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we're in the parashat a cave and we
learn in this polish' about a very
special Mitzvah that everybody's aware
of and everybody does that and that's
the mitzvah of mezuzah I learned that at
the end of the parasha and so many
people the mitzvoth mezuzah is a little
bit of enigma like it's kind of one of
the only mitzvah that has like a remedy
in it
most people they they also they always
like different remedies and there are
different almonds but me twelve mezuzah
is unique because it has a certain power
with it and people know it whether
they're observant or not many Jews
they're not observant and they still put
a misses on the door because they know
that a moose is a mezuzah brings the
blessing into the house and not only
blessing into the house is also bling
brings a guard guards the house so it's
a mitzvah that it has a certain power to
it that that yeah of course Rhys is a
big great question that we're not
supposed to do a mitzvah
for the sake of the reward and if the
middle of mezuzah has a power of
guarding and not only that it's known to
be a mitzvah that brings blessing into
the house and if I'm doing the Mitzvah
for the sake of the blessing of the
guarding or for the reward then it's
kind of contradicting the fact of doing
the Mitzvah so comes to questions that
we want to address today specifically
because of this Mitzvah mezuzah and like
I said many people that are not
observant they they also put mrs. oats
remember when I became observant I
barely was doing anything I didn't know
about anything but when I moved into a
new home oh I have to put missiles out
everybody knows I went bought a
beautiful miss risotto every door posts
in my house and I know even then that
bought expensive miss resort so you go
now into houses of many many Jews even
there was another observant there's
always gonna be a missiles on the door
and one way it's a easy mitzvah all you
need to do is bite once and put it on
the door but people know I'm a Sousa has
a strength power to it it's guarding the
house it brings blessing to the house so
comes two big questions that we want to
address today the first one is why
specifically this Mitzvah brings the
guarding and the blessing to the house
by not filling or why not a tallit or
books of a Torah why specifically the
Mitzvah of mezuzah brings blessing into
the house and since I know that the
Mitzvah of mezuzah bring brings blessing
and Gardens got a guard guards brings a
guidance and security in the house so if
I'm allowed to do the Mitzvah because
they want to get the reward
I'm putting the mezuzah not only because
I was commanded because I know it guards
the house and if it brings blessing into
the house the question is if I'm allowed
to do the Mitzvah just for the sake of
the reward and for the sake of that it's
going to guard my house now just so we
understand a little bit of what's going
on in the parasha
and this week's polish opera shot a key
with the third polish i into the book of
volume and the first few Powershot in
the book of the limb is the goodbye
moshe rabbeinu so to say the will of
moshe rabbeinu is giving a speech in
Hebrews called in the oom Plata he knows
he's about to die he knows that's it
changing of the shifts now you're sure
is going to take over and he's giving so
to say like will over yeah a farewell
and there's a you know it's called like
more like a wheel he's telling them
first he was rebuking them in the parish
at over him and then he's giving over
like a farewell speech and this is the
first time that we find in the Torah
that Moshe Rabbeinu is saying clearly
that the Mitzvahed are it's worth doing
them it doesn't say that he usually he
says the mid-water commandments of
Hashem and so forth this is the first
time the Moshe when you actually tells
them it will bring your blessing in in
the physical world it's good for you to
do them it's what a lot of people when
you try to convince them to do a mitzvah
they'll tell you why should I do it why
should I put Phil in on so you want to
tell them it's a commandment from God
because it says in the Torah sometimes
you tell people because it's good for
you it's gonna give you blessing it's
gonna give you a blessing in your
business so here is the first time that
moshe rabbeinu says to the nation if you
want to be successful in business then
doom it vote and keep them its words and
not only that then Moshe Lubin also asks
from the nation to write what he just
said and to put it on their heads which
is the feeling and to put it on the door
which is the mezuzah so we find in this
publisher that Moshe Rabbeinu says very
clearly very obvious say you want
success
it doesn't sense it in that word this is
in different words this is by yang
schemata Shmuel mitzvah ty if you will
listen to them it's not but not at a
Kish memory time I will give you the
rain and it's time when you're going to
be successful and prosperous and
business will be good of course it's not
using my words I'm saying that Moshe
Lupino says in its clear words and you
will want success and business and keep
them in thought very simple and then of
course he tells them and I want you to
write it down and put it on your head
meaning that feeling and put it on the
doorpost which is the mezuzah so this is
the first time that we see clearly that
Marshall a beggar tells us if you want
success in business and everybody wants
success in business I don't know anybody
who says okay let me go into business
and I want to fail nobody does that
if you're ready going into business you
want to be successful and if most people
they they're not independent they have
they work for somebody they were
employed by somebody but if you would
give them the opportunity to make money
and to have a business most people will
take it before our business owners
because they don't have the knowledge
they don't have the the money to invest
or they don't have the you need to have
a little bit of courage a little bit
faith but nevertheless most people if
you would give them the opportunity to
have run a business and to make a much
more money than average everybody wants
that who doesn't want to make money as a
matter you are observant you're not
observant everybody wants to be
comfortable and to be able to live
comfortable and and some people want to
just have a lot of money but most people
says this of course I want to live
comfortable who doesn't you can't kid
ourselves but nevertheless this is the
first time that we see that moshe
rabbeinu gives us a clear explanation
and a clear promise one good business
keep them it's both very simple and it's
not a good for you and we see there's a
story in the in the Talmud that there
was a certain a sage his name was Rob
Hoonah and he was known to have a lot of
Hardesty vine yards vineyards vineyards
yester had a lot of it was very famously
at a little wine it was a big
businessman on one side he was a great
rabbi a great sage that learned Torah
and taught a while but he also needed to
make a living
rabbi also has to pay the bills so we
know in many stories from the Talmud
that there were many sages that they
were very wealthy they were wealthy that
business today if a rabbi has money then
right away he's tagged as a thief or
that he's stealing the money from the
from the organization so but
nevertheless I also know in our
generation many rabbis that they have
business why not why can I have a
business I have also kids I need to feed
them I need to pay my also my my
mortgage in a and their tuition and so
one has nothing to do with either you
know for many years I had a business I
became observing there open the business
and up until a few years ago I think we
closed it six seven years ago but
nevertheless for many years I had a
business
running a business and I had money so I
opened the business because I didn't
want to be needin I didn't want to have
the need to be depending on support to
support my organization so I said I'm
gonna have my own business and I'll
support my own organization and I don't
have to ask for donations and I don't
have to depend on anybody but I know
many rabbis in our generation they have
a business why not is there's nothing
wrong with that layer first to run a
business there's a lot of meets not in
it you have to be honest you have to be
straight you have to give myself you
have to give sadaqa there's a lot of
good qualities in running a business so
nevertheless this sage of Hoonah was a
great sage but nevertheless also had a
very huge business and his business yes
by a head wineries and a lot of wine his
wine was very very famous one day
the story says that in one day 400
barrels went sour now imagine what it is
for the business you know there in 400
barrels this is a thousands of thousands
of bottles of wine and in one day they
all went sour it was became a big deal
everybody knew about it was famous in
the newspapers everybody a news came out
