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Rav Avraham Yitzchak Kook: Eretz Chefetz 12:2 - Synthesis of Body & Soul by Rabbi Aaron Goldscheider
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Delivered 18 Sivan 5784 / June 24, 2024 Rabbi Goldscheiders's shiur for the 2023 Academic Year has been sponsored לעילוי נשמת מרים בת אברהם ע''ה ושם טוב בן שלמה ז''ל www.ouisrael.org facebook.com/ouisrael #OUisrael #torah #judaism #torahlectures #kook
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okay good morning everyone Booker to and
uh so nice to have everyone here nice to
see everyone this morning
and uh we'll begin with announcing the
sponsor of our
sheer and they are sponsoring for this
Academic Year we thank them for the
sponsorship and uh this morning we uh
continue with our learning of ruk a
beautiful safer eret which is a
collection of ruk's teachings and we're
in the very last chapter which is perbet
and if you look at the top of the page
the title of the chapter is which means
and you will be one that there will be
Unity for the Jewish people and uh what
we're going to look at today is this
theme which is such a beautiful theme
and such an important topic and that is
the topic of of unifying am Israel it's
cly something that we're thinking about
today Something That We're struggling
with today something that we've seen
Sparks of uh Sparks during this time of
of the ability and the promise that we
have as a people to be unified okay so
this is the second piece that's found in
the chapter peragut bedb this is the
writing of Riv cook and uh on page one
you see a bet at the at the end of that
paragraph in parentheses it says
roir is another book that was written by
Riv cook rev cook is a prolific author
he writes a lot and this is a saer
actually about Rog about the Mitzvah of
estrog and one of the purposes or one of
the goals of the saer is to
um is to make the argument for esrogim
that are being grown in the land of
Israel and the Jewish people should make
every effort in the world to be buying a
rogim that are being grown in Israel so
that is uh that's where this where this
uh excerpt is from and here we'll see in
a moment actually how this relates to uh
to that very idea of of growing growing
uh esrogim and produce and Farmers um
that are that are growing produce in the
land of Israel okay the words of
r as it's true in the same way that it's
true about the body of a person
that you cannot
have that you need this is the top of
page one where it says per B at the top
that you need all of the powers all the
strength of the body in order to have
kadha now we don't always think about
that we think well kadosa is you know
the holy and spiritual things that we're
doing but we need the physical body as
well we need to get up in the morning
with strength we need to concentrate in
terms of our daving in terms of our
learning the physical part of a person
is also related to
k a person is made up of both body and
soul and we also have within us toen ra
which I would say or one can possibly
explain that as and in other words we're
made up and and both are needed to some
degree and we'll see why that's the
case only with that combination and that
synthesis of both Body and Soul the
physical and the spiritual do you have
schut so in the same way that that is
true in terms of a person in terms of a
human being in terms of a Jew can
in we cannot be literally crowned as a
people on the Holy Land uh we're not for
we need all of our kot we need all of
our
strengths and he quotes a from at this
time says
God I will be a God to all of the all of
the uh the families of Israel you and
they will be for me as a nation okay so
what do we have here we have a teaching
from ruk which is very much a uh I would
say a classic teaching of Rook the
importance of both those that are
bringing spirituality ity to the nation
of Israel and those that are part of the
those that are building the land of
Israel as well it's interesting that he
talks about this is being spoken of in a
book in a saor that he writes about
esrogim now where do we get esrogim from
in other words they don't come down from
heaven you need somebody to plant those
trees you need Farmers that are
overseeing the growth of EST rogim so in
order to do a Mitzvah is a Mitzvah
purely a spiritual thing or is a Mitzvah
also physical well it's physical as well
it's not only spiritual I mean I can
stand under my Talis and I could have
great cavana as I hold my lul love and
estrog which is a very beautiful thing
to do but where does that estro come
from it comes from the ground it comes
from people it comes from Farmers it
comes from those that are growing AOG in
the land of Israel to appreciate their
contribution as well and um you know
that's certainly true today and uh in
terms of the whole issue of and it's a
whole discussion and maybe it is a
complex discussion but everybody
everybody who's making their
contribution here in the land of Israel
today and to appreciate the
contributions that they are making the
material the physical contributions that
are necessary the Army the sahal of
course that's so necessary the kadua of
that Enterprise and to bring all of that
together and to appreciate all that are
that are making their contribution now
there is an interesting line here that I
