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Rav Kook: Midot Haraya - Introduction | Rabbi Aaron Goldscheider | September 3rd 2025
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Just before we begin this year, I just
want to uh with the learning today, we
pray for auh
bas.
Okay.
Um so I welcome everyone and uh I hope
everyone is doing well and as I said
wonderful to see everyone back.
There are Yes, there are sore sheets at
the uh at the entrance on the way in.
There's a table with sore sheets and uh
yeah, I recommend that everybody there.
I think there should be plenty of sore
sheets and recommend that everyone have
one. All right. So this uh bezatashem
bezam with God's help we uh we are about
to embark on the study of RVuk.
But unlike last year where we were doing
different topics in RV cook in the
Ashkafa RV, we are going to be looking
at one particular safair of RVuk and
that is known as midotaya.
The midot of Rkook of Ravit.
This was a safe that Rkook
did not write himself but it was
compiled by his son Rasu the Cook. I
believe that it was first published in
and uh but everything in the book
everything in the book are is from the
writings of Ravk and what we have in the
seafair and this is uh what we please
God have this to embark upon is to think
about the midot to think about character
traits think about how to improve in
different areas how to have a greater
kvatim a greater closeness to Hashem and
to see in particular particular what was
it that Rafkuk highlighted of the mid of
the different characteristics that a Jew
is to focus on and uh and to work on.
So that is the uh the topic that we're
going to be looking at today and it's
inana. It's the topic of the day meaning
that here we are in keshul and uh this
is very much what keshul and moving
towards rajashy
what these days are all about and that
is a self-reflection self-examination
where we can improve in our conduct and
our behavior in our vodatem. So I think
it's it's a beautiful topic, a perfect
topic to uh to begin at at this time and
please God one that we're going to look
at in the coming weeks in the coming
months together. Ravkuk in the book
Midotaraya he addresses 18 18 different
midot the number 18 is always a special
number he has 18 different midot so
we're going to make our way throughout
the year looking at the different midot
that Ruk addresses that he highlights
and uh and not only in a philosophical
way or a hypothetical way but a way in
which we can uh be inspired by that that
we can incorporate these ideas into our
own religious life and in our service to
Hashem.
in our avodas hashem. So let me begin
with the following anecdote which is a
well-known anecdote by the way when we
talk about midot when we talk about
muser
I would think for many of us what comes
to mind is the great rais saler rais
salant zatal going back to the early
1800s. So he begins to really talk about
and emphasize this idea that Jews need
to think about their conduct, need to
think about their behavior, need to do
what he called
something that we need to do on a
regular basis and that is to make an
assessment to to look in the mirror and
uh and to think about who we are and
where we are in life and the constant
growth that we that we need to do. So
there's a story that is uh one of the
most well-known stories about Ravi
Salaul Salanter and that is that one
evening as he was making his way back
into town he saw that there was a
shoemaker that had his shop open where
all the shops were still closed he was
still working on a pair of shoes and he
walked into the shop and he said you
know it's very late maybe it's time to
close and to go home and the shoemaker
said the following to Ravi Salanter he
said as long as the flame is still
burning he had a candle on the table as
As long as the flame is still burning
and there is work to do, I can continue
to fix I can fix the shoes. So as Rabi
Salanter left the store, he said how
profound that idea is and how true it is
for life as well. As long as the flame
is burning, as long as we are living, as
long as we have an ashama within us
every single day, there is work to do.
There is work to do and we can fix, we
can continue to fix, right? we can
continue to improve on our lives and who
we are and becoming better and better
people and better in our vodas hashem
better in our
so that's uh in a nutshell in a word I
think that very much captures the
teachings of muser the teachings of
midos and as we'll see in a moment um
rufk was very much influenced by the
teachings of rabies salant that he felt
that he was very much a rebi to him even
though he never met Rabi salanter we'll
see that in a moment. Uh but but right
before we do that, you know, if we think
about kazal, if we think about where do
we find this in our sources? Where do we
find it in Mishna? Where do we find it
in gamarra? The idea of self-examination
of nephesh of improvement. Where do we
find that? Where where do we find that
idea? I think you can find it in many
many different sources. But I want to
highlight one source which is a source I
think that's familiar to all of us, very
familiar, but it could be that you never
read it this way. And it's a Mishna
that's found in Peravo. So it's on the
page. It's on if you want to turn the
page to the side if you want to. It's
page one. It's the Mishna Mishna
perishiml.
