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Shatnez on a Meis and Loeg Larash by Rabbi Yitzchak Breitowitz
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Delivered 11 Adar I 5784 - February 20, 2024 www.ouisrael.org facebook.com/ouisrael #OUisrael #torah #judaism #torahlectures #halacha #shiur
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okay just before the uh R begins his sh
all of the sh this morning are dedicated
to memory he was injured a couple of
weeks ago last week quite seriously down
in Gaza and yesterday he unfortunately
succumbed to his wound so any to learned
this morning will be le Lou
Nish
amaz okay morning everyone hope hope
you're well uh again just to remind
people because I go off on many many
digressions but there is indeed a main
topic and the main topic is discussing
the mitv in the Torah that are connected
to that's our topic and in that
connection we were discussing the
Mitzvah of remembering the Exodus every
single day
and then we in turn went into the
interesting question uh whether that
mitvah will apply when mashia comes
because remember Ben zoma takes the
position based on the verse in yahu that
the Messianic Redemption is going to be
so much greater in scope that we're not
going to even mention the Exodus and
therefore that is a Mitzvah that's going
to drop out and our discussion I don't
want to repeat the whole discussion was
isn't is that not a violation of the
rambam's
principle uh that the Torah is immutable
the Torah is unchangeable and the ram
says
explicitly that every single Mitzvah
will apply when mashia comes including
coros including the I'll get to your
Forum question and how could uh be an
exception to that so you recall this is
R Al's question R Al's question on the
rambam is how could he say
that the Mitzvah are Eternal and they'll
never drop out according to Benz there
is one Mitzvah that does drop out and
that is the Mitzvah
of was
benus was Benz a coair in one of the 13
Nuna number one that's not very logical
and number two the rambam rules like
Bena because the r pasin we mentioned
the Exodus at night and therefore
remember if
is mar the night you're
not so the r himself it's going to drop
out so that's Al's question you will
remember that I shared with you the
answer of the rashah that says that
since the essence of remembering the
Exodus is to thank Hashem for G so in a
sense if I'm still thanking Hashem for a
greater Redemption the spirit and
purpose of the Mitzvah has not been
nullified the Mitzvah continues but it
it simply connects to a different
historical historical event okay now the
last thing we talked about was a su in
oh yeah let me let me address your
question the question was raised that
bottom line is putting
aside the bottom line is the rambam says
explicitly that all of the Mitzvah are
going to apply liot mashia and he
mentions specifically
and all
the so people ask a question is there
not a famous
M that says
that all of the Y are going to be
nullified except for porim there are
actually two GEOS one Gea says except
for por and another Gea says except fora
and por there're actually two texts but
that implies if I read it literally
there's not going to be PES there's not
going to be R shabas shabas is
technically not a holiday but no rash no
yamer no suus no no P right so how do
you reconcile that I mean again the
rambam's principle is Torah doesn't
change and the rambam says explicitly Li
you're going to keep all the mitv what
about
the that all the mo are going to be
buttal and indeed let me point out the
ramb himself
in brings that very so you can't even
give an answer that the rambam didn't
pasin like that Kaz because the ram in
fact does like that Kaz so how do you
how do you reconcile it so it's a very
it it is a very good question um the
simplest answer is that the word butel a
holiday will be
butel does not not have to mean it will
be
discontinued it means it will pale into
relative
insignificance as compared to puim
meaning to say puim will be the most
important of the because it
shows even in times of Darkness even in
times of concealment so butel does not
mean operationally you're not going to
keep the holiday but it means porm will
have a greater importance than even the
other holidays and remember this is the
remage of the Aris that even the holiest
day of the year yum Kipper is called Y
and
the yipper is a day almost like porim
almost like porm of course this year we
have porm a month later but you know
even in Adan we celebrate to some degree
the 14th and the 15th of Adar we call it
porm Katan uh and you know usual I am we
we look for every excuse to have uh
parties so uh so I'm sure there will be
celebrations of porm cut as well both on
yudal and Tes and then of course we'll
have the big the big porm and of course
uh it's amazing how you know what does
it say the more things change the more
they stay the same uh so many years
after porm uh we Face threats of enemies
that want to destroy us and the source
of that threat is from the Persian
Kingdom which is presently known as Iran
so the humans of the worlds are sadly
very much around and uh when we think
about poorm we should think about the
idea that just as porm was the downfall
of the Persian enemy that tried to
destroy us uh may this porm also and let
it even be P let it be early
but let it be the downfall
of the enemies of the Jews that try to
try to destroy them this is a great
great you know as I said last week
people ask should we downplay or not
celebrate as much on porm and again I'm
not pasin or anything but it seems to me
that the relevance of porm is so
powerful to the exact situation that
we're in that it's a holiday that we
need to emphasize and not simply forget
about your downplay uh in some in some
