Mishmar with Rabbi Yochanan Cohen of Chazon Nochum Shadik at Scheiner's Shul Parshas Vayetzei

the time. You ready? Get together to sit together to speak is a time that Eden supposed to get together to sit together. I said when the purpose of the sitting together is to be the right I was a very because of we had a baby girl that was born [snorts] but the godly called me numerous times so we try to squeeze it They say to give me the right to these par speak a lot about the and it's the part of the it's the part of the toy it's the beginning of the and the same that we make on parish and that have so many mitzvah the same we make on these par that there's no mitz in these paras And the of these pares is the it's the stepped out for us how to how did it go with our daily life and a person supposed to be in these pares to see what he could learn from him from himself. It's not just stories a nice story book that the to unfortunately we have the images since these parases are very exciting and play group and a very exciting pre-w but the images of these parases remain by us the same images that we got when we got we learned them pre-w a person has to go learn these par more in depth and connect to the par to see what he could learned in his daily life from the which is similar we see into this goes for the bunch tells him I'm going to give you and when goes traveled traveled. We don't see this G turn over that they had these big and the bunch of them has to come to them and tell them what's going on over here. Not only that, you see that he wasn't a youngster. Yakam was about 60 years old, 63 years old when he left. And his father tells them to run away from Asov and to go for Yakim. What does he do? Yeah. A lot of times tell to go for why do they sneak? They go to yeshiva hears about a now he's not ready yet. He's 60 and he's not ready yet. He has to go learn in another 14 years. [snorts] What was he doing till now? He's eating pizza and falafel. He learned till now. What's this now again that he's going to learn now 14 years in shame [snorts] and it wasn't wasn't a good yeshiva and he learned in till now what changed now the you know he has to learn but not only that he didn't stop go 14 years he didn't go to sleep he didn't go into bed tells us that only now he slept for 14 years night doesn't mean he never slept person can't exist go on without sleep he does he never went into bed. He never laid down. Says in what was the the the 14 years up is different than all the years that he learned till now. Till now was sitting alone. He was like a like a guy totally disconnected from this world from the metalistic world. He was sitting learning in his tent. He had no suddenly has to go now to B. He has to enter so to speak the business world. He has to go out to the world. Yakavinu never learned how to be in the materialistic world, how to face struggles, how to face, how to face being in a how to face was sitting and learning in his that's it. He was sitting in his and that he was swimming the but now came suddenly that he has to be sent away from his father's house. He has to go to the biggest moham to be against the biggest cheater that existed and the biggest is not ready for that says I learned now till now but now this is a new that I'm going to be serving the now which I don't have any experience to so now has to go to and he has to get injected with ammunition and energy to be able to be in base And that's why he like the says now he has to learn how to till now learn how to be a ye between Eden now has to learn how to be aided among and he went to why then the time of then and let look the remain they were able to teach how to be a ye among and That's why he had to go to before he goes to Shane. And not only that, you see clearly that it says so what's that everything he learned by he gave over to you ever saw a father that has a few children and all his children are capable of learning and says you know what I'll give over only to one child everything I learned. What happens to everything he learned? He gave over only to was the only one that had the same experience of that he has to go now to be in just like was in had to step out the way. How old was Ysef when he went down to Mim? He was 17 years old. At what age did you start learning to with your child? Three. So when he was 3 years old he started how many years did Jac 14. So when the 14 years finished was 17 years that's when he went was ready to go down to he was 17 years old when he went down to and that's why everything that that's when he gave over is on the he left he goes out from the he's leaving the and he's going to it's a he's going to a very hard place a job a place of full of so comes and reveals to him that's the whole point of this tells them and tells them I'm going to watch And the tell them was telling him said it's going to go along for you. Wherever you're going to go, you'll be you'll be able to make the place when you are. A person makes the place, not the place makes the person. And even though you see from that he used to learn and used to learn at night and say knew was able to make in to make it into that's what the new feas I'll take the and that's what the was telling now it's