Parashat Korach, Is Your Complaining Kfira (Heresy) Against HaShem?

[Music] welcome know people always nice to see new faces and uh we learn today some some and any questions that you have hasem will give me the words to say and we could all do a little bit of CH by the end of this year K says inar says person needs to do chuva moments before he dies moments before he dies so students ask him obvious question well does anybody know when they're going to die he says no and that's what we teach that a person that really fears Hashem a person that wants to have a connection with Hashem must do chuva every day in today's world we realize that the world we see today is not the same like it was for our grandparents our grandparents their world was a little slower even though anti-Semitism has always been around ever since parot you know Exodus was the beginning of anti-Semitism when par told his uh told his people let's fool them meaning let's fool the the Hebrew nation into uh you know into uh submission pretty much that's when anti-Semitism was born anti-Semitism has been around since then it's around today unfortunately anti-Semitism is on the rise so that part of the world hasn't really changed what did change is that things are happening faster what did change is that Hashem is making things happen much quicker than they used to where he used to give am is a lot of time before they uh you know they get any any type of judgment if am were Sinners then uh hasem will give us time and more time and more time and warnings if we look all the way back to the bet mikdash there was years and years of warnings from the prophets before thean before the destruction of bet mikdash same thing with the second bet mikdash years and years of warnings from the prophets before eventually hasem delivered his punishment and his punishment the reason I say delivered not that it's necessarily a good thing to gets punished but delivered meaning that Hashem his signature is AIT his signature is truth meaning that whatever he wrote in the Torah must happen it can there is no other way no one can go to shamim and say no no no no no I didn't think you meant it I wasn't ready you know when you were little kids and throw the ball and the guy drops the ball but he's all you know he's a little bit uncomfortable he's a little embarrassed no no no it wasn't ready you can't go up to Sham and say I wasn't ready I lived in the world for 60 70 100 years I wasn't ready no such thing hasem says my signature is em whatever I wrote in the Torah I have to fulfill why because when I created the Torah 974 Generations before I created the world I didn't only obligate mankind I didn't only obligate the animals I didn't only obligate nature you have to have a certain amount of oxygen you have to have a certain amount of hydrogen you have to have a certain amount of everything there gravity everything is very precise tomorrow we're going to do a sh in aent Torah about Torah and Science and the wisdom of the sages to show us how little we know today with all of our technology that we have today how little we know in comparison to them how about that people think that with the iPhones and the iPads and the computers and the telescopes and microscopes were much smarter than the sages little do we know that the smartest man of Our Generation the smartest guy pick whoever you want smartest man is not even equivalent of an ant in comparison to one of the sages in the an ant an ant is smarter than him in comparison but we have to look at it we have to show we have to prove it but nonetheless scientists have discovered a lot of interesting things in our generation they discovered that the world has to have our our Earth has to have 21% oxygen 21% oxygen at all times if at every moment there's too much oxygen goes from 21% to let's say 22 or 23 or 24% what happens our world becomes explosive the next guy that lights a cigarette the world explodes just like that goes from 21% to 20 or 19 everything dies meaning that it has to be so precise that it can't be a m it cannot be coincidence so hasem said I put rules even for that but on top of everything else I put rules for myself I obligated myself why because I love you so much that if I didn't put rules for myself I wouldn't be able to punish you and that would make it the Torah false why because I said in Tor if you go if you walk with my laws you get all of this you get all of this reward but if you don't you get endless punishment that's why I wrote in my Torah but if I didn't if I didn't write it in the Torah what is that mean when littlea comes up to shim with his friend yov and both of them have been driving on Shabbat their whole life and both them have been eating bacon for breakfast he says I have to punish you because of that if he didn't write it if he didn't write it then they go up there and say listen we should be able to enter gedan the same place that Moshe raenu is in same way MOS raenu samea same way any of the major sikim that have sacrificed their life for I should be able to enter the same place hasem says no this is why I wrote in the Torah and not only that I write in the Torah I wrote it in the written Torah that everyone has all 70 Nations have it it doesn't matter who you are or what you are everyone has had an opportunity to read this Torah whether you comply with it or not it's up to you but everyone has an opportunity to read the Torah and comply with it you if you're Jewish obviously you have to comply with it based on Judaism if you're not Jewish you have two options you could either convert to be Jewish but you don't have to and quite frankly when you come to the bed de and tell them listen I want to convert initially they try to discourage you because it's very hard to be Jewish it's not just a one two three thing you convert and that's say everything's okay and that's it no it's very hard to be Jewish you have to keep a lot of mitv you have to have AEM in your life 24 hours a day it's not 5 minutes you wake up in the morning immediately when you wake up in the morning you have to thank AEM for bringing back your moments later you have to wash your hand because your hands are impure because in essence going to sleep is partially death after that what do you got to do you got to go pray you can't even eat you're not allowed to eat in the morning before you pray you're allowed to drink you're allowed to drink coffee you allowed to drink water but you're not allowed to eat before you pray this is also one of the things we need to understand is not why it's not good to wake up late you wake up late you slept for 12 hours you wake up at 11:00 you can't hold it you have to eat you have to eat something already it's lunchtime already but you're making an a you're making a sin hm's not happy about that so that's why you got to wake up early what do you got to do you got to go pray you got to go pray to hem praise hem thank you for giving my thank you for putting me in this life thank you for everything that you're doing please Hashem help me help me connect to you help me fulfill your will help me with my business help me with my marriage help me get a marriage there's a thank you and there's a help me after you finish you go about your business if you're you learn T this is very good if you have a if you have a business life you go to your business but you have to make sure that you have study T at some point during that day in reality you're supposed to study before you go to work in our generation they're not a uh meaning that there it's not something that they push on everybody to do to such an extent but you have to learn to every day in essence really what you're supposed to do what you're obligated to do is learn in the morning and learn at night that's the minimum obligation according to the rambam who lived about 900 years ago very very different world back then he said someone that works nine hours a day he calls him a batlan batlan is it's sounds like a insult but in essence it's a someone that works 9 hours a day fine he wants to work fine so he has to learn toah 9 hours a day that's the r in today's generation the the people that learn fulltime they learn 9 10 12 hours a day some even more but in general average learns 10 12 hours and today's where you tell a businessman to learn nine hours they no no no a wrong generation but this what T says why because education is the foundation of Judaism without education you can't be Jewish we were just talking before the sh about the mistake that was made a few hundred years ago by the conservative and the reforms and what started at all there was a rabbi which I don't remember his name that made a mistake because conservative Judaism wasn't like today 300 years ago today it's not even considered Judaism today it's a different religion unfortunately they've gone so far off the D that your average conservative uh congregation member does not even know they are not even allowed to drive on Shabbat I'm not talking about they don't they don't do it of course they don't do it but they don't even know that you're not supposed to do it I have a sh that I do in Miami all of them have come from conservative shs everybody did Chua but to them it was complete surprise you're not allowed to drive on Shabbat complete surprise like no no but I'm driving to besset not allowed to drive anywhere unless it's to the hospital to Save a Life not to drive anywhere on Shabbat so it's not like today today conservative the head Rabbi of the conservative movement is openly gay openly gay W which is which is completely this is the head Rabbi it's not like a secret Rabbi that's hiding his identity somewhere head Rabbi in Jerusalem a conservative m is openly gay in reform they give they have a whole new tradition now it's a few years old now it's called bark Mitzvah they give Bar Mitzvah to dogs you can go on YouTube type bark Mitzvah you'll see Bar Mitzvah is for dog they put $2,000 on themes they put it on a dog on an impure animal this is desecration of hashem's name 24 hours a day if we were in a time of San you were actually obligated to kill all of them time of s today we're not obligated to kill anyone what we are obligated to do is try to help them do chv if there's a chance but it didn't start this way it didn't start this way what did it start with it started the same way as this K started with a different opinion nothing the opinion of God opinion of a person not only of a person kak wasn't just a regular person K was T he was part of the ly tribe and on top of that it's very very rich very very rich there's until this day there's an expression in in Hebrew called Rich like kak you know in English you say rich like Bill Gates in Hebrew you say rich like kak that's how much money he had he actually found one of the um Treasures of yadik yadik hi three Treasures that was all of the money of the Egyptians you there was so much of it so much gold and diamonds and so on that he hid it in three different places because you couldn't find one place to put it in K found one of it kazal says that K had I think it was 10 camels either either seven or 10 camels so don't quote me on the number of camels just carrying the keys for all of the safes 300 no could be enormous amount enormous amount of money and today's money Bill Gates would be maybe his uh cleaning uh person that's how much money he had wow so he was very rich is very rise very wise comes from a great family the levy tribe can't get better than that can't get better than that but he has a different opinion what's a different opinion no Moshe I don't know last week we found out that Hashem almost destroyed us and uh now even though he forgave us we're all going to die in a desert no one from the current generation that's above 20 years old is going to survive to see is except Joshua and Caleb everyone else is going to die this doesn't seem very nice to me K says am is not happy maybe there something wrong with the leadership who says that Aon is going to be the coin who decided this Hashem decided no I don't know if I believe that we heard the Ten Commandments we heard the two Ten Commandments we heard hem speak first time he said the first commandment we all died we woke up he gave us a second commandment we all died he brought us back to life we told we told Moshe please no more you go speak to them and then come back and tell us we'll do whatever he says we'll do and then we'll hear it so we heard Hashem say that but we didn't hear hear Hashem say supposed to be the maybe this is favoritism maybe M you're only picking him to be the because he's your brother different opinion in the Holy language we call M it's a difference of opinion but it's not a difference of opinion that is you know listen this one thinks that it's a um red and the other one thinks it's a uh you know a black sometimes M can be on the smallest little thing this is on the biggest thing and there's two different types of there's which is m in order to serve hem the best we possibly can which you find in many places throughout the entire where the sages argue different points back and forth about what's the best way to do a certain so for example if you go to you have maybe 10 15 which is a lot according to the it's it's considered a lot talking about the best possible time to say when is the best time to say sh in the morning and they're all arguing you hear I mean it's a lot of arguing what are they arguing about at the end of it when you really actually understand the Su you understand the they're arguing about 15 minutes 15 minute difference it's nothing but that's the level of Holiness they had in their Tor where they wanted to be the best possible Servants of hem that's a good type of M that when you are jealous of someone that knows more T than you because you want to know more T that's a good that's good that's good jealousy that's why hasm created jealousy but when there's the opinion of hasem when is the opinion of the Torah is the opinion of the sages and you say no no no no I don't agree with them I don't think this is relevant to our generation anymore then we have oursel a problem then we have ourselves a problem and that's why for example when I said about the tah