way okay so now I want to deal with
another issue you you'll recall we did
discuss a
su which also goes to the immutability
of the Torah and that is the issue of
can you put
shus on a met right so we dress a MCE in
what are
called are burial shrouds now this will
not come up in Modern Life and obviously
know are not made with shatas today but
thear often discusses hypothetical
questions to illustrate princip
even though it's not going to come
up and that is the says can you put on a
that are
shus wool and linen right I'm not
allowed to wear wool and linen a Jew
cannot wear wool and linen what about a
dead Jew can a dead you wear wool and L
so the talud basically says there's no
problem because once a person is dead
they're not obligated in Mitzvah fact
that's the meaning of the verse
in
the dead cannot praise God now the truth
is they do praise God in GH but it means
they can't praise God by doing the MIT
once a person is dead he
is so there's no problem in putting
shess on a dead body but the only
problem the gamorra says is that if if
the mitzvot are going to apply after
Resurrection so we don't know when
that's going to be maybe that will
happen before the have disintegrated so
at the moment of Resurrection he's in
the mitz again and then you're going to
have a problem in other words the only
problem is not putting it on the dead
body but the problem of what will happen
when there's resurrection and the gar
even says and if there is an opinion
that says after Resurrection the mitzvot
will not apply remember there is an
opinion that says that there's no
problem at all there's only going to be
a problem if after the resur the Mitzvah
will apply this is the g
in this was announced yeah this is just
announcing that uh this
is
uh and ver Morel once again we should
think about his and the and the family
as we're
learning so the gamor says there is no
problem in putting it on a dead body the
only problem
is he's going to be
transgressing so
now this is a total digression but it's
a fascinating
toos asks a very good
question many of you are probably
familiar with the that's
in that when you are within
four of a mes a man is not supposed to
have his SES out a man is not supposed
to wear filling uh one should not learn
Torah and the reason is since the mess
is not able to do
mitzvos you are mocking him by doing
mitzvos in front of him and the gor
quotes a in Mish that
says rash when you make fun of a poor
person right you make fun of a poor
person generally like you show off your
wealth in front of a poor
person say you you are cursing his maker
you're you're you're you're shaming God
so to speak so lash in its literal sense
refers to a person who's financially
poor don't mock a poor person by uh
showing off your wealth but kazal say
that the inability to do
Mitzvah is a great poverty and the Nish
hovers around its grave and you come in
and I you wear your stitches you wear
your Fillin you do your learning and
this mess is not able to do that that is
painful that is humiliating to
the and therefore you are M to distance
yourself from the Mets in order not to
transgress the proverb of
scho called This is
the and thein this
way there is a whole what about daving
see this interesting question I mean if
you're telling me I don't do Mitzvah in
front of a m so if I'm at a Kev the Kev
of a parent the Kev of a sadic whatever
it is uh does that mean I don't say to
him does that mean I can't D in there so
some say that anything you're doing in
honor of the Met would be permitted like
saying to Hill him and the like but if
you if you just want to di in something
you have to do anyway you are indeed to
distance yourself you know you don't
dive in right next to a mess uh okay now
toos asked the following
question if I put shus on a
mess and I'm basically telling this dead
guy hey you don't have mitos anymore so
you can wear shotas oh my why isn't that
a low Lush the same low L Rush that I
don't wear fill in in front of a dead
body because the Nish that hovers over
the grave is going to be in pain so if I
put shatas on a mess and I'm telling the
mess essentially don't worry about it
you know you don't have these mitzah
anymore isn't that in other words why
does the gamor say that the only
potential problem is he'll be
resurrected with shess and if you hold
the Mitzvah are not going to be
reactivated there is no
problem there is intrinsically a problem
I am doing an action that creates the
implication that he doesn't have to keep
Mitzvah anymore and that the gamorra
calls is low
rash and the gamar totally ignores that
Concept in the context of the shatas
this is the of toos
in so
the offers a very very ingenious answer
he says you find that the eer of L Lush
only applies to positive Commandments
mitzvos like Fillin like cus
like Torah learning it does not apply to
a low s like shus now I'll explain why
but that that's his therefore you will
never
find in the context of
a now why is that so so here's what he
says he says a mitz when you fulfill a
Mitzvah that adds Holiness to your Nish
so I'm going to I'm going to use numbers
the numbers are meaningless but they're
just for examples let's assume you wake
up in the morning and your kadua
quotient is a plus five meaningless
number when
you it goes up to six
right every Mitzvah you do is raising
your level of Holiness right holy holy
holy a mace is kind of stuck where he
was when he died because since a mace
cannot do Mitzvah anymore a mace does
not have the ability to increase his
Holiness quotient now there are some
ways that he could by his children doing
mitzvos Etc but the mace himself does
not have that ability so as a result
when a mace sees you adding to your
kadus and the mace is unable to add to