very nice and what do we take from this and how do we connect it to a hashem for us but the em is we have the same concept every single week every single week goes into the week and the week is a mo of goes world. You know that tells us of every ye has every single day 10 times a day. And we have to have the the injection that the is injected in the DNA of every single to overcome the and every single is shabas. Shabas is the entire of the whole week comes from Shabas. Shabas is the fountain of the of the whole week and every goes out and he goes into the metallistic world of six days and we know is shabas is called the bunching of the endless unlimited and that's the of is unlimited shabas is No matter where is this and no matter is the same and no matter where is going to be he has to keep shabas and shabas is unlimited it's not it's not dependent and in boundary and that's connect so every goes into goes out of so what's the so The is the from say we'll see soon that is that is of and said about Mala he said it's Maka it's mutz It's on the floor. It's nobody People are stepping people. People think it's what's not a big deal. It's also says she said this. Whoever has eyes in his head that is a very big thing that comes from reaches to the highest places. It's people but I always say the things that you see people are not so people everyone you know that's where it's hidden because if it wouldn't be so big why would bother you not to be what is it sit down what's the it's so hard because this is where the secret is hidden everything the things It's like says that there was a that he he was an he that is a in the back and whoever's in the back of so means people is on things that on this world is in the back people are not so inim it's up front and and and the things that and the things that people over here think are so and so great it's so people have to know that and he says so he says down we say every Friday night we say and we say who we saying to and who was saying who you sending away we're saying to the of that come down and we say to the from the during the week that we're here during the week We say go back up. That's why he says when it comes to Friday the will come down Friday again through this ladder that you built by so I need to understand very nice you found a nice what does have to do with Very nice. Not only that say that also that is good for also for and not only that said call me I'm reading I always say when sadikim said something it wasn't a nice a nice philosophic vote if they said something That means they saw that this is the eyes. They saw everything. They what they said is something that means it was a that this is the way it is. said which was a song from and he said you have a check a bank check a bank check which he says that whoever is going to be going to keep he's guaranteed that it'll happen said, "If you're going to eat my Yeshua, what will be? What will be the issue that you'll always have and also in the says he says and all the needs that of the world the world needs. And he says is he brings that amus of Shabas Friday night Shabas morning Shabas day because it's late morning also. But anyways, he says that. So anyways, we ask what's have to do with the Indian from so says what's the tak of eating milk and we seek brings down that Every shabas used to the caligl a calf every single shabas and >> and he only ate from it a little bone he ate from it the kitten >> he made the cow or he had a cow >> no they shabas they k so the ones so they they said you know why need to We eat we shed anyways for shabas to eat leftovers came a wolf and ate up the the calf. So he says what's supposed to make something new supposed to make something new. Why? Why you have to make something new? Why can't I eat leftovers from Shabas? I'm sorry. The entire comes on Shabas. Shabas like we say by Shabas. Shabas is what does mean? So I gave on example. You sometimes go to a pizza shop, you go to a barber shop, they have this little to what time I have to finish. >> Go on. Go on. Go on. >> Half an hour. >> So it says it says >> an hour. >> It says you sometimes go to pizza shop. They have these little boxes that you they're filled up with gum or with some toy and you put in a quarter and you get a turn it comes out gum machine whatever it is. They said this box when they get filled up this minute. No. Right. It depends how busy the pizza shop is and how how the parents are the kids dance on the parents head and and then it depends how much they have to how how much it gets emptied out. But it didn't get filled out this minute. Right. I said every person, every single Shabas, there's a box in Shamayim that gets filled up for the sheer for that week. You come Sunday, you put on talis and film. That's the quarter for the machine. Oh, I get the shea for Sunday. Comes Monday, I put on but that box got filled up Shabas. Shabas is the source name is every person gets filled up a box with of Shabas and it comes Sunday, Monday night. That's the that's the quarter. That's not now it's a fact. >> You just have to put on your towel. You have to >> Yeah. We have to do whatever you have to do. Everyone after his mitzvah and through that he'll get the but it's all