L'Covid Shabbos Part 4: The Glory of Shabbos Morning

[Music] this segment we'd like to talk about Shabbos morning and Shabbos day that sometimes very long really the ideas going to talk about Chavez day sometimes you have a very long Chavez night in the winter these ideas could be transferred someone ideas could be for Shabbos languages that of Charleston the first thing about the Wong Chavez days this should be some kind of schedule some kind of schedule doesn't have to be stuck too but basically around nine o'clock we wake up not like thirty whatever time I wake up for krishma a couple there earlier we start diving it's in Corona season Florentine know many Hana me that one of the most important things that every parent esta knows you cannot expect from a child something that they are not developmentally ready for if you're expecting your child at five years old to say the whole city Livingston your infant I spoke to her moving fine steam when the great rabbis of today's generation a son of her moisture finds them and I was talking to him about children coming to shul and he said they should come to shul but they shouldn't be inside the whole time when I was a kid I remember I would come in for four kedusha and you know Shema and that's it a carnival play outside very important for children to enjoy that we have to go clearly they're not doing in our very they don't say everything in the prayer as a father you should speak it over with your rabbi how much did this child my child really can't sit much how much do you know you might tell you borrow armored ashtray estaba then the bathroom Krish March 1 s rate and that's it and for younger child my total Shema and that's it and you can make it a very pleasant experience now if you're home during corona season quarantine every child could become a husband you don't have a minute especially the younger children I don't know long they could sing I don't know they could see ain't Gil okay no vacancy they could it be the Kazi for the rest fishermen she won't answer it you could do it out loud you could see a point everybody a different job and again the same theme if everyone has ownership the more people you have they're involved actively involved that they have a project the more buy-in you're gonna have from the family and the smoother the experience is gonna be another night is you may have a robot you can appoint one of your children ask your donor can you pair up a parent or about the passion and you'll speak to the rest of the family the other two children three children four children will be the robots to the function another great idea about - fela which we mentioned before is if you focus in on one feeler if you're learning with your son Ashley can you please say with the story that we learned this week bashment now another child you learned about Trish MA you went to Thomas org you learned with them you studied with them a little bit of a curriculum about Sheila every day and now it comes Chaves he share with us a little bit we just finished chakras we did a little break before it's done listen you share with us that story that we learned well that amazing thing about the Malcolm and how about the number is and how much agrees and a child will be an owner be a participant he'll be a leader and that's what you want to create in your children that leadership that they are the leaders of what's going on in your home now we have a long Shabbos afternoon ah what do we do now lazy thing there many many husbands will tell you all I was home I have to babysit the kids women never say have to babysit the kids they know that's their job to do the children us men also have them it's our job it's an opportunity famous story that a child was probably wealthy beyond love and gave his child everything and he says what do you want for your aqua Coleman present he said that a long time I have a half an hour week every parent's know the most beneficial thing you can give their child is time Shabbos afternoon is it time for time another thing you can do with the children Pirkei avos saved your Chioma stirring especially the weeks between pay second Shoeless now all of us think our children she was sitting on learning and diving in all showers absolutely not true they're very much not on their level that's not their developmental level if a child's growing according to his level keep growing real growth but if we're pushing down with replaces they're not ready it's not growth it's not education breaking something [Music] we have to realize what we can do spending time with children just rolling on the floor singing and that's Shabbat Sudha great time to dance with the children the young children enjoy dancing and all kinds of funny where dances is great heart even greater we used to my father would see Cabernet and everyone jump-scare then it jumps again hey it's the dancing dancing dancing with young children that's fantastic you can make up dances time daddy peercoins that way everyone's that way does that one's that way everyone runs that way so he goes down if it goes down with up daddy go down you have to go up daddy go through I can't move to the left we should make up crazy they just have a great time with young children just have a great time games playing a game - child - we playing spotted Zingo - not exactly developmentally appropriate but it's for my children that's greatest problem Oh [Music]