you actually have to study really all day is what you the only reason you came to this world to study to all day that's the reality but we also have to live so you have to live and you have to study because we live in such a weak generation the sages said that if you are M if you if you obligate people too much they could break so get them to study somewhat but no one ever thought or planned that it's going to get to the point that you have to beg people to study for 15 minutes a day you can't be Jewish without studying Torah everyone thought okay so you're not going to study like uh 20 hours a day like AA fine okay you're not going to study you know nine hours a day like the generation of the ram fine but you're going to study an hour in the morning hour at night right no one ever thought you're not going to study at all no one ever thought that you're gonna have to beg people please please study five minutes I'm going to make a just for you what are you interested in I'm interested in apples so you think to yourself Hashem give me something to say about apples please hasm have mercy because the only thing he's going to hear you make about apples 5 minutes because that's what he asked for and he still doesn't listen no one ever thought we're going to get to this weak generation no one ever thought so the reality of it is we're obligated to study a lot more than 5 minutes a lot more than 15 minutes a lot more than an hour we have to start somewhere when we can't even get people to study for 5 minutes what are we going to do but all of this started with a disastrous decision about 300 years ago 300 years ago there was a rabbi that started I forget his name he decided that the Jewish people need to start getting secular education in universities it's not enough to just get Yeshiva education the wisdom of kazal the wisdom of Tor the Divine wisdom apparently became not enough which is complete nonsense by the way I went to school I was a high uh I was an scholar and and the secular studies it's considered a in University and in high school and all of those things and I can tell you that all of the all of the learnings that I've had my entire life in college and high school and all of that is not worth even a line forget a page one line of actually understanding in AAR one verse in thear not even worth one verse it's different level of wisdom different level of understanding your brain M it's like you see your once you learn start learning you start seeing your brain change it's unbelievable someone that starts learning m in the beginning it's very difficult because you can't understand anything and you're breaking your head for two hours just to understand one word it takes a while but once you're in it it's m addictive addictive like no the greatest drug in history is not as addictive Asma it's unbelievable what happened 300 years years ago some fool said no it's not enough I'm going to send my kid is a rabbi saying this not like a regular person regular person says something we've had plenty of Heretics throughout Generations but Rabbi Rabbi says now I'm going to start a new movement called conservative movement initially they were religious initially they kept Shabbat kosher everything that the Orthodox do today they kept also they didn't start with homosexuality 300 years ago someone was homosexual they probably kill him back then what happened said no no let's send them to universities Jewish Education of the Tora is not enough I'm going to start with all 10 of my kids okay the same Rabbi saw all 10 of his kids marry Goot all 10 of his kids intermarried all 10 of his kids fell off the D became non-jews when hasem wants to punish someone for their stupid stupidity he doesn't wait and what happened this took time obviously people took over even if he saw if he admitted to his mistake or he didn't I don't know but the reality of it is that eventually other people took over the conservative movement and little by little they said okay so if Jewish Education is not that important maybe some other things are not that important also and you fast forward 300 years Shabbat is not important anymore for them K is not important for them anymore what's important I don't know coming together having a couple of drinks together at the besset and laughing okay that may be important to them but that's not what hasem told us to do that's not the purpose in life reform obviously is even much worse but unfortunately in today's age both of them are considered Heretics that's why even though the process of conversion by by conservative reform is a completely I don't even know what it is anymore but the conservative conversion someone goes to a conservative conversion the process itself technically in in many places is identical to the Orthodox conversion same process you go in front of three they ask you questions you answer the questions you go to a mik you dip in the mik you do simple obviously you have to prepare General process itself the procedure is the same but how come if you go to Israel with this certificate from the conservative Rabbi they tell you okay yeah you could use this as toilet paper it's worth nothing it's worth nothing and you're not Jewish why it's the same process my friend went to Orthodox his paper looks the same like mine but his Rabbi is orthodox mine Rabbi is conservative why why what's the difference why are you persecuting me I'm not even Jewish at you persecuting me because when the foundation is heresy when the foundation is against Torah nothing is Dependable when the foundation of the conservative teaching or reformed teaching is based on things that are against the Torah even if the rabbi knows everything by heart if he's teaching things that are against the Torah you can't rely on him if you can't rely on him that means the conversion is useless doesn't matter how much you paid doesn't matter how long you studied doesn't matter anything and this is hard Truth for a lot of people that went through conservative conversion that I met to realize one day they wake up and they actually are not Jewish they've been living Jewish life of years I tell him no I'm sorry it's not me decided T decided shom not me no T according to T is not considered Jewish so one of them sadik obviously it's horrible news said okay but listen either way I'm going to start keeping and uh I didn't learn I didn't know I wasn't allowed to drive on Shabbat so I'm going stop driving on Shabbat anyway so she tells the B the conservative betet I'm not going to come on Shabbat anymore cuz I can't drive it's 20 minutes from my house what do they tell her finally after years of the conversion that she thought she was Jewish I was the one that broke the new star that she's not Jewish what do they finally tell her no no you don't you can drive on Shabbat she goes no I can't drive on Shabbat says in the Tora you can't drive goes yeah but don't worry you're not really considered Jewish what evil evil people you see this evil people F when it affect didn't affect their interest they didn't say anything the second it affected their interest the zil that they are this garbage people that they are in this world sometimes they finally tell oh no no you're not considered Jewish why don't you tell her five years ago she would have went to an orthodox conversion not waste her time this is happening time and time again people are being confused to think that there's an easy way out there's no easy way being Jewish you want to be Jewish you want ganeden you want it's hard work this is the most important foundation of Judaism that we have to understand because as soon as we start using our own opinion it begins kak was richer than us kak was smarter than us kak was closer to anything that we ever want than us he was better than us in every way shape or form but according to thear in page 109b says kak and his congregants have no share of the world to come how did they get there son of is son of K son of Le separated himself with the tanam sons of elab and on the son of pelet The Offspring of ruen they stood before Moshe with 250 men from the children of Israel leaders of the assembly those summoned for the meeting men of renown so first of all we learn here K didn't come by himself K didn't just do this by himself he had a three other Leaders with him the and aam two notorious asks the have been Wicked since day one they're the ones that were fighting and then Moses broke it up and then the next you know and then they actually told on him to to par cuz one day first day he saw one of them get beat up by who by the Egyptian so he killed the Egyptian this is 80 years before yeah I thought I thought Hashem told mosha that it's it's okay for him to return back to mesan because those people have are no longer here those people are not there meaning that they lost their power they were no longer in power the at that time were were the cops the the the Egyptian used the the is to punish their own people which is actually very similar to what the Nazis did not similar it's exactly the same thing that the Nazis did the Nazis actually my uh my my has been writing a book been writing many books but one of the books he's writing is showing proof that literally every single thing that the Nazis did in the Holocaust was repeated blueprint from what the Egyptians did to am is in the uh in Egypt exact thing so now the they were the cops and anytime that uh am will not do a good job according to the evil Egyptians they would tell the T to beat them up so they were in a position of power but one day we have this story that uh one of them gets beat up by the Egyptian Moses breaks it up kills the Egyptian the next day there's an argument why is there an argument because the real story is why is the Egyptian even beating up the uh the the Israelite he's beating them up because the wicked Egyptian raped schlomit schlomit was one of their wives I'm not sure if it was datan or a I'm pretty sure it's datan schlomit was the uh was the wife of datan and the sister of aam so they were related brother-in-law so the Egyptian saw that schlomit is very friendly so she he thought that she's coming on to him this is also a teaching we learned a few weeks ago go about of how women have to be modest not only with their the way that they dress but also with their behavior you can't be high high to every single guy in the street a nice Jewish woman doesn't say hi to to people that are stranger to us to her SCH did it the Egyptian took it as a sign of uh interest he came to the house at 3:00 in the morning told the husband go go go work sent him out of the house went into bed with schlomit now it was dark it's not like they didn't have electricity back then so schlomit didn't know it was the Egyptian so she willing she was with him intimately willingly after he finish he got out but at the same time he got out the husband came back the T came back so the Egyptian knew that he knew so the Egyptian didn't feel comfortable he's embarrassed now that he caught him him even though he's still the slave at the end of the day he still you know people have shame some shame at least so that's why he started beating him up so mosu saw this with his KES saw that the Egyptian not only will nothing good ever come out of him even if he continues living but on top of it he's beating up the the the Israelite for no good reason he just raped his wife and you're beating him up on top of it so he killed him the next day the arguing why are they arguing because the T says listen the Egyptian you know was with my wife I want to divorce her a her brother saying no no no she didn't do it willingly according to Al you're still allowed to be with her if she did it willingly and she wanted to be with the Egyptian you're not allowed to be with her if your wife ever cheated on you Shalom somebody's wife ever cheated on them you're not allowed to be together ever again if she was ever intimate with another man you're not allowed to be with her now in gamorra in Stan hedin it speaks about you to have um Witnesses and things like that correct of course you have to have witnesses you can't just uh suspect her for cheating because it it was just about suspecting Jewish men would get married every week I thought one the other concerns were probably the fact that she Pro um due to that relation due to that rape situation she may have given birth to like a mumer can can what she did she did she gave she gave she gave birth and that's actually the same person that cursed God he cursed God and they killed him this we learned uh two weeks ago two weeks ago par uh so now he wants to divorce her the other want say no you're not all to divorce her so they fought so mosu came in between said how could you guys fight you two Brothers how could you guys fight so he said what are you going to kill us like you killed the Egyptian MH and they went what did they do after that these these Wicked people these Wicked people what did they do they went to par look look this guy that you hold so highly just killed one of your people so tried killing him they caught Moshe and Pa tried to chop off his head but Hashem miraculously turned his neck to to Stone and froze everyone giving enough time to run away so these same that was the first Wicked thing they did after this we got all the plagues in Egypt they stayed with the Egyptians they didn't go with us they didn't leave with am is they stayed with the Egyptians what did they do they said listen now the am is is left we have nothing to do we have no position of power we have nothing to do so what do they do they go to par they say listen what did you do you just released all the slaves so they enticed to go after and now they're back again these Wicked people so kazal says these two have been Wicked from day one what scoot do they have to still be alive what's theot when the Egyptians told them to beat up the Jews to beat up am Isel they didn't beat them up they took the beating thems cuz it's either you get the beating or you beat up the they took the beatings and is for loving is it's a big big D even when someone is aash HEM gives them more time to do CH so now we have kak we have datan we have amam aam and then we have this person