just want to highlight and R cook says
that there's that there's a need for to
and r and I said before Y and in other
words well what does that mean that
there is somehow a need for the as well
that's that sounds a bit strange right
we're we're we're not interested in the
yatar that we're supposed to kind of rid
ourselves of the yatar but let me point
out the following and maybe you have a
uh an answer and approach to this but in
the uh the famous words that we say sh
with all of your heart so we say every
single day the Mitzvah we say with all
of your heart what does Rashi
say what does that mean it
means says rash it says with
your and your
that's yeah no that's in the
first no it's in the first I actually
have it it's in the first
para yes that's true it's in the second
Para that's in the second par but this
is in the first
par with all of your heart maybe rash is
being what does it mean with all of your
heart it can easily say just with your
with your heart but Rashi points out and
these are the words of Rashi I'm reading
it to
you means with both that you have with
your and your now what does that mean
and to serve god with I know what that
means with your y but what does it mean
to serve god with your y
so one way of interpreting this there
was one year that I was at yes
University for Yer RAB L RAB Norman
lamb he gave theer morning and I
remember what he spoke about he spoke
about the that we say we
say for the sin that we transgress
before you with the so he asked the
question what does that mean every sin
is with
the right just
say for the that's it just stop there
what's so the way that he interpreted
which I think everybody would agree to
is that we need to use those qualities
and those characteristics of the Y and
they can be channeled in a positive way
so classically where you think about is
there's positivity there as well and I
think that's what cook is referring to
that the person
individually that's found within a
person and within nistel right those
qualities that sometimes we say that's
not such you know that physicality and
the materialism that is that that's not
really Jewish no we need that strong
physicality as well we don't have a
great Army without it we don't have a
great economy without it we don't have
great hospitals and lawyers without it
right we need that as well so R cook
said all of that is Holy all of that is
part of the unity of of Amel yes
please yes into
the it's a positive thing we're actually
involved right right well the question
is this is it pushing away the
or I thought you were going to say it's
pushing it forward it's pushing it
Forward into the in other words how to
take those traits and characteristics
and to transform them he didn't go that
he didn't go that far he didn't go that
far push it away right push it away I
think that's how we usually think about
it is being kov the Y in other words to
conquer the Y so that's one way of
looking at there's another way of
looking at and that's I think what Rashi
says means with both yat that doesn't
mean push away that Yater is serve god
with both both yat is a Yater to and the
can be used positively as well so the
lust that we have the physicality that
we have the money that we we we want to
uh that we want to acquire how do we use
those things in a positive way and we
can be mades that as well those are
necessary as as well in terms of kadua
and that's what R cook says that says in
this piece did you want to Mega
boy
yeah okay that yes
yes okay that yeah that that's another
component absolutely right without the
so then we don't have the to and that's
that is an
approach I think where cook here is
suggesting that we need the to and the
ra he writes
that in other words we need that we need
that combination we need that synthesis
and that's the of of Amel so I think one
of the things that we're all familiar
with in rook's writings and it really is
a very beautiful aspect of rook's
writings actually I was listening
earlier today to a podcast about Aus
somebody interviewed R brewitz and Rabbi
Hower and RAB Shai shakar on this on an
issue that everybody is really thinking
about today and talking about in terms
of aus and what's the place of aus and
there's Ms as well and how do we find
sort of that that compromise or the
right place between the two certainly we
know we all of us know especially as
we've been studying together that for
riff cook this is this is a very very
important idea he puts it very high on
the list of priorities in terms of what
is it was it what it means to be a Jew
and what it means to be a Jewish people
the importance of aus and I want to
share with you just a couple of mos that
um that highlight this idea and I think
I would say influence of Cook's thinking
one is and to begin here and again
there's so many you know beautiful murus
about Aus but here's a question again
and I would ask the question why does Ru
cook in particular see Aus as being so
important you know I I also I do a lot
of studying myself in the writings of
RAB
sal
sal he doesn't really talk about AK so
much it's like not it's not his topic
it's not somehow obviously it's
important to him it's important to every
Jew and to every Rabbi but it's not
something that is that that makes it to
the top of his list he's talking about
other issues and um but Ru cook is
