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Modern Masters: Pirkei Avot - Dan L’Kaf Zechut | Rabbi Sam Shor | January 13th 2026
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for coming in, coming to learn Torah,
even as we hear the rain continue to get
heavier outside
Shak for being here to learn Torah
together.
>> Wow. Is right. At least here inside.
It's warm, it's dry,
and we're going to continue to warm up
together as we explore together a
beautiful topic together, a very
important topic together. This is a as
as many of you know this course is
called modern masters
where we engage in the study of many of
the masters of Jewish thought and
specifically the context of this year
the backdrop of this year is we're going
to touch on an idea that we've certainly
discussed many many times before you
know maybe not focus the entire year on
but it's a recurring theme that comes up
often in this course of modern masters
because it's a recur a recurring theme
what I'll call a yod a fundamental
ofidic Jewish teachings and of Jewish
thought and that's specifically the idea
of seeking to see the good in one
another the idea of being
and of course we know this idea of being
dut does everyone have the sourc because
I have more here if anybody needs
>> I have more here if anyone needs okay
so of course this idea
comes we're most familiar with from its
source which is text number one on our
sheets the famous
said
find for yourself a teacher make for
yourself a teacher
and acquire for yourself a friend
and condition yourself what to judge
every single individual favorably. Now,
seeking a teacher or appointing a
teacher, taking a teacher upon yourself,
that's something that comes kind of
natural naturally to all of us. Each one
of us has in our lives teachers and
individuals whose Torah resonates with
us. There's wisdom and scholarship and
and even their their their
midot their character traits resonate
with us and inspire us. So, it's easy.
That's that's something that for many of
us we come by easily. Same with most of
us are blessed to have friends in our
lives, people we can rely on that we can
count on. But this last idea of uh
conditioning ourselves to judge every
person favorably.
This adventure to guess is a is a
struggle for every single human being.
There's every single one of us
inevitably have people in our lives
where it might be difficult for us to
see the good in them where our
relationships with that individual
sometimes are challenging. It's hard for
us to see the good. So what exactly does
this expression of conditioning yourself
to see the good in every single person
really mean? So let's take a look.
There's a the Rambam and his parish.
Everyone have the source sheet because I
have here if you need okay those who
just joined us.
>> Yeah.
Thank you.
So the Ram and his parish his commentary
in the Mishnayas this text number two he
gives us a very very challenging quite
frankly um interpretation of this idea
of judging others favorably. Let's take
a look. Let's just jump right in. And he
says
this idea is
okay if you see a person okay and you
are not familiar enough with this person
to know if he's what
a righteous person or a rash or a wicked
person.
So he says if the person we don't know,
we don't know the person at all. We
don't know if the person's true nature
is what good or wicked and we see him do
something that on one hand could be
interpreted as what? Maybe something not
so good. On the other hand could be
interpreted as something very positive.
Okay? or we hear him say something that
if we interpret it one way could be
interpreted as what? Saying something
that's not a very positive thing to say
or if we interpret it another way it's
something that could be very very good.
What's the
in this circumstance? You have to take
it interpret it for the good. Okay.
This is the Okay. This is the parish.
Okay. If whenever we see a person that's
known to be a he's of
he's publicly renowned for his
righteousness
and for his what good deeds
and we see him do something that based
on our human intellect and perspective
it looks as if it's what
something bad, right?
And you couldn't inter a person is not
able to interpret it as being something
good unless what? You're really pushing
it. Okay. If you're really pushing, you
could maybe touch it in a way that maybe
you could consider that it it wasn't so
bad. But even that's a great stretch,
says the Ra. And that's the case.
And it's very very difficult to to think
or very remote that that could be the
possibility.
It's appropriate what
to take it to the place of good
leoto. As long as there's some little
possibility, minimal possibility that it
could be interpreted as something good.