named on on Ben pelet on the son of pelet from the tribe of ruven but these are the four leaders but then it says they stood before Moses with 250 men from the children of Israel leaders of the assembly those summon to the meeting men of renown now we have ourselves a problem it wasn't just four now now they got 250 of the most important leaders of am all the with the exception obviously of Moshe Caleb uh Joshua Aon and his sons 250 are with kak why how do this how could something like this happen because k saw that after last week's Paras when we got such a horrible horrible punishment that everyone's going to die in a desert is already not happy with Moshe a bunch of people died last week Hashem nearly destroy the nation again and on top of that he's telling us we're all going to die here so every year on sh everyone has to sit in sleep in Graves why because it could be today you're going to die this is a horrendous living so everyone's unhappy with Moshe so kak took advantage of the situation and started making up new rules so he says listen I heard this Moshe andon are taking advantage of the system I know this story he says of this old woman who didn't have much she just had a little bit of uh land and she would grow her crops on the land and uh they you know Aon would come to he says Hey listen give me your uh M so she would give him the Mas and then he'd come back he says listen I also need Mas so she would give the Mas then she said to herself listen this is too much keeping up with the tabs of let me make it simple let me just get a little bit of cattle so she gets she sells her land or field she gets cattle she starts shearing the Sheep taking off Aron shows up oh M I need to get my share she gives him comes back again for levies she gives that she comes back again oh for the poor gives again she said okay you know what this is too difficult let me get a small and more simple business and K says this continued all the way until the point where the only people that had money was Moshe andon she became homeless makes up a complete lie how do we know it's a lie what field is there in a desert what field is there in the desert what grass is she growing what uh crops is she growing in a desert there's no grass there's no grapes there's nothing but when someone is already upset and emotional they don't pay attention to details so everyone fell for it so then he goes to Moshe he goes listen Moshe these rules you said that we have in the Tor you said we have to do Miz I don't think it's from hasem oh it's from hem goes yeah what if I have a house full of takes about a year to write a year to write you make a mistake you have to it's a big problem you have to do it all over again serious serious talks costs a lot of money and cost a lot of time if I have a house full of from this from that corner to that corner all the way to the ceiling it's only has the entire in it do I still need to have a mu of course says I don't I think you're wrong mosu says yeah of course you have it's a different mitvah says no I think you're wrong how why would I need a if I have a thousand in a house it's much bigger than Aza is just a small part of the Tor this doesn't make sense and he says oh wait a minute you say that we have to have a little bit of which is like a um a bluish color sky blue color in the corner of our tiit what if so he came all of him all him and all 250 men that he came to Moshe they came with clothing that were 100% 100% sky blue he says listen Moshe if all of my clothes are do I still need to have this little string if my entire uniform my entire clothing is all this blue why would I need this blue string says it's a different mitvah one thing has nothing to do with the other says no you're making up rules this doesn't make sense it's not logical it's not logical that you're making all these things and the people since they were very emotional they belied they all believed it this is one of many times unfortunately we see that not only does make a mistake but it starts at the top it starts with the leaders if an average person makes a mistake you correct him you rebuke him in those days you even kill him but it's one guy it's one family it's not the end of the world but if a leader of a congregation makes a a mistake and says T is not from sh T has a mistake now you have yourself a problem if two leaders a bigger problem 250 Maj major major problem right you have yourself a revolution this is why in last week's par after is complained to Hashem complain to Hashem the section of par we talked about last week but if you didn't watch the sh you most likely didn't learn this anywhere else because most people skip this part they skip this part I don't know if it's necessarily intentional not intentional but it's not a pleasant part after we had oh I'm sorry this is two weeks ago well we've been almost dying for the last few weeks right it's three weeks in a row I'm almost dying Hashem hasem is almost killing us three weeks in a row how much Mercy does hem have for us wow three weeks in a row hasem almost destroyed us one one week after another we have to wake up we have to wake up so it says in the uh chapter 11 verse one the people took to seeking complaints it was evil in the ears of hem and Hashem heard and his wrath flared and his wrath flared and the fire of Hashem burned against him and consumed at the edge of the camp so complained and Hashem burned the corners it says they burned the corners of all the the camp of of is what does it mean the corners all the leaders of every one of the tribes he killed all of them he didn't kill the people all the regular people the complainers he killed the leaders but all the people are complaining why you killing the leaders [Music] because gave us it says You must rebuke your people your people make a mistake theyab they eat non kosher wives are not modest the guys are not modest they're cheap they have bad midot they're doing stupid things against the Torah you must rebuke your people you don't rebuke your people you're at fault according to rud inar he says if you know someone is sinning and you have the ability to rebuke him but you don't rebuke him you take on the sin you have a friend you have a family member you don't say anything to him you go up to sh say oh I lived my 120 years I kept Shabbat I did cha I come to ganeden right you show up oh I'm sorry yourb every week oh no no no no no I think you have a mistake I think you have a mistake no no no no I kept Shabbat I went to rabon's he told me Shabbat if you don't keep Shabbat I started keeping Shabbat go yeah you kept Shabbat but look your roommate your best friend your brother all of them would come over for Shabbat with their cars they go home with with their cars on Shabbat you didn't say nothing you kept inviting them on Shabbat you never said one thing to them their sins are all on you serious problem this is why hasem said they complained leaders take it on first he killed all the leaders this is why Moshe cried to Hashem shortly after he says why you doing this to me how could I do all of this by myself why is why didn't he complain about doing this all by himself before CU before he had leaders to help him Hashem just killed all of them so now he's literally by himself he has nobody to help him the same thing in theat and also in it says the commentary says that during the BET mikdash hasm destroyed the bet mikdash but the ask how come he killed all theim first why did he killed sadim first he to I mean you have these major sikim got really really punished in a horrendous way horrible deaths you read some of these stories you you have to cry if you have a heart you have to cry this is what we do on tshav why they killed them first they were sikim says no they're not considered complete sikim says why CU they didn't rebuke their people they didn't tell them to do chuva they didn't tell them they're making mistakes but then the the of says yes but that generation was so bad even if you would have rebuked them they still wouldn't have done Chua and says yeah Hashem knew that Hashem knew that the generation wouldn't do Chua but the sages didn't know that sikim didn't know which means they were still obligated to try your success or failure is not in your your hands you're not rewarded based on your success or failure of kiru you're not rewarded based on your success or failure of your learning you're not rewarded based on your success or failure of your mitv you're rewarded based on your genuine real effort if you're truly trying 100% to be a kosher Jew you're truly trying to do the will of hem you're trying to help somebody do chuva you're trying to help somebody keep Shabbat you're trying to do the best prayer possible you're trying to learn tah but you're just not advancing you're getting 100% reward for your effort the outcome is not in your hands it's in hashem's hands you get rewarded for the effort now there are certain things there certain things where hm is not going to allow you to succeed to a higher level which is when it comes to so you get when you give that's one reward you get for giving but then there's the potential the outcome that comes out of that that's based on your Merit so for example someone can give a donation to somebody a big donation $1,000 $100,000 a million dollar doesn't matter but the person that gave he's not exactly the most righteous person in the world he's giving it more because he wants to for his conscience not because he loves hem not because he loves Judaism he's giving a $100,000 to the besset because he wants everybody to know that he has money or because he wants his name on a building or some nonsense like that some interest but in reality that's the reason so he gets mitvah of giving but the outcome of that mitvah where that $100,000 was supposed to save or could have saved 100,000 Jews give one CD for a dollar each one of these Jews does chuva or even if you have 1% of them do chuva save a thousand Jews it's endlessa for this person great reward the $100,000 doesn't go to there it goes somewhere else could even be give it to somebody and that person takes it doesn't give it to the synagogue he takes it to his own bank account and spends it on remodeling his house so you ask yourself why why is it the guy gave $100,000 why couldn't he be the one that Hashem uses the money to save souls and get endless Merit why couldn't he be the one that the money goes to a that learns T makes 600,000 mitv a day cuz he doesn't have a merit he doesn't you have to have Merit for your to have big reward so yes you got your first mitvah of giv you got but the residual reward the endless reward of what happens with that money is based on your Merit based on when you're righteous or not based on the reason of why you did that Mitzvah and unfortunately there's a lot of crooks in the world they also have beards they also have a keepa sometimes they even wear black and white sometimes they even say a a few tor but the complete completely Wicked people they take the money from people and they go use it for remodeling their houses playing poker casinos prostitutes it's endless how bad these people do things with the money of the public obviously they have a special place in Gom waiting for them but the people that are giving the money also need to know that it's their fault too the people giving him the money also need to know by the way this also says something bad about you also that you gave him money why because it means you don't have the Merit to give good staka good staka you know what good staka is I tell you what good staka is when I first uh I told this story before but it's worth saying it again when I first uh posted that we're doing this 25,000 CDs campaign or trying to get people to get the CDs start with 25,000 much more one of the first people that jumped on board said oh listen I got to jump on board I'm going to sponsor a th000 CDS said this is very nice somebody I'm very close to no I just thought it's nothing of it I thought sadik that's it I didn't think anything more of it did he have the means he had good means he gave them any two weeks pass he calls me tell him you're never going to believe it I said what happened he says listen my son was born with water in his ear water in his ear and the doctor said that uh unless this goes away naturally within the first two years will have to have a surgery a brand new parents 2-year-old boy surgery is very scary so they're praying for a long time and I didn't know about this they're praying a long time for Hashem to send them uh their salvation two years pass the water's still there and it's at a point where it cannot come out out of the body in a natural way put a can't can't they can't do anything they have to have a surgery so they go to the doctor doctor says listen you're going to have to schedule a surgery if you want to postpone it we could postpone it for another month come back to me in a month we'll do one last check we'll you know confirm the CT scan that I have that I did today come back to me in a month and we'll do last CT scan and then do the surgery poor parents that's what they do during this month he sponsors a th000 CDS sponsors 1 th000 CDs they come back couple weeks after he sponsors the CDs maybe even less than two weeks after he sponsors the CDs takes the boy to the doctor doctor does a seat scan again he looks confused that he brings his colleague and the colleague is confused and they bring another colleague and I look at the mother and I said where's the boy I says what do you mean where's the boy this is my son it's my only 2-year-old son she goes no no it's a different head nothing here it's perfectly healthy complete Miracle complete no other way to explain it after they brought another colleague there the colleague said come on stop torturing this little boy he's completely healthy he shouldn't even be I have no idea why you're bothering him there's no sign that there was ever anything wrong Hashem says this is going to happen what does he say it says in the book of Jeremiah in Book of Jeremiah chapter 15 verse 19 says therefore thus said Hashem if you repent I will bring you back and let you stand before me meaning if you do chuva