Pesach Chabad Customs 2021 #1 Maos Chitim - Searching - First Born Fast - Seder Prep

seems to be very good okay so turn to the page which begins with a page three it says you all have it yeah okay aleph llama gem of it's good to be careful 30 days before well i am beholden i said to be particular about everything that you do there should be no comments left around here there and everywhere but even because in a manner that you won't be able to really get rid of it easily out of pesach so in general just you know be particular of of of not leaving around comets here there and everywhere yes one should be careful not eating matzah 30 days of a peso including kosher machine matzah even though many of us don't eat machine matzah nevertheless if it's kosher le pesach you should not be eating it 30 days before so let me say that for example this past shabbos which was already uh technically after after 30 days less than 30 days they had i saw insurance crackers and and we ate from it why because they're not kosher la pesa now people uh what about egg matza and egg mod says something that that's very convenient especially if you have children in the house and the week before pesach and people are used to eating mozzarella and all that so a lot of people eat egg matzo so there too since the halacha says that egg matzah should not be eaten unless for pesach unless someone is not well so for most people it's it's not it's acceptable to eat egg matzah 30 days before okay because for most people they would not be eating that an pesach but any matzah that's crushed for pesach and what's the reason what's the reason for this law so that we should have an appetite to avon so we're we're preparing ourselves for appetite 30 days before that's that's one of the reasons israel and to gather such funds for people who need help it's an obligation and the shabbos uh very big thomas hawkins spoke in our school and he pointed out to us that amongst the nine virtues that the rambam list for giving sadaka is not mentioned why not because it's not a tsudaka it's a mass it's a tax if you look into sukhoi says it it's a mass a tax was put on every jew to give moy sritan so it's not siddhaka it's a it's a tax that's why he uses the word here again you know he's not not he wrote the word it's an obligation everyone should participate with whatever you know and let's go further uh its property says to know the people that are okay i don't know i don't know if i agree with that that's his opinion why must you know the people and if you don't know the people sometimes the mitzvah is even better anonymously you know anyway but i guess what he means is that if you know people that are mitsuru you should go out of your way to to make sure that they have all of their needs that you should know spoke about this so much in for years it was only pacer time because it's brought in but then in the late the llamas i believe started to talk about it in the 70s tishrei too but israel we don't have the same halal obligation here we're talking about prussian alaska you know we're not talking about in in spirit and meaning and so tishrei i don't i i don't i don't think you could say it's a halacha i mean some want to stretch it you know but i'm talking about pastors for the average jew opens up or goes towards russia it's it's it's the it's the hive for for nissan and not tishrei and that ever spoke a lot about it and we should all you know do this as as frum yiden everyone a little bit everyone in their own way let's go invited was very particular to send to those that he knew i could upon him for the satan and specifically this is his opinion he's saying that it's whatever that the chosen on him because the idea of matzah the zayah says it's full of faith and you have to work on your faith even from when you're still a miner so even him should eat from the shimura matsu and it cures people who have mental mental issues you should know that ebber had mata in his draw all year round and not that he was eating matzah during during the afternoon for his his lunch maybe he did but that there were people who came into him with all kinds of issues and they never took out a piece of matzo and gave them they should eat in the middle of the year so i'm just saying mata has curing powers so if you get especially if you get maksa from whatever you know you might want to keep a piece for the for when you need it during the year yes yaakov isn't there an indian the the vastly common as a shimiro uh the africa man too yeah yeah yeah but i'm saying in general the the statement here is about maths in general you're talking in particular about afrika yes absolutely let's continue we'll see we'll see how we'll see if we get there what he says in educational institutions to teach the students how to make a sader vessel and i want to say that i've seen by adults they come to the seder and they don't know how to make a cairo now it says and the rabbit did it this way that ever when he when he made us qaeda it it it sounded and felt like he's learning like the olive phase he would say the words of of of instruction in the haggadah issa there lay cayenne levy israel so he took a matzah cayenne to kamatsu levy to kamatsu you throw and this is how he built his kaira right now he did that because that he he learned shot that the altar ebba wants you to say that as you prepare your kayak to make it significant and that's the way chabad does it just for the record that's the way those that follow me should be making the qaeda you come home and you set up your qaeda by saying what you're doing and it would be nice if people who are your family and friends who are joining you for the say there would would would see this and participate but what i'm what i'm saying here is that it you know it looks bad to me you know when someone comes to the to the say there and and they don't know they're like scattered it it's so it's it's it's so you know it's not the way it should come to a seder and the way to do it is you need to take time the night before the day before the afternoon before and organize in your head the the order of the coyote so so you especially if you're the leader of the seder you're leading other people and people i remember when the chabadas when i led to public seders i did that with the people so that i was the leader and they were following and it had cohesiveness and it adds to the the the dimension and and and spirituality and beauty of a satan and to do that you need to prepare that's it and what i'm saying