And it's a statement that's made by Hill
which I think we're all familiar with.
And this is a reference to Hill that he
would say
if I'm not for myself,
if I'm not for myself, who will be for
me? If I'm only for myself,
what am I?
And if not now, when? So that is a
statement of it's a beautiful statement.
But the question is what does that mean
exactly?
If I am not for myself, who am
I?
If I'm only for myself, who am I? And
so I want to look at the Rambam. The way
that the Rambam has the the way that he
interprets this Mishna and this is very
very significant when we talk about the
perish of the Rambam. The way the Rambam
understands what Hill is saying and he
says the following. I have it here
again. Now you can turn the page
straight if you want to look at the uh
the language of the Rambam. I'm just
going to read read through the Hebrew of
the Rambam. And here you have it in
translation as well. So what was Hill
referring to? Amar Hill was saying the
following.
If I myself am not going to motivate
myself, inspire myself in order to reach
greater virtue.
Who is going to do it for me? That's
what it means. Anili. In other words, I
need to take responsibility for my
actions, for my behavior, for my
conduct. Nobody else is going to do that
for me.
So that's the way that he interprets the
opening statement. And then what's the
second statement mean?
So he says,
being that I'm the one to choose the
path that I'm going to take,
I can look at myself and I can ask the
question, well, what really have I
accomplished in life?
So he's asking the question, what have
in a in a humble way, what really have I
accomplished as a person?
many what good thing has come from meal
I am not yet a whole person
so an interesting way that the Rambam
interprets the second phrase of
meaning when I look at myself when I
take a close analysis of who I am and my
actions what have I what have I really
accomplished and then what's the last
statement
and if not now
says the
and hill was saying the following
and if I don't work on these personal
virtues of attaining virtue and becoming
a better person at this point
when I am young
when am I going to then acquire them
is that something that I can do as I
become old in life
it's going to be very difficult to do
that to make change. If you wait till
the last minute so to speak
once a person becomes accustomed to
acting a certain way then
that becomes established in a person's
nature and therefore and he quotes at
the end
that they train a person when they are
young. So the Rambam says something
really magnificent and I would say an
interpretation that I that I was not
familiar with when I read this Mishna
that it's all about self-improvement.
This is what Hill was saying.
I need to take responsibility and do
what I can each and every day in terms
of a self improvement.
When I look at myself when I make an
assessment of myself I ask the question
I really have it accomplished. I am not
shalim in the sense that I would like to
be fully shal
and if I don't do it if I don't do it
now if I don't take advantage of the
opportunity now it's something that can
easily slip through my fingers. So
that's the way that the Rambam
interprets his Mishna. The Misha is a
reference to maote tovote and mido
tovote and how a person is to improve
and to take advantage the first of all
the responsibility to do it and to take
advantage of uh of that opportunity.
Okay. So that I would say just an
interesting source according to the
Rambam this is the Rambam's
interpretation. This is what Hill is
highlighting and the importance of
working on on mido the importance of
nephesh the importance of of
self-examination and a constant effort
to grow as a Jew and as a person. Okay.
So here I want to talk about just for a
moment Rabisel Salanter and the
influence that he had the impact that he
had on the life of Rkook. So if you look
at source number two, this is a
description of Ravkuk when he was 18
years old when he heard about the
passing of Ravis Salanter and this comes
from a uh one of the additions of Mido
Taraya with an introduction and in in
the introduction it speaks about the
relationship again a relationship that
they never had a personal relationship
but the way that he looked up to and the
way that he felt that he was impacted by
Rabis Salanter and I read the following
source number two on page one.
when he was a young man was young
the idea of being engaged in Muser and
thinking about and working on one's
midot that was something that was that
was something that was central to the
life of Rkook and to the thinking of
Rafuk
from a certain perspective who
shall saler He saw himself as a student
of Rabis Salanter Masuatar
who was the founder of the Musubin Rabis
Salanter Miss and the story is told
when Ravuk was 18 years old
Raisant when he heard about the passing
of Rab Sald
he tore his garment he did crea
He took off his shoes, his leather shoes
and he participated or observed the laws
of a that day
like the law of Talmud when your muak
when your main rabbi passes away that
the says you have to observe certain
laws of aut's
connection the way that he felt that
salant even though he never studied with
him and that's the last line
even though he never saw sal in his life
but he felt that this teaching the muser
and midote was something that was so
important and something that he received
from rais sal that he considered to him
to be like a rebi mufak okay that was
when he was 18 years old and now just if
you can turn for a moment to the next
page which is which is 1b and just to
see yes is
>> what he
>> what was the age of Ravk?
