Parshas Shelach: Hashem, Help Us For Your Sake!

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atone like you said I atone because of your argument what's your argument said if you don't take the into then nations of the world are going to say you don't have the ability to take us to ter is it's going to be in other words M didn't say save us have ra on us you know we have a strong you're you love us no mha said if you kill us in the midbar the nations of the world are going to say Hashem is not powerful so said good kak I I forgive you because of that argument because you said that the nations of the world are going to say does not have the ability to bring this nation in other words the argument of specifically was it's going to be andem said you know what but only so the question is how does Rashi know that's what the PK means Hashem said I forgive you like you said maybe that means mha Asked to be forgiven so Hashem says that's what you asked for I'm going to do it how does Rashi know that meant is because of that specific argument you know offered many he said he said he said nine of the now I'm going to tell you something no extra charge in because of invokes 13 because invokes says is because of which happened on because of how many days in after 13 so since kicks off the there 13 days of used because of but the of the was and in response to said can I get the nine days that correspond to the of the so you have precipitated 13 days uses precipitated n days so uses n that's but the question is back to the ranch how does Rashi know that that when the says he means I will atone them but only because of your argument so the chabin once came to a Jew who needed a Yeshua and the the yid said I tried everything I tried daving I tried School Ice I tried mitv so the said the key the biggest suula is if you for Yeshua is if you DAV that the should send the Yeshua to be mades his name not for you not that I need a I need a Yeshua I need a if you do it you're GNA have from it you're gonna have there's gonna be from it that's the big the most powerful is if you says how do I know this I know this from Rashi where did Rashi get from that hasem said TOA I atone because of what you said meaning that you said that the go that you said the nations of the world will say made many he offered many he had many arguments how does rash know that when hasm said he meant the argument that the name of hem will be must be Rashi knew that because the most powerful argument you could offer is that it's going to be if you don't save us so now this is a subject I want to talk about this evening says he's bothered byha has let's say somebody needs Yeshua somebody needs AA say it hurts so much help me says how could you how could you D for that it's ridiculous you're going to D in that hasem should remove thein that's absurd that's like imagine you went to a doctor somebody has a sickness and you go to the doctor and you say Doc cure me so doc says sure either I have to amputate your your foot or have to give you a bad medicine that's the only way you're going to have ra okay so you go to the do says what insurance do you take take uh take Oxford good that's good I I also take Oxford um this is going to cost a million dollars and there's a and there's a $100,000 copay okay okay the guy needs to live so he says fine then the the um the doctor says okay you know the only way we could save you is you're going to take this bitter medicine no don't give me the bitter medicine so do says okay then you're going to die okay so give me the bitter medicine but don't give me the bitter medicine you came to me you're paying me money this Isa this is the only so what are you what are you asking me so says ifw thein is kapar so what are you asking Hashem no don't give me don't give meurin you brought you brought it on yourself this is the only Ru you could have this is the only Yeshua it's hashem's that he's giving what are you daving for Hashem don't give thein is a for the it's like going to a doctor then saying don't give me medicine so what do you come to me for so says the the truth is you can't DAV can't DAV to take away the only trick is to DAV you say I'm a Jew I'm your child when I suffer if I suffer it's AEM it's it's a desecration of your name because I'm your Ambassador I represent you I reflect you it's going to diminish sh the only way for to work is if you use the angle that this is for you but to say this is for me God says no it's not for you I know you need the only way works is if you're it's for you it's not for me it's not for my benefit it's for your benefit so then you'll say okay maybe that's good for cl give us Yeshua and is because when the nations of the world see how downtrodden we are how abused we are that they could invade our land and terrorize us and then it's our fault if we retaliate it's but what if an individual Jew suffers how what angle could you use and say if I suffer it's a of your name how is it if an individual Jew suffers says because when a Jew suffers Hashem suffers so you say I it hurts me forget about that that's my problem I I know I need that but I don't want you to suffer the only way could work is if you say I don't need for me I need it for you otherwise says you can't D can't D for yourself knows what you need for your benefit it's absur to them says you know who teaches this to us reab mayor okay I'm not don't worry okay but just re mayor says that when a person's B to Gar in San number six when a person is distressed what does say my head hurts my arm hurts so you say therefore when a Jew suffers the re suffers so we say Reb heal me because I don't want you to be in pain give me parosa cuz I don't want you to be distressed alleviate my anxiety my stress for your benefit give me the Yeshua for you because I know you hurt for me now just as an aside we once pointed out it's in the in the humble sa it's notable that is the one who says that when a Jew suffers God says my head hurts my arm hurts because R is the one who holds we're the children of hem that's ra that theam is our loving father so therefore when we suffer he feels the pain very acutely comes to says