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Rav Kook: Will and Ambition (Midot HaRaya’a) | Rabbi Aaron Goldsheider | June 3 2026
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Welcome everyone this morning. Great to
see everyone Yashiko for being here this
morning. We begin with our uh with our
sponsor and we have a uh a yearly or a
sponsor for the year which is very very
nice and uh this year is dedicated
exciting learning a very important
learning of RV Cook's teaching teachings
regarding midote character development
character improvement
and um a very interesting one today this
is we're up to 16 by the way if you're
if you're keeping track so it's 18 there
are 18 total we're making our way slowly
but surely um and the title of today's
character trait mida is ratson so that
to me is already it's interesting again
I I don't know if that's one that uh
that we generally think of as a mida as
a character trait and we'll see the
perspective and a very beautiful
teaching and inspirational one from
Rafuk and how important raton is so uh
when I was thinking about the idea of
ratson so I don't know just think for a
moment when you think ratson where do
you uh you know where does your mind
take you where where does one find that
idea so the first I guess the first
thing that came to mind is not a
rabbitic source but um one of the most
famous maybe the most famous uh
statement that was made by Theodore
Herzel and I think we can uh we can
quote Theodore Herzel in this context um
in this arena of Rif Cook of teaching
Rufk. It was actually one of the first
controversies that he faced when he came
to Israel in 1904. A few months later,
Herzel passed away when he arrived in
Israel and it was a big issue what he
was going to do in terms of eulogizing
what he would say and there's a whole a
whole Torah a whole discussion around
that. In the end, he does give a eulogy
and a very important one. So, what did
Herzel say? What's his famous statement?
Just call it out.
>> Aada. That's right. There's the word
rzone. If you will it, if you will it,
then it's not an aada. It's not a it's
not a fairy tale. It's not a story. If
you will it, something that you will
with strong will, we can accomplish
great things. So that is that was
Herzel's statement. One that we seem to
uh seem to know and and one that we that
we quote and I thought about that idea
of ratson, the importance of ratson.
So uh of will
let's also use another another term
ambition. a person a person having
ambition, a person having will, a person
having
a desire to accomplish. Okay. So let's
now let's go to the uh to the teaching
of of Ravk. We are in Midot Raya. He
actually has four teachings and we'll
see two of them this week and the other
two uh next the next time that we meet.
So he writes the following
Um um page one source alf you have
in the Hebrew and translation below
a person has to increase will ambitional
in general
in its fullest strength we have to get
up in the morning and we have to have
great ambitions
personally and as a people and how do we
how do we find that will how do we find
that ambition in life and RV cook says
that's something that we need to attune
ourselves to and to think about how we
can en enrich how we can increase
ambition because it all comes down to
ambition, right? How are we going to
start that diet on Monday morning or
here in Israel on Sunday morning, right?
How are we going to start that diet?
Where does it where does it stem from?
Right? Where do we get that sense of
will and willpower to be able to do that
and to accomplish the things that we
want to accomplish in life? So says we
have to think about that idea of how
important that is will willpower
ambition. Let's go back to the text
and then we can open it up in things of
holiness. This is an interesting line.
In other words, we first have to think
about will itself, ambition itself. How
do we develop that? How do we find that
within ourselves? And then how do we
move it? How do we direct it in places
of kadusha?
And when we think about when we think
about education, raising children,
we have to think about how both in the
context of young people and adults, all
of us here in the room, all the adults
in the room that all of us, how do we
find that ambition in life? How do we
find that will? And how important, it's
interesting that he mentions this around
children. In other words, as we're
raising children and being mechanic
children in school and in our homes, our
children, our grandchildren, how do we
bring out that ambition will within uh
within a person
that we are to strengthen it, that we
are to purify it.
And to elevate it,
shalom, to elevate those two ideals
together, the ideal of ambition, will
and holiness, and to use that will in a
holy way, in a sacred way, in a way in
which we're going to accomplish great
things in life. So interesting just to
think about this idea. The word raton
actually we find it many places in the
in the writings of Ravk. It's something
that he was interested, something that
fascinated him. will, ambition
to be resolute, resilience, where does
one find that and the importance of
developing that. Okay. So now I want to
to share with you a couple maybe two or
three ideas from RVuk. How we enrich how
do we how do we um identify that uh that
s that will willpower within us.
