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Rav Soloveitchik: 17th of Tamuz and 3 Weeks | Rabbi Jeremy Perlow | June 30 2026
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Hey, good morning everyone. Welcome to
today's program. It's wonderful to see
everyone as always.
I want to talk today. We know this
Thursday we have the fast of Shivas.
So for many of us it's a sad day. We
know in the Jewish calendar is a very
sad day and I think it's appropriate
that we devote some time to discussing
the nature of the fast and what it is
we're fasting for. Now the Shivasaramuz
you had a question. Okay. Shivasaramuz
the 17th of Tamuz is the introduction to
the three weeks. Nowik famously he has a
famous piece on this the three weeks he
talks about what we call a kadasha and
ashana we have what we call old morning
and new morning so what's the difference
so I think all of us are familiar
unfortunately we've all seen someone who
we love who has passed right at some
point in our lives this happens people
we love they depart from us we have a
certain amount of time in this world and
when someone passes we immediately feel
the pain right no one needs to instruct
you how to do it. No one needs to guide
you. We know it feels difficult and it's
challenging and with time we go through
Shiva, we go through and for parents we
also have seven days of morning, 30 days
of morning, 12 months. We know this
process that we don't really need
guidance in. It's something we go
through naturally. And yet when it comes
to the loss of the beta mikdash, it's a
little more challenging, right? Whereas
when it comes to the loss of a relative,
the pain subsides with time. When it
comes to the beta mikdash, it's not like
that. For most of us, we don't feel an
immediate pain. Someone tells you for
the first time, the beta mikdash is
destroyed. We don't have a beta mikdash
today. So most of us, we've never really
all of us, we've never seen a beta
mikdash. We don't know what it's like.
We don't know what we're missing. We
don't know how special that was. And to
go and now have to experience that exper
to go through that experience where we
were told that the bikdash was is
difficult. It's not so it's not so
simple to connect with. So we actually
have to do the opposite. We work up
towards tishab right. The morning
actually increases throughout the period
of the three weeks. We go from the three
weeks into the nine days into shabu
until eventually get to tishab. And
sovich famously he went ahead and he
calls this
old mourning. It's something more
challenging. It's not directly in our
periphery. It's not something we're
thinking about right now.
It's the pain is fresh. You feel it.
It's immediate. That's for a family
member, for a relative
is something more challenging. And
that's something I think that we have to
work towards. And that's why we have the
period of the three weeks to help us
build up towards experiencing to
understanding what it is that we we've
lost.
Now, what he did is he's a master at
this. He took all the that we go through
when we lose a relative and he matched
them with of the three weeks. He says
corresponds to all the of they
correspond to the same we find during
Shiva. So just as by Shiva, right, we
sit on the floor, right? We're in
morning. Just as in Shiva, we uh we we
were not about to do, right? We're not
allowed to wash ourselves in the same
way we would normally do. We're not
allowed to all the five provisions,
right? Washing. He goes through several
of them. And he explains obviously
fasting is something which we don't do
during sha. But he says the morning the
morning components they all match. And
he says so matches with
the 30-day period after losing a
relative matches the of uh the nine
days. And finally the period of the
three weeks corresponds to the
of an entire year that you do for a
parent. And uh there's many
ramifications of Zvves thought that we
can actually apply some of the hatarium.
He used this both the kula and the both
stringently and to be lenient. He
thought we could actually take some of
the we find by the laws of morning for a
relative and apply them to the laws of
morning that we find for the beta
mikdash. So for instance we know the is
during the three weeks we don't shave we
don't take haircuts right so we know
similarly we find during the entire year
when a person loses a parent or we know
that they have to mourn for an entire
year so during that time let's say
someone comes over to you and they say
you look disheveled you need a haircut
so are you allowed to go ahead and take
a haircut is yes you can go ahead and
you can take a haircut because at that
point you're so disheveled that you're
going to wait a whole year to go a
haircut. At that point, you look so
disheveled that someone even actually
has to come over to you and tell you
that means that you should you're
allowed to take a haircut. So,
correspondingly thought that maybe today
people today shave every day. Some
people go to work, they shave every
single day. Soviet you could take this
to be lenient actually that if you're
the type of person who shaves every
single day for work and now you're going
to go with couple days and people are
going to already say you're disheveled
you're unckempt of during the three
weeks not during the nine days but
during the three weeks you could be
lenient and actually shave for those who
shave regularly every single day and
would be otherwise be considered
disheveled and people would come over
and rebuke them. Okay, so not everyone
agrees with salvation on this but he
really took it and he he applied it. He
felt you could be lenient in this
regard. So again, this is what we call
and
the two different types of morning that
we have.
