Pesach Laws & Customs #6

i think it's his grand i think it's his grand uncle that makes sense okay okay good let's learn so we're learning now uh we are on the bottom uh we're on top of page 14. so it's uh ice cuff gimbal 103. when you're choosing the moxes for the seder plate only for the seder plate is to take matas that are crucial bent like so you have like a kali um clapping milo aim-based kibble don't face them down face them up so that the clay cable is noticeable now of course this creates little hardships with keeping the items on top of the moxes like we discussed yesterday not to fall off that's why i suggested having these little plastic cups to put the items in and maybe it'll make it a little more uh firm and stable okay now you're going to have sick here my says what i said yesterday it's customary to make a separation in other words technically according to you don't need to do that you can put three monsters one on top of the other it is our accustomed to do make a separation between clay and lay the israel next shallow sharma and connecticut israel they correspond to the three categories and this we do we do avi when we put the mats in we take the maximum israel next one we say levy third one cohen so the calling is on top levy second and israel is third and he mentions that because some people probably do a reverse order this is the custom of chabad russia davis what's the acronym for these three yay to go learn this alludes to the fact that a person is a mahalik so it's interesting because on top a tone's a cop but if you were to have the coin on the bottom and the levy middle and the israel it was it would be the acronym cayley yeah but we don't do it that way because in other words although the ma no we do it by taking the matzah that way but we have in mind you scroll levy and cohen on top spelling out in the acronym yelek rather than kaylee i understand yeah there is a specific remedy and it cures those who have mental illness so here it is you don't need to go to your original line to a boxer to do a ticking on you you should just eat the uh matzah and it can cure clay and banana fish according to the zoya mommy's not here for baked through the institutions of the lubavitcher raptors this is his own his own thing what what he's trying to say is that since max is a cure for mental illness so if you get it from lubavitch which is associated with the rabbay him you have more more more kayak to cure the illnesses which i'm not laughing at you know i'm saying i am laughing i apologize i mean to say there's something to it but it doesn't this is his own thought and you could take it or leave it okay i i keep some matzah from i keep some mods in my studio good very good someone cuz someone comes in to buy a painting and you see it's a little mentally not stable you put them on the mapper that's on the mats remember there's a separation with the cover of sorts a napkin a paper or or cloth or for that matter a plastic uh a cairo a metal cairo i don't know you can have a you know such a cairo if you want although we did learn i don't know if i emphasized it i don't think i did that it said that only we learned at the end of page 13 that they have a silver kyler cairo was only by the the rabbian so in khabad i don't believe they take a silver cairo so let's go what so he says like a question i i sort of asked this last week but i just want to clarify do you see people you know there are things there are different types of um kara's on the market you've seen that on the top layer is a place for the different medium and there's like there's a kingdom almost like three trays underneath for matzah that's fine do people look about do you see people use things like that i i from what i've in my house we didn't have like that and i don't see it today but there's nothing wrong why why okay but let me see in your house you do it like you said you put the three monsters with us each one in the separation and you sit on top of it you put in sweat small like what like like like lechayan cups like plastic and pine cups you could do that but the little saucers little saucers are a little broader and wider plastic but like like like like disposable yeah disposable okay i got it but but again if the if the egg will stay better on the actual cover then do that the idea is that things shouldn't roll off and you should have the two circles that we're going to learn about in a moment um you know what i'm saying and when it comes to the when it comes to the murder you don't want any water to seep through yes okay but what do you do in the parts where one would lift up the muscles we do not we don't do it that way the rabbits have got that you you really need next week moshe you got to take an hour or two with quiet no phones and you got to study go through the the rappers have got it with the instructions highlight them and use that at the say there review it and you knock it into your head because it it goes very fast so you'll see what it says it says we don't lift it we just uncover yes you're right right so so and uncovering doesn't mean that you got to schlep the whole marks out a drop right so if you do it that way your kyra stays fine okay of course if you're going to give a whole slap it's all going to go flying you know what i'm saying everything has to be done with with common sense i got a kyra here and again the the most important thing for us that we are careful about is shruya we're very careful with the sharia and that's like a priority for chabad and and and everything else is like almost secondary you want to make sure that that matzah doesn't get wet and and you keep you got to keep the wine don't keep it right next to the matzos keep the wine far you know further away to your right we learned yesterday to your right but not right next to the monsters one spill of a full cup of wine