ready for him. Just like you have this all these toys in these box. If you don't put in the quarter and even put in the quarter if you don't twist it's not going to come out. So person that's not he says When is the final shabas? Shabas finishes once a person kept the whole Shabas. He's about to leave from Shabas. He kept all Shabas. Now you can say a new week is coming. is a new week is coming. I'm going out of Shabas can't be when a person on an empty place. You always have to ask. You see Alicia wanted over there to be for the lady over there. He has do you have something? She had a little bit of oil. Oh, why do you have to have a little bit of oil? You have to to be on something. If you if you don't have anything so since now a person's leaving Shabas Shabas is a full source of so much but you have to make a vessel for that we should have that's how you connect how do I connect the week by that's how I got on why why is it nice nice idea no the only way how a person could connect the which is week how could a person could tie it to the whole week through he says why is it of connecting like it says why name can now be connected why is it called that's how you connect the entire week that's why it's not Right from last week because from last week's jab leftovers is from the from last week. The whole is I should have with the new with the new [snorts] from the next week since I want to connect the from the coming week. So I have to prepare something new. The every single week has its own from this. The only way how a person could transfer the of Shabas to the whole week is through and even more than that Shabas is [snorts] weekday. You always also explain always when it comes to you have to have something in the middle. Let's say is in between it's but it's so it's between that's the middle but the other hand will make us so it's in it's it's the in between and during the week you can't go straight from Shabas during the week you need something between sadikim said What I say make you into week but I like I make if you're going to make your weekday time into you make my you won't have to come on to others. Soto is the bridge that transfers over the from Shabas during the week was growing now into like we said he never was involved in materic he never the entire materalistic world is aulum a person supposed to take the materalistic world and elevate it and make it into spirituality. That's why we are here on this world. And that's why we are greater than we could take and make it into. We could take a mat. You could take a cup of water and you make a chocolate turn into you could take Shabas. The whole point of Shabas is the whole is whatever a person does on Shabas ever eats in Shabas couldes. The telling him you afraid of going into the materialistic world. The whole purpose of the it's down here but the whole point of the metalistic war is to take in to elevated and bring that's what is first time in 14 years that he slept he said I didn't realize what there is in the middleistic gold sadikim said he didn't realize what is in sleeping that even in sleeping you could be but I'm showing it to this that in the that's the whole point where was it in the BG what's the B mikdash the B mikdash is called the the neck what's the neck the neck is the bridge to connect the the head and the heart to take the to take the the things that the heart desires and bring it is the it's the bridge between this world and to take everything that we have in this world and make it And that was the message that the was giving and we see we're holding now. You see that we said that was the message that gave toad. What does it say by when he had in the sign of tell us he saw his father image right? What was his father image? Remember I taught you that you have to learn how to be aided between his father came to what's different than every is it's on the left side it's it's represents all the opposite of because is the y that teaches us the light amongst go how to be a ye amongst The people always say the light at the end of the tunnel. Khan teaches us the light in the tunnel. [laughter] teaches us delight in the Kaneka teaches us how to be among that's his father came to him in that's why is the last before we went to the gus because gives us the energy to exist and how to be a ye in the gus in this of he says beautiful what's the we That very good because the mala is the mal is the bridge. How to transfer over the of which is how to bring it into the to bring into the six day weeks. How to be how to inject into a person how a person could transfer the from during the week. And therefore it says says till when are you going to be jumping either you're going to be on the bow or you be with there's two that have its own sim it's one but it's a whole sim and they both have its own own simmons. The whole sim is one. So he said when are you going to be jumping over these two and the connection with me with this is that the beginning of everything has the power of everything or the potential of everything that's going to come out of this time. Just like when a child which gets born at that moment it says in that a person has five And a person has to wet himself to get those but it says in