by the way why does hem say my head hurts my arm hurts did you know that Hashem wears Fain but it's a different kind of f than art Fain an art Fain it says there's one but in it says there's one wears to fill in on his arm and on his head you know what hashem's Fain is US hashem's connection to CLA is is hisin so when we suffer Hashem says my head hurts my arm hurts meaning Cloud Isel hurts so I hurt says it's a wondrous thing Hashem says he's like our twin a twin there's like a phenomenon when one twin is suffering the other one feels the pain right you know right you have a twin not yet but if you would have a twin you would know I don't I don't have one yet either but if I would have a twin if I would be in pain he would also feel the pain that's how twins work anyway the the says you ever noticed in the P hasem says I feel I'm with you in the pain if listen to this what is it when you're in pain and I save you it's not your salvation it's my salvation not you ever wonder why doesn't it say no it's Bishi when saves you he's saving himself or you ever noticed this I trust in your kindness it should say my heart rejoices in my salvation no it's not it's your salvation Hashem you're being saved you see I like Su that have song the thing is a p has a song you usually never think about the meaning of the words cuz you're so used to the words you never stop you could have sang that song a million times the better the song the less anyone has any idea what the PK means I trust in your that Y in your salvation in your salvation you're the one who's being saved or the PK says now you know what the biggest salvation is is if a person is in pain but a person is so caught up thinking that I know I'm suffering but the ream is suffering more so the person feels the pain of the ream more even than he feels his own pain that itself is for one's so the says that actually this is the most important now he says more than this now you know if you're not interested in this schoa no problem but this skula you could double your salary double okay so I know nobody's interested in that everybody's only sh sh so you could tune out for this part you'll come back when we're talking about more spiritual things but just this part is how to double your salary imagine right now you know whatever you make you make $10 million a year to 20 million right away it doesn't take time what is it the says anyone who's anyone who joins up the name of Heaven in his pain he gets double earnings it means like this when a person doesn't have and punishes a person so Hashem is in pain that this person has to suffer but that's a minimum pain you know when the Hashem is really in pain at the time that you did the A and you cut yourself off from him so when a person does the AA and a could be very severe because say when a person does a they're literally called a mess sometimes a person could do and they literally cut off their from the source of Life on high there's idea where person's soul is cut off from the source of life and then has to punish a person so when does when does suffer more at the time the person does the a or at the time the the person gets the punishment think about that for a moment what's more painful to hasem when the person sins or when the person is punished says in there's no question that at the time of the sin re is a lot more pained than at the time of the punishment says I'll give you a mush the mush is a kid drank a little bit too much alcohol and he fell into a stoer and he injured himself and he broke his neck and he's taken to the hospital and in the hospital they're doing a very delicate procedure and the kid is screaming from the procedure when is the father more in pain when the kid was drunk and he fell and he broke his neck or when the kid is screaming in pain during the procedure the father was in agony when he saw what the kid did to himself that he injured himself lethally during the procedure the father is in pain that the kid is suffering but it's not nearly as bad as when the kid fell in the first place so too when a person doesn't have the distance the a causes between the and the is so much more painful to even than the punishment itself okay however if at the time the person gets the punishment person says I feel the pain and I regret not only doing the AA I regret causing the pain when I sin then causing theam pain that I have to suffer now because I know when I'm suffering the Reish is suffering so you're really M on two things you regret that you did the AA in the first place and you regret that you're causing God Pain by having to suffer now those two feelings of regret Hashem will now reward you and will accept your chuva both for doing the AA and he will reward you extra for being in pain that you caused in pain and you get double reward your salary will double your salary will double so you could take half the patience double salary so whatever challenge a person has they should think okay I'm having this challenge is reminding me of something something I could improve on so a I regret having done that infraction and I regret causing theam pain says the now watch this says look in number 10 in the fourth paragraph in other words if you D heal me because I'm in pain you're in the minor leaves you're like single a maybe double A it's not a real it's not a real feeling you're doubting for yourself well Hashem knows this is is good for you what are you doubting for exactly what exactly you're doing is it you're practicing saying the words a real a leg an acceptable is when you're I feel bad that I'm suffering and I'm causing you pain I feel bad that I did the AA in the first place that caused you pain and now you're punishing me and you're causing me pain and that causes you pain ah I'm waiting I'm waiting the whole day to hear one guy say a real that's a that's the only kind of you could offer repeatedly by it says says so the gar she so to speak through words up at which seems to indicate that Kan was like like challenging God she he was like she was speaking out against Hashem so explains even though Kano was childless and she was in terrible pain she ignored her own plight