Parshas Lech Lecha: Don't Despair! - How to Overcome Despondency

this tour class is brought to you by torahanytime.com here in Kew Garden Hills New York parishas says a very intriguing encounter hahi sabasa there's an Alta yudhana there's an old woman she comes before and she says I've got a problem the exalark and all the rabbis of the House of the axelarch the sukha gazula havaianasi they're stealing they're sitting in a stolen sukkah Surah says you know what's the uh what's the problem she said because it's my Suka I want my Suka back by the way is possibly learned now from a posse just to digress for a moment toy Swiss asks why do I need a draw Isis wants to answer that has nothing to do with anything by the way toshis wants to answer that is a famous manov that had a nap in for the apostle the man does not use is not yours in the midst of but the sukkah is still the culture I need the Posse to say is possible okay that's free no charge for the longest over there okay and there's a shower and all kinds of treats on that sugiya but now the Shiloh the woman has is she says she cries out give me my suck about they didn't pay attention to her did not pay attention to her so you have this lady she's uh complaining she's screaming she's crying and the rabbis don't give her the time of day omro okay she says to him it's a I'm a woman is 318 slaves she's screaming before you're not paying attention to her do you know who I am I'm a person who's my father at 318 slaves why don't you give me the time of day um This Woman's she doesn't get her Suka back just pay her for the wood so certainly may have been right that maybe this woman was a piece she might have been a fetch but at the end of the day is what is this nonsense that this woman is spewing that do you know who you're dealing with she doesn't say you know my father is the king of England she doesn't say that you know my altazeda was you know she says my father had 318 slaves so first of all good for him it's very nice that her father had 318 slaves yeah and what kind of car did he drive you know and what dude it's another admitting that she was like yeah but the point being she wanted her Suka back yeah she could have been right but ravnath went yeah I'm not focusing on the she got her Manish but she didn't get what she wanted but what what's the argument that she used that my father had 318 slaves I mean say it straight if she wants to say I'm rich and Powerful let her say let her say I'm rich and Powerful let her say don't start up with me I've got money you know if that's what she's getting at that she has money so let her say you know I'm gonna call my my I'm going to call my mafioso friend and he's Gonna Knock You Out what is he talking about what's she saying that my father had 318 slaves what's that got to do with it what's the significance of the number 318 okay so um perhaps all right so okay fine don't spoil it if you know don't spoil it I'm trying to give a share over here don't ruin it over here they're people watching it so don't give any clues if you know it just hang on hold on to your horses what are we gonna develop it or is the shirt gonna end out likely that this year will continue for another 45 minutes you know so let's just let's be patient over here and we'll we'll try to get it all out um if if you know the ending if you know the punch line you'll be rewarded if you're able to contain yourselves and control okay anyway there's another gemara the gamara says like this when is mashiach coming you know when is Michelle coming so evaluate the various Rashi shitas Rashi 1352 cheetahs ramban 1358. um right okay all kinds of Shooters yeah but the gemara says is the main clue for when Michelle is coming says the gamara and Ben David will not come until people think he's not coming will not come until people think that he's not coming you know the famous story in um in 67 there's a lot of Messianic talk okay Michelle is coming with yaakov gives the clap on the bhima that he knows for sure Michelle is not coming so he say rebe even if you're not a supporter of Zionism but you don't know for sure he's not coming how do you know for sure he's not coming so if yaakov said one thing's for sure when everybody thinks he's coming well that then we know for sure he's not coming like the gamara says Michelle is not coming why is that important why would mashiach only come when people finally give up hope okay Rabbi Sai I don't want you to have to contain yourselves any longer let's cut to the chase avram avram heard that his brother was captured and he trained his um young men Yoli Davis those who were born in his house so the simple meaning of the pasta is avraham avinu at this point he's called avram he took with him 318 soldiers comes Rashi and Rashi says a rabbis tell us that it was not 318 it was elieza the humin SRI and the numerical value of elieza is 318. fine so what's going on over here but I don't understand that's not what the plastic says the plastic says he took 318 men so what is Rashi bothered by