My best advice for marriage

My best advice is, and maybe I'm not really yet to say advice, but at the end of the day now I am engaged. I can say that my best advice is a little bit more. Exactly, a little bit more. My best advice would be is to understand that it's possible that in what you're what you say you're not looking for is what you're actually looking for. Understand? Meaning some people are so closed off to go out and give a the person a chance. This girl gave me a chance, yeah? I'm also different than every other person in her community that she's seen. She gave me a chance and I gave her a chance.