the famous rabbi had all his barrels
went sour says she's lost of mine our
equivalent to our time thousands of 10
hundreds of thousands of dollars
nevertheless everybody came to to
comfort him and so the story says that a
few great sages came to comfort him and
it was known at the time and not only
then even now that if somebody has some
type of a financial loss then the
rabbi's told him listen maybe you should
make an analysis maybe you doing
something wrong maybe you did something
that as a result from that your partner
saw your livelihood got affected so
that's at that period it was very common
that if somebody has something going on
wrong in the business check yourself
maybe you did something maybe you did
something and even up until today if a
person something's going on with the
business and there's no way there's no a
good income or something going on check
yourself maybe you did something so the
sages that came to consult him they told
him listen look maybe you did something
we told him the first fish be merciful
go through your actions maybe you you
did something so he says you know what
you're right I am doing something that
is not 100 percent the guy that is
running the vineyards he I'm not paying
him exactly what I was what's on the
contract and they're like why aren't you
paying him what's it says on the
contract so he says because I know he's
stealing from me I know he's stealing a
lot of grapes and wine or whatever it is
and I know exactly what he's stealing
from me so I'm deducting from what I'm
supposed to give him what he stole so
the sages told him listen you know how
to do that you have a contract with him
you have to pay him exactly what it says
in the contract if you feel that he's
stealing from you or you want to deduct
what he stole from what you have to pay
him then take him to the bay didn't sue
him take it to the court you can take
the rules to yourself and say oh he
stole X amount of produce I'm gonna
deduct it from what I'm giving him
you're not allowed to do that so sure
enough he stopped doing it he started
paying him again back to what he what
was the contract said and it says that
right away
every doll these 400 barrels they became
good again was a huge miracle and he got
all his money back and everything became
good so we see that
this is one story out of many that when
a person observes the Torah and emits
world fully then business is running
good and if classify Shalom
something's going on wrong with the
business then check what are you doing
maybe you're doing something maybe
you're not paying the workers right away
maybe you're not paying them what they
were supposed to get maybe stealing
something without many maybe putting too
much attention to it which is which is
called the Gizem stealing is that you
have the intention you know exactly what
you're doing but sometimes you can fail
and something similar to stealing it's
called gasm that you're taking something
that doesn't belong to you maybe you're
not good at giving the right amount it's
not easy being a business owner because
you are more subject for different
failures and sins when you're running a
business if you're sitting all day long
and learning Torah that's one thing but
if you're running a business you have to
be very aware of what's going on not to
steal not to embezzle not to cheat and
so forth so we see from this story and
there's many other stories that that
when the person is not following the to
100% or not fulfilling them it's not it
does affect their business now
specifically in the midst of mezuzah
it's not only that we know that it's
affecting the giving give is a blessing
in business also a the Torah says that
the person that does the mitzvot mezuzah
he will gain a long life
nemanja with whomever the Torah says if
you do the mitzvah of the mezuzah you
have blessing in your business and not
only that long life who wants to doesn't
want to live a long life of course you
want a long life to be with the healthy
and and good I mean some people they
live a long life and it's a very hard
life but nevertheless the mitzvot
mezuzah it has two qualities blessing in
business and also a long life now okay
up again comes again the same question
why why specifically the mezuzah why not
Faline or kosher or shabbat maybe
I think maybe if you observe Shabbat
should also give you blessing in
business and a long life why
specifically a mezuzah what's so special
about this Mitzvah
now our sages explain that we have to
understand a little bit about the
Mitzvah our sages explain that the
mezuzah is there to be a reminder to be
a reminder because I go in and out of my
house many times in the day sometimes
they can go in and out of my house a
hundred times
some people do wake up in the morning to
go out of the house they all day long
the outside they're doing business and
they come back at night some people they
go in and out of the house dozens of
times our sages saying you put the
mezuzah on the Lord to constantly remind
you that you have to be doing mitzvahs
we need a reminder that a lot of people
say I don't need to be reminded I know I
have to do meets vote but nevertheless
our sages explain that we put it on the
door that every time I go out I look at
the mezuzah and that should remind me oh
I have to do mitzvahs if I'm going to
business it has to remind me that I have
to be honest I can't cheat I can steal
if I'm going to do anything any other
thing that I have to be charitable and
give charity and acts of kindness but
nevertheless this is one of the
explanations that our sages give that
the mitzvah of Missoula is a reminder
and this is equivalent to another means
well then is the meter of deceit also
when
it's asked why should one word tzitzit
because it reminds me that I have to do
MIT's vault there's a famous story in
the Talmud about a certain sage that he
unfortunately was on his way to do a
very very severe sin of the forbidden
relations whatever it is got into a
relationship with a with the woman that
wasn't his wife and he was going to be
with her and the hospital do a very
severe sin the story says it when he was
taking his clothes off the cities went
flying into his face and smacked him
into his face as he was taking his
clothes off and when the city's smacking
into his face in a way that it hurts he
suddenly got his act together it's like
what am i doing he was already in the
woman's house and of course it saved him
and stopped him from doing the same and
there's a famous story in the Talmud
that the titties is also to remind you
that I have to do Meatwad sometimes you
forget who you are I mean especially a
person that is not born observant and
remember in the first few years when I
was became observant that would look in
the mirror sometimes like whoa who's
this guy it's not the guy I know so
there are total different person family
the beard in there and the yarmulke so
sometimes we forget that we that we are
observing Jews and we have to do
mitzvoth you your mind takes you to
different places and you need the stern
reminder wait a minute what am i doing
well what are you doing
so there's a beautiful story that I
heard at firsthand about some woman
lived in France in Paris and she started
to become observant and you know like
all the famous stories when people
become observant something is some spark
is ignited and they started going to a
Shabbat meal or a tour class or whatever
I mean thousands of stories this
specific woman started to became
observant and after a while she learned
about the mitzvot mezuzah so she put the
mezuzah on her door and for maybe weeks
a month the mezuzah was on the door she
lived in Paris somebody told her listen
what are you doing you know the whole
building here is full of moslems and
they use you have a mezuzah on the door
this is not so good I mean you can get
hurt I mean this is not a place to be so
Jewish and fortunately in many places
like in Paris people are afraid to show
that they're Jewish they don't if they
take yarmulkes off they put their mug
and David in there in the shirt I mean
now you really see that people are
afraid to to shoulder their Jewish this
is true story so people told them listen
I wouldn't put the Misses on the door
and this is they can they have a very
negative effect so she was afraid that
she took the missiles off one day she
hears a knock on the door and she opened
the door and old man is standing and he
tells her I'm the neighbor from from
downstairs and I wanted to ask you a
question
and she tells him okay force he tells
her why did you take off the mezuzah
she tells him because you know people
told me might be dangerous it's not a
good so he told her let me tell you a
story I am a Holocaust survivor and I
was in the
in the camps and beaucoup shim I
survived but I had an issue with God I
was very angry I was angry at God I
didn't want to do anything
I saw family die and being murdered and
I had a problem with Hashem and for many