is even someone who might know but they forget oh what goes now what goes now what that you know what i'm saying and being that it's once a year we tend to forget so if you prepare it it'll flow easier and nicer yes motion yeah a good question regarding the kara according to minute we obviously have the car up just remind me the matsas the three matsas they have to be placed i mean can they be like like i don't have a um i don't have a car that is like elevated you can put the matzos underneath so i just i always put the matzos you know of the cara and then i have the matzos the three months is one drop of another no no no way the uh the five items the six sided the six items need to be on top of the monsters okay so the way to do it is first of all it's so inexpensive buy yourself a claw a cloth cairo what's the big deal what do you mean what do you mean a cloth kyle that are metal you know they're then they have cloth you know with three separations and and cohen labia throw you've never seen those no i okay so you put your three mosses into that and on top of that you put the six items uh-huh okay okay but how do you avoid than the six items not breaking the matzos first of all you don't slam them down you put them on delicately and and and if any of them because since khabar is very particular in general are particular about about not wetting the matzah you want it's best to put each in a little a little plastic cup or on a napkin so so that it doesn't seep through so we started to use these little plastic saucers you know very small ones right so let's say the so therefore if because if the uh the romaine lettuce if you're using that which is khabar custom to use your main letters as well is still wet you don't want it to seep through into the muscle so you should definitely put something under it now if everything is dry you won't have an issue except for one thing the characters because the characters is supposed to be a little damp but but regardless in other words when you have this cloth the there's a separation between the top matzah and and where you put the six items on right yeah so so so you have a separation technically i just was i just was adding that you might want to also have a little plastic saucer or a napkin under the item so that it doesn't uh also it helps you that it shouldn't roll off sometimes because the matzahs are especially bad customers to take we'll see soon a matzah that's like a kaley that's like a kaley so that tends to make the items roll and if you and and then you don't have the six items and according to cabela you're supposed to have three set two segals one two three one two three the setup of the items is made based on the three two circles so you wanna kind of keep that till you start partaking from the items and uh what i find is either a napkin or a little saucer is helpful for that okay everything else clear for everyone but i'm not saying this is everyone's mimic but those that this is the chabad minute if you want to follow that this is it okay now let's go back um he writes that the rebel suggested having knew new haggadahs for the young children i don't know why is this kardashians if it's from last year i guess it means maybe if you give them a new god they'll excite them more whatever that's already an expense but that every every child should have in a god is important um in other words right it's a story there's a question and then comes the answer of other megin who knew by the time we get to the answer are the kids following the answer so he's saying that if you make the hot good interesting you know in in if the actual how good the is colorful with pictures you could create uh that the child is interested in knowing what the answer to the questions is because we don't want to remain by the questions there is a suggestion let's go on um he says interesting things here okay this is this is some of it's his own his own uh or he says you should buy a new why a new a new uh siddha dish uh why and who said that because he's supposed to buy chloe's vegus no you know um uh walnuts you're supposed to why won't why because to give the children to play with knew today we give them chocolate a lot of people chocolate you know cultural peso chocolate the point being to get them to be involved and to stay up and so he says if the hello and but mentions that this idea of buying claudia's vagus walnuts is not a fairy tale it's brought down in halacha so it's so the rather book it is saying that if this is true for buying uh your players vaguson to excite them surely if you buy them a new sitter or a nuagata it will excite them as well okay let's go on um we start reading after chakras after telling for those that say tell him after davening parsons and nasi which is the baby's custom the parsers are nasty uh every uh leader of a tribe nasi brought that day carbonis moshe we in the first day we begin but it was the end when moshe finished directing the the mishkan um assignment and we conclude that we shaved on the thirteenth day of nissan we read from missouri's hanukkah at kenosha um this is corresponding to levy but on the 13th we do not say the ahirozong which we're going to talk about in a moment so for the first 12 days we read this the nussey right each day with the herod saying on the 13th day we read also a section from the tata but we do not say the heretsa why because there's only 12 tribes there aren't 13 tribes but the 30th day is that the the the culmination and the sachal the the totality of everything that was brought so we read it but we do not uh say okay now you probably have been to schulz i don't know how they do it in this kodesh moshe do they do it this way they read then they see him from a safer torah is that the way you're doing education no no okay but you know that there are many schools that do that that way they used to do it correct says so he says the previous rabbit didn't so didn't become a bad customer for you it's known that the customs of the previous rabbit next page four kahana for the mighty the queen said spoke about has been a uh a slowdown a breakdown in the carefulness of saying to the cm daily um and especially the hero so spoke about uh it's important to strengthen that minute but even you know to say it with such love because greater is the love for the words of the sages than the words of the torah and this is even more emphasized when it comes to minham jewish customs to show a great love for them therefore to make sure to say it everyone agrees right now we're