Parshat Vayeitzei: His Dream Was a Prophecy - Rabbi David Kaplan

by Yeats a Yakima bear shah oviya for new Yakoub leaves beer sheva and he goes to a place called horrid now it's very interesting why is he leaving so if you're not at the end of the last partial of and his mother sends him away because you know the dates of wants to kill him ace of his upset echoes older brother rifka tells him to leave and what's remarkable is when rifka comes to yitzhak she says the it's like by the way tell if Yaakov marries a girl from around here be very upset see it's like sends Yaakov away just to go get married whereas rifka the real reason rifka head for it was that she knew that asa was going to want her to kill him now one of the the questions they ask you some last week's barcia's why didn't rifka say that the inside right here if he comes over heels like rifka needs yak of the get out of here she says the a cover you better leave your brother wants to kill you she goes over her husband says if ya kumay is a girlfriend run her be upset you know I can't handle that yeah it's like says ok yeah go go to Cara and don't don't marry girl from around her go to loved ones house why doesn't rifka tell ya cope why does her if could tell you it's like the real reason once she tell you you you it's like the real reason this is his life as a date in other words a the approaches that you like didn't know an rifka doesn't want him to know because it'll hurt him number one and one of the other commentary says how did rifka know that asa wanted to kill ya go how did she even know that remember East have said it in his heart he say so said it in his heart that over anyway he didn't say it anybody was thinking at all kill Yaakov every surah she says rifkin new through ha kodesh well if rifka new and yes like didn't and she comes over at him and tells him oh by the way keep that open to give you every I sure he'll give the two is she if she if she comes over heels like it says the intellect oh by the way and I found out through her garage he's gonna feel bad about that too you see how sensitive she is she doesn't want to make her husband feel better she's one up on her husband so she doesn't tell not the first I should tell not not not because she'd want to be upset the days of the murder and she was one of you upset they eat other wife know something that you don't know therefore if he does in a very very tactful way so y it's like says they Yaakov ok time to run go off to Coron now i think i think that the that there's a slightly different reason here when I was looking over to took everything last year so I think that the idea is that rifka really wanted that that a civ didn't hear what rifka said to Yaakov asaph said to yitzhak that rifka talked to yet slug that ace have heard that rifka is saying to you it's like you know yeah he also calls in Yakko very openly you better run to her on because you know your brother wants you got to get a wife over there where's the part about Ace of Wands to kill you only rifka said that yak evasive didn't I understand how the asaph didn't know that because rifka understands the best thing for Yaakov is a sub shouldn't know that he's fleeing because he's fleeing yeah oh he's going oh good he's going because he was looking for a wife good i got time then I could plan this out they'll give you a cove extra time evasive would find out Yakko is flame because he's playing I better chase him right now I think that this part of riff cos brief cos plan is to create a deception over and make it look like the real reason he's gotta leave it to get a life where that's a way of deceiving a sub again so they say okay now um Yaakov runs away and it's an interesting mattress where did he stop on his way when he left home where did he go you know what the matter says where did ya Cove stopped stopped in the base mesh of shame the aether how long was there 14 years he was on the 14-year jei Li wen de it went to you Shiva for 14 years is about to go to he's about to run off he goes see Asia whatever they learned whatever Torah they learned in those days leave the door open whatever tour they learned in those days yeah covina goes off thank you Yaakov it goes off and he goes to each over 14 years before he gets before he goes off to love it so there ain't been different explanations why did ya come now of all-time deck obviously go to uShip I mean Yaakov was already described as the each time yo Shiva Holland he was already a Shiva buffer it was ready he was already a tremendous a tremendous translate devoted to her learner why does yackel deep to go to you shiver right now why 14 years so we know all we have to do is go back to the bracha of your turkey also give to ASA What did he say ha cole cole yaakov the voices was the echo but when the voice is the voice of Yaakov that weakens the hands of a sub alright because I say Yakko you're being chased by a sub what do you need more than anything else now you need to be bolstered yeah bolster that's our learnings it goes for for it why 14 years what's a numerical value of 14 yaad you know we are going to counteract the yacht evasive aren't you the out of ace of his 14 you're going off to the etiquette such as everybody together ya go what yaad means the hand they hand the violence of a sauveur the only way to upset that is by going off the you Shiva see how comes off station for 14 years so what does the measures say 14 years in your Chevy never lay down never lay down in a bed took long Stender