talking a lot about AAS the piece that
we just read about and I think there is
a reason why Ru cook is is is that
interested in the idea of AAS let's
begin here this is the medish the medish
ask the following question the medish
says why in the and this brings us back
to to the Torah to the very beginning of
our peoplehood why is it that bamin has
this that the bdash is and the and the
is found in his area so the M says the
following it asked the question
why is it the Second Source why is it
that The KES and where Theon sits that
that is the answers so
beautifully all the other brothers were
all part of the sale of Y they are all
part of that fracturing
of IM bam was not part of that so where
Hashem wants to bring his where he wants
to bring his dwelling is in a place of
Peace in a place of Brotherhood in a
place of unity and I think this kind of
begins our discussion in terms of Riv
cook and why riff cook sees this as
being so important especially in a place
and interesting I mentioned Rabbi salvic
a moment ago where does rabbi salvic
live where is his
hometown where actually yeah it's you
could yeah there are few answers to that
question but uh literally in in
Brookline that's his address he spends
is weak in New York but he's in America
he's in Boston he's in New York this
idea of the shya that that's the place
of the no that's not the place of the
New York is not where the dwells and and
even in Boston even in man don't tell
them that no we won't tell them that um
so I think to begin with Ru cook is Ru
cook is concerned as we all know here
Rook is back in Eric Isel and talking
about unity and the importance of unity
if we want the to be
dwelling in our midst it's here it's
here in ER Isel that that Hashem wants
to be here and we have to find a place
and to ensure that uh that that Hashem
is comfortable that he wants to dwell
within within the Jewish people here in
arel so that is one the second source
that I want to share with you which also
is very interesting and I think relates
to ruk is a more of a halakic source
it's a halakic source it's what's called
lumus actually more of a a learned idea
this is again you could say this is more
philosophic more Hasa what I just shared
in terms of this this medish but we're
about to see a now is a commentary in
the lists the 63 Commandments the is
considered one of the most important
where he has the discussion of all of
the and here without going into the
detail of where we are exactly but he
gets into the following discussion this
is and he asked the following question
we have a Al that if something great
happens A great miracle or wonder
happens outside the land of Israel that
you are not allowed to Institute the
halel in that circumstance now a prime
example of that is purum purum happens
outside the land of Israel the gamar
says because it happened in that's the
question why don't we say Hal and po we
say all eight days of kanaka we're
saying Hal but we don't say Hal and po
why not what does the gamarra answer
anybody know there are actually two
answers that are offered in the gamarra
why it's not one answer is that the
Milla itself is a kind of Hal whatever
that mean that's the answer that the
gamar gives even though that's
problematic what that means the second
answer that's given is that it happened
outside of the land of Israel and if it
happens outside the land of Israel no
Hal okay that's we need to deal with
that also what does that mean if it
happened to thousands or tens of
thousands or to a million people that
were saved why can't we say as a
community how for that and the other
gamar that he brings G that says that
tanim also faste serve the other side of
the coin if something terrible happens
or you're in a in a midst of of uh a
turbulent time and you want to have a
fast day for the Jewish Community which
was part of which was I would say more
popular in tamic times but it's true
today as well there are times that the
rabbis even throughout this war there
have been times where the rabbis have
said it should be a day of fast where
they'll with the Yum Kipper cuton
they'll suggest being that there's
accustomed to fast to fast on this day
with the war I'm not sure if you've
you've seen that again it's not as
popular it's not something that everyone
is doing but the Rabin it has called for
certain fast days even during this
period of time but if something like
that happens in you cannot have a fast
day outside the land of Israel now why
not the great celebration you can't have
outside and even fast days where you're
going through a challenging time and
this is the answer that's given by the
and I have it here it's uh underlined
now this is the line of the it's towards
the bottom it's four five lines up it's
you have it in Translation as well why
because the status of
is now that's a very interesting very
interesting idea and that is as much as
we talk about a community outside of the
land of Israel says the it's not it's
not the nation it's not a it's not a
group they're not working together as an
Amel as a nation of Israel there could
be millions of people and millions of
people that have like the like the story
of puram that experienced a Salvation
And yet that's not considered the Jewish
people as a whole only in the land of
Israel that's his interpretation that's
his suggestion as to why you cannot have