years after that I didn't observe any of
them it's what I lived a life like a non
Jew just because I was angry for many
years up until a few months I was very
angry still it ashamed he says but one
day I live in this building for years
one day the elevator wasn't working so I
had to go up the stairs and as I'm going
up the stairs every floor had to take a
stop you know all the men every floor I
had to take a stop a break because this
is all the man he couldn't just run up
the stairs so he says I which the first
time that I went through all the floors
and when I came to your floor and Soames
was up and as I saw them as Souza
suddenly it hit me and I started
remembering when I was a kid the house
of my parents
we had a mezuzah and how I used to go
with my father to the show and he's like
it was very old memory I was a little
kid but I remembered going with my
father to show her going to the
synagogue and the synagogue and the
mezuzah and my house had the ms-dos on
it brought these all these emotions and
memories how where I came from and
suddenly I became very emotional and it
caused me to remember that what am i
doing and I so many years I was away
from the Torah and away from a shame and
you know what it cost me too though I
started following them it's once again
supporting feeling again I put my own
missiles armed and he's like why did you
take it off because of yeoman Souza
I became now it reminded me of where I
came from and you're right reminded me
to start observing them it's thought now
you took it off so I don't don't know
the syrup she put it back on or not but
nevertheless she's just sometimes you
see how the mezuzah is the reminder just
imagine this old man for 60 years
whatever 50 60 70 years who survived the
Holocaust and was so upset at a Shem
which you can't question him of course
and suddenly this mezuzah of this young
lady reminded him where he came from he
maybe was a little kid and they know
kids they have all these memories they
don't remember necessarily everything
but they remember since certain things
and the mezuzah was there his his
connection to Judaism and it caused him
to come closer back to the tow bar
mitzvah'd so we see again that the our
sages teach us that the mezuzah as a
reminder whether we acknowledge it or
not we're walking in and out of the door
so many times sometimes touching the
mezuzah is a habit it's not that you
really know what you're doing there and
then some people don't touch the
missiles as some people do so there's no
hahaha to touch the mezuzah specifically
in Shahana whoo the bit you say if he
doesn't face a mention anything about
touching the mezuzah it's actually there
Rama the Ashkenazi
it's a show carnival that he's the one
who says to touch the mezuzah and thus
nurse you say a few verses but the
Johanna often doesn't even mention
anything about touching the mezuzah well
nevertheless we don't even notice how
many times you're walking in out some
people it's a habit to them just to
touch him it wasn't well don't even
touch it but never maybe if you connect
keep the questions to the end so the the
so we see from our sages that the
mezuzah is meant to remind us as they
interestingly in the Talmud says there's
a rabbi Elazar Aviles Albania called he
says any person that has Finland and has
a mezuzah and has a cheat sheet is
guaranteed that he will never sing so
again mezuzah spilling in cities if a
person has had
one of them is guaranteed not to sing
why would he say something something
like that is because the the person that
is very actively wearing tzitzit and
putting tune in and has a mezuzah it
constantly gives him a reminder that i
can't do any sins now we constantly need
reminders just in the morning we were
learning here with the men about this
fella also and it says in the beginning
of the parasha that we have to guard
them each month and we have to do the
mitzvahs Bush Martell Vasudev what's the
difference between guarding and doing so
guarding he explained we were learning
from the normal America the guarding it
refers to the thoughts that I have to
have the thought of the mitzvot doing is
the actual mitzvot that I do I put
Faline on if I eat kosher whatever it is
but also has to be always the thought
behind it and the the verse continued
and this is in our papa sha that if you
guard and you do them it's not then a
shame will fulfill his part
what is his part the Covenant and the
kindness pretty well rested what is the
covenant the covenant that Hashem says I
will allow you to do it spot
Shem allows me to do meets what we think
that I'm doing a shame a favor when I do
a mitzvah I think somebody needs to clap
with their hands to me I don't
understand it's a shame is doing me a
favor that he's gay actually giving me
the opportunity to do a mitzvah and the
kindness that Hashem gives to us we
might not notice it but all day long
Shem is bestowing us so much kindness we
just got used to it and we tend to
complain the real missing things and we
tend to complain to a shame about the
things that I don't have instead of
thanking ashamed 20 million times a day
for all the kindness that he does to me
so hey I have to acknowledge on a daily
basis that when i'm what i'm doing a
mitzvah then i have to thank a share for
giving me the opportunity to do the
mitzvah because he's allowing me to do
it
if he wouldn't allow me then I would
have such a it's at a line I wouldn't do
any Mitzvah I always say he'd say the
same thing before I do a mitzvah it
doesn't matter right now what the
Mitzvah is but before I do a mitzvah I
say thank you to a shame with my own
words because most people they have a
Yetzirah and they don't want to do this
bitmap and and and I'll give you one
Mitzvah that most people they don't like
doing it is to save your cat Amazon
people will drive half an hour to the
pizzeria that sells pizza that is
bizarre not just not to save your cat
Amazon and if you give somebody to eat
something a row or whatever bread
they'll tell you is this this emoji yeah
not so hungry there maybe an apple so
this is the one of the greatest mitzvah
we have in the Torah and people go out
of their way not to wash your hands
forbidden and hostile sure I'm not
blaming anybody I'm not saying or or
making fun of anybody I'm just making a
point that you have one of the biggest
mitzvoth in the Torah is to wash your
hands say emoji on a piece of bread and
eat we just learned that literally last
week's polish our invention investor
Ahava the Sawada over after you should
eat you should you're going to be four
full satisfied and surprising takes you
5 minutes 7 minutes 9 minutes if you
read it very slow people sit on Facebook
for three hours watching nonsense we're
watching cats dancing and also to junk
for three hours but for 10 minutes to
save your karma zone no no eat an apple
I'm gonna eat them is donut just I never
was able to understand that I understand
because I also sometimes get lazy and
I'm tired and I don't want to do it now
wash my hands but really when you're
thinking about it
Hashem is giving you a million dollar
check it's not even a million dollar
check it's a billion dollar check and
you're saying I don't feel like going to
the bank today this is kind of the same
of idea that somebody's gonna come and
tell you today here's 50 billion dollars
check
I really don't feel like walking all the
way to the bank standing in line I don't
want to this is equivalent so why people
have such a etcetera to do this Mitzvah
because you needed a merit to do this
Mitzvah this is this covenant the regime
says I will give you the opportunity to
do a mitzvah
so when you don't have a Yetzirah and
you're about to save your cut Amazon or
put Faline on or whatever it is you have
to say to us Sam thank you for allowing
me to do the Mitzvah I'm the one who's
gonna gain from it nobody else I'm not
doing a shame a favor Jimmy doesn't gain
anything or loses anything if I put
feeling on or if I don't put feeling on
I'm the one who's gonna gain from that
for eternity
so I have to thank a shame with my own
words thank you for allowing me to want
to do the Mitzvah and I know thousands
of men that they have feeling it's in
the closet they don't put it on they
ever get cetera so a man shows up to
show and he puts Villano I thank a shame
Thank You bomb thank you for allowing me
to want to do it so that's why it says
in the Talmud that when a person has
Faline mezuzah and sits it is guaranteed
not to sin why because it's constantly
involved in the mitzvoth it's constantly
a reminder we constantly need reminders
the regime is amazing to us most people
they cry and they complain all day long
and they whine my wife is hard I don't
have this I don't have that you know the
secret of getting an abundance is
appreciating what you have if you just
practice it put it into action instead
of whining that you don't have money you
don't have your other half you don't
have health but this is annoying he's
