Parashat Vayikra: Pgam Habrit (Wasting Seed) THE TRUE STORY

we have a couple of uh left in B before we go to our long and uh journey in uh KES try to do a bunch of shim over there we actually had an amazing sh I haven't posted it yet on Sunday I think it was like 5 hours four and a half hours yeah this uh amazing group in Texas see they're not like you guys they don't fall asleep after half hour five uh yeah yeah it's a group of amazing family in Texas several families but they're all related and uh talking about conversion and uh questions and answers so we're going to help all of them convert it's probably maybe 10 15 of them so uh you're seeing you're seeing a lot of amazing things today and there was also somebody here at the shield um that was here and then there was a bunch of them over there online there was we're doing it on Skype so that was uh was a fun Sher a lot of good questions B I'll try to post it uh later uh this week but it's uh amazing and one of the things that I started this year which is also good to show now is uh you know we always talk about sources and the most common source that we use for all Torah is aside from the written Torah to explain even the written Torah is the the oral Torah this is the key you know the several parts of the oral Torah but the is the key part someone that learns Tor without learning is not really going to understand the full picture so why do we rely on this so much because you see that everything in it could not have been given to people just by their pure uh mind you know brilliant it could be Einstein it could be a million Einstein they couldn't come up with this stuff because you have prophecy sees you have scientific knowledge in here you have a lot of different amazing things and one of the things that we see now since things have become a lot more popular over the last couple of months the uh the phone doesn't stop ringing the uh Messengers don't stop by the time you we finish the lecture there probably be another few hundred new ones and there's both Jewish people that are doing chuva Jewish people that are really religious or complete non-jews that want to uh convert to Judaism but everybody is waking up the whole world realizes that something is going on something's going on not everybody knows what's really going on but something's going on for sure whether it's because they're paying attention to the news and they realize that there's a war that's already happening but it's being kept quiet or there's different natural events that are happening that whether it's a uh big uh planet on the way to hitting uh Earth in the next few months or it's a uh global warming or it's uh new discoveries it's just constant stuff everyone knows that Something's Cooking no one is just saying they no everything's normal I remember 20 years ago it was the same thing no nobody nobody says that everyone knows something's happening so one of the main things that I'm seeing personally from being involved in kiru and being involved in in tah is that the prophecy that's written in the is coming true in front of my eyes what does the prophecy say others teach that the statement of is one of the greatest sages that ever lived and this is what he's saying he's saying the teaching that he learned from rabi RI in the future to come meaning the times of the mashia the end of days the idolators will come and convert in the end of days he's what he's he's what he's telling us here is in the end of days is going to be an extraordinary amount of people that leave a which the most popular one today is Christianity and Catholicism and they're going to convert but will we accept converts among the Nations at that time because that has been taught another teaching that we will not accept converts in the Messianic era for Israel will then be ascended and would be converts would be assumed to be acting out of ulterior motives similarly they did not accept converts neither during the time of King David nor during the time of King Solomon for during these periods Israel was ascended so what is it saying here are we going to accept converts in the Messianic era kazal says no once the Messiah shows up that's it game's over no more converts also no more Chua someone that's starting to do Chua better pick it up someone that's thinking about Chua this is the time once mhia shows up whether it's tomorrow or it's in a couple years from now whenever it is mhia shows up that's it it's the same thing as if somebody died and that's why people always tell me oh when do you think the mashiah is going to come do you think it's going to be next year do you think it's going to be next week going to be 10 years from now no one knows and you really shouldn't even guess with time because if you put too much effort on specifying a time and people like build their whole CH just on that time it's supposed to come on you know a certain date in K or in por or in PES or this year or that year CU specifically told us not to do this it's not allowed why because if somebody builds everything on it and it doesn't happen it can crush the person person says Ah M's not coming he's never going to come person could be pretty much get off the de stop keeping everything because will'll think ah you know what they already waited for 2,000 years they lied to me they got me for a year it's probably going to be another 2,000 years so first and foremost we know we don't have 2,000 years just based on some other teachings we talked about before which is that the kazal explains that the Messiah has to come before Shabbat what does it mean before Shabbat obviously it's not Hashem is not referring to the other six days of of the week what he's referring to here is that we learned from taing we learned from Psalms that each day for hasem each day for us is like a thousand it's I'm sorry each day for Hashem is like a thousand years for hem even though he has no he has no uh connection to time but it says in you know that a thousand years for us is like one day in hashem's uh eyes so when kazal is telling us that mashia has to come when kazal tells us that mashia has to come be uh before Shabbat they're referring to the years that were around since the world began and right now we are at 5776 now 5,000 each th is one day so that means we've completed 5 days we've completed Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday so 77 26 is already into Friday it's 34 into Friday what's 3/4 into 24 hours it's 18 18 is what it's about 6:00 M but 34 is exactly is 7:50 so that 26 is somewhere in a neighborhood of about a half hour I calculated it once it's somewhere around 615 620 p.m. on Friday now we know right now this week Shabbat comes in around 7 :00 most of the year it comes around 6:30 6 7 doesn't come in at 10:00 at night never and kazal says mashia has to come before Shabbat so even if it's the latest Shabbat of the Year let's say comes in at 8 still not that's still not the deadline because asked to be before Shabbat so every hour is about 41 years based on my calculations based on the average Shabbat time in my opinion we don't have any more than 20 years in reality based on the uh the biggest sages in the world today uh whether um any of the they all believe it's happening right now whether it's the next week or it's the next month or it's the next couple of years but it's happening now so when we look at things right now we realize that everything is happening and people are waking up and more and more prophecies are coming true and to find five different families even though they're all connected doesn't necessarily mean they all think alike these are all grown-ups ranging anywhere from you know in their 30s to you know much much later all of them come up to the same conclusion that we have to leave idol worship and we're all going to convert talking about 15 people and this is just one example this is just one we did a sh for on Friday on uh Sunday for a few hours there's many many other ones there's one in Norway there's one in Bulgaria there's all over the United States there's one actually in Florida that is uh hopefully going to going to be finishing within the next month or two um so huge amount of converts lot of B and we're seeing the prophecy being unfolded in front of our eyes so the one thing that all people need to understand is that doing true chuva it's not one step it takes time and everyone is constantly talking about when is this mashah going to come when it's going to come when it's going to come but they don't realize that it doesn't matter when the Messiah is going to come whether he comes a year from now a month from now or 10 years from now everyone has their own personal mashiah at any given point anyway which is called death everyone assumes they're going to live till they're 120 years old but in reality we see it from our experience it doesn't happen that way all the time a lot of the guys that I went to high school with a bunch of people that I know died in their 20s early 30s sad but it's true so when a person dies real life begins but at that point he has to pay the bill at that point he's 25 he's 35 he's 55 he's 80 whatever he is at that point that's his mashia he showed up if he did what he was supposed to to do there's nothing to worry about he's in G if he didn't nothing in the world going to help him God was a violator of Shabbat all the kadish in the world not going to help him you could do kadish on him 18 times a day doesn't make a difference so depends on what sins he was doing if the small sins big sins so one second the uh mashiah coming that's giving us all a reality that we don't have to die it could happen literally next week he shows up we have to pay the bill we have to pretty much we're the way we are is the way we're going to stay we were we kept Shabbat we kept we had good midot we kept kosher we did all the right things is a blessing for us it doesn't matter whether you're located in America or you're located in Israel someone that's righteous has nothing to worry about and Hashem knows who's righteous the mashia is going to know who's righteous and you know whether you're righteous or not why because we learn in what it means to be righteous so that's mashia the other mashia the other aspect of mashia is again life or the end of it in this world so everyone needs to realize all of this why because again to do Chua takes time you don't just one day wake up I'm going to do CH I'm going to keep all the you don't even know all the and even if you do somehow someone inserts a disc into your head and you know the you can't just TR your body to go from you know T from impurity and all of a sudden you want to keep Shabbat and learn to 10 hours a day and you're this big overnight just doesn't happen that way takes time so the point I'm trying to make is we better better get started what's the question somebody uh that lost the immediate person could be a brother a father mother required to say Kadesh okay not necessarily that the same person will keep Shabbat so is kadish doesn't count if the if a person that doesn't keep Shabbat says kadish it doesn't mean anything if he doesn't if but he required to say Kadesh no no if a person is not keeping Shabbat in this world okay and someone died let's say yeah okay someone died in his family okay and uh he says kadish on him doesn't mean anything actually if anything it makes this the person that died situation worse why because let's say for example his father died and he says kadish for his father but he doesn't keep Shabbat right every time that he says kadish in sh especially during that year that people say kadish you know during that time in sham they say look what you left look what teaching you left in the world where your son is a violator of Shabbat violator of the biggest biggest sin in all of the Torah look what you left look what he's doing he thinks that his prayer counts because this is what you taught him he doesn't realize that his whole life is a lie so sit situation is worse so what do they do what do people like that do they pay someone they they they don't have to pay them sometimes people do it for free sometimes you pay them whatever if it costs money then you pay you give it to somebody that is keeping Shabbat to say kadish or better yet keep Shabbat yeah that's course if they don't want to keep Shabbat then they have to find somebody that's keeping Shabbat because the prayer from someone that's not keeping Shabbat according to our sages according to our Tora whether it's the written tah or the oral Torah or at least 700 sources that I can give you is considered toat AEM disgusting to Hashem so the kadish is not helping the situation it's terrible to hear it when you don't keep Shabbat but right now we're dealing with we have an atomic bomb floating in the world and at any given moment some is going to press go so so if we're not going to wake up people and tell them listen either keep Shabbat or your world is going to be pretty much a disaster forever when are when are they going to keep Shabbat they're not going to keep Shabbat now when after msia comes they can't keep Shabbat anymore they can't keep Shabbat anymore if we don't tell people the real situation we actually take part of their sin and that's actually the reason we learned when there was the the sin of the golden CF only a few thousand converts sinned the Egyptians the they sinned they build the idol or put it together put the gold the rest of am didn't do it but Hashem wanted to destroy the entire nation but then mhe pleaded no if you're going to destroy them destroy me first I don't want to wipe me out of your book cuz hasem told listen I'll destroy them and I'll start a new better Nation for you said no no no take me out of the book kill me first meaning so then okay forgave them but he punished people died in that generation