genuine real chuva I'll always accept you but he says stand before me what does it mean stand before me means that if you did genuine Chua I'll never even tell you about all the sins you used to make you were a bad kid and finally did Chua no I'm going to treat you like you've always been a sadik you do genuine chuva you're not going to have a you're not going to be a second rate citizen or no no no he's from from birth he's good you you're B cha not so good no such thing in hashem's eyes hm's eyes as a matter of fact it's the opposite a b Chua can reach a level higher than not than a Jew that's been righteous his whole life this says in the so hm is telling you to here he's saying I'm going to have you next to me if you do Chua genuine but the second half of the verse says this but if you bring forth an honorable person from a glutton then you will be like my own mouth so says what does it mean you'll be like my mouth said well it says if you do chuva says you'll stand next to me but if you help somebody else do chuva you do kiru if you give somebody a dollar disc a dollar CD a dollar CD to do cha and that person does chuva you'll be like my mouth does it mean a big mouth say just ask hasm what does it mean says I created the Heaven and the Earth and I can bring back the dead you'll be able to do the same meaning I'll change nature for you the significance of helping somebody do chuva is unsurpassed there's nothing bigger than that you want Miracles help people do Chua you could speak you could sponsor you could arrange shim there's a million and a half ways to help people do Chua someone wants to help people do Chua there's a lot of different ways to do it now this guy that did this sponsor the CDs he didn't think about a miracle he didn't even know this verse existed he knew it's important to help people do chuva but hasm changed nature for him why be complete with hem be simple I'm doing the mitv of sponsoring CDs to help people do chuva why not because I want hem to make miracles for me only because I need to help bring more of hashem's children back to him I want to care for hashem's children now obviously if you understand it you realize if I take special care special care of hashem's children to help them come back to asem why wouldn't AEM take special care of me and now that you have a verse in the Torah you have a stamp you have a guarantee there's no timetable it could be two weeks it could be two months it could be two years it could be 20 years depends on your life but nonetheless I could tell you that every single day we see miracles everying single day it's either my own life or someone else that's connected to me one of the students one of the people that watches on on on YouTube on T anytime family members non-stop Miracles why because anyone that's involved in kiru I'm telling you it's the best possible way to get HM to give you special attention doesn't require money if you have money obviously that's great if you don't have money you could do in other ways if you're already on social media you have a Facebook account instead of watching only nonsense all day take a post it on your page press like send it to a bunch of people that's it what does it take two minutes 20 seconds do that for five minutes every day five minutes a day of kiru if you could do more great but do five minutes a day worry about hashem's children five minutes if you do it consistently you start seeing the world around you change now here we have people that didn't worry about hashem's children they worried abouts they worried about their own ego and their own interest they come to Moshe and they tell him what they tell him and and Moshe obviously is surprised at all of this and he offers them a challenge after he tries to convince them to stop with this nonsense he says you know what come back tomorrow and we'll test what you're saying we're both going to bring a incense offering to Hashem K and the 250 leaders and Alon 251 versus one but tomorrow we'll do it why don't he just do it right there and then because Moshe was a very unique human being Moshe gave to everyone is one of the most important things we need to learn in m means benefit of the doubt he's saying maybe they're just upset that they just found out they're not going to survive to see isra they left Egypt with hopes to see the land of Israel they found out they're not going to see the land of Israel because we made a mistake a bunch of leaders died now you have these new leaders hopefully these new leaders learned from the previous leaders they're not idiots this is D this is the generation of knowledge meaning that they all knew Hashem every one of the people in this generation was a prophet everyone was a prophet everyone that was a mount was a prophet the prophecy of the most simplest person according to the the simplest person the sh the cleaning lady was higher than the prophecy of Ezekiel this is these are not fools just last week we got in trouble we almost died the week before that we almost almost died again every week we're dying you're not fools so maybe they just maybe it's just the anger is getting the best of them the anger is getting the best of them come back tomorrow hopefully by tomorrow they cool off we're not going to do this so he says come back tomorrow but he sees that K is not changing K is not being convinced so Moshe prays and chapter 16 verse uh verse 15 it says this distressed Moses greatly and he said to Hashem do not turn to their gift offering meaning don't accept their sacrifice tomorrow I have not taken even a single donkey of theirs meaning the accusations they have against me are false who's he telling this to one of the guys he's telling this to Hashem what hem doesn't know nor have I wronged even one of them what hasm doesn't know this Moshe and his humility he didn't think much of himself in a sense he said listen you know what kak I'm giving him a benefit of Doubt where he actually believes that he has theot why and all of them have theot why because none of them made the sin of the gold calf because they didn't make the sin of the golden calf and Aon which they're going against and I I mean I wasn't around but they're blaming me for just selecting Aon and Aon technically was involved in the golden calf he didn't worship the golden calf himself but he was still involved so saying how could he be the and we're not the K just doesn't make any sense so mhe saying don't accept their prayers he was SC even though they they're Wicked even though they're going against hem maybe Hashem is going to accept their prayers because maybe that little scoot the little Merit that they have is big enough to overwrite my few merits that I made as if he has only a few merits he's not like us we make one Mitzvah we give a dollar dollar to the homeless guy we walk around like this like with sikim he gave $50 to the call wow guys you wouldn't believe what I did today what would you do I sponsored a colon sponsor a colon what was your whole savings no no hey relax $50 I gave to the he only makes $500 a month they gave him 10% of his salary walk around like a bigad with the $50 mhe is telling us all of my maybe the their little that they have the little prayer they have maybe that's more than everything I have that's humility that's humility and he's praying to Hashem Hashem I really didn't do anything wrong I didn't even the donkey that I used to come save them from MIT when I traveled to Midian to MIT I didn't even take the money back for the donkey I paid for it out of my own pocket and I I was entit to get the money back for the donkey I didn't take it I didn't do anything wrong to them Hashem that's humility amazing amazing so is this where ELO learned learned this from when ELO had to go against um like these these uh uh I guess spiritual leaders of these different nations on on the on the on the mountain and he he as he he asked for the or they for them to bring their God see who got stronger yes this is later on yes this is later on yes yes yes from this yeah this is later on yes yes this is later on yes so now we fast forward we have the day come the fight comes the next day everybody shows up with their incense offering and M tries to stop everyone no no don't do it don't do it you're not going against me or you're going against hem why you going against hem because it was hem that piced chose me and Aon wasn't us and Hashem doesn't make mistakes this is one of the most important lessons that we have to learn for our own life wrote a that we read every day but most of us don't really understand the holy language language to such an extent that we understand every word and even sometimes when we do understand we don't really pay attention as much after we all read the same T which is T 25 in his there's a lot of different parts Psalms 25 starts with David to you Hashem by David to you hasm my soul I lift up and he tells hm how much he trusts him and relies on him but then he talks about later on says he says see Hashem see my Affliction and my toil and forgive all my sins look at my enemies they' have become many and what a violent hatred they hate me so first he says look at whatever sins I did what sins have I done and look in comparison to how many enemies I have in reality what DAV is saying is like okay I made you know one sin two sins this is a this is a holy language this is you can't lie what sin did I make I made one sin if you compare my one sin versus the amount of enemies that I have it's unbalanced so she's crying to says look look how the sin that I have in comparison to my enemies we do the same thing we're the opposite we have 5 million Cs and a little tiny problem we had a flat tire on the way to work we didn't get the job we wanted the customer didn't sign a deal with us our wife gave us an attitude this morning we didn't win the lot this week our stock went down all types of nonsense that we go through every single day and what do we do we cry to hem like David cried over here We complain to Hashem as if he made a mistake look Hashem at all the trouble that I'm going through I got a flat tire what did I do what do you mean what did you do look you want me to open the book what you just did this morning from the minute you woke up to the minute you turn on the car you already made 60 sins did you do that you like to die oh no I forgot I didn't have time did you pray yeah the the fast prayer did you have kavana kavana I had kavana the baseball game that I watched last night and I was I lost $500 on it that's what I on I was thinking about the $500 I lost in the baseball game I couldn't really think about hasem doing amida oh is that why you were playing with your phone during amet yeah but at least I showed up like you did AEM a favor like you're doing AEM a favor that you came to beet This Is Us We complain to hasem nonstop but the opposite of DAV David really only had one sin and he had endless amount of problems 70 years he lived not even one minute of peace they say slept like a horse what's sleeping like a horse 15 minutes standing up all the time always looking out what's happening learning Torah and at the same time needing to make sure to man the nation because somebody's probably going to want to kill him any minute whether it's his son or it's the enemy or it's non-stop people wanting to kill him his whole life people chased him even his own father for a while thought that he was AEL his own father his brothers threw him into the uh jungle and let the let the Lions kill him he really only had one sin this is what he's crying to Hashem this is what we cry to Hashem every day did you guys ever read this you read this a million times he really serious he said he can't write this this in the T this is in a t he can't write this if it's a lie he really only had one sin he says look at all the problems that I have but I believe in you hasem and I know you're going to protect me I'm not complaining I'm just saying I have one sin look how much enemies but I still love you regardless of the fact that it's unbalanced and I don't understand why it's so unbalanced I still love you I still know 100% everything is under control this is also a part we have opposite we have one tiny little problem 50,000 sins just between 9 to 5 and we don't think Hashem knows what he's doing no I think a should made a mistake the stock was supposed to go up it had a good earnings cash flow and a great balance sheet I don't know what's going on I don't know what Hashem is doing on this one like we think Hashem makes mistakes every day like he's one of us and we come to AEM with complaints I have a sadik friend what a tadik he told me this m i really learned a lot from him on this thing he tells me you know what I do I never noticed it until you know we had a conversation he goes you know I learned something in the morning you know you see he goes he goes toets and he says you know sometimes in the morning you know guys are not always alert or even if they're alert so you make a mistake theine on your head supposed to be exactly in the middle sometimes somebody has it a little off to the left little off to the right it's not straight because anytime I see it I say I have to correct them but I always think to myself why did hasem let me see his feeling not you know not be straight oh it probably means the might feeling are not straight also so I have to go fix might feeling so he tells him to fix it but he also fixes himself too why didem send me the test because there's something that I need to fix I need to fix my midot I need to fix my character traits I need to fix my learning I need to fix my desires I need to fix my I need to fix every single part of my whole living I need to fix if I'm not fixing that I'm destroying it cannot be nothing if you had nothing to do in this world there's no purpose for you to be here meaning that as long as there's a reason for you to be here you'll live and if you're living that means you have to fix there something you have to fix if it's your if it's your learning Tor if it's your Z if it's your schom if it's youra highly recommend highly recommend last week's sh it's sh number 101 it's about amuna we're not going to go through all of it today