his kadha the mace is in great pain the
mace is humiliated the the mace feels
SAR and that is the esod low L rush
because you're growing in your Holiness
and the mace is kind of limited meaning
even if he was a great stic as high as
he is let's say he's at a million okay
but he can't become a million in one
he's a million and that's s because
you're starting maybe at a lower level
but you're able to go up and up and up
that's what they say the
Von who
died suus uh they say towards the the
end of his life maybe the last day of
his life last minute of his life we're
not sure he was crying and he was
holding his situs and he said there is
nothing like this world that s has cost
a few copcs a few pennies whatever it
was and in this you can achieve and gain
so
mucha for almost nothing but once you
die where whatever you are is what you
are you're not going to go up now alas
has a different dynamic
say let me give you a simple example the
tell us right you're not allowed to
murder you're not allowed to commit
adultery now I've gone through many many
days uh where I didn't I have not
murdered
somebody and I have not committed
adultery right I and I hope that most of
you all of you I'm
sure have have similar experience now
here's my question if you started the
day with a plus five and you success F
manage not to murder
somebody is your kadua going to rise or
you're simply going to remain meaning
meaning the following if you violate a
negative
commandment you lose kadua but if you
fulfill a negative Commandment that just
maintains you at your status quo unlike
positive Commandments which add to your
Holiness to God I'll go back I'll
actually qualify this shortly but that
this is the basic idea so therefore the
following if a lotas does not increase
your kadha but you lose your kadua
because you're rebelling against God it
turns out a mace is not at any
disadvantage in wearing shot this
because let's assum again the numbers
are meaningless the mace died at a level
of
five now and I'm five he's five and I'm
five now if I put shess on myself since
I'm rebelling against God I go from five
to four but if fam put shess on since
he's not rebelling against God he
remains at five so actually he's better
off than me because the negative
commandment is not going to affect him
because it's not going to be Po in his
Kad so says the it's
not because there's nothing for him to
be unhappy about when I'm doing and and
learning the mace is unhappy because I'm
growing and he can't grow but when I put
shockness on him he's not losing
anything by the shess because the only
thing not wearing shess does to me is
keep me at five and he'll be edif five
even with the sh and therefore says the
there is no din
ofv SL yes why would anyone ever put
shess on a Jew no no well well okay I
mentioned I guess may maybe you walked
in a little late I had mentioned that
the talmud often raises theoretical
questions that are not Lisa now the
truth of the matter is the case would be
somebody dies and you literally have no
other clothing to bury them in other
than shinness but the point is what
second I don't know if you heard the gor
at all I mean the gamor I mentioned is
once a person is dead they don't have
Commandments right that I understand so
there's no proh there's no prohibition
if Jews are buried in a Talis which is
clearly not shus yeah then why would
somebody be concerned about what clothes
you put on a dead body because you don't
dress them in Judaism anyway that's why
this makes no sense well well you know
things don't make sense you're right if
you have a kadisha that is fully stuck
but but remember people people can die
in all sorts of circumstances uh people
can die on desert islands people could
die on uh on tra ocean voyages meaning
there are emergency situations where
there may be no choice now uh these are
going to be rare and far between uh but
as I say the talmud will often address
very uncommon situations to illustrate
certain points so you can't really say
well this will never happen I agree with
you I actually agree with you it
probably will not happen uh but uh the
theoretical point is still there that
there is no Prohibition in putting
shatas on a mace uh and once again uh
you know people die unfortunately in all
sorts of tragic I I mean I don't want to
connect it to gods or whatever it is but
but you know you can you might have a
situation somebody dies in captivity and
another Jew wants to try to bury them
somehow and and you may be stuck with an
extreme circumstance and you need to
know what the is yeah um is there like
um what you're saying is there like a
time limit because at a certain point
the the will leave the physical body
know so yeah well the Nish leaves the
body right away but but the thing is
there's a certain hovering thing now you
do have a good point uh which I don't
have a full answer for because there is
a concept that the Nish H during
Shiva and then to some degree for 12
months but after 12 months it's not
there anymore so your question is a good
question uh so why can't I put on thin
in front of a a dead body that you know
that died more than a year ago given the
fact that the the Sham is not there so
that that's a good question apparently
even when the Nish is in shamayim it has
an awareness of what you're doing in
front of its physical body and that
gives us s okay so I want to point out
that the the's
idea that negative Commandments don't
add to your Holiness they simply prevent
the depletion of your
Holiness is not so clear I mean I gave
you an example where I think it is clear
if I went through a day and I didn't
murder and I didn't rape so that
probably does not make me a Holier
person that just means I maintain my
Holiness and I don't lose it on the
