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On our Sunday night show, Torah
Foundation, where after some divrei
Torah, we're going to be enlightened,
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So, Abba Tayya Karim,
it seems like
every day,
at least it seems like, every day
there's another ugly story that's
popping up from the Jewish world.
The anti-Semites are having a party
on our behalf,
on our brothers' behalf, on our sisters'
behalf.
The media is having a festival
publicizing stories about the Frum
community. We're not just talking about
the Jewish people, we're talking about
the Frum community. There's new ugly
stories popping out
what seems like every day.
And many are asking,
"How did we get here?"
Despite
the fact that the Chovot HaLevavot was
written over a thousand years ago, today
the Chovot HaLevavot is going to answer
that exact question for us.
This is how the Torah works. It's
divine, it's timeless,
and it's certainly going to answer our
questions no matter what they are.
Perhaps we can't fix what already
happened,
but after learning what the Chovot
HaLevavot is telling us,
maybe we could fix ourselves before
what's coming.
Years ago,
there was an extraordinary tzaddik named
Rabbi Uri Zohar.
Well, in his former days, he publicized
himself, so this is not something that's
unknown. It's a very much a big part of
his
personality, his story similar to how
Hashem took back his millions, the story
about my personal life being on Wall
Street for nearly two decades is very
much part of why people connect to our
shul. Rabbi Uri Zohar was what you would
call
the elite Hollywood personality of
Israel.
An actor, producer,
but after doing teshuvah, a very, very
serious teshuvah, a very dedicated
teshuvah, Rabbi Uri Zohar
was
uh
a force to be
uh
a force, in so many words. It's just
something that
really you could not ignore, whether you
were secular or you were religious,
because he woke up the neshamah in ways
that most people didn't even realize
existed.
In one of the interviews
that Rabbi Uri Zohar had
in the media, there was a woman that was
interviewing him about his story, why he
left what
uh was considered success in the secular
eyes
to go to
what they seem
as fanaticism or as something that is
ancient, old, not good, whatever you
want to describe it.
And of course, after a very
inspiring interview
the, uh, the journalist, the woman
that was interviewing him, wanted to
shake his hands.
And Rabbi Oury Zohar
kindly rejected her offer and said, "I'm
sorry, I can't. It's against the Torah."
But she said, "Yeah, but there's nothing
between us. What's the big deal?
We just had a nice interview."
And he says to her, "Let me tell you a
story.
One of the rabbis that has helped me in
my life
is a tzaddik by the name of Rabbi Shmuel
Dvir.
He is a dayyan, he's a tzaddik, yirei
shamayim.
And he would be given all types of tasks
that dayyanim get
that are not exactly so much fun.
One of them
was that one day two lawyers show up at
the bet din.
One lawyer is the husband, one lawyer is
the wife.
And after many years of marriage, these
two people that were 50 years old or so
wanted to get a divorce.
And they needed the rabbi to process the
get.
But the rabbi noticed that the husband
was
completely
dismissing the fact that his wife has
been his wife for so many years,
supportive and everything.
And
to his dismay, he saw how this husband
completely mistreated this wife
by cheating on her with his 25-year-old
secretary
who was half her age
and wanted to leave his
soon-to-be ex-wife with nothing.
And he had all types of legalistic
reasons of why he should leave her with
nothing.
After Rav Shmuel Dvir worked on this
item by item
task by task
he completely destroyed the case of the
husband and showing him how he is not
being fair, he's not being honest
and that he needs to give his ex-wife
the ketubah. He needs to give her some
of the uh financials.
Of course, the ex-wife
is sad about the divorce, but very happy
about that she's not left with nothing.
And at the end of the case, after the
husband leaves
not exactly very happy
the wife
or the ex-wife
takes her hand and wants to shake the
Dayan Rav Shmuel Dvir's hand.
And of course, the Dayan says, "I'm
sorry, ma'am
but I cannot shake your hand.
It's against the Torah."
And she says to him, "Yes, but
Kvod haRav, there's nothing between us.
This is just a formality. This is how we
conduct ourselves in the world,
especially after everything you've done
for me. The least I can do is shake your
hand."
And Rav Dvir says to her
"I know that
the Torah's ways seem foreign to you,
seem ancient to you
seem irrelevant to you.
But the truth is that if your husband
conducted himself the same way that I
do,
the same way that my forefathers did,
all the way
back to the beginning of time,
we would not have
a divorce today.
This about Karim,
the more you think about this story, the
more you realize how profound and
relevant it is to our times.
There's not a day that goes by that the
day deem are
simply filling up with new divorce
cases. Used to be something that the
firm community was proud of,
that there's very rarely any divorce in
the community. Today,
there are entire campaigns
going against the entire institution of
Judaism in a in the name of Judaism, but
really a reformed version.
Today, there are things that are
happening within the community that
your ears do not want to hear and your
eyes certainly do not want to see. And
we wish we did not even know they
existed, but unfortunately, they do.
How could this be
something that is coming out of our own
backyard, our own Jewish communities
that are learning Torah,
that are doing the mitzvot? If you were
to say that one secular person killed
another secular person, we understand.
If you say that the Zionist government
is treating
its fellow Jews, or what's supposed to
be its fellow Jews, the so-called Jewish
government
is treating its Jewish people in a nice
way, you'd say, "Yeah, of course,
they're supposed to." But if you'd say
they're mistreating them, we've already
become accustomed to that. In fact,
there hasn't been a bigger enemy to the
Jewish people
in history
that has done and is doing what the
so-called Zionist government is doing
right now. Arresting people for learning
Torah, arresting people
for their beliefs.
Doing things that even the Romans and
the Greeks did not do.
But, needless to say,
this is something that is not exactly
unexpected when you have an atheistic
government
that also promotes all types of
immorality on a regular basis. Of
course, it was only a matter of time
before they made the Jewish people,
which are supposed to be their brothers,
but in reality, this is the
This is the king.
It was only a matter of time before they
declared us their enemies.
So, it's not really a surprise. What is
a surprise
is that there are men
that deal with immorality issues and are
saying that every month
there are between 70 to 90 new cases
of all types of heinous, horrific
immoralities happening in
and all types of places, communities.
Stuff that's unheard of.
There is a
famous woman
that, unfortunately,
was empowered by some of the
reformed rabbis
that call themselves Orthodox that we've
exposed over the years
that is now encouraging women
to
expose themselves
publicly
in order to encourage the public and
others
to get their husbands to to leave them,
to give them a get.
These types of horrific things are
certainly all against the Torah.
The public doesn't know it.
Certainly the non-Jewish public doesn't
know it.
But needless to say, these stories keep
coming out.
Stories of donor fraud, stories of
embezzlement, stories of lawsuits, Ponzi
schemes, all types of ugly stories. Ugh.
And this is without following the media
or the news. This is just SIMPLY COMING
FROM ALL LEFTS, all sides. It won't stop
coming in. It's literally you want to
look for the cave that Rabbi Shimon BAR
YOCHAI FOUND AND HIDE yourself in there
for 13 years at least.
But I'm sure in today's world with all
of the technology, they'll find you
there, too.
How do we get here?
How did we get here?
Rabbeinu Yonah says that if we conducted
ourselves
the way our forefathers did, we wouldn't
be here.
And the Chovot Halevavot
proves that.
In this section,
the Chovot Halevavot begins by something
that is very common to anyone that has
real dedication to their rabbi, to their
teacher,
and understands what it means to have a
rabbi.
And he says,
"The rabbis of the Talmud
related stories about their teachers,
which give us an idea of their depth
of mind and of the great efforts they
made to refine their personal conduct."
Anyone that
was a real talmid of any rabbi, whether
it's today's or past years, always has
good stories about their rabbis.
There's no shortage of amazing bios by
Art Scroll and Feldheim and other
publishers out there that are telling
you the behind the scenes of great
sadikim, whether it be Rav Ovadia Yosef,
Rav Aaron Kotler, the Klausenberger
Rebbe, Rav Wasserman, the Chofetz Chaim,
and countless others which Baruch Hashem
we have merited to read
and learn from.