the of a child he has all the and then they disappear and a person has to win the hasn't at the power the head of the month hasn't it all the of the whole year the beginning of the week when is the beginning of the week shabas it has in it all the power of the whole week the way how a person's madesh the M Shabas the way how a person elevates the Shabas that's going to have our the entire week and especially now in the winter you have such a long m Shabas that there's so much you don't have to work there's a being a in the house also but a person has to know how to balance and to be able to take this man of mas and elevated s to learn like we said to be that is the that the whole power of the weak is in the shas and the way the person said right is not the man you have to say a story have to say a story so I'll tell you a story about to see the when a person upon himself something and the person has to know that like the mission says oh come H my mala there's so many mitzvah on the list that I have to do. I want to see what when they're gonna hit me for not eating my m I know I'm in good shape [laughter] but a person has to know that's not an excuse like I said before you could you know there was once soon it's going to be n there was once a was learning this week was the yard of the masho mash wasn't learning n so mash they went and told the the the the told the the the what's it called the church of the the Christians the priest that the mash is not learning tonight because it's so they send police to see tak mash is not learning. They came to the mash's house they saw the mash standing by his room with a safer. So they right away afterwards apolog that that he's not learning. So afterwards the mash mash said I walked into my room and a safer fell to the floor [laughter] and I picked it up and I put it back and it fell again three times. I put it back. I I I realized something is happening. So I opened it up to look what's inside. In that moment they walked in. says once a that was learning in mism was learning mism. So the reb comes and he says what's what's this you're learning? So he told the reb I want to see walk ahead you get for learning on [laughter] so the reb the rebb looked at him [laughter] the rebb looked at him the rebba said like this the rebb said for learning n you don't get kim for being mal you get >> for being like >> he said he said he said that said how could the world have existence if you don't learn little the toy stands so says tell you and I always say about people don't you know people make fun you don't learn I says you think that the people that didn't learn on they ate pizza and falafel the whole day they played sports the whole day you're talking about people that were that every second was and everything they did was people that were 247 so it shouldn't be you'll see always those who never learn they become that's it's like [laughter] you know that's if you If you have to learn, you're not supposed to be learning. I never have to learn. Yeah. So anyway, so what's the big deal? It's the last thing on my list. No, that's a that I want to say my father's father. Not so not talking about so long ago. My father's father, he was he lived in the old city in in the old in next to the he was 16 years old. He was a B 16 years old and Araboy attacked my my grandfather with a sword and he wanted to kill him and my grandfather begged him let me d give him two minutes to D told two minutes what can you say in two minutes so he said if you save me I'm now that every I'm going to make what do you think happened the second he finished saying that suddenly the Arab for his life >> your father's father >> father's father and that's how he was saved and he was mocked with gun life and that's why I'm here today >> with a minion >> with a minion it says why with a minion because just like he's supposed to have a minion leaves someone that eats weakness leaves a minion to have a minion because like this they don't have on the from Shabas and it says and it says and it says and it says from that if someone you know that we know that Shabas all go out of Shabas they go back right it says someone that every week Mala he gets extension he doesn't go back till after Mal again don't go back till after Shabas whoever was Mal and >> [laughter] >> said that someone that's every single week that's what said when someone's every single week comes to greet was nifty he went into the hospital shabas morning he told my uncle to call all my uncle all the kids all came to the hospital. He benched every single one. >> He said, they said, he closed his eyes and was and I knew a yeet that lived in I lived in Flapbush. He that lived in his name was um his name was Pillar. He was a Kadomsky and he was a Holocaust survivor. And he told me he was in a hospital for he was very sick. He was in a hospital in by the by Shasta Holocaust. He said nobody survived. He was the only survivor from that hospital and he said when they gave out food every single day he put away a little bit from and he told me that he held in that he was the only survivor from that hospital this is with this that brings down there's two one and one Yeah, I believe. So he said that he said there's three