but also kazal explains to us that every disaster that happens to is from that point until the end of times part of the reason is the part of the reason is the idol worship we had 3,300 years ago why why are all of us being punished why were so many punished more than in in Mount sa because they sat there quietly and they didn't say anything no no no we're not doing idol worship we're not shabat we're not eating pork on yum or any day of the year we're not doing anything so what no my friend is one you are responsible for your your your brothers you have no right sitting there quietly if you know somebody you know them you have any type of relationship with them if obviously the person you have no idea who he is it's a little more difficult to go there and tell him listen technically you're still responsible for it says so there's a way to do it and you have to you have to do it in a uh in a good way but and if you don't know how to do it then you call you call your will do it your is happy to do it all the time is excited true not not everybody knows not everybody knows let me ask question related to what he was saying before okay so I know somebody that's saying kadish for his father yeah keeps Shabbat he keeps Shabbat keeps Shabbat but well it's half of the story keeps Shabbat um but he's lives in Israel and he's a he's a he's a police officer in Israel uhh so he has to work Shabbat yes Shabbat not so he doesn't keep when he doesn't when he doesn't work he keeps Shabbat says Kadesh when he works he works how does that so all of his kadish doesn't count all of his kadish will have a problem being counted because he's used to making the he's he's violating Shabbat knowingly on a regular basis even though it's two shabbats out of he's not he's not considered like a doish or something like that for cop cop is not not pish not not that I know he's not saving any lives he's giving traffic tickets that's not saving lives so if he um if it affects his even if it affects his panas has to go against that who gives a okay so so he has to so he has to do that he has to really fight not to work on Shabbat fight quit especially in Israel I don't understand quit if he has to I don't understand it's not even a question somebody believes in hem somebody believes in hem so here's here let me give you guys an idea has a lot of amazing things it's an extraordinary it's quoting Ezekiel ezek verse 218 quing a verse I will cutm is saying I will cut off righteous and wicked from among you asks are you saying that a person who's utterly righteous is not punished together with the wicked or you saying that it is what's going not over here then the mid summarized it for you and the rest of the it says that originally Hashem wasn't planning wasn't planning on punishing the uh W the righteous he was only going to punish the wicked but then he decided that he's going to punish the righteous first not only punish them punish them first Lama these people observe the Torah it says these are the people these righteous people it's not regular righteous people says these people observe the Tor from yet even they were punished together with the wicked how could it be why says there too since it was within their hands to protest it was within their hands to protest the behavior of the Sinners but they did not protest they are regarded as the person who are not utterly righteous they're not considered righteous anymore Shabbat says they come back they come back the same come back to the same verse what do you mean okay why you said you said that if you know that somebody you tell somebody listen don't don't violate Shabbat and you know for sure he's not going to do it he's he's gonna he's gonna continue violating Shabbat he's not going to listen to you you said you're better off not telling him this is the argument by the way that's very common today amongst rabbis and religious people where they say listen I know this guy even if I tell him he's still not going to listen so Torah says have to tell him no even if I tell him he's not going to listen so better off not telling him no the obligation is still to tell him this is the argument they say if you know somebody T actually says the Tor says if you know that somebody's not going to listen to you you're better off not telling them okay so this is the argument that sages used they said we knew you know you say all those people were sinners and Hashem knows that those people even if you would have told that the generation that we're talking about here was so bad that even if you would have told them they wouldn't have listened so why you still punishing the righteous so hasem says comes he says knew that even if they would have told him they wouldn't have done chuim didn't know so for them they were still obligated my friend you don't know if he's going to listen or not no one knows if he's going to listen or not he could be the biggest atheist in the world you tell him the truth it's not your business what the future holds you're obligated to tell him my friend you're obligated to tell him why because if people in thear people that were able to revive the dead revive the dead they're being considered if if they made the sin they considered not sikim not only that it says in a different in different says the one that lets another person sin and doesn't uh rebuke him doesn't say anything to him it's like he s himself you know somebody violate Shabbat you didn't say anything you keep saying come comes to your house drives to your house every week you know he's eat K and everything you don't tell him anything never tell him anything you keep inviting him it's like you're violating Shabbat who wants to do this who wants this on our head you're obligated my friends you're obl at so the key is that if we're seeing the people today so many people are doing but so much so that we're not even just talking about Jewish people we're talking about leaving idol worship these people that I'm talking to you about they're not just saying oh listen let me just take a test and I'll become Jewish you don't even understand what these people are doing they're leaving everything they're leaving their jobs they're leaving their houses they're leaving their friends they leaving their family they're leaving everything they're moving to a different place why cuz they need to go to the Jewish community and they don't have much money but it's not even a consideration why we found the truth we're going after the truth that's aik friends that's aik you find the truth you go after the truth 100% doesn't matter how much it costs why because the truth says hem pays the bills if Hashem is AEM that's the Torah he's AEM all the time it's not sometimes we're not worry about if the uh police department is going to pay our bills or not hm's paying the bills we're not worried about if they're going to like me in the Jewish Community or not hasem wants me there we're not worried about if I'm going to adapt really quickly or not I have to do it I person so that's the key we have to we have to do it now in this par there's a lot of things to talk about out but we have to connect it to our life this if you heard any of the sh that are the short clips that I send on WhatsApp I try to do it every day but uh I think this week we've done it so far three times um the entire is about this is the first in Leviticus in English and the par itself is called the entire par in general is discussing different laws of sacrifices of offerings to hasem but what can we learn from this par because the last time I checked we have no big mdash unfortunately we're still waiting for the third one to be built very soon so until the bet mikdash is being built until it's built we cannot do corot so what can we learn about from a par that only talks about so let's see he meaning asem called to Moses and Hashem spoke to him from a tent of meaning saying speak to the children of Israel and say to them when a man among you brings an offering to AEM from animals from the cattle or from the flock shall you bring your offering if one's offering is an elevation offering from the cattle he shall offer an unblemished nail and then it continues okay so we see right away hasem calls mosenu he tells him the different starts tell him the different general rules of sacrifices you ready Nan you ready do me a favor open those things over there cuz it makes a lot of noise and people complain on the uh camera open over there open over there pour it enjoy but focus on a shield next time before the CL start that'll be nice too okay so we already noticed there's a big lesson to learn from the first word L if you notice in this weekend you go or you open your most have it you notice that is spelled right it says hasem cold cold but the AL is extra small it's unusually small it's killing me you guys help me work on my midot so he says go ahead do it do it just open it open it Pour it and uh take a bowl from there just I didn't know where to get it so just pour a bowl over there top top left top left next to the micro top left take a bowl grab whatever you want pour it into a bowl eat enjoy and let's go on with the uh with the shield please of please no we have to wait I can't no you can make as much noise as you want I'm not going to talk until you finish I know I know I know okay Finish enjoy guys hopefully the food helps you stay up and pay attention because there's a lot of spicy things in today will help us deliver the words in a way that helps us do Chu amen amen okay so has an extra small word extra small alif why an extra small Al the Bim says that there was later on in the Tora we're going to meet another prophet and his name is Bam generally when bam is mentioned by kazal or by the uh in the Isam the wicked bam was the prophet of the he the prophet of theim and he actually had a power that no one else in the world has he knew the moment thega that hasem was angry now if you remember we learned in the past the says what's they say it's as long as it takes you to sayga like how long is a moment that hasem is angry they say how long is AA of 115th 115 the second so how long so at least he at least he remembers with all the food all the bagani remembers the sh from last year so it says in a couple and uh it says that how long how long is aa aa is 115th of a second there 115th of a second that Hashem is angry and that's usually when he gives the punishment bam knew that time which means that if he would have cursed anyone at that time it would have come true this is not something that anyone else in the world knew even M so later one when we meet inph we meet When hasem Calls him to speak to him it says from the same word here it says toam it says there's no Al there's no last letter why the B says here that when hasem called mosenu he called Him Softly show him love he wants to see him he spoke with a nice voice spoke them nicely even though it was very loud but only M was able to hear it the was not righteous enough to hear aem's voice but when he spoke to Bam not nice he wasn't exactly happy to talk to him but he still had to create bam why so theim could never say listen of course am was righteous of of course obious was full of cuz you gave theu who do we have Joey from the shop right who do we have Steve from Walmart who do we have ah no no no I gave you bam and not only that I gave you bam bam had a power that even didn't have so you don't have any excuses that's why you created him this is one of the reasons why the AL is there but it still doesn't explain why the AL is small mhm mosenu the prophet of all Prophets The most significant human being that ever lived the one that was the Messiah of his day and even the Messiah that's coming soon is not going to be as big as mosu he himself is also known as the most humble human being that ever lived so on one end you have the greatest human being that ever lived spoke to Hashem face to face meaning like we're talking right now not that he saw anything but he spoke them freely whenever he want he didn't have to make an appointment speak to Hashem that's it he's available at all times Hashem is everywhere m is available all the time hashem's available all time they speak all the time that person the greatest person was the humblest much much more humble than we could ever be and he himself didn't think it was fair he said he didn't see himself greater than bam even though bam was a rash he says he's a prophet and I'm a prophet so why should I have an extra letter when you say in the Tora you say he should have V but if you don't want to give him the AL then take off the AL for me also says no no no my son you're special you're different you're sadik you have the AL says please AEM so he made him he allowed him to make a small Al he's not comparing himself listen M to or to r or to he doesn't even see himself even as great as a wicked prophet when we show up over there and they ask us what about your modesty what about your uh humility did you have any humility did you learn anything from mosu all day were're complaining about who cut us off like who are we nobody supposed to cut us off oh he hung up the phone on me okay who are you so what's the big deal you hung up the phone what what's what's the big deal he hung up the phone on you what your uh mashia that no one's allowed to hang up the phone on you maybe you're wrong maybe you upset him maybe you did something wrong if mosu doesn't even see himself in the same level as vam we are never allowed to be upset because someone disrespected us because in reality we have to view ourselves as a very simple human being not uh have to be humble right so already we learned all of this just from the first word but then the story goes where over the last month and a half we've learned about the mishkan the building of the mishkan the measurements all the details