And I think what's important about this,
it gives us a little bit of perspective
of what it is we're trying to accomplish
during this time. During the time of the
three weeks, we need to build up to
appreciate what it is that we've lost.
So if you look here at the source sheet,
I what I did for you here is I painted
you for you a picture almost of the
different sources that we have in the
Rambam. And if you look at the first
section part one, what is the goal of
the three weeks and of fasting? So the
Rambam here famously he describes two
different types of fast days that we
have right so most of us are familiar
with the fast days we have on the Jewish
calendar. We know there's six fast days
throughout the year. We have yum kipur
right the one only one in the Torah. We
have tishab which is the most next next
most important fast on the Jewish
calendar. Okay that's the saddest day in
the Jew in the Jewish calendar. And then
we have four other fast days. Four other
min we call them minor fast days. One of
which is happy. That's which one?
Tanya, right? The fast of Esther. Very
good. And the other three are sad fast
days. The other three are sad minor fast
days. And those are Shiva Sarvatamus,
the one we're about to do this Thursday.
Good. Okay. We have Okay. The 10th of
Tomala. Those three. Okay. The 10th of
Tomala and Shivas.
Those are the six fast days we have in
the Jewish calendar. Now, if you look,
it's interesting because the Rambam says
that all of these we have here again,
we'll call them the happy fasts and the
four sad fasts. Okay, so Yumipur is
actually a happy fast, believe it or
not, because we get kapara. Hashem
forgives us. We got the loot, we get a
kapar. We don't think in these terms
usually. Okay, but that's the yum kipur
and that is tan.
And then you have the other four fast
days. The other four fast days are all
sad. So tishabatamus
the tent and all sad fast days. Now this
is what the ramen calls category one
these four sad fast days category one
the second type of fast day I think most
of us are not familiar with what's the
second type of fast day he doesn't talk
about right now any that's for another
time we said that's not in the laws of
what what does the call the second type
of fast day look at the first source
here he says
there is a biblical commandment
to go and cry out and to blast the the
trumpets
for every single trying and difficult
situation which which is faced by the
theor by the congregation
and he cites the
mitzvah a biblical mitzvah to blow the
to blow trumpets and to cry out in
fasting for every single difficult
situation the Jewish people faces.
Now I think most of us know we don't
really experience this today. When was
the last time that you heard the Israeli
ravenets or the or the uh right the
anywhere in the world that there was a
difficult situation and they declared a
fasting
for the most part really don't do this
today. Why is that? Okay.
Ah, so he says here, it's not so clear
from the wording of the Rambam, but he
says, let's see what he explains a
little more,
right? He's talking about something
which is probably local to a specific
place, right? Loc example is de one of
the plagues we know.
Anything similar to this,
this is what they would do. And he says,
so so again, so it's probably not for
the whole world, but even in that loca
location, you know, we just went through
a whole war.
Maybe we could argue we're still in the
war, okay? And yet we didn't find that
we declared any fast days. Why is it
that today we don't do this? Why is it
co 19, right? We weren't declaring fast
days. Why is it? Why not? So he says
here, look at the next one. He says
the reason we do it
Yeah. So, some wanted to do it for that
reason.
But it's not so common that we find on
other days on the Jewish calendar that
we declare a fast. Now I'm not saying it
hasn't been done. It has been done.
Okay? But it's not common. So the
question is why not? If you so if you
look here the Rambam says he says
doing this accomplishing this fast is
part of look at the wording here. I bold
it for you.
It's the path. This is the path of
repentance.
When a s comes, when a situation of
distress comes and you cry out about it,
everyone will know
it's because of their evil actions this
came about, right? We don't believe in
just mother nature, right? We don't
believe in this. What is mother nature?
It's like bugs bunny. It means nothing.
Mother nature. Mother nature is a term
to to kind to hide Hashem. It's Hashem.
Hashem causes everything in the world.
So if something bad is happening, we
believe that it's because of our
actions. And when we cry out about it,
we're making a demonstration. Hashem, we
want to do chuva. We want to be better.
And Hashem sees that. And that's
important. And now everyone around us
sees that. And they see it must be that
we have to work on ourselves. It must be
that we have to improve. This is a
last line.
And this is what's going to cause them
to remove the tragedy, to remove the
difficult situation from upon the Jewish
people. So what I want to highlight
again is that the code phrase
this is this is the this is going to be
the the method to accomplishing chuva.