but I'm telling you it's probably one of the best shers if not the best sh we've done to explain to people thata is not an option we learned from last week's par that is not just something nice to have we actually get punished for not having auna people always think oh no look at RAB Shalom major sadik teaches about Rabbi laser bro his prote major Rabbi sadik teaches abouta if you actually learn their teaching you realize they're serious people they tell you the Torah but some people just glance at the book they read the first couple of pages the last couple of pages they read the heading of the the title they see a couple of breast love people dancing they think it's uh theim no no no if you actually read the book it says real serious m in it guard of is a serious book if you listen to their lectures they talk about serious things and if you watch the Sha from last week you realize that amuna is not an option it's not optional it's not something oh it's good you have amuna like some people tell me no you know what it's probably easy for you easier for you to have auna than me what easier you're obligated it's an obligation when hasem said I am AEM your God we knew he was God before he said it we knew it's the first commandment we knew already we got there we saw Miracles we saw a pillar of fire was behind us a cloud is carrying us seven clouds around us Egyptians died Egyptians suffered oceans split we knew it was God before he told us and wrote Us in the sky I am God that took you out of Egypt we knew we were there but he was talking abouta he's talking about you're obligated to havea and I give you the tests in your life because you don't have amuna I need to teach you Anda is a muscle how do you grow a muscle you go to the gym you lift weights but if you look at your body under skans after the gym outside just in the mirror looks like you're puffy but if you look at it under skins you'll see that all of your muscles are ripped that's why it's swollen that's why it's bigger but that's what has to happen in order for you to grow you have to rip some muscles in order for you to grow you have to go through difficulty in order for you to achieve your ultimate purpose in life you have to build your amuna it's not optional it's an obligation this is one of the main things we covered in detail last week highly recommend it the problem with this week's parasa with the people in this week's parasa is that not only did they not learn from last week's sh not only do they not have AA but they got to the complet opposite end they thought Hashem made a mistake when someone thinks that Hashem made a mistake all types of gay start controlling him and they went forth with the test despite mosenu even after all of this he's trying to stop them he fell on his face tried praying please don't do this you're going against theem you're not going against me who am I they don't listen not only do they not listen but they walk around with pride when Moshe went to thean and said no please you should stop this they said even if you take our eyes out we're not going to listen meaning they're walking around with a lot of pride a lot of GAA it says here in U chapter 16 verse Hashem spoke to Moses and Aon saying separate yourselves from amid this this assem and I shall destroy them in an instant want to destroy everyone again why because these this one person K influence another two influenced on now you have four the four influenced 250 of the of the leaders became a virus initially it was just a little bit of an illness you a mosquito bite then you have two mosquito bites now you have a little bit of a cough with 250 but now with 250 of the leaders you have a nation you have a revolution everyone's infected can you have a legit cancer inside the nation hasm want to destroy everyone they fell on their faces and said oh God God of the spirits of All Flesh shall one man sin and you be angry with the entire assembly says it start only with one why should everyone be punished but he calls Hashem god of the spirits says why God of the spirits because God of the spirits means he's teaching us here one of the 13 principles of Faith what is that Hashem knows what's inside our hearts you know what it's inside our spirit he knows what we really believe okay some people were vocal about it these 250 leaders they're all vocal about going against Moshe Aon fine but everyone else not everybody became vocal about it some people just kept it inside in their heart they just they hated the rabbi but in secret they were just saying behind his back like you know oh no no you shouldn't go to he just talks about Shabbat all the time they didn't tell him in his face oh wow I hear you doing good wow five minutes later yeah I saw that guy again crazym you know what's in their heart you know if they have a clean heart or they have a of a unclean heart so punish the ones that have an unclean heart not just the ones that uh Hashem accepted his plea which was very similar by the way to The Plea that abam ainu had for the people of Sodom people of Sodom hasm wanted to destroy all of them he says yes but what if there's 50 tadim you're going to destroy a whole city if there's 50 tadim no I won't destroy 50 if there's 45 you're going to destroy them if there's 45 45 is not that much of a difference between 45 and 50 it's only five no I won't destroy 45 what if there's only 40 40 is not that far from 50 if 50 is fine 40 is also fine he kept going kept going to 10 it's hard to find these days I won't destroy him similar Polie similar plea learned from who is he playing for his enemies that's how much mhu loved am he treated them all as the children of Hashem it wasn't about his own interest he's pleading against his own enemy he's not he's not even saying anything no listen punish kak punish them go against no he's saying he's trying to he's like okay one guy made a mistake one man made a mistake okay K fine he made made a mistake he didn't even say the name k said one man one of them made a mistake but not all of them us one guy makes a mistake against us we blame everyone I'm suing everyone this is the nature of people today Hashem spoke to Moses saying speak to the assembly saying get yourselves up from All Around The Dwelling Places of K hasem says stay away go tell everyone to stay away from them and anything that belongs to them so Moses stood up and went to the and the Elders of Israel followed him he spoke to the assembly saying Turn Away now from near the tents of these wicked men and do not touch anything of theirs lest you perish because of all of their sins says okay hasem decided these all of these people right here that going against us Hashem decided their decree is done they they're going against Hashem hasem decided I can't go against him you want to be included in their party stay here you want to not be included in the punishment that's coming to them you have to make you have to make a decision here we learn something very important in English we have an expression you are who your friends are a lot of people that have start doing chuva have a very hard time with their surroundings both women and men have a hard time guys that start doing chuva they start doing chuva but not with all of their friends usually it's one person does chuva maybe one you know two people doing chuva but the rest of their group group are not doing Chua but now they have a problem just two weeks ago they were going to clubs and beaches and casinos with their friends and now they realize that Hashem is real his Torah is real what's going to happen the friends are calling like why you become a sadik overnight what you SCH come to the casino you just came with us last week hashm is not going to care if he didn't care till now he's not going to care now they start making excuses for them is telling you you have to make a choice separate yourself this is why one of the most important things when you do Chua you have to separate from your best friends unless you could influence them this you cannot do in the beginning usually when you start doing cha first you have to work on your own soul first you have to build yourself learn some toah learn how to deal with the Heretics because they're going to ask you questions because you start wearing a keepa everyone thinks you're do everyone thinks you're a big sadik what do you mean how do you not know something wrong with the tah what do you mean how do I not know I've only been learning toah for three months what do you expect me to know the entire T my heart no see there's something wrong with it and what happens you start thinking maybe there is something wrong with it you fall with I have this young girl she's going to such a t honestly I don't know if I will be able to withstand it if I was early on in my CH I don't know if I'll be able to do it she learned that human beings are not animals especially when they're holy when they're women a woman must have clothes on you cannot walk around like people think is normal today which is pretty much half your body is shown to the world can't walk around with these t-shirts and tank tops and mini skirts and tube tops and bikinis all of that stuff is called meaning that it's a woman that's wearing this clothes whether she's 300 lb or she's a model is irrelevant she's making other people sin by looking at her she cannot walk around not not a uh you know not modest but in this wicked generation that we have today this sadika is watching and she says listen I start becoming modest wearing long skirts wearing long sleeve shirts you know I'm covering my body respecting the diamond that hasem created you don't go see uh you know even even if if you look at the world in a Lo in a logical way if you look at the Queen of England she does not she's not Jewish I don't think she ever read the Torah but you're never going to see the Queen of England walking around with a minis skirt not even when she was young you're never going to see her walking around with a tank top not even when she was young as a matter of fact she's sometimes a she's sometimes even atw she puts gloves on too she covers our hair she covers our body why because that's the way you treat a princess or a queen every Jewish woman is a queen you have to start acting like it so this young girl says listen I'm having it from all sides first family family is saying no what are you walking around like this uh raban all of a sudden it's not like us instead of encouraging her wow it's really nice you're protecting yourself you're respecting yourself you don't look like a prostitute anymore you look like a respectable human being what I say no no you don't look like one of us you should what do you mean you don't look so you wanted to walk around half naked and this is what we started this year with when emotions are involved there's no common sense anyone that has any common sense whatsoever realize that the more modest a woman is the more respectable she looks this is actually even in the secular world I just read something the uh Mark Mark Zuckerberg the CEO of Facebook he doesn't do many things right in his life especially when it comes to Judaism or Israel but he actually did something right recently he made a new law for Facebook for the company of Facebook you're not allowed to walk around not modest you have to cover yourself cuz you're distracting to the rest of the employees where did he learn this from I don't know if you ever read to in his life but it's common sense a woman that walks around not modest it's getting the attention of everyone around her according to the Torah when that attention is a sexual attention which is always from a guy unless the guy's a homosexual which is a different level of sin you have yourself a problem you you are causing other people to to sin so this family family upside down family they have no clue what's right what's left they tell no no you should take off your clothes she fights she fights she fights constantly with them now she got a job she got a job and every girl in a job in this new job half naked all the time it could be winter it could be summer they're always half naked says what do I do what's the test what do I do here so I told her something that I thought was really uh simple but I guess it she liked it I thought listen why are you doing this why are you why would a woman be modest cuz I want to do the will of hem why do you want to do the will of AEM cuem chose me to be one of his chosen people and as a Jewish woman I'm a princess not a regular person I said exactly so you have to look at it as you're a princess and everyone else around you is not she goes yeah but what if they make fun of me who cares just think of it it's like the monkey making fun of a human being for not jumping around and eating a banana while he's upside down what would you care if a monkey made fun of you for not eating a banana upside down why would you care he's a monkey same thing with these people if they're half naked there's not too different from the monkey why because M they're not acting like human beings human beings are not supposed to be half naked or completely naked I think within a couple of generations if not less we're going to walk around completely naked in this world honestly it's if you see how we've you know destroyed modesty over the last 30 or 40 years I wouldn't be surprised if people walk around start walking around naked but she said you know what this it's it's funny way to look at it but she says you know what it actually helps me mentally where I realize I'm doing this because I am a princess and I'm doing the will of hem anyone that's making fun of it is only making fun of it because they're still in the monkey world they're still acting like an animal so they have no idea aide that they're over there and they're and I'm here it's not even a matter of thinking you're better than everyone it's knowing you are when you're doing the will of hem you are better than the average camera stick the whole box and it amen there's also many over there it's like a whole tray of it it's a whole tray of cookies over there too the water was hiding so all right so now the climax is despite going to the T the T not only don't listen but it