that oh that's not 318 it's Eliezer no Russia is not what it says it says 318. if the Torah was telling me that he took Elias then the tire would have said clearly he took Elias and Rashi we know his classes so what why is Rashi quoting the gemara that it was only Eliezer and the gamachu of his name is 318. so right off the background we go back to the gemara and if this woman is saying do you know who I am my father had 318 slaves there's no question that what she was referring to what sure there's no question that what she was referring to was that her great ancestor avraham had 300 and you're good 318 slaves she's meaning she's a descendant of avraham avinu okay so if that's what she meant that she's a Descent of amravino she should say please I'm a Jewish person I'm a descendant I mean is that how you refer to avrah mavino but if you wanted to make reference to avrah mavina would you say you know who Adam rovina was let's let's give him a little caption he was the man who had 318 slaves you would have say avraham oyavi like the Navy Shaya says you would have called him the greatest I don't I'm not familiar with any other place in kala terracula that when referring to avra homavino we refer to him as the man who had 318 slaves like in the yoitzroyce when we give titles for Avril mavino I guarantee you one of the great appellations that are given to the patriarch Abraham is the you know our forefather you know how great he was he had 318 slaves I mean even at somebody's eulogy you could have the biggest oyster in the world nobody's reading off at the levia how much their their stocks are worth how many how many how much real estate they own this is what the woman is proud of I come from avraham racist what a racist today I try not to be abrasive publicly and you know okay so yeah what is what does it mean that um that she refers to Harmony is a guy who had 318 slaves why does the Torah say that if avrah mavina only took Elias there that he took 318. says foreign he girded himself with strength when he heard what happened and from here we learned says 318 slaves bigamatria Eliezer so says because according to The Madras the number 318 is not it's not kepsuta it's a riddle it's referring to elieza soyota it says he took 318. he took 318 and he took elieza how's that he had 318 and he girded them and he trained them and he armed them and they practiced and after they prepared themselves to go out to war vayorak he emptied them out why did he empty them out because we know that winning a war is not dependent on brute strength winning or is dependent on the horse and we know that in general when we go out to war an announcement is made that anybody who is not qualified to fight get lost go back get off the Battlefront so he started off with 318 Warriors but then vayorek vayora coming he trained them he armed them it could also Allah rake he emptied them out in other words after deciphering after going through their their accounting he realized none of them were worthy to fight the war and therefore he sent so many back home do you know how many were left none were left except for Eliezer elieza was the only one who was worthy to remain on the Battlefront their forces could be read he he trained his men and he emptied it out until he was left with only one who was he left with he started with 318 and he was left with 318. he started with 318 men and he's left only with elieza explains that we know when you go out to war so the uh General makes a big announcement anyone here get engaged to a woman and not steal the deal and not consummate the marriage get lost you know you need to go home anyone buy a house have a great day anyone buy a house and not inaugurate it go home anybody buy a Vineyard and not enjoy it go home and then the plastic says anyone here scared any scaredy cats here anybody nervous get lost get lost says you xiaomi says you xiaomi what is a guy afraid of it scared me what is the Avera that we're talking about I think it's between the Babbling and the usami the babli says the average he talked between the Thrones and the children that warns a person is not worthy to fight on behalf of the Jewish people but the xiaomi says what are we talking about if somebody speaks out between they're out they're lost they can they don't have the mara to be protected during battle so I ask you Kasha that's when the guy spoke out that's the only time in the evening you're allowed to talk you are permitted to talk between the end of your stomach and the beginning of yours there the answer is you're only allowed a total advice it's the most lenient part of davening when it comes to talking the most lenient so I remember I was once in a where I was a rabbi it was a hard time making a minion sometimes we had a you know get a tenth and a ninth or so on and so forth so sometimes make a phone call so make sure to say your Starbucks and I asked the Shyla you can make a phone call to get a 10 person for a minion between you and the beginning of your why because it's mutter to talk