halel or a Tinus because you never have
a group of people that are working as
one if you think about it there's
there's some truth to that even in terms
of again not only on a philosophical you
know plane but in reality like how much
is like the Jews of New York and the
Jews of LA and the Jews of of of uh you
know Hong Kong or Australia how how much
is there a sense of kind of working
together that there's a community that
they're sharing together here in Israel
and again especially in the last eight
months the sense that we're all in this
together that that that's clear right
that we're all in it together that we're
functioning as a nation yes let's take a
couple comments please
what what about tin ah tin sester yeah
it's a good question I thought about
that I'm not sure I'm not sure it's a
good question very good question
yeah no I think I think there
there I think you're absolutely right no
there there is togetherness there is
togetherness you have uh speaking of
organization so we'll highlight the OU
the OU organization of New York and of
America brings the Jewish Community
together it unifies well certainly the
Orthodox Community but at least
according to the sa uh the as much as
there is that sense of togetherness
there isn't there isn't a there isn't
nationhood right there we can use that
there isn't nationhood there isn't one
Community where we feel uh that sense of
Oneness of unity and and that can only
only happen in the land of Israel that
that's by the way that's one
interpretation there are other
interpretations that are suggested why
Hal and Tinus and why it's not but
that's but and I think that's important
in terms of Riv cook as well in terms of
unity because if we're talking about
that we're now in a place that we do
have nationhood that we do have Unity
for the very first time that there is
that sense of Aros how much more
important is it for us to work on that
and to strive for that and and for that
to become a reality not just a philos
opical you know a hypothetical idea that
there's unity in the land there's
nationhood but yes how do we how do we
function as a nation and the respect
that we have and the love that we have
for one another that uh the ruk is
teaching us okay so that is a halak
source I want to turn to another source
this is page two and uh speaking about
RI cook and the importance of of unity
and the love and respect that we have
for one another I want to look at a
source that I don't know if Rook ever
mentions this Source but clearly this is
an important work for rev cook this is a
a book that's called toor dvorah it was
written in the 1500s by rosha Cordo who
was known as the Rak he lived in satat
he is buried in satat there are many
that go to his place of burial in the
Holy uh the holy Cemetery that's found
in in satat and um he's considered to be
one of the great cabalists of that time
where where where there so many of rosef
Cairo and others inat he writes a book
called toor Dora and the premise of the
book book is that we need to emulate
hasem to emulate emulate hasem and let
me just this is the very opening of the
book peric in the very beginning he
writes that a person is to be doad that
we are to emulate God our
creator then a person can be elevated to
to a perfect uh to sort of a Perfection
Sal udus that a person we're created in
the image of God that's sort of maybe
the phys the physical body and deut mean
that in our actions as well and he
quotes AAS and based on this pug he
speaks about 13 different principles
that a person should emulate from God
this AP in mik and you have it here in
uh before
you what's
that yes me right that's right
so this is a that he quotes in the
continuation
the this by the way when do we say
there's a custom of reciting this P
where and when anybody know very nice
because it
says to throw your sins into the water
that hasem remembers the ofam and the
promise to and then the last words M
from the days of old so what is the the
toor says what does that last phrase
mean from Days of old he understands
that actually as an attribute of
God and what is that attribute of God
says theor read in the Hebrew this is
where it says H gim this is the 13th
attribute that we are to
emulate from Days of
old this is a that has with the Jewish
people even when we don't have even if
we've sinned even if we no longer can
can can ask God to remember the goodness
of our of our
forefathers and they themselves at that
point a Jew or the Jewish people maybe
they don't have the mitzvot CES
what does hem do Hashem says well I
remember you what it was like when you
were a little when you were a little one
I remember when you were pure I remember
the way that you followed me into the
Wilderness
mem remembers you can look at a person
and you can judge that person what you
see before you or you can remember other
things about the person you can remember
good things and the purity of that
person sometimes you can get frustrated
with a child but remember what it was
like when you were a baby you know the
way that I held you and at TH those
moments where you might feel a little
bit of anger go back and remember
that that's what does so with that the
says we need to do the same whenever we
whenever we interact with people look at
the second par or the middle paragraph
it
says so to a