And there's no shortage of these bios,
but they will never really encompass the
entire life of the tzadik because
there's always new stories coming up.
Because the life of a tzadik
literally is what the Gemara says,
you have to learn even from their
mundane conversations
because that's Torah, too.
One example of that
was told by a chacham by name of Rabbi
Yitzchak Bardah.
Rabbi Yitzchak Bardah
is the uh
brother-in-law of Rav Meir Mazuz, alav
hashalom.
And he told a couple of stories to show
the enormous tzadik
that lived among us and
we just lost recently.
And Rabbi Yitzchak Bardah says that
when he was younger
he didn't really know much about the
ways of the world. He focused all of his
life on learning Torah.
But
one day came that uh
he wanted to be tested by one of Gedolei
Yisrael
that came from Baghdad
Rav Salman Chagai Aboudi.
And Rav Aboudi was one of these tzadikim
Yirei Shamayim that would test chachamim
for 9 hours.
A 9-hour test
across all spectrums of the
If you knew it, you knew it. You didn't
know it,
you didn't make it.
But everyone that wanted to be tested by
him
knew they had to prepare.
Get a lot of rest the day before.
So Abba Dan says the night the day
before, let me go to the store, maybe
get some food to eat.
But he didn't know much about stores. He
went to the store, he says he saw two
pitas. He says, "Oh, I want to get these
two pitas."
And then he saw some cheese on the
counter.
They used to sell cheese by the pound.
He says, "I want some of that, too."
So the store clerk says to him, "How
much do you want?"
He says, "You know, I remember my mom
used to
get something maybe 25, so maybe
25 kilos?"
The guy looked at him, "25 kilos? No.
What 25 kilos? For you only?"
He goes, "What? People don't buy that?"
He goes, "No. What did Where did you get
that number?" He goes, "My mom used to
buy cheese,
and it used to be something with 25." He
goes, "No, not 25 kilos, maybe 250
grams."
"250 grams you want?" "Oh, okay, okay."
So he bought that. He didn't know much.
But one day he bought a refrigerator,
and something happened, the check didn't
clear,
and they, of course, they got him to go
to court, and they took him to court,
and
the court decided
that uh
they're going to take back the
refrigerator.
And of course, Abba Dan, young man, goes
to Abba Mazuz, says, "Why did this
happen to me?"
And Abba Mazuz says,
"The answer to your question
is in the teachings
of the dikduk
of the vowel called shvana.
There's shvana, and there's shvanah.
If you know this, you'll know this,
you'll know the answer.
And he explained to them, when do we use
shva na and when do we use shva nach?
These are the two dots that are under
the letter.
And he gives them these five rules.
And the first, if it's the uh the uh
shva na is in the first letter,
then we express it.
It's shva nach is silent, shva na is
something that's expressed.
So, for example, if it's in the first
letter, like the word bi- like the
letter uh the word bereshit,
bereshit,
but if you see the those two dots
somewhere else,
it'll be pronounced differently.
It'll be silent.
The second rule
is if it's in the second letter
and the third letter,
and like in the word kaspecha, your
money,
the letter sameach and the letter pei or
fei [snorts] has both of them have the
shva na, so the second one is what you
express
or pronounce, and the third one you
don't, so it's kaspecha.
So,
I'm sorry, the third one is what you you
uh you say.
Long story short, he gives them these
five different rules.
And from there he says, "Look,
the words we used were bereshit,
kaspecha, shoftim, dibru, hallelujah.
So, how do I learn about the problem
with my uh
refrigerator from this?"
He says, "Bereshit, in the beginning,
it was your money, it was your kesef,
kaspecha.
But after the shofetim dibru, after the
judges spoke,
it wasn't so much your money anymore. So
what do we do when we lose money?
Hallelujah, thank you Hakadosh Baruchu."
And Rav Mordechai says "Rav Mazuz
literally made this on the spot to show
you his genius."
But there were many geniuses over the
years. There are many geniuses today.
Not all of them are tzadikim that you'd
want to learn everything from
and praise.
He says to learn
about the righteousness of Rav Mazuz,
all you got to see is just simply
the rest of the stories of things that
happened.
One time there was a rich Bukharan
that came to the shul, came to the uh
uh Beit Midrash of Rav Mazuz.
And this Bukharan wasn't exactly uh
talmid chacham, didn't know very much,
but he was very very wealthy.
And he used to wear the
beautiful
golden jackets that they wear in the
Bukharan community, especially those
that are very wealthy.
And he got a lot of kavod. So they gave
him an aliyah.
And since he didn't know much, when they
opened the sefer Torah,
he touched the scroll.
But to his dismay, as soon as he did
that, which by the way is forbidden,
people saw,
but then
they heard.
What did they hear?
They hear of Meir Mazuz SCREAMING
"FIRE! FIRE! FIRE! FIRE!"
THE GUY GOT SO scared
that he literally turned around and ran
out of the shul.
Ran away.
A week later,
he sees Rav Berda in the street.
And he says to him,
"I don't understand. Where is the
manners from your rabbi?
Why did he have to yell at me?
Why? Because I touched the uh somebody
told me it's because I touched the uh
the cloth. I touched the um the
parchment of the sefer Torah. Okay, he
could have just told me
"Don't touch."
"Excuse me, you're touching something
you're not supposed to touch." WHY DO
YOU HAVE TO YELL AT ME FIRE FIRE?
Rav Berda says to this
nice Bukharian guy,
he says to him, "If you knew
the rav,
you wouldn't have any questions."
He says, "What do you mean?"
He says,
"You see, the rav,
he doesn't just teach about yirat
shamayim, about the fear of Hashem.
He sees it and he lives it."
He says, "Well, but he can't just say
'Excuse me' politely." He says, "You
don't understand.
If you were, let's say,
walking and then you saw somebody that's
working and he was backing up as he was
carrying something he was backing up
backing up not looking what's behind
him,
and you realized that if he takes
another step, he's going to fall off the
cliff.
What would you do at that point? Uh we'd
tell him.
But how would you tell him? Would you
tell him, "Excuse me, sir.
You're about to fall off the cliff.
Maybe you want to stop.
Maybe you want to be careful."
"No, I wouldn't do that." The Bukharian
guy says, "I'd be dumb. I'D YELL AT HIM,
'STOP IT! STOP IT! YOU'RE ABOUT TO
FALL!'"
HE SAYS, "RAV MEIR MAZUZ,
SHAMAYIM. He doesn't just talk about it.
He doesn't just read about it. He sees
the disaster that's about to happen or
that's happening. The fact that you
TOUCHED THE PARCHMENT ALREADY is the
disaster. It can't get any worse than
that. And therefore he screamed fire,
fire.
One story that I told
years ago that's always worth telling
was
I'd say maybe 10, a little over 10 years
ago.
Probably closer to 12 years ago.
I went to Israel.
And I spent a lot of time with my dear
brother of Ephraim.
And of course we already learned for
several years before that
and transformed our lives, but this
it's different
to learn
from a book, to learn from a lecture, to
learn from words
than it is to learn when you see the
rav.
That's called shimush.
And one day
we were walking.
I don't know if it was going to a shiur
or going to shul, wherever we were
walking to. And the topic of modesty
came up.
Teaching it, learning it and so on.
And at some point Rav Ephraim says to
me, I keep telling him what's happening
in the world, you know, things that he's
not exactly
uh informed about cuz he lives a very
different life.
And uh I told him, "Listen,
you know, people are walking around this
way, that way. People are this.
And it's hard for people to watch their
eyes.
It's everywhere. It's billboards. It's
uh commercials. It's everywhere."
And he asked me, "Why do they look?"
And I was confused.
What do you mean? Why do they look?
And he looks at me confused. He goes,
"I don't understand. Why do they look?
Isn't it disgusting?"
I was confused now.
Last night checked, looking at something
immodest, especially at that time,
was not exactly considered disgusting by
society,
which I WAS VERY MUCH PART OF.
