novelty is it just being clear and he says um i didn't know about it what the hell should be a novel i have to get for daughter you you look at the tai chi in the sydney you have to know the types yeah so make sure you know the taj in aramaic hebrew english or any language you have to know what you're saying this isn't abracadabra otherwise it's nothing if you read this and you don't know what you're saying you haven't done a bit you should know it's very important to tell people this that you know i mean you want to say it because it's in the cedar and aramaic please but make sure you know the language the translation very important is not at night at night tomorrow we're talking here at night this is comments the primary abode of the bittle is in the heart basically what should you pay attention to that whatever whatever comments i have been saying it's not it's not it's it's it's though i don't have it there in a crush of plume it's not worth anything valuable to offer it it's like dust we're on page seven now top line well could have ashamed and it's like it has no purpose the shot voting it's important that what's being said should be understood by the one saying it remain in your day of peter if he doesn't know the translation of the words the aramaic words yo imaze but should maven if you say in our language french arabic any language you understand that you have to say that think which i didn't destroy you daity which i didn't know if botel should be annulled the year and shall be healthcare ownerless like the dust of the earth if he says it in a language that he doesn't understand what he's saying he knows one thing that his kavanaugh is to know the comments so he said to make it on this in that case i was talking about when he didn't have that kavona but he says if he had a kavanaugh even though he doesn't understand it it's he's yateser but again it's not the preferred way to do it that way you should understand what you're saying but this too you know it's important tomorrow the day the next day you'll be talking to someone and you'll say oh so what you know did you understand what you were saying no i had no idea but i just read in this sitter so you might want to say do it again no what you asked him did you have a mind that you want to be movable yeah i know i was told to say this because this this knows the comments fine you're you're sir but if but if you don't have that in mind you're not yours either so you have to know writer [Music] with the comments that you left over for sniffer or gilo don't slap it around here there and everywhere and what we find we burn tomorrow okay let's go to the hero's comments [Music] but on i'm friday sometimes you can't burn the shabbos right of course you don't have you're saying you don't have to burn it friday morning because um because uh there's not uh out of pesa yeah yeah in so not to desecrate the prohibition of it should not be seen it should not be found regarding the comets that's left over in your house skip the parenthesis for now and also in order for this comments that you leave over should be uh acceptable for after pace skip the parentheses requested to publicize regarding that by doing so for others you're being giving a rabbit a marriage for the masses and removing an obstacle now what this means is and i remember we used to do it many times you would write down names of people you know who whether you knew they wouldn't sell the comments because they get all you know flabbergasted and if i missed and worried selling i don't want to sell that you know they can't they don't understand the whole concept or you don't get to them you you can write down their name and sell their comments for them that's that's what he's referring to does that mean without their without their consent or knowledge yes there's a concept called the adam shalom this is definitely a horse right you're taking away about you know about your music you know it i know it sounds like it sounds like a game but it's not it's it's not you know now i mean so so supposing you have somebody a jew shalom who's who's not going to to stop eating comments on basa right and and you you go ahead and say i i don't want him to be over so i'm going to sell his comments yes and and and uh so you that's what we've said so far uh and um uh so the next morning he goes out and he's cheerios isn't that not a is isn't he being a is a an indian of godzilla oh very good it is but which the world which is the worst myths for gazella or ian carmen zambeza and that that's that that's the end still he's still he's still over the answer of eating comments yes but he's not even eating his comments so okay so what's the milo of that lalata i i believe that it's not valued at all by you is yours so there's three things uh he's still seeing it yeah yeah yeah he will heal it when you and i go into rite aid or the wall queens or whatever you have over there you know next slow hashem you know you see comets i i had the issue it i can't take it if i have to go out for the kids uh halloween you know into the local and then i like try to cover myself for you know bargain no because the institute of value at all by your mother i don't have this farm in front of me but i believe it's called on your comments yeah otherwise you're not gonna go into a store that has it's not yours you're allowed to the answers you're allowed to the fact that i you know i understand right so so so and the fact that he's eating yes it's of course listen we know that but but it's not his so it's better for it for it not to be his uh he's not the owner versus otherwise listen i'm sure this is maybe debated in the post game you know we have to take out this photo but but that that's the idea listen you know that you know and and and and you know i would say especially a relative a friend if you know it's a shock this is the yiddish word it don't hurt to to include him in your in the messiness comments you know to be to take that you know yeah okay motion now you yeah you know i i would think you would get a different sock from another other non-barbecued abundant that's the the generally in the khabad world okay so let me ask another uh yeah versus other casitas question yeah um that i was involved in you know from the tours was very strict uh on not having any comments of gummer over pesa and the barbecues i've now seen who are very strict in almost every other aspect of face that were not did not seem to be strict on that well i'm not i'm not you said hum it's gone but i'm not what i'm not that in fact like uh you know some things for foods with comets come or like um you know beer or something that uh when you when you sell it and put it away oh that that they shouldn't be including your sale is that what you're saying no no no it's of course it's included in your stamp but that you don't keep it you don't keep it in your house [Music] you could just curious about you know this difference you you could also say like an example would be let's say like a lot of people who we might know in circles here there would be a lot of people that we would know in circles here who like they would they would not sell like scotch for whiskies they would they would finish it before pesach yeah they would not have it in their house over pesa they would not not only would they not have in their house but they wouldn't yeah i mean they wouldn't right okay they would dispose of it before okay well look we we know we know that the rabbit i think in the name of that semester when the rabbit gave out to people during the years of vodka or different things you know battles he told you know he wanted that it should be finished before pesa he didn't want it to yeah for sure now now now the question is how luckily but you know i know my my wife you