person this is the way that a person
should be no with other
people if you can't find anything
positive per
se there was probably a time in this
person's life and there was when they
didn't sin right as a baby as a
child there are good things about this
person and there there's there is
positive
things asem remembers us as we were
little as we were starting
off there's not a person that you can't
find a something positive some Purity
right some goodness in that person and
the ter says that we need to emulate
Hashem and when we emulate Hashem then
Hashem has raim on us that we kind of
open up the channels more of a
cabalistic idea open up the channels of
that kind of when we when we interact
with people we judge people favorably we
see the good in others as Hashem does he
remembered the goodness of am Isel so
Hashem does the same for us okay turning
to page three another great influence of
ruk is the time that he spent in the yes
in a Yeshiva he was in the world famous
Yeshiva known as the VIN Yeshiva the VIN
Yeshiva the head of the thean Yeshiva
the time was the NV of
aan and famously the NV said if I had
one student one student like rev cook it
was worth all of the efforts of of the
vaja everything that we went through all
of the challenges that we produced a Riv
cook that was a famous line of the of
the NV the Yesa was founded by R Vin who
is considered to be the great student of
the vnon the talud muok of the vnon and
I want to share with you a teaching that
well I believe
that was part of the VIN yiva and the
way that the way that ruk was educated
in the VIN
Yesa and this is from a beautiful work
known as the ru now the ru is a
commentary on P Kos on P Kos which we're
studying many of the Min to study right
now this is from perv this is towards
the very end of peros and it speaks
about the following it speaks and this
is appropriate for all of us as we're
sitting here learning Torah gida Torah
great is Torah great is Torah
study greater than being aain as great
as it is to be a Cohen and great as it
is to be a Mel it's even greater to be a
student of Torah says the mishna this is
mishna and then it goes through 48
ways that's on the second
line there are 48 ways that are
necessary 48 steps necessary to become
learn it in Torah to become a uh to
become a sage or a woman of great
learning and it begins with the
following it begins with it says I'm
sorry it says third
lineal you got to sit and
study you have to listen a
lot you need to speak you need to say as
they say say over the learning B you
need understanding wisdom the heart Emma
you need fear y
you need humility right to listen to
somebody else to learn from somebody
else we we don't always want to hear
from somebody else so it goes through a
long list and then towards the end of
the list again we have 48 we're not
going to go through all that right now
you can spend an hour or more on this
mishna but towards the very end it
says now I have that you have the the
arrow there and I have it underlined so
one of the things that's necessary to
become great in learning is to be
no now that's difficult to understand
what that means now no usually and
became popular term in the mus movement
which means that you if somebody else is
struggling if somebody else is going
through a hard time you're no say you
lift up beh with that the
Yoke what that other person what's heavy
on that other person that if you're
there and you're supportive of that
person so that's no now that's a very
beautiful idea but that doesn't really
seem to fit this list this is how you
become
a Right This is how you become learned
this is how you become wise so how does
that work so this is what the
ruimin again the great student of the
vagon the founder ofin Yesa he writes so
I want to share this with you and I
believe that R cook is influenced by
this as
well
no if you want to follow along with me
in the text right in the
middle that's the continuation of this
mishna
what does it
mean now when when you're learning with
somebody else when you're sharing
learning with somebody else or a
discussion with somebody
else that literally mean that you show
your face or that you're open to the to
the idea of the
other means that when you're in a
discussion discussion of learning it
could be any discussion that you're open
to hear what the other person person has
to say that's what it means to be
no he has a yoke he's carrying a certain
idea that you're willing to carry it
with him you're willing to hear his side
of the argument as
well he brings a source in the bab from
the gar where ra even where he was
arguing with abay that he showed that
ab's opinion had validity now you don't
usually do that in an argument right if
you want to win the argument you don't
you don't you know you don't lift up the
other the other side so that's what that
means says and you should
think when you're having a discussion
with somebody else discussion in
learning or in general maybe the other
person has it right maybe their logic is
better than my
logic even if you're absolutely certain
that you're
right and the other is not
right you should never be
arrogant never there should never be
arrogance in in stating your
opinion that you say this is what I
believe to be true and that you share it
but never never in an arrogant way and
then he