other hand if you if you consider
mitzvah for which there's a very strong
Yara Mitzvah because you know most
people don't have a desire to murder
somebody or at least a desire that
they'll carry out meaning the fact that
you didn't kill somebody today was
probably not an exercise of conquering
your Yara sometimes might be but okay
but on the other hand take something
like
lanara right lanara is a big AA and all
of us you know we have desires to do
that and if I conquer my Yates orara and
I don't get angry or I don't speak
lanara I would think that that is a
spiritual accomplishment meaning to say
I think that does add to your kadha in
fact there's a kazal that says if you
sat and you didn't do an AA if it's that
if it's that type of a
it's you did a Mitzvah so the statement
that negative the Fulfillment of
negative Commandments do not create
Holiness they just prevent depletion of
Holiness is undoubtedly true for those
negative Commandments which I am not
struggling with I think it would be a
little less true with the negative
Commandments that we actually struggle
with but once again it could be that
shess is something we don't have a big
Yahara for so therefore the uh I don't
get reward for not wearing shortness I
simply don't lose my kadha and therefore
the mace is not affected now I want to
raise another issue and you just raised
about Talis because I'm going to give
you a case where this answer doesn't
work very before I get to that before I
get to that let me mention that um
the was actually echoed in a different
context by the Mahal maral who lived
much earlier the maral lived in the
1500s maral of Prague and the moral
deals with a perennial question that is
discussed in many many many places and
that is the teaching of
our that the OS kept all of the Mitzvah
of the
Torah even before Matan Torah this is an
old M based on a Miss in Kad
Theos actually the Mish does not say
Theos the mishna says
Abu kept the whole Tor before it was
given it seems to be understood although
it's a little bit of a jump that this
statement that AB ainu kept the whole
Torah before it was given does not only
apply to AB but it applies to and yob
and it even applies to
the now because of this there's a huge
literature of commentary in which
different things the OS did that seem to
be in violation of the Torah how do you
justify it now the simple answer would
have been hey before the Torah was given
these laws didn't apply that would be
the simple answer but if you go with the
idea that they kept the Torah even
before it was given how do you explain
this so one of the question I'm not
going to go over all the questions this
could literally be a course in and of
itself but one of the famous questions
is Yakov
marrying Rael and and Leia because Ral
and Leia are
sisters now under the noahide law under
the law that applies to the
non-jews there is no Prohibition in
marrying two sisters so the isra of
marrying two sisters is only after the
Torah was given but the problem is if
the OS kept the whole Torah even before
it was given how could Yakov marry to
sisters so the maral brings two
interesting answers that he rejects till
he gets to his third answer the first
answer maral brings is uh based on the
ramban the ramban gives the following
idea that the OT kept the whole Torah
before it was given only when they were
living in
erel because of the Holiness of AR
Israel they felt an obligation to keep
the Torah even before mat Torah they
knew it withes and the like since yov
married Rael and Le when he was in
laan's house the OS did not feel any
obligation see this is interesting the
distinction the ramban is making is not
Mitzvah I mean there are certain Mitzvah
that only apply in Isel but the ran is
suggesting that even a Mitzvah like not
marri marrying two sisters that does
apply
in after Mator it is not connected to
the land but when the OS were keeping
the Torah on a voluntary basis they
would do so only when they
are when they are in the Palace of the
king and therefore in a sense raal and
Leia got grandfathered in that since
they were married in Yakov could keep
them so to speak when he came back to
arel although the ran suggests perhaps
this might be a reason that Rael died
shortly after they came because once
they're in AR Israel yakob is governed
by a higher standard now this is the
rans Y that only in arel did the OS keep
the
Torah marel doesn't like that because
the morale says that's introducing a
distinction that is foreign to the Torah
itself because the Torah says some
Mitzvah only apply in the land of
Israel like
truma and some mitos apply universally
universally like not marrying two
sisters so M if Theos take the position
that before mat we don't have to keep
anything then Yakov could marry two
sisters even in in Israel Eli he's going
to keep the Torah well if he's going to
keep the Torah he ought to keep the
Torah the way the Torah gives it and
once the Torah is given it doesn't
differentiate between
ER so why should Theos make a
differentiation that the Torah itself
doesn't make no so again the Ran's
answer would be that since patan Torah
the observance of the Torah was optional
and not mandatory so the OS could choose
okay that's the ran but the moral claims
that's illogical because you either keep
the Torah or you don't keep the Torah
either position would have been
Justified but if you keep the Torah you
got to keep the Torah the way the Torah
is given and marrying two sisters is
applicable in yes the ran also say that
only performing performing mitvah in is
is on a higher level in performing
that's correct that that is the that is
the ramban and this could very well be
the basis of his
distinction why the ofos felt it was
more important in ER so that could