month and a half we're learning about it finally mosenu completes it mosenu is the one responsible for all of it he completes it he's the one that raises it he did the whole thing finally they finished at the end of last week's par mhm this week's Paras is the continuation exact continuation there's no time passing they just finished and now it's the ceremony it's about to be opened Moshe is outside with everybody else he built it but he's waiting outside for everyone else it's like somebody built the World Trade Center but he would never went inside he just outside with everybody else waiting for somebody to cut the uh the bend but you built it go check it out see what have you know yours why thear says something very very on the head about this it says as great as mosenu was if he would have went inside the mishkan without hasem calling him he would have been considered worse than a dead animal worse than it says the says that even if he has likeu that has bad midot a dead animal is better than him a dead cow it's better than him one of these raccoons on the street you somebody ran over and leaves it there for three days doesn't call the uh you know somebody to pick it up that thing better than that that has bad mid why why better because the the carcass that animal at least people can smell the terrible smell and they know to stay away the guy that knows Tor but has bad midot no one knows he has bad midot so they go and they learn his Tor but it's not real T it's to it's disgusting to hasem is T it's worth nothing is T when he has bad you're not even allowed to learn from him he looks so what does he do he tells you verses from he tells you verse from the T but at the same time he's teaching you bad midot cuz you're seeing how he acts so you're thinking oh on one hand he remembers these verse by heart that verse by heart he remembers this he's a computer remembers everything by heart but he yells at people and he steals and he does this and he does all of these things he's a walking unfortunately I had somebody call me just the other day conversation started right off off the bat with anger I say hello right off the bat person's upset I didn't do anything just we haven't talked in a long time he calls me he's already upset listening to his story he telling me this this this this this this this so what why do you sound so upset ah this guy screwed me okay I happens in business what happened he tells me a story of what happened but what how's the story of this guy SC with me start ah this religious guy this guy with a keeper made me buy merchandise and he didn't pay for it he's not a religious guy he's just a guy with a keep I actually just sent the uh you know we sent the books all those boxes you see in the front books and CDs we sent to a lot of people I actually sent a guy that's interested in converting he lives in Washington Washington State and he's not Jewish but he's in the process he's going to convert he asked me for a keeper so I send him a keepa I sent it today package went out today so if he wears a keep as I make a sadik no does not make him a sadik at all just makes him somebody wears a keep but unfortunately the secular world the people are not religious or even people that are somewhat religious but don't actually study to anyone with a keeper looks religious so let me tell you something if you all have if you have bad midot if you're not prepared to be a benadam you're not prepared to be a normal human being with good characteristics don't steal don't knock people in public don't do bad things that is not acceptable do me a favor do yourself a favor don't wear a keeper because you're a walking cuz the non-religious people look at you as you're the representative of of hem you're the representative of of of the Torah so you have a keep on you're a thief it makes the religious makes the religion look bad bad yeah and that my friends making is one of the three worst sins you could possibly have number two being Shabbat number three we're going to get to today so what else can we learn from these first couple of verses hasem is telling us that when a man when a man brings an offering to hem but should say is not Adam everywhere else in the Torah it says is men but here it says Adam I heard this from RAB again and he says here we learned something very interesting this is also from from but he's the original source that I heard it from if you notice the beginning of the verse it says when a man among you brings the offering to Hashem but the end of the verse when it says you will bring your offering again it mentions bring your offering it brings it it makes it mention twice bring an offering to Hashem bring an offering period so it makes it says sacrifice twice twice why says the whole purpose ofan the translation of offering or sacrifice is not really good why because offering seems like we're giving something to AEM sacrifice means like we're you know we're doing AEM a favor same thing as offering Corban doesn't mean thatan comes from the word close we get closer to Hashem we're benefiting he doesn't need our dead animals the sh and is his everything is his he doesn't need our dead animals what we're doing here is we're doing chuva we made a sin we made a sin and we're trying to get back to Hashem we care about the relationship we have with hhm we messed up by accident accident shog we turned on the light on Shabbat not if it's on purpose death penalty you made an accidental sin accidentally overcharge somebody accidentally L uh you know light on Shabbat accidentally did something we know that even accidental is a sin so we want to get back to hasem we want to get back to that relationship we have with him that's what theban isban means means close we want to get close I'm in we want to get close to Hashem so offering seems like we're giving Hashem something we're not giving him anything we're getting we're getting the relationship back we're getting the sin wiped out we're getting our our account cleaned up but he says something here he says so why does it say Adam why does it say and why does it only say Coan once why doesn't say it at the end again is because if you're going to get to a point of wanting to develop this relationship with hasem first you have to be a benadam first you have to be a good person with good ethics good character traits once you have good character traits then come to but as long as you're stealing and you're in a business that's illegal and you're constantly doing things that are you have a nightclub in the middle of Miami or something like that as long as you're doing that your chuva is not complete so yes it's good to start of course everybody has to start somewhere but don't think that just because you kept one Mitzvah but the rest of the day you're sinning your CH is complete even if that Mitzvah is as great as Shabbat Shabbat by itself is a great Mitzvah but if the rest of the day you're stealing from people the rest of the day you're wasting seed the rest of the day you're stealing the rest of the day it's we have a problem my friend so he says first then bring the Coran to and the reason why he doesn't sayban at the end is because if you're if you are Adam if you're a good person then the Coran theb is to but if you're not then the end of the verse doesn't have Corban again why because the Corban remains yours theban is just a dead animal you just killed means nothing you just killed an animal but that's it means absolutely nothing so now you're a killer now you just now you just killed an animal for no reason so when you're doing the sacrifice when you're doing the offering when you're doing thean Hashem is telling you I don't it's it constantly says it's pleas the smell is pleasing to Hashem what Hashem really smells Hashem really needs you to help him smell something actually one of theot that we're going to read about in this par is dov's Turtle dubs and uh uh Turtle dubs and it specifically says that when they use them as a Corban they throw the entire thing not like the uh uh the Bulls where they cut certain pieces and put it as a Corban when it's the birds they put the entire thing in the fire and there's nothing that smells worse than burnt feathers burnt hair mhm but it still says Hashem it's pleasing to Hashem why because first of all by doing theban it shows the you want to get close to hasem it shows that you want to do CH second of all the ones that are doing the birds usually don't have much money they can't afford the bull and if you took out all the feathers only a small little bird will be left and they'll be offended they're like oh what do we really we don't have much to give AEM now you took off half the bird cuz half the bird is feathers says no their koban I want I want the whole thing so much so to to see the midot of hasem cuz what we're supposed to do is learn how to be by being like AEM in chapter two it says it says when when a person offers a meal offering to AEM his offering shall be fine flower he shall pull uh pour oil on upon it and place frankincense upon it so this is the cheapest as far as dollar value of all the konut this is pretty much flour oil and frankincense frankincense frankincense is a uh like uh the sap of a tree from a tree so a uh so it was a uh was a bunch of things Franken is like the uh what's it something that comes off of a tree it's like a uh what do they describe it that uh it's the hardened sap of a tree in the form of granules that were small which were easy to manipulate I guess it's say uh to be honest with I don't know exactly how it looks like but okay it's something that goes it's one of the three ingredients you have the wheat flour the oil and this frankincense and sometimes they they put a little water in it this is obviously not as expensive as a dove it's definitely not as expensive as The Bull right not today not back then but hasem says this specific one this is the offering he says the remnant whatever is left of this meal offering is for Aaron and his sons Most Holy from the offering of hasem he calls this Coan the cheapest one it's the most holy why because it comes from the poorest people they can't afford even a dove but they still love AEM that even the little bit that they have they want to use just to get closer to hasm and hasem says for that it's the most valuable to me you don't need to be rich to be connected to hasem as a matter of fact it even helps if you're not so Shem is telling us here that theban the whole concept of aan is pleasing to him why is it pleasing to him because it's showing us it's showing him that we want to get close to him that's the real pleasing part okay this is all very nice but we don't have so how can we do the same thing that's what they're doing how can we get closer to Hashem if you notice in your Sido every morning you do uh sh before you get to eventually the uh several things that you read other than says master of the universe you commanded us to offer the continual offering on time so that's the paragraph the end of the of the paragraph it talks about theot but the end of it it says and you said may we wait may may we make up for the Bulls through our lip this comes from seph is one of the prophets one of the later prophets it's 14:3 it says take words with you and return to Hashem say to him may you forgive all iniquity forgive our sins and accept good intentions and let our lips substitute for Bulls MOS is telling us something a prophecy here and a promise from Hashem it's very very important for us to know it's very very important for the people that are still stuck in idol worship and Christianity and nonsense to also also to know because there's a very big confusion today about what the truth is a lot of people say listen you don't have bet mikdash so everyone's a sinner anyway what's the point no my friends hem is telling us in our that we read every day and he told us from that we already have for 3,000 years at the time that we don't have bet mikdash we're not allowed to do we're not allowed to do sacrifices that's the way our replaces the theot so this is very important to know why because just like we learned about the corbane we learned if the Corban was genuine a genuine Chua a real Chua hasem accepted it says theban is forem if it's not genuine if you're just because you have a few dollars that hasem gave you anyway you just bought a you know you bought a bull you want you bought 800 Bulls to bring it in front of hem like balak balak brought seven kote non-stop if theban is not genuine it's your it's not for meem says this is the same thing without prayer we go to beet we pray at home we pray at the office we pray wherever we are if the prayer has kavana it's a prayer to hem that's a sacrifice to hasem your prayer does not have kavana you're in a hurry you don't even know what what you're reading you don't have a clue of what it means you're thinking about girls you're thinking about baseball you're thinking about work you're thinking about nonsense your it's your you just wasted a half hour of your life this is part of the reason why were very being in a they said when someone prays by themself they're judged bys but when they pray as part of a minan the group is being judged so meaning that even if you're individual prayer is not that good the group's prayer should be good as long as they have a good Kazan that's leading the prayer that's righteous and the K is comprised of you know decent people the group helps your prayer even if you don't have 100% cavan every single day when you're part of a minan you have better yeah but sometimes you have more by yourself if you have more by yourself Focus no sometimes obviously we know the important of again there's benefits there's Pro yes there's pros and minuses again it depends what kind of man you have some are going to take a while to learn to do uh