doing this instead of that just thanking
holding on for what you have you'll see
that your life will change right away
the problem is that we just whine all
day long and we complain so that's why
when a person is constantly appreciative
of what he has the nation' ones to give
him me
so next time instead of complaining that
you don't have something then thank a
share for two three things that you do
have I told you that not too long ago I
met this young man I wasn't one of my
trips I was in London I made a young man
that he came to get some advice and he
told me listen
really I have everything I have money I
have a wife five kids of business
I literally physically I have everything
I'm healthy but I'm very unhappy I'm not
I'm just unhappy and I told him as long
as you don't follow the Torah and every
thought you'll never be happy that's the
matter how many Ferraris you have on
your drive range it doesn't matter
you'll never be happy because if you saw
is not happy you will never be happy so
my simple advice to you is just follow
the Torah just do few Meatwad not
telling you to become overnight the
chief rabbi over the world but start
start putting fill in every day give
some charity every day maybe go to the
synagogue once a week and you'll see
you'll start feeding your soul and
you'll be happy and I told him and
another thing is that you're not
appreciative of what you have so I want
you to do once a day take a break
five minutes take a little piece of
paper and start writing down all the
good things that you have in your life I
have two legs that work I have my eyes
work my fingers work I've teeth I can
chew food I have a car of a business I
have a wife I have kids I've write down
all the good things that you have and
thank a shame for what you have because
you have a lot and you know what when
you're going to be appreciative of what
you have and by default will cause you
to be more happy and more content we
constantly look at what I don't have and
we complain and we whine and we and just
be appreciative of what you have and
trust me thank a share for for the good
things that you have you'll see he is
gonna want to give you much more good
things so just to conclude what we were
talking about so we were concluding in
in in in
way that the mezuzah is a mitzvah to
remind me about the fact that there's a
TOA and then i have to keep them it's
body very simple now there's another
reason why a mitzvah is so unique
because you know that a mitzvah it
brings protection to the house and not
only that it brings protection it's
guarding the house we know that we know
that for a fact
it's not only giving us a blessing in
the business we just mentioned and then
and there's many places that we didn't
mention that though that the mezuzah
actually brings you a blessing in
fairness on your livelihood but we know
for a fact that a mezuzah guards you
guard your house you know on the mezuzah
it says a few letters not on the
parchment from the inside if you look at
the mezuzah from the outside you see a
shams named Shin dollar dude and shin
Dali dude is the acronym of Xiaomi
litotes oil the guard of the doors of
Israel and we know for many places that
the the mezuzah guards your house now
there's a famous story about the famous
Tana a BU dynasty he was the sage that
wrote the Mishnah very very special
individual he was known to have many
many friends what we call in our
generation connections you want to move
things around you need connections in
this day of age it's not what you know
it's who you know and if you know the
right people you move things around so
he has a lot of connections one of his
good friends one of his connections was
a CERN man his name was Alvin Alvin was
the king of Persia and he was a good
friends with him so one time the king of
Persia sent him present and he sent him
a very very unique and precious jewelry
like a stone something diamond whatever
it was very very precious that's how it
is you know in the in the in those days
to show friendship we would give each
other very expensive presents okay so he
gets in the messenger this expensive
piece of jewelry or whatever it was
so he says okay what am I gonna give him
back what am I gonna give the king of
Persia is a gazillionaire what am I
gonna buy him I have to buy something
this is how it works he sends me a
present I've to send him a present so he
decides to send him a mezuzah takes a
nice mezuzah wraps it up and sends us
with a messenger a week passes and he
gets a notification from the King what
is this I'm sending you this precious
jewelry that is worth millions and
millions and millions and you're sending
me this piece of parchment with some ink
on it and some letters that's our
friendship that's how you're valuing my
present so Lobby adonis ii was not a
fool it was a very wise man and he told
him listen to me my dear friend the
present that you sent me
requires to be guarded now i'm gonna
have to spend money and ways to guard
would you gave me what I sent you will
guard you so he completely changed it
around and says what you sent me needs
to be guarded why would I send you is
going to guard you and needless to say
that the king of Persia was very happy
with the present but nevertheless you
know the story says that after a while
and the daughter of the King got very
very sick and she was literally on her
deathbed and what they did is they took
the mezuzah that reviewed the honesty
sent him and they put it under her
pillow and she got cured and he knew he
understood then that this will present
is not some some cheap some cheap omen
was a very powerful thing
people they have different customs and
other people actually walk around with
mrs. oats with him I actually read there
a long time ago a lot of people with
they when they used to go to the
lubavitcher rebbe for a blessing or four
questions when people were sick or he
would always say check them his results
and I read a long time ago a letter that
somebody sent to the lubavitcher rebbe
that they're suffering from migraines
and the answer the voucher gave the bad
virtue Rebbe gave is to walk in the
pockets and to walk with a pocket in a
mezuzah in the pocket like it for the
power against the disease so I do know
that a lot of people they don't only
hang a mezuzah on the door they walk
around with it they put it in the car
they put it in the bag I read many
places that people use it as a power of
protection so nevertheless we know from
so many different stories and sources
that the mrs. mrs. as a protection
there's a very famous story about Uncle
OHS if you read the Gamache there's a
translation from Aramaic and Torah make
and it's translated by a certain
individual called gurus now this is a
very deep translation a lot of it is
very mystical it's not a regular Aramaic
it's not that Romaic you find in the
talmud of the saw it's a little bit
different
nevertheless when you read the
translation of own clothes you would
think that he's a son of a prophet
nevertheless Tom Cruise is a convert and
not only stomach convert he was the
nephew of the king of Rome he was the
the nephew over to the animals and the
story says that he was working for the
king needless to say destroyed the OSHA
line and for whatever reason he was
looking to get more spiritual and he
wanted to become more closer to Judaism
and he wanted to learn Torah now he said
if I is going to come out to his uncle
and tell him I want to go to
shall I'm and Murtagh is uncle boy will
kill him so what did he do he told him
listen I wanna learn a new business
learn some business and I'm asking for
you to give me a year or two off so I
can go and learn business I want to go
into business okay so he says okay no
problem for business I will let you off
and I will give you also a advice about
business he says okay what do you was
there what's your advice my dear uncle
and he says always buying merchandise
that is very very cheap that it looks
like it's worthless but that has very
good potential so you buy it when it's
cheap when it seems like it's worthless
but in the future it will turn to be a
great potential to be very very
profitable so of course uncle ho's
smiled and he says that's the advice
this is Judaism that's what I needed to
hear
now Judaism and especially then Judaism
er wasn't so ranked so high it was right
after the destruction of the temple who
wanted to be close to Judaism
and he says this is a this is the
merchandise that right now doesn't seem
so expensive but it has great potential
that in the future it will become
extremely extremely valuable
nevertheless that's the exact ooh that's
the advice that I needed that's what I
needed to hear that I'm actually
investing in something that doesn't look
so great right now but in the future
will be a great investment so the story
says that two years later and Ayana
starts looking for his nephew where's my
nephew he said he's going to learn
business he disappeared and he