naps never see guys n bass matter sleeping on his gender I got something guys got I was never good at it I think my record is I think about 22 minutes once was so tired I know that I usually i get about maybe eight to 10 minutes out of his gender right I've seen guys go down for an hour and a half on a standard I go on a standard to him standard like a pillow see I covina 14 years in each of the major says he never laid down in bed now keep that in mind because we're gonna see where we see where he does lie down okay one and what lying down really means okay the 14 years Yaakov doesn't lie down in your Shiva okay I had a guy once I would go in in the intro program once we were giving sheer ups in the upstairs or thyroid Schiller's what is now relational Israel Simon I came in with my guys and the base metal shear had just finished so they walked out and one of the guys for the base measures had been in this year was slumbering on the table yeah he was semi-comatose on the table so we walk in this year and the guys are looking at me like what should we do about to wake him up not way don't know what to do so I said listen guys sleeping well we can actually started good marketing you know like marcher sounds like yelling at each other guy doesn't move he's leaving after about 15 minutes ensure he picks up his head and he's like yeah there's all jeweled and I hit he's looking around the room i sees a bunch of new faces there's been a just looked at than just yeah after about 10 more mins he gets up and walks a true he was absolutely i see a coat extender naps Iago Iago punished under okay so let's see what happens here so they even got my moco he runs into the place which were told is Hera Maria it's our E other little calculation here by yo and chunky wash Emma she goes lies down to sleep every girl sunset by e cakk me everything I Malcolm he takes from the stones but yes in Mirage Jose puts them under his head by ishka Verma como who he lies down in that place now the first thing is just look over very quickly in the next page just for one second and the next page on page 146 of the fourth line from the top when Yaakov wakes up it says vayash game yakowa bulgaria co gets up in the morning the eeka s heaven he takes the stone I sure summarize which he had put under his head right fourth line on the next page but secured guess Yakko gets up in the morning he takes the stone that he had put under his head what does it say over here this over here it says second line I'm 144 says ye kak may Ave amalgam he took stones he took stones yet later on it says he takes this stone so that is where the meddra SH gets the idea the stones were fighting with each other he the stones are they I wanted sadak to put his head his head on my on me because I wanted sadak to put his head on me so what did the stones do they combined they bind together you know you're something beautiful what does he do with that one stone he builds an altar the eacott as a week after Sofia other ventures are but yes of us I might save early election Roger makes an alter out of it because that's what the Jewish people are that's how we serve we want to be an altar we want to server code is rural cards unity among the Jewish people stones are fighting i wanted saticon me I want that side of got me stones joined together that's a that's a real altar that's a real altar okay comes out their time in a base of meters we cannot make a point user one stone altar that will see later on but at this point you could and the symbolism is the stones joint the other Jewish people join the other geezer taken death that's the way because we Yakko create it makes an altar now I want you to see Rashi over here she says the yes and Mirage show so he puts a stone around his head says Rashi a son Kim mean Mars ace of evil arocho he made it like a whole small wall around his head she already high yo sorrows he was afraid of wild animals he was afraid of the wild animals they put the stones around his head apparently he was leaning his head on them the stone started fighting and says he'll put his head on me he'll put his head on me so apparently made there like a wall around his head but with the room to lean on them like a little a little you know but to protect has had for the wild animals what's the obvious question that's the obvious question it's totally a protection and that's right Amira if you're if you're out in the wilderness years running from here to somewhere in in in Syria or Iraq wherever it is you just a lot of wilderness out there what are you worried about Bobcats tigers lions what every worried about you know what oh oh he's got stones around his head back off boys you know yeah all right those are there's plenty good sign me you know if you're hungry you know it it's right there you know what are stones gonna do for you all right so what's the lesson is lesser tourists each you for listen um ber one is that you have to do as much as you can do try to protect what you can protect what again you know whatever you know yet i justjust put stones around your head if he could do that and yeah in other words don't just rely on a miracle sometimes we need a miracle sorry no don't rely in a miracle don't rely in the miracle you do what you have to do you do it after the guy who jumped out of a plane in Australia his thing filming his jump with his parachute but the parachute didn't open he felt 10,000 feet landed on a bramble bush some sort of tree that folds in on itself landed on the bramble