says the went out erect they walk around into the show with their heads High thinking yeah we're going to win this thing thinking they're going to become leaders tomorrow verse 25 uh 28 says Moses said through this shall you know that hasem sent me to perform all these acts that it was is not from my heart after this test is done you're going to know for sure that nothing came from my own opinion and this is what I constantly tell people in all of the shim especially when we talk about hard things that this generation has no clue about for example when uh it's okay when I tell people that Shabbat a Jewish person that violates Shabbat is not considered Jewish meaning that they they put their Judaism on suspension obviously if they start keeping Shabbat they don't have to do conversion to become Jewish again but according to the Torah a Jew that violate Shabbat openly meaning he's not uh by accid accident drives on Shabbat smokes cigarettes watches TV plays with his phone according to they cut off from the nation this is this is in 12 places in the Tor in in the Tor it's all over the it's all over the it's in a people take this personally what do you mean I'm not Jewish I'm more Jewish than you I said I don't know if you're more or less Jewish than me but if you don't keep Shabbat this is what hasem said and some people take this personally I think it's from you so that's why lately what I've been trying to do is provide some sources I read this actually about a week or two ago but there's a few of the things it says about Shabbat and the reason why I mentioned Shabbat is because the most severe situation that we have in our generation today where most people don't even know what Shabbat is especially in comparison to the magnitude of the sin so rambam wrote Shabbat 30 someone who transgresses any of the mitv of the Tor is still considered a Jew or by the wicked one meaning someone make SS forgot to do forgot to do forgot to do before they eat forgot to pray didn't want to pray ate non kosher all types of sins that we have still considered a Jew made a sin a wicked he's wicked Jew he's still a Jew but someone who publicly desecrates Shabbat is considered for all Al purposes to be on the level of the member of the idolatrous nation not only is he not considered Jewish he's considered 100% Idol worshipper I did a sh about a year and a half ago a little over a year ago maybe in New York explaining it's Shure number 50 very popular Shure sh number 50 explaining why every single time Hashem talks about the desecration of Shabbat right next to it either right before right after he talks about idol worship y can that person if that person shows up and show on Shabbat after he made this public um Public Announcement that he's not observing the Shabbat that person let's say show up in in the show let's say 2 weeks later can you give him can you give him a Leah according according to someone not to give him anah but if he even plans to keep Shabbat he starts Shabbat you know doesn't matter what he did last week Shabbat he starts Friday he says I'm going to keep the Shabbat if he even intends to keep Shabbat as long as he intends to keep Shabbat you're allowed to give him aah um and if he ends up break breaking it later on it's fine it's not good obviously for him but you still did okay in our generation that they're not really on the issue of Aliah because so many of the people of am is are not keeping Shabbat at this point that if you didn't give them any Aliah there's no chance anyone would ever come to sh at all they barely come to sh as it is uh so if you don't give them alyah they won't come at all really according to you're not allowed to give a someone what you're supposed to do is you're supposed to give them on if it's on Shabbat you're supposed to give them the the the additions meaning not the first seven but ones that you add on top of it so it's not the core seven yeah that's not yeah it's not or something like that uh but in general what most people don't know including religious people is that if someone is driving on Shabbat playing with their phone on Shabbat watching TV on Shabbat you know is desecrating Shabbat openly they are not only not considered Jewish anymore they're considered an idol worshipper and this is the reason this is what we talked about in in New York is that this is the reason why every single time it talks about violation of Shabbat right next to it it talks about idol worship because to hasem someone that's an idol worshipper that bought a statue from Chinatown for 50 bucks and praise to it it's the same exact thing as someone that drives on Shabbat same thing to him to him it's the same thing the same reason why homosexuality every time it mentions homosexuality in the Torah it mentions beastiality having sex with animals now in our generation even though there's at least two to three million people in the world that have sex with animals openly there is it's statistically but there is it's still not normal still not normal that if you hear somebody had sex with an animal you know it's not normal it's really uh if you have if you have a uh a little bit of a heart your a conscience you think this guy is crazy but homosexuality today it's not only that it's become normal it's celebrated oh we came out of the closet what stay in the closet according to the Torah bity and homosexuality same thing same thing so for all of those people that are born with a desire for the same sex I understand I'm not judging you but the reality of it is is just because you have a desire does not mean you have to act on it okay I understand you're born that way not born that way doesn't really matter some people are born with a desire to see blood they have an option option A be a murderer option b be a surgeon option see be a butcher you everyone has desires you can use it for good or for bad that's it you don't have to act on your desires so R here rambam here says that I wasn't making this up all this all this time of the last couple years of doing shim when I said that someone desecrate Shabbat is not considered Jewish he's actually much worse he says no not only is he not considered Jewish considered an idol worshipper because not Jewish is actually a good you know fine it's for you someone a Noah hide a Noah hide keeps the seven laws of Noah according to the has a share of the world to come they have so you're not considered like them no they they're the righteous people of the Nations someone is not considered like a gentile no shom they consider an idol worshipper an idol worshipper it doesn't get worse than that it says many other things but I've gone over it before but this is not only the only this is not the only place also over here it says um someone who desecrate Shabbat is considered to have denied the truth of the entire Torah and is given Al stattic status of a non-jew some scheme rule that this stringency applies even to someone who publicly performs acts that are sages forbade us to do meaning some people say okay listen if I light fire I understand okay that's a but then uh that's biblical it's the but what if I just played with my phone play with my phone that's actually ranan M phone is considered M you're not allowed to do it it's also considered a form of electricity but it's not really electricity so it's in essence it's a it's a rabinal sin it's not a Biblical sin so here it says this is yakut It's not like some book I found in bars & Nobles y says no some of the major in all of the generations are saying that even if someone intentionally sins with rabinal sins is considered a non-jew it's not just the it's not just the uh biblical ones it's also even rabinal even though he has not publicly performed any act that the Torah forbids he has lost his status as a Jew and is considered an idolor according to and this is in and we knowel one of the greatest sages that ever lived this are serious people so the point I'm trying to make this whole book is full of this but the point I'm trying to make is that when someone starts using their own opinion there's no end there's no end to the nonsense that could evolve from it and this is what happened here with kak he used his own opinion to think I should be a leader I'm rich I'm smart I'm righteous I'm this I'm that I'm that he influenced a bunch of people Everyone fell with him so what happened over here at the climax of this event as soon as Moses finished warning the people says Moses said oh actually after after you read that after this you'll know that's not for my uh that it wasn't for my heart if these di like the death of all men meaning if all these people that are going against me and really against theem they die like all men meaning they die natural death and the destiny of all man is visited upon them then it is not AEM who sent me meaning that if they if they don't die right now if they die natural death tomorrow next week 20 years from now 50 years from now then Hashem didn't you're right they win the argument I made everything up but if will create a phenomenon and the ground will open its mouth and swallow them and all that is theirs and they will descend alive to sh then you shall know that these men have provoked AEM says here I'm asking for hem to get involved if the ground swallows them and takes them to sh of hell right this is hell so so people always ask where do you see G in the Tora right here all these fake religious people they say no no every every Jew is a part of the okay yes there's two parts there's a good one there's a bad one if you actually read the rest of that Mish which is is a continuation and these are the people who do not have share of the world to come and has a list of people do not have a share of the world to come that's whym did what he had to do more Generations that come they could see this is why he wrote in the and he's specifically telling you they're not just getting pun not just getting killed like the last few people we had a bunch of people die last week we had a bunch of people die week before go no no no these ones these specific ones they're going to sh sh is one of the names of G so no one can say there's no such thing as Gom in the Tor is a serious place of G so like ground swallow you never come out of there right if you end up there if you go to that place you're not coming out whoever goes there does not come out I think it's talks about it as a says they don't come out of it K and his congregants his followers they don't come out of this they don't come out of sha they stay there forever and what are they saying the whole time hem is everything is truth aem's signature is everything that was said is true we're wrong and they're suffering and getting burned and getting home non-stop but RAB elzar and rabud bet say no there's maybe a tun for K and his people maybe there is a t eventually for them to come out a little that's maybe a mhia comes maybe after we're not really sure but going to learn not to do thanks to them because of that because of that yeah so this is actually also the reason why ham H that tried to annihilate the entire Jewish Nation why his descendants actually became bigad converted to Judaism became big why because he made the entire nation of of am do chuv overnight so even though he was wicked himself and his sons were Wicked he still had Merit that he forced am to do chuv overnight and his descendants benefited out of it Hashem pays hem is em hem pays reward hm pays punishment it's one of the 13 principles of faith of Judaism 13 things you have to believe and in order to be Jewish is in not be considered a heretic is that there is a reward and Punishment Hashem pays the righteous the reward and hasem pays the wicked also the wicked he pays them their punishment and the righteous gives them their reward so now after all of as soon as he finished telling them when he finished speaking all of these words meaning it's specifically saying as soon as he finished the last word it wasn't like it was 15 minutes or 2 hours later as soon as he completed the sentence Hashem is going to decide Hashem is going to prove this that's the ground opened the ground the ground that was under them split open the Earth opened its mouth and swallowed them in their household and all the people who were with kak and their entire wealth and then later on it says and a flame came forth from asem and consumed the 250 men who were offering the incense so now there's two actions here first it's kak his family with the exception of his sons his sons did chuva his sons did chuva in the last moment before this whole thing happened and that's why there's several there several Psalms which we praise them we praise the sons of korak because the sons of kak did a very difficult CH they made a very difficult choice because they had to pick between their own father and all the money in the world and Truth now when you have the In the Heat of battle you're not really sure what's the truth sometimes but I said listen if Hashem picked Moshe Hashem doesn't make mistakes we'll lose all of our wealth we're not going to be part of the will we're not going to have any inheritance we're going to be homeless as of today we're going to be homeless because as soon as you go against your own father publicly that's it your allowance is no long they're done so you're choosing to be homeless just to be right righteous so they made a very very very difficult decision and that's why we praised them in in Psalm several times but as soon as the uh this happened the ground opened swallowed korak and then later on shortly later the flame came forth and burned the 250 men so this is two separate actions the ground swall and their families whoever didn't do Chua the wives and so on and then a fire came out and burned the 250 leaders why why is it say why didn't the ground just swallow all of them yeah a nice which makes a lot of sense Hashem broke it up to explain to us a little bit of M says who started all of this they started it they got punished first those leaders follow them so you know that they were doing something wrong they were going against Moshe I chose Moshe says I chose Moshe I wrote the Torah I gave Moshe the Torah you're saying when you're