I quickly found out that he's in the
ocean I'm that he converted and he is
learning Torah learning Torah teaching
Tala of course the ankle wasn't so happy
about that so he sent the group of men
to come and take him a squad of soldiers
go and get my nephew they come and get
him
Youkilis was not a fool and he started
talking to them and they convinced them
to stay with him talk to them a little
bit about the Torah a little bit about
God and he convinced them made them
about Shuba okay
the uncle also it says okay I'll send
another squad to come and get him and
but he told them listen my nephew is a
very sharp with his tongue don't talk to
him just bring him to me don't they get
him don't engage into conversations with
him the last squad that I sent he
sweet-talked him he told them about the
Torah I don't know what he said there he
got them complete confused convinced
they stayed there just go and get him
don't don't talk to him
okay so they go to get on Kalu's and he
starts talking to them says listen
listen your uncle your uncle the King
says not to talk to you no I just want
to give you some words of wisdom says
okay what's your words of wisdom so he
says when there's an important man like
a minister then you have to hold the
torch of light for him now we have
electricity we don't know what it means
in olden days if there was somebody
important somebody would stand there
with a torch that he will have liked to
read or to eat or to to write so he says
when a person is very important like a
great general that somebody has to hold
a torch for them and if his evening even
if he's more important let's say he's a
Caesar then even somebody more important
has to hold the torch for them if he's a
king then everybody has to hold the
torch for that person but you know the
the nation of Israel is so special and
then when they were in the desert the
king the master of the universe was
holding the torch for them and
he convinced them how sweet and special
that Allah and Hashem is and up he got
them also on board and the another squad
became observant okay
this time the Janos says okay we can't
mess with this this time he sends
another squad and he tells them don't
even talk to him don't he asks you he
talks to you just grab him and bring him
to me
this squad was a little bit more aware
of what's going on they come there they
grab him he starts talking they're not
even listening they're completely
ignoring him they take him out and as
they're taking him out you just stop
stop stop what's going on they're
lifting him up he's not even walking he
pushed the hand on the mezuzah he kisses
it and he smiles
they're like why he's smiling why is
smiling he says what I thought your King
told you not to talk to me you're right
you're right we shouldn't talk to you
but why you smiling I want to hear why
I'm smiling so he says this is this is
the difference the King that you work
for he needs you to guard him and he's
surrounded with guards but in Judaism I
am guarded by the king the king is
around my house is in his guarding me
and of course another squad went down
and he got them all so go got them also
on board and the third the fourth time
the king says okay just leave him there
I'm not I'm not sending any more men to
take him so we see that the mezuzah is
guarded to us the Misses is guarding us
you put it on the door it guards us from
all sorts of bad things and spirits and
so forth and it's literally guarding the
house so why why would the mezuzah guard
the house why not
Shabbat or candles or challah or Faline
why specifically the mezuzah so it says
in the psalm that the soul says write my
name and put it on your doorpost that's
what this all says about the mezuzah
meaning
Hashem and his name is what guards the
house now if you look in the Medusa I
told you already
not on the front part of the parchment
when you roll it up and you hang the
mezuzah it says three letters shintali
dude and it has to be turned into that
the person that walks in can see it has
to be not turned true though to the
doorpost rather to the other way and the
acronym of shin dolla dude is shaman
litotes al the guard of the doors of the
nation of israel so the dog says write
my name shames name on the door and that
will be a guard for you now another
interesting way of looking at it the
word mezuzah the numerical value of the
word missiles 965 the gematria never
maim is 49 is 7 and others 97 valve is a
sea can hit 6 and hey the 5 together
brings you 65 the numerical value Hashem
has many different names you'd cave of
cash invalid you lo keem one of the most
common names in a shame hands we said
every day is the shame Aleph dollar new
do Aleph valid new nude at door and then
we say 9 and the numerical value of that
name Aleph dollar new news is 65 so the
name the word mezuzah not only that on
it they has their name of a shame UDA a
they shintali dude then a the word
ms-dos out is the same numerical value
of a shames name Aleph null in renewed
our dough and then I would we say in all
the more hot and we said every day and
that's where the power of the mezuzah
that's why the the mezuzah has power to
guard because it has the name of a shame
in it and you know in in our day in our
generation you can relate with it
because in many places
there's the mafia that they you know
they do is the business they sell your
protection that's how they call it and
just out the day somebody sent me a
shocking video about the farmers in the
south of Israel how the bedroom are like
a mafia and they're charging protection
and if you don't shape a protection they
destroy you or your field your crops
they this guy they stole the tractors
and it was the the video that was like
promoting their awareness but
nevertheless we've seen many places that
there's a mafia and the Mafia they come
to your business and they tell you you
have to pay us ten percent 20 percent
it's because protection and we're going
to protect you so I always say story
that they when I was out of the army was
they constantly into making money my
mind was all the time how am I making
money and also the businesses and I was
I was doing very well I think you ought
to make business so one time I figured
out a very good business I was maybe 20
21 years old and I used to sell flowers
in the corner store and the corner and
the Junction's now I went to the place
to buy the flowers I had a few girls we
used to make all the bouquets we're all
the nice wrapping and everything then I
would go and stand on the big gay corner
a junction and I know it sounds like
like Noah and nothing
I'll make thousands thousands of shekels
in hours I'd have buckets on the street
Friday afternoon everybody wants to buy
flowers it was a big junction and they
had like a little Bay where cars can
stop I would himself now thousands of
shekels worth of flowers my friends
always used to make fun of me now what
are you doing with flowers that was like
so but nevertheless was a very good
business they would cost me I don't know
like three shekels to make the bouquet
and I would sell them for 50 shekels and
they would go like hot buns and anyways
I would make a lot of money I'm talking
about like 25 years ago it sometimes
makes 5000 shekels with a couple hours
and I just knew where there's a good
opportunity to make money you know I
wasn't afraid of working hard or being
there laughter my friend will everywhere
he's selling flowers in the and on a
junction and I was like you know we're
neighbor who say it's Oaxaca so I
got her horn the one laughed class has
the laugh the last laugh however they
say it in English but nevertheless I've
made a lot of money so this business was
going on very well for a couple of
months and it was growing and growing
and I really know people knew I'm
already standing there now I developed
it I had the bouquets for fifty bouquets
for eighty bouquets yes I developed it
and then I started taking people's names
I started to take orders the day before
and I make extra extra I was like
already seeing myself going public with
this said after a couple years but I was
21 years old I'm making a lot of money
wasn't that wasn't even like a main
income it was just for the weekends and
it was only a few hours work Thursday I
would go get the flowers Thursday
afternoon till the evening the girls
would make all the bouquets I would give
them some whatever they got paid Friday
morning we sell the flowers that's it
Friday afternoon I'm done going out to
the beach and counting my money
so okay things were going well very very
well a few months till one day I get a
visit I'm standing in my you know we
call it a basta in the middle of the
streets all my flowers are there a car
stops
two guys walk out ya know not the IRS
two guys sunglasses suits they come to
me walking around what is this tell them
this is lilies what is this is the roses
so one of them kicks the bucket and says
what are you making a joke out of me
what is this I tell him what are you