and she said I am daving I want you to alleviate my pain because I don't want you to be in pain that's what mean by the way the same thing by by the says and the take a look at number nine why because calls Al I and I Al so instead of daving to God we to mean he daved against hasem says why would we why would we indict that he's saying words against hasem says against means that even though M and Ka were in a difficult situation mha said forget us it's not about us we want it for you that's what it means it was it was the says if even in a personal prayer your needs to be certainly when you and you're saying the it's only for the who does that besides you what you don't know what he's thinking please God heal her why why heal her we don't have all it it doesn't we don't have the background we don't know what he was thinking I'm sure he had layers and layers of of MAA so now we're learning a tremendous thing the chab derives from Rashi that the most powerful in other words if you never did this before you could upgrade youra from single a to like Hall of Fame level just in one day whatever you did until now in your life was just re just practicing saying the words real is when you sayam I need parosa why cuz I want money no because if if I don't have it then you feel bad for me I don't want to cause you any aggravation now you say well that's that's pretty devious you know that's that's pretty it's like uh I guess you start you start as much as you can and you must Stir It Up but that's that's the highest level Mar what's the grand finale of the T wres look at number 11 anyone who says these four things in will receive the do it for your name for your right hand do it for your do it for your kadus I know that if I'm not happy you're not happy so forget me do it for you that's a valid F otherwise it doesn't make sense it's not that it's not a valid it's irrational what do you mean it hurts you says because it's good for you you can't even DAV help me you're in a difficult situation for your benefit so what do you want me to do it's ridiculous I gave it to you as a it's the only not only acceptable rational way to DAV but now this opens up to me an entire Vista of okay ready for this there's a miss you may have heard of it the say don't be like a servant who serves his master to get reward serve your master not to get reward right so we all know that it's not like such a high level to do MIT to get reward says that's a for a regular guy but what if you say why did hasem create the world to give us the opportunity to get wants to give us so what if I do a Mitzvah not that I want I'm doing the Mitzvah so I should get I want to make Hashem Happy by giving me so says that's the highest so lowest is to do mitv only for your own benefit to get on but if you say I'm not getting I don't want to do the Mitzvah to get for me I want to do the Mitzvah to get because you want me to get Ah that's even higher than someone who does mitz to get not to get reward you hear that that's the highest MGA I want to do mitv so you should give give me because I want you to be happy says the in he says now you'll say but this this is a scam it's a scam yeah I really really uh I'm getting up in the morning at 5 a.m. not for me not for me not because I want to get because I want to make you happy really so R I have one question for you what if we would tell you that you're going to do the Mitzvah and you're the is going to go to your neighbor because since you're not doing it for your own benefit you're doing it for Hashem to make him happy Hashem is equally as happy if you get the or he gets the so would you still do the Mitzvah if the would go to PL no no no I don't I don't need to make hasem that happy so what do you mean you're only willing to make him happy if you get it so then you're doing it for yourself you're not doing it forem so says the barometer to know whether in fact in other words I guess you could say the same thing by where a person says Hashem don't take it away because I'm in pain I don't want you to be in pain what if Hashem would say okay how about I'll listen to your instead of taking away your pain I'll take away his pain would you accept that no no no no that's not what I had in mind so then you know you know then you know it's a real scam in other words the tering F the barometer to tell if how how uh disingenuous you are is if the will say okay I'll take away his pain or I'll give him the reward but a start it is it is a start in fact um what see the same type of thing there where you DAV Hashem send him the Yeshua so you get it first so you're saying let's say I only do it so I should get it first I'm saying it doesn't make a difference the same way works with this does it work there let's say a person says I'm only daving for him because I want to get answered first does it still work well applying the same logic here he seems to say you know it has to be fully real it's something a head taller than the guy next to you that you are you know how how how genuine it is the more genuine it is the farther the F will go another singular alling asking for everybody not for ourselves every brother really yeah really you're you're when you're asking for panasa you mean everybody everybody not everyone is as such I understand that but most people they're kavana when they're thinking they're not thinking of I I I know what you say I because I you know I I also say that word I also say but most people when they sayu they're thinking about their family you throw that in whatever that means me by the way the the PK says by moshu that mhu asked to go into so the asks why did M want to go into to eat the fruits M says that there many mitv that were only command in is and so hasem says well you only want to get the so I'll give you thear anyway that's the so says really wanted to go to just to get the says no wanted to go to get the to make Hashem happy not for himself he didn't want to do it for himself he wanted to get thear to make Hashem happy so wanted to know when am I going to quote the already so right now okay says on this said anyone who cries out to me anyone who cries out to me help me not