No Talking During Kaddish

I have something easy/h hard, doable, but very meaningful. Let's not talk during kadesh this year. But it's embarrassing in the beginning. Your friend's talking to you, you got to answer it. Your father says something to you, it's your father, you're not going to answer him. So what if it's kadesh? You get used to saying to a person that's embarrassing. You got to get used to it. Onash we say that our our body should be the carbon. What's we see from this gimar over here, the gimar calls is considered kabala. So in our days when we have and accept upon yourself something that's you see is the same thing when you yourself if giving praise to Hashem and you're talking during that praise that's like sticking it like telling Hashem I don't care about you I don't want to praise you somebody talks during kadesh then when his kids say kadesh for him it doesn't work it's a useless kadesh you have to be m you have to be mak in your lifetime during kadesh but if you're not mak during your lifetime so that when your kids say kadish for you garnish