making a joke out of me I'm telling you
these are flowers so he tells me you are
on our turf you can't sell anything here
now I was young and
and stupid told the monument ammonia
turf get out of here nearly not knowing
that this is the Mafia coming to tell me
you're in my territory and if you want
to sell your flowers you have to give us
a commission you mean you're eating so
so I in my hood spy took out a bouquet
and I said here here here's here's the
Commission give it to your wife so he
took it and smashed it on the floor and
I still was still arguing and they were
telling me in simple words you are on
our territory you want to sell something
here you got to give us commission if
not you're gonna be out of commission so
the business venture had to stop at
there at this point
the business venture had to stop but
nevertheless why am I telling you this
whole story because the Mafia they sell
your protection and now if you are you
pay your your a your fee whatever it is
you ransom then if somebody comes to
bother you you just say the name and you
say you know I belong to I know this
person oh you just said that name no no
no it's okay you can there you can do
whatever you want so you know the name
yeah you just have to sometimes mention
the name oh no no he works for so-and-so
no no no don't mess with this guy right
now it's the same thing here they have
deals not to compare is the mezuzah the
mezuzah has a shames name on it a person
the person an entity a spirit the demon
comes see the shames name no no no here
this person I don't want to mess with
this person he he has protection from
the master of the universe
so the mezuzah has a power of protection
why because it has a shames name on it
and it has a shames name in it and
needless to say on the parchment has a
shames name so that's why the mezuzah
has such a power of protection but now
we're coming to the next question that
we were we started the class which was
actually initially the first question
since I know the mezuzah is
force of protection and it's protecting
me am I allowed to do the mitzvot for
the sake of the reward I mean we know
that we're not allowed to do we
shouldn't do a mitzvah for the sake of a
reward right I mean our sages tell us
hey you should never even though
submission it says hola yeah so Kadamba
to rasulallah Sh'ma person has to - -
first of all we are taught by our sages
that a person should not do the mitzvot
for the sake of the reward so here if
I'm putting the mezuzah and I'm saying
okay the mezuzah is a protection then
I'm actually doing the mitzvot for the
sake of the reward so comes a question
am I allowed to do that so in order to
understand that I have to understand
that in when it comes to doing - to
learning - I'm doing them it's what it
says that our sages say that if a person
should always do a mitzvah even if it's
not for the sake of the mitzvot why
because at some point you will do it for
the sake of the Mitzvah
la la mia so Kadamba mitzvah yellowish
mushy me talk cherish my abolishment as
a lot of people say listen I'm not
really doing the Mitzvah for the right
intention should I still do it yes you
should still do it even if you're not
doing it for the right intention but
from doing it from the wrong intention
at some point you'll do it for the right
attention on the other hand it says in
the in the our sages say that if a
person gives I mean the way it says it
says it in the in the
in the words of our sages if a person
gives a rock for charity because it says
Hamilton similar to the car the the
versus a note insulates the car not
let's see let's hide no hates a digger
move the person gives a rock like maybe
a precious stone or like a coin and give
something to to the car for the sake for
his son to live Sonny's child then he's
considered as a digger Moo
so I see here in one way our sages are
telling me do them it's my friend not
for the sake of the Mitzvah on the other
hand our sages are telling me if I'm
giving so to say charity for the fact
for the for the merit for my son to live
cos - along the child is sick then I'm
considered a digger whoa now kind of a
contradict it's a it's it's a itself
because the first part what our sages
say just do the Mitzvah don't worry
about the intention right now as long as
you do the Mitzvah one day you'll do it
for the right intention as a famous
story that a certain individual our
wealthy individual we came to the ballot
Anya and he told him I have a serious
problem I like doing a lot of charity I
give a lot of money
I open my house my house is full of
guests shabbat is huge meals and i give
a lot of charity so the ballot anna
tells them so what seems to be the
problem this is a very good thing to
give so much money and charity and feed
people so the man tells him you know
what's the problem is that i'm not doing
it for the sake of the mitzvah i like to
be acknowledged and they write my name
in the newspapers that i give a lot of
money and everybody says how generous I
am and I like that I'm doing it for my
own ego I'm doing it for my own pride
and I don't know what to do
so the ballot Anya tells him the poor
person that comes to your table and eats
does he leaves your house satisfied he
says of course that that's what matters
you fed him he's hot he's full who cares
right now you did it for the for the
right intention not for the right
intention you
your name on the wall you don't want the
name on the wall the person was hungry
he ate he's satisfied that's what
matters you did the Mitzvah that's the
matter right now
first there's not as you do the Mitzvah
now they won't start developing it to do
it for the right intention so first of
all we have to understand that when it
comes to Mitzvah student just do the
Mitzvah they all start becoming
sophisticated now if you're doing it for
the right intention neither one of us
are in a level of doing a mitzvah in the
right intention right so I'll just do it
somebody once asked me how come all the
meats vote before we do them we say a
blessing when I put Faline on a shaky
cherubim it's Putin which even
underneath Fellini you like candles your
kitchen bring me to the table with
Savannah let lick know why when we do
one of the greatest meets vote of
charity we don't say blessing most of
them it's what we say blessing city
tashaki Jeremy - Tom it's even only
tartiflette cities all the midsole
there's a blessing coming that if it's
lulav a little atoll of how come when I
have to give charity I don't have to say
moment now a man of Kenema Nepal our
Shack each allenbury so solid C Bartlett
it's the car so I told him imagine now
somebody's sitting on the street
and he's telling you can you give me
some change I'm starving
so you say wait a minute the Baha oh I
didn't I didn't prepare well for the
Baha I have to go to the mikveh
first then I have to say the morning
prayers and then I have to prepare wait
a minute wait wait here a few minutes
let me get prepared in the meantime the
person will die just given the money
ready just don't no need to prepare too
much so what if you would fall on
somebody various additionally wait a
minute I have to before I say abraca I
have to have the right intentions I have
to learn for a whole hour go to the
mikveh prepare myself a person will die
out of hunger so it only it's the car we
don't say blessing because um dozen want
you to think too much just give the
money over so when it comes from it's
well first of all on one hand are say
just tell me just do the Mitzvah don't
start getting into too many calculations
if you're doing it for the right
intention for what intention
first of all do it first of all worry
about doing the Mitzvah later
it will already come to do it for the
sake of the of the Mitzvah on the other
hand we learned that our sages sellers
don't do a mitzvah for the sake of the
reward so what I'm kind of like a
bouncing in between so the conclusion is
you're allowed to do the Mitzvah for the
sake of the reward you'll have to do
that but this is considered that it's
not a Hassid it says if you remember
that our sages say that if you give
charity for the to save the life of your
child you consider that Sadik for that
but Sadiq is a very high level but we
know there's one level higher than that
Sadiq and that level is called a seed a
seed
it's not necessarily a person that has
long felt and wears a straw shrine and
you know the fairy hats is not
necessarily a facility AAHA seed is a
person that goes beyond the letter of
the law the term in Hebrew mission we
have said in kono that that's something
that he doesn't need to do it goes
beyond what a Shem tells you to do and
I'll give you one example are many you
know a man wears it I don't have to wear
two tit only if I wear a four-cornered
garment then I have to put it on but if
here I have a jacket it doesn't have rig
at corners you see it's round I don't
have to wear tzitzit so I don't I don't
need to but nevertheless I still put on