Look at the next source source number
two we find this term being used again
and this one this time I think we'll
notice that we do find I think this is a
much more familiar to us. This is in
peric the very next chapter in the
Rambam where he writes he used the term
again
it's considered
It's considered the way of repentance
for the person who's doing chuva to cry
out continuously before he right
with tears and with supplications and to
do
according to his ability.
He should distance himself greatly from
the matter in which he sinned.
Mo, he didn't go so far to say change
your name. That's part of the path of
meaning. What does that mean?
I am someone else. I'm not the same
person who sinned.
I'm not the same person who made those
mistakes.
Change your ways for the better. Go into
what he calls to actually leave your
location. Go somewhere else. Be someone
else. Feel like you're someone else.
Exile atones for sin
because it causes the person to be to
yield himself to lower himself
to be humble.
And and I think this is very important.
I think very often the the root of sin
is arrogance. Feeling like I'm good,
everything's good, everything's
wonderful. But to actually have to go
somewhere else and feel out of place a
little bit, that's difficult. That's
very challenging. And that feeling will
actually humble oneself and allow one
become suducha.
So this is another time we find the use.
What I want to point out now in source
three is we find a very different phrase
and I want to contrast these two phrases
and this will lead us to understanding
the two types of fast days that we find
in the Rambam. Look at the last source
in this section. Source number three.
Now this should be more familiar to us.
There are days
that all the Jewish people fast
obviously it's not everyone as we know
some people are sick don't fast the
talks about that later some people are
ill who are not supposed to fast okay
children but he says where the entire
Jewish people fast
because of the travel uh difficult
situations the sorrowos which happened
to them
to awaken the hearts
and to open the paths of repentance and
he goes ahead and he whisks these are
the days and he whisked the four fast
days which we talked about the 17th of
Tamuz and we have the 10th of Tat etc.
He goes through in the next paragraph
those four sad fast days. So you'll
notice one thing which is very
particular, very interesting perhaps is
that the Rambam here utilizes a
different phrase
to open the path of repentance.
So the question becomes why is it when
the Rambam was talking about the
obligation to make a declare a public
fasting when there's a difficult
situation for the entire Jewish people
why is it there the Rambam says this is
this is the path of repentance and yet
when he's talking about the four sad
fast days we do every year that we
observe every year the Rambam uses the
different term he says to open
So this is not my question. This is
Soviet's question and haram. And
sovietic writes that only when a person
is in a present crisis. He sees the
crisis in front of him. He sees there's
a war going on. He sees there's a
plague. He sees there's people dying. He
sees tragedy. That is itself. When a
person goes ahead and acts on that, that
itself is
that's repentance. That's chuba right
there.
But when a person is remembering
something of the past, a person is
remembering either
he's remembering the terrible thing of
things of the past.
That's something of the past. That's
harder. That's more challenging to be
able to achieve chuva. Then you have to
really work on it. So that is only the
beginning.
Opens the door towards chuva. It's not
true about and of itself. Which means a
person could go through and fast the
entire thing from from morning until
night, do it 100% properly and not have
fulfilled the mitzvah of chuva
because the mitzvah of chuva is only
accomplished when a person takes that
fasting and he takes it to the next
level and he looks inside his heart and
he says what do I need to work on? How
does this affect me today? That's the
goal of the fastest. The rabbi writes
that explicitly, goes on, he writes this
explicitly that the goal of the fasting
is just to take that moment to take that
fasting and take it to the next level to
apply it to our lives and think about
how we're going to change as a result
and remember that all these terrible
things that happened once in a while a
long time ago is not just a story. It's
something we have to make a part of our
lives and utilize it as a springboard
for chuva.
Okay. Okay. So I want to do now I want
to go to the part two here. I want to
talk about how we can apply the lessons
of the tan. How can we go ahead and make
this part of our lives? Let's think
about this for a second. You know it's
very nice that we can talk about doing
tru from today until tomorrow. But what
does that require from us? So I remember
when I was a student in yeshiva
university. I remember there was one guy
every single fast day. He was in his
80s. He was very old man. He would get
up right after Mina and make a clap on
the beimma and everyone would turn,
everyone would look and he he wasn't he
wasn't so loud. He was an old man. He
was uh he worked in the Wu. He was the
librarian those who might know and he
every single year he gave the same
announcement every single time there was
a fast day. He would say the miri says I
don't know why he said the because it's
the everyone says it. He says the miri
says a person can fast the entire fast
day and not fulfill the purpose of the
fast day until he gives saddaka.
Because and he went on to explain
because when we give taka that changes
us. It's not enough just to fast. We
have to act. We have to use it as a
springboard as a uh beginning towards
the cha process. And so when a person
gives he can actually accomplish much
greater things than just the fasting
itself.