>> Um he was born in 1865 and he ca and he
arrives in 1904.
>> 34 38
>> 38 Okay.
>> Thank you. Um
so that's at the very beginning of RV
Cook's life when he's 18 years old. No.
56. You said 1857.
>> 1865.
>> And he arrives in 1904. Yeah. Um,
so in 1933 1933 and this is actually 2
years before RV Cook passes away. It was
the 50th anniversary of the yard. It was
the the yard site the 50th anniversary
of the passing of Rabies Salanter. And
at that time
Rafuk writes he gives a eulogy and we
have a written eulogy that he gave a
memorial that he gave for Ravi Salanter
and uh and it was translated as well. So
I just want to read to you just one
paragraph from that eulogy that he gave
from for Rabis Salanter and again with
this to appreciate what it is that we're
about to uh that we're about to engage
in in terms of the study of Muser and
Midot and why Rabis felt that it was so
important to do so. So this so if you
look on page I have a 1B at the top
where it says the holy of Israel is also
a blessed memory a eulogy on the 50th
anniversary of his passing 1933. The
theme this is R of Cook writing and I
believe this was a eulogy that he gave
uh again this is on the 50th anniversary
and then it was put in writing as well.
It was published the theme which
encompassed his entire life. This is
Ravuk describing the life of Ravi Salaul
Salanter. The theme which encompassed
his entire life was inventing a
comprehensive bandage that would heal
every type of illness that afflicts the
soul. He wanted it to be effective for
the simple masses on their level and for
the elite, the masters of Torah,
reverence and wisdom on their level. And
here's the main main point that I want
to share with you. He noted how profound
the disease of distraction from
self-examination is. how people are
preoccupied either with their daily
physical concerns or with their own
intellectual fixations and no one thinks
of trying to find himself in the storm
of life. So Rabisel Solante this goes
back to the 1800s mid 1800s and he's
writing about or what he's addressing is
that people live a life where they're
easily distracted and they're not
thinking about themselves. They're not
thinking about their growth. finding
themselves in the storm of life. And I
think about today if there was distra
distraction then distraction that we
have today. There's so much that we are
distracted by and we often don't take
the time to think about our own um our
own lives and how we and and improve and
how we improve and thinking about our
midot and thinking about all different
areas of our spirituality. As a result,
pure reverence slips away from the
people's hearts. And as a result, as I'm
sorry, and as a result, all of their
traits and actions become corrupt. Our
generation degenerates and the situation
poses a danger to the standing of Torah
and true Judaism, God forbid. Okay. So
that is again in a nutshell in the way
that R cook in the eulogy that he gave
for Rabi Salanter one of the items that
he highlights and that is the the uh the
danger of distraction and the importance
as Ravi Salaul Salanter taught of on a
regular basis. It could be on a daily
basis, on a weekly basis that a Jew
takes time for muser that a person takes
time to think about their lives and to
read and to hear lectures and what we're
going to engage in as well. Please God,
over the year in studying Muser ideas
and character improvement. Okay,
beautiful.
So, let's now look at the following. And
now we enter the book midaya.
And that how do we enter the book of
midotaya the way that Rkook does. And
that is the bottom of page one. The
bottom of page one which is three and
four and in translation five and six.
And before he enters any of the midot
and as I said he's going to address 18
different areas of midot. Before he does
so, there are two statements that he has
as an introduction to the book and um
and to the process of looking at mid. So
this is the bottom of page one where you
see number three. There's an alf on top.
I'll read it in the Hebrew and translate
the you have the translation below as
well.
refinement of midot
that we are to use our intellect in the
pathway of intellect who km
heresh oresh
it comes first or it's necessary before
the emotional response the way that
we're going to address improvement and
self-improvement is it requires a
careful analysis it's not enough just to
respond to it emotionally
we need to think about first of all to
identify what is it that we need to
improve and then how to go about that
improvement right am I getting angry
okay am I angry too often first to
identify that that is an issue and then
how is it that I'm going to make a tikun
how am I going to fix that so says that
requires first step is
and then the next step is an emotional
response to
If you can't identify what is good and
what is badish,
how is it that you're going to feel or
you're going to address?