makes the monsters wet and that's free then you gotta by the way then you know how to eat that if you're keeping through you and you got to take a new monster from the from the box yeah yeah okay let's go back thanks oh you're welcome so he says um the six items one two three one two three that's the way it plays out okay so you have to somehow create that on top of your your three monsters okay move it to the right move it to the left move it this way but try to create you know and again here don't you know it should look like a circle but if it's not perfectly look like a circle it's fine but that's the kavanagh and that's what you should try to create as best as possible um the middle and the salad and the hurray okay you all will look at that and you you all know that umass okay so here he tells you that the rebber put all the all the six items on a mapper on a on on a mapper that will that's directly on the masses hold on what's the difference in hebrew between a mapper and a mappist does anyone know you're interested what's up a mappist it's very soviet i'm not sure let's let's learn a little further away gama sahara which is not yet mixed with wine you see our custom moisture is not to put in the wine into the characters until when you need to use the characters because this way it's still not wet because if you put it in and it's wet it can seep through to the mattress you don't do that till later when you take the chirases off to use to dip the into then you put some wine into it that's what he says here what that would be like right you came like right right before we're about to use the harvest correct okay so what he's saying here moshe is that the rabbit did it not the way i suggested before the rebbe actually put each item um on on the cover that separates it from the matzo he didn't put into a lachaim glass or or a separate napkin he didn't do that that's what he did say again i'm sorry singing i'm sorry what i had suggested is that not i had said not to put the items directly on the sep on the cover separating the matzah from the items right according to what i said earlier it was better to uh to put either in a plastic disposable the items and that should go on top of the cover right right is that clear right he says the rabbit didn't do it that way the rabbit put it directly on top without a disposable item he put the egg directly on the mapper he didn't have wine so it was like mortar so there was nothing wet that go that's what he says yeah you dry it very well and you put it on top he says this is the way the rabbit did it i i used to do it this way for years i you know i don't know but this is the way the rabbit did it so now it's you know if you can accomplish that you dry well your your murder your romaine lettuce and you should do it this way if you can't do that that you should put something under the romaine lettuce okay money outside after he put he organized this qaeda he would then say simmons he would read the words that it says in the goddess this is the sign of the organization of pesach cathedral [Applause] where there was instructions what to do there are places where a new order begins omaresa simon he would say karpas you'll take out your god you'll see in bo usually in bold words the semen here begins karpas here begins yaha so the rebel would actually say car pass and then go yahaz and then go this is something we don't do but the rabbi i think i you know most the rebel would actually read the halakhas that are brought in that were relevant to that part of the seder so when he when it says there's instruction what to do he would read the instructions he says call our meetings hello all of this reading of his was silently it wasn't to the public but he did you could see him his mouth reading it all the types that are eaten at the seder we take from the actual cairo in other words you don't go into the kitchen to get an onion or potato and eat from that you use the onion and potato if you don't have enough you have a lot of people of course you have to take others but preferably everyone should get a little piece from the onion or the the carpass that's on the seder plate there are some that have accustomed to have the islands and the cairo university remain there not touch them it's like a museum display from the table he says we don't do that no you know it's it's very nice you have a nice cairo it looks very nice and you know you want to keep it there you know we're on display tonight okay 15. uh what's the reason if it's not just to make a seder with the chiro in front of you elegantly it's all for all the participants that's why he's what he's saying is this is interesting you should put enough of the items on the cairo enough for the um all the all the people around but i i mean i can't imagine one egg is enough for everyone you're gonna put two three eggs you shouldn't do that that's not what you should do you know i guess if you can give everyone a little slice of the egg as a as a as as something from the cairo plate that's best and the same is by the way later with the korach and the mats and all that i remember my father used to always give us and give when we children and my mother show them you know a little piece from because he needed most of it to eat for the shear and he gave and he gave and he gave that to them uh to a piece from his say from his and then he took from the bag from the monster bag others for them okay but again let's say you know you have any other males at the table they have their own kyrah so there's more you know you know what i'm saying but the wife should get from the husbands you know the children whatever you know yeah if not the flusher has his kyram sure he'll have a chiro so he can also share some if need be it's not the end of the world but of course it's better from the father you know the father of the home