for me but for you Hashem says I'm answering your I will always give to anyone who DAV to me that's how interprets it that this type of it's on a different Stratosphere than regular that there's a that when you it works it works so I happened to see today and I saw I'm uh yesterday and this really was What U got me into this topic from a new thing to think about when you're eating okay it's it's not on this list first first you got to master this list how how many cards could you put down in front of you while you're eating the sandwich already first get this list down then we'll update it okay says you know you should think when you're eating it's like imagine if you're eating imagine you know your grandmother is sitting next to you and she's feeding you a meal and she's watching you as you eat and you see her face you know she literally she's getting more Hanah than you are yeah so if you have a if you have a little bit of of a little hearts you think it's a good meal but I'm also eating cuz I'm giving the the I'm giving my grandmother enjoyment when you eat food you should think the ream created this world for me to enjoy I am giving by enjoying this meal that's not a bad one think I'm preparing myself look what he writes number 15 this is from the quoting he's quoting that's prepare yourself to accept from the one who desires created the world to be ative to you so he say look you know if it would be up to me I I don't know if I would I would just eat bread and water but there's a steak in front of me I know theam wants me to enjoy it so I'm eating it to make him happy now you say well Hashem will say Well if you really want me to make make uh make me happy you'll eat the bread and give your friend the steak that that happy I'm not looking to make I'm not ready to make Hashem that happy but a little bit happy once I'm happy I'm trying I want to be happy so that the re should also be happy so that's it comes out whatever you do every Mitzvah you do of course you want to get you know Miller would say we should Dov somebody does aah but if all you also think I want to get because I want to make hasem happy that I got please send Rua and I know that you feel my pain and I don't want you to be in pain please send to Yeshua because I know that it will alleviate your s or what if you know you're ding for your child theed once told me it is a beautiful idea sayam see this kid over here we're Partners we're Partners no three they're three Partners in a person okay so for my own okay but I want you to have we're we're you we're in it together we're in this together it's me my wife and I this for you you're my partner over here so I'm I'm daving for you okay now this is because this is not just the that was effective in the time of where said andem said you know what you know there's a day called yam you ever hear of it the 10th day of Tish how does it start what do we say somebody tell me why we're saying a from that happened on Tish did did did you get this right is you took out the right that that has nothing to do with was so you may maybe put back the K okay put the K back on the shelf and take out your yum but where did the get to Y and and think about it you've been saying it for weeks since began it doesn't say even though I know you all if I would have stopped you on a random street corner and I would have asked you where does it say you every last one of you would have said not one person here has would have known it was in it was by you say yeah yeah you didn't remember everyone thinks it has to do with the you know why constantly say even though it doesn't say it there I'll give you an example Rashi random Rashi and akv look at this I'm very happy about this because I think I had this confused also right everybody thinks I thought nothing to do with Y wrong day it's the 10th and the nth right the 10th of Tish and the nth of Rashi and a says goes up 40 days huh no he didn't say says in this week's parha ra says on the Fifth Line many understand the is going on the AAL which garas there's not one in pass says there in many places in the tal say is going on right in the nowhere nowhere there's not one gar that's a so the says we found one in the T of but clearly rash learn is going on the and says it's in many places of why why which which was well you tell me the agel they abandoned God and they worshiped idols and the morum they said the fruits are big they said the land the land how about God let they abandoned God and they bow down to a cow they didn't they no which ones there's no cow they didn't take any Buddha and bow down the agel and yet listen to says many places in say is going on theal how could that be you ready for this look in the says says forgive them for the just like you did by the I'll cut you the agel but the nothing doing you hear that learns learns says forgive them for theim just like you forgave them for theel said I I'll forgive them like you said for the they're all dying so according to the is only going on the AEL isn't that amazing is only going on the AEL we see it's much bigger you it's a good thing I gave the sh Tuesday night I'll tell you why cuz if it Wednesday I would have had more time and then I would have been Cal about it and then I probably I had something brewing and I probably would have developed it I just couldn't find the safer I was looking for but I was M I have no idea what I was going to talk about so I needed tremendous this I think is one of the most important sh I ever gave really really I think this is one of the most important sh I ever gave this last shot that you said proves my point that Morag was worse than of course yeah is he's it's being ACC and no no no no forget obviously Rashi doesn't Rashi doesn't agree with this it's in but it's not being it's not onl help correct that does that doesn't stem with it doesn't help me at all I'm just saying the yeah okay I'm pointing out that everybody thought is going in the even though I'm showing you it appears by the it doesn't appear by the agal rash and says it's going on the AAL says understands going on the AEL and the I'm showing you thei holds it's only going on the agel and