>> And the first Yes, please.
Okay, good.
>> I I don't know, but yet no it'll be
interesting to see that if you happen to
know you can check Google or whatever
you like where the first time that the
word ratson is is used in the Torah.
So um so let's go to Rifk Cook. Now here
RV cook says something which uh which I
think is is really fascinating and
something that's very important in the
world of RV cook and here he talks
specifically about ratson and he talks
about the weakening of ratson when we
don't necessarily have that will where
we don't have that ambition and what can
we do about you know turning that around
increasing strengthening energizing
ourselves and where do we find this this
he has two pieces that I want to share
with you from Oro Rotachuva. So in his
famous work, his classic work about
chuva about repentance, he talks about
this and again even when you come when
you're talking about repentance, well
how do we get to that place where we
want to repent? Now it's very nice to
talk about you should do chuva, but
where do you find the will? Where do you
find the desire? Where do you find that
ambition to make that change in life? As
I said before, where do you find that
will to okay, I'm starting the diet,
right? I'm I'm going to take on this
this new project. Where does where do
you find the will, the ambition to do
that? So here Rifuk says something which
is really interesting and something that
I think is unique to RF Cook and he
talks about the harat when we find that
we have a weakening of ratson and here's
that that term raton that he is using.
So let me just for the for the sake of
time let's just read it in the
translation. You have the Hebrew here as
well and this is from Daled. The
weakening of a person's willpower which
places a number of impediments in his
way is largely due to imperfection in
his bodily strength. So this is a
surprising line. What does it mean? RV
cook says the following. The first thing
that you have to think about if you want
to find strong will and ambition, you
have to be physically healthy. You have
to be fit. Now, if you wake up in the
morning and you don't find yourself with
that ambition and will, maybe you didn't
sleep enough last night. Did you Did
everybody here get eight hours last
night?
>> Okay,
>> you're supposed to [laughter]
get good cheer.
>> Did everybody Okay, good. Did everybody
eat as they should? Healthy eating as
they should that strengthens the body.
So here Rifk Cook says something which
is really fascinating and I always point
out that this is something that you do
not find other rabbis talking about and
I think for many of us who have studied
Rifk Cook over the last year or years
together this is something that is
unique in the worldview of Rifuk and he
talks about healthy body healthy mind
healthy spirit in other words if you
want that healthy spirit we have to
think about body as well we have to
think about being fit as well he talks a
lot about this in Oro in his famous work
ot and here he says it as well I'll just
share something interesting I'll take I
see hands are going up so I don't
remember hearing this from rabbis
growing up I don't remember hearing this
in yeshiva university if you go to yu
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if you know that name he now is the the
rabbitic head called the Torah dean of
the program and the shar that it's it's
posted as the most popular shar of this
last week is the importance of exercise
in a Jewish life in a religious life.
Now I never heard that before but here
we have a Russ of Wu the head of this
program who's talking about the
importance of exercise. Now Rafuk is
also talking about as wellund years ago
he's writing it. It was a very much a
kesh a novelty and not everybody loved
it either. The people in certain
community say what are you talking
about? What's this? What's this exercise
thing talking about chuva and the body
like chuva means you know eat a little
you know eat a little and try to
diminish what you're eating and be an o
hashem but cookook speaks about the
importance of a healthy body let me just
read to the end of this piece so he says
we have to think about that's the first
let's start there in other words we want
to find that strong will and ambition if
we want to jump out of bed in the
morning and we have you know great
aspirations and goals you have to feel
good about yourself right If you if you
can't concentrate in davening and you're
walking around tired like is that what
kind of you know what kind of will what
kind of ambition are you going to have?
very interesting that this is uh what RV
cook says even though and I'm reading
I'm reading on now in this piece from
Ravk Cook even though the weakening is
also associated with a number of ethical
factors nevertheless in the
rectification process of Juva a person
must take careful note of all factors
that weaken his willpower and attempt to
apply an overall rectification whether
regard to morality and spiritual purity
or in regard to his body and the
strengthening of its abilities. So that
his spiritual strength will attain
exceptional rectification and
fundamental improvement.