it's there's no laws here just a feeling you know okay that's what i just said um look in the brackets the reba marash the fourth reb of lavage he would distribute karpasamura mr lloyd of his will not him to the women even to the relatives in other words he gave not only his his wife and daughters he also gave the relatives okay so now he begins bone is to the right above right it's the right hand of the first segal correct we learned this earlier i have to take part of this shank bone with cellular malaysia embroiled in her folly [Music] with an outstretched arm so we call this raya because it reminds us of the carbon pace hashem took us out etc were careful not to eat it even tomorrow during the day you're in the boot of a little shank bone a little fleegal and it's burnt it looks yummy don't eat it the shame you want to distance yourself from michelle yeah daniel carmen pesach because otherwise it had it's compared it could look like you're eating for the carbon face up but you're not allowed to so basically what happens to that it gets thrown out right which is interesting you know it's like baltas but really it's not balthash because it's been used for a mitzvah so it's fine kate's hot bayer bayer but stop smile now we go to the left of the first circle we have the egg kufu gimmel jabber move australis it should be a hard-boiled egg the offering so the egg is demonstrative symbolic of that kufud particular that there should be no crack in the shell of the egg after toyota oh although he had a hard time keeping on his plate because it would roll again that's what i told you you know but we're careful we keep the egg in other words if you were to peel the shell it's more sticky it would stay put more we didn't do that we don't do it that way we keep the shell on even though it starts rolling in the middle and going for a walk is on the right side of uh below the the lower right of the cairo we make it from apples and sweet pears or whatever vancouver and walnut and you don't take you don't put cinnamon into it we don't use cinnamon and pasta because shash tarou's we're concerned maybe there's a mixture of comets it's important if you eat out which really an pesach a laboratory should not eat out it's it's it's really not it's not not the way khabad should do things even your best friend invites you thank you very much i'll see you next shoppers pesach is not a time you know if you if you're going there for a fabregan or you know whatever and you have an apple a full apple and a cup of wine from a bottle that's acceptable but um you know eating from others on pesach is is a halal it's not the best idea and mini chabad is not we don't do that so what he's saying here the characters you make from this and oh so i was saying about the you know the the the cinnamon and spices people you know that their men hug hugging so if you keep those men hugging them not eating them and you go to someone else you don't know how they made the fish a little spices here little spices there and frankly it's done this way and even chabad uh catered and um you know restaurants and hotels and chabad houses because they have many mostly not kabak people what are they going to do give you a piece of fish that tastes bland the the the customers that they be upset so you have to know that and if your standard is not to eat it you either get yourself a a piece or whatever you make whatever it's it's an issue that might we've never gone away you know and and i haven't sought to be you know a rabbi and one of these sailors all these years because of these issues it's very difficult it's very very difficult to to keep your standards when you have to be in in in you know someone else's facility either home or hotel um and even if you you know it's not easy and i'm not pointing any fingers but it's not easy the the truth is the truth one second the truth is you cannot keep the strictest standards in a hotel i don't care what they tell you it is so difficult um and it's impossible that that's the truth unless you make your own food and bring your own food and make your own food in the hotel then probably you could do it yes now yes yes you know one time yeah and uh we did the the broadcast of moon california the federation wanted us to make a peso hater [Music] yeah yeah but you know i'm not saying i'm not i'm i'm not saying cause i've shown that it's not pay something i didn't say that but you know no garlic no no no no no cinnamon you know these things you could forget about it you know so that's why in your own house i don't want to say one of my relatives we were once in a state of years ago you know and one of my relatives they made something and i had they had some had some garlic or whatever in it you know they she didn't keep that standard the laboratory but that's not something she kept you know for whatever reason and and we my wife did keep it and it says problem you know it's different because oh the caleb it's it's it it's very very difficult so the best of those what but you see that within within like we know when it comes to pace there's a wide range of well how people you know what people do i mean there is there is relatively speaking right and yes and if you know the people personally and they keep the standards your standards okay but but even then there is a rule we don't miss english we don't mix there's that's a rule you begin from there but yeah let's say let's say you're invited to your muku okay and you know it's like it's not gonna be you know so if you first of all the real barbecues will know not to invite you because we don't mix right i know i know is it is it where is it for at the spot that i know if it's brought that that the the minute you don't invite you just you let people go and think no i think you're talking about a bris no no no no no no no no no no no i'm speaking of business okay it