it's not going on the marag meaning SL for the just like you atone them for theel said like you say Ione them for the agel nothing doing with the maragam but Rashi obviously doesn't hold that way right makes sense I mean right because Rashi writes in this week's para I'll forgive you for the for the MIM like you said because otherwise the go are going to say I can't take you out so Rashi is not learning like because rash is learning like you said that if I don't forgive them people are going to say I'm weak so therefore I'm going to forgive them for the mirum so then what is it going on the agel also right watch this I could not it took me a very long time to find this because they say this is from the B it's not in the it's in the old print of it's not in It's just in the old ancient print of that's says like this this is also wild this also doesn't fit into Rashi who says the words so what do you mean who says it God says I forgive you T says no when Rashi says that was going on the AEL you know what Rashi means means like this forgive this nation and you'll say really is there any precedent yeah and just like you bore this nation when you took them out and they serve the AEL and you know what you God said back in the time of the AEL you said you know whose words these are's words not God's words that's how the learned so thei learns God said I forgive you for the AEL but not the says it means forgive them now and you'll say what precedent is there because you said was saying these are your words by theal and what does hasem say no Hashem said no Hashem said no also doesn't fit inashi so learns said it learn is all talking and saying what hasem said at the time the Rashi seems to be learning like this now just like you forgave clo at the time of the AAL and Hashem said I will forgive them even now like you said which means that both by the agel and by the morum the argument was this is going to be by the said why should Egypt say that you took that took them out to kill us so think about it both times we're in a jam when M need to bail us out he didn't say save us because then there won't be Jewish people he said save us because what MIM will say save us because what the nations of the world will say so I saw in a sa from yov Borstein he wrote on he says really every Yeshua in the history of Cl is came about only through a that the should save us for him and there's a why Why didn't it say by it only say here right it's like it's like a principle in Tyra that sometimes something will appear in a different place and it has to be extrapolated right then then extrapolated to the the fact alone that just bring it to your attention like it doesn't say it where you think it says it it says it elsewhere and and yet everybody Associates those words with in in we say not for our sake not for our sake for your sake in yes says for my sake for my sake I will act says what is this peric that we say to to it's not for our sake it's not for our sake brings many opinions that one opinion is MOA and cl is said it when they stood at the yam they said Hashem save us but not for us save us for you and Hashem said you're right L I'll do it for me rebar M says and Barak said it when they were facing SRA they saidu and Hashem responded okay I'll do it I'll do it for me Rebel said they said it when they were facing was when was facing and they said save us but not for us and said okay said said said said not for us said I'll do it for myself say for every Sor that befs CL is we were M the way youav is and what about the which might answer you know what what are we still doing here like what more what more do we have to do writes in thean writes Inu look in the second line B we have no more we don't have they're gone they've been depleted all we could say is please help us in please help otherwise it's such a how could your people be so disparaged how could your people be in such pain what are the nations are the world going to say they're going to say that you forsook us but we've we've stuck it out with you for 2,000 years what are they going to say about your children re you have to bring the G look how mankind has descended into into such emptiness and promiscuity where people they can't tell the difference between right and wrong re it's not for my parasa it's not for my honor it's for your name you have to help CL for your name says the tour in the first we say you know what the meaning is you remember the kindness of our forefathers but we know there's nothing left in the account so what do you mean even a billionaire could also blow all the money yeah someone who's foolish enough he could be a multi-billionaire he could we blew it already there's nothing left in the account it's the meaning of remembers the kindness of the problem is there's nothing left so how's the Gul going to happen oh may you know why it's for his sake is otherwise it's going to beem when hasem elevates CL then people see there's Justice in the world people see there's right and wrong people see the truth of the Tyra says V if you tell somebody listen you you have a lot of credit with me so I'm going to help you out but your friend blows all the credit and he has nothing left but you promised him and you help him out you can to do it happily or you going to do it begrudgingly you do it begrudgingly you say you know I you have a lot of credit so I'm going to help you but he blew all the credit so you'll help him out you're not going to be happy about it but when the Reon bails us out even though we've depleted all our our credit when he still does it he still does it because he loves us even though we blew it and we have no and we're totally unworthy and says this is what it means that Mia will come means count as empty we're an overdraft but still he'll do it but you have to make sure you know how to ask for it that's the LI of which says was that whenever somebody davens like that that's how it bailed us out in the times of the AEL times of in the times of s in the times of H in the times of every and say every future tar the key is onlyu hasem it's for the's name and if we D in that way we thank you very much have a wonderful