Yes. So I have a friend of mine who uh
recently got remarried. I mentioned this
a number of weeks ago and he he married
a very very wealthy woman which is like
a nice way to remarry that now you you
now are a very wealthy person. He's my
age. I'm 60 years old. You know he grew
up as a you know his whole life not
having money. Now he's a very wealthy
guy. So he told me that one of the
greatest things now that he has money in
his life is that he's a personal
trainer.
He says it's just absolutely amazing and
he feels so much better. He say he's
never been more fit in his life. And he
says in everything that he does and in
his Torah, in his learning and in his
dening. And I was talking to him last
week and he he happened to mention that
his personal trainer that he shares the
same personal trainer with his rabbi
that the rabbi also uses this personal
trainer and I found that amazing. I I
don't know if I should mention his name.
He's one of the most prominent rabbis in
Tene and he has a personal trainer. Now
when did we ever hear of rabbis having
personal trainers?
>> [laughter]
>> I don't know if I should I don't know if
I should mention I don't know it's like
that's that should be publicized not
that he would be embarrassed about it
but I don't know I don't know but I just
find this amazing in other words of Cook
is writing this and it's like what is R
Cook talking about and now here we are
2020 2026 modern day and we're all
sensitive to this we're all aware of
this this isn't aish right we know that
this is true we know the importance of
good health and what that means for our
spiritual for our mental life. So this
is this is fascinating. So this is this
is the first piece of advice from RVuk.
If you want to increase ambition and
will in your life and resilience in your
life and energize your life. So it's not
just the also physical body. Let's begin
with that. Yeah. So there were just a
couple of comments. Yeah. Please
>> that was the first I don't even know why
he doesn't quote it. My husband showed
me says clearly you can't really
unless you first start with physical
health and so strong.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Physical exercise.
>> Absolutely. Absolutely. No. So RF cook
is not No, you're you're right. That's
one of the one of the classic and one of
the very important sources. But as we
all know, it's not something that we
have highlighted. It's not something
that we have talked about. I never heard
about I never heard this. I sat in a lot
of a lot of classes. I've had a lot of
rabbis, some of the greatest rabbis in
the world, and uh I never heard them
talk about exercise.
>> Yes, please.
>> World is so different, not only from
grandma, but from Look, nowadays,
driving cars, washing machines. Yes. My
grandmother used to wash.
>> Right. Right. So, it could be they
didn't have to talk about exercise
because everybody was walking and
everybody was moving and everybody was
just eating, you know, the little bit
that they could eat. There wasn't
>> butter.
>> Churning butter. Very good. Okay. Okay.
Yes, please.
>> Yeshiva.
>> Yeah.
>> Yes. Yes. So, a lot of yeshivas, many
yeshivas today have that. Again, that
was unheard of. What do you mean yeshiva
with a workout? Like what? You know, how
did those two go together? But yes, we
appreciate this today. Yes, please.
>> So, I think that the physical was very
important, but I think that also goes
along with self-discipline.
>> Ah, okay. Good. So, that we're coming
we're coming to that. Yeah, we're going
to Yes. Absolutely. That's not going to
do it alone. Being in good shape is not
uh being in good shape and eating
healthy is not going to do it alone. But
if Cook begins there, he says, "Let's
okay. Let's make sure that physically
you're you're in good health, that
you're energized, and then we can take
it to the take it to the next level,
which we're going to do." Yes, please.
>> Also, and he's in his
very very close friend and we talk a lot
and she told me that her exercise.
[clears throat]
>> Very nice. Very nice. Yes, Harry.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. No, absolutely. And
that's you're right. No, that's that's
part of this discussion as well. and
Ravosha Feinstein and many others wrote
chuvas that it's not not to be done.
It's uh and you're right if you want to
especially in this in in in light of
this idea of increasing willpower and
the strength of a person to energize a
person if you're going to weaken
yourself based on based on the food that
you're eating or or doing worse of
smoking whatever it may be. So that's a
that's a serious issue. Okay. So that is
that's lesson number one from RVuk
regarding how to increase willpower.
Let's go to another piece that's found
in a rota hatcha.