We know there's many manyukim throughout
but people who fast and hashem says do
you think I want your fast or do I think
I want you to listen?
We know the answer. We know what hashem
wants from us. If you look here, there's
a great story here in British Rabba.
This is from the midrash. They talked
about here Rabbi Tanuma. We know most of
us are familiar with the midrash tankum.
Okay, so Tanuma was the person who
actually went ahead. He didn't write the
whole midrash, but he helped compile it.
He took he was in the fifth century. He
was the Mora and he helped compile many
of the midrash that we have today. So
this is a story about him. So
in his days, in his times, the Jewish
people needed to fast. So they came to
him and
they said, "Rebi, please declare a
public fast day." So as we just learned
in the Rambam source one, that's the
appropriate thing to do. A person the
the situation is grave. The Jewish
people need a salvation. You can go
ahead and declare. So
they needed rain. And so for three days,
they went ahead and declared three
different fast days. Usually it's a
Monday, Thursday, Monday. We do this
today. Sometimes called Bahab. Those who
are familiar, Monday, Thursday, Monday.
And they declared three fast days and
still no rain came.
He went up and he taught them
my children, my sons.
Alu, fill yourselves with mercy one upon
the other.
And if you fill yourselves with mercy,
if you look mercifully upon others and
you give to them, Hashem himself will be
filled with mercy upon you.
So they started they started to give to
all the poor people around them and then
they saw one person
who was giving coins. He was giving
sodaka to his divorce.
They came to him.
They went up to the rebu. They went back
to and they said, "Why are we sitting
here? We're giving. We're doing the
right thing." And this one guy is going
ahead and he's giving things to his
divorce.
How could it be? They thought he was
doing something wrong. They thought he
was doing something terrible.
I'm sorry.
What did you see?
We saw so and so. He was giving money to
his divorce.
They went after him. They brought him.
She is my divorce.
Why did you give her money?
I saw she was in distress and I had
mercy upon her and I gave her
that moment.
He turned his face heavenward
master of all the worlds.
If this person who went ahead, he saw as
divorcy and he decided he's going to
give her food, he's going to give her
money, he's going to give her saddaka,
he saw her in distress and he was filled
with mercy
about you about you. It says, "You're
gracious and merciful.
We are the children of your beloved
all the all the patriarchs.
All the more so, Hashem, you should be
filled with mercy for us. And as soon as
he finished,
the rain began to fall and the world was
sustained.
So here we have an incident which
everyone's looking at this guy. They
say, "What is he doing? He's doing
something terrible. He's doing something
wrong." And Rabbit looked at him and he
saw the good and he saw that he was
going ahead and he was doing the right
thing. He was giving saddaka to even
someone who was difficult for him to
give sodaka to. How challenging is
someone sometimes you have good divorces
they end nicely but very often it's not
that way and very often people end on
very bad terms and he was able to look
his divorce in the eye and say I care
about you and I want you to have what
you need to have and he gave it
and it was in that they had rain so this
is an example where we see someone who
went ahead and he didn't just fast the
fasting itself did nothing here what it
accomplished what the fasting
accomplished is it got the Jewish people
to realize they're in distress and only
that only when he gave sedaka did enable
them to achieve the chuva that they so
badly needed.
Now I think another thing many of us are
familiar with when there's tragedy what
do we do as Jews we recite the right
every fast day as we'll do this Thursday
also we recite and the most important
feature of the is we say the hashem's 13
attributes of mercy why do we do that so
it's based on the following garban says
he says
shalom in source five he says there's a
written if not for the haven't written
this it would be impossible to say this
what does that mean says right he's
citing here from the
we know that went ahead from this we
learned and then put on the source sheet
we'll see in a second though
the teaches us told I'll just tell you
the summariz
I want you to go in this little crevice
I want you to go between the mountains
and I'm between the cracks and I'm going
to go ahead and I'm going to adorn
myself
I'm going to adorn adorn myself with a
talis like
and he showed Moshe the
every time you see the Jewish people sin
they should perform before me and I want
to focus in on that word in a second
they should perform before me it's a
bold
if they do it go ahead perform these
words I will forgive them
what are the three words. Hashem, what
are the words they're supposed to say?
The 13 attributes. If they can go ahead
and say these words, Hashem says, I'm
going to forgive them.
And we know
there's a covenant in these 13
attributes.
If they recite these words, they will
not return empty-handed.
Because Hashem says, I'm making a
covenant with you. So, you keep your end
of the covenant and I'll keep mine. So
most people read this and they say,
"Okay, very nice." So we say the 13
attributes. Hashem will forgive us.
Wonderful, beautiful, amazing. Right?