How is it that you're going to now
acquire goodness in a natural way that
it's going to become a part of you? that
it's going to be something that's going
to be lasting
and that you're going to be able to
distance yourself from the ra
where that ra becomes something that is
or potentially can become something that
is natural to you
after that becomes hairgill where you
become accustomed to doing it. So the
first lesson that he teaches is the
importance that this is something that
requires a careful analysis and it's not
something that you can just um address
in an emotional way that I feel bad that
I act this way that I feel guilty about
that that's yes that's part of it but it
needs a a what what the language that he
uses is dot that it needs intellect that
it's something that requires a careful
analysis first to identify
And then to address the uh how to
correct things and then number the uh
bet where I have here number four on the
side the other introduction that he has
to the
he says that every good
there can be certain faults that come
along with that mida
and this is what's required for a
full-fledged avod
um in this area
to bring to light
that you bring to light the good
that they are absolutely
that they are cleansed
that they don't have any and this I
think is really addressing a very high
level and that is that in every mida
that the mida should be a spectacular
mida a perfect a pure mid I heard a
story recently of um
of Rash Moan Orbach Zatal. He was one of
Gdole Torah of his past generation.
Actually lived just a few blocks away
here in Shared.
And um
on Shabas he was walking on the street
here just a few blocks away and he sees
a young man with his elderly father and
his father is carrying a stack of
chairs. So he saw he kind of thought
that there was a little bit strange that
here you have the young man and the
father is the one that's like shleing
all the chairs on chabas. So he stopped
them and he said well why is it that
your father is is carrying the chairs.
So he said to
he said well I don't hold of the af here
in the community but my but my father
does. So um so in his so you see he the
mida was a good mida in other words he's
careful in but you need to be very
precise and very careful in terms of
that it's that it's absolutely cleansed
so he writes in
his safer or I think his children put
together grandchildren of the the
teachings of
that he felt that that was incorrect
that he felt that when you have a
mitzvah of kava and an issue about the
auv So again this is where a careful
analysis of mito become uh become
essential. Uh if you turn to the next
page I I'll share with you two really
beautiful ideas of rivk which really um
which come from the very beginning of
our dvening and uh to think about midot
and actually within shak as we start our
dvening that's actually on page it's on
page two on the top that's a page two on
the top it says about midbar on the top.
We're going to skip that source for now,
but we're going to just go below where
it says
um if you see that on the page.
You see where everyone see where I am?
It's it should be there should be a
number two on the top of the page if
that didn't get cut off. This also says
Bidbar on the top of the page and below
that it says UNL. We're going to we're
going to skip that for a moment, but
we're going to now go to the uh the
following source. two different places
in our deting as we begin each day where
we address at least from we'll see Raf
Cook has a very interesting
interpretation where we are already
addressing the idea of midot and um and
working on those midote. So here this is
a fascinating fascinating insight of
cook. So one of the we say every morning
we thank God for the ability to to walk
that you prepare the steps of man as we
begin our day and we begin to walk. So
we thank God for that. So Rufuk has the
following interpretation. Well, first he
says and I'll just read to you. We'll
read the the opening lines here.
It really is wondrous. It really is
quite miraculous that we have the
ability to walk.
The fact that we have that balance and
we kind of just take that for granted,
but we balance our body, right? We can
be six foot six feet in the air and
somehow we are balancing all that
we're standing straight
and all of that we have just these
little feet right on the bottom. the
base is very very small and yet we're
able to to stand straight.
Not only can we stand but that we can
run. We can run very quickly and all of
that we kind of take for granted but
that's a really a gift and that is
somewhat of what he calls ple pain. It's
a miracle. It's quite a wondrous thing
that we're able to do that the loi polar
that we don't fall to the ground as
we're standing as we're walking and to
thank God for that. So the balance that
we have and he says that that's that it
really comes from a sense of balance and
that God gives us and we know God forbid
if we don't have that balance in certain
diseases and and uh as we get older
sometimes that's not a simple thing but
that is a uh that's a braha that we have
and to be to be aware of that but then
Rafuk goes on to say that balance that
we speak about in terms of walking or
running that there's a balance also in
life he says and in our mido is well and
that's what this refers to if you um and
I underline um just if you skip a few
lines down right in the middle
when it comes to the the makeup of man
of the soul of manag
there are many different and I think
here let's talk about different midot
different midot where a person has to
find the right balance
and the purpose and the goal
that we find that right path in life.