saying that Moshe Ru is making a mistake you're saying that hasem made a mistake so just like you followed the heresy that kak was saying you also follow kak right into G if you went together that means that you were equal no you were a follower in the Sin you'll be a follower in G also and this is something that M we need to understand you have to really be careful with who you follow in your life who your friends are who your wife is who your rabbis are who your teachers are someone that doesn't have someone doesn't have fear of hem not allowed to teach T their Torah is considered to their Torah is considered disgusting if you see a rabbi someone that calls himself a rabbi and they don't have they their head is in the sky they have a lot of Gava Pride the Torah says a few things about them in page 45 says this is referring to someone who learned a lot of Tor but is a gan is someone with uh bad uh character trait of gav of Pride similar to what korak had said his Torah the one that knows a lot of Torah the Torah of korak it's not from sham it's not from sham it's a different Torah why because if you learned my Torah says there's no way that he would have pride because to constantly talks about how you're not allowed to have pride so if you have pride because you know a few gar by heart you know a few Mish by heart you know a few lines a few verses by heart or even if you know the whole thing by heart you're acting like your God's gift to man your Torah it's not from sham you read like a history book you didn't learn anything that was the problem of kak also Page 6 B one of the punishments of people like that is that eventually their Torah and their wisdom escapes them it says about three people hasem cries over each day there's a moment during a day that Hashem cries over certain people and one of them is someone that's a servant of the public meaning a rabbi or a teacher of some kind who's prideful and handles his job as as such meaning he has pride and even during his job he's showing that he has Pride he shows like as if he's a uh something special comes there'll be a lot of rabbis are going to Le people enough unfortunately yes unfortunately scary page five it says every man who's prideful is like the Asher tree what's the Asher tree Asel tree is like the idol worship tree it's in the Tora in the book of Jeremiah in uh and also one the five books of Moses I believe it's actually in the book of uh Leviticus uh and the uh yeah the Hanukah tree they have today and also the Christmas tree this is the source of why we're not allowed to have trees in our house yeah unfortunately there's something called a hanuka tree which these reformed Jews created that uh they have a tree during Hanukah now you're not not go and not Jews are allowed to ever have a tree in the house that is a uh ISB symbolizes some type of a uh right it's the symbolizing some form of idol worship and the source of it is in the toah it says that a person that has Pride acts with a lot of pride is the same thing just like that Idol that people put in their house during Christmas just like the idol that people put throughout different holidays throughout the world person with pride is the same thing like that Idol both of them are disgusting to me Hashem says both of them are disgusting even having those Buddhas in in the homes huh yeah Buddhas not buildings have it like in the lobby in the lobbies like a little statue thing I don't even maybe Buddha yeah there's a few the whole talks about whether you're even allowed to enter such a place or not whether if uh whether you're allowed to benefit from it or not as a matter of fact it says in this page that's open here page 40 the Mish says one is prohibited to benefit from an object that has been used even once for idol worship all images are prohibited because they're worshiped once a year these are the words of but the sages say no image is prohibited except one that has in its hand a staff or a bird or a sphere says all also any image that has anything in its hand is prohibited for benefit so obviously this is a very big mishna we could talk about it for hours but the point is I I'll say two points about this one is that he's saying any image that has anything to do with idol worship not allowed anything that has anything to do with idol worship you're not to benefit from it what does it mean not to benefit from it not obviously not allowed to worship it but also not even allowed to sell it what about so the ones that sell pictures of the the rabbi in New York if it's if that if the picture if the picture is being is being worshiped they're not allowed to do it it's it's a big problem with that obviously the the the picture is not intended for worship if people are stupid enough to worship a picture stupid enough to worship a rabbi then they deserve the the the punishment they get but uh if uh if and this is the full truth if people are uh realized that Torah specifically talks about not allowing to worship rabbis not allowed to worship people not allowed to worship anything but God and then they'll wake up it says here specifically is that you're not even allowed to benefit in any way in anything that was ever worshiped meaning that even if it was some I don't know some picture that was woried or some statue that was worshiped by somebody else not you somebody else worshiped it you're not even allowed to have it in your house not allowed to get it as a gift you're not to sell it not to benefit from it in any way but also this this is very interesting if you noticed it says that says the sages say that uh the image is only not allowed if the image if the person in the image is holding a sphere why is holding a sphere so explains because the sphere if a person is holding a sphere it's like the image of a king holding the world as if he's controlling the world so you say why a sphere because because the world is round and the sphere is round what does this tell us Christopher Columbus wasn't the one that discovered that the world is round 300 years ago kazal already knew it 2 years ago this what it says in the just like the world is round the sphere is round says this page 40 40 and it also continues into page 41 A this is 2,000 years ago it's talking about completely something different but you get knowledge within the knowledge this why I told you about it never ends one little tiny verse we could learn for five years and we're still not going to understand understand anything we're still not going to understand the whole he's telling you it was like a side little bit of information we didn't even pay attention to it you didn't pay attention Okay it's a statue to hold the sphere what's the big deal okay it's a statue hold a sphere hold a bird hold a stick what do you care bird stone says no the sphere why the sphere why do they care about the sphere all of a sudden says because the sphere represents the world and if he's holding a sphere it's like he's representing like he's holding the whole world like why they holding the whole world how do you know it's the whole world cuz the world is round the sphere is round book that was written 2,000 years ago all this teaching we had in History Class complete waste of time why because they said Columbus discovered the world is not is round it's a complete lie just read it's in several places this is this is this is unbelievable but that that's the main thing we have to understand the tah is never never ending now to finalize all of this this I want to say a couple of stories to explain to you how all of this disaster happened we have on one end someone that's wise Rich powerful some say righteous some says wife got to be doing we're going to go into that all the good qualities you could possibly have end up where taking him and all of his friends to the worst part there ever be G the place there's no recovery from how could it be you're righteous you're rich you just hang out do nothing you're still going to go to ganeden keep your mitv do keep Shabbat eat kosher give a little you're going to ganeden what are you getting yourself into so much trouble says a woman can build a woman can can destroy in the beginning of the par if you remember it's it mentioned an extra person that's not mentioned at the end it mentioned a person by name of on was mentioned in the beginning as one of the leaders but then later in the par when it talks about the final battle and the final punishment he's not mentioned so says where did he go says oh his wise wife his wise wife saved him how'd she save him she said to him listen what's the what's it to you ifu is the leader you still own B you're still a regular if kak wins you're still you're still nothing changes for you so why join this war he says yeah you're right you know what I never thought about it I was already in the heat of the battle In the Heat of the battle there so much emotion you can't see clearly just but how could I say no now I already told them I'm going to join them she says don't worry I'll take care of it say how what are you going to do go I'll take care of it so yuchi says the what she do she stood in the in the front door waiting for for kak and his people to come and she took off her K she took off her K as soon as korak and all of his people came they saw a woman not covering our hair they ran away what does this mean that even as wicked as they were and as off as they were with their decision to go against hem and Moshe and Aon they still couldn't deal with the fact of of doing anything with someone who has a wife that's not willing to cover a hair and they saw this from Far because back then didn't have wigs if they she had a wig they wouldn't know she's not covering her hair this is also one of the sources of why we know that the original covering of the hair the way the only way really that according to that it wasn't a to of covering the hair is with a scarf or a hat of some kind the whole wig situation last week I got someone to curs me out online that watched the SHO and stopped the section that I mentioned things about wigs and how even the people even the Pim that permitted it permitted wigs for ashkanazi no one no sapharic Rabbi in history that's a p it's a major P has ever permitted any sapharic to wear a wig let's let's just go another so anyone that's a spartic wearing a wig has nothing to rely on the ashkanazi that rely on the few sche that have mentioned that wigs are okay also have an issue why what's the issue is that what they permitted and what's being worn today are two completely different things Rabbi orach mentioned that when the first woman arrived to Jerusalem with a wig which he says even a blind person would know that that wig that she was wearing was a wig because it looked more like a uh broom than it did a wig he said when when she came to Jerusalem with the wig they started throwing stones on her call calling her a sinner and even that they didn't allow so today's wig when the wigs look better than Natural Born hair obviously there's a problem but nonetheless Whoever has Whoever has this uh issue with wigs or or uh orur again it's not my opinion my opinion is irrelevant these are all the biggest PIM in the world this is all based on Tora and also here in our one of the sources of where we know that K is supposed to be a uh you know some type of scarf or some type of uh a hat that covers the hair and not a wig this is from this par and this woman saved him even from these Wicked people why because even as wicked as they were they still couldn't handle the fact of seeing a woman a married woman not wearing a that's this woman built him she with her simple simple act she didn't really do anything big deal what she tell him listen don't go it's not exactly genius she didn't tell him listen let's uh ReDiscover the wheel again you know she didn't do anything she just told him don't go because you don't win anything out of it says why why is this such a big deal because she she took action by putting herself on a line and saving a husband on the other hand is is is the wife of korak wife of korak was full of GAA full of Pride and she's the one that Lit him up the whole time why she wanted to be married to G she wanted to be married to the number one person she wanted to be married to the guy that's telling everybody what to do he was rich that's fine but Moses had the power that's that's not enough for me it's not enough for me to be rich it's not enough for me to have tent cleaning ladies it's not enough for me to have a penthouse in every city in uh you know in the world I also want to have Fame so she want her husband to be like mosenu and she threw him under the fire for it and she ended up going G home with him so now the significance of a woman and her decisions has endless consequences in the um it mentions two distinct women two distinct women the wife of raban and the wife of RAB AKA both of them had completely different lives was one ofa's students completely different lives and completely different outcomes the wife of R was her name a story is mentioned in a few garot one of them is in page 18 it's also mentioned I believe a few stories about and a few other places but buah didn't really like her role as a wife she wanted to be a she wanted to be a sage so she dedicated her life to learning T like a husband she didn't want to play her role in the world of being the supporting tadik for the tadik she wanted to be a sage and she got to a very very high level of Tor our our husband was a big sadik and our our father was also a major sadik one of the greatest sages that ever lived so she she came from a good place and she was in a good place but instead of focusing on building a home she focused on developing her Tora and making that her number one role all the way to the point that she actually would start she even proved that R was wrong on a couple of occasions and she even kicked the chair of one of the uh one of his uh students when uh she saw that the student is studying T but he's studying the Tor to himself meaning that he's reading he's not reading it out loud he's just looking at it like most of us read a book we just look and looks like nothing's happening he said if you want if you're really