And here he talks about where we have um
great dreams and great aspirations in
our lives and not to give up on those
dreams. So let's read it again. Let's go
to the let's go to the translation. This
is on the third source. When we
visualize exalted matters that we are
far from actually acquiring and
possessing, we must know that this
distance is solely due to our body and
not to our spirit. So he says here and
also interesting that he puts a emphasis
on the body that we need to as much as
we possibly can to overcome first of all
health and also to overcome some of the
um some of the taiote some of the lust
that we give into the physical taiote of
the body that we have to overcome that
and as we kind of lessen that area
diminish that area we can focus more on
the spirit. Therefore, we need chuva in
order to be close to the ideal light
shining in our thoughts. However, the
chuva should not bring us to depression
and a self-nullification that blur the
strength of life, but to an inner
refined self-nullification that
overcomes the ugly aspect within us and
elevates all the good and refined
quality within us. The right hand of
Hashem that is elevated. The right hand
of Hashem acts with might. Okay. So here
he talks about diminishing physical
pleasure as well. That's also part of
what it means to focus on that which is
most important and the goals and the
aspirations that we have. And now let's
go to the third idea and the third I
guess recommendation of RVuk. And this
is he says that we need to be engaged in
Torah study in a life that's a
disciplined life. This is the top of
page two
and Rafuk writes the following
and this is the second oh so this by the
way is the second piece in his section
of ratson of will from mida so we saw
the first piece this is now the second
piece is part of this idea
that I've created a an evil inclination
within a person
to tavlin now this He's quoting from the
Gomorrah. The Gamarra says, "Yes, there
is a Yahara in man, but I also have
created a Torah that is a tavlin." Now,
what is a tavlin mean? Tavlin either
means a spice or it means a medication.
>> An antidote. Thank you. Very nice. An
antidote. In other words, the more that
you engage in Torah, Torah is going to
be a fuel. It's going to energize your
life by the teachings of the Torah and
just the engagement in Torah itself is
something which energizes. It's
something that gives you will. It's
something that gives you a sense of
ambition
that you cannot attain that level of
ambition and will and will.
Torah. So, one needs to study Torah. One
needs to be engaged in Torah, the
commitment to Torah. And I would I I
would suggest two understandings, two
ways of interpreting what Rifkook is
saying here. One is what we learn from
the Torah itself. That the Torah itself
helps discipline our lives. that we get
up in the morning, that we daven, that
we give saddak, that the things that we
do, the Torah laws direct us to um to
bring out the best in us, the will, the
ambition within us. But I would say
something else and I think RV cook is
alluding to this that Torah study in and
of itself it's something that is
energizing that by studying Torah no
matter what it is that one studies that
when you study one studies Torah one is
engaged in Torah it's something that
increases will in a person ambition in a
person that you're connecting with
something that is holy connecting with
the divine and with that study of Torah
so you have increased ambition and I'll
give you the following I'll take your
comment in a moment just the following
um example or muscle exercise. So
exercise does two things and going back
to this discussion of exercise that we
just touched on. So we know that when we
exercise we strengthen the body, right?
That it's good for our body. But
something Oh, very good. Something else
is going on as well.
>> Endorphins.
>> Endorphins. That's right. This is
something that we didn't know about that
everybody now knows about, right?
There's something else that's going on
within our system, right? within within
our mind right as we are exercising. So
we think that exercises exercise
exercise might weaken us. In other
words, the more that you are exercising,
you think that that would deplete
energy. But it does just the opposite
that it increases energy. The more you
exercise, the more you are energized.
Torah study as well. Two things are
happening. One on one level you are
learning right those ideas and that
wisdom those can be energizing but just
the act itself of learning just
connecting with learning is something
that a spiritual endorphins that are
being produced as one studies so that
that that's an interesting idea and
again if we're looking for a way to
increase will ambition desire
RVuk says Torah study plug into Torah
study right the more that you study
studying Torah. Torah is something that
enliven a person in energizes a person.
Is that not true? When we finish class
that everybody is just on cloud nine
here as we you're just full of energy,
right? So that's that's what cook says
Torah study again the the lessons of
Torah study and what we gain from it.
That's one level. The other is just the
engagement and study the endorphins the
spiritual endorphins are are being
produced in the body. That's will that's
desire. Yes please. There's two things.