bush and he got up and without any scratches here he got a few scratches walked away and he was filming it too that's a good as you do it again buddy yeah that night the first time okay now you can't rely on that you have to have a parachute we the parish it didn't worked i got no of you i hope there's a bramble bush how bear open is a bramble what's down there hey you're in a situation what do i do we'll take whatever precautions you can take don't you don't just rely on the miracle that's the first lesson make your establish knock builds the table remember we said knock built it Ava the tavie cannot hold all the animals be the no matter how you break them down whether the Torres talk about the basic species dog orator traitor subspecies Callie cocker spaniel what do you call poodle it whatever however the Torah means the animals two of each animal whatever it is certainly if subspecies its are definitely good I think they're I don't even think the day we could hold subspecies of dogs right but even if it's just dogs cats lions hippopotamuses llamas they're sort of thing the table cannot have held it so why does well you do what you can do I'll take care of the rest I'll take care out there you do what you could do that's the rule that's a rule when it comes to Torah idea number two ID numbers just there there there are several ideas here which are just mind-boggling I had a guy here when Siddhartha man who said some of the beginners he said you know I put the songs around his head this is a man who just come out of you Shiva now he's about to go out there enjoy the real world right with the loved ones of the world and all the people that you meet in the real world okay but in yeshiva he's just been 14 years in his absorbed 20 rainia shiva and you know at least let me take at least let me protect my yeshivah head oh I've got a you Shiva head now I got to go out in that world it's bad enough it's bad enough they got to deal with their well I don't have to sink into that world with all of its values and all this way of thinking and it's distortions let me let's protect my your Shiva head it's a nice must serve or tie don't say it's a point meaning that's certainly a nice booster where you got any shipping shaqab you think like you Shiva / z I think I can somebody's absorb some torah tours affected your mind yeah you started out with marshmallow fluff in there and you learned some tolerance it straighten you out a little bit well you know protect it you're going out there to deal with the lovins connivers and thieves and immoral people got at least something to put around your head okay there's something even more even more astonishing here 14 years he was in you Shiva he didn't learn 14 years even late eat and sleep in Yeshua didn't lie down to sleep he's running away from a self and he lies down to sleep and you see anything a bit of a paradoxical about that we find but he's finding that money at that's sexy and I don't know I probably tired after 14 years of probably tired he's running away he's by himself he's by himself something paradoxically it was there ok that's the boy certainly the plain meaning but again there's a lesson for us over it's really really a remarkable lesson the lesson is that that when your adrenaline is pumping hard to sleep in sleep is generally a result of lack of adrenaline when I used to play cards and I was 17 oh we got to it all night card game never even yond never even yarn every card was into a new adventure when you're winning can't wait when you're losing can't wait even more right yeah in every video every cards a new every everything is a new adventure stay up surest night you drink coffee cokecake you're still fall asleep on the table right little less little less excitement if they put out a deck of cards on Joyce night Oh cowboys that's all would be wonderful right yeah good stay up all night you know your fall out why because you're not the tired this has to do with the adrenaline in Las Vegas they don't have clocks and then they don't Clarkson of windows in the casinos have clocks about windows can't see if it's dark outside can't see what time it is why I want people looking at the clock 2 a.m. bedtime because it too AM people I still throwing their money away that's that's if they're doing very well it too am so you don't want why aren't they tired weren't they yawning so if they were doing homework earth they were learning toward they be yawning all over the place you walk into the basement if you open up a Gomorrah you walk in this year in the morning you open up and go our first thing yo yo here oh the three years what was the three years ago a protesting oh no we did that yesterday and I in your honor you walk into the lunchroom when their schnitzel nobody yawns nobody lens in the lunchroom why not yeah that's something Hannah you're excited as a little more a little more a little more you get sleep he has to do with how motivated you are tested with how pumped up you are they thought there was a president united states I think Bill Clinton only slept four hours a night that's right they said to him I he said when I'm sleeping I'm not the president that's right that's right hey oh yeah four hours yeah because yeah it's fun to be the president and in and you get to tell people what to do and drop bombs on people and all sorts of stuff so so you know there's what to do when you're the president so yeah cova vino 14 years he didn't sleep in your Chevy know that means he was pumped he was pumped