ends if you know that the other is just
going to continue to argue with you and
not going to hear your
side Shalom better not to say anything
and just
shom and just let there be peace most
important there should be peace so this
is a very interesting interpretation of
what it
means in this context it means somebody
else has another opinion to take that
other opinion very
seriously and uh and to see the SAR to
see that possibility not to have the
arrogance that I have it correct maybe
the other side has it correct that takes
a lot of you know willpower and and
honesty to do that yes the word
old absolutely
yeah it's a good qu you know I I was I
was thinking about that myself I I I'm
not sure exactly but I in this context
all means what it is that they're
carrying in other words what their
opinion that they feel strongly about
that's Weighing on them that they feel
in a positive but they're it's Weighing
on them it's what they feel strongly
about it's their yoke like a metaph
that's right it's it's a met absolutely
as a metaphor now again usually it's not
translated that way it's usually
translated where somebody else is going
through a difficult time that you're no
Sayo but here in this context and that
it doesn't really make sense in this
context to talk about that idea we're
talking about in Torah learning how does
one become great in Torah learning what
does it mean to be a so that's the way
that understands it the other is is
weighted down with that idea that's what
he believes strongly in and that you're
willing to take that that side you're
no there you're willing to hear that
side as well that's greatness I mean
that's and that's really what that's
what argument should be right that's
that's not arguing because you want to
find fault in the other you want to
bring the other person down and as he
writes if you see that the other is not
interested let it just let it Let There
be shom just you know don't force your
side yes Harry yes that's right agree to
disagree exactly say agree to disagree
right exactly right exactly right
exactly right but we often I don't know
about you but we often get worked up you
know we believe in something and then
all of a sudden you know things escalate
so um so ran says no this is how we
argue with one another now I want to
point out the following this is such a
beautiful gar I'm not sure if you've
ever heard this so in this piece he
quotes raay that there's a time that Raa
even though abay took the other side
that he even defended abaya's position
so we all know and Hill they disagree
many again again again and again we
always pan like there's just a few
exceptions always like Hill what do we
pass I'm sorry like yes we always
passing like Hill why is that the case
why is Hillel always the Victor why is
he the one that the Ala always follows
the opinion of Hill you would think that
shamai got it right 20% or 30% or 40% of
the time why is Hill always the winner
that is the question that the gamar
itself asks is gamar and Ain y gim days
and it says the
following three years there were massive
debates that were going on between the
house of H and Sh
and one side said is
like the other said no the is like
us a voice came down from
heaven that they both have validity
that's what God Said shamai is right and
Hill is right right both can be right
somehow
however but we follow B but why is that
says the gamar well you just
said they're both beautiful they're both
correct so why does Hill win out every
time
ask if they're both you know they both
have validity they both have
justification
why is it that we always follow B so
this is what the gar
says because they were people that were
Noah what does Noah mean they were calm
right they were nice they were pleasant
alen forbearing is the way that it's
translated here they never got too
excited never got escalated they they
always the other opinion they said we
understand now look at this this is the
key here
that they would study both opinions in
other words B Hill would study B shami's
opinion as well which it sounds like B
shamai didn't do that to the same degree
they B would study the other opinion and
look at the last line and not only
that whenever they would argue with Bei
they would first state shami's opinion
and then betella would say their opinion
they never said their opinion right away
let me hear what you said first let me
repeat that let me understand what you
said and then I'll express my opinion
and every time basillo that's how he
argued always saying let me not only let
me hear it I'm going to verbalize it to
try to understand what you're saying and
the gamar says that's why we always ping
like basil because of the sensitivity
that basil has and for every goes
according to B based on that based on
the way that they argued based on the
respect and the sensitivity that they
had for the other side right what a
beautiful lesson that is
yes good a beautiful yeah it's a basic T
posit yeah I'm not sure right right it
is a that's what's found I guess in the
books but do we do we do that right do
we do we follow that okay great two more
sources let me let me let me me end with
the with the following so so this is
Rook this is very much Rook is from is
from the house of hill now he's from
he's from the house of Vin right this
idea so beautiful to find this in vagan