could be targeting i don't remember you let people help themselves whatever they want whatever they don't want okay so yeah but even if if that's the case you have if the standard is your standard and higher okay you know if you know but you have to really know that then you know uh yeah i understand okay let's go on um now he says uh yiddish is russia evan a stone aleph is apple apples baran is uh piers known as nissin nuts which is the three basic ingredients before the wine for chirosis should be thick because it's commemoration to the cement shouldn't that our ancestors were slave to do vain my stephen boxer you see you don't add now what wine rock national bar monster says it clearly before in the in the bowl before you're ready to dip into the crisis soften it with a little red wine so the emphasis is should be a little red wine because of maka's down carpass but sat smile at the left side and the bottom the capacitor a piece of fresh uh garlic a tapua or a cooked tomato a potato uh he says when people became weaker he started to take a potato because the people were uncomfortable eating raw um onions was not satisfied with this approach there says the idea of a potato that you should give to the women the men should eat the raw onion here it is for cup for carapace yeah it was mentioned what what what do i put on the plate you could put both put a piece of onion and put a plus a piece of carpost of a potato if you don't want to do that because you don't want to look like more than five six items you know have the the onion because you're the man and then give them from the from potato i again listen this is the way the rabbit did it doesn't mean that you have to do it this way you're saying that you're saying that the potato is like serving a man for lachey i'm like viber fiber shamashka something like that the car password the acronym for the word karpas is samach perak six hundred thousand were forced with hard labor claimer this corresponds to the six hundred thousand yen that had to have hard work look what he says the red on his cairo plate we're on the last line would put a large piece of onion in its shell i bought some charlemagne or you put an entire onion that's very interesting i i i haven't done that usually we put a we put a peeled piece of onion okay i have to stop here now you want to learn sunday i could learn something maybe even monday are you are you open you want to learn those days or it's not good for you in the afternoon i i think for me we can try sunday i'm not sunday monday i'm going to be in the house helping so then then we're not sure okay so so then i i i guess we'll we'll just uh we'll say right now there's no sheer um if if if there'll be you know an interest you let me know we'll see okay but let me suggestion it would be still at the same time like 1 135 right 1 35 i uh yeah yeah your errands are strong time i could do it like if someday i could do it another time too it doesn't i could do it another time you know i just you know i like to keep the time but i i could do something i could do it we should keep the time yeah but i'm saying if no one's coming at that time that in a time there's a better time i'll do a better time why don't you send a a note to me but it sounds like because you know you're busy in the house which you really can't commit to a time that's what it sounds like it's a little uh yeah okay whatever whatever whatever anyway i'll be let's be in touch anyway next week if you have questions of things remember you're on page 16 i would you know if you're able to i would continue reading it's not difficult hebrew you know to go through as much of this as possible uh you have we have you have all week you know and you i think you'll see some very interesting things here that uh and then if you have questions you can you know what's at me and i'll try to respond because i have it you know okay um and meanwhile everyone should have a question also so if the pesach um we're going to start the sun blinded the sunday after because i'm coming back to florida and after then go to pennsylvania so i can't do that week i'm i'm too busy that week okay um so this is hashem um basically it's a week after you guys finish pesach that will resume learning okay it's okay and are we gonna learn that consciousness yes yes right well that's what we're starting i wanted to thank you the chloe aquino please make sure you you have that either all in hebrew hebrew english now if you didn't tell people they didn't get to buy it for whatever in the back of the frida kahrab is 1943 tough shin gimmo he print it's printed in the back of that safer oh this farm that we have no no 1941 1942 in the back of 43 they printed years ago it's over there so you should know that you could find it over there it's only in hebrew there okay okay um maybe maybe jonasson has that i'm like i don't i don't have that okay but you you don't you have you have you have the safer yeah about the safer so what's the problem so you have to safe no problem this is no problem right and i'm saying you know if you have if you have to say for the best is to use that safer we can all have the same safer you're innocent maybe maybe if someone's going to crack about or something or speak to aaron schmidt maybe he can get you the the the safer it's from the what the heritage series i forget that khabad put out chloe was redone very nicely with hebrew on one side english on the other side very well done that that would be a very good text not expensive to to to to have and you're honestly do you have any unison i don't think so what what's the name principles of education and guidance i think okay motion maybe you can later take a picture of the cover and send janus in the picture or send everyone yeah i'll do that yeah okay everyone and stay healthy and safe we'll be in touch bye bye good job take care