each one of the prayers because they read every word and they take their time they n a hurry they are exactly where they want to be they want to be in front of hem and that's what they're doing unfortunately sometimes you go to aan well know you got into the door by the time you put on your they already finish there's such a hurry to go back to go make money that hasm is going to give them anyway they don't even about who they're praying to they're in a hurry to finish that my friend is a m I wouldn't go to personally so depends what kind ofan you have generally the major obligation or the major benefit of aan is to make sure you pray and with the rest of the prayer before and after you can do on your own time you do on your own time meaning you still do it but if they're in a hurry to finish the rest because they already finished Amid and they finish the rest of it in 3 minutes even though it's should taking even longer than everything else especially when you do V you do V it's minimum a few minutes minimum I have yet to be in a synagogue that actually takes more than a minute to do it not that I've been in so many synagogues but I've been in a lot of them most people just finished I made 50 sins in 30 seconds yeah so that's not a real genuine prayer everyone has to be a judge of their own man their own place they're going to pray and again you have to also be responsible for your own actions you can't blame thean they are where they are you are where you are they may not know that and you have to take your time to really have when you do it may they may not know that if the is in a hurry you don't understand or even know what you're saying you're just making sounds then in essence your your it's not it's like aand with no meaning so they may not know you know now so you're still responsible for it as a matter of fact you should say something maybe tell the rabbi if the rabbi is there maybe tell somebody in the Kad that's a leader in the Kil tell a few people whatever bring him to the sh whatever you want give him my business card why though seic do obviously the V together that's part of the asazi don't do V at all right why ashkanazi have a uh because the V is actually and you have to have serious I meaning when you do it the real so you have to do it you have to do it with serious meaning you can't mess it up you have to really think about each one of these things you say you have to think about all the sins you made that you didn't know were sins but you made them that's why you did it was accidental sins all the sins I made I knew it was a sin but I I fell for it I did it anyway think about that just of today of last week's of whatever it is as much as you could think about all the sins I did not only did I know but I did it intentionally to make up God upset so that's the first three words that's just the first three words then after that yeah yeah no no I want I want I want to go over some because it's actually really important so briefly and then it says asamu which is we have been guilty bad new which means we betrayed we betrayed AEM we robbed every time we ate something without doing a it's considered G from we spoke slander and gossip how much we speak unfortunately a v which is we cause somebody else to make a sin knowing that he's going to make us that what we're doing is wrong we cause somebody else to cause a sin to get make mad it's not just us Z we acted wly we did whatever we wanted and so on so it goes there a lot of sins here so if you're doing this is serious stuff you really mean what you say that you're sorry for all this it's going to take some time so are supposed to take their time when they say it say we don't think anybody in our generation can actually do it the right way and if we do it it's a uh going to be an insult to the blessing might as well not do it and it's uh acceptable but there are rabbis that are much much greater than I could ever be yes they do it at different parts of the day different parts of of the year same thing for them no they don't do also they don't do they don't do they don't do V they do different times different times but for example when I pray with the ashaz I pray sapharic so I still use my I just use it for the for for I'm still obligated CU I'm sapharic but the point is that uh there's different me there certain things that they are much bigger follow everybody there's certain things that ashkanazi do that Safar don't do there's things that Safar do that asazi don't do the reality of it is that anyone that looks at the Torah studies the Torah knows what they need to do knows what it takes to be righteous with hem there is one way to do it we need to work on our mid and we need to collect and we need to stay away from sins so when we focus on that we focus on that the difference in culture the difference in a uh you know the way we do it is not as important whether you wear a hat or just a keeper or you wear black in white or you wear colors doesn't matter what matters is that we're all brothers were all responsible for each other which means that if if the guy if you're Safar and you see an asazi Shalom driving to sh or if you're asazi and you see a Safar driving to sh you have to say something you're saving his life you're saving his life forget about whether he likes you or not forget about whether he agrees with you or not it's irrelevant you're saving a soul somebody has to tell them there's a few in atic whatever it is five the point is there's enough that we are in trouble not just here all over the world guys all over this is the only Jewish community in the world it's all over of course so hasem is telling us here the Corban is relevant to you how is it relevant to you because when your Corban has meaning it's a form of chv when it has a for when it's a form of CHA and you're using it to get closer to me I'll take itm says I'll take it I'll become my Corban but when it's just theban that's you're just doing it as like a uh to show the public that you're giving Hashem something as if Hashem needs anything from you thean stays yours same thing with your When you pray to hem with kav hears your prayers and he accepts your prayers if not you just spent a half hour in a Bess and you wasted your time you have to be humble so we need to know that these coot are relevant to us because this is why we go to be every day this is why we go to be on Shabbat this is why we pray all the time this is when we do all of it this whole is as relevant as it gets to us that's our CH that's our connection [Music] to now what else can we learn about prayer that could help our life one of the most righteous and famous women of all time was I've told you guys parts of the story in the past K was not only a righteous person at sedit but she was a prophet but Kan was not able to bring children to the world and she wasn't like just a regular Prophet even her husband El was also a prophet a serious fam good uh good bloodline over here can't bring kids to the world she says to Hashem Hashem you didn't put anything extra in this world everything has a reason every letter in the toah has a reason every part of the human body has a reason the eyes are there to see the ears are there to hear the lips are there to speak the woman's breasts are there to breastfeed the children so why did you give them to me if I have no children she coming to with with complaints but not complaining like us where we didn't get this contract or we didn't win our team didn't win on baseball or football and we're complaining to Hashem why is why is this happening to me complaining to Hashem she's crying every single day praying to Hashem We complain for so one day she's complaining for something serious exactly so one day the um Eli sees her praying but he doesn't think she's praying he just sees her lips move her lips quietly but she's crying and she's moving her lips and he thinks that she's drunk and kazal explains why does he think she's drunk so mean Eli sadik how could he make such a mistake the VNA go says how could it be that El over here is a uh making such a mistake thinking such a is drunk and they said that when he saw her she was crying and moving her lips at the same time it looked like she was drunk so he wasn't sure judge her favorably not judge her favorably so he asked the CU he had the and the letters lit up and it's spelled which if read incorrectly spells shik drunk sh drunk but what it really meant to say is like Sarah she's K like Sarah she's righteous and modest like Sarah so before he knew this before he knew that she's thear says this Samuel says it happened as she continued to pray before hasem that Eli observed her mouth now Hannah she was speaking in her heart only her lips moved but her voice was not heard so Eli thought her a drunkard and Eli said to her how long will you be drunk remove your wine from yourself and Hannah answered and said no my master I I I am a woman woman of a grieved spirit I have drunk neither wine nor strong drink and I have poured out my soul before Hashem take not your maid servant to be a base woman for it is out of much grievance and anger that I have spoken until now and Eli answered and said go in peace and may God of Israel Grant the request you have made of him so the G says how how many important laws can we learn just from this couple of verses from the book of Shu samel one just from learning about you learning so you you have either reviewed this already or you will we learn a lot of things from Han first of all we learn judging favorably you can't just assume assume that someone is not good if something is unusual to you that's first of all second of all it says that was speaking in a heart but lips were moving when we pray or any prayer you have to keep your lips moving meaning you have to say the words you can't just pray like this like some people do this and I remember myself when I first started just look look at the book like I'm reading a newspaper that prayer my friend doesn't count you have to say the words the second thing the says it says but her voice was not heard what does it mean her voice was not heard it wasn't heard by other people but she could hear it so when you pray you have to it has to be loud enough you can hear it for you to hear yourself but not loud enough for you to be destructive to anybody else it's very important people don't know that they supposed to be talking and this distract we so nobody is supposed to hear me you're supposed to hear except me except yourself you you just all prayers are supposed to move your lips all prayers is supposed to L for you toar it um some in thear some prayers are allowed where everybody's loud you know you sing right in the ashkanazi side the most of the prayers are you're praying to yourself you just read the first verse in the last verse of most paragraphs and that's it especially the guys go back so during the times that you're praying uh to yourself you have to be loud enough for you to hear it yourself just like am so from actually the quietness in we learned it we learned yes yes we learned from from yeah the next thing is also we learn here that you're not allowed to pray if you're drunk or even if you're intoxicated you have any liquor in you now you guys thinking who prays when they're drunk is in a week from now about week from now p is going to be which to remind you next week next Tuesday we're going to have a about you don't want to miss it it's going to be very very good last year's sh was very very uh big hit online people loved it lot and since it's on Tuesday and the is a few days later you'll be prepared when you go toet and and read the M you'll know what they're talking about if you show up and just listening like everybody else have no idea you're just listening and it's just somebody's voice means nothing to you so you want to go there prepared next week There's we'll do we'll learn uh last year it was interesting was supposed to be a bunch of people coming to the sh only two people showed up to the sh but online it was the biggest hit for almost a year so hasem knew that we uh studied hard and enough people saw it um so anyway next week we have me I think Nan was one of the two people that you got the still and people think that you're supposed to get you know really really you're supposed to get a little tipsy and but you're not supposed to be like a complete mess but even if you get to that point because you can't control your liquor or whatever it is you're really never supposed to get that drunk by the way but even if let's you get to that point you get drunk do not under any condition pray do not I don't care if there's 500 minion you're not allowed inside the Sho the sh is a mini bet mikdash you going to Sho when you're drunk you're putting your life in danger M I'm not joking you're putting your life in danger you're not allowed to pray drunk you're not even allowed to be inside the place so fools that go there and they're drunk and they partied all day and they go to B no no it's Manan it's Manan man and they go to Manan they're like falling over or they still even have a buzz go home Pray when you're normal or don't get that drunk get you know be a normal person have a drink you know have a buzz whatever during the afternoon and uh you know by time it gets to M later on the day almost 7:00 you're back to uh you're back to uh you know but the rabbi also gives a warning you know you shouldn't bring any liquor in yes but the point is that people have their own things people need a warning from hem sometimes the rabbi is not enough it's good to know what hem thinks so he's talking about being mess completely unbalanced that's a problem there's many other that we learn from about prayer but we see that her prayer was eventually answered she was physically not able to bring children but after such serious