If that person is known to be a
generally good person then the is what
you have to take it and interpret it as
as being something good
and it's not permissible what to cast
doubt upon him. This says the is how we
understand this idea of being. Now again
just to review the first scenario is if
we don't know if the person's good or
bad and we see him doing something that
could be interpreted in one way as being
understood as being good or interpreted
another way as being something bad then
the hak is what if we don't know who the
person's nature the hak is still we have
to interpret it to the good and if we
know in the second scenario the ram
represents the person is known to be a
great sadic and we see something like
according to our initial So knee-jerk
reaction is that it's clear that this is
something bad.
We have to take a step back. We can't
jud rush to judge them. We have to try
to see some possible way that that that
action could be interpreted as being
good because there's a person that's
known to be a great great righteous
individual. And as long as we can find
some little aspect of good, some way,
some possible avenue to interpret it as
being good, the is what we have to judge
him favorably.
And it's not permissible for us to cast
doubt upon him, to suspect him. Okay.
So,
it takes us a little bit further. Okay.
and kind of really gives us the ra gives
us twoic scenarios
is going to tell us okay but what does
that mean what is the what is the philos
philosophical underpinning that's that's
consistent in both of these they owe to
the rama look at text number three
okay this
da know with certainty anytime use the
expression da he means know with
certainty
a person needs to know that they have to
judge every individual favorably.
Even someone who's known to be what? A
complete rash.
A person has to search and look and seek
to see some little bit of good
because in that little bit of good that
we can find, he's not really a rash.
That means if there's a little bit of
good that can be found even in a person
that seemingly isn't such a good person,
then that person is really not a Russia.
If we look a high and low and we can't
see anything good, anything redeeming
about that person, then maybe you could
write them off as a Russia. But the is
first what? You need to look and you
need to try and you need to condition
yourself to see even in such a person
that seems like a Russia to see some
good.
And if you're able in doing so, taking
that step back, if you're able in such a
circumstance to find that little bit of
good
and judge them favorably,
what happens if we're able to even see
within a person that seemingly seems
very disconnected to Torah, okay? Very
disconnected to mid to appropriate
behaviors. And we're able to find some
aspect of good within him and focus on
the good and try to cultivate further
that kernel of goodness. Then what do we
have the capacity to do?
Then we have the capacity what to bring
them back and bring them closer. Now
there's a very very beautiful Torah that
I've shared over the years in in our
sharim
related to leised
leis there's a the the second child of
the the Hagada's four children is called
the rasha right so in our response to
the rasha the balaga tells us what do we
have to do we have to hav
which literally means literally
translates means knock forth Right.
Knock out his teeth. Push forth his
teeth.
Okay. The bells are
who survived the show. The bells are
says if you look at that word rash, it's
comprised of three letters. Rein.
If you pull out the shin, okay, which is
the middle middle letter of the word
rashel,
not push forth his teeth, pull pull push
forth his shin, the middle letter in his
essence, he's a shin. And we're going to
come back to what that shin is in a
moment. Leaving on the outside, the
outer letters, the word ra. Okay, the
rash is only ra on the outside, says a
bell zeri. On the inside, he's a sheen.
What's a sheen? A sheen is comprised of
three stems, says the beli,
that corresponds to Abraham, yitak, and
yakov. Hakav
push forth, find a way to remind him
that in his essence, in his essence,
he's really a sheen. He's a descendant
of the aos of Aramov.
He's only raw on the outside. And this
is the same idea that Rabbi Nakman is
communicating here. We can see someone
that from our vantage point is a Russia
gamur. Okay, we have to take a step
back, try to find one little aspect of
good within that individual that seems
at face value to be a Russia gamur. And
if we're able to do that and we can
focus on that and develop and cultivate
our relationship with that individual
based on seeing that little bit of
goodness, then we have the capacity what
to bring him to cha. Okay, we're now
going to hear from another other a
number of other masters of Jewish
thought. If you turn your page over
and develop this idea a little bit
further. We're going to start with the
slowbi the niv this where it says text
number four the simarbi
raishovski
died in the year 2000. So we talk about
modern masters. He's not he's almost a
contemporary modern master, right? He
was the rebi from the year 1981 to the
year 2000. He succeeded his
father-in-law the bas
of as the rebi before that he had been
the rashiva of the shiva shim and this
is a beautiful teaching
of the rebi specifically the parakat
during the story of the mayar what's the
story of the maya okay the waters of
what
the waters of miva when the Jewish
people are complaining they water and
what happens in the story.