What's the problem? They're not reading
the GMAR carefully. What does the say?
It doesn't say if you read these words.
It says
act, perform,
be a different person.
If you can act on these 13 attributes,
you follow my ways. Just as I'm
merciful, you should be merciful. Just
as I have compassion, you should be
compassionate. If you're able to do
that, Hashem says, "Then it's a brief
crew. It's an eternal covenant. I'm not
going to go back on it. I'm going to
forgive them."
So, we have the recipe right here. In
Why do we say the word so many times? We
say it to get it in our heads and to
bring into our hearts and to turn into
action. But if it stops here, if it
stops in our lips, if we can't do
anything more than say the 13
attributes, we haven't accomplished our
job.
lip service.
>> It's called lip service, right? What do
we call by the way? What do we call?
What's the other term for?
It's work of the heart, not of the lips.
You could say the words from today until
tomorrow, but if you don't feel it, if
you don't bring into your kishkas, if
you don't make it a part of who you are,
you haven't accomplished your goal. So
that's why
we hope that again there's three steps.
Third, first step is we say the words.
Second step, we internalize the words,
make it a part of our who we are. And
then finally, we take that
internalization. We take those hopes and
those thoughts and all those amazing
intentions that we have and we have to
turn them into action. That's the third
step. That's the goal of midav and
that's the goal of the yimid.
Now what I want to do here, I want to
take you on a historical journey
something very interesting. We have in
part three of fasting during okay we
know the Jewish people uh at one point
in time we had the first bit of mikdash
we lost it and we began to mourn and
then barakashem only a few years later
right 70 years of g the Jewish people
came back and we built bacheni we built
the second temple so I understand during
those 70 years they probably mourned
they didn't have a betach but what about
when we had bacheni
did they have all these fast days during
bacheni during the times of the second
temple
So believe it or not, this was the this
is not my question. This was the
question of the Jewish people who lived
during the early years of Ba Cheni. When
they first built the Bacheni, they first
built the second temple. The Jewish
people went to Zakaria and they said,
"What should we do this year? Should we
fast? Should we not fast? We were
fasting all this time the past 70 years.
We haven't had a beta mikdash. But what
should we do this year?" They asked him.
And Zakaria said a very very unclear and
ambiguous answer. Okay. Look at six.
This is what he said. This is what
Hashem said. Master of Legions,
the fast of the fourth month, which by
the way, what's that? Let's count. We
start from Nissan, right?
That's the fast of the fourth month.
The fast of the fifth month. What's
that?
Okay.
The of the seventh month.
Okay. Don't fall for it's not yipur.
Actually it's t but it's not yipur.
Okay, he's talking about right now these
three fast days
I'm sorry I'm sorry I skipped one the
fourth fast day the 10th of right the
10th month the 10th of
these will turn in to becoming days of
of days of right joy and
right different words for joy Okay,
and for holidays
and truth and peace will be loved. So
it's a very interesting phrase here. We
have again that these days seemingly
he's telling us that these days will
become days of rejoicing. But did he
answer their question?
>> What about right now? We want to know
what we're supposed to do now. Right? So
the Gamar and Rashashana uh we have here
a very interesting comment and they talk
about what exactly Zakaria's response
was. What did he mean by this? And we're
going to see now two different opinions.
We're going to analyze all the words in
this very carefully and we're going to
see two different opinions as to what
exactly Zakaria's response was. Did the
people have these fast days during Beni
or not? So look at the rash.
What does this mean that we just read
and then you can skip the quotation? We
just read it. What does this mean? So
they analyzed um three different words
in the puk. Okay, this is the first
opinion.
The calls these days of fasting
and the also refers to them as days of
rejoicing. So which one is it? Says it
depends
shalom. At a time when there is peace
these days will be days of joy.
In shalom if there's no peace there will
be days of so according to the first
opinion it depends. Is there peace? Is
there not peace? If there's peace then
there'll be days of rejoicing. If
there's not peace then there are days of
tani or days of fasting.
Okay. Now we actually do not pos like
the first opinion. We follow the second
opinion. All we should jump on this try
and figure out what the second opinion
means. The second opinion is a little
bit more complicated. Okay. Now within
the first opinion before we go on to a
second opinion you have to already start
thinking what does it mean shalom? What
does it mean shalom? There's peace.
Okay. But how do you define peace?
What's the definition of peace? Right
now we're not fighting with Iran to the
same extent as we were before. Maybe
arguably. Okay. So maybe we should stop
the fasting. There's peace, right? Is
that what it means? What is peace? So we
have to see in a second. But let's see
the second opinion first and then we'll
come back to that question. The second
opinion
the says there's actually three possible
situations. First situation
if there is peace.