right to see this this was a teaching
vajan how we argue with one another to
State the other side to be to be
no means right that's a right I would
never read it that way what does that
mean but no sa all means I I listen to
the other I want to I want to understand
the other side that I'm carrying his
side as well his side of the argument
and that what that's what Billo does as
well every time he argues with be chami
that I want to hear your side I want to
understand your position as well right
what a beautiful thing that is for
people we don't come across people like
that that as we're all right let me
understand your side let me understand
more about what you have to
say yes please isn't it easier
right I I think it's easy to do it when
everybody when you're sitting around a
table with everyone that basically
agrees and they're just like but this is
no I think this is the this is the
challenge this is raising the bar in
terms of how we are to that doesn't mean
that you have to agree with the billel
disagreed every time with be chami in
other words he disagreed across the
board every single time he disagrees but
he did but how does he disagree right in
such a sensitive way in such a beautiful
way and and and and sincerely hearing
the other side I don't think that wasn't
just a uh you know that that wasn't just
you know a a strategy I'll just say
yours and I'll say mine no that he
really wanted to understand the other so
two last sources that I want to share
with you we turn to page four we come
back to RI cook and this I mentioned
this safer it just came out in with a
translation called
khad his inner Chambers it came out
about 20 years ago it was a collection
in Hebrew I mean his original you know
the original writing Ser of cook where
an author put together some of the more
intimate some of the more personal um
reflections of ruk in it was just
translated it's by kin press P or and
you know I think of R cook is as you
know this came you know this was just
his nature I mean and I think it was to
some degree like very much his nature
just to love there are people like that
right that are just naturally they're
just they're loving people they're
accepting people they're they Embrace
others they're warm right warm people
that are just that's just who they are
you have to be lucky that you're just
you know have that that nature but he
writes the
following how much work how much
effort and I'll let me just I'll read to
you the translation how much I need to
toil to work on clarifying my inner
perspective regarding the essential
content of the Israelite personality a
that I think is an important line that
in truth we should not be judging based
on the based on actions alone and
interestingly he
writes how much work how much effort
that takes for me personally that when I
judge somebody else when I judge another
Jew that I'm not looking purely at
actions if they shab is kers what
they're look what they're Weare that I'm
not doing that that that's not the way
that I'm going to judge
others not that which is revealed other
words I don't want to and I need to work
on myself and I'm not judging based on
just what I see you know with my with my
own
eyes that I need to see in a deeper
sense that I see the kadha that I'm able
to see the the that I'm able to to see
the you know the goodness of every
person the way that uh that we saw
earlier in the Tom the way that Hashem
does that that Hashem remembers that he
looks back that he finds the Purity in
every person so I just found that I
found that very um I found that
reassuring that for of cook also wasn't
always easy he's describing how he needs
to work at it as well right not to judge
others just based on based on their
actions or what they say to look deeper
to be danus to see the the Nish in every
person okay and let me let me conclude
with the following so this is a uh
actually just just came across this idea
it's from R user rashar we is one of the
G Torah here in Israel today he's lives
in ramot he's considered to be one of
the most important pokim in the world
today in terms of ala in terms of
ashfa and he quotes the following gamar
the gamar says the following actually I
don't have this yeah I I I have it just
on my page but the gamar tells the
following story The Following story it's
rauna and Rista they were sitting
together and they were learning together
and there was a certain gentleman
actually was a great his name was Gena
interesting
namea there was this fellow Gena not
just a fellow scholar great scholar who
walked by and the two rabbis turn to one
another and they say should we stand up
should we show the Cavo the proper Cavo
and Rise before this great scholar this
so one said well we should do it because
he is a great scholar but the other said
I'm not sure if we should stand up for
this person so why not
because because he is a quarrelsome
person he is a great but somehow like
around him and and his interactions
there's a lot of uh I don't know there's
a lot of quarrels right he creates a lot
of a lot of tension there's a lot of of
fighting around what he does so they're
they're going back with one another
asking that question which is
interesting just that alone in other
words it's a great don't you stand for a
great and yet they weren't sure if you
stand for somebody even if he's great in