SO, I said, "What do you mean it's
disgusting? I don't understand."
And he just looks at me straight in the
eyes. He says, "I don't understand you.
Why do they look at something so
disgusting?
Don't they see THAT SHE'S ON FIRE and
melting?"
At that moment, I understood
this is not somebody that I'm used to. I
haven't met anybody like this on Wall
Street.
Now,
the Hovot Halevavot
is telling us that the Hakhamim of the
Talmud
told stories about their rabbis,
of how their rabbis acted, of how their
rabbis spoke, of how their rabbis dealt
with different circumstances,
in order to teach us
what we need to do.
Even though it's many years later,
the teachings are timeless.
And the first story that the Hovot
Halevavot brings
is from the Gemara
in Masekhet Berakhot,
which starts off with a complaint.
What is the complaint?
The Gemara in Masekhet Berakhot, page
28, has a conversation between Rav Papa
and Abaye.
Two of the Amoraim.
And Rav Papa says to Abaye,
"What was different about the earlier
generations
from whom miracles occurred
to us,
where miracles are not happening?"
This is a very COMMON QUESTION TODAY.
HOW COME A GUY DOESN'T
OPEN THE SEA FOR ME? How come he doesn't
speak to me? I prayed at least every day
this week. You know, people think that
just because they do a few good things,
therefore they deserve nothing less than
Krias Yam Suf, the splitting of the
ocean, or at least maybe a little bit of
feeling of Moshiach ben Yisrael for a
few minutes, where God speaks to you
face-to-face.
This is not exactly what Rav Papa is
asking about. He's simply saying, "Look,
the previous generations" He's not even
talking about thousands of years ago.
He's talking about the generation of
Rabbi Yehudah, which was the generation
before them.
So, he said, "How come
they got miracles,
and we're not getting miracles?
And if you were to say
that it's because the earlier
generations
surpassed us in Torah study, it's not
true," says Rav Papa.
"For in the time of Rabbi Yehudah,
all the Torah studies of the academies
was concentrated on the tractate of
Nezikin, damages, business. Maseches
Bava Kamma, Bava Metzia, Bava Basra.
We, on the other hand, in our
generation, study all six orders of the
Mishnah.
Meaning, we're
more well-versed in more things than the
previous generation.
They focus on specific things
in their schools. It's not that they
didn't know it.
It's that
in his day, there was
more focus on one part of the Torah,
whereas in this generation, there is a
wider
focus.
So, we're learning a lot of different
subjects.
But yet,
we know that when there was a drought,
Rabbi Yehuda would merely remove one
shoe
as a sign of affliction,
meaning that a fast is about to start
because it hasn't rained.
And as soon as he would remove that
shoe, rain would come down from HEAVEN
IMMEDIATELY.
WHEREAS US, ON THE other hand,
it doesn't matter if we remove the shoe,
we fast, we afflict ourselves, we cry
out profusely in prayer,
and it's as if no one is paying
attention to us.
Why should this be so?
It's a legitimate question
by Rav Papa.
RAV ABAYE answers Rav Papa, and he says
to him,
"The earlier generations
sacrificed themselves to sanctify
Hashem's name.
And therefore,
they were deserving of having miracles
performed for them.
Whereas we, on the other hand, do not
sacrifice ourselves to sanctify Hashem's
name."
Now, of course,
the Hakhamim explain this is not
referring to dying on Kiddush Hashem,
because we know that all of the Hakhamim
happily died on Kiddush Hashem, not just
in this generation, even generations
later.
Time of the Holocaust, Rav Wasserman and
all the tzaddikim that came with him
died on Kiddush Hashem. He literally
gave them a shiur about how to die a
KIDDUSH HASHEM. NOT EVERYBODY that died
in the Holocaust died on Kiddush Hashem,
but there were certain tzaddikim that
happily welcomed dying on Kiddush
Hashem.
But this is not what Abaye is talking
about.
He says there is the obligation to
sanctify Hashem's name, to do Kiddush
Hashem.
But then there's the extra.
The generation of Rav Yehuda,
they lived
to do the extra.
We don't.
To give you an example, he says, it
wasn't Rav Yehuda only. The whole
generation was like this.
Meaning that when Rav Yehuda took off
his shoe, it wasn't enough that he was a
tzaddik. THE WHOLE GENERATION WERE
TZADDIKIM.
So it wasn't just his merit,
but rather the whole generation had
merits.
Where they only had to
literally take off their shoes, show
some signs of affliction, and Hashem
already answered their prayers.
Because they lived to sanctify Hashem's
name.
And one of the stories Abaye says,
says there was
Rav Adda bar Ahava.
He saw a woman
that was walking in the shuk, in the
market,
with
what's called a karbalta,
which was a fancy hat.
Very fancy hat that royalty wore.
That wasn't exactly something that a
Jewish woman should wear.
Some say that the Maharsha says that
this karbalta also had shatnez.
When Rav Adda bar Ahava saw this, he
quickly ran over to her AND HE RIPPED IT
OFF HER HEAD.
SAYING, "NO. THIS WILL NOT BE WORN BY A
WOMAN in our community."
But, then this woman starts speaking to
him in a different language.
And he finds out
she's not even Jewish.
She's a some non-Jew that's coming to
take some pictures and buy stuff from
the market.
SHE TAKES THEM TO THE COURT.
And she says, "He
Look what he did to me.
This rabbi."
And the judges say, "You're right.
We have to fine him 400 zuz."
How much is 400 zuz?
We know from the song
of Pesach that we sing after we do Laila
Seder,
Chad Gadya, Chad Gadya,
that you buy the the goat for
uh for two zuzim.
And
a goat today is about $200.
So,
if $200 is two zuzim, that means one zuz
is $100. He's fined 400 zuz, $40,000.
For what? For taking off the karbalta
from this non-Jewish woman.
How did Rav Adda bar Ahava respond?
He says, "What is your name, ma'am?"
She says, "Matun."
He says, "Matun, Matun was worth 400 zuz
to me."
Meaning
that
Matun
also is referencing that it's a matana,
it's like a gift.
A gift, a gift that I got fined
for $40,000
FOR SANCTIFYING A Kadosh Baruch Hu's
name, even though she was not Jewish and
you didn't have to do that.
The fact that
I would do this
if it was a Jew
shows that I'm not worried about
likes, dislikes, popularity
lack of popularity whether they invite
me, they don't invite me, I only worry
about
the glory of Hashem.
Further, the Gemara says
more stories of that generation.
Another tzaddik by name of Rav Gidal.
Rav Gidal
would sit
at the entrance of the women's mikveh.
And each time a bat Yisrael would come,
he would tell her, "This is how you dip.
This is how you do it."
And the talmidim came to Rav Gidal says,
"Kvod haRav, aren't you worried about
the yetzer hara, all these women?"
He says to them "Women? They look like
ducks to me.
I don't know what you're talking about,
yetzer hara. These are little ducks,
geese."
And the same thing goes with
Rabbi Yochanan.
Rabban Yochanan
was one of the most beautiful people
that Hashem ever created. He was from
the family of the Yerushalmis.
And the Yerushalmis
had special beauty similar to Yosef
haTzaddik
where their skin
was so shiny
that when he would just take off a
little bit of his sleeve, it would light
up the entire room.
Their beauty was unlike anything else
that existed in the world today.
And Rabban Yochanan would also sit at
the entrance of the mikveh
in order for the B'not Israel to look at
him after they dip in the mikveh so
their children
would come out as beautiful as him.
And when they asked him, "Kod Rav,
aren't you worried about the the evil
eye?
People look at you with beautiful this."
He says, "I am from the descendants of
Yosef HaTzaddik.
Evil eye cannot cannot touch us."
Now, of course, no one in the following
generations
was able to do such a thing without
falling for the yetzer hara.
Needless to say, no one in our
generation should even think they can do
such a thing.
But the point is that Abaye says to Rav
Papa,
"You're thinking that the previous
generation 30 40 years ago was similar
to us. They had arms. They had legs.