prayer and crying to Hashem Hashem made a miracle and not only gave her a son he gave her shmu as a son Shu the says got to the point where he had the of Moshe and Aon together wow so very very serious level one of the holiest first people that ever lived and actually from that we learned something very interesting Kan she didn't pray for a special son she just prayed for a son and she said to Hashem if you give me a son I promise you that his entire life is just going to be just for you I'll give him to you he's going to learn to his entire life he's never going to work he's only going to workes the holy work to that's it but I want just not a genius son that people are going to possibly do on him because he's so smart not somebody special not a prophet like me nothing regular son and even though the prayer wasn't for him to be anything special he came out to be extra special she says in uh SE verse 27 hasem granted my request and I asked of him even though she asked for a average child average capability came out and it says this proves that there's no limit to the potential accomplishment of any one person even if a man starts off his life as average he can reach the levels of mosenu if he wants so whether you're born with natural intellect or you're born with something uh you know unnatural doesn't matter everyone here can be something special what does it take dedication takes dedication amen and it's the ram says you should never waste tonight partying drinking eating sleeping why if you ever want to know real Tor you're obligated to learn T in morning and at night just like it says on the stendel often it says right and you got to it morning at night you're using the shender means you have a book on it t book on it you're obligated to learn to in the morning and at night but the ra says if you really want to know T you should never waste a night doing anything else but learning T because the real Tor you're going to learn is going to be at night the real Torah is going to be at night so don't waste your time watching shows on TV don't waste your time going to bars you want to know the real secrets of life that's at night so R says Ram know a few things about t know a few things about T I think if the entire world combined Torah knowledge could may be equal to his foot or a sandal actually Soo came out but then the says also page 31 just 31b the first thing I just told you until now about K was 31a and 31b it says a story about Shu that connects to this par now all of these Corb they have a lot of laws in the time of a few people made a sacrifice they slaughtered the animal and they brought it toen but they asked him a question they said uh I'm sorry they were looking to slaughter a uh a uh a bull and they came to elen but Samuel little Samuel was there says what are you breaking your head looking for quen don't you know that anyone can Slaughter the uh the bull only the actual sacrifice process itself that puts it on the altar the co has to do but anyone could Slaughter the uh the bull elen says you're right but since you s in front of your I have to give you death penalty at that moment Kan the prophet saw this started crying and begging do do please please don't wish for my son to die because it wasn't a death penalty like elot coin was going to kill him himself it was a a Heavenly death penalty the death penalty from sham please he says why why are you pleading so much let me uh let me you know tell Hashem that he should kill him and I'll pray to hm to give you another son a better son she goes no but I prayed for him and Hashem gave me him I want the one that came from my prayers not from yours why did he forgive her not only because of what she said but because was only only 2 years old so didn't see was only 2 years old 2 years old and he wanted to give him the death penalty but he's two years old how does he even know that sh was very special like I said years oldn at two years old at two years old he already was do is my point that's what the GMA is telling us here two years old two years old so B 8 two years old yeah yeah so did he technically break Al by doing that or was he yes but he's not he's not considered a uh at fault because of his age he's a minor because he if anything if he's a two years old considered do then maybe he was the that's why there was a consideration but he he let him go and he ended up being his student Schmo ended up becoming Elia coin's student he ended up becoming a student and he uh taught him everything he knew I can't believe that he would say on something if he's two years old I gu listen you have to understand you have to understand that everyone didn't have an opinion it's not that he wanted to kill who wants to kill a two-year-old baby you want to say you want to play with him who wants to kill your baby these are these are the holiest people that ever lived he's mentioned do you know that every person that's mentioned by name was a was had the level of Kus to revive the dead even more so even more so even a higher level someone that's actually mentioned in the torm has a book has a book Eli is in the book even bigger than a they spoke to God you think they want to kill little babies Oh what is it so how does something like this happen because they didn't have an opinion what's their opinion what does the toah say toah says somebody says something and disrespects the says without asking the for permission meaning pretty much takes place of the love somebody asked a question the love is over here I'm over here and I say the answer instead of letting the say the answer without asking him for a permission that's says why because that is the foundation of Judaism if we don't respect our rabbis we have no Judaism Hashem says put a fence around my fence what does it mean Hashem says we have 6113 mitv that I gave you in the Torah 613 no one person can do them because some of them are only relevant to the bet mikdash some are just for women some some are just for the kohanim some are just for men like so you understand that not one person can do 613 but the point ISM says the 613 they obligated to comply with if it applies to you violating those mitv violating those 613 is so bad it's such a dear punishment it's so horrendous I'm asking the rabbis to put a fence around my fence I have things that I told you to stay away from but it's so bad to violate what I said that I'm giving full authority to the rabbis to add things that are going to protect them from violating them so the rabbis added seven mitv so technically the're 620 but the seven is not like you know each one is just one so for example one of the seven is blessings blessings so there's more than one blessing there's blessing for the bread there's blessing for the uh potato chips there's blessings for uh getting out of the bathroom there blessings a lot of blessings so blessings is one of the seven also to show you something of how this 620 is uh very very interesting is you actually talk about it every Shabbat every Shabbat without maybe knowing maybe you do know because we've talked about it I think in the past every Shabbat you pray musaf right and musaf after they go back to amid again they say here here we go in the third uh in the after the Second Blessing where it says to hem revives the dead in the regular you say but in you say so we a crown they shall give you AEM a crown the numerical value the G of it what is it is 20 T is 400 is 200 What's the total 20 400 200 24 620 620 how many me what we just say we have 6 620 we're putting on said is the 620 620 Fair see okay so that's what you say in you say it every Shabbat now you're going to read with more meaning because you know what it means what's the what Crown needs our crown is everything what count the is 620 butm told us violating one of my 613 is so bad it's so bad my children I need help from you from your rabbis your leaders put a fence around my fence so for example what do we do the rabbis this not rabbis from a local synagogue today or from 100 years ago this is from the times of the gar 2,000 years ago this is people that spoke to God this is people that had it's not a guy that just passed his uh his rabinal test last week okay it's a real people this Divine people we're going to add something called m m is on Shabbat and on holidays but mostly Shabbat since you're not allowed to write not allowed to write a pen that's violation of the 613 but to make sure that you're not even close to ever writing you're never even a position where you're even thinking that you can write or somebody else out there doesn't think that just because you're holding a pen you're allowed to write you're not even allowed to pick up a pen and move it from place to place that's M the rabbis added that not because they just felt like it because they said that Hashem told us the sin of writing is so bad cut you off from the next World cut you off from so if you just pick up a pen because you don't think it's a big deal a little kid is not going to know he's going to see you oh he thinks you picked up a pen that means you wrote so he's going to write every Shabbat you're only going to find out when he's 18 years old and he wrote his first book on Shabbat you have a problem so the rabbis had to put a fence around aem's fence this is actually verse in the T put a fence around my fence but that fence is for our benefit that fence is for our benefit just like the corot theot is we're not giving hem anything we're getting closer to him we are receiving we're receiving from hasem and to show 100% that we mean business when we brought theban to the to to the quen it says here in uh still chapter one verse three he shall bring it to the entrance of the tent of meaning voluntarily like he wants to do it not that nobody's making anybody do a kban just like nobody's going to make you pray you don't want to pray don't pray buddy nobody needs your prayer you're obligated to pray you don't want to do it don't do it it's your business you want to violate Shabbat go ahead I'm just letting you know there's no worse sin than that you want to go kill yourself go kill yourself I'm going to try to help you I'm going to tell you I'm going to tell you the truth but I can't force you you want to bring in Corban get closer to Hashem it has to be voluntary no one's going to make you do a Corban then in verse four says he shall lean his hands upon the head of the elevation offering and explains in page 93 you have to lean even even though it says Y which means one it's actually both hands really really hard pressing on the uh head of the animal when this whole thing is happening why to show you really want to do it to show that you really want to do this mitzvah not that you want to kill an animal you're not you're not not a a nation of sick people because you really mean Chua hem I'm only doing this because you said so when you're doing a prayer need to mean business when you're doing chva it's time to get serious it's time to put on it's time to put a keep on it's time to look like a Jew it's time to keep Shabbat like you're supposed to learn T Shabbat not sleep all day sleep all day somebody that's never kept Shabbat in his life that's what I tell him I heard it from Rabbi mizaki and many other rabbis that after RAB M somebody never kept Shabbat before and it's hard for them please don't do anything sleep all day sleep all day just don't make any sense okay you've been keeping Shabbat for a few months now okay it's time to maybe have one uh meal and one prayer after a little while longer okay it's time to keep Shabbat like an adult don't uh you know when it comes to to learn every day you're not a little baby don't go play Playstation you're already in your 30s 40s and 50s you can't go play Playstation all day go learn some to start investing into your future into your eternity don't make me beg you come to it's time to learn this is investments into the future why spend all of our time investing into this world doesn't go with you anyway all of our time 20 hours a day with investing into this world we want to make money we want to look good we want to do this we want to do okay what this is okay you live 50 60 70 100 years whatever you live 120 but it's 120 full of MIT if it's 120 full of sins you're better off dying now if if if I was still a sin would be better off dead I try not to be sin I still make sins but much much much better than I used to but if we're doing Chua it's time to get serious that's why that's why you press the hand because you want to show a hasem I mean business I'm serious about this I'm serious about my cha so we know that prayer is what means we know that prayer has significance we know that hem is going to bring us salvation says hm is telling us he's only going to bring us the Salvation because we cry out to him what does it mean we cry out to him we're praying to him your prayer is to have some some tears once in a while if you've never cried during prayer you've never really prayed it's time to cry talk to hasem if you read the words and understand them you'll cry at some point if you don't understand what you're reading get a different translation get it in English even though I was born in Israel and I lived there till I was 10 years old if you look at my sidu it has both English and Hebrew why because English after 27 years of being in America English has become my first language even though I learned tah and so on English is my first language already at this point I know that I'm not pretending like Hebrew is my first language yes people speak to me I don't have an accent it looks like it sounds like I've been in Israel my whole life but in reality my level of English is drastically more advanced than my level of Hebrew Hashem knows that so what do I do I have Hebrew and English this helps me number one I'm understand the prayer