in the middle of feuds say don't say we're middle of the seven days of me other till through la madison are the seven days in which the measure prepared for the the the uh the establishment the erection of the uh of of the mishkan it's called the shivasi mehamalu in the seven days of training so there are many people hasidim in particular who don't say taft on that day haba does and others do and uh sometimes you can get into a big issue in jewels so that's then but when it comes to nissan it's no arguments 30 days the listen comes every person has to announce interesting everyone has to live miraculously during this and because it's the month of nisim so there are certain things throughout the year we can't do it we feel can't do them but now since it's the month of nisim you have to make ah the kind of to live with nissan with miracles okay this is his own thought which is a nice thought right we learned in the very beginning that the halakhah says you're supposed to learn and ask the learn about the laws of pesa 30 days before pesach there's another opinion nikki motor moisture he says only two weeks we don't follow that when we take the opinion he says you could even fulfill the opinion of reprimand bengali that the two shah bosses in other words uh not the shabbos the following shabbos and the following shabbos should be should be more special in your learning okay you darling he mentions that on the second of nissan is the is the york side of the river ashab the fifth rabbit he passed away mozai shabba on the second of this in 1920 and he lies in rostov on the dun river and it was the day when the previous never became the leader one of us men and women and children uh should utilize the opportunity to learn thailand and have fabregas on that day then he speaks about udall of nissan i want instead of his birth is a special day good but i i want to i want to skip that go to the next to page five you're basing this so this year we're fasting china's behind it on on on right we're doing it on thursday because we don't fast on friday whether you're a first born to your father or to your mother because we memorialize the nest that was done the democracy is the firstborn it doesn't mean you have to just have a scene of a scepter if there's a priest that day or a pig in a bend or in a sin it's considered smithsonian so as long as you participate in that it's also accomplishing that you don't have to fast you're exempt from the tightness you don't have to just finish babylonians but even in your jerusalem shots it's important i'm sure you've seen this and done this and you know that even young children who are on the bar mitzvah should come to the scene um and you should eat something from the sugar now a survey doesn't normally assume it means washing but people are makel and they don't wash and they have a cookie and then today many people don't even even give them zoynies because it's already a piece of dick so you have macaroons which is shahakal right so but it's fine it's fine for the for the seal what if someone didn't go to a cm and he forgot the fast and friday he remembers should he fast nope you don't fast out of shoppers um but the fastest uh but this year it's thursday it's thursday and i said what if someone forgets what if someone forgets it's thursday so he does not fast on friday if someone if someone if some if someone didn't if someone didn't go to a seal so you have to make it up if you didn't first i think it's this question is it well it says here he doesn't give her a reference ain't lately assange b i don't believe so he doesn't fast he missed the fast dude he missed it yeah okay okay okay let's go to leo badika's comments layla you gimmel let me just ask you a question on that note then yeah if the person's a beholder and he doesn't go to assume he doesn't go to suit his myth and so forth so must dominate he would have to fast yes you know that there were some people who fasted anyway i think they i think they say that ever fasted [Music] the regular person doesn't do it i'm just saying that you know i i think i heard that the rabbit did it and i'm sure there were some that you know were very uh whatever i i you know i don't know okay but but we we we we go to a ceo and and and we don't fast okay you do vedica you have to clean your house and sometimes people make a mistake what if you're it's not clean technically you can't do badika's comments yet it's not the right but deca is i've already cleaned and i'm going to search to see if there's anything left but what if your entire kitchen is coming it's like thursday night this year you don't do badika until you get it clean and then you do they come and i know and i know there have been over the years that people have done that their house has not yet come pace of dick and even though it says in halal you should do produce hummus right after my riff that's if your house is already ready for medical comments but if you know it's not you could do particular comments four in the morning you understand the logic there's a logic to this madness excuse the expression it has cycle but the cast comments to search for the leftover things not for obvious bread and pizza i want to eat pizza thursday night don't eat pizza if you can't do because how much when you have pedicu clean out your pizza finish your supper and if everything else is ready fine i'm not going to say that this applies by the way too let's say you have to still casher if you still have to cash your your your your your oven and your sto whatever you know that's different that's not hummus the end you know lying around so i'm not going to say that i i i won't say i'm unless somebody button do say but as far as i could see you still should do badika's comments at the beginning after mighty even if you didn't cash her yet your oven because that's not common you know what i'm saying anyway let's see what he says um um okay you know gather everything is now let's say you want to eat the next day comments it's fine he just said so gather it all to one place so then you know this is where it's at and you know understand what i was saying before is if things are a balagan and still all over the place but if you have a designated place for a certain amount of comments to eat for tomorrow morning that should not stop you from doing ridiculous comments and time um and be careful just to stay to that corner and that place to finish your comments shake shake off you know every time you eat it's probably best to do that on the porch or