Meat during the nine days 🥩🍗

it is the custom of the ashkenazim to refrain from eating meat and drinking wine from rodes of until midday of the 10th of all because of the destruction of the B mikdash the destruction of the temple the exclusion to this custom would be chabis or sudas Mitzvah how about a potato that was cooked with a piece of meat would that be permitted or is that included in the custom that the mishura says since it absorbed the Taste of meat directly from the piece of meat it too would be included in this custom how about a pot that was used to cook something of meat would that be included can I go ahead and make soup so that the mishura says of course you could why because it is only absorbing the taste of meat from the walls of the pot and not directly from the piece of meat