Hashem tells Mosher what?
Take the take take your staff
>> and speak and speak to the rock. Not not
strike the rock with your staff. Hold on
to your staff and speak to the rock.
What ends up happening? Masheru
>> hits the rock. Okay. So now listen to
this. Listen to this. He's going to
quote a medish related to what happened
with Mosher and we know that as a result
of this story what happens Mosher was
not allowed
to enter Arit Israel as a result of this
story because Hashem because Hashem
says to Moshe he and Aaron at that
moment when they could have sanctified
God's name by bringing the water forth
from the rock by simply speaking to the
rock and instead they hit struck the
rock Hashem tells them since you failed
to sanctify my name
you will know you will not merit to
enter is so the medish on this story
that the son is going to begin with he
says he's going to quote this message
take a look
what was the fault what was the mistake
that Moshe made said
listen to me rebellious ones Mosheu says
to the Jewish people were complaining
that they want water.
He calls them rebellious.
He says this is a fundamental flaw that
he writes off the Jewish people and
calls them rebellious
and therefore he does not merit to lead
the Jewish people into Israel.
Since he no longer be believes in the
sanctity of the Jewish people, since he
writes off the Jewish people, Hashem
says, Moshe, you're no long it's no
longer appropriate for you to continue
to lead them.
He's already lost the capacity. What? To
bring them back up to where they were
before this moment and to lead them into
Israeli.
And this is the what the meaning of what
Hashem says to Moshe, since you did not
believe in me and sanctify me.
Wow. He says, "What was Mosha's flaw and
fault? That he didn't believe in the
sanctity of the Jewish people and
believe that what? That Hashem dwells
amongst them. He writes off the holiness
of the Jewish people.
As the prophet tells us for me and I
will dwell within them,
I will dwell amongst within every single
Jew. Hashem's presence is a name within
every single Jew.
That every Jew has an isma and therefore
every Jew is what a part little part of
divinity from above. innate within every
single one of us is an which means that
innate within every single one of us is
a spark of divinity a piece of so to
speak is innate within every single one
of us and therefore if we don't believe
in the sanctity of our fellow Jew and of
then what are we saying on a certain
level we don't fully believe in
and this idea
Okay, this kind this level of faith
Moshe and Aaron gave up on and they
didn't sanctify Hashem's name at that
moment and that's why why and what does
it mean that they didn't sanctify
Hashem's name because they Moshe said
because he said listen to me rebellious
ones
and therefore you could no longer leave
lead this community.
that he and already were no longer
appropriate to lead the Jewish people
and they need a new leadership that
continue to believe in the lofty nature
of every single member of Israel.
And this idea is a fundamental for every
single Jew and in all circumstances.
Then the Jew because the Yates
constantly tries to cut down the the to
to to conquer every single Jew and cut
down the spiritual wings they have to to
achieve greatness.
And that they should in what? Believe in
the great
powers that Hashem is endowed within
every single one of us. The unique
spiritual strength that exists withinate
within every single one of us
as we've learned learned in the name of
the the great Sabah the first son of may
his mer upon us.
When the comes and tries to tempt the
Jew, it's not solely what about
encouraging them to do a specific uh
misdeed,
but rather what to break his spirit
after he makes that mistake. Okay? To
give up hope after he makes a mistake. I
can't tell you how many times over my
career I've heard people say to me,
"Rabbi,
I made so many mistakes in my life, I
can't change. There's no hope for me.
It's impossible for me to do chuva. It's
impossible for me to change my
circumstances."
But this is absolute absolute heresy.
Okay. What
does the tried to accomplish? It's not
just that we should make that misdeed
and that mistake, but rather that after
making that mistake that we will fall
into despair and we will not believe
that we have the capacity to overcome
that mistake and return and chuva.