myself a garment that has four corners
that all day long I have to wear tzitzit
on me all day long I have to see they
even sleep with the disease why because
it's a mitzvah why should I do it it's a
great mitzvah why shouldn't I have the
meter counting every second that I wear
that it's it on me then I get I get to
wear a mitzvah I don't have to but
nevertheless it's a holy garment and I
gets me connected to a shame and I'm
attached to a mitzvah why shouldn't I do
it all day long this is an act of kasi
dude
and I'll give you another example you
see now in our generation many people
they grow they're proud very very long
now
there's no Mitzvah to grow the parents
the meter is not too
the pair that's the Mitzvah it's a
precept you're not allowed to cut the
pair this is called a pair the sideburn
and you know not to cut it but since
it's a mitzvah then many take the extra
extra act and say hey it's a mitzvah why
should I grow it long I should make it a
beautiful mitzvah why shouldn't I why
I'm not I'm not gonna not cut it I'll
just grow it very long so this is an
again an act of kasi dude that's where
you see that this specifically the
majority of ones who have long feared
they belong to different considered so
why because I don't have to do it it
doesn't say anything in the Torah that I
have to grow along the odds
it just isn't about don't cut your pure
don't don't slash straight don't shave
it but if I'm already growing it when we
grow it long that it will be nice and
long it's a mitzvah beautify the Mitzvah
so there are many acts that I'm not
required to do but many people still go
out of their way and they still do it
and this called the act of kasi dude so
to do the Mitzvah for the sake of the
reward you can do that but it's not an
act of considered or to say it in in
simple words it's not doing the Mitzvah
in perfection if I want to do already
the Mitzvah please do it in perfection
this is called to go beyond the letter
of the law and I always give the same
example that in my last birthday then my
kids they get very excited before my
birthday they buy different presents
they prepare things so that all the kids
they have money so they buy present and
the younger kids they don't have money
so last birthday my three year old she
sat down for probably hours making all
these paintings and little hearts and
little flowers and the cave with
explanations and then there was there
like a stick and had like a circle and
like two sticks coming out of it and she
was I got to you and I was like that's
me when I was very skinny you know the
one stick and then two sticks like that
and to see
in a circle and like it she had a few
curls she was like that's you and then
it was another stick next to it and
that's me and there was a I had other
explanations and this flower and this in
the tree and there and I was so touched
by the fact that she sat there for hours
and doing these little paintings and
then she glued it and stapled in and
looked like a well one big mishmash but
whatever it was it came from her heart
and on the other hand there all the kids
they bought presents that were worth
something and they didn't get me so
emotional and excited like the piece of
paper that had little hearts and and
flowers on it
so you see that sometimes the simplicity
in the excitement and going beyond what
you should do
that's where it hits the the soft point
and yeah the present that all the kids
gave me were nice but that's the present
that I more more valued it wasn't the
money it was the fact that she she could
have taken five shekels out of her
allowance and buy me whatever I don't
know a card but she made it herself and
this is this act of considered the
regime says I am NOT asking much I'm
asking this but when you go out of your
way and you do something greater then
what a shame asked you you melt his
heart and that's is the the beauty of
this mezuzah is that first we said that
yeah it has the power of protecting this
is one part of the mezuzah but when we
have question am I allowed to use the
mezuzah for its protection than here
because I'm not doing it for the
protection I'm doing it for them it's
well I'm benefiting from their
protection but nevertheless I'm doing it
for the sake that I want to to do the
Mitzvah and therefore there is no
problem whatsoever to use the Mitzvah
even though I know that I'm going to
benefit from its protection mine some
people might say oh hey wait a minute
maybe I should not do the Mitzvah
because I'm going to benefit from it no
you allow to benefit from it but we have
to understand and even in uh Mitzvah
not too long ago somebody came in Tommy
can you help me by mezuzah
and I told him okay what type of missus
I want it's like what this is kind it
says of course you can buy a mezuzah for
twenty dollars which will be cheap and
small and you can manage that for five
hundred dollars which will be big and
special and a quality parchment and
quality ink and the scribe is a very
unique scribe and of course is the
different levels so I remember when I
became observant I once shared the story
it's a long story but you can find it
online but the short version of the
story and that's my experience with a
mezuzah as well but I became observant
then I didn't know anything I didn't
have a rabbi nobody guided me I just had
my experience and I had a friend who
told me what to do okay and I really
really was not doing much I used to put
villain on is to say morning prayers I
didn't meet mix meat and dairy then I
moved into a new home and I was like
okay I'm a Jew I need miss results so I
decided to go and buy missus oats I
drove to the city I lived in Chicago and
I wasn't observing - no but walking into
the store I felt very uncomfortable so I
put a yarmulke on just to walk in and I
walk in with denim pants and a nice
short sleeve shirt and have big tattoos
on my arms so they I you know pulled the
shirt they feel very embarrassed that
the tools are showing on the hand and
the t-shirt was short well nevertheless
I walk into the store I put a yarmulke
on and I say hello I need a mezuzah and
I was like okay if I'm already doing a
mitzvah I'm doing it all the way and I
had a two-door post usually people buy
one mezuzah for the front door I was
like no I have eight door post I need
eight misses or the time I had a lot of
money and I was like give me the best
miss resort you have in the market not
some cheap give me the most expensive
miss result you have here okay so I
bought my eighth miss resorts and it was
so funny because they kept looking at me
and I and you know my shirt kept going
up and I keep pulling the shirt down I
feel so embarrassed
my nevertheless okay so I go out of my
store out of the
store with my numers result and I start
driving home now I'm driving home and it
was Friday afternoon I was like you know
I don't think it's the right time to
move into a new house and a Friday
Shabbat it's probably bad luck you know
what so I called my landlord and I tell
misson is that okay if I'm moving in
that different thing and he's like yeah
you can move in whenever you want of
course as long as you start paying from
today I don't care when you move in just
start paying from delay I said okay no
problem so I'm gonna move in on Sunday I
said I'll take a hotel who needs the
headache I was like eh it seems to me
like bad luck to move into a new home on
a on a Shabbat so I took a hotel room
and he tells me you have to bring me the
first month rent in a money order and
the security deposit also in a money
order okay what am I gonna get a money
order right now I'm driving on the
highway so I see a big sign for a
westerner and I get off the highway to
some neighborhood I was probably the
first Jew that ever stepped foot on that
neighborhood not such a great
neighborhood in Chicago and okay I'm
standing in line there in the Western
Union probably don't no way so I'm
standing there in the Western Union it's
like maybe 300 people there long lines
just standing there waiting to buy my
money order suddenly I hear somebody
screaming from the back stack talking
very loud and I just turned around to
see who's the person that's making all
this commotion and as I turn around this
guy screams to me
I'm like what and he comes to me hugging
me haha I'm Jewish too I'm also George
and he's hugging me like killdeer what
are you talking about she relaxed and
he's hugging me and he starts screaming
I'm George I'm George oh my mom is
Jewish
my mom my grandmother Jews I had a bar
mitzvah I'm like why are you telling me
all this and in my mind like how is he
I'm Jewish I mean I mean I know the nose
is pretty big but how do you know that
I'm Jewish
Sami I remembered all the yarmulke I
forgot the yarmulke on my head and he
starts telling me he's hold and sisters
3 in my ear by his aunt and he's days
and his Bar Mitzvah
and finally he tells me hey yo do you
smoke I'm like yeah why you want a
cigarette and he's like no you want to