studying T you have to not only move your lips but you have to talk out loud speak out loud that way when you learn Tor you're hitting multiple senses first there's movement so that's touch then you have if you make a sound and that's your ear and also using your vision so instead of just one sense you're using three senses makes it easier to remember the toah that you're learning so she saw one of the students just learning T just to himself she kicked the chair she goes what are you doing just wasting your time so she was a big as far as big but by not playing your role and focusing on a different role can sometimes get to the best of you and it got to the best of her one day there was an argument said listen uh the woman is known to have a woman in general a female is known to have an um much uh a personality that's easier to influence meaning it's much easier to influence a woman than it is to influence a man so she laughed at it this is this is the sage is talking about it's not like a bunch of uh you know little kids talking kazal talks this is comes from Mount saai it's not a uh just a few people giving their opinion you can't make fun of anything like that and she she's like ah no such thing look at me I know more than some of these sages so was forced to give her a test why for the protection of the Torah the honor of the Torah he goes no I'm going to prove to you that it's easier to fool and to convince a woman than is to convince a man she goes no way now he had to do it because this is for the honor of the Torah this is for sh why because if she could just say no this saying of the sages is wrong it could be like creates what do you mean if you're saying one major Foundation of the Tora is wrong who says the rest of it is right this is a foundation of the Tor from M SI created a woman this way so gave her a serious test and the commentaries explain what was the test he sent her one of his t one of his students to entice her to sleep with him to tempt her once twice few times and eventually she fell eventually she was ready to do it and as soon as she was ready to do it obviously the student this is one of the students of wasn't going to actually sleep with her this was only to test to show her that she's easy to convince she's going to fall for a test and they uh you know they the sages came in and you know this uh keeping her modesty obviously but they show the seed that you're easy to convince just like any other woman she was proven wrong and that decision to go against the sages that decision to not focus on her role in the world led her to commit suicide she couldn't handle it she couldn't handle it she hung herself she couldn't handle it on another hand we have a different woman in the gar the wife of when we say ra we also talking about Rael the wife of Raba not just ra menu from the forefathers The Matriarch why because made a big decision she saw a man that was cleaning the horses for our father her father was kala one of the rich men of the land one of the three people that financed the entire nation but she saw that one of his workers has really good midot really good character traits it's very hard to find someone with naturally good character traits he was very merciful to the animals he was generous he was understanding this is the type of man I want to marry yeah but he's divorced he doesn't know how to read or write he hates religion CU nobody has good character traits we can work on the rest she wanted to marry AA Divorced with a son illiterate and 40 years old and broke what was the condition go learn Torah if you go learn Torah I'll marry you obviously her father kalba did not like this any you know in any way shape or form his princess daughter he's going to go marry the horse cleaner who's illiterate older than her divorced and hates religion kab was sadik he wasn't R but she goes with it because she has the feeling that this is is the right choice she sends to Yesa 12 years 12 years she's surviving on her own cuz her father cut her off after she made this decision he cut her off she has to live off of nothing gets to the point where she has to sell her hair her hair in order to eat after 12 years riaa comes back and he overhears a conversation of this Rasha that's talking to his wife saying look your husband left you he's probably not coming back how could he leave you with no money how could he leave you with no no security he left you just with problems why don't you come with me he's trying to entice her she says if my husband was able to hear me he would do what I want and what do I want I want him to go back and learn for another 12 years R AKA because of the honor of his wife did not even say hello he turned around immediately and went back to the K went back to Yesa for another 12 years this is the decision of his wife 2 24 years later the city announces a big Rabbi is coming to town Rabbi comes to town with 24,000 students the biggest Rabbi in history other than mosenu 24,000 students were his least student the lowest level of all of his students lowest level not only knew the entire Tor by heart but was able to revive the Dead the lowest student was able to bring back the dead from his Kusa AKA comes with 24,000 students now no one knows that this is AA no one knows this is AKA from 24 years ago there's no it's a big giant sage and you got 24,000 students no one has 24,000 students today I think the biggest Rabbi in the world maybe has four or 5,000 which is still huge but not 24,000 especially not those type of students one of his students one of his least student knows more T than the entire world today they combined that's how much to they know he's coming to town with 24,000 of them sees this and he comes ra sees this and she comes Kal doesn't think her father doesn't think any he just think it's a big Rabbi he wants a blessing but he also wants this Rabbi this holy Rabbi to cancel out his n to cancel out his his vow that he made 24 years ago of disowning his daughter and her husband because she married this loser and he needs a big Rabbi to cancel out the vow Rael knows it's a husband how does she know just like she knew he could be a just like she knew it's a good investment to send him to learn t for 24 years she knew it's a husband coming with the 24,000 students which when they come into town she jumps into the crowd to come in front of now she's this looks like this little miserable woman she has no hair she sold her hair her you know she's not exactly in good shape so the students are you know trying to stay away lady says no let her in all of the Tor that all of you have is hers none of this Torah that I know none of the Torah that you know none of the Torah that we're learning today would not be possible without ra making the decision to send her husband to yes for years when showed up says he doesn't know it's him I made a mistake I made a vowa says so this uh husband of hers if you knew he's going to be like a rabbi one day would you still diser because no I would never disown her even if he knew how to just a little bit of Tor forget it doesn't even need to be a rabbi just a little bit of Tora I would never I would never disown he goes oh okay then don't worry your vow is canceled because your your vow is based on misled information and by the way I'm your son-in-law on the spot he gave him half his we and he also R AA became the richest man of the nation because he got wealth from a few other places but this is the difference between a Fortune of two women both married to sikim both surrounded by Torah bu knew a lot more Tor than ra did but bu didn't mind her business bu wanted to become one of the guys she didn't want to play her role a role is to support her husband sent him to learn Tora she wanted to be like him knew her role she wanted to support a husband to go learn T instead of calling him 50 times why he's in a t she's saying honey keep your phone in the car so no one's going to bother you could learn Tor instead of telling them honey oh you're going to go to sh isn't it two hours it's too long why don't you stay here with the kids what' she do she'd call them at 6:00 in the afternoon honey remember you have a Sho to 8:00 make sure you're in the shoe on time instead of tell honey why don't you stay home with me today hang out with the kids said honey instead of doing nothing all day like a loser why don't you go to the why don't you go to the BET mid why don't you watch some why you learn some T do something with yourself playing with your kids you could play for an hour it's enough go learn some Tor fulfill your purpose in the world this is the difference between when a woman is fulfilling her role all she wants is a husband to learn T why because everyone wins when he learns T when he learns tah and it's the real Tor everyone wins when he doesn't learn Torah everyone loses and that's one of the major issues that we have here in this Paras that when a woman influ influenced a man against Torah he was very easy maneuverable this is actually also written in the Torah I believe this is in uh some over I think I wrote it yeah it's a Jeremiah it's Jeremiah somewhere in Jeremiah just don't remember the verse that uh verse 3122 says that a woman will Revol you know make a man revolve around her she'll run circles around him this is actually L literally in the tah if one woman wants to influence a man it's no problem this is in nature this is part of Creation in Proverbs it says the the verse 141 chapter 14:1 says the wise among women each built their house but the foolish one tears it down with their own hands meaning we're almost finished anyway meaning that a woman that understands the significance of Tor is going to push a husband to build their house with toah but the the foolish one the one who doesn't know the significance of a husband learning Torah the significance of our children learning Torah her decisions are going to destroy our own house so this is one of the most important parts that we need to learn about this par number one someone's pride told us wrote us the Gava of a person is going to lead to his downfall the G of a person pride of a person thinking he knows too much thinks he has too much thinking anything beyond HIM lead to his disaster that's number one number two stop using your own opinion the sages the Patriarchs the matriarchs the prophets AEM all smarter than you all know more than you don't make your own and make sure you're not surrounded by people that do either why because you are who your friends are you are who your friends are if you're going to be able to do K to help them do chv by all means do it but make sure they're not infecting you because that's what happened to all the people that surrounded themselves with K it started with kak the then 250 and then later on this par the people were got got so upset even after the death they started revolting against Moshe saying oh this is a started complaining against them Hashem sent the plague and killed another 14,700 people who stopped it Aon Aon stopped it so again this became a disease this is why hasem had to punish kak and a 250 was such a horrible punishment because heresy being a heretic can infect too many people to such a point where it destroys their eternity Hashem has to destroy it right away he lets some of it exist in world today because that's part of the test but if that person has no purpose will punish them right away and if that person is going after the wrong people that don't deserve that test Hashem will destroy them right away so you have to make sure that you surround yourself with good people last but not least when it comes to marriage when it comes to finding a z or when it comes to dealing with your wife it has to be known in every house Torah is an actual serious priority in the house if you teach that and live that Hashem will do the rest for you but if you treat the Torah like it's a hob you're just going to study whenever you have a chance all types of nonsense can happen in your life and then we go back to hasm and complain to him unjustifiably we have 50,000 sins he gives us one small test and we're complaining to him like we're so it has to be the opposite we learn T we do what wants and we all do any questions can can one view the Torah as being their wife as well and the wife is obligated to to learn toah also no the Tor the Torah itself can one view the the Torah was viewed as's daughter and and we marry hasem I mean we we marri the Torah so can one view the whoever as one's wife to help you know do sure absolutely but obviously there's also has to be a uh you know a real wife of course a uh you know wife because we're we're obligated with p uh men are actually obligated with P Bo to make to bring children in the world but women are not correct uh and every great must must have a wife why because the the wisdom after marriage versus the wisdom before marriage are two completely different wisdoms one has experience one with that experience uh so each one of us has to continue trying to find a right partner but nonetheless you definitely do need to treat the tah as as a wife and as a big part of you big part of your life that you can't live without the uh whatever analogy you want to use to to do that by all means you should because it's a uh the closer you get to it meaning the closer you feel to it spiritually the more you uh the more uh connected you are to it and the more you're going to have when you're learning when you learn every day and you must like really exert effort you'll see a lot more a lot more uh uh that you'll discover and a lot more understanding than learning even more time but just in a smaller amount of time meaning if you learn every day for an hour at seven hours a week you'll learn more that way then even if you learn one day 24 hours but nothing the rest of the week why because when you're feeding your soul a little bit every day it becomes healthier and healthier whereas when you starve it the whole week and just feed it to you know stuff it one day it's a uh it's not a healthy diet put it that way so when you treat it like a wife like you mentioned obviously you want the marriage to work you have to treat it good anything else amen I'm in [Music]