then let's vermit so this was a varamitza but if it's not an environmental it's such a serious infraction to talk then that you would not be qualified to defend the Jewish people on in the army so you see but but that means that if somebody talks he can't fight for the Jewish people exactly that's right if you talk by it's such a terrible Avera that you're disqualified and you will not be protected if one goes out to war to defend collection but what do you mean it's Muhammad Smith so you're defending the Jewish people it's a Shah Sakana you don't want to have that on your husband but that means if someone talks about she can't defend the Jewish people that's right it's such a terrible Avera what no to defend College on Earth Oh you mean these will send anybody out okay it could be so the bottom line is you still can't talk about still the Chicago says so it's um the sin is akin to murder for guy ran by we scream at you so next time you you uh you forget and you're talking someone screams at you to thank them for fulfillingham and then you're good to go then you're clean what I mean maybe it's a draft exemption yeah it's well known in Vietnam a lot of people did that they spokeback has also shots to get out of the war yeah so no the oldest trick in the book you know anyway so yeah anyway the Four Kings and the five Kings yeah a joke is a joke okay um in the war of the Four Kings and the five Kings he divided the night of avraham and his servants and he smote them so what does Apostle say it should say Bill Lila he divided his troops during the night literally by Halal means he divided the night what does it mean he divided then I had he divide the Knight says Rashi um he split the night the first half of the night he made the miracle of avraham defeating the Four Kings the second half of the night is guarded and protected and preserved for Yates so Rashi is being megalitas tremendous sight that we would have expected that a miracle is a miracle and Hashem does miracle a and Miracle B and Miracle C and have nothing to do with each other Rashi says no there is one miraculous night half of it was the victory of avraham over the Four Kings the other half is the Victor the yitzia from yutiasmitzrayim why did the Revenge them have to divide the night that to save one half for the victory of avraham over the Four Kings and the other half the uh yitzia from UCS what's the connection between avraham overcoming the Four Kings and yet we're now going to talk about a challenge that every Jew faces this isn't a Scion and a difficulty that at some point or other we all have to overcome and we're all confronted with and in a way this is one of the biggest challenges in life posix says when you go out to war against your enemy foreign a nation greater than you lysira Mayhem fear not like he's with you he took you out of the land of Egypt you're fighting a war you see a lot of uh soldiers coming out against you horses and chariots steeds they're making a lot of ruckus you're very afraid Don't Be Afraid hashems with you this plastic has another meaning as well there's another war that every Jew faces and this is the greatest war in life this is the war against the eight Sahara says a soldier once came back from Battle and he bumps into says where are you coming from and the soldier says I'm coming back from War and the says you're returning from the small War now you face the Great War so what are you talking about you're coming from the battlefield now you have to fight and the most powerful and vicious and poisonous attack of the at Sahara is when ayed wants to do a Mitzvah you come to Shoal and you want to dive in with kavana or you want to learn and you want to do a big Mitzvah and you really have a history rules to come closer to banishum the Sahara comes and says you you ice for you're gonna do a mitzvah have you spent your life properly you're gonna do a Mitzvah after doing the X Y and Z for 50 years for 40 years for 70 years you know kind of a Varian you are you know kind of Russia you are you're gonna dive in with cavana you know how many hundreds of fields of that Cavanagh you said you know how much you but you think the remote likes you you know how many you know how dirty you are you know how sullied you are you know how disgusting you are to Hashem and these are harder than paints all the poisonous that you created from your aveiroys and the isahara says you're going out to do war against Syria Sahara and you want to do a Mitzvah and the itsahara shows you all of these disgusting mycin that you did you know what you've been doing for the last 10 years you know what you did last night and now you want to do a Mitzvah all of these disgusting says all of these thousands of others you know who did them you did it so you know you're barking up the wrong tree you know leave the Mitzvahs to you know some pure Yeshiva boy who who maybe has a chance in life he has a bright future he has potential you're already messed up you're long gone you're you know you're off the beaten path s