One is it depends
on how what your intention is.
>> Okay. Yeah.
>> Right. Okay. Yes. I I think you're
right.
>> But the second thing is I don't
understand one word here.
>> Yeah.
Why? It says
solely.
>> It says
Torah.
>> Yeah. Where does it say it?
>> Yeah. Where the will is developed solely
through the influence of Torah.
>> Right. So the thing is that there are
plenty of people who are not Jewish.
>> Right. Right. They have tremendous
ambition and will without Torah. Right.
Right.
>> Really, you know, develop a good I think
you're right. No, I think there are
other ways.
>> I don't know why that word is
>> I'm not sure I'm not sure how to answer
that in the Hebrew it's
okay I don't know if it means I don't
know if we have to translate it solely
would say it's one of the even the it's
one of the very powerful ways one of the
powerful paths to increasing of
energizing a person
>> yeah please yes
>> please yeah
she spoke
from a little bit under a little bit
from
a little bit of
because
that's why we come from him and that's
why that's what gives us an actual
physical attraction to
him
and even
that's why even the are
the holy land and so therefore it could
be that that's also part of it some of
them are attracted like when when the
nations were offered the Torah and they
turned down the Torah they rejected the
Torah there were some people in each in
each country that actually were not part
of the majority rejected there were some
that actually wish that they could run
so that they from those people.
>> Okay.
>> Okay. Great.
>> Yes. Shak. Thank you.
>> I have another question.
>> Yes, please.
>> Torah or does he mean that mankind?
>> I think both. I I think both. I think on
a on a personal level, on an individual
level, the Torah that we study, the
Torah that we're engaged in is something
that energizes. And it's true on a uh on
a national scale and a universal scale
as well. Okay.
>> Yes.
>> That comes from spiritual nature and
that are interested in the Torah that
comes from.
>> Okay.
>> Okay. Okay. So let's now let's look at
the um the third source from RV Cook on
page two. And here Rafuk speaks about
the remarkable rutson of ami Israel of
the Jewish people and the fact that the
Jewish people have been connected to
have been engaged in Torah that that has
given us a unique ability to uh to
follow our rutzone and to build our ruts
our will ambition. So let's look at this
beautiful paragraph. This is from a
collection of articles in a book called
Mama. It's the s third source.
Those of us referring to the Jewish
people who have been oppressed for so
long in the galut and exile
for so many hundreds of years
that we have been under the hands of
other masters
were not for the very essence of our
souls.
are lofty souls
that are filled with that are saturated
with a sense of of freedom and maybe as
well
that we know who we are. We recognize
who we are.
And here he's quoting, I have the source
above from Perk. It says they were
etched into the
don't read the term that they were
etched in.
But we were freed. We were freed. We are
free because we follow our ambitions our
because of Torah, because of our
engagement in Torah, because of the
lessons of the Torah, because of our
love of the Torah.
were not for that gift that was given to
us at that time from that time.
That time that we left
for a everlasting freedom
without this without the Torah
we could have remained
for all time eternally. Other words, the
Torah engagement and Torah gives us that
strength that gives us the rats. It
gives us that will. Now, here I was
thinking about where do we find that
term ratson? And I asked that question
earlier because it's not not a typical
term that we think about when we think
about our midot and uh like what's what
are essential features of a Jewish
person, a Jewish life. So in the ashray,
what do we say?
the will of those who are the
those that fear God Hashem will do
Hashem will assist those that have rats
and I think this is one of the one other
idea one additional idea when we talk
about rats it's a ratson that we
recognize that we are partnering with
Hashem that Hashem the will that we have
the desire that we have and to turn to
Hashem and to dive into Hashem to know
that Hashem is with us in those things
that we want to accomplish the raton
that we have. So then Hashem will uh
will assist us in that. Interesting that
that's the term that's used in the
astray that David chooses
the will. If a person has that will that
ambition and the fear that you have with
Hashem, you put your faith in Hashem,
Hashem will help you accomplish those
things. and to and to recognize that
that we need Hashem's help in that in
the in um in that which we are pursuing
our ambitions. Yes.
>> Yes.
Hashem who gives us the
>> Ah in that right the beautiful rat also
very very nice in that context. Okay.