I agree with you. If there is peace then
there'll be days of rejoicing.
Now there's actually different gear
south here. There's different texts
regarding what this word should be. You
look in Aramar, they actually do not
have the word. They actually have the
word
if there's decrees of the government.
Now, the reason they did that, this is
actually the if you look in the side of
the garra, they said it's because of the
sensor. They didn't want to put the word
in the garra. Schmad implies that there
is uh is a situation of tremendous uh
pressure to say it nicely right from the
non-Jewish authorities and to the extent
that we would actually be obligated to
go and do almost everything to stop them
okay that's we call it's a very intense
situation and they didn't want to use
that terminology in the gar the sensor
took it out so they said they made it
more light but the text that we the
correct text though they say on the side
of the gumar the points out should
actually bear so when there's
So then we have to fast. Okay, that's
situation number two. However, situation
number three,
if there's no situation of there's no
immediate threat to the Jewish people
that they're threatening us and there's
no peace, then you have a choice. Oh,
you got a choice. Interesting.
If they want us, they can fast.
If we want, we don't have to fast. Wow.
Have you hear about these optional
fasts? We don't talk about this, right?
If that's the case, then what about
also we should say the same thing. So to
explain this question, I have to give
you a little bit of context. Okay, the
Mishna there that the is referring to
was talking about the 12 months on the
Jewish calendar on which we used to know
six months of the year they used to send
out messengers. The Mishna says that
there's certain months in the year they
used to send out messengers before
Anroesh that people should know when
Rotoesh was and they didn't have SMS
they didn't have WhatsApp it wasn't so
easy to communicate so they have to go
by horseback and they have to send out
messengers on horseback to communicate
to all the different neighborhoods of
Israel and they should know today's ro
but they didn't do it for every single
month because it's very difficult to
send out messengers all across the
country all over the globe it's very
very difficult very challenging so they
didn't do it everywhere
So the places were close by they could
do it and they didn't do it every month.
They would do it on the important months
and one of the months that they would do
it for was a for the month of Av they
would send out messengers because
everyone needed to know when tishab was
but for the month of tamuz and for tet
for that matter also the gar the says
they did not send out messengers. Why
not? It seems to be that it wasn't so
important to fast that it wasn't at the
same level of obligation as to Shabbah
and they would not send out messengers.
And the Gomorrah wants to know now why
do we have this discrepancy? Why is it
they send out messengers for a but not
for Tamuz? And the Gumar now answers
is an optional fast. That's why Tamuz is
an optional the fast of Shiva Tamuz in
that time. Okay, key words was an
optional fast.
Why? Okay, we're gonna come to that in
one second. But of the concludes
is not why is it it's not the answer
is different
because there's more there's twice as
many terrible things which happened on
tishab there's so many terrible events
which happened on tishab to the extent
that it became required fast
the tit not as much they weren't
required fs in the same Okayishab
that's a different level is up here.
So says papa we have again to review
this is the main opinion I want everyone
to know is papa three opinion three
different options sometimes we have
there's a situation of shalom these fast
days are days of rejoicing of sometimes
we have days of
when there's decrees against the Jewish
people that's a situation when we have
to fast and then when it's neither
neither a time of peace nor a time of
when there's decrees against the Jewish
people then it's a choice
onion.
So most So let's go back to our
questions now. How do we define peace?
What makes something a situation of
peace? Says says most of peace is
defined by having a mikdash. So so long
as we don't have a mikdash, it's not
considered shalom.
And therefore accordingly at the very
least it's not going to be a situation
of rejoicing. We're not going to be
rejoicing on or the 10th of or some
certainly so long as we don't have a
beta mikdash. That's the way most reimar
means if you won't notice it's in the
plural. It's in the plural which means
the gumar is alluding to the fact that
this is a decision made on account of
everyone by the bi. It has to be a
communal decision. And now at this time
period in Jewish history, we've accepted
these days as days of fasting. We've
accepted it. That's the reality. The
days of fasting, they've the entire
Jewish people accept upon themselves as
days of fasting. And therefore, it's no
longer optional. Fine. That's the way
the Russia explains. Now the question is
what about right? So they had a bit of
migdash on the one hand. So it sounds
like according to the definition of most
they had a situation of peace. So did
they fast on so when they had bayeni
when the second temple was around?
