Mishna Berura Daf Hashavua Siman 56 Seif 1 Avoiding Common Errors In Kaddish

okay good morning everyone we're continuing today we begin a brand new subject the subject is answering kades through the kahal the kahal answering Kadesh are you excited raise your hand if you're excited okay thank you very good um says you should be when you answeres do not interrupt between and now this is a very interesting and I wanted to I wanted make something out of it but I don't think it's correct because you see the wrote the words says three things actually each one stands independently you know the fact that theama interrupts with the ha you know gives gives us uh highlights really the first d that the M says you know had it not been for the by the way I did hear historically you know the when he wrote his commentary he didn't put his words in in the in the words of the M he wrote it on the side like the Shak and the Taz you know but but now the has Prime real estate it's like he wrote it in the words of the but the does say in the answering of Kadesh so you know the fact that there's raama here it highlights it but actually it is correct one has to have kav by Kadesh we're going to see the Mish says you know I don't know I'm not into these par sheets on the tables by daving exactly when are people when are people uh having par sheets when are they using it yeah raber supports this announcement okay I mean the only time you could do it I don't know when you get there early I mean that's what you're doing you're coming early to read you're not even allowed to think in learning during Kadesh forget about learning you're not all to think in learning during Kadesh you need to be to the Kadesh and it's not like the Y Sahara would be interested in getting you not to have kavana by Kadesh not like you know maybe you could up you could destroy all bad decrees on the Jewish people and have all your sins atoned for I mean if if uh someone was thear and they needed to interrupt something a Kadesh would be really right up there you know so person has to be on guard during Kadesh um and uh and one has to be focused on it okay so says the anyone who answers with all of his strength they rip up his bad expain what does it mean with all your strength with all your intention and with all of one's limbs say with your heart and your soul not like someone who just emits it with his lips and his heart is not with him now it's interesting because they're really two either the the more commonly understood is with all of your intention but literally means with all your strength now between me and you did you ever see a guy say I mean if you right now if you right now would say it they would have you institutionalized seriously you never saw anybody do it I mean they would carry the guy out in a straight jacket you know maybe my um there's by some the whole doing is is screaming the whole time maybe they could pull it off by any typical sh Yesa it's I don't think you'll see anyone say so in the has a unbelievable take on this you ready says should you should rev yourself up as if you're going to do it buta when it comes down to doing it you do it regular but it's not that we're it means it means also rev yourself up in other words let's say like you're a pitcher on the mound and you have to throw 100 miles an hour you got to rev up you got to like you know rev up to throw it you could throw it 30 miles an hour so the same thing withes says you rev yourself up like you're going to unleash a scream that they're going to have to institutionalize you but you don't have to actually do that cuz so you need to come home that night yeah that's that's how the says it but you should still do it you should certainly be very careful not just not just not to talk found with thousands of camels Laden with anger to pay those I don't call you it's like you lose your status of being called a Jew you could eat you could eat Herring you could eat potato Cal no you're not called a Jew if you talk by Kadesh you're not called a Jew you might be Jewish but we're not going to we're not going to give you the honor of calling that to you you could be you're called a son but you're not called a Jew the um writes so another his face was green why why is your face green I used to talk when so question why was the guy what do you mean he was a he talked by he talk by the ding the answer is he had to talk by theing he had all kinds of and they were all nonsense cuz you're all to do it no matter what okay a certain wise man appeared to his student in Dre he saw the student had a stain on his forehead the student said why do you have this St I wasn't careful not to converse when the saides if you take out a sa during kades you're aaran you're a sinner you're a sinner if you think in learning during Kadesh it's user that's not the time to learn kki I believe in balak has this piece that balak he stole his righteousness and interprets it you know there are people who learn but they don't always learn at the right time you know I'm always uh I'm always um I always have this challenge I'm invited to see him in the nine days but I know the guy learned half the during K so now not it's bad enough he's telling everyone he learned sh he didn't learn CH he did he sinned daily he sinned daily and not only that now he wants to be the of eating meat