>> Yes. Very good also. Very good. Also the
word ratson is is there as well. So
ratson we see a number of sources that
ratson plays a uh a very significant
it's a very significant idea. Yes.
there's something more
is that when a person has a person
>> they assist
>> very nice very nice okay I want to share
one last source from Rafuk
And I think this is a very important
very important idea regarding ratson and
how to build rats. So up to this point
we were we were talking about how to
build the raton within us. Um the idea
of good health, of exercise, of eating
well. That's RVuk says. Ravuk says Torah
learning is something that enliven us.
It's something that energizes us. A
recognition that we partner with Hashem
that our own
that as we connect with Hashem, as we
turn to Hashem, change the letters
around
>> senor very nice very nice good excellent
so one other idea which I think is a
very important idea of ratson and let's
let's read the following this is and
we'll we'll read read the words of rakuk
this is from aaya and um he writes the
following this is perk rishon the first
chapter of braos d z and you have the
following statement that is made this is
where it's in bold this is page three in
bold
It says
better or more beautiful is where a
person himself has remorse or has guilt
in one's heart
more so than being um being hit or
having having l I mean literally lashes
right lashes from somebody else. So what
is that a reference? Better remorse in
your heart, right? Better that you feel
guilt, you feel bad within your heart
than being than being punished and being
hit by by somebody else. So if Cook says
and if you you know look at the context,
it's it's referring to how we educate
others and how we how we um the
relationships that we have with others.
So look at the words of Rkook.
So we learn here from Kazal the
sweetness that is needed the noam in
whenever we teach others
malumote I looked up that word not with
striking others not with striking the
other is that's not going to be a way of
to educate another person
only in a very sweet way in a pleasant
way now by the way is addressing here
what was true in his day going back a
hundred years how would teachers teach
they would teach with actually yeah
actually striking I don't know if that's
part of anybody's upbringing to actually
be struck actually be hit as part of the
educational process now by the way we're
not well with a ruler that's right we we
we know it again we're not talking about
thousand we're talking about in our own
lifetime that that was part of education
now here you could also have education
Not necessarily with a ruler hitting
you, but how about a teacher that is
>> negative, overly strict, right? Somebody
that makes you
>> that embarrasses
>> embarrasses students. And this is
something that we that we still, you
hear it today, students that come to
Israel, I'm not religious. My, you know,
my ninth grade teacher that day that he
embarrassed me in front of everyone, the
way what he said to me, it's still, you
know, it's still an issue. Sort of Cook
says we talk about when we talk about
addressing others and building others.
So it has to be
and we talk about fear and true fear.
It must be a fear that comes that we're
teaching awe of God with love. It has to
come through love.
And until this time,
he says that the pedagog those that were
the educators have not did not recognize
the importance of this in education.
What do they use to teach the ruler, the
stick? And that's how they were
teaching. They didn't recognize that
that's not a way to to uh to raise, you
know, to raise children, to educate
students
until we recognize these days
that we see from the trials. We see from
what we have experienced that it's
proven
that we're finally learning what our
rabbis said in their so many years ago
thousands of years ago that let the
person
when a person recognizes that they're
wrong that they feel guilt that is so
much that's so much more effective than
using the ml than using a stick than
than than a harshness being strict and
And that's something that again many of
the yeshivas and and the yeshiva world
and the desc world is something that
we're much more sensitive today than uh
than we were in the past. So I thought
that this piece is is is very worthwhile
to think about in terms of raton. Now
rats raton is how do you build the raton
the ambition and will in another person.
And if you remember where we started,
Ravkuk said when it comes to and when it
comes to to raising children and
grandchildren and he says forim and
gdollim, right? How do we increase that
sense of will of ambition in a person?
And Rafuk says we need to do that in a
loving way. We need to do that in a way
that we're building up the other person.