They learned Torah and we have arms. We
have legs. We learn Torah."
But when you actually look at their
actions and how they lived their life,
you see that they were a world apart.
As if it was a different species even
though it's the
still the same nation.
Because they lived to sanctify Kadosh
Baruchu's name.
Even when they didn't have to.
And therefore the Gemara says
in Masechet Avodah Zarah
on page 17,
"What's the difference between
somebody
that learns Torah
versus somebody
that
does chesed also?"
Rav Avun says,
"Whoever engages in Torah study
in itself,
>> [snorts]
>> by itself."
Meaning, he only learns Torah. He goes
to his room, he learns Torah. Oh,
listen, somebody wants to talk to you.
No, I don't have time, learning.
Oh, listen, somebody has emunah issues.
No, I'm sorry, I'm learning.
Oh, there's some people are inviting,
you know, they need somebody to speak at
the local shul, maybe give a shield
Torah. I'm sorry, I'm learning.
He engages in Torah study only.
Says the Gamara in Maseches Avodah
Zarah, page 17B,
"This person is like one who has no
God."
Excuse me?
Ravuna says, "Whoever engages in Torah
study only is like one who has no God."
What does it mean, you like one who has
no God?
For it says,
in the Book of Chronicles, Chronicles 2,
chapter 15, verse 3,
"Many days passed by for Israel without
a true God
and without Torah."
Now, what's meant without a true God?
It's to teach us that whoever engages in
Torah study only is like one who has no
God.
But what does that actually mean?
To have no God means, obviously, they
still believe in God, they study his
Torah.
But if you're expecting Hashem
to protect you because of the Torah that
you're learning,
you'll be unpleasantly surprised.
Says Rashi,
"Person that learns Torah without doing
Hesed, without doing kindness,
that Torah will not protect them.
And the Maharsha explains, Hashem's
primary attribute is his interactions
with men in loving kindness. And man is
charged with emulating Hashem's ways.
If the person does this, then Hashem
will be his God and relate to him with
loving kindness and protect him from
harm.
predicted that because he himself did
not Hashem in this central aspect, he
would not be saved from the Roman
executioner that was going to kill him.
Meaning, this is not something that
the sages are saying about somebody
else. They're saying about themselves,
"Oh,
I just got caught by the police, by the
government that's chasing us, that's
looking for excuses to hurt us.
Hashem is not GOING TO HELP ME. WHY? I
didn't DO ENOUGH KINDNESS. WHAT KIND OF
KINDNESS?
I DIDN'T DO ENOUGH KINDNESS. I didn't
help enough people
go back to Hashem. Why? Because the
ultimate attribute of Hashem
is to give loving kindness. And the
greatest kindness you can possibly give
to any human on planet Earth is to show
him who created him, who gave him life,
who created all of this.
What are the rules that he gave you?
What are the purpose of your creation?
So, if you're learning Hashem's Torah,
but you're keeping it to yourself,
>> [snorts]
>> then what are you learning for?
And from there, my dear friends,
even the sages themselves rebuke
themselves and knew exactly what will be
with them
if
they did not do something.
Now, of course, my dear friends, even
the
did engage in kindness,
but he judged himself harshly because he
knew how much he could have done if he
pushed A LITTLE EXTRA
ABOVE THE EXTRA HE WAS ALREADY PUSHING.
But the truth is that Hashem did give
him many miracles.
When one of the Romans
tried to
hurt him, bring him to the court,
Hashem made one miracle after another
for Rabbi Chanina.
When the judges asked Rabbi Chanina,
"Why did you learn Torah?"
He answered them.
They asked him,
"Is this all you do or"
He says to them, "No, I'm also a
weaver."
He says, "You're a weaver? You weave?"
He says, "Yeah, I weave."
He says, "Okay." They brought in front
of him
a
uh
two different
uh
a warp and a reel of a woof.
He says, "Can you even tell us the
difference between these?"
At that moment the Gemara says a miracle
happened.
And Hashem brought
a female bee and a male bee that sat on
different parts of the
woof.
And he knew how to distinguish male and
female bees in order to give the right
answers to the Romans.
After
they asked him in different questions
and they tried
to make him fail, they asked him the
question of
how is it
that you didn't come to the house of
idolatry, the house of Avidan?
So, I'm too old.
Too old to go.
And if I go there, I'm afraid that I
won't make it. They'll trample me.
So, the Roman said to him, "Who? What
old man was ever trampled that day?"
You have any stories? As soon as they
said that, somebody came into the room
and told them, "Oh, today an old man got
trampled at the house of Avidan."
One miracle after another, but then
there was one rasha that really wanted
to destroy him.
So, Hashem sent to Eliyahu Hanavi.
And Eliyahu Hanavi came and said, "The
Caesar is calling you.
So, before you continue prosecuting
against this Jewish person, you have to
go see the Caesar."
And this was a journey.
As soon as he left,
the uh the palace,
Eliyahu Hanavi showed up again
and kicked him,
and he's still flying in the air till
this day.
In so many words,
Rabbi Hanina, Rabbi Elazar, Rabbi
Yehuda, all of these
tzadikim got miracles.
Why?
Didn't just learn Torah.
They did chesed, too.
Because their ultimate goal in life was
to sanctify Kadosh Baruchu's name.
And they taught that if
>> [snorts]
>> you learn even the entire Torah, that's
what you think is the entire Torah,
but you do not do chesed,
it's as if you have a different God.
And therefore, the Chovot Halevavot
says,
"And it became clear to me
that an act which is performed for God's
sake is in essence made up of two
things,
purity of heart
and purity of mind.
Any corruption of the inner intent
renders the good act unacceptable,
even if it's performed many times on a
regular basis.
Here the Hovot Halevavot
is telling us
it's not enough for you to do good.
It's not enough for you to give staka,
it's not enough for you to learn Torah,
it's not enough for you to give somebody
a ride, it's not enough for you to teach
It's not enough for you to do anything
that's good. Why?
If you want all the blessings that come
with doing good,
then it has to be both heart and mind.
You can't just
donate, give your ma'aser, and then
complain about the fact that you don't
have enough money.
Or that you can't buy the luxuries you
want to buy. Why? That turns whatever
good you did
into something that is corrupted. You're
still getting a merit for giving, you're
still getting a merit for learning
Torah, you still get a merit for doing
good things, but the ultimate fruits
that you would have had
had you had good intentions behind it,
had your heart been complete with it,
is a world of difference from where you
are.
Many times people do good things.
They learn Torah, but the whole time
they're looking at the clock, they can't
wait to finish. Why? They have an
appointment, they want to go eat, they
want to go drink, they want to go this,
they want to go there. So, they're
learning Torah, but they're learning
Torah like as if it's an uh doctor's
appointment. They can't wait to get, you
know, to end it.
They give tzedakah, but
they're wishing they didn't have to.
They're wishing that this person was
already become rich and all Jews will be
rich, so therefore I can keep all my
money to myself.
They do good,
but their intentions are corrupted.
The purity of heart and mind
is not there.
And the
vote says that any corruptions of the
inner intent renders the good act
unacceptable.
Even if it's performed many times and on
a regular basis.
And he brings a source.
He says,
the prophet Yeshayahu, Isaiah chapter 1,
verse 15 and 16 says,
in the name of Hashem, "Even if you
offer many prayers, I will not listen.
Your hands are full of blood."
This is referring to stolen money.
People that made money from unethical
businesses like merchant cash advance or
selling goods that are used, but they
sell them as new, or all types of
businesses
that unfortunately have become
accustomed to doing things against the
Torah. Like, for example, one of the
horrible things that's happening in the
world today is in the world of jewelry.
The world of jewelry has now infected
many other businesses, where now it's
become custom to end every transaction
with gambling.
So, they decide, "I'm going to buy this
watch or this diamond or whatever it is
from you for, let's just say, any price.
5,000, 50,000, 100,000." The prices are
all over the place cuz they These are
valuable goods.
So, they agree on a price, 100,000,
let's say.
All right.