and at the same time not only understand the prayer I'm learning Hebrew so why be a hero oh my no no my I had one guy tell me this un believe the guy's in the country is in America even longer than me he's probably in the country for like 35 40 years old older than me and he saw my C he goes oh you read in English like no I read in Hebrew but I have English on it also oh no me I only have Hebrew okay I look at the guy's midot I think my dog that passed away a few weeks ago had better midot than him yeah yeah my dog yeah why you don't know my bully died I you didn't watch the last week two weeks ago see you already you got yourself in trouble SP we got a whole sh we got a sh we talked about dogs missed it was watching all the YouTubes thanks thanks for watching sh thank you thank you all this hard work I put into it you don't watch I send you links I send you text messages emails Facebook and you didn't watch it watch so the guy is telling me the guy is telling me no no no me I only read Hebrew what Hebrew you reading you don't understand anything that you're seeing if you understood one one thing one thing in the prayer you already change how you look look what it says over here look look how many times I B and raas and go up in Israel and even us before reading the book we don't know what we're just reading but only now when it's really inside you you we to understand focus on the word and go one by one by one hey let me let me let me show you some one example of something of how clueless we are of what's in this prayer that we read you know how sometimes people tell me Oh no you're WR why so hard talking about gay know talk about punishment you know some people say there isn't even one everybody's a sadik all this stuff you know that you read about Gom every every day no oh you don't know right so I'm going to tell you not only Gom the worst one you know that I told you the seven levels of Gom Chambers seven chambers of Gom right and the seventh one I told youat uh uh wasting seed and the uh uh no CH they go there hard hard place to be right you know you read about it every day now where okay Psalm 80 in in after every day not every day I'm sorry you read it on uh th Thursdays Thursdays oh Thursdays Thursdays every day you read a prayer on one of the days of the week on Thursday you read 81 Psalm 81 for the musician on sing joyously to the god of our strength call to the god of yov and so on the end it [Music] says what is it those who hate hem would lie to him but their time of punishment is forever is what does it mean for forever this is talking about the worst part of GNA not just the uh one that you get if you're small little sinner half you know 90% sadik it's very important to understand our prayers we connect to it I read this I cry yeah I don't want to go there so [Music] again all of them all of them have all of them every one of the prayers all every one of the prayers you read you're going to cry at some point so maybe not every day maybe not every day but at some point [Music] Idols Idols false gods Idols the point here is that we see that there's a really big need for us to understand what we're saying in our prayer just because we like to see do or because it's in Hebrew doesn't really mean anything also we always talk about fear of I always tell you guys my my main goal in our is to not only get everybody to keep some but most importantly to have even though in 99% of the places you hear love of of Love of I'm telling you and K is telling you not because it's my opinion the tells you it's not possible to have it's not possible to love hem without fear of hm if you just look at the entire Tor and even if you don't know the entire T you just look at your s you've read your Sid if you compare the amount of times it says fear of hem versus the ratio maybe a thousand to one for every a thousand times it says fear of hem it maybe says one look at it you have you did today so so after after you do amid right after you do amid you do Anna right you do Anna okay and then after that you read T 25 by to you by David by David to youm my soul I lift up so what does it say where where does without any man who fears hem he will instruct him the way he should choose anyone that hasem is going to instruct them what's the best direction to go you want to be able to make good decisions in life you want to be able to hem to navigate you in the right direction develop your is not possible without not possible so first is fear of and then so then after the same same exact same exact one same exact T later on we'll continue the same thing his soul this person is in goodness will Repose his offspring his children shall inherit the land so not only is hasm going to reward this person because he fears hem and he's going to get them to go in the right path but even his children will benefit out of his MIT and hasem pays even if it's thousands of generations eternity pays in this world and the next World somebody has and then after this anyone wants to know the secrets of God who doesn't wants to know the secret even people don't believe in God want to know the secrets of God what it say The Secret of hem is to those who fear Him not to those who love him to fear him his Covenant is to inform them what's the Covenant the deal that he has with them this is the relationship but the he doesn't say this is to my lovers and before when we mentioned the punishment he gives Le what does le means what some somebody that says curses AEM every day no no no it's not somebody curses doesn't mean that somebody curses no doesn't need to be that that bad we have a definition from hasem what does he mean when he say when he says soai it sounds it sounds like sounds pretty bad it sounds like somebody that all day writes blogs against God right not that mean right but I'm saying somebody hates God it sounds like it's somebody that writes bad thing about God but it's not what does hem say is my haters he tells you the last few verses the last few verses he says it not you you must know that hasem you're God he is the god the faithful God who safeguards the Covenant and the kindness of those who love him and for those who observe his Commandments for a thousand Generations so here he gives us the definition of loving hasem what's says in the same sentence who is my lovers it's the ones that keep my Covenant my my Commandments okay let's continue now the one before last verse in the Torah in in that par and he repays cash to his face to his enemies in his lifetime to make him perish he shall not delay for his enemy in his lifetime he shall give him he shall pay repay him who's this who's this a enemy he says here it's the ones that don't keep the mix on one side he says keep that's my lovers so obviously my hater is the opposite and why what what's what does he say to them that guy that hates me that guy doesn't keep myv all of the reward for the few that he did he G here and there he kept one Shabbat in his life he did feeling when he was 13 years old I give him everything cast to his face meaning I pay him a reward in this world why to make him perish as it says to make him perish what does it mean make him perish he has no this is his last shot unless he does CH so now we see that Hashem is not kidding Hashem is not kidding now I want I want to finish off with something that's I've been meaning to do for a long time and we really have to do today so if you stick with me here this is something that we have to do because unfortunately I've looked it up and unless it's in Hebrew it's almost impossible to find this topic and I mean to do it for months it just never gets to it yeah if you want I'll order you one and uh you give me the money it's not it's not big I was going to yeah yeah cuz I want to read the English so that way I understand what I'm reading so now that we know what hasem means by cooba note what is theote in our in our generation it's our prayers what gets us to get our prayers answered we know we need need it to be genuine what gets our chuva to be taken seriously when we're serious now we need to know what gets us away from Hashem what gets Hashem to say this guy's lost this guy's ruining himself this guy's committing suicide every day now we've already talked about in the past we've talked about Shabbat we've touched a little bit about wasting seed but not enough and unfortunately on the internet in English there's not enough of it so whether it's for you guys that are sitting in front of me married or single or it's for anyone that's watching it is a really big need for someone to go over some of the things about about wasting seed because there are only two types of people there's this guy that reached out to me the other day and we he's in a big problem right now he's married for 13 years but he just realized that he's not allowed to marry a non-jew Hashem is real and a Torah is real and he started doing chuva but he's still stuck in his situation that he's marrying non Jew he has a couple of kids with her but he wants to do and the reform conversion that his wife did means absolutely zero and she confirmed it with him when she told him listen I'm never going to keep any of the mitv that you're doing right now I'm not interested at all why is she not interested in it because the Judaism that she saw was a joke she saw reform she saw freaking people giving bar mitzvas to dogs putting on them why would she take that seriously even Christianity is better than that mhm at least they don't mock hasem it's idol worship but if they don't mock hasem they don't know it's idol worship they don't intentionally go do it because it's idol worship but the reality of it is it is but church is actually still better than reformed and conservative because at least they don't mock the Torah they go against it but they don't mock it so this woman this poor woman came from a different religion she saw reform she thinks that's Judaism she sees them giving bar mitzvah just the dogs of course she doesn't want to do it she sees the spiritual leader is a group of immodest women wearing mini skirts and short t-shirts or homosexual who wants to be part of this but that's what she thinks Judaism is M that's what she thinks Judaism is so I don't blame her so now we have to rework their whole thing so now a situation like that has several problems the obvious problem is that we're not allowed to intermar we're not allowed to be with non-jews this is an obvious problem we've talked about in the past someone that wants to guarantee themselves to pretty much destroy their connection with hasem is going to end marry someone that wants a connection with hem is going to fix that problem but that's not what we're going to talk about we're going to talk about the bigger problem the problem that affects many many more people the problem that affects everyone everyone here and everyone in the world including the go and that's wasting seed a now of course the Jews are obligated with the mitvah of protecting the breit much more than but the still not allowed to waste seed I haven't found one source that it says that they are allowed to waste seed how do I know how do I know that wasting seed is not only one of the foundations of this world foundations of this world but everyone's obligated two sources from the Tor from hashem's mouth himself inat Noah there was no Judaism yet that's why all the go are considered if they're righteous go they're considered B Noah the sons of Noah noahides hasem gave Noah seven mitv seven laws that the entire world has to comply with when we got the Torah we had more we added many more to them but the seven noahide laws are really seven that hasem specifically told us and all of the mitv out of the 613 that are common sense like for for example respecting your parents that's not part of the seven laws of Noah but of course whether you're Jewish or not Jewish you have to respect your parents it's common sense so anything that's common sense both Jews and non-jews have to keep Jews actually have a mitv part of the Ten Commandments and part of the 63 MIT but the non-jews have to know that this is part of the T they have to do it so before we had Judaism before we had the Tora that we have today AEM saw an evil Wicked generation they stole they raped they beastiality being with animals all types of disaster but kazal says in the Z and also that the thing that took it over the edge that made hasem just destroy them the wasting seed how do we know this in verses after hasem destroyed the world destroyed everything only Noah's family was left andash the giant that's it no one else was left no nothing or the animals obviously that were in the Ark in the AR then hasem gives Noah the laws and here he says this in chapter n no verse six it says whoever sh sheds blood of a man within a man his blood will be spilled because in the image of God he made man so spills blood we know we immediately know that's murder but it's not just blood it's blood of a man okay so we know it's his blood but then it says within a man the the blood of a man within a man wasting seed it's wasting seed my friends the blood within a man the blood of a man within a man is your seed sperm his blood wasting seed was not acceptable even at the days of Noah that's why sh destroyed the world and that's why everyone is obligated go and Jews nothing Source Judah was one of the 12 tribes one of the most important men that ever lived were called yehudim after his name Yehuda because he admitted his mistake with Tamar but before Tamar came in and became his wife she married two out of two of his sons and Onan again this is before before we received the Torah before we received the Tor we didn't receive the Tor for hundreds of years later so they all have to be two no no she first married a and then Onan a died and then she married Onan and then