up how would you feel when you're when you're running away from your brother you're running from your for your life oh that is boring yeah compared to what I've been doing before this is boring Anderson is a huge this compared to what I've been doing before this is born when I was in you ship it was exciting though that dad when I was growing it i'm running for my life okay and i have taken a nap okay let's lie down it's obviously you're right there's obviously we're prophetic for the vision but it's a life lesson for us person taking our tours compared to a fig tree every of that idea towards compared to fig tree because it's compared the Victorians compared to kohls we're the hot coals compares a lot of different things heard a lot of different things but but I compared its compared to water compared to wine compared to milk I compare it to beer mmm i convert or it's a beer because you know when you drink a beer the first time beer doesn't taste that good face it either for me though things get even after all that you know and then it never tastes good when you drink torah tours difficult to get into torah if you drink enough of it suddenly start to get a buzz all right this starts to taste pretty good once your buzzer tastes good right on thursdays little bit i can just say so yeah and search the dates a little better desert or is supposed to be the more you get in on thurs converted to a fig tree there's a distinct difference as one primary difference between a fig trees and all other trees and don't tell me ya CROs figs I know that that isn't it yeah obviously as I fell fig tree there's there's another difference big tree and all other trees you know what it is what's the difference be a fig tree at all injuries fig trees are the only trees that are not harvested at the same time when I was a little kid I we had a figure I live in Israel for a few years we had a little lies about five years 08 a little fig trivia fig tree outside her house you climbed the tree you see you pick the figs which are ripe the next day you go up there more figs are right they were over more things are right they don't ripen it to say there's no one fig harvest apples you know you have a harvest oranges Harvard you have it dates you have a harvest fig trees are always ripening so the burns says photographer the fig tree just when you think you've exhausted the subject oh that's an idea I don't know wow I didn't its endless oh you keep finding more things that will get you excited is it my favorite analogy ik analogies are only worth so much but I think this is the best analogy that get the year for torah you ever seen a thing that's called magic eye with the magic I we look at the picture you get three dimensional picture you know I'm talking about you hold the thing I don't see it that's amazing yeah it's always the same reaction like you have people guys learning a piece of gum are you know okay healer no-fuss sick like that now so you hear something you notice something like oh it happens when you're good bar all the time at higher levels right he learned Gomorrah you learn Rashi your toes okay everybody said oh but if that's a toast those Oh tosyl Smith oh but what oh oh oh and it gets bigger and bigger and bigger as a new level of amazement there's a new level of amazement and it's endless amazement throw by stammer of stamen Ronnie Johnson a plane he was flying from Baltimore to Toronto to a certain point the plane is flying over Niagara Falls so everybody in the plane is looking out the window one of the guy set the rebbe you have to see this this is the flow sabo rate the wonders of creation David what do you think he was doing on the plane the entire time he's learning German says no no this is the flow so boring this is the wonders of creation and this is wonders of Croatia which is spiritual which means you could have it never ends physical wonders of creation theoretically could end the arena scene okay how many times you see Niagara already I've never been but I'm at I you know I'm sure you could you hear it's enchanting now your folks probably chanting if ever I've never seen it but at the end of the day it's still physical here you're talking about something which is in the spiritual realm the spiritual realm there's no end to the amazement that a person could could experience in the spiritual realm that's what that's what ya covino now i'm bored i'm only running away from asa when i was in your ship i was so buzzed up that i couldn't even sleep i dropped off on a stander from sheer exhaustion but then I got up again and I got continue learning and it wasn't an effort was I need for it fought fighting it your ear your ear your wedding quiet I once had a day dream I had a dream I had a daydream in what would have been if when I was about 19 or 20 to they would have started a sports Colo you know you read sports in the morning watch sports after videos in the afternoon right and do something you know and write a I would have been there 24 hours a day effortlessly it's only when I got the real kool that I got tired and a sports coat liberal without time would pass like there's some people to about Torah those of you feel about Torah the person gets into Tori they noticed the time passing why do you think guys could sit guys in regular yeshivas they said 12 hours a day 14 hours a day learning yeah you don't even feel time passing a guy told me he couldn't wait for the new harry potter book to come out because he was a weekend trip to America he