It's not enough to just agree to
100,000. Let's gamble. What do they
gamble? "I'm either going to pay you
90,000 or 110,000.
So, either either I'm going to pay
10,000 less or 10,000 more than what we
agreed.
And then what do they do? They either
play cards for it or they
flip a coin or some other silly thing.
And what they don't realize that all of
the blessing, all of the bracha that
Hakadosh Baruch Hu just gave them just
became corrupted. Meaning even if they
win the bet,
even if they win the bet, that money
will not be spent on anything that's
blessed. It'll be spent on problems,
lawyers, doctors, IRS, Amalek, all types
of horrible things. Why? You have turned
a blessing that Hashem gave you into a
sin.
You just took money
from somebody who doesn't want to give
it to you. When the guy loses the bet,
he doesn't really want to give you the
extra. Even though it's the rules of the
game, it's against the Torah.
And unfortunately, this is not once or
twice or three times. It's become a
normal thing
in the jewelry business and in other
businesses now that have been infected
by the stupidity.
They even make videos about this. And
some of them are really, really stupid.
They literally gamble 50, 100, 200,000
dollars at a time.
They agreed 50,000, 100,000 on
something. It's okay, either I'm going
to pay you NOTHING OR PAY YOU 200,000
DOLLARS.
AND GUESS WHAT? Somebody always loses.
Meaning somebody in that transaction is
always considered A THIEF, A GANAV in
the in the eyes of Hashem.
Hashem says, I gave you a blessing. I
sent you a customer to give you 100,000
dollars.
Instead of taking 100,000 dollars, you
now stole from him?
Or you just wasted it and got nothing
for it and let him steal from you?
Both
parties
instead of having bracha, have a klala
in their hands. Every transaction.
So, when the prophet Isaiah says, "Even
if you offer many prayers, I will not
listen to you.
Your hands are full of blood. Your hands
are full of stolen money."
And this is why I'm not a prophet or the
son of a prophet, but I could already
predict you. All of these people you see
on Tik Tok and Facebook and all of these
other social medias that are looking
like they're printing money. This guy is
25 years old making 5 million a year, 10
million, 20 million. YOU'LL SEE EVERY
SINGLE ONE of them that gambles, within
a matter of a few years, they will not
have food to eat.
Why? That's the promise of a Torah. It's
not a klala. It's not I'm not cursing
anybody. I wish them all to do teshuvah.
I even spoke to a few of them.
But, unfortunately,
when the satan catches you, he catches
you by the teeth.
He catches you by the teeth. He doesn't
want to let go.
And people think there's no problem with
it.
That's why the chachamim says doing
teshuvah for gezel, for stealing, is
more difficult than doing teshuvah for
immorality. Why? When you do teshuvah
for immorality, you know you you know
what you did. You know you weren't
supposed to be with her. You know you
weren't supposed to be with him. IT'S
AGAINST THE TORAH.
BUT, when people
are told you have to do teshuvah for
stealing, "What stealing? WHAT ARE YOU
TALKING ABOUT? MY BUSINESS MAKES $5 A
YEAR HONESTLY. I have customers. I sell
them. I don't sell them fake stuff like
the other guy. I sell them real things."
No, no, no, you don't understand.
Half of the transactions you have, even
if it's 1% of the transactions that you
have,
involved gambling, even if it's for $5,
you just turned that blessing into a
curse.
You have to do teshuvah.
"NO, COME ON, RABBI. YOU'RE A FANATIC.
YOU'RE EXTREME. THIS IS TODAY. YOU KNOW,
IT'S FOR TIK TOK. IT'S FOR THE PEOPLE.
It's for the media. It's popular. IT'S
FOR GAY NO, BUT FOR KAF KAF KELA. IT'S
FOR RE ANOTHER GILGUL. YOU'LL HAVE TO
COME BACK FOR $5 AND FOR 50,000 EVERY
BET ANOTHER GILGUL.
TRY IT. LISTEN, YOU DON'T want to listen
to bechavod. Hakadosh Baruch Hu has
endless times to bring people as
different things in order for them to
pay back the bet. Sometimes you'll come
back as a rabbit, sometimes you'll come
back as a horse, sometimes you'll come
back as a person. Sometimes even a
flower. Perhaps I'll buy you as a for
Shabbat and give it to my wife. Say,
"Oh, Shabbat shalom, honey."
Rabbotai Yekirim, Hakadosh Baruch Hu is
not our friend. He doesn't work the way
we do.
These are not things that I make up.
These are things that are in the Sifrei
Hakadoshim.
What benefit do I have in telling people
this stuff that scares the lights out of
people?
The reality is the reality.
And the prophet says, "Hakadosh Baruch
Hu is telling them,
you pray, I won't listen.
Why? Your hands are full of blood.
Wash yourselves. Make yourselves clean.
Remove your evil deeds from my tent.
Cease to do evil." And if that's not
enough,
Moshe Rabbenu comes in the book of
Deuteronomy chapter 30 verse 14,
"Rather, it's a thing that's very close
to you, in your mouth and in your heart
that you can do." Meaning all of this
stuff that sounds impossible, it's
impossible for you to stop cheating on
your wife or being immoral, or it's
impossible for you to stop stealing or
gambling or whatever you want to call
it, it's not impossible.
It's just a matter of willpower.
Hakadosh Baruch Hu created you in order
for you to fulfill the Torah.
That's what you were made for. Meaning
you are better at that than anything
else you think. Even though you think
that you have ADD, even if you think
that you can't do it, and you weren't
born religious, and your grandfather was
a this, and your doesn't make a
difference. If you apply yourself, you
will see you're better at being a
servant of Hashem than anything else in
the world.
It's in your mouth, it's in your heart
to do it. You were created for this. No
matter what you can use
your phone for,
the best function that a phone does is
call.
Yeah, of course you can use it as a
little computer to go on the internet,
to use AI, to send messages, but at the
end of the day, the best thing that a
phone is for is to make calls.
That's what it's for.
You can even use IT AS A WEAPON IF YOU
WANT, BUT IT'S still better as a phone.
You can use it as a door stopper, but
it's better as a phone.
Why? That's what it was created for. A
Jew
was created to serve Hashem.
There's nothing in the world that he's
going to be better at than serving
Hashem. He just has to apply himself.
And then the word of the word brings the
last source and he says, in the name of
Melech in Mishlei chapter 23
verse 26, "My son, give me your heart
and your eyes. Let them keep my way to
keep Let them keep to my ways."
Meaning Hakadosh Baruchu is not asking
us to reinvent ourself. He's simply
telling us, "Give me your heart."
Give me your heart. As the Gemara says,
"Rachmana liba ba'i." Hakadosh Baruchu
wants our heart.
Not be religious in your heart,
but actually dedicate all of those extra
emotions and passion that you have for
money, for gambling, for immorality, for
whatever it is that you're spending all
this extra energy on,
give it to Hashem and you'll see that
you're better at that than anything
else.
Now,
what happens when a person learns to
what?
Grows up in a Torah home,
perhaps even teaches Torah,
but yet
doesn't change.
In fact,
you see that there's rotten fruits
coming out of it.
Melech says
in Kohelet in chapter 7 verse 8, "Tova
acharit davar mereshito."
The end is better than the beginning.
What does it mean?
Says you're going to know whether
something was good from the beginning
by seeing how it is later on.
In the beginning, everything looks good.
Everything looks good. People are
excited about something. They have a new
startup. They have a new business. They
have a new idea. They're so excited.
They're not even thinking about all of
the roadblocks that are in the way
because if they spent even a minute
thinking about all the roadblocks,
they're not going to start.
That's why in order to be an
entrepreneur, in order to be an
inventor, in order to be anybody that
innovates and does something, they can't
think about all of the possibilities of
failure.
They have to be the ultimate optimist.
Still reasonable, but they have to be
optimistic much more than the average.
People that cannot bring themselves to
that level of optimism can never be an
entrepreneur, can never be successful
beyond the norm. They could simply
be like everybody else.