know we try i we try to get rid of as much comments as possible and it will be possible to get rid of everything so i i'm i'm not sure hillary you know you're right in saying that this you know i mean there's a difference between the the twiskies and the i think it's has to do with the halocha munich and maybe just over time you know people have become a little more lenient in this area so so let me uh let me let me ask a related question to that so so i was i had the impression that it was a custom and cabard uh friend that may be from friends i don't know that that um that uh beer that you received at shalom was put aside with the comments that was sold and was used for abdullah after basic so is that is that a true or is i i do i have a mistake it's it's true that that that i think we we try to do that uh matsuya pesach but again there i think it's only that item for a specific thing after pesach but it would be kept i mean so that that was my that was my understanding of the difference that yeah but but again i i don't again i don't he might he might be talking about all this soon you know so okay let us maybe go further and see what he says you know no no it's all right it's all right it's all right i'm just saying i you know we're getting into details let's see what he says okay um the rabbi serves as a broker okay the rabbi serves as a broker on your behalf to sell the comments and he sells it with what's called an rf goblin you know what laura coblem is no can you i can kind of no um explain let me explain tomorrow in our goblins i want to get you know okay it's it's it's a middle man who someone who takes responsibility on the sale there's a rabbi and then there's someone who guarantees new like they could give a loan a guarantor that's what another kaplan is okay according to the according to the strict alternate the way how much should be sold is this way we don't do it this way most people i've seen meaning a middle man that you can rely who's vouching for the integrity of the that he'll he'll do his part of the deal not just not just the integrity of the good integrity of the whole process and the sale okay yeah uh okay what is that we don't we don't we don't we don't do it this way so you know i don't want to spend a lot of time in it some individuals do it this way they have a they emphasize a certain half and delta rabbit that this is the way to do it most do not do it this way wait a second there's a rabbi who sells the comments and then they make sure that someone else who who who takes responsibility another jew that disabled happened and they haven't signed up and they haven't signed on the document so that's okay so it seems across the board that in terms of in the vibram seem to be that that's the way you know no i don't know maybe that's so different no you have a rev who makes the sale and you sign you and that's it there's no yay no but no i'm saying is that across it seems every every year there's whenever you see like a uh um alibaba rav is dealing with this there's always an emphasis on the and made made to point out that yeah that there's going to be like an okay if there is i you know in new york it's not done that way if it is done that way fine even though the circle is in new york [Music] circles it's like well it's like it's not done this way it's not done this way in in most khabad circles in out in america let's continue um of goblin vahu lagoy and he that's what we're telling hillary and he the rf kaplan sells it to the good because he's taking responsibility the rabbi's not taking responsibility who is the guarantor this individual that's the way that that's what we're talking about lately it used to be it seems like that they would give over the keys he says lately people don't do that [Music] the comments that sold us to be absolutely closed could that cause toys but you shouldn't make a mistake and they go in there before i forget i told you this a few years ago but i say it again again you don't have there just rolls i think but you got to be so careful when you go into these stores that have comments and and and pesach and sometimes you take something off the shelf in the comments department by mistake the the the person the stock that stops the shelf puts something in there it's not comets so make sure you always check because i had this issue one year to fairly so just i i want to say so you shouldn't i shouldn't forget okay let's go back tau um you know like i have here my my credanza has you know glass the the glass doors have it's proper to cover with paper why because of baal euro and if someone doesn't do it he has not violated basically we have to know that you know because things come expensive and tedious and and you're running around and all that so you have to know that that that it's not a violation very important because people go berserk you didn't cover the shelf so what these are all hummus as long as you cleaned it off you don't have to cover the shelf okay because you're not looking at muhammad spa and if there was comets banned my muscles you actually saw hubbard then you have to bail your right you know how to see it right but if it but it but if it's not comments ban what's the problem so it's a it's a cup it's a it's a wine cup a uh a becker no but now it's clean but the minute is out of the word minute we what we do is we we do cover it okay michael and maskashi blew in my rebbe you see it's customary not to sell them some food or matcha that you receive from the rabbit he says he said because this is based on a story that says the rabbit oh blessed yes we have no choice yes ma'am please be me battle them i don't know what yeah go ahead what's the uh distinction what what makes that uh you know what no because because because the rabbit made a point because of a story of his grandfather great grandfather a machete who said you shouldn't hold something of this that he gave that was khabib the campaign so the rabbit conducted himself that way but you're allowed to that's what we're saying you're allowed to that's what you you asked me you know what i said uh but but i'm asking more spiritually like what's the particular idea of the rebbe gave you something oh uh not having it overpaid because because it's comets they did they the rabbit was very very uh you know spiritually it's it doesn't want comments in the world pesach we don't want comments no okay okay okay so so the mid hug would not apply say if if the rebbe gave you a bottle of wine no a bottle that's crushed a little paper yeah yeah correct yes could you say that again can i ask a favor no before you say yes could you make god could you could you put your face more in the camera when you speak because i can't i often can't hear yeah that's better you say that again please yeah that's the letter [Music] okay you might have to try it yeah you might be right that's tucking the reason i have to what's interesting what did he say i didn't hear he said that with with the rabbi him the main idea was not that you're not going to have the hum it's it shouldn't be transferred to a non-jew's possession spiritually young young listen you saw that inside you heard it from alma spear or what i'm not sure okay well maybe maybe i'll i'll talk it around and uh have it gonna go now we'll see everyone tomorrow so uh uh this week it has to be this time okay so you can make it try if you can't get have a good day bye when do we i don't think we uh we changed until after pace uh during pesa right right so no i'm learning i don't know until either sunday or monday monday not that maybe you know so we're just learning this week um you know uh so it's just these three four days that uh it's just a little different in time okay okay take care so i could make it today so that i could take care bye-bye