exactly be be the case now the ra moral
then brings a second answer which he
doesn't Source he doesn't say who said
it but he seems to say it's somebody
else other words it's not his own answer
and that is when Rael and Leia joined
Yakov ain's
family they repudiated the idolatry and
the
paganism of laan of B and
Lan therefore they underwent what would
have been a
preman Torah
conversion now it's hard to understand
what conversion actually meant then uh
but the
repudiation of
idolatry had a of conversion so here's
an amazing some of you might know this
but it's kind of a
mind-blowing there is a rule for
conversion that a convert is a newly
created
entity newly created that has some very
surprising
applications don't quote me on it but
this actually means if a brother and a
sister convert to
Judaism they are no longer related to
each other and under Torah law it's not
genetically advised but under Torah law
a brother can marry a sister a mother
can marry a son a father could marry a
daughter because G shener
Ki now rest assured that the rabbis came
in and they prohibited this rically
because of appearance's sake but under
Torah law it's actually permitted so
says the maral in the name of he doesn't
say who but the moral says that someone
gave this answer since Rael and Leia
converted by adopting the
monotheism of Yakov they are no longer
related to each other
and therefore these are two unrelated
women that polygamy was permitted
obviously polygamy was permitted that
wasn't the problem right so that's
answer number two which Morel does not
reject but he prefers to give a third
answer and his third answer is very
fascinating that and it's to me it's the
same as
the and that is when we say the AOS kept
the Torah before it was given that only
applies to the positive
Commandments to fill in and the like but
they didn't observe necessarily the
negative Commandments because once again
the positive Commandments added to their
Holiness the negatives don't add
anything it's simply depletes but if you
don't have a commandment you're not
doing a sin there's no depletion
therefore even in ER Isel the maral says
the OS did not feel Bound by Lo sis this
is mamash uh many in fact it's a little
surprising to me that the M does not
quote the mar but it seems to me it's
exactly the same the same sp Let me give
you another context where this comes
up uh you know the familiar
principle that even if a person is not
obligated in the
Commandment if they do the Commandment
they still get reward but it's a lesser
level of reward this is called
God
VI meaning the person who is commanded
to do a Mitzvah gets more reward than a
person who does a a commandment does a
Mitzvah that they're not commanded in
fact the the maral says this is the
source of why we celebrate a bar
mitzvah why is a bar mitzvah a happy
event I mean you might say it ought to
be maybe a little bit of trepidation the
answer is because until Bar Mitzvah or
Bas Mitzvah any Mitzvah the boy or the
girl did they'll get reward for it but
as an an MIT they're not yet commanded
once they become
commanded now they do mitv they get the
reward of
a that is the m of sud Mitzvah Mitzvah
uh again maybe we'll discuss another
time isn't I mean shouldn't that logic
be 100% the same for AAS Mitzvah meaning
uh
if we were to ask okay I mean putting
aside that's not an issue but if there's
an obligation to make a festive meal
when my son becomes 13 and the reason is
because we are rejoicing in the fact
that he has transitioned from
an to
a that is 100% identical to when my
daughter becomes 12 she is also
transitioning
from so one would assume that the of sud
Mitzvah foras Mitzvah should be 100% the
same now again you may not make it the
same way may not take the same form that
that's a separate issue but the notion
of a special Su now
raaj so paskins and his logic is
extremely strong he says there is no
basis whatsoever to differentiate
between
mitzvah for a bar mitzvah boy and
mitzvah for Mitzvah girl Etc because the
is the same going to
from to again that is the
simple however has a Chua that I will
admit is little difficult to understand
in which he says although it's certainly
permitted and may be encouraged to make
a special for AAS Mitzvah he does not
classify if it as
aah because he says it is it is not of
the same nature as the obligation of a
Mitzvah but again the the is a little
bit elusive he seems to be using SAS as
a reason but it's hard to understand
because making a suda is not necessarily
a contradiction to SAS I mean at most
you might say don't make it so public
even if you're going to go in that
direction but a suda among the family uh
what's going to be you know what's the
issue of SAS I mean uh people eat are
eating together anyway so I'll leave
that uh for maybe another another
occasion uh but this is the principle
now toos asks a very obvious
question why do you tell me oh yeah so
one second so that means what if a woman
takes Lula she's exempt but she gets
reward sitting in the Su she's exempt
but she gets
reward okay so this is a well-known
principle it's that even if not
obligated in the Mitzvah you do it as an
and you get you get you get as an ask
the obvious question why should AA get
more reward I would think the opposite
like time and a half for overtime if all
I do is what I have to
do so that's one thing but if I go
beyond what I have to do I ought to get
extra
credit meaning you might you might argue
that the 12 12y old who goes to
shakas deserves more credit than the
13-year-old who goes to shakas the
13-year-old has to do it what you're
doing what you have to do what do you
want the 12-y old going beyond the law a
woman who takes Lula going beyond the
law right it's the opposite we would
think if I do more than I have to do I