God's not interested in you says when you go out to war against your enemy and this enemy is the biggest enemy in the world the itsahara and he's going to show you all the horses and all the malachim says don't be afraid of him you know why you don't need to be afraid of the answer God is with you he took you out of the land of Egypt and we're going to explain the greatest Arsenal in the powers and the forces of the Sahara is a four-letter word we don't like to say this word especially I'm a rub it's not really but well you know just for Torah here you know what this this four-letter word is it's called Yosh is the most powerful weapon of the isahara there is no feeling that restrains and squelches and pains and causes a person to withdraw and debilitates a person there is no more debilitating feeling than yes then hopelessness whether it's in the physical world somebody's dealing with health and there's a certain issue the moment a person feels yush that is the most debilitating your sapt of all energy your sapped of all zest you don't have any desire anymore to forge your head to push ahead to to accomplish Yosh saps the life out of you emotionally people have worries anxieties fears this specifically what I'm referring to there's a very um beautiful safer the name of the safer is if you look at number 11. this was written by somebody of Greenwald who was uh considered a big comment of the stipler it's also a psychologist based at a Muncie and he wrote advice to people suffering from emotional distress anxiety nervousness depression OCD you know uh unfortunately in our generation there are very many fish and many many many people and everybody to some extent suffers emotionally we're very weak um emotional Constitution and people are soy well uh very great challenges and the one feeling that is more debilitating and really sucks the life out of a person more than anything else is you don't you don't feel there's any light in life there's no hope in life it just saps the person of all of their energy look at number 11 mi corig from all of man's feelings there's no feeling more debilitating to sort of lock a person into chains from from unleashing their ability more than yes and the moment of first and falls into yush he thinks all hope is lost there's no life they feel choking there's no hope and Yosh causes a person to see everything you know with black glasses often a person feels yeah spiritually a person might feel they are so accustomed to a certain Avera they'll never get out of it they'll never do chuva they'll never be a person is proud of especially when it comes to young people you know they're Sur navarros that if you look in the desire says openly that there's you can't do chuba for the language of the zayar is and this is something that all these forums deal with uh specifically desire says you can't do chuva so you have a young man you deal with Yeshiva buffer and they hear this oh you can't do chuva forget it I'm a Russia Devon sham hates me I can never clean myself off I have no hope and these type of thoughts are the most debilitating thoughts whether it's in the physical world the emotional world the spiritual World Yosh is the greatest weapon in the arson of the Sahara and in a way in a way they are true thoughts because there are uh so what do you do because there are physical conditions that it does seem very hopeless and you know what sometimes maybe there is no way out and there are emotional distresses that things do seem very Bleak and sometimes a person could fall spiritually that it does seemed that there's no way out so what does a person do in all of those situations the answer is we have to look in the gemara send that field please take a look at number 12. says again there was a man by the name of you shall and he went to visit his good friend and the Torah says I've got bad news for you and I've got worse news says first tell me the bad news so the bad news yishai says is you're gonna die says maybe maybe we should hold it here then right right well so now what's the worst news he says hi says you know with bad news like that I can't get that much worse lay it on he says you're gonna die by lamaza and you have no hey like physical said you sure you sent this to the right address you sure you got the right address over here you know I'm a good guy I'm the king of Israel you know in the times of history there was tremendous put a sword in every base mattress either learn Torah or I'm going to kill you by the way it's a very effective way if you're a rub and you want to get people to learn you put a sword yeah the next day no yeah they have to be tough it'll be tough it'll be tough no you know Ruby swirl cilantro says baby swirl cilantro says that any Rabbi that they don't want to kick out of town is not a rabbi and any Rabbi the kick out of town is not a man so you got to be a man can't be afraid so that's why that's what huskyo did he put a sword at the entrance of the basement anyone who doesn't come to share I'm gonna kill them with the