The fundamental of Jewish belief is
what? That a Jew has to believe that
indeed there Hashem dwells amongst and
within every single one of us. That
there's kadusha inherent within every
single one of us. That Hashem endows us
with incredible spiritual powers.
And therefore, even in the most
difficult of circumstances, in the
lowest circum of circumstances, in the
worst of scenarios, a Jew always has the
capacity wants
to return to the chuva, to bounce back,
[snorts] to overcome those challenges,
and to get back on the right track. And
if we don't believe in that
even for a moment that's heresy. And
since Mosha Aaron at that moment when
they could have sanctified Hashem's name
okay because Mosha Moshe loses patience
and says what
these people are rebellious okay he is
frustrated with them at that great
teachable moment. Okay. Mash loses his
patience and therefore says what? Since
you lost your faith in the Jewish
people, you're no longer going to lead
the Jewish people. It's not appropriate
for you to lead the Jewish people if you
don't believe what? In the greatness of
every single member of Claw Israel.
Okay, we're now going to move on to text
number five. We're going to learn from
the Alazar of Kajnets. The votes of
Kashnitz came in aliyah to area in the
late 1920s.
He lived here until I think he died in
in downtown Tel Aviv. Initially he's one
of the threeidic rebies that were
involved in founding aidic farming
enclave in the north of Israel near Kifa
known asim. Karassidim as a village
continues to exist today. It is not
aidic village. I don't think there are
any that live there today. Maybe maybe
there's a kabad there. But I don't think
any traditional amongst the threeid
groups that were involved in in in
founding founding that the concept was
that there were threeid rabbies that
wanted to establish a uh a a yeshu
whereas could come and be able to
fulfill all the mitzvah be able to
fulfill all the biblically mandated
agricultural mitzvos.
And unfortunately the the this this
enterprise failed miserably. First of
all they had a they had a a a a plague
of of malaria that went through the
community. And basically what ended up
happening is that they learned very
quickly that though they were
well-intentioned these bakim and and
were not meant to be farmers.
And eventually they're bailed out by by
the paliamerai
by the religious Zionist um workers and
they are able to to reestablish the
community. They kept the name of when it
still exists today. But the ends are up
moving to Tel Aviv, downtown Tel Aviv.
Um the his grandson continues to be the
rebi of Kajitz in Tel Aviv. There is a
kett in downtown Tel Aviv and the
grandson splits his time between
downtown Tel Aviv and the upper west
side of Manhattan. I guess you could
call him a cosmopolitan
and the Salazar is actually the
brother-in-law of a very illustrious
personality we've learned from many
times in this class. The pas the rebi
the rebi of the ghetto. Okay. And the is
actually those of us that have had the
opportunity and we're going to do it
again. Praise his God. Come El once
again to take a tour of Kir Sadik me and
the son Hedria cemetery which I led uh
last year at El. We're going to do it
again this year in El um because it's a
min to visit your the our ancestors
graves during before the and for many of
us if our ancestors are buried in um we
don't have the opportunity to visit our
ancestors graves. So instead we visited
sadikim before yim and one of the sadik
that we'll visit once again in the in
the sanria cemetery is the kajnit. Okay,
having said that, let's just learn this
short piece from the
with this understanding this similar
idea, okay, of seeing the good in every
single Jew comes through that comes what
the fulfillment of the mitzvah of loving
your fellow Jew.
Okay. My auleen
as we learn from my great ancestor the
cari ofen
who taught.
Wow. If you get nothing else out of
this. This is a incredible teaching from
the carina rebi. And Carlina Rebi said
what I want I ask Hashem what to allow
me to be on the madrega that I should
love every that sadikim of Israel in the
same way that what Hashem loves the
rashim of Israel and the message being
what that loves every single one of us
unconditionally. I should be za I should
be of the madrega says the carina rebi
to be able to love even the sadikim of
Israel and judge them in the same way
that hashem judges even the Russia
and therefore I'll mer truly merit to
fulfill this idea of judging everyone
favorably
judges every Jew favorably hashem has
unending love and compassion for every
single Jew so too we should stri strive
to do as well
as we learn in the gamaros
Davidi didn't dive in okay when he wrote
the in the in the psalm okay that we say
foresh he didn't dive in that what that
the sitters should disappear from the
earth but what that the sins should
disappear from the earth okay
And then we'll no longer have. If there
are no sins in the world, then what?