couldn't wait to get on the plane with Harry Potter book sat down read it next to you don't exhibit planes in America he's completely lost in a different world so the house I don't need to make the comparison but as deep as harry potter is you know they be it yeah you know you're learning Tori you're lost in a world you stepped into a completely new world over here that takes you that's the amazing the things um I heard from her by left another very interesting shot those very also very why does he lie down over here and the answer is that when a person has a dream what does a person generally dream about person often dreams about the things that are really in as head yeah covino came out of you Shiva after 14 years of each other 40 live show us should give you some sort of direction in life Yakko visas what did it what did I really absorb I know what I absorbed consciously the way to really the acid test is what's in my subconscious it'll tell me who I really am so what does yeah can we do he lies down and he has a dream what does he dream about he dreams about spiritual growth okay then it's real if it night you you know I'm poor him I heard the server / gottlieb years ago you know we got drunk on / among other reasons okay the basic basic basic reason is celebration obviously we're celebrating poor image as a physical celebrations also for the regality one said you know person is it would a Jew whose working on himself all year long you're working on yourself together learning musser and Torah and you're trying to grow how much of it is you really absorbed so you have one day a year where you get loaded and you're just you know and you're completely you're so your subconscious is now revealed what do you do n pour it so if it's a guy gets on the table and Nick's like an idiot so it really has not been absorbed well the guy starts crying at the pouring table that he wishes he give more sucka so that's a guy who seems to be it seems to me have made some steps in life you know because when he's drunk the inhibitions are now are gone and then the real him or some level of him comes out so it's very much would you sleep at night what do you what did you dream about it when you dream about at night is an indication very often of what you really where you're holding during the day so yeah c'mon sit out where am i holding now after 14 years so he goes to sleep okay again these are not the plain meaning of the pasuk this is certainly what but certainly with the ideas that are contained okay now take a look at puzzle good days possibly one of the most discussed sections of the Torah certain tour certain sections of the tour which are discussed at length one of them is the is is is is the the oh yeah coves ladder and there's moshe hitting the rack and there's a golden calf there are certain things which are which are which the commentaries go to town app so let's take a look in pus a good gibble viene sulla vehicle on me as a dream DNA sulla matzav arts ax there's a ladder set on the ground Verrocchio magia Jemima the top of the ladder reaches the heavens V Nate Milwaukee I lo keem olivia d'abo the angels of God are going up and down the ladder so then I show gives them a vision about how you're going to be spread out and all these guys going to protect you and you come back and and so on and so forth whatever that all the good the good news that he hears that he sees in this vision okay what are these angels what's the letter so there are several ideas through that they're crucial for us the first is that the angels are going up names are going down the ladder is obviously the latter of spiritual growth the feet are on the ground and the tip of the ladder is in the heavens how far in the heavens you can't see the end of it and see the end elixir says it's in the it's up in the sky its why its way high in the sky do you know what the word a dumb man you know if you rearrange the letters of the word on them you know you get get the reward mode what is the mode mean very very or very much really very is closer right note is very but you know we could translate it very very much whichever wins how much how much is melody key doesn't tell us doesn't tell us how much just as very much man Adam is very much that means you're very much potential how much potentially have you have an idea you know I damage but that's live because you don't know where you're going to be holding tomorrow you know what doors tomorrow is going to 0 is windows you don't know what windows are going to be open after are you don't know what your potential is you don't know what you're going to accomplish because you don't know what you're going to do today which will open up doors of accomplishment tomorrow when when Orson map was built I don't think they really should remember I wind up so it's all I don't think when they started orsa map they were envisioning a world a world organization they're envisioning okay for well it's cater to what let's cater to the people and so he cater to the people one thing leads to death like say you know you've got you got thousands of thousands of people being exposed the eight ish guy nah I don't think that they they thought of that in the beginning yeah you start then you start in any of my goodness then a person after 40 years could look back he says I did that nobody nobody back that would have thought I had that potential I did that sure yeah because you didn't know what your potential with another person person does accomplishes actually