sword if you look in hakatoma then it's if he says how is he allowed to do that he said it has not do that because uh if you if people aren't learning you don't win the war so if you don't win the war clout Israel is in sakonas he had to save the Jewish people anyway that's for a different time who said what did I do wrong so you shot you said what did you do wrong you didn't want to have children he said what do you want for my life I see Baruch I'm going to have bad kids and you Shia tells them the famous words what are you meddling in the Affairs of Heaven you do what you have to do and God will do what he wants to do I said okay big talkers let me marry your daughter and uh maybe between Maya's close and yours close we'll have a good children he said you know it's a good idea but here's the problem the problem is there's already and he said you're a nice man yes I have a tradition for my grandfather is I'm not worried even when the knife is against the neck never give up hope God could always save you say there's exera yapha what did his girl mean I have a tradition for my grandfather that I feel like who was the grandfather of his presumably he was a descendant on David presumably meant was I already know from my grandfather my grandfather many times was in very dire situations he's always running away and God saved him gamke let's forget some of us and I have that tradition I'm not worried but maybe we'll explain a little bit um deeper what did he has a tradition from aviaba we're now going to take a look at the the seminal words of Republica kind of of Lublin I left my notes at home I think he lived from 1823 to 1900 with sound like on one of the all-time great Brilliant Minds and uh if there's any theme that you could say was the most pronounced theme of Australia I would say this is it if there's any peace in the writings of ramzadiq which really capture the message I think this is it the coin writes in the division davar a Jew never gives up hope the definition of Aid is we never give up hope whether in the physical world whether a person is in danger we don't give Hub of Hope whether in the spiritual world even if a person is so solid in sins that desire says you can't do chuva you could do chuva there's no such thing as not doing chuva what did the revolution say to akar Hashem Hashem didn't mean it even could have done the famous whatever the host tells you to do you listen until he tells you to get lost who's the balabayas of this world God you listen to everything God tells you unless he says get lost you can't do chuva When God Says say don't listen to him he doesn't mean it whether personally a person thinks I'm so addicted to X Y and Z I can never extricate myself from it I'll use there is no such thing as Yosh why is that why is there no such thing as years for a Jew it's built into the DNA of a Jew that there's no such thing as giving up hope let's think about the origins of the Jewish people so let's go back to our forefathers you know let's paint the picture that we would imagine so there was a nice boy he came right out of Yeshiva he was the biggest matsuyan and he went to brisk then he went to Lakewood he's 23 years old he's the boy number one he married he gets engaged to some girl Sarah 19 years old and then nine months later right they had their first kid no but that's not what happened was already 99 years old aravino is not just an old man the murderer says that means he can't do it he's not able to sorrow emaino she's an akara right no she's worse than an akara the good morning Obama says sorry Manu Island she has no reckham so if they would have gone to their specialist and they would get their fertility rate the doctor would not have said you know it's improbable it's unlikely it's very remote the doctor would say it's downright impossible and yet we're all here today why did we Bunch on build cloudy Israel out of the impossible so that it's built into the fabric of the rdna that there's no such thing as iOS that there's no such thing as impossible that there's no such thing as Beyond hope that is the very creation of Kaliso clay Israel was built on overcoming the four-letter word the most poisonous word in Judaism and therefore you want to know when mashiach comes meshiach will come will show when you think it will never come that's when it's going to come the progenitor the beginning of our people when he hears that light is captured what's the man doing what's he thinking you know who Avro Vino is up against he's not up against the five Kings the five kings were nothing compared to the Four Kings the Four Kings wiped out the five Kings they were the most powerful Axis or Allies in the world is not going with 318 men he's going with one person what got into the man what is that called what is the situation called impossible what should avrahama done if it was me if it was you what would we have done call it a day throw in the towel the four-letter word yes there was such use that the Malik Sedum said you know what is you could take our