different that a person could one of those was he says why? So he says a mush that a king came to visit a town and they celebrated and made a big parade and a big s it was yumpt of the whole week y he says before the king was about to leave. So the few the head of the town came to the king and said the whole week you were here we didn't want to disturb the celebration but now you're about to leave we want to tell you the problems that we have over here and what we need from you. He says come Shabas a person not ask any disturb the celebration of Shabas you're not disturb a person should know only the person supposed to so comes Shabas comes Shabas where the path the path from Shabas now we tell the needs the whole Shabas we held in we couldn't ask about now comes is the most any that can be and will be isn't so that from this it should become it shouldn't be like the being down sometimes when you'll be by the everything will fly away a person should take from it from to And that will bring us the show to take along the and to know that a person has to know you go the whole week you're busy. You should know that the there's no place where a person can be in a hiding from the is with you can be love and it can be the biggest in the biggest low place. I'll bring you back Shabas even after the whole week of Shabas. If you want I'll tell you one more that came to my mind now because I have a cl that when something comes to my mind when I speak to people it must be the bunch who wants you to hear it otherwise it wouldn't come to my mind. So I'll be with this says that someone that sleeps for seven days and it doesn't mean seven days straight, right? He doesn't have a dream is it's called bad. What's so bad that you know you everyone dreams at night. I mean everyone remembers the dream. People dream by day I may while they're up awake but so so he didn't sleep he didn't have a dream I guarantee you that if I wouldn't see this vault inside the vag safe in co you would tell me that it's not the [laughter] I remember once hearing hearing about and saying over this and he said over from one of the it sounded from him very clear that he meant from the so I I went over and I said it says in the villag you couldn't believe me what the vaginian says a person is dreaming he's sleeping he has a dream say mish thinks people get afraid of dream people talk him of the dream people start screaming if they think mom is a dream of the dream they say what happens if you're dreaming that a lion is about to swallow you see your dream a lion's about to swallow you what are you supposed to do he's so afraid he's supposed to do one thing just wake up so the villain A whole week a person is running trying to make some money and trying to catch this person that person and this is and that and if a person had a successful week he made a good deals a person thinks it's all him doing I did and I I could have and I should have and and if I wouldn't have said this and if I wouldn't have met this and I wouldn't gone this and everything everything a person lives in his that he's running the show it comes Shabas everything stops Shabas is a time that a person comes into a person has to wake up and realize that the whole week was a dream. A person comes into what's the everything is that's the the projective when a person come to Shabas that's supposed to be the focus of Shabas. The person supposed to inject to realize but someone that sleeps throughout Shabas he doesn't see that the whole week was a dream he's shabas is a time that a person wants to wake up in his dream and realize that that's the what they always injected to realize and a person always regrets I could have and I should have in a vocabulary is no could have and no should have because if it could have and should have a would have so no should have when a person acknowledges that he could come to shas and tell I have a a question for you. What's the deal with the number 14? >> So that's an is for itself. I was waiting for somebody to ask that. >> Informed that one is connected the seven meters. So one is one was connected for us to break the in the seven years was that in the seven I was thinking of something and I realized something the seven days of the week they have seven days and night. Right. Right. So, I was thinking of something and you said that when Yakinu said at the end of 14 years ready to go out and use his hands in the in the uh two hands. >> Exactly. So 14 is Yad. So both hands is seven and seven is 14. And if you notice that uh when the was fighting on Malik >> Mosha both hands 14 is 28 and is 28 which is it's also eight words which is so when you go out from Shabas remember you're about to go out remember where you're >> very good >> prosperous comes from >> what is item 28 28 >> it's also connected to 28 comes out it says in the 14 years of of Jacob and the 14 years of Y is 28 >> 28 just to piggy back on learning about a friend of mine told me one which one which one >> someone came over and told you at the end that you >> what's the first thing you do I don't have he's like I would learn during pres >> you know they said how do you Know how long someone's about? If he talks to Darling, you know how long. [laughter]