So it really the truth is it's a mul
okay Rashi okay Rash's opinion is very
complicated okay I'm going to try and
explain it as simply as I can rashi
holds that we have an appearance steer
in Rashi that's why it's a little
complicated there's apparent
contradiction in Rashi okay because
Rashi says he he says on the one hand it
depends on whether there's a bit which
is most the way most assume on the other
hand he also says that it depends
whether there's decrees against the
Jewish people it depends whether the
non-Jews have rulership they're
governing the Jews if the non-Jews are
governing the Jewish people. So it seems
to be that's the primary criteria
according to Rashi. So which is which is
the what did Rashi mean by this? It
appears to be a contradiction. So
Likenstein famously he's one of the ones
who went ahead and said that these are
the same thing because when the Jewish
people have a governing body when we
ourselves are governing as Jews then we
have the opportunity at the very least
to create a mikdash. So many understand
like this. I think on a simple level
most assume the rashi is following all
the other all the other shonyim but it
depends whether we have a beta mikdash.
So according to Rashi
when there is no betam mikdash did the
Jewish people fast I'm sorry during beni
when we had a betam mikdash did the
Jewish people fast so most assume that
the Jewish people uh did not okay
according to rashi he thinks that simple
read of the gumar is the Jewish people
did not shockingly the ram bomb okay
I've quoted for you here in I'm going to
summarize outside it's really based on
ram elsewhere actually primarily which
is in this parishio the rambom there
explains based on this Mishna. And he
goes ahead and explains that when the
Jewish people had a second temple, he
believes shockingly that they still
fasted.
It begs the question, why are they
fasting? They haven't been a mikdash.
Why are they fasting? So many different
explanations to this Rambam have been
provided. I think just on a simple level
I think it's important to recognize that
according to the Rambam the Rambam
believes and uh I think this is a very
rings true with us that even when we
have a bit of mikdash if we're always
nervous if we always feel then the
second this could be taken away from us
because there's guerot against the
Jewish people that we're not in full
domain that we don't feel like we have
the ability to to for to act according
to the way we'd like to act we're being
governed by a higher body by the non
Jewish the government so long as that's
the case we don't really have the shalom
that's required and therefore the Rambam
says even if we have the beta mikdash
we're still missing something it's still
not perfect and I think this goes back
to what we were talking about before the
what is the goal of the fast days what
are we trying to accomplish during these
four sad fast days
according to the Rambam he understands
that the fasting is not just
commemorating it's not just
commemorating the fact that we don't
have a midash but
We're fasting because of the precarious
state of Israel. We're fasting because
the Jewish people are not yet where
we're supposed to be. And therefore,
even in the times of the beta mikdash,
when they had a second temple, says the
Rambam, they still fasted because we're
not yet where we're supposed to be. All
the more so today where we don't have a
beta mikdash. All the more so today, do
we have to be thinking about what we
have to do to improve, to use these
fasts, the launching pad to improve, to
make sure that we please God, we
shouldn't have to fast in upcoming
years. They should turn the days of the
sun.
I want to do in the last few minutes
that we have. I want to do the last
section here on the source sheet
to go through what exactly happened on
Shiva Sarvatamus. The Mishna states that
there are five terrible tragedies that
took place on Shiva Sarvatamus and five
terrible tragedies that took place on
Tishab. In source 10, the bottom of page
two, the mission records Shiva
Saratamus. Go to the bold section. What
is the most famous event that happened
at Shiva Saratamus?
Very good. The the construction of the
golden calf which led to the breaking of
the luot. That is the very first and
most important event I want everyone to
know that happened on the 17th of Tamuz.
The golden of the calf and the breaking
of the luot. Okay. Now, all the other
sins on the list, you'll notice a little
bit more ambiguous. They're not totally
clear when they happened in Jewish
history. There's different opinions on
when they happened precisely. So, number
two, again, there's five of them. So
number one the golden calf okay in the
breaking of the number two
the Jewish people no longer had the okay
the ra that was during the first temple
period that the mission is talking about
in he like that and the usi says it's
actually also the babui says this
actually referring to an incident in
beni when they went ahead and the Jewish
people had to go ahead and every single
day they were paying lots and lots of
money to have corbanos brought over the
walls of the city because they laid
siege and no one was allowed in or out
and they had no means of getting the
corbanotes and they were paying money
that they could have corbanot being
raised over the wall and one day to to
spite the Jewish people instead of
sending over a sheep which is the daily
the daily offering which needs to be
brought they sent over a pig.
So that is again one of the tragedies
which happened on Shiva Saratamus.