if there's if he's somebody who is if
he's a difficult a difficult
personality ah absolutely absolutely
right so um so the gamar goes on and
says um that the rabbi then this Rabbi
Geneva came close to them it seems that
they do not stand up for him and they
turn he turns to the rabbi and said what
are you discussing with one another now
I don't know if he overheard a little
bit of what was going on but he wanted
to know what's the discussion looks like
you're involved in a very intense
discussion so they say that we're
discussing R we're discussing winds now
previous in the gamar the previous you
know section speaks about in ALA the
different kind of winds that there are
The North Wind the south wind and how
that affects certain things even in ALA
as well and um and then the rabbi kind
of interjects and and or he adds and
kind of gives his vort his ideas about
Stern regarding when that's how the
that's how the gamar ends that that's
the
gamar so rasher wise quotes a talmud of
the balov one of the tamid balov and the
question that he asked on this schar is
how could the rabbi lie when they said
to him that we were discussing
winds right so so right maybe it wasn't
a lie and the truth is earlier they were
talking about the alas of certain Winds
of rot so uh the T the bov says the
following they did not lie they were
talking about rot and they were talking
about the following Mission and here's
another mission that's found in pavos
you're familiar with this and this is
from
says there's the word
win the mission says if people find you
Pleasant if people like you like being
around you then Hashem likes being
around you as well that's the
teaching if others don't find you to be
pleasant so then
then hasem also does not find you to be
pleasant that's his teaching which
sounds like it's more than and Harry you
said it's more than
just right or mitv there's something
there's an added Dimension as well right
and that is the way that we conduct
ourselves the way that we interact with
others when we are loving and people
find us to be loving people and and warm
people and sensitive people so Hashem
loves that as well and loves being in
the presence of such a person and the
opposite is also true so this says the
talid of the balam is what they meant
when he said we were talking about rot
we were also talking about Ru and we
were wondering they don't spell this out
but we were talking about being that
you're a person whose is
not that people you're great but people
don't really enjoy being in your
presence right the question is do we
have a to stand for you so they were not
lying they were talking about Ru and
they were talking about specifically
this ruach um yeah
please when I heard Ru
sound yes
yeah right right no I think that's
yeah very good no very good that's a
nice explanation as well all right I'll
just uh I'll end with the following and
just just speaking about uh Riv cook the
idea of aus and the special Aus as we
saw before the the arguing that there
isn't like a full sense of aus outside
the land of Israel that they're sort of
like but here in the land of Israel
there's the idea of Oneness um this past
there we we we're coming off a very
difficult week last week in terms of the
number of soldiers that were killed
kosim that were killed um I visited one
of the Shiva houses of the zimis family
in bees a wonderful beautiful family
American family that lost 21-year-old
son later in the week there were two
soldiers that were killed that were
fighting next to one another actually my
son knew another is very close friends
with another soldier that was injured in
that uh in that in that incident um but
two soldiers were killed stand they were
you know fighting right next to one
another one was Omar Magda and the other
was Saj Yakov deri Omar smda is 25 years
old Saji Yakov 27 years
old Saji Yakov deri was studying for the
Raba mik and there were many pictures of
him as he was learning he had his
gamarra out the last picture you may
have seen the last picture of him was he
was daving with Fillin he was in the
window and he was doing that morning
just an hour or two before he was killed
the other om smda was the son of a
former Israeli Judo
Olympian he was a gold medalist the
father I believe a gold medalist or
silver medalist and I was just thinking
about how different these two
individuals were from one another really
coming from different worlds a rabinal
student you know somebody studying for
the raban and again I don't know much
about om Magda but I imagine from from a
different kind of background and
upbringing and here they were together
fighting side by side and both giving
their life together side by side at that
moment for for Amel and for erel and I
think that's part of what that means
with the and that there's a Unity
there's a Oneness here in that that we
don't find in other places and um and to
appreciate that and to see that and to
and to be to to come closer and closer
to one another as Rook said it wasn't
not easy for me I I put a lot of effort
into this right to see the best in one
another to to see the the Nish in every
Jew
and we should be Z not only to the idea
this you know philosophic idea of the
unity but a real sense of of unity Inus
in in am Isel today all right everyone
should be well we should only
share amen