Onan died why did hasem Kill both of them specifically says it here because they wasted seed they didn't want to get her pregnant so they would waste the seed they would have the seen go outside of the body they wanted to have fun like they say in this generation this wicked generation that we live in they want to have fun they want to keep her pretty they don't want to ruin our body they want to have a sh you know somebody on the side that brings kids is the baby oven and they want her she was so beautiful they wanted to keep her beautiful so they married her first guy married her wasted seed she killed him instantly no second thoughts no second chance this is whose name was uh this is the two sons the two sons of uh Judah Judah and again this is before Judaism this is before the Torah a wasted seed hasem killed him says specifically says it in the verse Onan did the same thing married her cuz you know Judah didn't know that that the first son died because he was wicked he thought he was righteous he just thought okay he died okay so there was a mitvah in those days that if uh if a um if a brother died without bringing children to his wife to his wife then it was a Mitzvah to marry his wife and having the children pretty much be counted as if it's his brother's children so he married her he did the Mitzvah but he also wasn't interested in doing what hm wants what do hm wants the first Mitzvah we get in is bring children to the world first M he wasn't interested he wasn't interested he was interested in in having fun what hasem do killed them also before Judaism before we got the entire Tor so we already know that AEM means business when it comes down to wasting seed this is what the Tora says about it in the and the there's over 40 different sources I'll try to name them when I can but we need to know this and whoever is watching this needs to know all of this so hold on to your chairs or some of the stuff is pretty rough first of all if we notice in the world today unfortunately in all throughout times there is a uh a lot of different types of idol worship it says in the days of idol worship people will consciously Channel energy and forces of evil would use a to create evil and usually to do these things there's some type of fluid that is necessary and that's why you see people that worship idols or people that uh worship the Satan you know satanic people it's either blood or it's semen is what they use to this day so this is one part of the reason why it's a problem in regards to idol worship also it says that anyone that Wast seed should know part of the seed this is you could you could find this out scientifically part of the seed part of your sperm comes from your brain which is sent down the spine so when a person spills his seed he's actually wasting part of his brain which lowers his overall function and his brain functionality and hurts his memory next a person's emotions are thrown totally out of balance this is why people that are P people that waste seed usually have a hard time controlling their temper they usually get mad or depressed very quickly they get sad very quickly they go into depression and they don't have much self-confidence usually also causes premature boldness I'm just giving you the basics this is not even the hard stuff yet causes boldness or strange hair growth hair growing in weird places someone that's waste seed cannot loses his ability to receive to perceive Kus he has a very difficult time learning to and doing mitv very hard time understanding the stuff every time he waste seed those seeds are n he's creating souls and each one of those n is considered his child but since they realize that they came to this world without a body they get very very angry and they take revenge against him through his life and especially after this life so after the person life in this world is over first there's the cemetery when they go to bury him there's in and in in Israel that they uh a man's children are not allowed to come go to his uh funeral why because in case he wasted seed in his life there's fear that those uh those demons that he created will kill his kids and the amount of torture that they put him through after he leaves this world is uh is never ending those Souls take revenge against their father causing him many problems they also put crazy thoughts in his mind so for example when you're thinking in a middle you're serious about praying and all of a sudden you have a all of a sudden you remember this girl you met 30 years ago that's coming from that it's not a coincidence it's very easy to become a idol worshipper or denying God altogether again coming from the same source which is from those bad Souls mid says all those who weigh seed are punishable by death said it's as if he sheds blood Rashi says it's as if he worships strange Gods strange deities talks about the evil of uh the uh generation of Noah says there were many evil men in those days but their faith was not sealed until they started wasting seed also says it in Shabbat Shabbat page 41 says spilling seed is more severe than all the sins since he defiles his his soul in this world and the world to come and he cannot see the glory of the W says in M yes you do have to get married soon my friend you need to get married fast says he does not receive life in the future world so this person stands to die and does not live in the future world no more sources and the ran both says page Ram also says it old age jumps on him they get a they age much faster wow becomes weaker strength leaves him his vision goes weak and also something very interesting that you'll notice from people is very a lot of people have bad breath and also they smell quickly that's where it's from bad breath is not just for not brushing your teeth bad breath and bad smell bad odor when you have bad odor coming out of your armpits it's from wasting seed because I can tell you that you know again I'm not uh if my sins are for toet I'm not saying about myself but I can tell you before I did cha and after did cha before I did Chua my sweat was disgusting now I don't even I barely sweat and whenever I sweat doesn't really smell at all so I know from experience this is legit I need to get married we're going to work on a for you my friend i s next to you and I could show my my there maybe they could also 151 151 says heaven forbid their children can die because of their sin or instead of dying they'll end up becoming evil people they grow up to be evil people now if people don't care about their life and they don't care about their health there's only one other thing they care about which is money says it's the it's the foundation of poverty causes poverty the richest man in the world will go broke because of wasting seed this is something also sh there's more there's a lot more there 80 pages of this but I'm only going to read you a few W I'm only going to read you a few another few more minutes hold tight did you mention my name to the uh a person under the age of mitv a person under the age of mitv is notth accountable for his sins somebody that's under the age of 13 years old is not held accountable if he makes a sin if he violate Shabbat if he uh eats under 13 under 13 before right it is right except for one sin there's only one sin that he does have to pay for wasting seed this means even children children wow in the 100 his prayers are not accepted he can pray as much as he wants not accepted oh no there's more more we need to go over a lot of it there's an amazing book called by you listening has he brought sources from hundreds of places about the bit about theit about wasting seed he says just like someone that protects their breit gets 80 different types of rewards from Hashem 80 different types of rewards from Hashem for protecting your bed but just like that the one who doesn't gets 80 different types of punishments mid 80 Pages the Z says wasting seed a person that waste seed deserves strange death an unusual death you know people get into their head cut off uh all types of strange death they deserve strange death just for for putting themselves in a situation where they're allowing themselves to have an erection wow so they're saying there's a connection between like wasting seeds to the Maz of the V it is we're going to get we're going to [Music] get right we're going to get it we're going to get someone that actually allowed himself to be in a situation that he got an erection without obviously being with his wife his prayer is not answered for 40 days according to the Z listen to this brings disaster to the entire world and causes countries to conquer Israel one guy little 18yearold waste seed causes Israel to be conquered the entire nation is one the entire nation is one person at waste seed does not leave G we talked about that before but it's good to embellish it again the source is zo person Wast heed intentionally is not considered Jewish and his shape in heaven you know your shape of your n looks like your body but a a person that waste seed and does not do Chua before it dies his shape when he goes to Sham turns into an animal either a dog or Pig causes sickness depression causes poverty poverty chases him meaning even if he's making money eventually poverty is going to chase him something's going to happen he lose everything doesn't matter million dollars he has $5,000 he has billion dollars doesn't matter waste seed like that poverty is going to chase him at any given moment he can lose everything I just lost a lot of money in taxes you're already doing CH just being in the doing now let me this is next part we'll finish off with this to get married this part shows you the confusion in this world shows you the confusion in this world because I know that nobody here and I bet you most people that are watching this you no one has ever heard this everyone knows even the go know who RAB from breev is right but when you think about RAB from bre what do you think about the funny looking hats dancing in the van the guar the breast movement the the little breast of movement yeah the little payers okay all of that is not wasad wrote a lot about wasting seed I'm going to give you only a small taste maybe 2% of a couple of things of we not even 2% of what he wrote someone who fixed fixed his he was wasting seed but did CH it is impossible for him to fall into desire of money meaning the desire of money is the biggest other than other than wasting seed wasting seed is the most difficult thing to overcome without being married so other than that it's money people are chasing money constantly so someone that overcomes and does chuva for wasting seed he'll never fall for money money is not going to be his a uh is he's not going to be attested by money okay why if you already passed this test money is not an issue money is not an issue when someone does chuv for wasting seed now it's almost impossible when someone does chuva in general it's almost impossible for a person to fix all of their sins there's many he's going to miss there's different details however when someone does chuva for the breit he automatically repair beares the damage from all of his sins obviously he has to do his best with everything else but the point is that even the ones he missed are going to be fixed this is 1 to 29 someone wants protection when traveling it can only happen if he has keeps his b someone that violates this uh bleed very difficult for them to pray with concentration one Torah 50 V someone waste seeds should be very careful from dogs and also from weapons you should never go uh shooting guns in the uh you know for fun why because he's supposed to get a death penalty for what he's doing so when he puts himself in a situation of danger that's usually when the those demons will go to uh the people that are the spirits that have a case against him will go to Sham and says look he's a sinner he's a sinner he a sinner and he's putting himself in danger now when the SAT has a wife and says she's worse than him so bad that you're not even allowed to say her name and every time you weigh seed Wai it goes to her and she gives birth to those de demons mhm every time you weigh seeds scientifically they've estimated that it's about 300 million seeds come out of your body with every ejaculation so there's an a lot of demons that you're creating and she's in control of them she will only use them against you that's for you MH this is if she understand she's waiting for you she's wasting no this is okay you're thinking I'm talking about a regular warm no no no no no I understand this is the wife I got you so every time you waste seed she's the one that gets pregnant and she creates these uh these demons gotta got so much so that she'll even disturb you in your sleep either by sending demons to mess with you giving you nightmares giving you sex dreams um all types of things she'll torture you during your sleep that's why they people that waste seed tend to have wet dreams where they have even when they don't want to have waste seed it still happens this is so bad that every single person Hashem decided after taking after creating the world says that what doesm do since he created the world say he brings couples together each person has a woman for him someone that weighs seed can lose his destined wife his perfect Z can lose her because he's wasting seed but by fixing the sin a person will find not only can he can lose his wife because he wasted se but if he fixes it he will find his destined wife and she will not be rebellious against him meaning she will love him but someone that's married and waste seed will find that he has very difficult time with his wife she's always going against them even when she agrees with him sh knows that he's evil she may not know he's wasting seed he's in a bathroom alone he's I know with his friends at