Why you are stuck in a Terrible Dance

Life is a struggle, and you're not going to get away from it. The question is how you look at it, and you live and you learn. I was a people pleaser, and I was yearning and was thirsty for validation, and I [music] was trying to do anything in the world to be recognized. You have a void that you want to fill. It becomes a terrible, terrible [music] dance. You have to learn that you get validation from an inner environment, not from an outer environment, and that's when you can free yourself from this. [music] I always say it sometimes when you come into a room one of the people, by the end of the night, the narcissist and the codependent will meet. There's a certain [music] energy that they give each other. They pull towards each other. But when they find [music] the bait, the predator, these people happen to be very sharp, very smart, very articulate, very aggressive. [music] They are on top of their game. These people understand life very well, and people love that person. They're the life of the party. There is no magic wand. The way you look at it is you let yourself be led.