possessions we were my eyes from it again we know we're never gonna get it back but avraham avinu knows that even though Yosh is a very daunting Challenge and it's the most difficult challenge in the world because when things seem Bleak and impossible human nature is throwing the towel there's only one way to overcome years because the Gematria of Yoshi's 317. Yoda's 10. aleph is one love is six Shin is 300 Yoshi's three six is three Seventeen how do you overcome Yosh when you realize that there's someone standing on your right side who could yank you out if a person recognizes that the ibanisham is with him then he overcomes Yosh what word symbolizes the available help of the boy Islam elieza where is the first time the name Eliezer is explained my chabano my shabano calls his first son Eliezer because he says key L A K A vibe isabino call his son elieza because when he stood in paro's Palace and paroi stretched out the sword and swung it at the neck of my shopping was there ever a moment in life that called for years that called for hopelessness that allowed a person to say you know what it's time to give in it's time to let up it's time to throw in the towel it would have been the moment that that sword was up against the neck but Moshe was saved he didn't fall into years because he recognized that when the rebunished home is standing at your right side everything and anything is possible Kiel AK Aviva ezri Eliezer is gamachia 318. Yoshi's 317 how do you overcome Yosh how do you overcome despondency sadness hopelessness with the force of emuna kele asri foreign yes should avraham avinu throne in the towel should he have been miyaish he had every right to be but he recognized the way to overcome hopelessness is the amuna in the help of the ivanish how often in life do we look up to the heavens and we throw our hands up we say sure how often in life do we throw up our hands and say may I in the world where is my help gonna come from where is it going to be may I in Yahweh you know where your hope is going to come from may I in It seems impossible nothing it seems absolutely impossible you know what the answer is it is impossible there is no hope but the answer is my help will come from Hashem who created heaven and earth how did Hashem create Heaven and Earth what did Hashem make Heaven and Earth out of what was the building block of Heaven and Earth yes so when you want to know don't worry it will come from the one who created the world he could help you when it's impossible he could help you when there's no hope when it's we all you need to do is be Maman that's how you overcome Yosh I he says Rabbi nachman I have one question for you why do you think that they're not giving me my soccer back the only reason they're allowed to keep it is because I know there are a bunch of mafioso so we have what we have over here you think is Yosh I gave up hope but even ye or she can't keep it you need Yosh and now it's in your shoes you know who I am I come from avraham avinu Avril Lavino at 318 slaves meaning Eliezer my DNA is l a k rvsv my DNA is I never give up hope my DNA is there's no such thing as use if there's no years you're a gun of give me my Suka back I come from abramovino my DNA is l a k r v s three my DNA is 318 slaves my DNA is ezrius there's no years you're sitting in a stolen Circle give me my Suka back says there's no use how do you extend that sort of not look that's what she said the counter to the Shearer is what that's I'm not bringing my room now says she's a fetch right and we're not we're not buying it but at least what was her argument her argument was you know DNA it's not in our DNA comes up and says what's this got to do with the atheism here you have the guy he's Taco after many years of being distant from Hashem he's afraid to come close he does feel sullied he does feel dirty he does feel unworthy says reban Hashem what is the most central idea in Judaism the most oft repeated idea there is no question the idea is you put on the time you put on filling time you say Chris all right enough already I won't forget I know Ashton took me out of my time I mean how many times a day do I really need to remember and not only that to add you know every door I go out of I have to have this piece of this instructions and the door post to remind me okay I won't forget I know the most important idea in Judaism is remember Hashem why is it so important it happened 3 300 years ago why is this so crucial because every moment of our life the isahara is screaming at us you can't do it you won't be a time you won't be a big guy even Hashem you won't accomplish in life you're dirty you're sullied you're disgusting so we tell the Yates wait a second really let's think about kalisoma Triumph they're on the 50th command they're on the brink of the 50th level of Tama have they remained there a moment longer they would have fallen to the point of no return they were if they have a Zara they were arrow in the area they were naked and bare they were on the lowest level of any