But the reality is
some ideas work out and some ideas fail.
Before they became successful,
all of the people that have succeeded
that you read about, that you hear
about, whether it be Elon Musk or uh
Bezos or Steve Jobs or uh even Warren
Buffett,
they had failures after failures on the
way to success.
If you asked
Warren Buffett, "What was the worst
investment he ever made?"
He would tell you, "Berkshire Hathaway."
Yes, the very same company
that is still called today Berkshire
Hathaway, that's worth hundreds and
hundreds of billions of dollars,
that used to actually be a textile
company.
And that was the worst investment of his
life.
It was all based on ego. He was supposed
to tender the shares at 11:30, the guy
didn't want to give him 11:30, he cut
him short by 11:30 by 20 cents. He ended
up doing a lot of stupid things as a
result of his ego.
And the investment failed miserably.
Other investments he made after that
under the roof of Berkshire Hathaway
worked out tremendously to what it
became now, but that original investment
was the biggest failure of his life.
The same concept with all of the
successful people that you hear.
They had many failures on the way to
success, but they could not focus all of
their energy on the failures. They had
to constantly be optimistic to look
beyond that.
To look beyond the failures, beyond the
roadblocks, beyond the explosions of
rockets and everything else that they're
trying to invent.
These are all necessary things.
But the truth is,
if you see some of the
outcomes,
you already know that even in the
beginning they were good.
It was a necessary evil. It was a cost
of doing business. It was
a risk versus reward that was favorable.
Meaning that even though
there were many failures on the way to
success, when you see success, real
success, you already see that the
original failure was actually good. It
was necessary.
But sometimes,
you see something that looks successful,
but later on
it becomes a disaster.
In the business world, we saw many of
those during the 1990s and early 2000s,
all the dot-com companies,
the pets.coms of the world and all types
of other silly businesses
that really had nothing more than just a
domain name.
And there are many silly businesses like
that that came up and came and got
destroyed in the last few years where
there was a all the
NFTs, these fake uh you know, pretty
much they sold pictures on the internet
for millions and millions of dollars.
All types of silly things.
And you know that if you look at the
failure,
you see it was a failure from the
beginning.
It was never worth anything
and never will be worth anything.
And
there was just enough
elation in the market
that people just decided to invent
value.
And eventually, it collapsed and there's
going to be other collapses coming soon.
The point is,
this is not just in business.
This is also
in
our life itself
>> [snorts]
>> and our efforts to serve Hashem.
Sometimes
you can look at something
and it looks good,
but there's no way for you to know
whether it's good or not.
Why?
Because there hasn't been enough time
for it to produce fruits.
The Gemara
in Maseches Taanis,
page seven,
7A,
says
in the name of Rabbi Bana'ah,
whoever studies Torah for its own sake,
his Torah scholarship becomes an elixir
of life to him, like a drug of life.
As it says in a Proverbs chapter 3 verse
18,
the Torah is a tree of life for those
who cling to it.
On the other hand, the Torah also sell
says
that it will be a cure that enters
through your navel.
And further,
for one who has found me has found life.
Meaning that anyone that learns Torah
for the right purpose,
the Torah will bring him blessing, the
Torah will bring him cures, the Torah
will bring him life.
But on the other hand, says Rabbi Bana,
whoever studies Torah not for its own
sake, meaning it's not somebody that's
not studying Torah. We're talking about
somebody that studies Torah, but not for
its own sake.
His Torah scholarship becomes a deadly
poison to him.
Meaning that the more he studies Torah,
the more he becomes a hazard to himself
and to others.
What does it mean
if he studies Torah for the right reason
or he studies Torah for the wrong
reason?
If he studies Torah for the right
reason, we already know from the
previous that we read in
the Torah,
that means that he's going to use the
Torah in order to emulate Hashem, in
order to show kindness, in order to
better himself, in order to improve his
behavior, in order to show kindness, in
order to be
a servant of Hashem.
Which means on the other hand,
if he studies Torah but not for the
right reasons,
he's studying Torah to show people he
knows better than them.
He studies Torah in order to make money
out of it.
He studies Torah
in order to get a specific job, a
position.
He studies Torah
in order
to manipulate people.
He studies Torah in order to use it like
an axe or a hammer
in order to make people submit to him.
That person,
the Torah becomes poisonous
for him and for anyone else that learns
from him.
And therefore HaMelech says, "Tov
acharit davar mereshito."
The end
is better than the beginning.
You can see somebody
that has horrible character traits.
And you say he's learning Torah, so he's
going to improve.
You don't know if he's going to improve
or not. Why? It depends how he's
learning.
If he's learning mussar, if he's
learning Torah in order to apply it to
himself, to better himself, to better
ourself,
then certainly it's a matter of time
before they become better.
But if the
person is learning Torah in order to be
a show-off, in order to look down AT
PEOPLE THAT DON'T KNOW as much as him or
her, in order to manipulate the rules,
in order to change, in order to reform,
then guess what? That original rotten
character that they have will actually
only get worse.
But you're only going to know that later
on when you see their fruits.
So when people come to me
and they ask,
"Oh, have you HEARD ABOUT THIS FLATBUSH
GIRL?
She is now
convincing Jewish women to expose
themselves
in order to
force the public
to take upon themselves
the husbands of women and all types of
other people to force her husband to
divorce her."
AND THIS FLATBUSH GIRL
THINKS SHE'S DOING A MITZVAH.
SHE'S DOING CHESED.
AND OF COURSE, this is all against the
Torah what she's doing, what these women
are doing.
This is pre-suit. This is Sodom and
Gomorrah. This is reform. This is
to'eivah. There's not enough
horrible words to describe what she's
doing.
But she's doing good in her eyes
and apparently whoever is following her.
Where did she get
this
empowerment from?
That, rebbe, I
I don't know anybody else that's asking
that. Everyone is focusing on her. She
has been a loudmouth for a long time.
So, they're seeing that she's continuing
getting worse and worse year by year.
She's been doing it for let's SAY 5, 10,
15 YEARS, whatever it's been.
Each year she's gotten worse than the
year before.
Now she's getting the public's attention
more than ever because she's literally
causing not these
to treat themselves like not.
So, it's getting more OF AN OUTCRY OUT
THERE, BUT in reality, this is not new.
This is
going from bad to worse. Never let
never let that
But no one's asking,
"Where did she get this empowerment
from?"
She got the empowerment from
Why why Jacobson
and other reform mentality people
that
partnered up with her
to
promote
her cause years ago
and made movies with her
and made video clips with her AND MADE
ALL TYPES OF EVENTS WITH HER TILL YEAH,
YOU SHOULD [screaming] FIGHT FOR THE
JEWISH WOMEN THAT DIDN'T GET A GET.
WHO TOLD YOU YOU'RE ALLOWED TO do this?
I'll put that in your cream.
Melech says, "Tova charis the
vermin a shita."
All of those rabbis, all of those people
that are not rabbis the donors, the
customers
anyone that was on her team
early on
empowered her to continue getting worse,
especially those that are popular, those
that have so-called rabbinical
positions.
They're the reason why this is
happening. Much more than her.
SHE WAS ALREADY GOING OFF the cliff on
her own.
They just gave her a boost to get there
faster
and to bring more people down with her.
So, as much as PEOPLE WOULD SAY, "OH, WE
SHOULD PUT HER ON CHEREM."
I say it's already too late for that.
She doesn't care.
Who should be put on cherem? All of
those people that supported and support
her today. They should all be put ON
CHEREM UNLESS THEY DO the opposite and
now say, "No, no, no, this is not what
we meant. She's going against the
Torah." AND SPENT MUCH MORE EFFORT
FIXING
the monster that they helped create.
Because you see
that the initial inclination to help
women, the initial inclination to help
not Israel
looked good.
But the outcome is this, you know it
wasn't good even from the beginning.
The but they are coming.
When the Torah tells us something
it's not always clear
how this applies to your life.
In fact, for many people it's not even
clear that it applies to life all
together.