ought to get more credit so TOA says the
beautiful psychological thought that
once a person has to do something
the ater Hara is much stronger not to do
it because I don't like to be told what
to do yeah I'll learn I'll dve and I'll
do everything but don't tell me I have
to do it once I have to do it I want to
rebel right the husband this is not
autobiographical who wants to take out
the garbage to help his wife and as he
picks up the garbage he hears his wife
calling from the other room be sure to
take out the garbage there will be a
moment in which he says I'm putting it
down no one tells me nobody tells me
what to do right we have a rebellious
streak now this might be one of the
explanations there are many more
explanations why a boy after Bar Mitzvah
sometimes
experiences a little bit of a decline
meaning look there are a lot of reasons
I there was a big event but what part of
it is psychologically is that he was
doing mitzvos as an 11-year-old a
12-year-old gmak he was doing more than
he had to do he had a sense of Pride now
he's like everybody else he goes to show
no big deal that's what you're supposed
to do uh I also say I don't mean to be
cynical that you know one of the things
that's happened in the reform movement
over the past uh two decades is a
positive development in some ways
there's been a great increase in the
Mitzvah ofin more and more reform Jews
in the in their temples are wearing
fillan but the increase is almost 100%
women uh
so the women are increasing their Fillin
wearing the men are not maybe toos is an
explanation women are exempt fromin
because it's so at most it's going to
be but the man that has to wear fill
don't tell me what to do and the like
now you want say uh okay so now listen
to
this is there a concept
of in a
let me give you an example you see how
absurd this is the tyus says a Coen is
not allowed to marry a divorced
woman Isel is allowed to so let's assume
that someone's in the sh market and a
beautiful perfect shid happens to be
with a divorced woman okay let so what
if he says the following you know I know
I'm allowed to marry a divorced woman
because I'm a is but I want to be M and
keep the negative Commandments of not
marrying a divorced woman because even
though it doesn't apply to me but in Isa
still gets rewards for keeping a I mean
think about that the same way a a woman
would
say I don't have to take lulf but I'm
gonna take lulf because I get
reward so why can't the Israel say I'm
not going to marry that divorced woman
because I want to be M the low of not
marrying a gr as
an that would be a certifiably crazy
statement to
me but but what in other words it's
obvious is it not that the notion of
doing a Mitzvah you're not obligated to
do is a good thing is talking about
positive
Commandments negative Commandments only
apply to the people they're addressed to
and again once again again it's the same
reason because when I do positive
Commandments I add to my
kadua a negative commandment depletes me
but only if I'm rebelling against God so
if a calling marries a grusa he's
depleting his Holiness if the Israel
marries a grusa he's not depleting his
Holiness there is nothing that the
negative commandment accomplishes
spiritually that makes any sense to
obser right so we see this common idea
in in in the and in the
the between negatives and positives now
let me mention another thing you had
mentioned that uh it is
customary that uh in addition to the the
burial shrouds a Jewish man is buried in
a Talis right this is what is always
done uh if he has his own Talis
particularly if he used the Talis he D
in it uh we actually you know bury him
in his Talus if not the
will supply a Talis now there is an old
custom that the Talis is rered
pul the talus is made not Kosher a
corner right tus is a four cornered
garment one of the corners is cut off so
it's not squared P to indicate that he's
exempt from mitzvos he doesn't have to
keep these mitzvos
anymore now the question is this I
understand that putting shockness on a
mess would not be a problem because it's
only a negative commandment but
here here the logic is l l rush if if I
don't wear my ties in front of the dead
body because I'm mocking him that he no
longer can do the Mitzvah I'm certainly
mocking him by putting on a pule Talis
by saying hey it doesn't make a
difference for you anymore and here you
can't give the answer to distinguish
between negative and positive because
wearing CED is a positive command
that adds to your Holiness and the Mets
is not doing it so the question is what
is the
justification of making the talage pule
why isn't that
Lush now because of this there were a
number of
gdan who disagreed with this Mina and
they left an
instruction that they wanted to be
buried in a kosher Talus and I'll tell
you two stories about this because they
both occurred around the same time uh
one story involved the vag G the vag
himself left instructions that he was to
be buried in a kosher talas because he
felt it was Ling L rush now the villag
as I mentioned
died and for the last uh months of his
life uh there was I think his wife his
wife was already n teras his wife
predeceased him uh so he was alone but
there were tum that would take care of
him and uh one of his closest TM was a
person called
rava and ravaja was with the G for 24
hours a
day but after yum Kipper the vagon
seemed to be in relatively good health
and there were other people around he
had children around Saga wanted to visit
his parents who live near vilna for
circus he just went to his parents uh
forus and then he gets word that the
vagon got very ill and died suus so he
rushed back to go to the Leva and not
just because it's Lev of his REI but
because the vagon had confided in him
