What Really Happens When You Love a Narcissist #narcissist #empathlife #toxic

In one word, the narcissist does not have any empathy. [music] Empathy is when you say something and you don't get >> [music] >> that you just had an effect on another person. You know, you just embarrassed that person with that statement that you were saying. That means you don't feel that other person. So, here's the key which you have to understand. As children, we grow up and everybody is a different fabric and [music] everybody is developed in a different way. Here, the codependent is missing something which is love from the inside or whatever the case was. Everybody in a different upbringing. Is it a school issue or a parenting issue? Whatever the case was, the narcissist [music] went through the same thing, same pain, same type of suffering. The only difference is that the codependent decided is to start pleasing [music] and to start being a good person and try harder and harder. The narcissist decided that the pain is so severe [music] that I'm not going to deal with this and I am going to shut down completely.