And therefore the of the vote is trying
to tell us
you see the stories of the king are
about other to the king.
Their teachers, THEIR TEACHERS'
TEACHERS.
WHY ARE THEY TELLING THESE STORIES IF
THEY'RE TO THE KING ALREADY?
Because we can learn from them.
Because you can learn from them.
Well, even though you may not think that
this applies to you
the more you learn Torah, the more you
learn about the behavior of the to the
king, the more you realize
if the Torah that you're learning is
actually
working or not.
If your wife complained about you being
stingy, you being angry, you being
arrogant
before you started learning Torah
and she's still complaining about that
5, 10 YEARS LATER, GUESS WHAT? ALL OF
THE Torah that YOU HAVE LEARNED HASN'T
WORKED.
BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT APPLYING IT TO
YOURSELF.
IF YOUR husband
is was complaining about you being
immodest, immoral,
uh you know, in in certain ways, the way
you behave, the way you
communicate, or he's uh your angry, or
you're moody, or whatever it is, he
complain about you.
10 years ago before you started learning
Torah, AND HE'S STILL COMPLAINING ABOUT
THAT NOW, GUESS WHAT? IT'S NOT WORKING.
BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT APPLYING it to
yourself.
You're only applying it to the parts you
want. You're applying it to mikveh.
You're applying it to keep Shabbat.
Taking a vacation once a week.
You're applying it to your new style of
clothing.
But if you're not applying it to your
behavior,
guess what?
It's not working.
The Torah is supposed to
make us better.
Not change us.
You're still the same person,
but a better version.
If you're not becoming a better version
of yourself,
that means you're not paying attention.
That means that the Torah that you're
learning, even if you're learning 10
hours of lectures a day,
but you're still a stingy person, you're
still an angry person, you're still an
arrogant person, you still don't care,
you still don't believe, you still have
all of the same issues,
then guess what?
It's no different than listening to
music. Nothing changes.
It's time people
started reflecting, especially those
that have actually been watching the
lectures for years.
It's not because of the speaker.
Cuz sometimes a speaker can tell you all
the things you need to do.
But as the in Masechet Shabbat says,
"EIN ADAM RO'EH CHOVA BE'ATZMO." A
PERSON DOES NOT see the obligation
themself.
The speaker is talking about don't be
arrogant, don't be stingy, don't be
evil, don't cheat, DON'T LIE, ALL THE
THINGS THAT you're supposed to
warn people from doing things.
But you are watching and saying, "Yeah,
you know those cheaters? Shh.
Terrible people." Even though he's
cheating himself.
Oh, you know those liars? Yeah, I hate
liars. Even though he just lied to his
wife and kids about where he was 10
minutes ago.
HE DOESN'T APPLY IT to himself.
A but I CAME THE WHOLE POINT OF A toy is
to apply it to ourselves in every single
aspect. And even though we cannot do
everything on day one, we can do
something.
And we can do something more the next
day. And we can do something more the
next day. And something more the next
day. And if you continue applying
everything you're learning to the best
of your ability, guess what? If you try,
Hakadosh Baruch Hu will help you. Just
like the says in Pirkei Avot,
"A body tell me saying be a dough."
Somebody that LOOKS TO BECOME PURIFIED,
Hakadosh Baruch Hu will help him.
But a body tell me putting low, but
somebody is looking to become impure,
Hashem will open the door for him.
When somebody wants to make Jewish women
sin, Hakadosh Baruch Hu will OPEN THE
DOOR. GO. YOU WANT TO BECOME THE
SO-CALLED GETTING GIRL, FLASH BUTCH
GIRL? GUESS WHAT? YOU WANT TO MAKE
YOURSELF FAMOUS and make it seem as if
you're doing a mitzvah? I'll make you
famous, Hashem says.
A famous sinner. A famous rasha'it. A
famous person that lost their olam haba
in public.
You'll be famous. Titus was famous,
also.
Haman was famous.
Pharaoh was famous.
A lot of famous people.
You want to be famous? Go.
You want to even make pretend like you
care about the mitzvah of THE TORAH?
I'LL MAKE YOU FAMOUS.
YOU WANT TO TELL JEWISH WOMEN
THAT THEY CAN MARRY NON-JEWS BECAUSE
IT'S DIFFICULT TO GET DIVORCED IN THE
JEWISH BRO. YOU WANT to change the
Torah, reform it in the name of the
rabbis THAT SUPPORTED YOU?
I'LL MAKE YOU FAMOUS, Hashem says. No
problem.
No problem. There are many people that
do all type of what we call combinot.
They try to
beat the system.
They try to convince people to give to
one thing, but in reality they're giving
to something else.
They try to tell people
you're helping this cause, but in
reality you're helping something else.
David Hamel says,
don't think that Hakadosh Baruch Hu
didn't notice you lied.
Don't think that Hakadosh Baruch Hu did
not notice that you lied.
David Hamel says in Psalm chapter 85
verse 12, "Emet merets titsmach." The
emet, the truth, even if you cover it
with all the dirt in the world,
eventually it'll rise.
Eventually it'll rise. How do you know
if SOMETHING IS REALLY GOOD?
What fruits DOES IT CREATE?
WHAT fruits does it create? If
you're teaching Torah,
but your students are reshaim, your
students are heretics, your students are
evil people, guess what? The teachers
are reshaim, too.
But if you're teaching
wicked people Torah, and they become
good, guess what? That also shows that
the the teacher is good, too.
What is the fruits that you're creating?
In my own dear Rav's sefer, Ach Ot
Ve'Achavah Yisrael in volume number
four,
we're now up to
volume number seven is coming out soon,
b'ezrat Hashem. We have number six still
left in the store.
In volume number four,
one of the questions he asked he was
asked from a person in Canada.
In Semon 25,
was about a Torah teacher
that claimed
all you need to do in this generation is
just learn Torah. You don't have to
worry about action. You don't have to
worry about learning from Tzadikkim. You
don't even have to worry about learning
doing mitzvot. You just have to learn
Torah.
Is this true?
And Reb Ephraim went source after source
addressing this nonsense
claim of this false teacher from Canada.
And one of the sources was what the
Gemara says in Maseches Yevamos.
And the Ela Torah, gam Torah ennu.
A person that says,
"I ONLY HAVE TORAH.
THAT'S ALL I CARE ABOUT."
Even the Torah he doesn't have.
Why? There's no such thing as I only
have Torah.
You have to fulfill the Torah. You can't
just learn Torah.
The Torah is there to be fulfilled.
La'asot, to do.
Hashem didn't just give us a book for us
to become, you know, very
intellectual.
To become uh
elevated intellectually.
No.
He didn't give us a Torah for us to be
very very excited about and and and very
No.
Give us to do instructions. Torah means
instructions.
Instructions to do.
If you're learning Torah and it's not
causing you to change your behavior,
then there is something wrong.
Not with the Torah, with you.
If you're not becoming a better quality
person, if you're not becoming closer to
Hashem, if you're not becoming someone
that has more emunah in Hashem that he
runs the world, if you're not becoming
someone that has more bitachon that
everything that's happening in your
life, no matter how it looks, whether it
looks good or looks bad, is always for
your best interest,
then you're missing
a key part of the Torah. It's supposed
to change.
It's supposed to change you.
Not by changing you to a different
person, but making you a better version
of yourself.
Making you a better version of yourself.
And the Chachamim say,
"How do we know if somebody
is on the way to becoming a better
version of himself? By his actions.
If we only see him learning Torah,
he went to Yeshiva, she went to
seminary, and then after they finish
Yeshiva, they finish seminary, they go
live life as a Jew, they get married to
Jewish people, they have kids that are
Jewish kids, they send them to the
Yeshiva, but you see them in unethical
businesses, you see them little by
little becoming less modest, you see
them being very mean to some people,
being
Guess what?
That Torah that you learned,
it didn't help you.
Why? You're not applying it to your
life.
You're not applying it to your life. The
Torah is something that needs to be
applied to life on a day-to-day basis.
And if you think, "Oh, I learned Torah,
but that's enough." It's not enough.