that he wanted to be buried n kosher
Talis and the kadish wasn't aware of
that yet so he runs back but he comes up
in the middle of the
funeral and the Von's body they didn't
use coffins then just like Yim the
villon was already draped in a pusle
Talis so he said stop
the funeral St says the gr
commanded that he wear kosher
Talis so a Baston was convened they had
to decide what to do should they honor
the gr's request so the Von's funeral
was stopped right in the middle the Bon
convened and
they that if a kades allowed us to put a
pule Talis on him and we didn't get word
until we went this far it is the will of
Hashem
that we don't depart from the Min and as
a result the vagon was buried in a pule
Talis uh it's interesting there are
other times I think I mentioned it there
are times where the vagon wanted to
depart from a standard Min and also
Heavenly events prevented him the vagon
held that one should recite Basim every
day even
in and every time he tried to do that in
his minion uh there was a fire in the
show and they had to close down for a
few weeks or whatever it
was they were M now the second story was
almost the same time and this involved a
great great sadic in
Lithuania uh R Alexander ziskin from
hna uh who wrote a tremendous
tremendously beautiful mus saer
of
called
I don't think it's ever been translated
in English it's really one of the great
great great mus although there's a lot
of cabala in it maybe that's why they
didn't translate it tremendous
tremendous
sadic uh who lived around the same time
as the Von their lives overlapped
although he survived the vagon he also
left an instruction that he was to be
buried in a kosher Talis and they did
they actually put a kosher Talis on
him but as they were lowering the body
the Talis caught on a
nail and it
ripped so once again that was seen as a
sign that you don't change
the you don't want to give it to much
yeah um I I'll check that I mean you are
correct that when a garment is ripped
it's not maab Tuma but the truth of the
matter is the for sure are right but
you're saying because the talus is Holy
we don't want have to much M I'll check
it I'll check it but be as it made the
Von held that that's not enough to
override the the low egg the low EG L
Rush um yeah I'm sorry oh yeah if you
cut the corner off
yeah the beged isn't required in C no
that that's correct you're 100% correct
meaning our our mic was to cut off one
of the tits yeah there are two it's a
very good point there there are two
different variations there are two
different variations of what the minog
is uh one is to cut off the ties in
which case he is wearing a four cornered
garment without CES others say cut off
the corner let me let me explain the
background a little bit that may address
the low L Rush problem meaning meaning
to put a four cornered
garment that's missing the ch
is making fun of him by saying you don't
have this
Mitzvah so that's why the Von said put
on a a kosher Talis so some want to
address the Von's concern and preserve
the Min by burying him in a Talis in
which you round off or cut off one of
the corners that way you're you're kind
of killing two birds with one stone
you're keeping the Min of making it a
puzzle but you're not making fun of him
because you're not putting on a begot
that's high of instances so that would
be a a compromise for that position I
should have clarified that how is it
that they wouldn't know that doesn't
make sense you know it's a it's a good
question I don't know I mean if the D
had this wish uh one would have figured
it would have been communicated to more
than one person who happens to be out of
town at the time it's it's a good
question I I don't know there's a bit of
a mystery in some of these some of these
stories um if the Von enough uh he
should have made it known to them for
sure now they may not have well the MMOs
is they would have listened to him had
they known ahead of time they actually
would have listened to him uh but they
did they didn't know uh by the way one
other thing about the in the time of the
Von there was the famous story of the G
sedc of vilna have you heard about this
this was uh Valentine patski uh count
pusy was the richest landowner in Poland
he had
999 Estates wow and somebody asked him
well why don't you just get another one
make it a thousand he said no no no if
people say I have a thousand Estates
they'll say oh it's an approximation
maybe has 990 but if it's 999 they know
this is exactly what I have you know
they're not going to round it off or or
whatever whatever it is so he was a very
very wealthy wealthy man and his son
Valentine from the time he was young
somehow wanted to be want to be
connected to Judaism even though his
family were the typical you know
anti-semitic Catholics I mean they were
not uh friendly to Jews at all and he
talked about at the age of seven on
chabas he had this tremendous turbulence
in his soul he could find No Rest
agitated every shabas because he wasn't
connecting to chabas So eventually he
became a g but he lived in secrecy
because in those days in Poland V was
part of Poland then goes back and forth
uh you could be burnt at the stake for
converting to Judaism wow so he
literally lived a secret life uh as a
poor person who studied with the
Von but his whereabouts were revealed by
another Jew a Jew kind of turned him in
those they only go and curse that family
that they continued to suffer for
hundreds of years afterwards uh and
because count puski had so much
influence he managed to make a deal that
as long as his son would just keep
Judaism in private he could live just
don't just come home openly identify
yourself as Catholic and you can do what
you want privately this is special
connections and Valentine who is called
