Parshas Terumah: Rav Yosef Engel On Why The Mizbeach Sheds Tears Over A Divorce

this tour class is brought to you by torahanytime.com let's begin the week with uh important Insight from igora says [Music] somebody who divorces their first wife demise somebody who divorces ishta rishina even cries but her tears this week's Parish we talk about Miss bayach and uh the gamara side's supposed to get my life is discussing the crying the Weeping of them is that what is the reason why Hazard tell us that the misbeth cries bitter tears for divorcing one's first wife well rugeus Wenger says the reason is very passionate he cites says [Music] what are the functions to endear to cause love says it causes love between Israel and their father in Heaven now it is well known and this is enunciated in many times that as husband and wife therefore the purpose on this bath is to endear us to God Indira kala the wife to the husband therefore if the functional is to cause a loving relationship between the husband and wife namely Claudius Royal one who divorces their wife is doing the opposite of the function on them and therefore there's none other than them that weeps bitter tears when one terminates their relationship with their spouse this is the idea of regressive angle then when one divorces one's wife that is the opposite of the function of the results I would like to explain perhaps on an even deeper level and that is we've said many times um and most notably this was the show we gave this past year Patrick say that again the light of the Exile and we explained a very important reason and that is number one is and one cannot divorce their wife against her wealth takana number two is one cannot take two wives and we explain that this is actually what saved the Jewish people on exile because God is our husband why doesn't Hashem say get lost I'm not interested in you anymore well because Hashem keeps the title and since a man is not a divorced his wife against her well God can't divorce us against our will so maybe Hashem will say I'll take another life maybe instead of you guys I'll also take North Korea no Hashem cannot take another wife this is part of the takana of well and that she'll explain that not only are we considered married to God but there is a concept that the way that the relationship between husband and wife is in this world is a reflection of the relationship that coach Sparkle has with knesses Israel and when there is a strong then then that causes a very severe fundamental crack in the relationship between just look in the basement in the Holy spot on earth there were two crew of him representing the relationship that we have with an eye colors as Isha and that is merely reflected by the relationship between husband and wife Raman even says at the end of safer uh voracious that the shrina that was present in the mishkan was only a main of the shrina that was present in the home of avraham and Sarah and therefore the idea that we're saying is a little bit of an added step to obviously not not only not only are we considered married Hashem and if somebody terminates the relationship they have with their wife that's the antithesis of them is there to create a strong relationship between one Hassan akala God and us and this person is uh causing a severance and their relationship with their spouse so the that's the antithesis of those bath but it's even more than that it's not just the misbehas function is uh to create connection and this person is causing Severance no a person's relationship with their wife is a representation of the relationship Hashem has with Kinesis as well it's not just another marriage it is the reflection of the marriage we have with Hashem and when one terminates the marriage with our spouse in all for all effective purposes they are severing the relationship that college girl who has with Claudius run so that is weeps that are tears because is to endear and when one terminates relationship with their spouse they are severing not only their relationship with their spouse in a way they're severing their relationship and therefore it is over such a terrible situation wish everyone a week and a month and happiness you've just experienced another Torah class brought to you by torahanytime.com