Because the fruits that will come out of
you are either going to be beautiful,
delicious fruits of righteousness, or
they're going to be rotten fruits.
And therefore, all of these stories
that we keep hearing about
these ugly stories that are coming out
these are not new.
These are old news that you didn't know
about.
You see
the prophet Isaiah chapter 14 verse 29
says "Ki meshoresh nachash yetze tzefa."
From the root
or the inwards of the nachash, the snake
another snake will come.
What does it mean?
Simply put
if you have a snake
and after some time
he lays eggs or she lays eggs.
Now those eggs look like any other eggs.
BUT GUESS WHAT?
CHICKENS ARE NOT COMING OUT OF THAT.
Geese are not coming out of those eggs.
What's it GOING TO BE? SNAKES.
WHY? From a snake come snakes.
>> [snorts]
>> If the beginning of your act
that is painted with kindness, that is
painted with falsehood, that is painted
with all types of things
that you're really not.
But you're doing it in order to
manipulate people, to give to you, to do
business with you.
So you fooled some people.
You fooled a lot of people to doing
business with you, to supporting you
to listen to you.
Even though you had a snake in your
hand, you said "No, no, no, this snake
he only lays eggs that are going to be
geese and doves and
eventually
everyone's going to see
that the fruit
of your labor
is other snakes.
Why? Cuz you're a snake.
So, don't be surprised
if you see some of these rotten stories.
They were rotten from the beginning. You
just didn't know about it.
If you hear about somebody that's a
businessman and now all of a sudden he's
caught as a Ponzi schemer,
he stole hundreds of millions of
dollars. Guess what? He was a thief
already from the beginning.
He didn't just become a thief when they
caught him. He's been a THIEF THE WHOLE
TIME. AND IF YOU CHECK ENOUGH
BACKGROUND, YOU'LL SEE that he was a
thief even as a child usually.
IF YOU FIND OUT, "OH, THIS woman
cheated." Guess what? It's not the first
time. It's just the first time she got
caught.
So, all of these stories that the media
likes to make it seem as if it's only
the Jewish people sin, only the Jewish
people make but it's not.
There's not a second
that goes by without some type of crime,
hideous crime,
that happens in the non-Jewish world.
If they had the level of crime that we
have in our Jewish communities, they
would be considered as if they're
righteous among the nations.
They forgot when they're trying to spend
all of their energy hating us,
they somehow forget that America is the
only place on planet Earth that has a
school shooting averaged
every week.
They forgot that
in the
secular world,
there's more crime in a single week than
the Jewish world in an entire year.
They forgot that Ponzi schemes, bank
robberies, murders, rapes, pedophilia,
all of these horrible things happen
every second.
But,
they want to
remind us that we did bad, too.
Do you know why?
It's not because they want to remind us.
It's because Hashem is sending them to
remind us.
Not of the fact that we did a crime.
We knew we did a crime from day one if
we did it. A person that steals knows
he's a thief from day one.
A person that's a liar knows that he's A
LIAR FROM DAY ONE. A PERSON THAT'S A
CRIMINAL knows that he's a criminal from
day one. So, what is Hashem sending THE
TO GO AND AND REMIND them of what?
To remind you that the reason why you
are in this situation is because you
abandoned the Torah. You did not treat
the Torah as a book of instructions from
God, but rather you treat it as simply a
book that's on the shelf that you tell
people you follow.
You did not represent Judaism. You
represented yourself.
So, for all of the non-Jews that are
watching Jewish criminals in the media,
they're not representators of the Jewish
people.
They're representators of themselves.
Because Judaism is based on the Torah.
And the Torah tells us to do good,
not to do evil.
If you see a Jew that's doing things
that are against humanity,
that means it's also against the Torah.
If you see a Jew that's stealing,
killing, doing anything that's against
humanity, hurting the public,
in business and otherwise, know for sure
that whether he has peyot that are 50
times longer than mine or not and he has
a kippah that reaches the heavens, he's
not representing Judaism.
He's representing himself. She's
representing herself.
Because our holy Torah is the word of
God. God doesn't make mistakes. He gave
us clear instructions.
When we follow those instructions, we
are the best thing that the world has.
There is no other nation that even comes
close to how good the Jewish people are
as a benefit to society.
When we follow the Torah. When we don't
follow the Torah,
unfortunately, Malachi
Vibe itself, your conquerors, your
destroyers will come from within you.
So, now
Hakadosh Baruch Hu is sending
the non-Jewish world to remind us that
we abandoned him, that we abandoned this
Torah.
And there's a new ugly story coming out
on a daily basis.
Rabotai Karim, these ugly stories have
been ugly from day one.
Someone decided to ignore it
and let it be ugly, but unknown.
Someone decided to
give it cuffs hood, fake cuffs hood,
benefit of the doubt that maybe one day
it'll turn good.
And it didn't turn good.
The eggs of the snake turned into
snakes.
Someone decided
that they don't want to speak up and
cause a machloket.
And now we have a disaster.
So, you see Rabotai,
every community
has its problems.
Every community has its
fakers,
its problem people, it's you.
Every community has this stuff.
But not every community has the holy
Torah
as an instruction
for us to do teshuvah.
How do we do teshuvah?
We start applying what the Torah says
to our lives.
When Hashem says
to do something, we do it.
When we see or we hear a story
about one of the righteous people that
lived in the previous generations,
whether it's 30 years ago or 3,000 years
ago,
we have to learn from that story
something that would apply to our lives
today. That's a reason why Hashem is
sending you that story today. He's
sending you that story today so you can
apply it to your life today.
Don't learn stories just for the
emotional benefit.
Learn stories
for something that's going to actually
help you.
You can apply it to your life.
The Hovot Halevavot is telling us
our holy sages told stories
of their rabbis.
Because they themselves, as holy and
great as they were,
they still realized they need to become
better. They can become better.
And if they thought that they could
become better,
then needless to say we can, too.
And all of those
horrible things that are happening,
whether it's the
Yeshivot that are being arrested just
because they're religious by the Zionist
police that has now joined forces with
the army in Israel,
where literally if you called to
complain
about somebody a house, if they find out
that you, the complainer,
are religious Yeshiva Bahur, they come
and arrest you instead of the thief.
So, we're living in times that are
upside down. Why is Hashem doing all of
this to us?
Because we did it to ourself.
We did it to ourselves.
Those among us that have been learning
Torah
in Yeshiva and Kolel,
it's good.
But it's not enough.
You have to start taking that knowledge
that you got from Yeshiva and Kollel
and help your fellow Jews that don't
know anything.
And if you don't know how to teach, then
use other resources to help.
Donate money to people that do know how
to teach.
Donate time, distribute material, do
something to do kindness
for your fellow Jews even if you don't
consider them your fellow Jews.
The fact that we have 80% of Am Yisrael
not keeping Shabbat and most religious
Jews don't really care.
That in itself is a disaster that
is warranting all of the things that are
happening to the religious community.
We have to do better.
Those that
are not keeping,
you have to choose
which side you're on.
Either way you'll be judged as Jew.
But you could either like you're you're
you're a
and you're like one of the nations and
you also hate the religious people
and then eventually realize that
the non-Jews also hate you, too,
even if you're not religious. In fact,
they hate you more.
Or
you can at the very least live as a Jew
and end up getting the protection that
the righteous Jews will end up getting
when Mashiach comes.
One way or the other, Abba Tayik Karim,
all of us can start taking the Torah
that we have and apply it to our life,
become better versions of ourselves,
start sanctifying Hashem's name, start
living for Kiddush Hashem.
So at the very least, we have enough
Kiddush Hashem
to silence some of the chillul Hashem
that's coming out from the flat bush
girls of the world and other scammers
out there that are pretending to
represent Judaism
in their fake way.
But I got to tell you, the wicked people
are not going to stop. It's going to get
worse.
The only thing we can do about it
is we can get better.
Be as it may, we'll get better. We'll
encourage others to get better.
Do chuvah and sanctify
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