If you tear down a person, right, you
can you you can you can you can break a
person's will, a person's ambition. It
was interesting this past Shabas. Um I
was in shul where I dav in somebody who
doesn't generally dav for the doesn't d
doesn't dav doesn't leave the ding d for
the ymud. So he dav in musaf and um and
you could hear that it was you know that
it wasn't that easy for him. It was a
person that generally doesn't you know
lead the davining and um you know
everyone say off to him afterwards there
was somebody at the kdish like standing
on the other side of the room and said
and I heard him say that that you know
the davining you know that wasn't really
a very you know very good davining you
know this morning and I was thinking if
that and that the one who davined was on
the other side of the room and I'm not
sure if that other person did not hear
what that person said
and hear the the you know what Ruf cook
is what Ruf Cook is addressing what Ruf
cook is recommending is the sensitivity
that we have and you could really break
a person this person if I don't know
that person may have heard it may never
want to davin again that you've taken
that will you've taken that ambition
right that rut zone where that person
had the rutone to do it and instead of
building that person up that you that
you have uh that you've torn that person
down.
>> Did you try to correct this
No, [laughter]
>> no, I didn't want to make any anything
more of it. And I'll just quote one
other one other uh line. Rabbi Y
Jacobson, I'm sure that that's a name
that you may be familiar with. So, he
gives a lot of shior, a very popular uh
very popular lecturer and mag.
>> He's on Torah any time. Yeah. Also, he
has one of the most listened to rabbis
on on the internet. He lives in my uh
he's a kabad uh kabadassid. So in one of
the talks that he that he gave I
remember this line he he he said why is
it that we are so stingy when it comes
to complimenting others.
So it does it it doesn't cost anything
to compliment another person and to
build up another person, right? Why why
are we so stingy in giving compliments
to other people? So I think the other
idea to think about when it comes to
rutzone is how we can build the rut zone
in others. Other words, it's our
responsibility
to build people up to build a sense of
ambition [snorts] and and and will and
confidence in other people. So that's
something that we can do. In other
words, we we we can we can assist in
doing that. That's what a beautiful
mitzvah that is. What a beautiful thing
that it is to do to offer somebody else
to build up a person's ratum. Okay.
Yeah. I just wanted to say that um in
terms of um people learning things
especially teachers English teachers
have to take you know there if they're
teaching English subjects they often
have to take psychology yes which should
really be something
lacking in that all the education in
terms of the way they treat the
children.
>> Absolutely. Absolutely
>> right. And in addition to that modeling
is very important important the parents
they watch the parents and they see what
>> beautiful let me you want to make a
>> one of the lectures that the withholding
of compliments is actually part of the
sin of that not only you're not allowed
to talk speakhur but if you don't speak
>> very nice very nice
all right I want to just get to two last
things and uh and we'll conclude uh
conclude clude with this. So, if you
look at the uh if you look at page
three, you'll see a uh a kev a tombstone
with a name that you're definitely not
familiar with. He he was not a not a
well-known individual. He actually lived
here in Shalim and he lived here in the
in the 30s and 40s actually during the
time of Ravkuk and Zanfell. He actually
writes a safeair called Avatem about the
mitzvah of loving Hashem, a topic we
spoke about a few weeks ago. His name is
Ra Elzzar Yoseph Lerberg and he was uh
he was a storekeeper here in Shalay. And
as he was get getting a bit older, so he
was having issues with his eyes and um
having issues with with seeing with
being able to read and to learn. So he
went to the doctor and the doctor said
there really is an emergency here and I
have to do surgery on your eyes. He did
say that there is a possibility that um
that you may go blind from the operation
from the surgery.
So um so he said how long can we
possibly push off the surgery? He said I
can give you about six months until the
surgery is necessary.
So this is what this uh Eleazar Yoseph
Ludenberg did. He said, "What I'm going
to do over the next six months, I'm
going to put aside my my uh being a
shopkeeper and I'm just going to learn
and I'm going to memorize two method two
method of shas. I'll memorize them and
if after the surgery I'm blind, I'll be
able for the rest of my life to be able
to review and to learn those method.
I'll have them I'll have them in my
mind." And that's what he did for six
months. Every single day, day after day,
he sat with the gumaras and he sat and
he studied and memorized two those two
maf.
So he had the surgery and following the
surgery he was able to see.