time in history of Kalisa and even so Luigi yanked them out and in a very short amount of time he elevated them to the level where they were pointing the next day seven days later zachiel what what do they say I'm not afraid of you that's the most important theme in Judaism it doesn't matter what you've done doesn't matter where you are you could yank yourself up immediately how but what about yours nah yes is only 317. Elias there's 318 with the help of Hashem you could always overcome Yosh pretty much what wasn't the generation of the Holocaust Survivors the biggest they had the biggest challenge yeah yeah that's that's a beautiful example my grandfather was interviewed after after the war they said Rabbi you saw the greatest Devastation to your people you saw the murder of your brothers and sisters did you had ever any point lose faith so my grandfather said did I lose faith of course I lost faith I lost faith in man how could a civilization like Germany you know one night they're in the concert halls and the next night they're gassing millions of people I lost faith how could the United States of America put their head in the sand they knew exactly what was happening there's evidence that uh Roosevelt bombed around the death camps and he didn't want to bomb the death camps so I lose faith I lost faith in man but never for a moment did I lose faith in my God a Jew never loses faith foreign who is the ultimate example who is the ultimate illustration of being able to overcome the impossible avraham avinu fighting the war against the Four Kings so let's talk about the personal history of Eliezer do you remember when avraham proposes to Eleazar do me a favor go find the foreign take into account over here in the scene what's wrong with her samosina says nothing wrong with her just you're you're an error you're just who said racism yeah exactly right you're an auror and I'm a borrow and we don't mix meaning I'm blessed you're right into the core you're disgusting you're cursed and you know good people and bad people we're not mashada you know it's important in people be transparent you're not interested in a up don't say not right now no you say you're horror and I'm Baruch and that's it who doesn't go that was a joke yeah you know um so basically amravino is being outright and he's saying you know it's not gonna go however because I'll say that when elieza returned Faithfully now if if we were elieza imagine you're sitting by a rebbe elieza was domestic elieza who is man you sing by your rebbe and you think you're like the revi's prize student and and and you say until the nearby maybe we I could get into the family the Ravi says you're a nice guy but your mom is an ice farm so we can't marry him too so how would you feel how would the person feel so I I don't know you know the classic thing in this um you have a guy he's 50 years old 40 years old at least 35 I know why don't you dab and you come to show you sit there you don't say a word because when I was in third grade my Webbie looked at me gave me a look and everything he says I haven't learned the words since so basically people walk around right with the chip on their shoulder because of the third grade Remy so you say you know get over it it's not so easy people can't get over it why people have a hard time getting over past experiences so imagine if you were Elias and avramovino told you you're an auror I don't know I you know he'll drop out of Yeshiva and that's it you know call it a day no Eliezer persevered and liaison was a loyal to abramovino and when he came back avram avinu said blessed of God says [Music] what do you mean you got someone I mean if you're an aurora or you're an aura it's not like you could change it I mean Eliezer you would have thought Eliezer should have turned to avrum and say what do you mean I'm an armor I'm your talmud so the answer is like somebody's saying if to a Nissan or somebody of ill uh illegitimate lineage I'm sorry you're a good guy the problem is you have bad lineage but elieza was able to overcome being an armor how is it possible to overcome being an auror it's not something you could extricate from it is you could extricate from anything there's a solution for everything he was an error but he if more than anybody else recognized there's no such thing as iOS yesh is 317 LK Avi be ezri he removed himself from our he can now marry into the family more than that says Arizona Eliezer elevated himself so greatly that you know who the gilgola of Eliezer was I love you you'll never guess unless you cheat yeah how's that possible half of a fella one of the sadike how's that here the man is dealing with eliezers and other I don't know Venus says he can't marry into the family and he turned it around because he realized there's nothing that's hopeless there's nothing that's impossible there's nothing that cannot be overcome Marvel said what's avraham avino doing rescuing light I mean the guy he's he's obviously not a great guy he put himself in tremendous Danger right Lloyd