quit smoking now I'm like yeah I
actually do now I was a very very heavy
smoker I used to smoke like three packs
a day or Marlboro red red Marlboro I was
cigarette after cigarette and maybe a
month before this event one time I was
driving on a highway and I started
getting pain in my heart and I literally
thought that's it I'm getting a heart
attack
I started seeing white dots everywhere I
pulled the car off the highway now my
grandfather died when he was in his 40s
from a heart attack my grandmother from
a heart it might we have a lot of heart
diseases in our family that was a heavy
smoker and my mom kept telling me you're
gonna die from a heart attack and then
I'm getting these pains in my heart but
real sharp pains okay anyways the pains
passed so months later he's telling me
you want to quit smoking now I'm right
yeah I actually do so he tells me come
tonight to this hotel we're gonna quit
smoking and I was like what uh I just
come to the hotel Oh what is it so he
tells me ever heard of quitting to smoke
through hypnotism and I said yeah I
actually didn't hear about it so it's
just come today to this hotel you're
gonna quit smoking and in my mind I was
like you know it's a Friday night it's
Shabbat told him does this cost anything
I don't want to do a business
transaction on a Friday night he tells
me gives me give me $40 $40 $40 that
night I was like you know what I'm gonna
walk there I'm not gonna drive there
there bear in mind I'm not observant at
all I'm like zero observance I walk to
this place I walk into a room was in a
hotel like in a conference room maybe 30
40 people comes a doctor up on the
stage starts giving me over a lecture
about what happens when a person smokes
what happens to the body what happens to
the blood what happens here that I think
it shows all these slides and then comes
the hypnotists and he goes up on the
stage and he starts the hypnosis and
then you know he wakes everybody up he
kills don't look at your watch how long
do you think you were out people say
five minutes six minutes yeah
felt like five six minutes seven minutes
we were hypnotized for an hour and
fifteen minutes anyways I walked out of
that door and I never touched a
cigarette since then 17 years I almost
18 years I know that I don't smoke
anymore and I walked out of the room I
went through to the restaurant in the
hotel where I was staying and I was
sitting in the smoking zone I think now
I think they don't have such things
there anymore but I would smoke still in
the smokings area then I'm holding the
secretive man I don't want to smoke and
I used to manage to go to sleep I was to
sit in bed smoke three four cigarettes
Gotha two to finalize did then go to
sleep then I would wake up in the
morning I wouldn't even open one I
already was a cigarette in my mouth and
I wake up in the morning I want to smell
I'm looking at the cigarettes and I
didn't want to tell anybody I was like
nobody will believe me so for two months
I didn't tell anybody anything and my
sister came to visit me around that time
after a week that she's with me she was
like what's going on when you're not
smoking I told her no I quit she was
like oh come on no that one I did you
just saw yourself a whole week I'm not
smoking nobody could believe I was such
a heavy smoker nobody believed that I
quit when I went back to New York to
visit a friend he says okay let's step
out to have a smoke he's smoking and
smoking and he tells me why I'm just
mocking I told him I quit he's like nah
you said yeah he goes to me like you
know like just on my pockets looking if
there's a box and I told him no I quit
smoking nobody could believe and up
until today I never touched a cigarette
17 years is going almost it gonna be 18
years now when
I mean this is my personal miracle story
how I quit smoking now when I tell it to
people people say okay well wow what a
luck that you stopped in that place to
buy the money order and that person met
you and I said this is not luck this is
the reward that the Kadosh Baruch a me
because I was so excited about the
Mitzvah of mezuzah
I wasn't observing at all it was maybe
three months after my experience I used
to put cinnamon in the morning and I
used to not eat meat and dairy that was
my level of observance and it was so
important to me to have a mezuzah
but not only on the front door on all
the doors and the best-of-the-best
supposing I'm not saving money here on
the mesozoic give me the best that you
have and I saw the the reaction I was so
excited about the midst of of mezuzah
that ashamed right away gave me a reward
that there was no chance based on nature
that I would ever quit smoking I was
like I'm gonna die a smoker and Shem
says oh yeah i'll show you what's the
power of a mitzvah and against all odds
I was able to quit smoking in such a
miraculous way that up until today now I
smell cigarettes from a mile where I get
nauseous and I give it only for this
hood of the mezuzah
only because the importance of them is
designed how everything was around it
and that's how I learned on my own flesh
is when you go there beyond the letter
of the law you go beyond what a sham
tells you sham tells you a and you says
no I'm gonna make it a beautiful egg not
a regular egg when I go all the way and
you melt a Shems arts that's where you
really climb to a higher level that you
do everything beyond the letter of the
law it's called the Hassid and the hasin
says to a Shem whatever you tell me I'm
gonna do much much more you're not
required you don't have to do it but you
do it because you want to and you know
what not that we're doing it for the
sake of getting a reward but when you go
the extra mile the Kenosha backhoe you
melt his heart he will give you anything
that you want just say just the
go that extra mile so I I have a
personal relationship so to say with the
mezuzah cause I saw that I was so
excited to do a mitzvah and that's how I
was when I became observant every
Mitzvah was so exciting but specifically
the mezuzah I saw how it not only
guarded me how it blessed me how I saw
such a goodbye a huge abundance not
necessarily in physical I didn't needed
the money near its Muslim about the
money and the abundance of this blessing
that I got is that I got my freedom
looking back I was like this is the one
of the worst habits a person can have is
smoking is just disgusting it's costly
stinks it's you dependent on some stick
it's like I don't know I could I
couldn't felt how could I smoke 15 years
now then cigarettes were cheap now
cigarettes is 40 shekels a box 40
shekels are marked when I used to smoke
was like a shekel and 15 ago so but it
didn't penetrate into my how could I
smoke for so many years so here you see
the power of the mitzvot and
specifically the power of the mezuzah
then the calash BOGO says I'm gonna give
you the Mitzvah you already can choose
if you go the extra mile or not
but we learned from here that not only
that the mezuzah has a power of guarding
you the mezuzah has a certain power in
it that gives you a certain abundance
and it's a certain Mitzvah that the
calash baba says you are allowed to
benefit from its reward because you're
doing it for the sake of the Mitzvah the
fact that you're getting the reward
that's because it's a part of the
Mitzvah
we allowed to do the mitts before the
sake of the reward and only that we
allowed to we have to beautify it so
going by oh so beautiful mrs. old make
sure all your all your doors in the
house at mrs. Oates and needless to say
this is a very unique Mitzvah that we
have as a nation of the Jews everywhere
you're driving in different neighborhood
you see a mezuzah Julia zero Julia zero
sometimes you drive in a different
neighborhood you see one house as a
mezuzah
as house doesn't have a mezuzah this is
a symbol of pride to our nation and we
have to carry it proudly that we have a
missus on our door we carry a shims name
on our doors and needless to say that
the reward is that he guards us and
blesses us and we get this abundance so
I like not only seeing the practical
part of the Mitzvah but also seeing
there beyond the practical that we have
to learn from that that we have to do
the mitzvoth beyond what a sham tells us
to do
it's not just to do it according what
the book says and senses that's enough
to me go an extra mile the kadosh book
says you you want me to go the extra
mile with you then you go beyond the
letter of the law with me and this is
how it works measure for measure you go
beyond the letter of the law the Kenosha
bahu also stretches and it goes way
beyond what you deserve to get the
solution we should the merits to
constantly be involved in mitzvahs and
constantly carry the name of Hashem with
us and maybe so say that we should all
sleep all be blessed with an abundance
of physicality and health and wealth and
happiness and all the good things that
our Shem knows how to give us
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