Then we won't have any wicked ones.
Didn't den that the sinners and the
wicked ones should be eliminated. But
what? That the sins should be
eliminated. And what do we learn from
this? In the name of the mtov.
Okay. May his mer be bestowed upon us.
Okay.
A truly righteous person who has no who
has no wickedness in him at all. Anal
truly righteous person what can't see
anything bad in another person. Okay.
A truly righteous person has the
capacity to do as Rabbi teaches us and
that is what? To seek to see only the
good. The said, "A truly righteous
person is one who can look beyond what's
in front of our own eyes and condition
ourselves to see beyond what we see
immediately with our eyes and to see
deeply spiritually to see the good and
only see the good. If we could do that
then we truly fulfill this mandate of
being down." Rabbi Barak Simon in text
number six. Rabbi Barak Simon is one of
the great young Roshi Yeshiva in Yeshiva
University today.
He's a man couple years older than me.
He's in his late 50s and Rabbarak Simon
and his beautiful Marak is going to
share with us a beautiful teaching from
the Remy of Oz. Okay. The Mosha of Ozra.
This is text six.
Okay.
The brings regarding this idea of being
the following.
He quotes the holy work from the
rebiotaenu.
In the name of his many teachers who are
the students of the bashtov may their
merits be bestowed upon us.
Who will mashiach be? What will be the
quality that will define msiahu?
The capacity to what?
To
me
on the entire world to judge the entire
world favorably. Okay. And he quotes a
word where he learns it from and he
says,
"Okay, the greater the sadic, the
greater the capacity to what? to see the
good even in the people who are in the
lowest space spiritually
and to recognize that it's Hashem's
desire to what? To judge favorably his
creations
in accordance to the words of
Hashem desires to judge us favorably.
Okay. Let's think bottom wants to be
give judge meritoriously his creations
and he doesn't desire what to cause us
to face judgment to be
you know to be
to be responsible for our
transgressions. Hashem wants to wants
seeks to see the good within every
single one of us. Okay. So I want to
bring one last Torah to bring this all
together from another very important
modern master.
Tax number seven sheets is a short
teaching from Rabbi Yusakel.
I mean Schlomel
was someone who perished in the shawah.
He had been a Rav in he had been a dion
in numerous casidic courts in including
monks and bells in Europe. He had been a
rev of of a community in what was then
Czechoslovakia.
And
for much of his for much of his rabbitic
career, here come the reigns again. For
much of his rabbitic career, he had been
a staunch anti-ionist like many of the
rabbitic leadership in Europe before the
Shabbah. And then at a certain point
when he saw the rise of Nazism, Rafel
realized that what that he and many of
his contemporaries were very wrong or
mistaken and writes a beautiful
beautiful safer called
which is about the eternal connection
between Ami is and
the mitzvah and the mandate to build up
the Yeshu and Israel and how that vision
of building up the Yeshu is indeed a
fulfillment of of a mitzvah and the
salvation in the Jewish people. So the
first two proim we'll take questions at
the end. The first two pro him of this
beautiful safe affair um are really his
apology in which he says over and over
again how wrong he was and how wrong
many of the contemporaries were in
judging and speaking speaking ill of
those the Zionists who maybe didn't look
like them but they were securing the
future of the Jewish people and in the
second introduction the second chapter
of the introduction where he where this
where he is continuously apolog
ologizing we find this beautiful
teaching the rakeel citel when he wrote
this safer he wrote this incredible
safer without access to his library okay
anything that he quotes any source that
he quotes he's quoting by by
photographic memory okay this is a safe
it's like 600 pages long which is full
of quotes from tanak from from khazal
from other other contemporary teachers
masters and everything he's quoting He's
quoting without access to his library.