Aram Ben Aram refused he said he was not
going to represent himself and he says
he was he will die he will die
KES the night before his uh execution
well he's going to be burned he was
going to be burned the night before his
death the vagon said to him you know
through cabala and through Miracles I
could release you I could get you out of
here um
so
asked am I Hally
obligated to be saved by Supernatural
miraculous means doeses
require that you use Miracles so the
vagon said no because the Tyra only
requires natural processes you're not
obligated I can I can save you but
you're not obligated so he said if I'm
not
obligated I would rather die Al
kesem and he was burnt at the stake by
the second by by the uh government by
the the the the government in vilna he
was burnt at the stake the second day of
Shas second day of Shas and his ashes
are buried
uh next to the vagon I mean the Von died
afterwards but they're right they were
right next to each other and um until
the
Holocaust uh in the great shol of VNA
when they did Yar they said a special
Yar they didn't say for the V go a
special Yar for aam B Aram the gedc of
vilna uh in the v Yeshiva which was
founded by the disciple of the V
they had a certain n
for we're so happy how good is our lot
that was said to be the Negan that the
gtic of vness sank as he was being led
to his execution that became part of the
lore in the Yeshiva I think on you I
don't I don't know the myself but
I think on YouTube you can actually find
it uh that nigan uh being being
preserved now the one thing would that
be considered suicide no that that's the
that's the point um you are only
obligated that's the point you are
obligated to sustain your life by
natural means you are not obligated to
sustain your life by miraculous means
the Von said I could save you by a
miracle a miracle a miracle not changing
no you're correct you're correct if if
if he could save his life in a normal
way he would be obligated and would be
suicide the Kish is it was a miracle so
you don't have to do that so
the one thing that the government didn't
want is the government didn't want him
to become a martyr they didn't want a
lot of Jews Gathering right so they
prohibited on pain of death anybody to
be present it was going to be a private
thing nobody was allowed to be
there but it is said that that
umand
the managed to sneak in and he snuck
under the
fence and he was right next to the Getta
as he was being burnt and he heard theed
saying the there's a when you
die there's a recite because it's
aim taught that to the kto before they
were massacred and rander Z said he was
to answer aain to the bra of the G
right before he died on the second day
of shis over his C there was a beautiful
beautiful Oak Tre oak tree that somehow
sprouted
up and that tree was there for more than
a hundred
years uh the tree died uh in the
Holocaust the tree the tree itself died
with the destruction of vilna as a city
uh the tree uh no longer died no longer
was there um so
whatever it is is very interesting
stories and and the like this is AR B AR
haer and uh I don't know why did I
mention that oh I mentioned yeah the two
people who wanted the Talis to be kosher
were the gr and
theod and both of them had an
interesting connection with AB abam the
GE the gr was his rebi and the was he
says to be there to hear the braa that
was recited I'll I'll I'll KES Hashem so
so ultimately we are left with the
question I mean just just remind the
question basically is
that putting the talus on the mess and
then making the the talus puzle is
making fun of the person but that's what
I suggested there may be a difference
between cutting off a tius and cutting
off a corner you see the difference when
I cut off the
tius he is actually in a state of
transgression he's wearing a four
cornered garment without SES and that's
l l rush because you don't have that
Mitzvah anymore Mas if the corner is
rounded uh there's no it's like anything
else it's a garment that's not Four
Corners so I'm not making fun of him
because he's just not wearing it's
equivalent to not wearing aalis at all
in that way so that would be the source
of the of the compromised position okay
so I think we finished more or less our
discussion of
uh next week uh we're going to discussin
becausein too is actually a in
commemoration
of and we'll talk about some aspects of
How It's fill and commemorates the ex so
R is a dead person correct that's
correct and how could you embarrass a
dead person no so the idea here is uh
the dead body does not get embarrassed
but there is a Nish there's a soul
and the soul is aware of what you're
doing in front of the body so when I do
certain things in front of a dead body I
am humiliating that soul that Soul feels
pain that is a real live entity fact the
body the truth is if you understand
death a certain way uh death is
described as taking off a bath robe I
mean a person is going to a swimming
pool or going to a bath so I take off my
robe the body is the robe of the person
the person is the soul so death is
nothing more than taking off the Garment
the the soul does not die the soul is
very much alive okay you all have a good
putting putting this garment that
appears to look like a talit what is
that what is yeah so so yeah so what's
the B yes what's the basis of a talet at
all like why why not Talis we all age we
all agree it's not aali yeah it's not
it's not oh in other words you're saying
once you make it POS once it's not a
Talis anymore what's the purpose of it
yeah yeah yeah so you don't need a
answer right now I'm just okay all right
okay I'll think about it maybe next week
okay all right thanks very much okay you
all have a okay I don't want to keep
okay you all have a good week and uh
take care