Another famous one that the walls of the
city were breached. Again, it's a
discussion when exactly this is
referring to. Um, in safer yahoo, they
actually say this is a reference to the
ninth of tamuz. And everyone trying to
bend over backwards to understand what
that means because we know it's the 17th
of Tamuz. It's the Mishna. And so many
say was the Garra says one answer is
that the it's referring to the first
temple and the times of the first temple
is the ninth of Tamuz and the times of
the second temple when the walls were
breached that happened on the 17th of
Tamuz. Okay. Uh the fourth item on the
list of Apostamos Torah. We had a Torah
was burned. Okay. Some explain this is
the authoritative Torah of of Ezra that
was burnt. Uh where some say it was
actually there was a decree against the
Jewish people to burn every Torah. Some
say like that. Okay. Different opinions.
And finally
they went ahead and they put up an idol
inside the that was King Manasha who did
that. Okay. and say for me some say it
might have been actually the same person
apostamus who we just mentioned a
different opinion so again so all these
other four items it's not totally clear
when in Jewish history they took place
and who exactly it took place with it's
a little bit more ambiguous but the one
item which is certainly clear we know
the exact date we know exactly how it
happened it's in the Torah is the golden
calf and in fact if you want to
understand any fasting in the Jewish
calendar a rule of thumb is you always
need to go to the root cause what is the
first event why is this happening
happening? Why is it in every single
generation we're seeing more and more
troubles and tribulations? How does this
continue to happen? How does this
continue to unfold? You have to go back
to the first event in Jewish history,
and that is the golden calf.
So, what's so bad about the golden calf?
Turn the page. Last page. What's so bad
about the golden calf? How do we see the
golden calf affecting the Jewish people
today? So, it's basically it's actually
a in the Torah. The Torah says,
Hashem says, "In a day when the Jewish
people sin, when I have to remember them
for evil, I have to remember them for
bad, for the bad things that they do."
Hashem says,
the GMA explains what this means in
source, I'm sorry, Rashing from the Gar
explains what this means in 12.
There is no time in Jewish history where
Hashem punishes us. We're not, he's not
tacking on a little bit more of the
golden calf. In addition to the
punishment we're meant to receive for
whatever sin we did, Hashem goes ahead
and he adds on a little bit because of
the sin of the golden calf. The ego has
so it's very interesting. We have here
the Gar is telling us that to this day
when Hashem has to punish us for the
wrong things that we've done, we're
still reeling. We're still suffering
from the sin of the golden calf.
Hashem has to punish us a little bit
extra because of that sin of the golden
calf. So it begs the question, why? We
know each one of us is responsible for
ourselves, our own actions. If my
parents sinned or my grandparents
sinned, why should I be held accountable
for that? Certainly, we're talking here
now thousands of years early in Jewish
history. Why should I be held
accountable? And the Gar says this
explicitly.
We know a person is is punished based on
the
audit.
When is that?
When they hold on to the actions of
their forefathers,
that's when the Jewish people will
continue to be punished for the wrong
things that their forefathers did. Which
means if I follow the wrong incorrect
traditions of my parents, if I continue
to do wrong because that's what my
parents did, that's what my grandparents
did, then I'm held accountable.
But if I can do what's right, if I can
go against the tide, if I can do what's
right in spite of the fact that my
parents or grandparents or
great-grandparents may have not, then
Hashem will not punish us. That's the
Gar answers,
which means begs the question. So that's
the case. So I would have said none of
us today we don't do idolatry today we
didn't build the golden calf today why
is Hashem continuing to punish us
because of the sin of the golden calf if
we ourselves are not doing idolatry if
we ourselves are not doing a vodar
okay this is the burning question again
on a simple level you could say well
definitely we shouldn't be destroyed so
easy we should have been destroyed so
instead he decided he's going to take
the punishment and divide it over a
Jewish history okay I think that's True.
But I think you could also say on a
deeper level that it could be that the
Jewish people are still suffering in the
sense that we're still committing the
same crime of the golden calf. We
haven't yet removed ourselves from the
sin of the golden calf. What's the sin
of the golden calf? The sin of the
golden calf is idolatry. What's
idolatry? Idolatry means I have
something else in my life other than
Hashem.
Then I'm not focused on Hashem. I'm
focused on chasing after other things.
I'm creating a barrier between myself
and God.
And that's very difficult because I
think all of us we get distracted in
life. We forget about what's important.
We forget about our values. We forget
about our relationship with Hashem. It
takes the back it goes on the back
burner sometimes. And to have that
always at the forefront of our minds to
think about Hashem in everything we do.
The moment we say moji until we say at
night and go to sleep, we're thinking
about Hashem. If we can keep Hashem in
our minds and if we can keep Hashem in
our hearts and most importantly if we
can keep Hashem in our actions and act
on the purpose of the fast day then we
will know that these days will turn into
days of days of rejoicing for the entire
Jewish people.