don't look oh look what that what what they've built look what they built that's a person's potentials you don't even know your own potential none of us though we only know one thing we have very much potential how much you climb up the ladder my Allante el Akim ole in the yard DeVoe they're going up and down later so our encounter is you note that only minier do means first of all a ladder is made of rungs which tells you what Sam but it rungs on the ladder of growth tell you it means that you're taking statue that side one step at a time once every time have you ever been on a ladder and you take too many rungs at a time if you don't make it then you'll bouncing down the letter and your face keeps hitting every rung on the way that is very unpleasant right so one step at a time you'll get there take one step a time you get up into the heavens there was a there was a bunch of little boys we're having a contest once climbing the climbing a pole so they kept having a race who could climb the pole the fastest remember who find who climbed the pole the fastest so bunch of little kids a little considers kids there's an elderly man watching them and one kid kept winning over and over when give your winning the contest so afterwards the elderly man killer says you know what I was watching the contest i could tell you why you kept winning yeah he says all the other boys is they got how you're up on the pole they started looking down they saw how high they get gotten they got a little nervous so they slowed down I was watching you you kept your eyes focused upwards you never look down you get pretty good when you get any but you kept winning you got the highest so turn out the little boy was this fuss ms one of the leaders of the gear dynasty and the older man was his grandfather the fiduciary hey you get all the way up there how far would just keep going keep going keep climbing on the other hand one rung at a time it's just an alarm doing one rung at a time and and and and wondering at a time and you can get all the way up there way way way up there but remember one thing the Angels go up and they come down which means that in your process of spiritual growth you're going to have up days and you're gonna have setbacks you're going to go up you're going to olin the order by you to go up you're going to come down that's the nature of the beast in English guy it's three steps forward and it's two steps back the point is like this it is a series of three steps forward and two steps back you're going to have stronger days and you're going to have days that are setbacks but you just have to persevere it happens to everybody at every level it happens to the biggest siddiqui it happens to the 36 side they give it a generation believe it or not it even happens to me right so then happy I'm the 37th so they understand everybody goes the God Allah door goes through that the goal of hi I'm kidnaps key has days that he feels okay if our bad day if our good days would be like his bad days we'd be very happy right but for him I'm telling you he has good days in hand said when he feels are setbacks we can't imagine what his setbacks are like but you have good days in you have bad days you talk to a professional athlete you talk to tennis what he could win the tournament and tell you I didn't play well look like it played pretty well to me but he does not feel good about his game he had a say feel there was a setback and there is no sir you know Abe Lincoln never won an election he ran and ran and ran and ran and ran lost every election it was ever until he ran for president anyone lost every every election he had been until it be a ran for president and finally what you can't give up you can't give up you got to keep persevering and you take three steps forward two steps back mile ok looking over your did both number what number to the of the ladder the measure says how big was the slider I know what you're picturing Alex you're picturing you're picturing a fire truck with the ladder you know a letter except those one of those really long ones right so what are you doing whether you're super long was it goes all the way up in here all right that's what I'm picturing this overall picture says the magician how long this ladder was this letter was 8,000 parsa owes wide how wide the ladder was how wide letter the ladder was 8,000 parcels why let's say eight thousand miles right whatever it is the number is wider than the same measure which the guar gives for the earth it was wider than the entire Earth 8,000 bar selves why would the ladder why would he see a ladder that's so wide there's no one on earth who has an excuse no one who could say I didn't get on the ladder of spiritual growth nobody on earth can say that it was there was available idea to climb out nobody could turn around say I didn't have the opportunity you had the opportunity you may walked away from the opportunity I always feel bad the first time a guy ever walks into our math actually feel bad for the guy feel bad you know why because the minute you walk into her mouth your ultimate responsibility to God is just skyrocketed the person comes up after 120 years so if the guy was raised somewhere in Afghanistan and he was a Jew who never knew it because it was given up for adoption when he was a little kid and he never found I was raised as him whatever was you guys says why didn't you put on tefillin what are tolling all right ok so the guar says because Ruckle does that make unreasonable demands