outside so it's not in the house you put throughout the house ten pieces of comments uh the arizona explains that the 10 crowns of spiritual impurity are represented by these 10 pieces okay now i want to make if someone doesn't have 10 pieces you search without them the 10 pieces is a minute and an important minute and here you have a reason that the arizona gives but for example you know people that travel they go to hotels and they're traveling yesterday a lot of people are traveling especially here i don't know how it's not just road but in america people are running all over because they're they're covered right you have to make medica no what are you going to carry 10 pieces with you so you make the deco without the 10 pieces the the ten pieces are not um you know what the name they they don't stop you from doing the you have the heel of doing the without the ten pieces yes [Music] is unison if you don't find anything you've done the act the bracha is for the search it's not abraham that's wrong that's not right what you said okay the the ten pieces is a minute and the aliza gives us a nice reason we're we're we're we're removing ten aspects of spiritual impurity wonderful uh but it it should no way be be a substitute for the mitzvah of badika i mean i i have this case with some of my daughter and their friends they're traveling with the seder you know and and they're going to to rent a room right no so i suggest that they bring along a peter too whatever but even i'm saying even if not you make abraham okay it should be hard comets is not wrapped in a piece of paper not not in silver paper because tomorrow you want to burn it this little paper doesn't burn cauliflower masayas uh why is that why should it be less than the casios right very good look what he says moshe says because the kiev of beer hummus that's what jaakov said right there's a mitzvah bisou right get rid of it right that's only the key of the rice is on the kazias so he says when you put them all together you have the heels whatever he says children why don't get your children involved let them write down where they're put they should be put the table if you put them in the corners he says it's better they uh you don't have to hide them and hurry because you'll forget imagine a child you know your child your grandchild hides it somewhere in in a dock in a corner in the forgets and you don't know and that's it you have a piece of helmets in your house so it's best to put it in more of a noticeable place he says in in a noticeable corner okay it's just a recommendation but what we do we take the people come put it in a plastic bag a little bag and then we retire with tape okay that's that's that's definitely being mahmoud and it's good good no because we don't want to do that right let me just read number 25 oh now this is important because it's actually that before you do the mitzvah you know before you do any mitzvah you're supposed to wash your hands in halacha before you do a mitzvah you're supposed to have no you die dying the key is here pure hands from two men so it's brought down in that that you should wash your hands before you do the predicate because you're doing a mitzvah without a project one two three four five six whatever kanban in the cafeteria she actually started little mikko baby's comics okay interesting he says that you should the mourning of dickhammers you should go to the mikveh as a preparation for the mitzvah but that's not brought to you but he says no it's you know you know here this far them right look it the coverheims that you should call the dikvah it doesn't say it in this in the altar you know anyway okay uh sunday uh there won't be sheer because we're changing the clock here in america and it's versus so i just won't make be able to make it back in time so we'll continue with hashem on on monday are you happy with learning this i know it's not uh hasidis technically um yes very much so okay but i i just feel um it's good to go over you know and we have to be making what it says so avi i i i i hope uh you're following and and and appreciating it and the thing is that even if you're eating with someone else that'll say they're you know it's good to know these things you know what i'm saying you you go if you're eating someone else and again always to be careful not to embarrass anybody even though they do something wrong i'll end with a story because since i under the story i think it was 1945 and rabbi dr nissa mendel the secretary of the frederick told the story and he was a very honest man so i believe this i believe the story he said it was a 45 one of the years in the 40s at the fleet of canada they're upstairs in 770 in his apartment so there were people that see them that ate you know group of them someone came and he wasn't particular about what uh and he wedded his matzo i don't know who he was how it was when it was but and and and another husted started to say no no and and the frida kadabra like picked up a set and you're like like what's going on here he you know and he said you know it's true wedding the matzah it's matashruya and the philip said is a meaning an important meaning that we and others keep but there are others that don't keep much australia embarrassing the jew is an aveda it's such an important what there is at the riser it's a it's such an important story especially when it comes to the say that things get sometimes intense you know especially those people that are like oh you know we have to get it all right and they get all you know they want to they want to get every detail right color covered but don't do it on your wife's expense and your kids expense and and and and your guest expense and it's hard sometimes because you know the pressure and the timing and we gotta begin and the clock's moving you know it's like and meanwhile you can embarrass someone so it's it's very important to you know just let things ride don't freak out and i'm talking to myself you know you know because you know i'm very particular and especially at chabad house and i had public seders you know the people didn't keep sharia no one's keeping that they went there and i left them because that's that's the way you know i'm saying or with the bags with eating you know whatever whatever i'm just saying they have to really calm be calm and and yeah in a nice way in a private way you know okay kevin have a good shabbos a good aerial should have nisi nissen miracles and we'll learn together mr shem on monday zai doesn't everyone take care bye-bye