So, we know that we're supposed to be
compassionate,
but it's not always a time to be
compassionate. There's a time for
hatred. There's a time for anger as well
and to be able to to balance those two
things, right? is a time that we are to
be benevolent that we are to be giving
but there's a time that we need to
restrain ourselves to refrain from
giving as well so to find the right
balance and he says that that is what
this braha is about as well that we're
thanking God for that for the ability to
do that and I think we can also think
about as a prayer to Hashem as well that
we should find the right balance in the
midot in the decision making throughout
the day so that's the way number one how
RKU interprets an interesting
interpretation of mit the balance
and um I'll I'll just share an
interesting story actually from Ravis
Salant
uh he also talks about the schllemut and
the balance of a person and he believes
that you really need to study muser in
order to have that right balance and to
reach aut personality. So there was
somebody that came to Rabi Salant and he
said that there was a certain
that uh that learned muser that he
incorporated every single day in his
study and that's what Rabi Salant what
he suggested that everybody should set
aside time on a regular basis to do so.
So this person said this he would have
been that much greater
if he didn't study Muser all the time
because he's taking so much time for
Muser he could be studying Talmud and
studying he would be that much greater.
Rabi said, "I'll answer you the
following with the following." He says,
"The says that if you have on the table,
if you have to make, you're making
amotsi, you're going to have bread. You
have a very small a very small roll on
the table, a full roll, a whole roll, or
you have a very, very large loaf of
bread, but it's a broken piece. So,
which of the two do you make a braha on
first?"
>> What?
>> The whole one.
>> The whole one. That's right. The whole
even though it's this tiny whole one. So
he said about this, okay, he might know
a little less learning, but he's whole.
He has the right because he studies
muser. He's he's a person who is shal
and the shale that's where we make the
braha on, right? A person who is shal
the whole role. Yeah, he knows a lot. He
may, you know, he may know a lot of
Torah, but Schllemos is is essential and
the way to that and the way to find that
balance in life and to be able to make
those decisions um properly. So that
requires study of Musim. Okay. One other
really beautiful and we don't always
take note of this. It's part of our
daing that we say every single morning
and right after the shafar that list of
15, you know, blessings that start the
morning. So we then have a paragraph
and in that we say the following
that we ask God that we should cling to
and that we should do.
So Rook says the following and we'll
read just a few lines beautiful a
beautiful interpretation of RVuk how he
interprets that. So he says the if you
want to follow along this is by the
number three.
He says yes a person has a person has
good inclinations
and a person is always seeing like he's
seeing images of positive things and a
positive path that a person can follow
that a person to be full of fear and of
love and and and a will to do the right
thing that a person is giving
humility.
A person has images of that and a
longing for that as well.
But the great challenge is that those
images of all this be all the beautiful
midote they're not necessarily
necessarily davuk they don't cling to
the person. It doesn't become part of
the person. Right? We have we read the
stories about the gdole and uh we're
inspired by them, right? Inspired by
wanting to follow these beautiful
attributes, but often we don't follow
through with that. Often it doesn't
become a part of who we are.
They become like images that are just
passing images.
They they just uh they kind of just they
uh they pass over and and kind of just
move on.
And the problem is they don't become
part and parcel of the nephesh of the
soul of a person.
And because we kind of let them they
kind of just flee away and we don't we
don't do what is necessary in order for
them to become part and parcel of our
personality. So we we lose out on the
opportunity for these great ideas of Mus
and Kadusha to enter us.
So that is our prayer every single
morning
that Hashem should help us
that we should be that we should cling
to the
it should enter our very it should
become part and parcel of who we are it
should become part of our in our very
kishkas the uh all of the these
beautiful attributes that we hope to
attain. So that every single morning as
part of our ding we pray to Hashem
that all of these ideas and the
beautiful attributes and the muser ideas
and the character traits should become
part and parcel um as to who we are. All
right, let's go now to the uh the final
page.