says you know avram even though you're a big Sadiq and you have a very pleasant and holy household I would prefer to live in sedome where they sodomize innocent visitors That's my kind of that's my cup of tea okay so adios Amigo have a good day I'm trying to be much be on you but if you choose you want to go move to San Francisco you know what do you want from my life now I have to go now I have to go good audience there yeah so so what do you want from my life I don't know Vino is trying his best so if Lloyd risks his life the light wants to go live in Sudan now avrah mavina wants to go save uh light so the Zara color says it wasn't light it was who would come out of light that ivanovino recognized that coming from light is none other than the nashama of and aravino basically risks his life to save uh mashiach that's what desire says in fact the murderer says the same thing it says referred to Russ and Nama that avraham avinu went to rescue Lloyd from sudim that's why the Posse says my servant where did Hashem find David says it comes out very beautiful who's nashama was so to speak law time in danger in Jordan in a situation where it's almost hopeless he'll ever get out who's nashama so to speak was in the most desperate situation of all time David poor David's in light light is captured by the Four Kings there's no way out but David amalek realizes some of us did The Impossible he overcome 317 he overcame iyosh with l a k o v b ezri and he goes to rescue light so therefore who knew firsthand that no matter how desperate the situation is with the help of Hashem you could get out of it David knew it from being under the domain of the Four Kings doesn't knew it from being in sedim and therefore when you Shaya hanavi comes to hiskio and he says you're a dead man and you're not gonna live because skill said you know who you're dealing with Avi Abba I have a tradition from David tradition from David where do we find that David ever gave over a tradition that even when things are desperate we learn some could yank you out the answer is because David was hidden in Saddam David was in light David was captured by the Four Kings and it was an impossible situation God turned to me and saved me what are the Rashi Tavis says 3 18. David says I know this is impossible but I'm not worried because yeah she's only 3 8 17. but 318 God you're gonna yank me out that's the attitude of the aid what's the attitude of a guy that is there's no water left she says forget it she threw him we're going to go under 318. under 3 18 is what yes got him Fallen years never gives up hope this is the building block this is the fabric of our creation that we never give up hope there's a famous word from it's also over here from the safer uh Cheval sadik he quotes it's well known that when he was a young boy he was a shovav you know what is right here and to the point where he was uh they threw him out of Yeshiva Yosef is that he has no shot and he had a beg and his parents had a bag and they got him back in and to the point he became one of the Daily Star he reviewed everything he learned 40 to 60 times writes that people think that the reason why that they're not being successful a person thinks oh I'm not being success successful ah forget it let me give up hope they think they're not successful and therefore they give up hope it's just the opposite it's because they give up hope that's why they're not successful he says the main cause of Yosh is atlas is laziness a person would rather say a person's lazy so princess himself ah it's too hard anyway let me just throw in the towel it's so convenient that they're on the town because once you throw in the towel then you're excused it's impossible I'm addicted that's also I'm addicted I can't stop it that's the easy way to cop out get throwing in the towel as a compound if a person would recognize it's stemming it's sourced and laziness a person doesn't want to put in the hard work if a person puts in the work they could get anywhere let's end with the following that you know a person thinks ah it's been so many years I did so many things wrong my nesham is so solid so dirtied says every day a person gets a new nashama whatever's on your nashama from yesterday past performance there's no bearing on future outcome every moment is a new opportunity is a new start it doesn't matter what a person did in the past it doesn't matter how low a person fell but every moment a person could yank themselves up could fight the war of the Four Kings could come out of mithrayim that's why it's such a fundamental idea and yeah we can never forget it there is nothing there was no situation in history as Bleak as matryam and kehrefain took us out I ran on a flies that everyone should be Zucker to have the yeshua's that they're looking for benefits this is the limit of elieza ezri the limit of overcoming the limit of the woman who said I am a descendant of my father had 318 slavesai have a great thing you've just experienced another Torah class brought to you by torahanytime.com