on people because he knocks in about we have NF that concept is a baby who was kidnapped and raised among the Gentiles but a guy walks into her some math and he's here an hour a day a week and he leaves and after 120 years of shows us why did you bite filling though I was a religious when did you know anything about religion no well how come you were your inner Samantha no time yeah but I walked in there you know I mean wasn't that interesting yeah what i thought you know i braid which is pretty interesting you know well they're a bunch of wacky rabbis ER i think you know here of galleys pretty normal you know you know they think to bring well you know i ii and III had other thing i'm not into religion i spent two years in a in a cult somewhere in the in the in the east and india you know what well what do mean you weren't into it and all sudden you're responsible you couldn't investigate check it out people we're talking sons hear your own responsibility level has gone up because your Excuse summer at least some of these is that all of them do you know they the Cardinal of france who died what state there was a cardinal in Karen loose tae Joon Lee Carolyn see he was Jewish he was a Holocaust orphan he was it was raised by Catholics heroes high in the Catholic Church he became hit me get me Catholic priests he gave my witty God he was on the piano Cardinal he was on the next tier at one point there was talk of him becoming the next pope so loose to get himself Sadie I'm Jewish but did he really believe he's Jewish anything you really look anything from the firm who from three years old 43 years old two years old whatever was originally gambling ok there's mother was Jewish I get what they got do it be I think I do with me answer ya you were Jewish how much responsibility God knows how responsible a person was to have tried to find out more but that ladder is all over the place that's all you again can't say well I didn't have the opportunity yet yes you did as he had opportunity you may not have taken the opportunity may not a one to the opportunity I know got here in Israel you used to be a rabbi in the Shiva here so he's about to his Barrington israeli girls about chua she has two brothers who were both in the Israeli Air Force one was a fighter pilot in Florida flew an f15 f-16 the other one became wasn't quite as good as him so he became a helicopter pilot you know only the cream of the crop gets into the air force and then one was a slightly so I asked him once what's the difference between your brother-in-law's the one to be woody I mean to both obviously very sharp smart guys with all the time so why did he make it into the f-15s and he'll and BM pile he said to me because the older one is much more cynical he deflects everything everything deflects off him and he's so confident that pilots they teach them to be confident here the best you're the best you're the best a very very confident river so what's he asked I asked him did he ever have a chance of becoming belch Eva he ever worked on him he says one point he started getting interested and one point he started getting interested and then he'll said he suddenly quit he said I don't want to pursue this I might become religious he walked away from it he had very little to do with them ever since I've spoken to both of these pilots I've met both of these bicycles one time I had a call I call I asked him what his older brothers with what his eat they they both apply for ll now both pilots were all along pilots are former Army when he caught the rotor sites i was i was curious about certain things about flying about how planes stay in the area no sophisticated questions like that so I called up I called up the brother who had did the f-16 pilot he's a pilot hi I'm a friend of your your brother-in-law gavrieli and I want enough i guess it seems being very polite i said to me nards this a security problem is this dangerous of the turbulent he all sorts of stuff so at a certain point he says to be and he's being very polite very pilot like almost at tired pilot voice Oh ladies gentlemen welcome and that's always talking to me the whole time very polite and I asked him if something was dangerous yeah well that's not dangerous but when your friends get up to prey on the plane that's dangerous so I said they well they're only praying that they should have a good pilot and we cut it at that that was the end then I met his brother I heard his brothers name announced that another flight I got all excited because it's a very unique last name so i guess the the guy is it is that so and so these related so they said yeah it's his brother so i said can you tell him I've handed up a note I said could be given us no time the friends with his brother-in-law so he comes back to me he said they would normally bring me up to the cockpit to meet him you know here but there's no he doesn't have any any personal recognition of who I am so against the rule so he eventually came down the aisle a man say they're the pilot came over i have also important that I you know I think was disappointed you know there's a great guy sitting in coach it's a but but but but he said he walked away from it he was getting there he was getting there anyone worked away from it because he was afraid okay there's God does the accountability level that we don't know but there's certain accountability it was there it was available for you okay tomorrow we'll continue so that's the that's a lesson it's accessible to everybody you