And we spoke about the idea of Ravkuk
and the way that he uh felt very much
influenced by Rabisal Salanter. But it's
been pointed out by many that uh that
Rav Cook doesn't really follow in the
same path as Rav Israel Salanter because
one of the things that Rais Salanter
spoke about is the need for
that on a daily basis on a regular basis
that a person need needs to assess their
conduct and their behavior. Rafuks felt
that that was like a little bit
heavy-handed and he also another aspect
of Rab Salanter one of his ideas is that
a person should take um statements of
kazal
that speak about muser and repeat them
over and over again. And he said even in
in a in a mournful melody that a person
should say them again and again kind of
this more emotional
um you know uh path towards midote
improvement and ru felt that that was
that was not the right path for this
generation and essentially what rufuk
said is that we need to have midote
improvement self-examination with a lot
of positivity with a lot of sim with a
lot of joy and that part of it you don't
really find in at least in the early
teachings and the teachings of Rabis
Salante.
Uh so this I want to share with you the
following. This is from Oro Tachuva
Perrick Yudalid Piska Yural and um
Rifkuk is going to say the following but
I'll just share the I'll share the
following uh anecdote with you. I was in
I was in uh New Jersey two Shabbasim ago
for Shabas. It was a shabas right before
el was that mozz shabas that's uh right
two shabbas ago and the rabbi that
shabas morning said the following he
said you know as we're about to enter el
we have to you know we have to take lul
very very seriously
and he said I heard from a very
prominent rabbi the following the
following mushel the following parable
and that is how are we to think about
mitzvot and our observance of mitzvot so
he said if you would see a wall and it
would say on the wall, wet paint, right?
There's a sign on the wall. It says wet
wet paint. So, what do you do? So, some
people might go over and and touch the
wall, right? Just to see if it's still
wet or if they if they see a little bit
of the paint on their finger. So, that's
the wall with wet paint. But if you
would see a um a fence, a wire fence,
and it says danger and danger of being
electrocuted.
So would you touch that fence?
So we would not touch that fence. So he
says that's the difference between the
way that we address mitzvot throughout
the year and the way that we're thinking
about it as we're going into el, right?
How careful we need to be when it comes
to mitzvah and our observance during the
month of El. So I heard that and I was
thinking about that, you know, that um
that suggestion and kind of how does
that go over and how do people hear that
and is that the way to think about going
into the month of El and going into
Rashana and Yamipper? I think for many
generations and I found it interesting
because I think of that kind of style,
you know, they they speak about that
from Eastern Europe and years ago kind
of the uh the fire and brimstone of El
and everybody shaking in their boots and
they say even the even the fish and the
ponds were shaking in uh in Eastern
Europe in Eastern Europe in the felt
that the days of awe were coming. But
Rook says and I I'll read the following
two lines from Ruf Cook. This is from
Arotachuva. He says
and you have it here. It's again on page
the last page that you have.
When we speak about ideas of holiness
and we talk about ideas of doing chuva,
if we talk about ideas of chuva that
bring about a kind of sadness or a
melancholy or that's a little bit
depressing, he writes
He says we should really distance
ourselves. He says at times right from
those ideas other words if we're talking
about ideas of chuva we're talking about
being electrocuted on a fence if you're
going to do an aa right ideas of kaduca
and chuva that bring about a kind of
melancholy or sadness at he says that's
according to cook that's not the way to
talk about chuva it's really not the way
to talk about anything holy that you're
going to feel a kind of sadness in that
he does say he doesn't say you shouldn't
didn't ever talk about it that way. So
maybe there's a place for that as well.
But maybe at times that's not the way to
think about think about chuva. And then
he writes the following
because the joy that's found in the
depth of holiness
that's greater than any other kind of
chuva. That's that's the essence of of
doing chuva. That's the essence of
kaduca. The essence of kadusha is joy.
The essence of chuva is joy. So we talk
about midot and we talk about midot
improvement. And here rkuk veers away
from raisel sal. I mean we shared how
much he thought of raisel sal as as a
role model and the impact. And yes he
believes and he adopts this idea of the
importance of chuva and midot and
self-examination but it must be done
from a place of joy. Right? Right? The
joy that we're bringing out the best in
ourselves. The joy that we're reaching
our potential. The joy that we could be
better than we were. Right? The joy of
becoming a greater sadik and a greater
sad. The joy of coming closer to Hashem.