some disastrous strip club she doesn't know he's wasting seed but our n knows and because our knows naturally she's going to go against them I'm want to go to the store no why you going to the store why you going to the store why what are you doing to the store I just want to go groceries no no why why not no go tomorrow it makes no sense this argument she's going to argue with him about everything everything why cuz knows she can't trust him he's evil he's wicked Torah 87 getting drunk causes a person to waste seed 8 Pages there's a lot more I can't I can't read all of it all pages now I'm not going to do all of it now this is only everything here is yeah I read all of it and I highlighted some of the things I wanted to tell you guys there's a lot more this is not even you know what I'm telling you is not even 1% of what's here I need to find my match when someone Wast seed they're wasting their money runs away with it so what's the T how do you fix it okay let's explain how bad the sin is we realize how bad the sin is when there's a sin that the G doesn't stop just stopping by itself it's not so fast there's more to it this is to give us an understanding of what real chuva is about we need to know this gave us a lot of the secret parts of the Tora also a lot of the secret parts of how to do chba it says someone that uh wasted seed one time has to fast 84 times [Music] 84 eat one time now what's what do they used to do hold on a second I'll give you guys an answer for hold on what's the shortcut to these fasts that they used to do if you fast two days in a row which is 48 hours straight no food no drink it counts as 27 fasts but if you fast three days in a row 72 hours in a row hold on I'll give you guys this is going to get to a point I know no I know no one here is fasting two days in a row you fast three days in a row it counts as 72 hours straight it counts as 40 fasts and a person is not allowed to break up those fasts meaning that if a person only needs 10 fasts so he does the two days in a row he can't use no since he got 27 fast he can't use the 17 for something else he fasted two days that's it but the reality of it is the reality of it is that in our generation we're too weak to barely fast on Yip you tell people that they have fast before puim is a fast before puim two days before puim is a fast you tell people oh come on it's not it's not mandatory right it's not mandatory it's not like right so in his generation people would fast this is serious people we don't have that strength so it's a different way from the sunrise until sun down to still that's it yes but people still don't do it yeah people still don't do it they easy fast yes they still don't do it so what do we do when we wasted seed said if you don't even know how many times you wasted seed then you have to instead of 84 fasts each one of the uh what's each one of the fasts you should give equivalent to one meal to one meal and if you don't know how many times you've done it in your life you should do it once a year 84 fast time one meal so let's say for example one meal is I don't know 20 bucks $10 $15 $20 how much does one meal cost 10 okay $10 $10 you could buy a meal sandwich ni okay you could buy a nice sandwich for $10 10 * 84 it's $840 for the year will fix that a uh uh wasting seed but you have to do it every year and in reality if you did it a lot you should do it more than once a year but again this should be uh uh possible for somebody to do at least once a year once a year you give the $840 that's the that is one of the ways of fixing wasting seed wait but that's 18 if you give $840 a year that's only for one time okay no no if you don't you're only doing it you're only doing it for that one year yes I'm saying it's one yeah one technically yes 84 is for one time yes yes but they even said if somebody doesn't even know how to do it how many times they've done it maximum they'll have to do these 84 fast is three times so if you did it three years you're clean right so $840 but this does not count as part of your M this does not part of your other part of your other this is separate this is purely cha uh another time another thing is another thing is that um when you're doing not only when you're doing an and when you're doing V to think about the times you wasted seed not only that but something okay think about it there's certain part of of prayer talks about sins so you have to you have to really think about it and think tell you're sorry when you're doing when you're doing think about that stuff think about the wasted seed that you have do it slowly do it slowly think about it say you're sorry but also there's something called is praying just not praying with your own words talking to hem which you should be doing anyway one you know once a day for two minutes for 5 minutes for an hour whatever you have time um and during that time think about the sin and be sorry for it um there's different parts of to read called uh that's also good for it and going to the mik go to the mik as often as you can at least once a week if you've wasted a lot of seed definitely you should go once a week uh if not more um this before praying or after pray whenever you whenever you can but the biggest biggest thing is as part of the cha is to stop it now how do you stop it just look you say you do and I'm yeah but you constantly have it's like saying to a crackhead stop taking drugs it's not going to stop you learn to R you don't put your yourself in position right so what do you do okay first and foremost you have to clean your house of all the garbage that you have all the magazines all the movies your television in general internet and then you television in general if you have a hard time on the internet put there there's an application that's free I could tell you about uh I forgot what it's called but I posted it on Facebook there's an application for free to help you uh not go to terrible sites on the internet uh get rid of the magazines get rid of the movies even movies like a uh that movies that don't have nudity but they have Attractive people all movies you shouldn't be watching that stuff newspapers magazines all that garbage that's going to constantly remind you of that world you have to get rid of it you have to watch your eyes you can't look at every woman that moves you can't look at every woman that moves you want to have a successful marriage you want to have you have to be holy because hm is Holy that's what he told us in the Torah you have to be holy cuz I am Holy that's what he says you're holy you have to be holy you can't look at every woman that moves you have to look at the floor look at the sky look at something else stop looking at women watch your eyes watch them on you know you can't look at at TV and you also definitely can't look at it on the street of course if you don't watch your eyes what's going to happen okay you don't have the magazines you don't have the uh you don't have the um all this other stuff but you're constantly looking at people at work so what happens you go home you have one of these dreams or you're bored which is the next thing make sure you're never in a situation where you're bored because kazal says borom leads to sin you sit there you're bored you have nothing to do that's what's going to happen that's what's going to happen that's what happens that's real life knew real life just because they doesn't mean they just knew Tor they knew everything they know the entire world boredom leads to sin so make sure that you have your schedule packed with stuff to do you finish work you have a shi to go to you have a book you're going to read you have a sh you're going to watch you have St stuff to do don't hang out in the bathroom a lot don't stay in the bathroom for a long time cuz again you are there you're there for a while you're naked lead you to thoughts also one thing by the way that but it's also something that you're not even allowed to touch that part of your body you're not even allowed to touch that part of your body so what do you do you want to go to the bathroom you could use your sleeve or you can use a napkin or you I'm serious I know it's hard I know it sounds crazy I know it sounds ridiculous but when someone has a problem oh if you have a problem if someone has a problem they have to do whatever they can and generally you're not all to touch it anyway that's not that's not it's an actual you're not to touch it yeah you're not to touch it unless you're obviously with your wife or something but the point is that it's say in general why because you're going to put why this again like I told you put a fence around my fence and make sure regardless of whether you're married single have a problem don't have a problem never ever ever under any condition waste seed waste seed and do everything you can not to even look at it there's really never a reason for you to look at your part and for whatever reason or another when you do that's what happens don't look at it says here don't look at it so when you're when you're married in uh if you're intimate with your wife it's diff it's different if you're if you're married or not married you're still not you can't you can't waste it you have outside of her you has to be inside always has to be inside so if she's not ready for kids the only thing you're allowed to use is birth control or these uh uh like um uh what are they called it's like a candle type of thing that uh she puts in our private part and that uh in essence kills the sperm but uh there's there's an oral pill and there's something that she puts in that part of her body there two things that you're allowed but but I don't want anyone to think that it's automatically loud you are obligated the first is you're obligated to bring kids to the world just because you don't feel like having kids does not mean you're allowed to take she's allowed to take birth control there's only specific situations where a rabbi would tell you and a toah would tell you that you're allowed not to have kids if you don't have a boy and a girl you have to continue having kids unless there's some type of major health problem where Rabbi can say okay that's allowed not to have kids but in general if you don't have a boy or a girl you have to continue having kids even if you have 15 girls you still have to continue and even if if you have a boy and a girl still doesn't mean you have you could stop you have to have permission to stop and having kids it's very very important mitvah just because you don't feel like having more than two kids in a dog does not mean that the Torah allows you not to have kids so again the whole aspect of limiting birth is not as easy as it sounds where I say oh no she takes you know birth control and it's fine no it's there C only C certain conditions that a wife is allowed to limit the the the birth or the husband is allowed to limit the birth and by the way in the it actually says that even though it sounds to us and even pretty much most of uh people that only men are uh should be careful of wasting seed and the actually says women have to be careful of it too because it's it's possible for them to even take seed out of their body which means that even if the guy tried not wasting seed she can waste his seed and she's uh sinning and even if she knows that he's actually going to sin she shouldn't allow him to do it she's part of the sin so wasting seed as you've gotten it for the last I don't know half hour or so it's a very very serious sin and what I told you is not even 1% of it so from bre which is part of the information I got is from him part of it is from and several other places it's not all fun in games and walking you know and driving around in Vans and dancing the real the real the real Tora the real you know that he had that's what he wrote about he didn't write about uh you know going around in Vans that's actually you know desecrating his name people think it's just partying games no the sikim or real sikim for a reason if you listen to the shim by Rabbi AR or a uh uh um laser Rabbi laser Brody the leaders of the breast love movement right now you see that they talk serious business they talk about serious toah don't talk about dancing in the on on top of ends go to Serious sikim yes you're supposed to be happy and so on but what they wrote about what they write about this is what they write about why because this is the most important stuff in life this brings if we don't follow the Tora it brings disaster to the world when we follow the T we have all the blessings in the world unfortunately with the exception of two rabbis that I know of Rabbi mizaki and Rabbi ala no one in English that I know of maybe somebody did but that I know of no one in English has spoken about wasting seed as they and put it on YouTube maybe they spoke about privately maybe they put it on YouTube but I just saw it but I've looked I've looked really really hard nobody speaks about wasting seed the significance of it how bad it is and so on so in Hebrew there's a few but in English it's very very rare and unfortunately this is a sign of how weak our generation is I don't even necessarily fault the rabbis uh it's really because the crowd is so weak the people of this generation are so weak that most people by the time they hear the first five minutes of the way wasting SE prob probably shut off the lecture if they survive this far then they're serious you guys survive this far it means you're serious about CH this is not easy stuff to hear same thing that we talk about about about Shabbat but again just like there's 80 80 uh blessings there's 80 curses we need to know both of them we all do both the Jews the non-jews the entire world gets closer to Hashem brings the mashiah soon and we're ready for him and now I'm serious about getting married anybody have any questions