in the nine days through will see him that never happened okay what are you going to do um but I'll tell you I was uh I'll tell you I was speaking in a sh and there was um aardi man he must have been in his 70s and I was talking about how you can't bring a phone into Bak you can't have a phone in a sh you know it's like you're in you're allowing infiltration into the Fortress of the Jewish people so I got a little nervous you know maybe people are going to say you know who do you think you are what right do you have to tell us what to do so this man he's uh older than me he came over um you know what should he do he has to test his blood sugar on an app on his phone so I said okay you know if you if it's you know you could do it you could you could bring the phone in he said I don't know he says he thinks that for 45 minutes for daving you know it's not life-threatening he said you know what I'm not going to bring it in so you see unbelievable M neish he uh he's willing to so you know risk risk his uh okay the way to Sayes is so you say but in my it says a pal I think you could handle this even though it says a still I think you'll be capable of saying anyway I think this is something you could do now I do think it's because I think say but if you don't know what to do it's based on the now here it is we're in the end of days and we're getting closer to whatever exactly that is and when we say kades or when we're kades we should we should sincerely be daving that hashem's name should be made great and glorious at the time of the should be with it's HEB so it's um so again the Mish says um that one should emphasize the with two in other words it should not be it should not sound like the gimmel and the tough and the giml is with the like like don't do it that way you know not or you should emphasize gim so it should not sound you don't want it to sound like a neck don't emphasize too much the B of because it could sound like a lot of people say right not okay is very important after you say the words you should pause in the world that he created as he will now that's how you'll hear it in most places and guess what that's wrong and it's okay he might do other things in his life that are correct but Kadesh won't be one of them okay pause don't let him pick a where um where B is the end and then he throws in like a few seconds later should say it at one time because the bottom line is people are not answering until the says people are not going to say until he says if the is gurgling from he's singing a piece from uh you know yester year don't wait for him he got out the words of IM he just answer a and then let him gurgle when the responder says so that was not correct not it's not by the way before that even when you say don't say it's it's not but everybody says yeah but it's wrong anyway they didn't pause by but by the way you don't have to make both mistakes you could even even only making one of those mistakes is better than making both of them so again pause and then when you answer it's not it's not anyone who answers it's anyone who answers also it's not there's no word Raba Raba was a man in the gamar he was a very great man but it's okay um this is what um um the good Rabbi said um he sent me in an email right ran the he said it's the of the only thing is I would ask it doesn't say anywhere does it is there a there's no Y in what would the difference be if there was a not sure also not however it's better to say with no no no it's with says um he doesn't say says quietly then the kicks in with and there eight languages of Praise can I get can I get the seven heavens and the the eighth Heaven on top of the heads of the so it's Al Hal that's that's another eight okay here's another [Music] thing you want 28 words Ines another thing is it's not um it's Le it's a m okay I'll let you get that down and have a good day everyone quietly he says say quietly why is he's not being he's not being mighty like someone who who can't answer right then mhm I thought Mya someone's midle so the the old lines could them loudly so that uh so that everyone could be might mm right he also he's also losing out on the why does he lose that M as well he asking good I really always thought I always thought back I you're supposed to say out loud and that's say specifically say it quietly okay so I'm not sure I have the following either you could say is doesn't mean quietly here means he's not saying it out loud for the tior but together with theor meaning the rest of Kadesh he says for them but this he doesn't have to say for them because they're saying it so you're asking what about somebody who who uh who can't say it themselves sounds like he they could hear it from the tior or perhaps there's no real for the the to even answer it because he says he says you say amain I'm telling you what to do I'm not I'm talking to you I'm telling you to say amain on the previous on the previous piece is a separate thought it's not true that a person D has to listen have to listen there is not but who's who's theab who's somebody who's having a man to you m I hear very good question good question good question that one extra credit for the good question use it good question okay let's work on it like you just said just now is the only word in Kadesh the emphasis is beginning of the word you said yeah