So the kev says the following and you
can look at it. what he did for the rest
of his life is that he reviewed those
two method and it says that he reviewed
them 4,000 times
for in the remainder of his life
and if you look um just in the middle
you have the name and then towards the
center it says Arbat alphim p that he
studied the ma of beta and rashashana it
says beta
rash shana so those two He's buried by
the way in Harman. And they put up a
sign right by you have the Kev. The sign
is there as well. And he says, "This is
the man. This is Eleazar Yoseph Lerberg
that he studied these two mafto 4,000
times in his life." And that was his
last will to his family. And the family
said, "Are you sure this is what you
want to put on your kefir?" You know,
it's maybe it's a little bit, you know,
kind of a little bit um boasting that
you did this. He said, "Let this be an
inspiration to others." So when we talk
about ruts, we talk about will and the
will that he had as he was coming what
he thought might be a period of of his
life they would no be would no longer be
able to see but the ruts that he had to
learn those maf by heart and then he had
a special commitment once he learned
those the love that he had the rest of
his life he reviewed them he studied
them again and again and again as it
says on the uh as it says on his kev
okay one last uh one last teaching
And this comes from Raarin
Salvich Zra. So the brother of Ra
Salvich.
So um so was he was dabbing he was a
young man 10 years old. He was dabbing
Rashan Kipper next to his grandfather
Rav Elan Rev Eliahu Pujanna his
grandfather on his father on his
mother's side. And when they got up to
the part of Davening of the when they
open the
so um
and then the line
so when I get older that Hashem should
um should give me the strength. He
shouldn't uh he shouldn't allow me you
know for my for my for my strength to
dissipate.
So his grandfather noticed dabbing next
to him that he said every line out loud
with a lot of a lot of kak. But when it
came to that line about when I get older
that hashem should still you know be
with me that he said that without a lot
of a lot of kavana he didn't he you know
just kind of read it. So he asked him
afterwards why is it when it came when
it comes to that line that you're not
like saying it with the same kavana that
you're saying the rest of it. So he
said, "Well, I'm a 10-year-old boy. Like
I'm a little I'm a little boy, and this
is about when you get old, you know, not
not having the not having the kohak." So
his grandfather said to him that what
this line is all about is not just about
getting old, it's about will. It's about
rats. He says that could be true for a
young person as well. It might be more
accurate to say when somebody is getting
older that we may lose a little bit of
that of that rut zone. So, we're asking
Hashem,
if our will, if our ambition is a little
bit less, if it's waning as we're
getting older, let it not wain. That's
what he said. That's what it means. Not
physical strength, but that that
ambition, that will, right? That I'm I'm
going to take on the next challenge. So,
he said to him, that could be true in a
young age as well. people don't
necessarily have the willpower that they
should have but they don't have the
ambition. It's true as we get older. Um
so that was the lesson that that that he
uh that he shared with young Raaran
Salviche and I think that's a very a
very very beautiful idea and uh this is
what Rafuk is highlighting the
importance of rats ambition um that we
should always
all of us at any age again often young
children have that it become it's a
little bit more natural right some it's
more organic to have that ambition to
have that energy but we should have it.
We should always have it. We should
always have that rut song. Yes, Rosanne.
We'll take
>> Yesterday I got off the bus and I
acknowledged the man who got up to give
me a seat. Yes.
>> He had a big smile on his face. So
sometimes a little thing has a big
impact. What was his reward? Somebody
saw his wallet right next to my feet,
gave him back his money. I said,
"Wow." [laughter]
>> Very nice.
>> Very nice. I went, by the way, I went
into a store this morning and I bought
something. I was I was coming from work
and I went up to the fella. I said,
"Mashalom." And he said, "You should
know that you're the first person today
to say to me." Says, "Everyone just
buying things and nobody has stopped to
say, "How are you?" So, yes, that little
word that little word can make a you you
build people up. You give them that
sense of ruts of ambition. A little
ruton to get through the day is selling
things all day. Yes. Last comment. We'll
Yeah.
>> One question. When it says will fulfill
the desire of them that fear him. He
will hear their cry and give them
salvation.
>> Yes.
>> So how does he or you or whatever answer
that it was so many people in the
Holocaust
that
brought you know
>> all right those we we don't have the
answer to that. That's one of the great
one of the great mysteries.
>> It's like he must have had a certain
perspective on that.
>> I don't I don't know.
All right, we wish everyone a wonderful
day. We should be filled with energy,
ambition, ratsum and to God.