As a matter of fact, we have I had the
good to meet his his great-grandson.
It's a story for another time how I met
him. Those that want to smoo after the
class, we can I can tell you the story,
but he gifted me with a little with a
with a autobiograph a biography
autobiography about Raf Tektel that was
written by this young man's grandmother,
Raf Tektel's daughter. Okay. And in this
safer we have some of the handwritten
diary quotes from Rafael himself as well
as his daughter giving us the context of
when Raf Tekktel wrote this. And one of
the diary entries is him describing how
he had to steal up the shul in his
community where he was the Rav and how
he put had to put away all his personal
sarim as well as all his personal
writings and hide them in the Genea in
the attic of the shaws. They fled the
Nazis and left the community.
And so when he writes this,
which is afterwards, after he begins to
flee, he's writing this without access
to that library that he's put away in
the Genea. Okay. So this is what says
this is what I wanted to share with you,
which is going to bring this all
together very powerfully.
And I saw in the Abushto the holy one
the rebi of Zidich
bless me
rimanovy
letter who brought in the name of his
rebi
of rimanov may his mer be beset upon us
shamar and what is it that remandela of
riman of the riman of t taught us
that even the second child in we spoke
talk about this in the beginning, right?
Who's the second child in the Hagada?
The Russia that even a second child in
the Hagada in the Hagada will have a
tikun, okay, in the gula. When Msiah
comes, even the proverbial Russia, the
second child of the Hagada will be part
of that mass chuva process and merit to
be redeemed by Mashiau.
Now listen to how
Rafel explains this beautiful teaching
from from the ramenov
the holy one that we quoted above me
out of his great lovely Israel for the
Jewish people
okay he couldn't bring himself to what
refer even to a proverbial
child. Okay. A proverbial member of the
Jewish people like the Hagada's second
child by the term Rasha. He only called
him what? The Beni, which means either
the second child or the child that's a
little different than the rest of us,
right? Shinoi also means what?
Different. So a beni can mean either the
second child or the child that's a
little different. He's not exactly like
us. He out of his great love for the
Jewish people. Okay, the Rebi of Remanov
could not even refer to the proverbial
Russia of the Hagada by the using the
word Russia. He only called them that
child. Now listen to what does this
teaching from the room
come and see
how great a person's love for his fellow
Jew has to be
okay and this was a a a practical lesson
for us.
What a mood is for us. Okay. Who often
measured and judged other people and
threw around the term Russia to describe
others who weren't exactly like us to
describe our fellow Jew who weren't
exactly like us. says
that even the proverbial complete Russia
like that proverbial second
the holy one. Okay. The Rebi of Rimmanov
could not bring himself to use that term
Russia even in a proverbial way to
describe what
potentially describe any member of Cla.
What a muscuel says Rafel. We learn from
the Rebov. What an important message we
learn from
where he is doing this in this second
introduction to this beautiful when he's
saying
how wrong I was and how wrong so many of
my colleagues were because we were quick
to judge others and throw around the
term Rasha. What do we learn from the
Rabbi of Remanov? We never write off
another Jew. We never use the term Rashe
describing another Jew. As we learned
from Rebi Nakman and from the Bel Rebi,
every single from the Rambam and from
every all the sources we learned
together this morning, every single Jew
is holy. Even those who may not yet know
it or realize it themselves as the great
Rabbar Meab always taught that even the
Jew doesn't know what it means to be a
Jew. If only every single Jew would
realize the gift it is to be a Jew, the
gift that we've been given, the divine
powers, spiritual powers that Hashem is
endowed within every single one of us
and condition ourselves to look
ourselves in the mirror and appreciate
not only who we are as an individual,
but to see and condition ourselves to
see the good in one another. My friends,
as we uh part ways for this week till
next week, this is an eternal timeless
message that comes up time and time
again in so many the
modern masses that we learn together and
uh it's something that we have to
constantly be aware of and every single
one of us work to overcome to have the
capacity to be donut. Have a great day.