The joy of coming closer to people
to think about in those terms. And Rafuk
says that's the essence of chuva. That's
the essence of thinking about midot that
it has to be filled with joy. So that
we're going to try to do when we
whenever we talk about the midot and the
mid raaya.
I'll uh I'll close with the following.
And this is um and this really brings us
into into the days that we're in right
now and the days of Eld. And again, as I
said before, this is just a hypothetical
or theoretical conversation or teaching
or learning that we're doing together.
But in general, by the way, when we're
talking about Muser and talking about
these ideas, I mean, for myself and for
all of us, hopefully this is something
that we can we can all grow from. Again,
not just like a formal learning, but
learning that we can kind of bring into
our lives. So, at this time, Lol, we're
in it right now today at this moment.
We're in LOL. these days of and these
are holy days auspicious days for chua
and the in the very the first in the
that talks about the hilosash is we're
preparing for rash it speaks about the
importance of how many people here
started saying well if you're ashkanaz
you should not have started yet so we
didn't get there yet but we started
David or that we add to our ding
chauffeur blowing that we have in the
morning. So we're we're very much in
these days and moving towards Rajashana.
So the mission brewer writes the
following. So this is the first comment
that the has on the of the days before
Rashashana and this is something that
we're all familiar with. He writes
that we have an we have a hint in the
Torah itself for these days of which is
based on the words
right we all know this I am to my
beloved and my beloved is to me
this is the says right that theos of
that we should think about the love that
we have between ourselves and Hashem
that there's a closeness at this time
unlike any other time of the year and
Then he says this I think is not as well
known the savote and the last letters of
aniim
the last letters of
it's all yuds right so it's four yuds
right audosimur
there's a 40-day period that we're in
right now everyone thinks about it that
way but it's a 40-day period right
starting with the first of all all the
way through yum kipper that's hinted to
says the ini
as well and how special these days are
and to use this time in particular every
day is a good day for thinking about
midot thinking about where we need to
improve what kind of kabala what can we
take upon ourselves at this time I was
listening to air this morning Rabbi Ari
Liuitz who is the the head of the smika
program at yu and he spoke about what
kabala what things he's going to do he's
taking on two things that he doesn't
generally do. This is what he said. I'm
taking on two things over the next 40
days.
And then at the at Nila, he's going to
choose one of those that he's going to
continue to do for the rest of the year.
He's taking on two now and he's going to
choose one of that he's going to do for
the next 40 days and then at Na he's
going to say which one he's going to
continue doing. Okay? So that's what
these days are about. It's a serious
time for for that. And here he writes
the following. Keep it
these 40 days says the
leot
that we feel closer to our beloved
meaning to Hashem in doing chuva
and our beloved meaning.
Hashem is closer to us
that Hashem accepts our chuva. So this
is a time that we are growing closer to
Hashem that Hashem is growing closer to
us and our chuva is accepted even more
so during this time. I'll just end with
the following anecdote which is a uh
sort of like where we began this morning
the great rebby who was always he was
known for always defending Amy.
So this is a story about more about
Muser. So there was this fellow that was
going around the town in the in theatel
with Ra is I'm sorry with Ra Bardich in
Bardich and he was going doortodoor. He
was a guy who who fixed things. You have
those I think in Torah tibids you have
ads for guys that will come to your
house to fix things. So this guy was
going doortodoor and he came into the
knocked on the door of Revliche
and RV answered the door and the man
said I see that you have a lot to fix
here and I'm happy to do so. So the rebi
he called his wife and he said you see
this man who just came he noticed how
much I need to fix right there's so much
fixing that I need to do right even this
fellow saw all of my faults and all the
things that I need to fix in my life so
that's what Raisel Santer was teaching
he was teaching the idea that there like
the way that we began as he walked into
the shoe maker that he the shoemaker
said that the the candle is burning
there's work to do there's what to fix.
And as Rav Cook says, how beautiful that
opportunity is, the joy that we uh the
joy that we need to uh to bring to that
fixing in order for that to happen
because only with joy do we grow. Only
with joy do we do we feel kaduca and
closeness to Hashem. So we should all be
za these days as we begin. And please
God, I look forward to uh a special uh
coming weeks and months together as we
begin to study the midot the way that
RKU speaks about the midot and but
especially at this time to uh that we
should all be za to take advantage of
these days to braha and uh for all of us
and for all of Israel. Everyone have a
wonderful day.